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Huh. Well, whatever to them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:00 PM
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Are you sure the women who have been declined aren’t high maintenance or something? I’ve declined ones who I could tell are going to be trouble. I’ve seen women decline players because they spotted their game. Players don’t belong to one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:56 PM
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I think this is an overly complicated explanation of baby rabies. One of the problems with RP explanations is that it focuses on a particular kind of bratty, attractive, entitled, high maintenance woman. Not all women are like that for various reasons or are even capable of attracting the best(pertaining to hotness)guys for various reasons. But a lot of women in their late twenties and early thirties get baby rabies. I don’t think it’s conscious. Maybe it’s more hormonal. Oftentimes they’ll want…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:02 PM
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Well then you’re a player!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:51 PM
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I think a lot of it if we’re talking about women with cluster b disorders is that they are exploitive and manipulative. They’ll use whatever tools they have to get what they want and a very effective tool for exploiting men is sex. I think they go out of their way to get good at it because it’s so useful for them. Pretty soon you’ll be paying their light bill. It’s really best to stay away from these crazy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:43 PM
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He could be in some cases, but I know that some just aren’t very good. Just like men. Some people aren’t going to be good no matter how hard they try. It’s just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:38 PM
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I think they are aware at their peak hotness. A lot of times in their forties and not keeping in shape they are unaware that they aren’t what they were. They never say to themselves, “Geez it was great to be young and hot and have great sex with hot guys and have them laying gifts at me feet, but now I’ll have to live like a normal person.”. The entitlement is for life. It’s really quite sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:02 PM
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Wow. This is good info. Doesn’t look like ONS is worth it for women to me. I think they’re pretty overrated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:31 PM
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No one can be completely sure, in fact I’ve faked it before. I’ve not really done one night hookups where a person could fake it and you never see them again. I don’t know. Spraying? Legs quivering? Saying that I made them cum? I’m a filthy, filthy man and go to great lengths to make sure it’s a good experience. But, seriously, can most dudes not make a woman cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:28 PM
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I’ve been there. It’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:56 PM
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Uh. No. There are definitely starfish sex ass dead lays that will leave you convinced that your efforts would have been better spent having fun by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:53 PM
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It seems true to me from experience. I know a guy who claims to have a talent for knowing which women perform the best. I don’t see why that would be hard. Just look up the major traits of cluster b personality disorders and find someone who has a bunch of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:48 PM
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Is that true? I’ve only had difficulty with one and made it happen anyway. She claims it had been 15 years since mission accomplished from a partner. I’m thinking it doesn’t help that she blows herself up with a massager on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:42 PM
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CMV. Not going to to try. It seems like there are a fair share of sexless young women as well as men. I’m not really sure why. It’s not a big concern to me because it has little to do with my life. Just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:08 AM
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The prospects of a fat menopausal woman are very poor no matter how well she sings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:04 PM
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CMV? Even RP content acknowledges what this post says. On the flip side, when a woman has been attracted often time she puts no effort into the relationship. The counter of a man who does nothing and can’t attract a woman is a woman who does nothing for and can’t keep a man. They are both failures because of laziness and end up unfulfilled and eventually alone. I wonder if it’s worse to have never been considered or to have many who have given a chance but found nothing worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:14 PM
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Personality is surface representation of a person. Character and values are deeper inside. You can’t figure out a persons character without going through personality. Personality is absolutely shallow with shallow and deceptive people. Not so much with genuine people but you have to observe for some time to be sure. The mask always falls off eventually if they’re wearing a mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:25 PM
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I don’t have a great response for that however my response is that it seems like women gossip about it which is group shaming. It’s relational aggression towards the men and women who have a relationship with the woman being much younger. Damaging someone’s reputation is fairly affective. That doesn’t really happen with men shaming the younger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:10 AM
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I don’t think there’s a difference in caring. I think it’s more that there isn’t really a way to convey to them that they going to have a bad time. There’s a guy at my work who was seduced by a married (at the time to another guy who works at the company) woman who is a coworker. He’s a very nice young man. She is not a very nice person at all and not just by the opinion of the men who work here, by the women too. Now she’s pregnant. I’d be very surprised if she doesn’t ruin his life, but how wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:51 PM
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How about a reciprocal relationship? There is no royalty in America. Just good people, bad people and everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:17 AM
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I think you really need to look at the various content creators to see what they think. Some of them promote how to deal with the hottest women in night clubs and give advice accordingly. Others focus on how to not be a door mat and having a good relationship. Pretty much all of them are against simping which seems like a good idea to me. If you’re looking at the pickup artist type stuff you’re going to find a lot of dark stuff. If you’re doing the night club thing you’re going to find women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:08 AM
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People may not like to hear it, but erring on the side of pushiness will get you farther. You can always deflect and accuse them of not having a sense of humor or enjoying your banter. You might lose sometimes, but inaction will lose every time. This is why we all see jerks winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:51 PM
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The guy who you’re talking about needs translation. First, of course the number is way less unless he sells drugs. Next, figure out who if possible. Ask if you can see pictures. After that, threesome is unlikely, but if true you don’t even want to see the pictures. If this type of guys number is the truth there’s likely some form of coercion involved and they are definitely grabbing the least desirable and possibly willing to cross lines like dating mentally handicapped women which could cause l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:40 PM
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Men can go through andropause. It’s not very common, but it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:04 PM
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Sure. In very particular circumstances. There are huge extremes that move statistics around to where they don’t represent what people are typically dealing with. I’ve listened to tons of RP content and I find a lot of truth to it. However, if it all applied the way that it’s presented I’d personally have no chance to even see a butt crack. I do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:58 AM
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I think that’s only if they benefit a lot in a tangible way. In other words, gold diggers. There aren’t a lot of women that are really that hip on sharing. I think hook up culture can throw poll numbers way off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:21 AM
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No. It doesn’t add up. If you think a busy, successful, good looking guy could have five or six women that they’re stringing along you should try having one or two. The tendency for hot women (not an absolute) is to be fairly high maintenance. Try having two girlfriends and tell me how that goes. Hiding in the shitter with your phone and making excuses why you’re not available and not answering. You can’t keep it up and it won’t take long before you don’t even feel like it. The gist of the theor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:57 AM
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Yeah. I think a lot of things are different reactions to problems and not necessarily a lack of problems. Men and women are different no matter how you feel about it. What’s funny is that there’s something that can help a lot of lonely people, definitely would help incels specially as men get older. I’m not a believer, but, go to church. Maybe you can just enjoy the music and the social aspects and not talk to deeply about the faith. There are far more women in church than men. If you have a bun…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:17 PM
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I think it depends what point of life a woman’s at. Young and dating. Maybe no. Getting around thirty and it’s family and settle down time. Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:32 AM
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Men lie. It’s bad. Women lie. It’s bad. Both get each other in terrible situations by being deceptive. It’s not a one way street. I think the only thing that can be done it vett people that you date and learn to spot liars. Obviously things like stealthing and lying about having stds should be illegal. What about lying about being on birth control and paternity fraud? Inseminating yourself with the contents of a discarded rubber? It’s a really hard question where to draw the line. I think a bunc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:00 AM
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What a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:38 PM
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How about, “I’m on birth control.”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:06 PM
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Hmm. “I don’t have a boyfriend.”. Then you get your ass kicked. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:06 PM
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Sometimes a guy is trying to get to know gal and within two or three dates they figure out that she’s not marriage or ltr material. Then she cries boo boo hookup bad man guy. The truth is there aren’t very many women that bring anything to a relationship except chaos and a vagina. So sometimes a guy will take the better of those two and then dip out. Why would he stay? To enjoy the borderline personality disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:17 AM
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I support you feeling any way you want about age gaps and maybe being snubbed by an older man dating a woman who might be too young for them. But at 18 they are no longer children. Some of them have children. They can go to college. They can go into the military. They can vote. If they’re manipulative enough they can take advantage of a 30 yr old. Most of them probably aren’t as pure and innocent as they’d like you to think. If they make a bad choice with an older man who is also making a bad ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:35 AM
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I personally don’t date young women. But, people can date whoever they want and it’s stupid to act like you own an age group because you’re young or you own an age group because you’re older. Just date who you want. Another thing, when I was fresh out of high school I was busting my balls working and had a house by 22 which none of my friends had accomplished. Infantilizing women who are 18 to 21 is bs. They are grown up unless you believe that women are inherently stupid and need more time to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:01 AM
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Yup. Was just on a thread with people asking questions about why something won’t work. Go to a club and try it a hundred times. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:20 AM
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Uhm. Actually you have to be doing pretty ok in some way, shape or form at 30 to date 18 and twenty year olds. These young guys are just shedding sappy crappy woah is me tears. Stop being jealous and find some other chic. As if there’s only one. Get out there, captain big dick. If you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:45 PM
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Older men being shamed by older women for dating younger women. Normal Young men turning into old women. Not so normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:48 PM
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That depends on the lies. I can think of a lot of lies that would work. I’m not interested is a total challenge to anyone with a hint of game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:47 AM
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Spend a few years working at a night club and watch people. Some fight or flight I fail to see arguments don’t mean anything there. Anyone with game would see I’m not interested as a challenge. As if a woman’s mind can’t be changed. There are things that escalate and de escalate. Spend some time pushing buttons and see what works for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:45 AM
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I don’t agree. If you have to lie or whatever it’s fine. Saying that you’re not interested can be taken as a challenge by a more pushy guy. Putting it to bed in a non confrontational way would be safer often times. We can all argue about feelings, but it’s always best to do what is physically safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:25 AM
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Funny. I have a lot of the same questions from having relationships with childish women. If you’re so happy alone don’t get married. If you’re not willing to offer anything don’t drag anyone into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:41 AM
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I want to look at these apps. I’d like to get a survey for myself. We do live in a day and age where people can post pretty much whatever they want until they get sued if it’s something that you can sue for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:09 AM
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Wow. Well, I’m not at all a feminist (disclaimer). This seems like generally a good idea. I can’t help but to see the possibilities for guys to be unfairly smeared. I hope people who use these apps/sites do so with integrity because defending from a dangerous man or a serial player is definitely a good thing. Not that it matters, but, it’s a thumbs up from me. No one should be unsafe or taken advantage of. Men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:51 PM
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Tell me about these groups. Do they show pictures and have stories that warn people to avoid certain dudes? I’ve never heard of this. Would women likely use them preemptively or after they have suspicions?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:14 PM
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From personal observation it seems like yes, but mostly within five years. I’ve seen very good relationships with the man being ten or fifteen years older but it doesn’t seem like the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:54 PM
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I agree with this….if you date controlling emotionally volatile women. I have had to do this before. If either party needs to make threats whether verbal or implied to get a partner to behave your not in a healthy situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:36 AM
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I think you are wrong about not being able to fake enthusiasm. People can fake it. What’s hard about faking enthusiasm is keeping it up long term. Some people can even do that if the benefit is very high, but it’s work and if they’re faking and not getting what they think they deserve they’ll get angry and disdainful very quickly. It’s like a job and not getting a paycheck at the end of the week. They get pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:18 PM
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Yeah. Because they have a sweet tooth for crazy women. There are no victims. Only volunteers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:21 PM
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I want to meet these average woman so I don’t have to do all the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:49 PM
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I’ve heard second hand stories of this, but I don’t think it’s very common. I’ve been on decent one time only dates, got some nice sushi, enjoyed some company and didn’t have anything come of it. I felt fine about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:29 AM
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Only if she starts saying things about it. She can go back if she likes that dude so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:25 AM
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Actually, I’ve learned a lot about the games that are played and how to deal with them. There are a lot of games. It really isn’t just scapegoating. Bad behavior is bad and making excuses because vagina is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:18 AM
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Definitely can. Sometimes the mouse thinks it’s the cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:35 PM
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Ugh, no. You’re shifting it in an absolutely stupid direction. It’s just something that happens. There isn’t really a cure. Maybe awareness that some people are predatory. Like you’re attempting to be, but you suck at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:23 PM
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That’s a hard question. It’s easier if people are young but same age or older people can be manipulated as well. I think more people know what they’re doing than don’t. Numbers would be hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:11 AM
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Lots of them don’t. There isn’t university to learn this. If people have inept parents and no mentors how do they learn? This is a crap comment from a narrow minded peanut head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:07 AM
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Go ahead. I’m not buying it, but go right tf ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:13 AM
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There are experienced women who plow horse and take advantage of naive young men too. There’s a lot of ways things can go. I’m not so sure societies influence is useful. It sucks when young people get taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:58 AM
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If someone want to be the heel, be my guest. They’d be better off by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:58 AM
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Nope. Not anymore unless it’s his job. Any decent person should call a police officer, but putting oneself in harms way is not owed to random women. Women don’t need men in personal life because of either good incomes or good government programs. Women need men in society for the blue collar rigorous jobs while having no gratitude for the food that they don’t farm, the fuel from oil fields where they don’t work, their condo in a high rise in which the iron they would not erect and eating the Ala…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:26 PM
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The stats are always skewed in one direction. Women hit men all the time. It’s just that men’s on average quadruple upper body strength does massive damage. Aggression has been studied in children. It’s found that about 15% of boys engage in physical aggression and about the same percent (a little higher) of girls engage in relational aggression. Girls are just as aggressive. They just act on it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:56 PM
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Ah. Yes. The Optimum Man theory. The combination of all of her exes best traits amalgamated into Optimum Man. I’m not sure how sound this theory is. I’ve been compared to past boyfriends when a girl has wanted something, like, “Fart Face used to pay for everything “ or “Penis Head would fix my car for me”. I tell her to get him back. Is the Optimum Man idea a thing? I’d like to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:39 PM
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Not really. There are women who are beautiful but have no personality or are just not fun to be around that repel most guys. They’ll always have some glutton for punishment chasing them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:11 PM
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I hope you enjoyed it.😀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:32 AM
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A lot of times it’s the smooth sailing that does it. Kids are grown up. Women get bored. Man doesn’t dance and grind that organ like an organ grinding monkey. She grabs the golden parachute and jumps. I can hear the excuses now. I’m just not feeling it anymore and we should both be free to find the love of our lives…..at 45 years old! In the mean time this guy’s been working at a factory for the last 20 years, put a 60 lb part on the press, press it, flip it over, press it again, put it back on …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:29 AM
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I think red pill and red politics ignore lower paid workers of both genders other than repeating the idea that a man doesn’t care about your career, which is true but in a limited way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:01 PM
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Ok. You may not understand what’s going on while it’s going on. That’s ok. Unless it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:29 PM
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Not really. Then later it graduates to competency tests. They can get mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:38 AM
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Yeah. Not really. I’ll tell you what. Being too nice sure won’t get you anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:17 AM
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Yup. Part of flirting is usually trading subtle digs. Teasing hopefully without crossing lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:34 AM
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Yup. You gotta be mean to keep ‘em keen. Sadly, there’s truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:28 AM
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Being fat is unattractive. And it is your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:20 AM
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Why would I want to change your view? So many modern women offer everything to their careers, friend groups, other causes and pursuits which is admirable, but offer very little to their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:17 AM
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And then there’s guys like Pierce Brosnan who could easily replace his wife with a hot twenty something, but stays loyal. Everyone know Connor Mcgregor is a dick. He’s never been anything but. Sometimes the character of a partner is important. You know? Character? Integrity? I never here integrity on women’s checklists of wants. Huh. Ain’t that somethin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:55 AM
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Cool. One for each. Men, women won’t are more in love with the lifestyle that you can provide than you. I’m talking about in ltr’s. If you breakdown, they will leave. Women, less of the pump and dump situations are because guys just want you for sex than you think. Some of them are actually high quality guys that figured out early that you’re not good enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:08 AM
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When you get older and there’s a ton of DGs so that can be reality. Btw, everyone is different, but by middle age, everyone is damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:12 PM
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I’m with you, but my life isn’t a science experiment. I don’t need to do or research anything. I don’t owe that. I’ll leave it for the next guy to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:26 AM
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Could be. I’d personally be more concerned about the kind of relationships as opposed to shear numbers. For example sleeping with twenty guys in a two year period, just hookups in college, not great, but not so bad. But, half a dozen one or two year relationships with thugs and whatever other tough guys where she’s been psychologically and physically abused shows me a pattern of poor decision making. I’d have no interest in being the next guy with that. A past isn’t always just a hot girls summe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:00 AM
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Typically biology kicks in at a certain point and someone starts seeking it. You may have some social tools which were taught, otherwise likely trial and error and stick with what works. I had 100 percent no sex when I was a child and also none before I was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:31 AM
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I guess agree. It’s super easy for women to get and not terribly hard for even average guys if they have a little know how. But, without some connection high numbers are valueless. It’s sort of like glorified masturbation. If you don’t believe me, rack up some numbers with people you don’t care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:12 AM
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I’m not answering “what is a bad relationship”. If you don’t know you lack the life experience and the worthiness to discuss relationship history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:02 AM
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Ok. I’m glad you think that. I don’t agree. I’ve dated women with….histories. I don’t care about what happened back then. But to exist in the now with them, your kung fu must be strong. I assure you of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:42 PM
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Most men who are raised by women are prone to issues like incarceration, homelessness, domestic abuse, etc etc etc. Women raise shitty men. And btw, those guys aren’t me and I’m not accepting the backlash of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:19 PM
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Thanks for the support, bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:16 PM
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What is a bad relationship? That’s your argument? If you can’t figure that out maybe you should wear a bib so your feet stay dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:15 PM
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This can be valid. But, look at the title of the post. Most men who are so worried about their girlfriends past partners are projecting. Some may fall into what your saying, but I think that more want to know if she’s a hot mess from the people she’s dated. And number is a factor. Sorry, not sorry. It’s more for protecting yourself from a bad situation than, oh, god, I heard Miron has a big one or, der, Travis played the guitar. I don’t know how to play the guitar. Making straw man arguments abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:10 PM
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Threats? You’re wanging off somewhere weird there. Dating history. Emotional damage which is sustained. They carry damage from every bad relationship they’ve had. It might be great if they’ve never had a bad relationship but that’s not reality. The more messed up relationships they’ve had the harder they are to deal with. Do you date women or do you only meet the representative part of their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:00 PM
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Sure. And emotional damage is irrelevant as well. I’ve been around long enough to see the end results.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:40 PM
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A cow is corn fed to fatten it for slaughter. It’s a term that is used to refer to fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:37 PM
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Wrong. Past behavior is a predictor of future behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:02 PM
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Totally! And if women supported the WNBA the same way they support complaining corn feeders it would be RAINING money on those WNBA players who actually do something to deserve it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:56 PM
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I think the man who can’t get the abusive woman would have the worse effect. The rejection, lack of confidence. Inability to even try it. The other one would likely do it until he’s sick of it, then leave. Maybe try a couple more times but ultimately decide that it’s not worth it. They would both end up being alone, but the one wouldn’t have been able to have the experience and so would not know that he’s better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:10 PM
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How hard? It depends on your expectations. Getting dates and dating isn’t horribly hard. However, finding women who wants an archetypal Ward Cleaver man from the 1950’s and offers nothing but a warm hole is the repeating pitfall. Lots of women offer a lot to businesses, society, their children and their causes, but essentially nothing of value to a man and using the word partner instead of man is simply lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:43 PM
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No. We’re not returning to it. I agree that a well run tribe is a good way to raise children. It really doesn’t even matter who the father is in that setting. The children are the tribes children. But in the modern west society doesn’t operate like a tribe at all. We can plug in remedies to needs with the welfare system. Subsidize this or that, but we really don’t have a tribal bond. Tribal bonds don’t really work with millions of people. Also, in these primitive tribes while men had their very …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:23 PM
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I think they are. The future is 100 women fucking the same 10 dicks and the worker drones doing something else. The worker drones will cease to want work outside of work because the payoff is only a warm hole and nothing more and the 10 dicks will do nothing for the woman because they don’t have to. There are many ways to inexpensively replace a warm hole. This is the independence that we as a society have been striving for. What glory!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:02 PM
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I don’t know. But chasing in a way is a good thing. If a woman is chasing you there’s probably something wrong with her. That’s my experience. Coming after some money or wanting you to be her kids daddy, fix her car or some crap. I’ll chase. That one chasing you is chasing you for a reason. Not the natural order of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:15 AM
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Yes. It’s a red flag. What you can do about it is framing it as you’ve had a few, but never really connected to anyone. This is true because whether you were looking for a relationship or not. If you had connected you’d run with it like everyone else does and sometimes that’s a good thing. I wouldn’t outright say that you weren’t looking. That doesn’t sound good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:52 PM
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Well…only about 5% of women in the US are virgins on their wedding night, so throw away your idea of women’s purity. It was always bogus. To the original question, because men are seed spreaders. That’s just how it is and stop claiming that men are big slot shamers. We love them. It’s another opportunity to spread seed. On top of that, a woman wants a man who’s experienced in the world. Women don’t want men that other women don’t want. Women’s part has far more risk specially in a primitive envi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:55 PM
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I definitely won’t change your view. I think this is a stellar idea for young men. Just do it and you don’t have to make it special because you’ll eventually realize that you’re idea of women’s purity is an illusion that you’d be smart to destroy. Don’t look badly on sex workers. Many of them are honest women. And many women are dishonest sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:59 AM
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This really can be flipped on women, just at a different age. 40 + women would kill for a good man. But when you’re not pretty anymore, have psychological damage, are mean and generally manly nobody really wants you anymore. Maybe they should just do better if telling people who are usually just living their lives and trying as hard as they can to do better is a good way. ? Youth and beauty fade. You can make a bunch of demands when you’re young and hot, but later life is far less kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:39 PM
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I look at it as looks being the entry fee and it’s really a two way street. Of course you want certain qualities in a partner, but you want them from the ones you are already attracted to. Paying for a good looking woman that offers nothings else really isn’t a good deal. I’ve seen a lot of situations where a guy is good looking and women want him, but he’s not good for much other than his looks and then the women are mad. It seems like more of a problem when people don’t have a realistic idea o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:13 PM
1

The RP content has helped my life a lot. I really don’t like the labeling terms. I think they’re useful as far as being descriptive but I’ll be damned before I walk around calling myself alpha or calling people beta cucks. It’s kind of wanky. Yes. Understanding what the thought processes are behind behaviors and how to deal with them goes a long way when dealing with a difficult woman in a relationship. My ltr is much better for it. She really isn’t even happy when left to her chaotic devices. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:07 PM
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In the ancient world marriage was part of empire building, unifying families, burying quarrels, having workers for the family farm or business and lots of other things. Women needed men and men’s lives were much better with a good woman or several of them. Infidelity was always there. That’s a given. After somewhere in the mid 20th century technology and society advanced to the point that a woman doesn’t need a man and a man doesn’t need a woman. Marriage has lost more and more value as that eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:11 PM
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I don’t think it always was, but it certainly is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:59 PM
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It’s not beneficial for taxes where I’m at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:01 PM
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This is why marriage is now obsolete. For a man it’s a huge financial risk. There’s a divorce lawyer who’s become popular who calls it a negligent act and breaks it down in legal terms why it is. There aren’t any bonuses for being married. You can do all of the same things without being married. The fallout from marriages failure is profound. When women want to just walk because they’re not feeling it or they’re bored it pushes it’s value so far into the negative that everyone notices. There are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:26 AM
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I don’t really think men are bullying. (Cue the damsel in distress act) After years of public blame and berating, they’re ridiculing neurotic entitled women who refuse to offer anything in terms of a functional relationship but demand far more than is reasonable. I don’t think it’s any more hellish than for women who decide to not date anymore. It’s really humorous watching the one’s screaming the loudest about how they don’t need a man. (Cue the warrior princess act) If they don’t need a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:09 AM
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It very well could be that I’ve known guys whose exes were on them every chance they got. I’ve heard many conversations about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:30 PM
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Well….yeah. If you’re not getting what you need you’ll have to take action. And if you’re mired in a situation that is preventing you from filing, I suggest you unmire yourself. Who is coming to help you? Can anyone if you don’t do it yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:59 PM
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Yeah. I don’t know why things work that way sometimes. Relationships are super complicated. And you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:27 PM
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I don’t think so. I think he’s saying it’s women’s fault if they pick deadbeats because they are easily vetted. That’s debatable. Ok. I’m going to blow your mind right now. A persons past behaviors are a predictor of their future behaviors. Wowwwwwwwwwww!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:21 PM
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The post is really kind of a one sided rant. I mean, there’s a point to, you picked em. There’s a point to if you just waited longer. Is a man bad for impregnating and leaving. Yes. That’s easy. Is a woman smart for letting a no good impregnate her? No. It’s sad that children are caught in this, but the idea of a pure and innocent party isn’t reality. People like sex and the people they like are often not good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:56 PM
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Great speculation, but do you really know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:49 PM
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That is how it works if you choose that path. It’s a bad idea. He can try to blame, but he really has no one to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:09 PM
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So, there are guys who pay nothing and have a nothing life, guys who pay, and guys who struggle to pay. The guys who want to have any semblance of a good life have to pay or everything will be taken from them. So there’s guys who don’t pay. They don’t get to have bank accounts without them being raided, they get drivers licenses revoked, sometimes jail time, end up laying up under some really butt woman to have a place to stay. It’s not a win, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:52 PM
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It does for men. You can strip down your possessions and expenses to next to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:30 PM
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Where are you. These situations ruin a man’s life where I’m at. Utterly delusional. Very few are dragged into court? Nearly every donor father gets judgements against them. You really think guys can just walk and nothing happens? Are you reading this somewhere or do you see this in the real world. It’s certainly no world I’m looking at. Not in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:26 PM
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What on earth are you talking about, not holding men accountable? Garnished wages, loss of driver’s license, jail time. Men are often held extremely accountable. A man will have zero stability and success (at least in the US) if he doesn’t take care of his kids. If you think working for cash, having your bank account raided periodically and having to put your crappy car in someone else’s name isn’t punishment you’re deluded. I’m sorry that your personal situation was bad. I doubt your father cam…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:18 PM
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So, don’t micromanage. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:44 AM
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No. Their problem with attraction is inverted. That’s why most people fix their dogs. If they’re going to be breed them they pick carefully. The fallout of not taking care of this is street dogs who often times suffer from various things. With people, many young men can’t attract a partner and are obviously unhappy about it. Young women can typically attract partners, but attracting ones who are good for them is an issue. The fallout of this can be broken homes, single parenting in less than ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:26 PM
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If I adopt a dog I view it as my responsibility to teach and train it good behaviors so it can have a safe, healthy, rewarding and happy existence. Part of human existence is a good social life including possibly having a life partner. It’s a persons choice to esteem their children lower than many responsible dog owners would esteem a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:26 PM
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Uh. Yeah. Personality is part of attraction. Example for me is Kim K. I’d rather scrape by on a poverty level income until death by heart attack on the job than deal with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:52 PM
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It sounds like what you’re telling me is that this is fairly normal stuff. There’s a reason I had to learn it from Red Pill. I grew up with socially inept parents, was taught to put others before me and sacrifice at church, private and public school didn’t teach me how to have boundaries, I relate to left politics and vote left, there’s definitely nothing there teaching a man boundaries in relationships, so I had to learn it somewhere. I would’ve preferred to learn from my parents, but it wasn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:01 PM
1

Ok. Examples. We have difficulty when there are home projects. It’s her house. I pay what works out to about half the bills. She would pressure me into nonstop projects if I allowed her to even though it’s not my investment. I tell her that I’m willing to help, but not to an unlimited degree, then I refuse to argue any more. Getting angry is a loss. Continuing arguing is a loss. While helping her with projects she will start literally yelling at me if she thinks I’m doing something wrong. I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:18 PM
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Underage women are butt ugly. At 18 they blossom on exactly their birthdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:44 PM
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When men realize women are attracted to men with traits of a pack animal with an integrated ATM machine they can never look at women the blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:49 PM
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What’s in your quotes is exactly what I was taught while participating in feminist communities. Worded more nicely though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:05 PM
1

I can give you examples and I will. But today I’m short on time so I will look forward to doing that tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:03 PM
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That’s assuming a lot of ideal qualities about a situation. I’m in a relationship with a very difficult woman. Blue pill would have me run over so flat that I’d be the dimensional area of the theoretical flat earth. Or I could dump her and look for a middle aged woman who has had no trauma or bad life experiences (good luck). RP is really just a set of tools that can be used for nice or nasty reasons. A middle aged man tolerating a middle aged woman’s childish and bad behavior is not a favor to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:10 PM
1

Ah. The push pull game. There are a few reasons this can happen. You want what you can’t have/ don’t want what you can have. You follow her around like a puppy dog, she stops being attracted. You’ll think the same if a girl follows you around like that. Next, competence test or commonly known as a shit test. She pulls away to see if you pursue, ask what’s wrong, apologize without knowing what’s wrong, offer to make concessions. You will pursue if you don’t respect yourself and have low confidenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:17 PM
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I think this is completely wrong. There are tons of guys that can’t even make it to the friends zone. I hear attitudes like ‘all guys want is sex’. I hear the idea that any time a woman is friendly a guy thinks that she wants him. I don’t think women understand the roundhouse dick kicks an average looking guy can get for saying “hi.”. If this guy isn’t coached by a friend or family member he looses confidence and stops trying to even say hi. He’s been trained. What you are left with is guys who …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:09 PM
1

Social status and financial stability are important variables if he’s not attractive and charismatic enough to be a fuck boy. Mostly financial stability. If he’s broke and living with his parents he’ll do badly. Has a nice place, job and car, someone will see a future.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:39 PM
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Men lust at everything. Cantaloupe with a hole in it. Two dish sponges in a solo cup with a rubber glove pushed into it then the cuff wrapped around the rim. Other women. Women need to just get over it. Commitment is different. If a man is getting affection and a healthy sex life he’ll probably not cheat. Men enter a partnership with the idea that their need will be accommodated. Often times at some point or another it is not. Well, what is a guy that has needs to do? I will tell you. Stop 1 is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:06 PM
1

More divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:02 PM
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Ah, yes. These are the days of inclusion. 20 years ago this was rare back to about somewhere in the sixties. I really think you understand the typical Americana glam look. There are of course exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:00 AM
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Yes. What I mean is the Barbie doll figure, ski jump nose, high cheek bones, very thin but busty. All the stuff that makes a super model and makes everyone else not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:45 PM
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Clearly you don’t know conservative women. They have different work situations like everyone, but they don’t have an entitlement to pushing off responsibilities that should be shared. There are many different ways household duties can be divided. Normal people clean. Man. Woman. Man who’s penis has been split and is now a woman. Man with surgically detached penis reattached to his forehead and is now a woman. No one is special. Normal people clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:35 PM
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You have just shown that you are a child. Normal people don’t need maids. Another expense on top of traveling and all the shiny things that she wanted? How would one build a life with money going out the door like that? Have you looked at housing prices? She was a child. But now it’s over and her family is ashamed of her nonsense. But, tell men to do more and then sit back and suck your thumbs as if they are extensions of you that you are entitled to. The real men will simply have good lives wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:32 PM
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Hmm. 60 or 80 hours a week in a physical trade. Over 100k a year. Come home and clean and do dishes and all the traditionally men’s tasks while wife rectangle faces with her phone after an only 40 hour job. Interesting deduction. Men are children? Oh, no,no,no. There are real men. They just want nothing to do with women who think they’re children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:53 PM
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The god damn dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:36 PM
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I did one or two full size dishwasher loads a day for two people. That’s after working two jobs, side work and a side hustle. She planted flowers and sewed hundreds of Covid masks for people we didn’t know. I funded travel all over the country to see her friends. I paid off her student loans and credit cards. Tried to clean the house but she was a walking disaster. She wouldn’t even help when I was injured, then losing my career because of the injuries (construction). Then at the point where she…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:15 PM
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How can you be picky if you don’t have an ideal, speaking in looks only? As far as an ideal woman at that time it would be more likely things like being agreeable and being robust enough to have lots of beautiful fat babies and be able to do the work to take care of them. You make a good point about sourcing talent, but they weren’t even trying to go in a particular direction in these publications.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:28 PM
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Agreed. And perpetuated by our current society which has sold us an ideal image from glamour magazines, Barbie dolls, Bratz dolls (excuse me if I’m misspelling, I think you understand what I mean.). I have an interesting angle on this from one of my life experiences. One of my friends, an older man, found his fathers stash of vintage pornography in the family home. This material was from the 1930’s and 40’s. The woman in this material were quite differently shaped and had different looks and wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:47 PM
1

Still boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:47 PM
1

You sort of just said something that doesn’t say anything. Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:37 PM
1

Yeah. Like I expressed about the last topic, those things can happen, I then expressed that they aren’t standard. You totally wiffed on noticing that part, champ. And men that are afraid to make the first move because of some non standard crap can have cats and box wine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:04 PM
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Then, be afraid, don’t date, cats and box wine subscriptions all around. Enjoy being too weak to do normal things ,….but equal. Hi five.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:45 PM
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How and why am I suppose to control people’s irrational fears? These terrible things happen, but they aren’t the norm. Women pick up about quadruple the social cues as men. They need to use their talents to decide who to spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:07 PM
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Well, with respect, there is a reason why it cannot always be a good experience for women and men. It’s because there’s no feasible and actionable plan to make all people courteous. People have their problems and baggage. Some of them their mommy didn’t love them enough, maybe grew up in foster care, maybe were molested, maybe bullied, maybe health problems, war, financial destruction , maybe just spoiled and never told no. I don’t know how to cure all this damage so people can just be balanced,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:30 PM
1

Men will always have to approach. Hopefully with good manners. Woman will always have to turn men away. Hopefully with good manners. It’s part of life. I’ve been watching this social experiment for about 25 years of trying to do everything else and lots of it sounds good in conversation but doesn’t really work. I genuinely feel sorry for the younger generation. Everything is damned if you do and damned if you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:49 AM
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Haha! Yes. Looks are like the cover charge to the dating club. If you can afford drinks, appetizers, bottle service and private entertainment, those are like a bunch of the other attributes you may have. Income, status, personality. Without looks you’re not getting in the door unless someone on the inside knows you have enough of other traits to override the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:10 AM
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