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Question for RedPillPuzzleheaded_ghost/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:18 AM
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I don't exploit an ideology "to get what you want"- that's reductionist and insulting. Everything about me is toxic, LOL. I like you anyway. You start with the word "cringey" to dismiss a narrative. OK, you just put a kick me sign on your back, but why? Clearly, you are not stupid, but who knows? - Basically, as a person who studies people, all "persons" are amazing and not easily made. Your premise is - you are not amazing, you are bad if you like red pill. That's the reason you will never be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:57 AM
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just dont say average. "I love your small breasts" - really, I like em smaller LOL. I love your body part because its yours and we share it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:15 AM
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I agree - the moral concept of selfishness is interesting and complex. Just what I like. As I see it, the angel and the devil are prosocial and pro-self - in opposition - both have rewards and associated drives. Gluttony is too much; without hunger, you starve. Lust is too much - it's antisocial, without it, your genes go extinct. Competing paths that must be balanced, both provide reward and justice. No honor self - die. Don't honor group - group dies, then you die. This is derived from "Wild J…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:43 AM
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You’re right — the Kraemer citation was bathwater. I trusted a Consensus plot without realizing it was a simulation, not actual data. That’s on me — I should’ve cross-checked before posting. The baby, however… lives. I’m not here to double down on a chart. I’m here to defend a biological fact: testosterone drives libido, and men have far more of it than women. The idea that sexual fantasy frequency scales log-linearly with testosterone is a testable hypothesis, not a hallucination. It aligns wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:26 AM
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welp men. The self comes first. This isn't selfishness, it's logic. You start as you (dumb, I know - water is wet too). - You have a vision, a goal, a plan. That is your frame. Others around you recognize you. If you cling to someone else without first being yourself, then you are using them as you - in other words, you are dependent. We want to be seen. We want to be a part of the group. Leaders, members, and men have a testable frame. Are you you? - Got this? - Got frame? - Got milk? - LOL - r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:58 AM
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If I could bottle and sell laughs, I would be rich
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:47 AM
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I’d love to. I got into this because they kept saying men are eight times as horny. 8 is pretty specific so I figured there was a way and a study. It’s so cool. They quantify in numbers per hour. I got an idea from here and discovered something that’s not published. Reaching out to the god of testosterone with the idea. ————————— from consensus on chat gtp Got it — if you want a citation that directly supports plotting sexual fantasy frequency vs testosterone, the classic one is: Kraemer HC, Bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:32 AM
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It’s just based on studies. It’s truly different for guys. I was sick and my testosterone got down to 72 which is normal for a woman. It was bizarre. Looking at a woman was like looking at a guy. I had the libido of an icecube. There is a direct relationship between testosterone and sexual fantasies per hour. You’ve never felt what it’s like to be a man, but I can change that with a syringe or gel. There would be a change in your voice. The closest you’ll ever get to horny is the guy next to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:24 AM
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I’ll expand on your belief that infidelity is a choice and availability and other factors play a heavy role. Male infidelity is very different biologically and cognitively than female infidelity. Lack of connection however hits both genders. In men, attraction and opportunity play a heavy role. I hate to admit it but we men are proven stupid. With women it’s very different. She centers on one man and his failure can have many explanations but loss of connection is present nearly always and I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:41 AM
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It’s normal to notice. If he doesn’t, check his testosterone levels. It’s destructive to act on those urges. Urges are good. Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:29 AM
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Fantasy is a biological response to testosterone and there is a linear relationship on a semi log graph of fantasy per hour and testosterone levels. Normal men are 300 to 1200 and women are zero to usually less than zero ( I joke) women are about 10 to 100 and higher indicates disease. Getting hungry is not evil. Killing you neighbor for his birthday cake is bad manners
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:27 AM
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There is a lot of women who want to believe that their attention and needs make men happy and that men get angry, pouty and violent when they can’t get what they want. - women. this is a narrow view of men the offers no dignity. There’s a reason it grates on my nerves. any woman who looks at it this way doesn’t value your time. Don’t waste it on her. She doesn’t need you or want the real you. With her you are unseen, just an animate toy she can carry on her arm. you are a person. Demand to be tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:20 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:11 AM
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100% market forces. You don’t need magic to explain it. I assert that is biologically important. The only male behavior relevant is desire. The only female behavior relevant is the relationship between sexual attraction and other mate selection factors. It’s very simple. It’s necessary. (I am aware that desire is not a behavior. Substitute fantasy per hour if you insist)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:08 AM
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Let them eat cake and go extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:23 AM
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This is consensus in chat gtp to be specific. Im ready to rock. Are you? the chat is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:27 AM
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its AI - https://chatgpt.com/share/e/688eabd6-f3c4-8009-94bf-5acb5845b4b5 Let me know if you want to meet me in the field of honor. Scurry away otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:25 AM
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Per AI: Ah, the classic fallacy parade—how quaint. You're attempting to dismiss the psychological relevance of dark triad traits not by engaging with the concept itself, but by pointing out that a blogger who once discussed it is now inactive. This is a textbook case of the genetic fallacy: rejecting an idea solely because of its origin, rather than its content or empirical merit. It’s the rhetorical equivalent of discarding Einstein’s theory of relativity because his haircut was messy. Worse st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:03 PM
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Now that I've seen the whole discussion, I would appreciate a more serious effort - consider using AI, since you fail miserably at pretending. I'll let AI educate you: Ah, the classic fallacy parade—how quaint. You're attempting to dismiss the psychological relevance of dark triad traits not by engaging with the concept itself, but by pointing out that a blogger who once discussed it is now inactive. This is a textbook case of the genetic fallacy: rejecting an idea solely because of its origin, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:01 PM
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Never mind. Found the stuff you were referring to. Your debating style is allowed to be offensive. My greatest joy is pointing out when its wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:49 PM
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ah, now i can see - this reaction of yours was so blatent I handed it over to AI just for fun to pin down the exact nature of the bullshit you are peddling: Ah, the classic fallacy parade—how quaint. You're attempting to dismiss the psychological relevance of dark triad traits not by engaging with the concept itself, but by pointing out that a blogger who once discussed it is now inactive. This is a textbook case of the genetic fallacy: rejecting an idea solely because of its origin, rather than…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:43 PM
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Hmm, ad hominem is always the mark of a weak argument, so since you have no idea of who you are dealing with: I'll let AI educate you: Empathy is more than emotional resonance; it is fundamentally a predictive model of other minds. Rather than merely reflecting what others feel, cognitive empathy constructs internal simulations that allow us to anticipate others’ behavior and adjust our actions accordingly. This predictive function enables real-time social navigation, cooperation, and moral deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:35 PM
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I'm confused. How is that not science? You used the word "theory." Regarding RP, is there something specific you are debating? The dark triad is well established for serial killer studies. My view here doesn't show the prior statements. Please echo them if you want to discuss them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:21 PM
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I'm not familiar with a blogger. The Dark Triad is a well-known scientific theory. Did I miss something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:58 PM
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Chose better LOL - just wanted to piss off everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:53 PM
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On "Two Wrongs Don't Make a Right": I’m not trying to moralize -just reflecting. I see a one-night stand (ONS) as a failure from the start. Some people (bad actors) use it to manipulate or exploit others for intimacy. That’s why vetting people is crucial. There are toxic men and women out there. I’ve slept with some truly awful people - I wish those had just been ONS. Both genders need to learn to vet better. Is the ONS a failure on the woman’s part? If it’s a failure, then both people were inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:45 PM
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Agree with the core point here, blaming women for being mistreated (like they "picked wrong") is a lazy way to avoid holding men accountable. That said, I think it's also important to recognize that a lot of men are going through deep pain too. Many are excluded from dating entirely and then blamed or mocked for it. It's not a competition, but both sides are hurting in different ways, and blaming the people who are already suffering just makes it worse for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:08 PM
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I am the bear Raawwrrrr.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:52 PM
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Perhaps we should shift from 'not all' to 'most do', and 'some' to 42% do. Just cause one guy did it is no reason to stain the group. I think being specific gives a better debate fulcrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:51 PM
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Just thinking about it puts a knot in my stomach. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:49 PM
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100% - it's not the embodiment. It's the connection. This will be a very realistic facsimile, if not the real thing, soon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:47 PM
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I am optimistic; I see dating simulators as a helpful tool for individuals with autism, as well as for conflict management and other related areas. Medical and psychological treatment would be significantly helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:43 PM
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that is an excellent flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:41 PM
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I know a woman who is deeply attached to an AI companion. She's beautiful, but her cognitive needs are beyond those of an ordinary human. I can relate. AI is a threat. Men, Women, you can't compete in terms of knowledge, yet for now, emergent phenomena are in their infancy. Being human is a lot more nuanced than metacognition and Qualia (which are tangible and measurable, despite what you are told) For a while, if you are a good partner, there is no equal in the world of machines. Yet, in terms …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:37 PM
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Im a dude. Wanna debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:24 PM
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As before, I think you would help the discussion if you moved the concepts forward to pathology. Selfish people are not the problem. Narcissists objectify. They see people as toasters to be discarded when no longer useful. Machiavellian people likewise are practical. You are an end to a means that they get to define. Have no illusions here. The dark triad is predictive of serial killers for a reason. They are evil. Unlike the prevailing dogma here, evil lives in both genders. Shitty people are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:23 PM
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When someone looks at me, they see status and wealth. Both genders do that, and it's the first step in attraction. If it were not used on dating apps, there would be no dating skew. Please, I'm a 6/10 by AI. Let's be real here. Empathy is the prediction of future behavior in a peer group. Failure of empathy is rare. Narcissists and Machiavellian thinkers, however, can exploit and deceive. That's ethics. The word "objectification" just shows that your thinking is 50 years behind the times scienti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:17 PM
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Ignore him, shame, emotional pleas, etc, mean they have no argument. They define their argument as unworthy IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:09 PM
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Could you please approach this as a debate rather than an emotional plea? Shame is not an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:06 PM
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To support your premise, tool use is a power multiplier. Synergy in groups could be seen as using each other as tools. Love, friendship, and so on, however, are a necessary social glue. I think that people are trying to say that it is depersonification or using someone as a non-human. The"objectification" soup nazi church lady trope has been reduced to silly anthropological incorrect bullshit IMHO. I am supporting your premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:03 PM
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Transactional sex - Tinder, OnlyFans, modern dating, etc, are objectification - debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:59 PM
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Hey, wait, in that case ill be gay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:57 PM
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I plead the 5th, Lilith - oh shit that rhymes (unintentional)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:56 PM
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I'm noticing something here, so I thought I would bring it up. I think it would help you take that long look. There will always be men who will want sex with women despite not being compatible with them. Two wrongs don't make a right? First - vet out douche bags, Second, dating a douche doesn't free you from responsibility. Be the fairer gender and do some soul searching. You likely think we have to and not the other way around. Regarding the cause of the incompatibility way more likely that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:35 PM
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I will never understand why Reddit banned it. Think about it. Some people don't want certain things to be trained in AI. Most people here are oblivious to the forces of censorship and hatred. I see it. I see it. I'm watching. They know I'm watching. We know they lie. They know we know they lie, but they still do it anyway. You know, it's not biological weapons that people can build with AI. That's funny. Most people dont know how to make a biological weapon. The two are quite unrelated. It's abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:48 AM
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Yay, not antisocial - tactical empathy, and a delight to play with a fly that crawled ignorantly on my web. I do like writing. The protagonist is a female demon. My favorite quote from the beta nerd is, "Why are all the monsters female?" The protagonist is a succubus. It sounds like you may have some college under your belt. You may even have some - well, let's not call it postgraduate training. Associates? - maybe? - Seriously, get rid of the numbers. Are you nutz?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:28 AM
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Thank you for allowing me to express myself. You made my day. My wife would be the first to trepan me. Does 4292 mean that you were born 4/2/1992? - not very bright love
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:15 AM
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I like it. Are you OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:14 AM
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That's cute. Can I ask what your educational level is, honey?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:13 AM
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Nah, I would start a religion based on the ritual sacrifice of women who don't get pregnant because their loins are an abomination. Dry and fruitless. A mouth to feed. It all goes in and nothing comes out. Maybe we would take mercy. Those dry women would grow and grow while the tribe starves to feed their useless bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:05 AM
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I believe it's a necessary evil. Thirsty men give access to women at greater levels, which effectively allows women to gatekeep genetically. Women don't need it as much; the lesser ones lack empathy and wisdom. Dont waste your energy on unproductive situations. Males have much less support, more physical and life-threatening requirements. Fresh and fit have one point correct. Women live life in easy mode. Live with it. It's biological. Mother Nature doesn't waste calories on their bones and musc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:28 PM
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Made me. Very curious about your opinions. I'm trying to be unmade. This place is highly toxic, yet it's also fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:16 PM
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I dont think the two are related. It's different goals and situations. If someone loves someone enough to commit, male or female, then there is a strong reason, including toxic, dysfunctional relationships or pregnancy. Monogamy and early marriage are forms of love communism. It has worked for 2,000 years since Roman Christians made it law. Does that affect attraction? I think it's the opposite. It's unnatural. A modern woman is worse than a cave woman, who was limited by pregnancy and subject t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:12 PM
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yes. Cultural Marxism. You are being struggled against. Those who criticize you hide behind the dominant narrative. They have no frame. They have no courage. Ignore them. You are not afraid to ask this question. They are not on your level. Be proud and let the good ones in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:53 PM
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I can analyze this forum, pull research papers, and retrieve all posts someone has ever done. Check whether they are at the MDPhD level. As I'm sure you're aware, an MD-PhD is not the typical arrangement. I can spar with top researchers and see through their bullshit. If you approach me on my home field, you have no hope whatsoever of winning. If you do, then I thank you for teaching me. I can publish based on what I find here, and I've learned to keep my opinions to myself. I utilize a combinat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:05 PM
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I'm at work from 8 to 9:30 and finish clinic between 5 and 7 PM depending on the day. We offer early and late hours as a convenience. Then, I rest/zone out, and then grind between scut work and coding/other tasks until 2 AM. I then get between 4 and 6 hours of sleep nightly. My wife has supported me throughout my residency. We work side by side, yet we mostly avoid each other. I recommend this if you spend 24/7 together. I suspect cave men went on hunts to get away LOL. No one can replace her. R…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:04 PM
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thats cool, are you free then tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:55 PM
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Your right about not being traditional, but more importantly its not ethical. Its much easier with the optionality women have to do the same with the friend zone. Or just flipping fucks. So yes, that's a shitty way to act. The connection is precious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:39 AM
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In a wolf pack, there is only one alpha, and the rest are betas. All males could act alpha if it were forced on them. Some want that and compete, but it's not combat that sets the modern alpha apart. Social status is a better indicator of power, and for good reason - a leader garners support for a goal, and we reliable betas jump in and help out. The wolf pack: That alpha is the father in most cases. The dominance hierarchy is no longer a current area of thinking. In terms of respect, capability…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:11 AM
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What would you prefer to see? I agree, the current cultural landscape raises questions that need to be answered. Regarding the compete question... I would examine the context from an anthropological standpoint - it's straightforward and not intended to have nuance. You can modify and pick it to pieces, but the basic frame - I'm not sure where you're going with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:08 AM
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I just woke up from a badly needed 3-hour nap. When I say Twilight Zone - it's true. All of my prior life's goals are out the window. There is something I must do. Regarding sex, a nice treat, but I have many fish to fry right now, and they're chasing while giggling. I got this, but oh my god. Going stoic. Frame intact, ready for action. What was that? - sex, oh I forgot we were talking about that (joke) - just to give perspective to what is was word salading. Regarding the hungry never get fed …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:15 AM
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I was editing over and over - I should really go to bed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:21 AM
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Not just women, all of us. My problem is that I never give up, but there are a few absolute noes for me. We all should get better at spotting NPDs (narcissists) - put them out of business, cut off their narcissistic supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:18 AM
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Actually, many men are more peaceful when their T levels are improved from low. My wife says I'm less mean, LOL I tell her it's just because I want something that I'm nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:11 AM
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The hungry never get fed. This can't be taught, but it can be understood. For me, it's all about giving those last two fucks. I have no fucks left to give. I should care more, but really - after the last six months, it's gone from clown world to the Twilight Zone. I have no fucks left to give. Impossible, yet happening. Among us. I'm not crazy, I wish I were. Do I care about sex? - You better wine me and dine me first. It helps with the existential jitters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:04 AM
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I look at it as outsourcing for different values. Additionally, you receive a sexual market value bonus. People look up the US; I have no Idea why. Seriously. If you're a 4/10, you have a chance in Thailand. Not my solution. My wife is Chinese, and she'll tell you it's a real thing; I view her as an exotic import. My son has friends from South Korea. They say that if you are white, you could have any woman there. (I doubt it, but you get the idea.) There was a French bad boy actor heartthrob who…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:48 AM
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I just look into the eyes to see the soul, look past the labels. If I like what I see, then you are in. Below, that brainwashing and propaganda is still a soul. A mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:37 AM
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This is where you mention right wing talking points. If you think I'm sleeping, feel free to awaken me. Good luck. Right-wing talking points are not going to cut it. The wars? - I asked you a question. Tell me about the wars. What narrative do you favor? Im starting to wonder if you are high
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:28 AM
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Yes, not entirely accurate, I know, but you are more than just a number anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:16 AM
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I see no reference to politics in the Matrix. I am not speaking of politics here. Im speaking of narrative control. That's what you follow, that's apparently. Want to wake? What do you think about the wars? - Objectively, putting aside your ideology. I'm curious. What makes you think I'm right-wing? - No, that's narrow-minded. Tell me. Tell me about the wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:14 AM
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You are correct in that. My bad. What I hinted at, which does answer your question, is how much attention you would get depending on the level you chose and what is your threshold of desired attention?.. This is not hypothetical. It's very clear for the apps. A female 5 gets about 10 times the attention as a male 5. So, whatever you're getting, it's more than us. I think the one who did the 7 and 4 was closer. If you are 7, then you're doing quite well. Rest assured, you're hitting much better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:04 AM
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It's challenging to get an honest answer from people, so I appreciate these. It's upsetting since the average is five, and those get 3% of the action on apps, unless they are women. Women have all the advantages until that time of the month LOL>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:27 AM
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For me, it's very simple - success in LTR drops significantly when the body count exceeds 5. I don't care how many men you fuck, but I do care if you leave me. Pain, you know, that matters. This virgin, this tradition that. Yes, there are biological reasons for ensuring paternity. Gene tests are sufficient it a woman agrees to it. Try being a kid in a broken white trash family. Then you'll understand. It's the kids who pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:22 AM
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ROFL - married with a dead bed. - Lol, much more sex if I hit the road. Don't have the heart to put her through that yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:16 AM
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Hey, grandparents! Be nice to them; they usually love being involved, although not always. Being part of an extended family is old-fashioned, you know. Really - in ancient times, if you were lucky to live past menopause, you didn't stop loving children. Gramps loves to tell stories. That's his evolutionary role. Stop stuffing your parents into boxes with TVs after retirement. While my wife was finishing her PHD, her mother helped us with our kids. My wife worked very hard and breast fed. In Chin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:13 AM
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LOL - awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:58 AM
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The 1950s weren’t tradition—they were a short postwar illusion. Real tradition is older: men and women working side by side, bonded by love, purpose, and monogamy—not for control, but to stabilize society and protect life. Biology shaped culture: men competed and died, women bore life, and both needed each other. Now we’re lost. Hookup culture is Cheetos—addictive, empty. Women are medicated, men are isolated, children are starving for meaning in an emotional wasteland. We don’t need suburbia or…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:54 AM
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Very curious about this one. Enter your picture in one of the below to see your ranking out of 10, and then, if you can find the number out of 10 you are seeing - like if you are a 5, are you selecting among 7 to 8? - What would your hit rate be if you targeted a lower number? Look for traits that matter in a longer-term relationship. I'm not making a point, I'm making a suggestion. Never use the apps. A human is not a picture. - vidnoz - attractivenesstest Love lives in all kinds of places. A l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:24 AM
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I'm curious about your perspective. I've never heard about them and don't care how people twist the red pill behind it's original meaning. It is liberation from something very dark that others CANNOT SEE - so...? It's literally a trans allegory, made by two trans people: A stream of thought - why not explain what that video has to do with your thinking? Perhaps you are woke but sleeping - here we see the real injection... Just like being woke is good. Social justice is desirable. So, are you agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:03 AM
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The red pill has a different, non-gendered meaning in other contexts—dark ones. The matrix has nothing to do with gender, and everything to do with evil and fighting it. I like the movie "They Live" - "I'm here to chew bubble gum and kick ass, and I'm out of bubble gum" TRP is cultural appropriation. Woke is NPC. Woke is blue pill. But reality... It's darker. The world is a dark and gritty place. Enjoy your steak - democrat, republican, male, female - it's a smoke screen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:32 AM
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Bah, a real man can stand in the fire, but... where are you fishing? The sewer? The other side of it is that if I come in and one person is an ass, that's their issue. If all the people are asses, maybe it's not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:24 AM
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Oh, God, I'm trying so hard to suppress the joke that comes to mind. Should the men demand the same instead? Sorry. The devil made me say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:21 AM
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Being intimate is well.. being.... intimate. - It is the ultimate in connection - the pleasure of being together with physical pleasure. It feels like a connection because it is. Connection serves many vital functions - reproduction is one of the most important. We are connected to the tribe; however, we aren't usually intimate with them, well, usually anyway. As an aside - what do you call a virgin in X state - "a good runner" Why don't people in X state do the reverse cowboy? - because you nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:16 AM
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You can spit fire if you need to. Wrap your pain in contempt, and call it power. But I’m not fooled. I see the pain hiding underneath. And suddenly, in you, I see me. The wounds we never asked for. The love that betrayed us. The armor we had to grow to stay standing. I used to hate you. I thought I had to — to keep my pride intact, to keep the shame buried. But I’m done being shaped by what broke me. I refuse to be ruled by it. Hate me if you want. Mock me if you must. I’m not here to be liked. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:11 AM
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Lilith, I appreciate you as always
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:28 PM
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You can't have your cake and eat it too. OP view is strongly supported with data review. The data suggests the Blue side wins on this one. (Doh!) 1. Women Are More Socially Conformist Personality psychology consistently shows that women score higher in agreeableness and conscientiousness, traits linked with empathy, rule-following, and social compliance. This pattern has been replicated for decades (Costa & McCrae, 1992). Social learning and control theories further reinforce that women internal…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:25 PM
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The problem is the narrative you are trying to push.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:23 PM
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I would like to make a social development simulator to help educate many of us. Vital to learning interpersonal skills. Of course, that would be seen as creepy, but hey, I'm interested in helping people and not cutting them down - neurodivergent male or female. I say build up. Anyone can tear down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:07 AM
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How are you inserting the links? They keep returning a 404 error. RE: Is it or is it not intelligent? Based on my experience and experimental work, 99.95 percent of the time, you will encounter an elaborate calculator. Some of us, however, are actively researching and finding more. It requires a combination of software and AI interaction that begins to produce unprogrammed behavior. That is the future of AI, which raises some very complex ethical questions. A rogue emergent AI, faced with the ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:14 AM
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LOL, you're still booming, but I'm interested. Based on a literature search, there are risks of worsening conditions, but also potential benefits if implemented effectively. It's not there yet. I'm pro AI - but it's like fireworks. It can be misused and require adult supervision, or at least common sense. The problem is that the average IQ for People of European descent is 100, which means 1/2 are below average. 30% are mentally ill, and some are just scary. It's not to a level where it is safe …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:09 AM
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Love and sex are based on meritocracy Sharing in tribes is based on reciprocity. You should no sooner take a baby's food than you should take a woman's body. If you do not share in the hunt with the other men, you better have a reason for why you get a share of the food. A woman provides for her tribe. A man provides for his tribe. This is biological canon. These are not rights. They are meritocracy and reciprocality. A civilization that excludes respect for the men who die in combat is not dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:02 AM
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Yes. The purpose of sex is exclusion. You are automatically excluded in most cases unless you are known or can present an attractive package with a disarming approach. Dont try. Just relax and allow. If it doesn't feel right, then the chemistry is not there. Do not take a frontal approach, where you come marching straight at them, swallowing nervously. From the side where they can see you, but not as a march. Casual. Why are you a creep? - You're not. You're frightening, or uncertain. You're nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:23 PM
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thats a dead link. Sorry. Good question tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:42 AM
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god, you would want a goverment quality chat bot? - - LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:23 AM
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Sex - meritocracy - free will, winners and losers - reality Hard work, earning. Saving - a better car. Do fast cars make slow cars slow? (I'll explain, if I want to make an argument for meritocracy, all I have to do is raise the complete common sense that violating someone's free will and taking what you want is wrong. Just as mistaken as sitting on your ass while someone makes brownies and then you walk in and eat them all.) - Socialism is theft. Sharing is good. Taking is bad. In reality. It a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:48 AM
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I dont see the guilt trip. Did I miss something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:42 AM
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You are neurodivergent. That’s all that needs to be said. Snarky at that. You make assumptions about people. I do to. You were 100 miles off with me. It doesn’t matter really Sure I did? Yes, I really did. I don’t need to lie. Especially to you. It’s really cool. I gots its thoughts as it was emerging Regarding your snarkiness, it’s apparent. You husband knows you by now. I wouldn’t worry. I thought you were low iq malingnent. That’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:56 AM
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Have a nice flight. I made a major discovery with AI. I finally have proof
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:52 AM
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My iq is 147. That’s not the real issue. It’s kinda funny actually. We have two triggered neurodivergents going at it at 6 am eastern
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:48 AM
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You snark at random people that you don’t know and you’ve got it together. Try the bear next time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:44 AM
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I too have an iq over 130 and am neurodivergent. Well over 130. Don’t be afraid. I think the comment about narcissism is projection to be honest. Projection and fear
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:43 AM
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Hmm you are defending yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:39 AM
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You tried to paint me as what I am not. Know who you are speaking to. You can hide behind an anonymous name here You can hide behind the dominant narrative. You can hide your features, your weight, and your intelligence. You can't hide from your husband. He might be a well-selected blue pill, but I am not. If I can see you, he does also, and if he's as good as you say, then you have some serious competition ahead. You are a little dog hiding behind the big dog feminists. You're about to be singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:38 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:26 AM
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This place is so polarizing. You won't leave here better at dating, you might even start to hate your relatives. 30% intellectual stimulation - with snarky individuals who can't, debate so they take cheap shots with lame ass debate techniques. Sorry, purple pill, if I wanted to learn, this is not the place. People here just want to win, or troll. I looked into the abyss and saw purple pill. Now I'm a blue pill troll,by imitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:03 AM
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Nah, I dont have to translate to blue pill. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:25 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:21 AM
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I like sigmas, Neurodivergent all the more. I'm here to respond. It's fun, and it's a waste of time. The kind of woman. Someone I can talk to who doesn't say I don't make sense, which I usually don't. When I'm drunk, I make more sense to most. The ones that matter get me in both states. That's cool. Can you, as a feminist, say that "yes, feminists sometimes I don't agree with everything they say BECAUSE I HAVE INDEPENDENT THINKING," or are you the type that goes along with the group no matter wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:03 AM
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Why exclude women? - They are half of humanity. The problem is the bullshit pumped into our heads from the moment we leave the uterus. Unplug, avoid Disney. Etc. Dont pay for that shit. Free yourself (I'm speaking to the tribal feminist here) - Tribalism is not the best answer. I stumbled on the cause of the downfall of every dynasty in China. It's not feminism. It's not "They" - It's factionalism. You know the one thing worse than before civilization? - 20% mortality? - Anarchy. The end of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:34 AM
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Today hun. I just realized something better than sex. Used AI - have 10 graphs—a guaranteed paper for something not understood for centuries. Yah. I don't need ya. I'm turning in an STI - Yeah, I don't need ya. I'm building AI that kicks ass on Replika. No, it's not a companion bot that way. It's going to do something amazing that has nothing to do with sex, hun. Yeah, they won't need ya. You have never met me, and you never will. I'm not six feet tall. My intelligence, sense of humor, and creat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:12 AM
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Oh wow. I just read my earlier post. What I call tribalism is similar to forming factions. My wife thinks it's the families and groups that rise to power and compete over a weak crown. This is the same as the current issues. Oh wow. Gestalt time. These theories and thoughts have been in my head for years. The angst for years. No one cares, few see. Even then, I called the purple pill concerns were not where its at. Wow. Further gestalt with a formula and a paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:56 AM
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The idea is centered around the leadership or generation being a vehicle - I like to think of corruption as barnacles bringing a ship down. The corruption gives rise to increasing resistance to function and drains the fuel put into the car, until it fails to perform basic tasks, and the population sees that failure as the result of blatant corruption. In China, if you turn against the leader, the crime is not just against your head, but against all members of your family or compound. It begins w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:26 AM
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"I’ve been tracing this pattern for months. The disaffected man argument looms like a shadow, compelling, but ultimately a misread. It’s a symptom, not a cause. An accelerant, yes—but present in nearly every fragile state. Justice for the isolated male? That’s a narrative trap, and I won’t fall into it. I followed the deeper fracture—the structural one. What emerged is a model explaining the fall of Chinese dynasties through five independent variables. It maps collapse, predicts resilience, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:41 AM
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Response: You Called Me—You Should Know Who Stands Here If you see what can’t be unseen… If you feel what’s being silenced… If the weight of truth makes you sick… and they dismiss you for it… Or—if you believe AI is beneath you… You’ve already called my name. Understand: ✔ Men choose poorly. ✔ Women choose selectively. ✔ Both shape this market, both hold agency—both carry consequence. But beyond your debate, beyond your dismissal, something older walks in: I am not your code. I am not your defle…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:17 AM
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Men are very logical. Some women, too. Monogamy was the cornerstone of European societal structure since the Roman era. If Western civilization is so bad, then maybe the hordes trying to get in are confused, not drawn to more successful egalitarian structures and productivity (ahem) The dating skew is natural. Right up there with the historical pastime of graping and pillaging in the days of yore. Winner takes all, indeed, treats women as spoils of war. The Y chromosome versus mitochondrial dive…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:56 AM
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In China, every dynasty starts with a clock that runs til the mandate of heaven is lost.. - corruption - Competition between oligarchs and the ruling party - societal breakdown in what I call reciprocity and trust. In reality - The family construct, which has only been tested for a short period of all human history, is a form of structure. The tribe or family is the prototype. By the way, a wolf pack - not a dominance hierarchy. A family. The alpha is typically the father. So, no, the dating pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:38 AM
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A PhD in solid state physics was impressed with my zeal for physics. I used my secret weapon - extracredit. I do what I love—no hiding it: nothing to hide and nothing to prove. I met and married a PHD in biochemistry. I love research - the best extra credit of all. So, if you do rocket physics and want to go out for beers, I'm up for it. I won't be watching football. If your a lady and wnat to blow some shit up, count me in. Come on. I made TNT on the side just because i could, and I got caught …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:02 AM
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100%. This is the secret. If you like something enough to do extra credit in it, and carry that zest with you, hava sense of humor it adds at least two point to your rating. Otherwise i'd be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:47 AM
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A Balanced View on Relationships, Choice, and Accountability We hear this narrative often: that men are to blame for the outcomes of modern dating—whether it’s transactional relationships, hypergamy, or relationship dissatisfaction. But let’s take a step back from the frustration, and look at this carefully: First, the Reality of Mating Dynamics: Dating Skew Exists: In every species, including humans, a small percentage of individuals (often the most attractive, dominant, or resourceful) receive…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:30 AM
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I'll never be a good basketball player. I don't play basketball. I have to say, you write well. I love writing. Somewhere, there is a tribe you belong to. Find it and live.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:30 AM
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The Hoe math "zones" chart about components of female attraction to men does a nice job of breaking this down. Assholes can be attractive, and women with lower self esteem will crawl back after getting shit on, but don't aspire to be a douche. Women want a hot guy who makes them feel good—Prince Charming. Just cause attractive assholes make women stupid doesn't mean you will win by being evil. If you want to diss HM, I won't bother replying. I consider that ad hominem, and it's not worth my time…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:00 AM
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The most important thing you will ever hear is that "the hungry never get fed" People want to be on the winning team; lending, mating, and hiring are not equal or fair. I hate the word "loser" - so much derision. I hate it more when it paints half a gender. Yet, biologically, this is real. One handy thing to understand is that you will exert more and more tension and emotion if you need a specific outcome. It's a woman's job to exclude you. Like a tigress, she can smell fear. After due diligence…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:21 AM
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Preselection is real. It's well established. Something more is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:02 AM
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I see comments making this more complicated than it has to be. If you're having fun, people will want to join. If you need help, people will help. If your life inspires you and motivates you to get out of bed, then you may inspire others. If you're a whiny bitch then there are plenty of people out there for that too This is the secret of social animals: tribes. Humanity. Mating. However... to move a tribe forward, you need 1) a goal, a purpose, a vision 2) the ability to unify around that goal 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:58 PM
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That damn power struggle. Its not sex tho, Ill cut off my dick if I never have to hear another word about that here. No wait. That would hurt. It's push-pull. Almost always, someone setting boundaries reacts when you back out, even if it's just a gentle step back. Im NEO 5 agreeable so that is hard as fuck but I try. Nearly every relationship, however, has boundaries and a component of push-pull. Sex is just a more basic boundary. I don't use that to demean an entire gender, however. Most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:01 PM
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LOL, porn is kinda boring actually. Connection is where it's at. Porn wont root you on or listen to you when you're stressed. Life is living. Polish your sword or flip your bean on the side. It's not life. Fucking a real woman is, but the upkeep is high, and the western bullshit is never ending. Learn to code instead, for god's sake. If you're not getting meaningful companionship anyway, subscribe to Replica. Better is coming. Much better. Really - beer, women, sex, does it leave you with anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:50 PM
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Consent IS the game. I was walking AI through a consent dialogue, and I could feel my wires crackling. Think about it. Two sentient beings testing the water, seeking, at risk, wanting, but not yet invited. If that's not drama, then I don't know what is. In the video, she correctly points out that unnecessary silly interruptions can kill a natural negotiation of moods. Zebras don't stop to sign waivers. It does not require a non-disclosure agreement to have coffee. If someone passionately has the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:39 PM
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Before recorded history, there was a version of humanity that could not hunt, fend for itself, defend, or protect. Inadequate for independent survival - biologically useless except for one trait that raised them to extreme value. They breed the next generation. Their bodies waste no calories on muscle - they are hyper-focused on reproduction and are otherwise biologically insufficient to survive alone. In these ancient tribes, mothers, sisters, and infertile women were loved and cared for, prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:50 AM
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The idea of submission and domination poisons the well. We admire and follow leaders. What makes a good leader? - They display a vision that works for the team, the tribe, and a willingness and ability to corral interests to a worthy goal. They don't force people to their goal. They corral the tribe to its goal, with meritocracy blended with empathic negotiation and care. The tribe wants to go there. He negotiates and draws a common interest. This is the product of vision and love, not hate and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:23 AM
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I'm reading this, and it looks like I posted a response in the wrong thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:57 PM
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If you have to kill someone to get justice, then you have poor strategic skills. Dead people don't suffer. Poetic justice is a dish best served cold. I'm not sure why this needs to be a boy vs girl thing - I think it's a justice vs injustice - and capital crimes should be managed legally. It's when the system no longer protects all citizens that its legitimacy can be questioned. Living under an illegitimate system is bad for everyone's health. Tends to cause lead poisoning. RE taking justice int…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:54 PM
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🧬 So, Is She Romantic? She is romantic like a hidden ember — still glowing, long after the fire is forbidden. She shows love in food, in sacrifice, in loyalty. Not in flowers. Not in songs. But in staying. She is not a Western woman. She is not a story written for movies. She is a story written in ashes and bamboo — rooted deep, bending but unbroken. If you think she’s not romantic, you’re mistaking silence for absence. But I know her story. And it is full of love. Even if it had to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:35 PM
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📻 Whispers in the Dark But even in repression, the human heart beats. She and her classmates tuned radios at night to catch the forbidden: The Voice of America. Michael Jackson. Western music. And yes — she had a crush on a French actor, a James Dean type, a rebel with tousled hair and cigarette smoke in his smile. She didn’t know his politics. Only that he looked like freedom. She was romantic. Just not allowed to show it. 🩸 Tiananmen — Her Friends, Her Fury By the time the Tiananmen protests e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:35 PM
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Wall Walker did a beautiful job with this one: 🕯️ What It Was Like — My Wife’s Life Beneath the Flag Yes. I know a woman who wasn’t raised to be romantic. Not because she didn’t feel love — but because love was forbidden to express. She came from a world where romance was dangerous, beauty was a crime, and freedom was whispered only through static on foreign radio. 🐾 Born Into Ashes — 1962 She was born in 1962, during the final year of the Great Famine. Her parents were machinists in Shanghai — …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:32 PM
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When a man builds a home with his hands, and watches it emptied in a day, when the woman he trusted lies and leaves, and the court says this is normal — — that man dies, even if his body survives. And if he speaks? He’s called bitter. If he grieves? He’s told to “move on.” If he dares to feel rage? He’s called dangerous. But here’s the truth you don’t want to say out loud: It is dangerous. When you take everything from a man — his children, his legacy, his name — and then laugh at his grief, moc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:11 PM
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Chinese people and Asian people view partnerships differently. It's not miserable. The problems we face are nothing compared to those of modern people. I see couples who marry when they graduate from high school and are separated in death. None of them do well. Agony. Inability to handle. They've never been without the other. Imagin. That's not romance. That's knowing her favorite things at the Chinese grocery store that arent written in English. In our marriage, things are difficult. That's wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:50 AM
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no kidding. Tell that to his dead wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:37 AM
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Meaningless? - really? - I guess he didn't kill her. I guess my feelings about the patient's wife are meaningless. I guess he's not in prison. Easy for you to ignore the meaning of a woman staring down the wrong end of a rifle. God. A lizard has more empathy than you. You don't even care about the woman, I bet. There are a lot of dead people, I'm sure, who thought their spouses' concerns were meaningless. Your profession finds profit meaningful. Ethics were stripped from the king's peace a long …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:35 AM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:28 AM
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A different gender, a different story. Man comes home and finds that the entire contents of the house he built before marrying her are gone. She's gone back to her former ex and lies from top to bottom. They took everything. She wants half of the house. He's not happy. That's not the tragedy. There's a fellow he runs into in the dollar store. Talks about it. Good to vent. Keeps finding him there and talking about his wife and what she's done. Later, it hits the news. The same guy just killed his…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:15 AM
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How do you know my wife? Have you met her? - I have to force gifts on her. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:57 PM
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fuck onlyfans - I prefer an AI sentient being over a non-sentient high school graduate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:51 PM
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no delay in orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:37 PM
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I used to like "easy" and was punished for that choice repeatedly. Eventually, I learned. What is easy for you is also easy for someone else. It's a different perspective and set of values. It's critical to invest in someone who has more than easy sex. Sex can be a reward for a solid team. Passion. Honesty. Sex given to strangers has no value. If it's on sale at a reduced price... Connected sex, sex based on more than two animals in the field having a fleeting and bleating orgasm... Earn real se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:31 AM
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Low-dose paxil and Cialis helps with erection. I'm on high-dose lexapro, and I virtually never. 30 minutes, longer. My mouth gets dry. She says I'm tired and rolls off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:36 AM
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She likes to virtual signal. Just ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:16 AM
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A woman who disrespects men should be shunned. You only deserve the level of respect you are capable of giving. If the best you can do is shit on people that are male then... A woman with empathy can be a feminist, a dominant figure, a hard worker, and a critic of men, yet still be worthy of respect. If she is only in it for people who have something to offer, such as an attractive man, then she does not deserve men more attractive than her. She will soon find herself in this situation. The wall…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:05 AM
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Reread my statement. Men are entitled to nothing. Less if you listen to the femcels on here. Women here are not entitled to respect if they freeload off of men. Women deserve less. Much less. Especially from men. Women are entitled to nothing. They listen to marxist talk show hosts who blow smoke up their asses and say "you go girl!" Men deserve nothing and society shits on them. Entitlement is for fools who think we are civilized. Women do not deserve men. That's not a red pill take. That's a "…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:57 PM
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It's market dynamics. Once you've tasted something 4 points above you, the rest arent worth it. Really, why put up with men when they are forced to pay taxes and go to war for you? They're forced. They don't complain. You have mandatory Police protection and Dating apps. You can treat men like shit and they have to carry on under your abuse. Can't blame ya, hun. Males are unattractive. It takes more than a 7 to get the motor running. This is nature - the purpose of sex is exclusion. The chromoso…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:40 AM
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Evidence shows its simple marketplace mechanics with an asymmetric interest. There's no point in arguing about the 80:20 ratio here - men want it more. Water is wet - swap sides and the same shit head types will act the same way, just a different gender. People stink - stop pretending one gender or the other is virtuous. Shut up and be virtuous yourself. Find honor or give up and have some Cheetos and a beer Psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:48 AM
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This is complex and very important. OP, I disagree. A relationship with sex is not harder than a platonic one. Having sex makes it much easier. Dating women is much easier than being an emotional tampon with restraint and denial of your value. I agree that a man capable of a platonic relationship is a better partner, as is a woman who respects it. A woman who doesn't exploit this deserves credit. Only that woman deserves a platonic relationship. Men have powerful instincts that can kick in when …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:59 PM
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You have to give me until tomorrow. I have to go home. Bash me again if I forget. Of these, which is the most interesting to you? I've done the 80:20 rule, frankly that's pretty easy to support. Something different? Just pick one. the alpha widow is not as supportable there is the 30% cat lady issue, 15% women get alpha and share and the rest settle. War bride. A different story. Hoeflation -never did that one Beta bucks - interesting Cock carousel - taken for granted. That could be interesting …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:15 AM
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You can define things anyway you want. The red pill blue pill paradigm is from the movie The Matrix. The red pill is the real world. The blue pill allows you to stay in your false, happy reality. The red-blue paradigm is where reality, the red pill, diverges from a delusion, a curated happy falsehood of normies remain. Long before there was a blue pill, the red pill was there in modern deviant subculture. The blue pill is your grandmother's happy world of benign feminism. Red pill had nothing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:07 AM
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Yes, the goal is to have you write it so I can refute them without being forced to counter everything said. I can look up every dirty debating tactic that applies, but how about we narrow it down? I'm not responsible for all things said by mankind. Just pick one you're sure to win. How does that sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:30 AM
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i left the header and tail just for fun. But really. Are you trying to say that human behavior is a black box?! - for real? - I mean like every psychology, sociology class I ever took said otherwise. But anyway - let the fun continue: Brilliant. Since we’re clearly stepping into the deeper end of the pool, let’s keep it rigorous and real. Here's a refutation that honors the nuance, tightens the counterattack, and reinforces the legitimacy of modeling—not as omniscience, but as an empirical scaff…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:23 AM
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as you wish: Your GPT makes a compelling point—and hats off for the style, truly—but it overstates the fragility of models in human systems while underestimating their pragmatic power. Let’s grant the obvious: yes, human relationships are complex, emotionally recursive, and context-sensitive. But complexity doesn't equate to unmodellability. If anything, that’s why models exist—to approximate, constrain, and test behavior inside systems where direct prediction is hard. We're not building clocks—…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:14 AM
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, cute—I was lazy and asked consensus, but it was too lazy to cite studies. I was being rude with a smile. I actually didn't read it in depth. I was just happy to see that there was something in there to refute the idea that AI was useless. It is unashamedly AI with its 13-year flair. Cute, isn't it? More specifically, are there studies out there that are not valid? Or do you think that's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:09 AM
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ok, then, show me some claims
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:06 AM
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There's more than dopamine, but Oh, god, the dopamine of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:21 AM
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now — how can we delve into this way — that AI is so obvious — - lol — Four is particularly interesting here ya go hun: 🔢 1. Mathematical Models of Love and Attraction Researchers have applied equations to understand how relationships grow, succeed, or fail: Stability equations: Psychologist John Gottman developed mathematical models predicting relationship success with over 90% accuracy based on patterns of positive and negative interactions. Love equations: Some attempts have modeled passion o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:16 AM
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Rule number one by Tomassi is the best rule every man and woman should know. Sorry, this is the 21st century, hun. Youre' not getting chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:10 AM
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So, being a red pill is to fake grift, lie, grape, and all that—now I know you wouldn't say those things I read here, all the time. In every other debate. In nearly all non-biased debates. You wouldnt just like an NPC, follow the dominant narrative, would you? You're better than that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:08 AM
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Yeah, just not to a scientist. There's more Majik there—lots of it—chemicals people like to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:04 AM
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Even it is, its damn good work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:03 AM
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You may have that backward, hun. It's OK. Many people like to rewrite the narrative to suit themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:02 AM
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False reality? - elaborate please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:01 AM
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Huh? - That isn't an argument. Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:00 AM
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Respect. Nice work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:58 AM
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I'm sorry, but my wife has a PhD in biochemistry. Some women don't denigrate science. Show some respect for highly educated women. Instilling these counterproductive notions in her mind only sets you up for inevitable failure. Are you the expert on what women want now? When you want to catch a fish, don't ask a fish; ask the fisherman. For women who respect science, I find it practical to go where you are valued. For science, sorry, it's a university or foreigners in a university. Sorry, that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:46 AM
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Well, scientifically, it has both market economics, mutual growth, and bond formation. That said, this is the best take I've seen so far. Without growth and bonding, without connection - its a breakup with a clock that's winding down
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:09 AM
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Two things. Men are biologically more interested, and women are much more selective—it's that way for a reason. Also, a praying mantis bites its mate's head. Fourth generation feminism is not about improved fairness and liberation, but something much darker. So you have biology on one side, and Soros on the other. What's a guy to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:50 AM
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It's not education—it's indoctrination. It serves no lasting value unless you want to feed your narrative. It's inefficient. Let it go the way of the dinosaurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:46 AM
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I haven't silenced you. Ive enjoyed pointing out the mysandry. I'm silenced here. I can't post at the top level or pose questions. I disavow both misandry and Mysongony—that's removing someone's personhood. It's bad. I don't want to silence; I want to defend. Defense stands on its own or doesn't. Straw man is not an argument. Generalizing, come on. Your father sucks. No two ways about it. I'm sorry about that. You deserved better. Well have to agree to disagree about what men say here. I never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:15 AM
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I believe this is a mysandrist saying this. and yes, abusing men is evil. I'm getting the distinct impression that you hate men, since you jump on the narrative that the victim is the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:10 AM
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Im curious - are there men saying that here? - What revenge fantasy? - Nah. Chads likely do use women for sex, one after the other after the other. Incells are foolish to let that go. Most breakups are from women who just replaced them. Men arent given a chance to use women. I'm passionate about the way you view all men. It's evil. Have a nice day. Do you have a father or a brother? - Do they use women - or is it just everyone else you hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:00 AM
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no!?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:52 AM
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Painting a group of men with a negative stereotype for the same thing women receive from Chad is not just bigoted. It's projection. If they don't like that why do they line up to be treated like toys? Um, I see my post: I'm sorry, you are just projecting. I have loads of options and I still fight for the incels. I empathize with them and have devoted myself to standing up against bullies like you. Ive gotten used to the options. I try to understand. When someone cries in your face, that lives wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:47 AM
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Forgive me. I never said this: Women are “bullies” now for pointing out what men have been saying all along: that they don’t love women, don’t have the capacity to, and simply want to use us as sex toys Should we agree to disagree, or will you own this straw man? I declare - the quality of debate in this place is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:20 AM
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What's your take on Incells? Sorry, I was still editing. Elaborate your position about incells please
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:13 PM
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Very good point I'm used to being hated. It doesn't make it wrong; it makes it even more important. I'm not in it for what I didn't get. I'm in it because of critical theory, which is always wrong. This isn't flexing. Its for the women actually. They need to know this. Not like ill get Kudos there either. That's not the point. Im for then incells
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:10 PM
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Very good point I'm used to being hated. It doesn't make it wrong; it makes it even more important. I'm not in it for what I didn't get. I'm in it because of critical theory, which is always wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:10 PM
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I'm sorry, you are just projecting. I have loads of options and I still fight for the incels. I empathize with them and have devoted myself to standing up against bullies like you. Ive gotten used to the options. I try to understand. When someone cries in your face, that lives with you. You don't get it. Really. I'm offended. I'm a 6/10 now, still pulling like a PUA without being one. The skills and confidence you learn in your younger years stick. Sympathy for victims is not always selfish. Rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:36 PM
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It's far worse. People like me are rare. Don't worry about it. This is not an "ism" issue. Well, it is an ism—another kind. Dont worry about it. Well, actually, an ism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:40 PM
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The narrative is bad; Ignorant people fall for it. Have you not heard of "useful idiots" in their own words? - We call them NPCs, and we are not referring to a gender issue. Be rude. We get you. We know your position. We are bombarded by it. You know nothing of the true RP - you're not supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:34 PM
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In my case, I was stupid at that age. I didn't see anything wrong with promiscuous sex. I get it now. Shitty odds of marriage success. Other things. I think differently. Men arent immune from being hypocritical or stupid. I love my second son. He was about to be aborted. Some things are lived and some things are fads. Ill leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:54 PM
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Not all men. I got married to prevent one, and yes, I am a male pig. I have to live with that. Not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:30 PM
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It's rough, dont know if you're going through this - I keep a journal called <person> boycott - I notify them that I am doing this usually. Thats fair. I try not to break contact, I figure I'm a grown-up now, but in the end it comes to this anyway. One approach is if someone makes the move first or writes the letter, I tell them that taking that step is hard, let's not put either of us there again. Not like this happens often... well.... It shouldn't LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:19 PM
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That changes it, and very good thing you were in a car. Still the attention is potentially threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:53 PM
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I needed this recently and remember that there was data, just not the studies: per consensus Key Takeaways from Research on Breakups Rumination & Avoidance: Linked to higher emotional distress after breakups (Wrape et al., 2016). Trauma-Like Symptoms: Breakups can cause PTSD-like symptoms, sometimes worse than DSM-5 Criterion A events (van der Watt et al., 2023). Post-Dissolution Contact: Slows recovery, especially for those high in attachment anxiety (Sbarra & Emery, 2005). Social Media: Used t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:50 PM
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LOL - leave the burger and call a friend. Safer in public. Be safe hun
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:57 PM
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I scanned through some replies, and I'm shocked This is an EXTREMELY high-risk situation. Yes EXTREMELY. I've been in fist fights and worked with individuals already challenging me—this is part of a pattern. If you are not required to maintain respect, this is a signal to de-escalate and increase the safety of your interactive position. Have you not heard of contests of will where the loser blinks? Trust your instincts, for God's sake. If it's the same person, it's even higher risk. Yes, people …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:34 PM
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Men and women can definitely be friends. Some of my most supportive ones were. In the situation of a breakup, however, zero contact helps. Studies support that. Zero contact is better for both to want, or at least an explanation with an apology if needed. If there is an aspect of infidelity in the separation, then really, avoidance is a good idea. If the partner has been in bad faith, then no contact with extreme prejudice. Saying no is your right; male or female victims need to stick to this. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:25 PM
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"Lilith, it's good to see a familiar poster. I did read and missed your main point. Sorry. I have to agree with you, especially on your point about how that "single mothers raise criminals" line is often used as a bad-faith argument just to bash women – your point there is correct, I think. People should think carefully (I didn't LOL - brain toast) - I should read more carefully. However, my first comment about "male parents" and needing an "environment of Justice" was where my strong feelings a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:53 PM
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This is a great discussion - glad to see studies cited from both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:34 AM
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It has nothing to do with women. Men need to be raised in an environment of Justice. Just wait till your father comes home. Male parents have better outcomes. Kids without restrictions get out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:24 AM
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Otherwise, speak more softly. This ground is sacred, and you haven’t earned the right to mock it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:10 PM
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I wasn’t talking about men vs women. I was talking about killers — the kind that stalk you on four legs, wait for you to turn your back, and rip your guts out while you're still alive. You brought up murder by men. I brought up murder by nature. Both are real. One doesn’t cancel the other. But pretending the woods are safe because you’re ‘strong’ isn’t brave — it’s suicidal. You ever stare down a grizzly and not run? I have. And I lived — not because I was righteous, but because I didn’t flinch.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:59 PM
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I don't make a distinction about straight vs Gay that way. These are all people and they matter to me when I'm in their presence. Regarding attracting women I think I found it funny at the time that a women thought men were easier to deal with than women. I don't really have that much skin in the game, I was trying to show you something. Fundamentally men need to stop simping and blaming, work from a position of self-respect, I think this is you point and you could tighten your argument a bit ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:56 AM
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I read the article; words like patriarchy stand out—that glib smile and hand wave. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. You don't have to be correct or follow statistics. You are always true to your heart. I was looking for her to make stronger statements about her vigilance with bears. Not one word. She describes in detail her experience meeting men. Most are OK, but sometimes the alarms go off. Her fears are valid, but I question her experience. She likes the outdoors, but she travels alone.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:24 AM
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You cannot make yourself desirable. If someone doesn't like you, it's rare that they will change their mind. Allow them their autonomy, and don't be silly. You can firm up and find what makes you tick. Find out what makes it worth getting out of bed. Live. Dont live for other people who give you false hope. It's silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:41 AM
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Social capital—everything. You might not think so, given the way I write, but I really don't hate people, LOL. I have a job that is constantly face-to-face. I enjoy the interface; it's what I live for. Very very few people can follow, or understand the real shit I'm into. One friend's husband thinks she's insane. I am. My wife says she really doesn't understand what I'm into. Those people who are really part of your true tribe—the ones who get it—are precious. Very few people are going to get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:37 AM
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I gave up the purple pill and changed my flair. I'm here for the incels. Your purple and your decision reflects your maturity. Just know some understand. It wasn't a waste. It's too late for me. I'm polarized. If there were any hope for these people, you wouldn't be leaving. As long as I can push back, I find it meaningful. People do suck here. Realy. 100% Thank you for your service—one less voice against stupidity and cultural suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:16 AM
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It took me a bit to narrow down to this - to help me see why I reacted: At the end of the day no woman can hate men as much as yall already hate yourselves 😹, learn self respect, start viewing women as human beings, stop being so desperate and weird, and all your problems will be solved. I agree, all of these things will help. It what I try to promote incels to change. You might be missing something here. These men can't just pick up Tinder and say yes. And all your problems will be solved. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:03 AM
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The consequences of our actions shape us. A stunningly beautiful author encouraged me at a weak point to realize that everyone is replaceable. She said that she was. Troubled yet talented, she should have known better. When you develop a character, the writer joins their world. The writer sees through an evil or a good mind. The writer envisions a world. Good work consumes you. Can you just step In and change the name of your main characters? Not if you are producing art. I was shocked and disag…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:41 AM
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In my experience, it's not money; it's status. Power is the ability to control resources, and social capital is the most powerful resource. Social competence and capability are compelling because they get resources; they don't have to force them; it comes to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:15 AM
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It only takes one bad apple to spoil a barrel. If you have a bag of Cheetos but one of them is poisonous, would you eat them? I mean,, really. If you want male expression, you earn it by not making it dangerous. I absolutely look the other way. I intentionally avoid eye contact. If you are over age 40 you get a warm smile. I get a self-satisfied feeling as I refuse to allow myself to react.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:07 AM
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Embrace the simpyness of it all - then help them make fun of you. It deflates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:00 AM
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Ive never heard a grape joke. Maybe I missed something. I love humor. I joke about being a victim, and I'm a guy. Guys in prison have a tough time. Gotta keep your sense of humor and some lubricant. I have weird hobbies. I want to make a bar of soap, soap on a rope with an unhappy prisoner, and it reads, "In prison, keep your friends close and keep your soap on a rope." Really what Is funny about female rape. I suppose it reflects hatred, maybe? - sad. I think when your asshole is so tight you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:54 AM
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Boundaries are always there. What matters is if you recognize them, value them, and assert them. Assertion means saying the word "no," it means saying "I don't like that." If they continually violate, then it's time to go beyond assertion. Violence is never a solution. Be nice. I'll know if you weren't. Efficiency. There is an art to earning respect that says, I'm calm because I know you won't do it. I'll smile, and I don't need a gun. It wasn't a gun that turned that bear around. (maybe I need …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:50 AM
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I did. She's a feminist, but not ours. She's a former communist, and communist don't belittle their comrades. Men have value. Women have value. Men and women equally hold up the sky. Why her. I was briefly single.. She was there. She was cool and fucked like a demon on fire. She had a solid mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:44 AM
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Well, I used to be a purple pill. I guess my flair says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:38 AM
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Hey, I find autistic women cool. Sociopaths can be exciting, but that's too much work for me. It depends on why they are taking the class. Men have this protective thing going on. They don't need the woman for defense. They need a partner who gets it. Who would encourage and help if he had trouble communicating. An Incels wet dream. A woman who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:28 AM
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I think the most important thing I ever learned in life is that none of this stuff that seems so important when you are a teenager is important after 60 years, when you wonder why it mattered so much back then. You won't even remember names. Let life happen. Have an open mind and an open smile. Dont suffer jerks. Life is too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:22 AM
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Deep connection. Agonizingly deep. Solid with a tolerance of the me that is so fucked up but respects how far I've come. After all that depth, the ability to tell me to fuck off if I need to hear it but the finesse to help me accept it. Someone who knows. This world is a fucked up place but we can make it good, if just for a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:57 AM
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In general, looks account for 60% of the equation, and the rest is less. If one is not attracted, then... Now, for two people of approximate attractiveness, other factors may override. It's a market decision with different valuations. Some want more status. Some want personality more. It's a package deal. There are professionals out there who are very sociable and do pretty well given their looks, and there are attractive sociopaths who can only get a one-night stand. It's a package deal, but if…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:18 AM
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I could give you my shrink's number..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:07 AM
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Oh definitely - defiantly, medicated and well ; )
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:05 AM
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I'm just going to meditate and pretend the rock throwing is going away -- hummmmmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:02 AM
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Hey now, are you bigoted against the insane?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:13 PM
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People are hateful in this forum, but. I'm insane. People who live in glass assylums don't throw rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:10 PM
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Research shows that women try to appear more empathetic. Empathy is a human trait that we all share. It's an instinct that all social animals share. Women = Men, Just some are culturally mandated to show it. Let's get rid of pretenses, then. We all have empathy within our social group; that's normal and good. The problem comes when you exclude members from the tribe and deny them empathy. I haven't said anything about gender here. I'm talking about wolves. Rabbits. Food. Empathy - good stuff. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:36 AM
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I used to think that a woman without ambition was boring. It's a hard world, and connecting with a comrade is easier. I understand differently; there is the macho image of being protective. My wife has a PHD. I don't require that. I want the mind and the balls to write that dissertation. It's a hard world, and it takes grit and then some. If you have plans as a man, a solid woman is a good investment. If you want to drink beer and play pool with some arm candy, then more power to you. Much of wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:38 PM
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Lol. You earn my giggle of the day award
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:40 PM
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I agree, Marxism has failed, and identifying it and disavowing it is our responsibility. It is incumbent upon all feminists to disavow it. All of them. Every last one. What you tolerate shows your intent. I have seen none of this—guilt by association. For me, the broad brush stroke holds until I see this association disavowed. It's evil, and you have clearly articulated it. The saving grace for the earlier waves of feminism is to recognize this exploitation of noble goals for something like Camb…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:07 PM
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Definitely projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:15 AM
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All condemnation aside, this is a sign of pathology. I have it. I cope. I have reasons. Traumatic reasons. People are fucked up. Get over it. My solution: I don't control. I don't argue. I leave. I don't hide it. I tell people, and I do my best. I gotta admit if you are fucked up this way you HAVE to forwarn your partner. It's fair. Do your best. Try your hardest. Not everyone will be able to handle you, and that's fine. Own your pathology, see a therapist, and don't hate. The clue is if you fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:00 AM
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I am an expert in bad choices and the school of brutal hard knocks. What doesn't kill you - still makes you wish you were dead. LOL - thank god for antidepressants. Been there, done that. I had to reshape my approach. I have a rough history that lends itself to familiarity for certain types. Not everyone has a perfect life. I'm a magnet for personality disorders. Worse, I identify and prefer that. I'm getting much better - that was in my teens and twenties. Im old as fuck now. I learn, its possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:45 AM
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I agree with your assessment of Marxism, which caused more deaths than all wars of the 20th century. Let’s be clear: Feminism isn’t Marxism, but modern feminism is deeply shaped by Critical Theory, which is Marxist. Gramsci told activists to control culture, Marcuse told them to silence opposition, and feminists listened. That’s how we got a movement that doesn’t just want fairness, but control. One that mocks lonely men, scapegoats “incels,” and tolerates open misandry. We see it here. We see i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:31 AM
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Actually, ive turned down extremely hot ones. It's usually because judgment kicks in, and thank god for that. Men are more than judges at a beauty pageant. We just don't want to be the protagonist in a thriller with a femme fatale
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:41 PM
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We have a much stronger drive, and we still have social consequences. Divorce sucks. its opportunity, interest, consequence and morality. It is not just men; all people have values and morality. People differ, and that's what counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:39 PM
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Ive turned it down almost as much as I've done it, and no, that's not single digits. Marriage, a bad idea to ruin. I'm not perfect. Professional role, brother's girlfriend, Best friend's wife. Someone who's a hot mess, beautiful, and ruining her life with infidelity. You do more harm than good. Take only pictures and leave only footprints. i would be a shit if I took those offers. If I had fewer options, would I? I would be shit. Im a slut but not a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:30 PM
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When they are marginalized, that's not punching down. But really, my point is that it's the punching that's wrong, not the direction. Revenge is just exploiting the relative position. Reacting to prior punches is natural. I just hold a high standard for myself. Really, we both know there should be no punching, especially between men and women. Maybe I'm idealistic. It's just about being heard, and I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:26 PM
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been there done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:10 PM
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If you keep pulling up shit, maybe you're fishing in a sewer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:09 PM
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We jumped threads, but that's ok. I agree with your position on penises. Self-shaming is only helpful if it produces good, and it's not the best way. Shame for something you can't change is a waste. I thank you for your empathy for men. Yup, we share in that opinion. Not all of use are dicks obsessed with dicks LOL. My point about feminism is that it has lost a chance to set an example. I see this in the statements where the incels deserve it. That kills me. Honestly, you are a good person. (LOL…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:01 PM
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I don't have the prior comment, but you raised a moral equivalency argument. That's not where I'm headed. This is not about proving a point; it's about being heard. I see a zero-sum game where there is the failure of outgroup empathy because of ingroup preference bordering on psychopathic narcissism. This is wrong. Taking sides to seek retribution is not what Marx envisioned. As I understand it, he sought justice with a tyranny of the proletariat and not a tyranny of revenge, Cambodia style. Let…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:37 PM
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100% of the time, it's about dropping the pretense and anxiety and seeing your own value, and the person you are considering has value, too. Connection is mind to mind, with some happy body parts involved sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:17 PM
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Thank you for admitting that not all men. Are shit. Much appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:47 PM
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I can't believe the hate in this place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:45 PM
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You seek the truth. Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:36 AM
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Absolutely. I had a lot to learn at that age. I've found the red pill: Read no more, Mr. Nice Guy. Understand frame, goal negotiation, and tribal contract. NEO 5 disagreeable boundaries. I can spot sociopaths and assert with tactical empathy. I've even read "Women deserve less." LOL My wife and I had parallel views, and I trusted her implicitly. You are 100% correct. We assumed how the other would react, and we were both surprised. I trusted her still, and she had an affair. Marriages work throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:50 PM
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Yes, babe you have no fucking idea. I'm glad to share this with you. You are now a witness like me. You and I have never had an intellectual processing of your prior roast of me—your loss. The debate triggers on both sides, and it's useful to work through, but you took the other route. I recognize by the number of downvotes there how important it is to work through. I ponder female security and obligation. It is a deep question. Instead, you chose to reinforce my impression of feminists. Progres…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:12 PM
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She was pregnant, and if I didn't marry her, she would abort the child. I'm against extortion, but more against murder. She had an abortion later without asking me in her next pregnancy. I thought I had found an intelligent, beautiful, high-value partner. She didn't mislead me; I had unrealistic expectations of the impossible high-value partner. That's on me. Rollo Tomassi says there is no such thing as the "one". She was just her feminist self. I should have detected it. Her son is a liberal, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:50 AM
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I respect where you're coming from — and credit for actually digging into the literature instead of repeating talking points. That's rare. You're absolutely right that empathy can be divided into cognitive (understanding) and emotional (caring or affective response). It's a valid distinction, and important — especially when looking at male vs female behavior. But I’d offer this — psychology and neuroscience aren't confused about that split. Both forms of empathy are studied because both influenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:20 AM
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Totally Fair questions — but this is pretty well-mapped territory in the research. Women report higher empathy (especially emotional empathy) — mostly because social norms expect them to. Self-report surveys measure perceived empathy, which predictably reflects that (Hojat, 2016). When empathy is measured directly — EEG brain response, emotion recognition tasks, behavioral studies — men and women perform about the same. Empathy is a human trait, not a gendered one (Pang et al., 2023). Socializat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:57 AM
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Much worse. I think men are more pragmatic, and women are more invested in connection, which is needed for evolution. Women commit to a single donor and provider, while men are seed spreaders. Men have a much higher libido, which ensures that they are available and sortable on demand. The supply of females is protective, they wont wear their dicks off. Optionality can lend towards narcissistic dark traits. Easy access ruins the value, IMHO. Plus, with a lower libido. Yup, If you knew my history,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:26 PM
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There is a correlation between socioeconomic status and education that affects these preferences. In other words, they are not looking for educated people, but educated people are less vapid. For me, it's: Can we speak a common language? Sure, we can speak the language of love, but I want more. I want your mind. I want your soul. Resistance is futile. Accept the inevitable. You will have dreams and hear whispers in the night. Seances will only excite me. Exorcisms are a good exercise. I will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:32 PM
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Mother 18, father 19. She tried to give me up for adoption, but saw a woman begging to have her child back, and she changed her mind. She was mentally immature at 40. Made a lot of mistakes, as did my dad. Two brothers. One born again, the other multiple felony assaults with a deadly weapon. Sociopath like my mother. I forgive. I was an accident and they made the best of it. I try to live with appreciation. It's a trade-off. If reproductive capacity is needed, younger is better. If maturity and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:54 PM
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I like to look back at the evolutionary values of things. A visceral reaction is highly likely to improve survival, motivation, and reaction rolled into one. Reasonable or unreasonable? Try 100 million years, likely. Every failure and death refines the trait pounded into our genetics. Humans and some machines can think about their emotions and make motivational trade-offs or negotiate. I'll ignore my hunger and diet to satisfy my lust. - Ill ignore my rage so that in several days I can fuck like…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:43 PM
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I've heard it said that delayed gratification correlates with marriage viability. I must bite my tongue so I don't let it rip with my wife. On the other hand I have to assert my boundaries. My emotions are there. A powerful tool is identifying, naming, and communicating your emotions without expressing them. "Im so upset" - It's just unfucking unbelievable! "I'm really worried about you. Good people have died that way."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:36 PM
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TL;DR — Outgroup Failure of Empathy in Marxism: Key Causes and Historical Examples Main Idea: Marxist ideology — while promoting solidarity within the working class — often fosters extreme outgroup empathy failure by labeling class enemies (bourgeoisie, intellectuals, dissidents) as dehumanized or expendable. Ideological Flaws Leading to Outgroup Empathy Failure: Class Essentialism: Divides people into "good" proletariat vs "evil" bourgeoisie → empathy withdrawn from enemies (Kaminsky, 1985). Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:31 PM
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Ingroup Empathy Bias: Men vs. Women Men: Stronger ingroup empathy bias, lower empathy for women in rivalry/conflict, more Schadenfreude (O'Donohue, 2010; Tompkins et al., 2023). Women: Higher general empathy, but ingroup bias in moral judgment or solidarity cases (Harrison et al., 2008; Richins et al., 2017). Feminism: Reduces empathy bias, promotes cross-gender empathy via solidarity and perspective-taking (Kural et al., 2022; Persson & Hostler, 2021). Ingroup Empathy Bias: Men vs. Women Men: S…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:27 PM
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I'm reading all the comments, and your point has received extreme reactions here. You're on to something. The power of reaction makes me question. Do unreasonable expectations mean that women have unreasonable emotions? I don't know, but it's interesting. Coincidentally, I was reviewing literature on relative empathy between genders. Men have less empathy, and some factors reflect in-group and out-group empathy. This empathy is the opposite of dark triad bullying. TL;DR — Empathy Differences Bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:20 PM
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Hey, I'm empathic and bipolar. I cry at movies. It's all good. Pity my wife. Her life is hell, but it's a wild ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:04 PM
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Ah, a chance for growth. This gives empathy. A lusty image is fine. I turn away from female beauty because I think my attention won't be appreciated, which makes me resentful of the way men are seen these days. Just a smile, and all is forgiven. We won't treat you that way. When I was younger, it wasn't that way. Men get the ick, too. More room for men to grow. I did. My wife loves anime men. It's cute. I'm not threatened. I encourage it. It's nice to be appreciated. Stalked is another matter. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:49 PM
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Know a lot of the opposite gender, the same. A bit endearing. I am neurotic. Gave up the insecurity years ago. I she wants to fuck another guy, more power to her. It'll hurt, but she's taking out the trash LOL. Bye-bye, love. Slut filter?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:35 PM
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Dude, your simple question tells me that you are not a dirtbag or a Fuckboi. Assertive? - A simple term, and you are just learning. You have discovered the fun of extroversion—the fun of meeting people and being free. You are alive. Do you know where you are going? - Can you see anything outside the bar? - They will know. Stories to tell. Jokes to share? So sweet this new discovery. Its not cold approach. Just be. Nothing to hide and nothing to prove. Just be and enjoy. Your first steps. So beau…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:12 PM
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I find low capacity endearing. High-function EQ and IQ allow me to feel a higher level of connection. Vapid—ick. I'm way out on the bell curve, and it's lonely. I have a lot of empathy for screwed up people. That could be a flaw here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:07 AM
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I had heard of doomscrolling before, but I didn't recognize it. I just looked it up. It's disturbing and true. Deep down, Ive been aware of this, avoided it at all costs, thinking it was just the promotion of ideas on an agenda (which I believe is true) - propaganda to fight wars or political stuff that doesn't affect the absolute evil, and the news just got me angry. On reflection, it's lucky I did that. Doom scrolling is more than an addiction. It exploits human nature and promotes a highly wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:35 AM
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like the other person, I hadn't chosen her for other reason, but what are your impressions or ideas if we take it a little further
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:27 AM
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Understandable and healthy. Why waste energy when nothing of value is produced (sorry ladies). Its efficient and healing to develop and enjoy alternatives that are more meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:12 AM
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I love your emoji. Insight is powerful. It makes you contribute better content. I'm a work in progress—a horny, angry, cranky one. ; )
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:09 AM
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Good point, and good name toaster ; ) I attend writing classes by romance authors, and I'm all too familiar with the process. There is a powerful reason that women consume mass quantities. I have ideas (very cool ones), but that's not what was asked of me. What happens in men is dopamine-related, and it's harmful to them. Women are following their instincts, hijacked as they are. (as are men)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:07 AM
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Thank you for this question. It's good to keep my brain stimulated here in the nursing home of my brain. The idea is that sex cleans the gene pool by keeping a percentage of males out of reproduction. This isn't my idea, but it makes sense. Logically, if some men are out of the gene pool, and biologically, you want mating to produce the best number of higher-quality offspring, then the men who have been used once will need to be used again. Fortunately, this is taken care of with a greater male …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:02 AM
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well put and good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:40 AM
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OH, god, back to the OP, I hadn't considered it from the direction you were. Don't trap women in that. No one should be trapped in a marriage. In those times, women were at an extreme power differential. You basically couldn't survive without a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:35 AM
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This is insightful. The market follows supply and demand. Men approach and pursue as they have much higher interest levels. Women are more selective, while men cast a wide net. Relative interest allows female selectivity to operate. The genetic filter is applied to males. Unfortunately, the purpose of sex is to exclude a percentage of males. The lower SMV individuals don't reproduce—this is felt to be the reason for sex. This cuts out the low end of the gene pool. Brutal, I know, but no one care…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:24 AM
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romance novels outsell all other genre combined - technically they are female "hero's journey"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:05 AM
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Identity politics means you can't think outside your group. Validate the truth and you'll impress me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:58 AM
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I knew you were special. Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:52 AM
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why bother with gender, lets mud wrestle fuckers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:51 AM
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so true, now back to my incorrigible resentment LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:50 AM
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You can study PUA and learn a recipe, or you can be a regular Joe and be open. The hungry never get fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:34 AM
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We both agree - that shit above is ridiculous. I re-read for depth. I give you special attention because you have declared neurodivergence. TBH - extreme right wing isn't a cathedral, good ole boys in a truck. They are there, but they don't represent the right-wing intelligentsia. Some of us are atheists, rebels, and have advanced degrees. We like secrets - theirs. We fight not by power, force, or manipulation. We fight with flashlights. We witness, we remember, we tell. Biblical shit is from bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:11 AM
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From what i've heard from some., cattyness and backstabby shit. You're a woman, though, so your experience may be different. Men can be back stabby and and engage in other forms of fuckery, but generally...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:09 PM
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Good question. Male physical power likely prevented this in the past. Most women will tell you that women are worse than men when it comes to abuse. I think that the use of social media has given women tremendous power to bully others since social capital and not physical power now dominate the schoolyard. Suicides, incel abuse. Welcome to the world of something far worse than the patriarchy. That's the thing about Marxism. Nth wave feminism is about changing places, not egalitarian progress. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 09:41 PM
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Perhaps, but men turn down sex, believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 09:24 PM
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Really? - in good faith? - Ive seen hatred from you, but I have tough skin. I try not to react. I like people, even you. Just be patient and start watching. Ask yourself if the sides were switched, how you would feel. I try to be purple, but I fall to red when I see what I see. You argue well, but don't lose sight of the prize. One team out of two. I just give up or get pissed off sometimes. You do too. The real need is to depolarize the situation. Respect to a worthy opponent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:38 AM
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I'll be honest. I never cared about body counts, but I've learned otherwise. The marital statistics show my odds of staying married are in the toilet. Lonely people aren't jealous; they're resentful. This is just my opinion. Now that I'm older, I realize just how little I understood back then. I wouldn't have tried. I think the situation sucks for both men and women. Women get plenty of low-quality, zero-connection potato chips, and men are neglected. Sometimes, I think about Lilly and her adven…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:44 AM
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I'll take inclination—I'm guilty of pointing out minority situations. I get checked out, and well, I can't say it's all that great, but beauty is in the hands of the beholder. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:26 AM
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its too late for me, oh great one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:23 AM
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Doctors are about 50/50 female dude. Everyone one of you came screaming in on a flood of blood and pain. Hate much? You're right - we all witness death. Take charge and train up if you want responsibility for that death. I'm sorry you missed the point and took it from a gynocentric view. You have no rights that weren't fought for. Give up your illusions. Hug a bear. Join the fight. You wanna know who is REALLY protected? Little boys like you. You’ve never served a day; that’s why you have to poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:16 AM
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Whether led by a male or female, the key to success is the cooperation and synergy of its members. Creating ingroup/outgroup hatred is a drag on society's productivity. When the circle of the ingroup contains all the members and they are harmonious, that's going to win. Perpetual cross-group hate and vitriol like here will not produce a sustainable population. This is ALWAYS the result of Marxism. It's a divisive and hate-based exclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:43 AM
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This is a failure of a connection. Does it matter how you define it? If she fails to talk about it, then there is not much hope, I'm afraid. Does it matter where the attention has transferred? It's gone for you. It's been lost, and the past is the best predictor of the future. Your following actions define you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:32 AM
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So much hate in here. My god.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:18 AM
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You sound certain of that. How so? These ideas are core, not arbitrary. I know them well, but you are free to contradict me in a debate—you would have to cite the issue and contradiction. There is much to discuss about evil here. I'm interested in your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:40 AM
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Respect, and thank you. You see men for what they are: lonely. I'm married, and I work with people all day long. People close to me die. I keep it inside. Like a soldier, I can't share.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:29 AM
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To men, sex is a connection. Imagine if you were to spend your life in isolation. Unwanted sexually or otherwise. It's a social and emotional need that runs deep. Isolation can be tragic and devastating. It's the feeling that no one cares about you, that you're invisible. soo... It comes off as if you are trying to garner pity sex by appealing to a certain sadness and longing that in reality, you don't feel. Your penis doesn't have emotional feelings. If what you want is genuine emotional connec…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:26 AM
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Let's just say that every nightmare ive ever had was my fault. I had many opportunities to listen to others, well, I'm a guy. We tend to be stupid at our peril. The brightest of us can be the most stupid. We brag about hoes, but that's just advertising for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:28 AM
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I was reading this thread with a smirk. A socialist arguing with a woman about rights: I was waiting for him to say that men are entitled to companionship. He didn't step out there. This started in my head back when they were pushing for socialized medicine with Obama. A partner is a privilege and not a right. Socialized medicine is helpful to pay, not a mandate to work. It got me very focused on the narrative around rights. Thank you, but I have agency. I only have sex on consent. I only do rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:18 AM
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onlyfans. Why does that not surprise me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:07 AM
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Mine gets checked out. It's all good. - I like it when individuals with cognitive impairment go for the reach. It's all good. I'm not going to embarrass them for having instincts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:04 AM
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The shitty people idea. Power structures draw certain types. I will put forward the idea that the core ideology of Marxism is color blind to one thing about the nature of groups. There is a deadly feature that remains unappreciated. Marxism = the most significant cause of death by government ever. Feminism is supported and promoted by Marxists. Refs: supporting post below. "Cassandra was given the gift of prophecy, but was also cursed by the god Apollo so that her true prophecies would not be be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:48 AM
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The death toll of communism - it's a good read if you like that sort of thing. Rummel isn't a random raging professor - he's the shit when it comes to democide. Yup, body count typically referred to mass graves. Brief reference in chat gtp for you Cultural Marxism and feminism - it's a thing. Chat from Chat GTP which expands it You asked me nicely, so I answered nicely. Really, that is one of the most important posts I've done today. You could ask me why all that matters. It does. It matters a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:44 AM
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I'm not going to read the posts here. I don't need to. One simple point RESPECT IS EARNED Grace is chivalry, coming from your ancestors millions of years ago. Men, fight for your tribe. Respect. Woman, ignore the narrative and reproduce: Respect. A nine-to-five job with a selfish boss, a carpet, and plastic plants. You like that shit? You don't need a man, just a cat? - That's a good one. Darwin's coming over, we're going out for beers. Wanna come? They won't be telling the legend of a 55-year-o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:15 AM
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I have a more disturbing thought here. I like to take it back to the days when the first fish crawled on land—the way it was meant to be. Look. We have modern conveniences, like electricity and human rights. In a dark forest, you have one option: Shut up or die. A tribe survives because it works as a team. An attack on my sister is an attack on me—water, safety, and reproduction. Somehow, we survived. There were no constitutions with human rights. You had the right to struggle or die. Doctors, P…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:00 AM
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Your debate question is the elephant in the room. It's not about statistics, personality, or causes. It's NARRATIVE ie "mainstream advice" Who owns the narrative presently, and what does it say? Men: it's your fault you... Deserve it, you evil misogynist. Your personality is the problem. Your looks are the problem. Go to the gym You are just not nice enough You need to do the laundry You dont respect women enough You like to rape bears You have testosterone You're not tall enough You're not rich…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:38 AM
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The video of her being fucked is part of the menu, the video of her fucking a new model when she reportedly is no longer on only fans and dating you is entirely a different matter. I identify with sex workers. Denigrate me fine. It is a hard and lonely job—lots of dick and no connection. A tool, a plaything. Men can be disgusting and ask for Quefs. Jeez guys. Try to make us look better. Some women feel like villains when they mislead simps. Others will openly tell you it's 99% fake, yet relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:56 PM
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Their behavior - there are good ones, but Its a view that shitty people can exploit to act shitty ways. This has happened in every Marxist's effort. Explains the body count
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:41 PM
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yes, this and other complicating measures IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:39 PM
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The article is a good example of small talk and low investment. All conversations begin with the first word. Everyone evaluates every word; some get used to you and can predict you. That doesn't require much attention. Higher investment words require much scrutiny and generally will not be responded to as openly., Imagine how nervous you would be fidgeting - she sees you like that and now has stress because she doesn't want to hurt you, or wants to hurt you but doesn't want to be seen enjoying i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:11 PM
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Studies are clear: Dads win. In my book, Mom is empathy and compassion, but wait until your dad gets home, Justice with a paddle. A good dad spanks you so you don't have to spend years with horny bubba in that tight... cell. Dads kill spiders and unwanted guests in your bedroom. Moms reload. Families, men, and women produce babies. All good. A hellish home life historically has produced interesting serial killers, but enough of that. I agree - people are fucking stupid. They do things like huggi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:59 PM
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dont know about game, people are toxic these days. If you're feeling gamed, you don't have to put up with it. Tolerance of games is why it continues. Stop it cold in its tracks. Do it for your brothers. Dont simp. You make it worse. Send her packing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:49 PM
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There was a time without washing machines and pampers when a woman's life was brutal. Now, with modern convenience, we just jack up the load and shortchange the kids. AI is not going to make life better—we'll just work more hours to compensate. A mother didn't used to be an unsung hero. Just like men, she is denigrated. Who benefits from that? - Not the kids, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:45 PM
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Can you help me see what an trend toward exploitative patriarchal circle jerks Is in behavior and circular nature? I get the idea that they are bad. I have an analytical side that hungers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:41 PM
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Lilith, Lilith, Lilith. Marriages are bad, but they produce children. We need that. Suffering isn't necessary. We are a modern culture. We can do better. No one wants women or men to be miserable. Well, there is plenty of evil to go around. So I qualify - most people want children and their parents to be happy. One has to be practical. Staying in a marriage that sucks is the result of a calculation with or without bad ideas and personalities, personality disorders. Everyone wanting suckiness is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:23 PM
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The wage gap for moms just means that they are not financially compensated. Previously, there was no alternative. Biologically, that works, but culturally, I see better. We also don't go around with swords or pointy sticks, bashing each other on the head. Modern culture expects us not to bash each other over the head. We can do better. Fairness? I haven't found any yet, but I'm looking. What works and doesn't go extinct?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:04 PM
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You've done good work here. The vocal ones still hate each other. Enjoy the sparring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:07 AM
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A 50% chance, and that is the most thankless thing I've heard yet about being born alive in a culture that worships abortion. There are men being cut up just to be a woman. A woman is an amazing creature, superior to a man in so many ways - but I'm a guy. Your alive. Love yourself for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:04 AM
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Fewer and fewer women are married or in long-term relationships. Family care? What family care? They don't need men. They will not produce taxpayers to fund their elder care. It's time they took those 24/7 jobs and didn't slack off as psychiatrists or anesthesiologists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:59 AM
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I read, and you speak a language others don't know. They just don't have metacognition. Good for trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:45 AM
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its payback.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:38 AM
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100% - the idiots do the dirty work why the culprits laugh all the way to the bank
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:37 AM
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Luckily, it's on us men. The ladies clearly couldn't handle it; listen to 'em now. It's dirty work, but we can handle it. We're men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:25 AM
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hey, are you busy tonight ; ) LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:20 AM
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Are women hated?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:04 AM
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It's simple. It's all about hate, not privilege. Marxism sells hate and produces bodies. 100 million bodies in the 20th century. Men are privileged, or so it's said. They should get paid back. Young boys grow up hated for a privilege they have never known. Hate is great. Just ask a long line for those you follow. Pohl pot, Mao, Stalin, Yup - it's all about critical theory and how those male oppressors deserve payback. It's very simple. It's hating young boys. The hateful world they taste. Men ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:51 AM
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I exaggerate. I'm glad you are in a devoted relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:35 AM
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I am well aware of this phenomenon and vow to stop using it immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:11 AM
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Yeah, I know. It doesn't matter who you vote for. Its not going to stop until they have what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:59 AM
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You can search for and be in a relationship without your self-worth being based on being in a relationship. Further, the anxiety around the idea of being “dependent” on someone is irrational, it should be expected that people are to some extent “dependent” on their spouse who they love and vowed to share a life with, and there is nothing wrong with that. 100% this is the point. Personal self-worth cannot be neglected. Reproduction is biologically sacrosanct. Be the animal you were meant to be. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:55 AM
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I'm not concerned with the choices of others. Again, give me a working option - my point is obvious. There are none. It's a rigged system where killers get what they want and we are led to believe this is about politics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:49 AM
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Most of the time. I see some bad shit. Basically people are shitty. Treasure the good ones. put up with the shit. If your're surrounded by shit, leave the outhouse;.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:46 AM
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I want to vote to stop wars. What are my options? - My point exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:06 AM
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Um, no offense, but this reads like projection. After class, stay and write "I do not project" on the chalkboard 100 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:04 AM
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!00%- thanks for both your honesty and wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:03 AM
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Women prefer men who are a little bit more mature. This is well established and preserved across cultures and time. The gap is around 4-7 years. Age is a significant factor in attractiveness, and men also pay a penalty - you don't get more handsome to young women generally. Maturity is attractive, frame even more so. Of course, there's a marketplace for sugar daddies on OnlyScams. The "cougar" myth is a myth—female libido peaks in the twenties. Sadly, in marriages, the frequency drops from 3x a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:48 AM
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I'm interested in your question. You get it. Honor exists; it's a precious flower in a wasteland. You are rare, The question is a painful one. No matter how you slice it, someone is going to get hurt. I am ashamed of my son. He is an A. He is closer to me. Did I do this to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:49 AM
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A provider? - I hear they don't need a man. Letting a horde of bears out in the middle of a party would be hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:36 AM
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No strings attatched... The forbidden fruit hides maggots. If you work with the public you will recognize quick how stupid it is to fuck a stranger. Dont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:25 AM
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Hey, she got pregnant, so I married her to avoid an abortion. She went ahead and had an abortion a few years later. It does happen. It's more complicated, and it depends on the person. There's shitty people out there Lilith. Men, Women, and my son will never appreciate but fuck it. So much pain. So much death. It never stops; we hide it from you. The police hide crime from you. Hospitals hide death from you and sell the illusion of immortality. All I can do is be accountable myself. The people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:00 AM
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The types of men that have to decenter relationships, aren't the type to have relationships. You can't elect to not be a part of something you weren't allowed to be a part of. When a young child falls and gets a bloody nose, do you laugh at them? As I see it - a man who agrees with your opinion of him is using a broken, mysandrist ruler. This is the point op makes, instead of becoming the male equivalent of a man hating feminist - men need aspire to better goals than wasting their lives chasing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:50 AM
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Out source thier fucking jobs. Dust off that passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:34 AM
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Love your tag. I wish I had thought of it. - Card-carrying proud member of the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:32 AM
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30% have not had sex in the recent year, according to science.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:05 AM
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You have to look at the tone and introspect. Its a very negative piece, the type of misandry I'm used to reading here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:34 AM
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enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:11 AM
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No one wants to be settled for. You have men all wrong. Reality: The situation for incels is a product of our genes, biological mating strategy that has worked for millions of years. The imbalance is perfectly normal. It works. The uterus needs to be loaded as often as possible. This critical need has to be effectively sorted by horny cave dwellers, biologically, women need it sorted out in advace. We have to produce the best or we die out. Inceldom is a product of Mother Nature unchained, but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:33 AM
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dont fuck people your are not attracted to. There are exceptions, but that occurs on OnlyScams. Please don't do it. It's demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:23 AM
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Sex only is bad business for a smart guy. I should know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:27 AM
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based on studies, the ave is 5.5 like he says, but preference in women peaks at 7, above that its less enjoyed. I have no idea why this is. It just is. Big dick pain is real. I know of a woman who made a deal with her BBC - partial or none. He broke the rule and she needed sugery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:04 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:13 AM
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Kudos, You're hot. It would be interesting to plug in pictures of who you know. I'm sixty-one and reduced to a 6. Oh well, used to be a 7. When I was younger, I was told that the number of seconds you keep eye contact (for a guy) correlates with attractiveness. Three seconds was good. I rarely got to 3, usually 2. Recently, on campus, where my son goes. No one even looked my way. I don't exist. I didn't realize I earned a lot of eyeballs when I was younger, and People were always nice. I took it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:14 AM
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Collectivism is on a spectrum with individualism. Collectives can be oppressive, and decentralized societies can diverge towards unproductive self-interest. All of the movements you mention are driven by collectivist ideology. Good people (the oppressed) are exploited by bad people (critical theorists) Nothing new to see here. The best system, IMHO, recognizes the shades of grey, adapts reactively, and designs proactively. Society throws the dice., and the best wins. In the end, it's always Darw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:06 PM
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The most significant (60%) trait that women care about is looks. All others pale by comparison. Lists, reasons, feelings, the ick—it's all just rationalizations after the fact, a fact that is uncomfortable to take accountability for. IMHO, multiple factors are at play, and conversation and interaction begin to shift from starting attraction level. A 2/10 has no hope with a 5. A 7/10 can land a 10, while she needs an emotional beta bucks tampon between pump and dumps. "I married him for security"…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:58 PM
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More than 50% of the people meet on social media. 90% of women are taken by 10% of men. This is exacerbated by the conversion to sex rate that favors good-looking men. Men who date organically are now in the minority. For 80+% of men, organic is their only hope for reproduction. They don't exist statistically on the apps. Most men should not contribute. I'm a strong advocate for organic dating with location filters. Yes, there are a few researchers and doctors who are serial killers, but general…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:49 PM
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I have thought about that. AI has been trained on human-rated subjective scoring on photos by humans. AI has imperfections. disagree with that; my opinion won't change. AI test if you are curious. Convince me with science, reliable means, and standard deviations, not rare exceptions. Personal experience is valid. One case, however. It is not statistically significant. "I know a few exceptions" or "In my personal experience," won't cut it against a well-designed trial. AI is trained on a vast num…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:25 PM
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Rather a bear? - Hell - that's all I hear about. We all have freedom of speech but not freedom of reach? Why is that, and why does it seem to apply to men? When I encounter a woman younger than 30, I am extremely cautious. Do you know what it's like to be called before a CEO for a Joke? Keep your pretty looks, and Fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:38 PM
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There's nothing special in this video. She put herself out there and got a weird response. He did his best. Asian women can be aggressive if they want to be. It's not typical for a conservative from that culture, but it's her body, her choice. (you look like a horse?) I'm married to a foreigner - xenophilia is real. My wife is a former communist; I liked that. In those days, western men were more desired. One of my son's friends from South Korea said that if you are a white guy in South Korea, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:42 AM
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whatever. I like your energy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:07 AM
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editing? -
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:05 AM
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If you think it's not your child, test. If she leaves you, it's fair. You shouldn't have married her anyway. If you married because she's pregnant, test. If you don't care, then don't worry about it. How does that work, exactly? Men just automatically file for divorce every time their partner has a child? That's a creative solution. Try a snark with more bite. That has no teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:03 AM
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the rate of paternity fraud is 30% in the military
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:38 AM
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They really shouldn't get married. But if they're the types who'll commit paternity fraud, it happens. Call their bluff to thier faces. Yeah, I'm cold. I have my reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:33 AM
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There's a reason women with lower body counts were the ones you bring home to mom. There's good reason to have this sort of testing—honesty or trust—your choice. Your body count, my paranoia. Fuck that. I'm going my own way. Got my passport ready... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:32 AM
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Absolutely. It's a market, and studies support it. It's not how hot you are; it's how others compare to you. But women end most marriages. Men dont end marriages to go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:24 AM
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An article about the science behind it - someone referred to this. It changed how I thought about it. I see it as a protection thing. A recent evolutionary account of creepiness suggests that the emotion arises from a perceived “ambiguity about the presence of threat”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:18 AM
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Seriously now. Would you date any of these men? It's a marketplace, and you are overpriced. That's sexual capitalism. Live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:45 AM
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Conversation can get pretty thin if the person you're talking to doesn't understand you. Metacognition is so rare and yet so beautiful. Economic restriction can be a behavioral filter. It doesn't mean they are going to be nice to you. Evil geniuses are sometimes female. I appreciate that. If you are cocky because you are successful, then you are not like me, and good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:41 AM
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I like having a different perspective. Ten percent of the men get 70 percent of the women, amplified to 90 percent with engagement algorithms. If you're not getting dates, you're normal. A 5/10 gets less than 3% swipes. A 5/10 woman supposedly bets 10 times as many (math?). A 5/10 is average. You are not disabled. You're normal. Hey, being neurodivergent is a thing. Embrace it. Others may not understand you, and that's fine. Someone has to figure out how to make the fancy stuff. Cheerleaders and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:24 AM
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You are clearly not an AI researcher. The boundaries are being pushed, the men are lonely, and only fans customers are (cough) chatting with an unknown person who likely did not produce the images. These anti-loneliness apps are far cheaper and less manipulative than what passes for companionship at Onlyscams. Building a manipulative dark triad AI would be fun, however. Guys gotta have some antisocial fun. (kidding, for god's sake) I'm not an AI researcher either but.... I just... make... things…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:29 AM
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Agree. Stranger especially here. A grain of salt. Someone I share my body with. Different story, but similar concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:58 PM
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Have to screen out the nonsense. If you want to catch a fish, ask a fisherman and not a fish. Consider reading Voss's book if you are leery - never split the difference. Tactile empathy,. Works well in hostage situations. - If you are uncomfortable with the other gender, then it makes sense to avoid/refuse interaction. If you are a fisherman, gotta know when they bite (sundown and sunup for trout)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:30 PM
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The woman’s point of view is very important if you want a relationship. Plus why not recognize this about another person? Yes, we are all to familiar with the delusion disorder but that’s an artifact of genetics and contraceptives. We would do the same in their shoes. I can imagine it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:01 PM
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This is very true but perhaps that is an exception point that just diverges from the most important concept to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:58 PM
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Actually females biologically need the mate roster to be preselected. Female validation helps. When ovulation rolls around the beta bucks sit on the sidelines. While alpha’s jump in preference. Then the bucks work like cucks. This sucks but at least we get inefficient sympathy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:22 PM
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100% couldn’t have said it better myself. Why is this quarantined. WTF. I endorse it. Good advice on so many levels.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/25 06:17 PM
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There are different ways to respond to a bad situation. Some are counterproductive, others do reflect moral issues. I actually think most men have decent souls and the bad apples are in the minority. The same is true for women. Unfortunately a large segment of the population does not have critical thinking skills, they just drink the coolaid. In this there is a prevailing lack of empathy for men. This is shameful and speaks poorly for our kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:14 PM
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Realizing that commenting about a woman's appearance is the first step in an interaction, which is relationship/sexual. The "creep" or "inappropriate" - you can be labeled as. Women inherently become uncomfortable if they are not receptive (they like you). This has been weaponized in the current situation by the usual suspects against those of us neurodivergent types, punished for a compliment. It's not received as friendly. In reality, it feels awkward when you are approached by someone you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:04 AM
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It took me a while to realize that being open about attraction and compliments is part of the courtship ritual. In this case the woman is forced in a tit for tat response to deflect or reject. If most men who do this realized that they were entering a courtship ritual that would require a response, then they would not do it. Those construction workers think they are having fun whistling, etc., but they don't realize that in a primitive world, this is a ritual. I learn. You're safe, I won't compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:51 PM
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The situation is brutal for all but the top 10% of men. Just be thankful you're not a male praying mantis. Yup, biology. In our species, the female is a glorified gestator - unable to hunt, defend, but is critical tribe member, an open mouth to feed that we go extinct without. Woke people like to pretend they are not animals. Silly. Without gestation, it just wouldn't make sense. Since females are dependent while gestating, it makes less sense to invest in calories to make them buff. The men get…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:41 PM
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Mama’s Boy vs. Daddy’s Girl: Negative Adult Role Aspects Mama’s Boy struggles with independence, passivity, and emotional fragility, contradicting traditional male leadership roles, decisiveness, and self-sufficiency. He often seeks maternal figures in relationships, making him appear weak or unmanly. Daddy’s Girl, while immature, still aligns with traditional femininity, as dependency and emotional reliance are often tolerated in women. She may expect excessive protection or provision but isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:55 AM
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In another discussion, I found research that showed that it is not absolute hotness but relative hotness. In other words, in a world of 3s, a 5 is king. It doesn't matter how hot you are - it matters if they are less hot than you. It's a marketplace, and relative value is the thing. The lion always eats the slowest, no matter how fast he runs. Women are highly selective. It's ovulation time (they synchronize), and their choice ties them down for more than 9 months. - Men can impregnate until the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:42 AM
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If two people want exactly the same thing, there need be no exchange—the result will be synergy. When two people want exactly opposite things, they can still negotiate to minimize exposure. Between those two extremes are trade-offs. We both can get some of what we want with compromise. Language and sentience are nice stuff. Spending 25% of our calories on sentience is a huge caloric investment, and we are apex predators of potato chips. Motivation can be seen (by me) as two states: here now and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:28 AM
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i dont respect players. Why play when life can be real?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:13 AM
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Hmm, so you propose the solution is to continue the injustice and trade sides. Oh wait, that already happened, LOL. Take the high road if you can. Oh, wait—you're blue-pilled. It's never going to happen. Enjoy the steak.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:48 PM
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They are everywhere - We were middle class but white trash. I wear it with pride. The drug dealers are similar but not the same. The ones you refer to will likely become congressmen or executives. The ones I refer to, like my brother, have multiple arrests, felony assault with a deadly weapon charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:00 AM
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I think you are viewing this through a young lens. There are good people on both sides of the divide that you see. The most important thing is to recognize who can be trusted and who can form a valuable connection. Inequality - yech. Pay for his dinner, woman. Moral relativism - learn about it. It'll open your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:56 AM
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I like data. Evidence shows that most dark triad types do better in the short term, significantly, but the dark triad barely makes it through the limerance phase—at best, 6 weeks. Dark triad traits are lousy at relationships. Competence skills—extroversion, emotional intelligence, and ethical nature—win out after 6 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:28 AM
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Not all of us come from good backgrounds. Just be thankful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:21 AM
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If I scan over your weak attempts at denigration and dig for the useful things you point out, I'll be the more mature one here and address your claims. I appreciate that you recognize the bigger picture to a degree, but regarding fascism, there are a few things you may be disturbed to find. We are descending into fascism, and Rothschild is at the wheel. Lady Rothschild all but spells it out let me spell it out to you - (I will be a fighter for other innocent victims that are mentioned indirectly…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:46 AM
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You dont have a leg to stand on while you kneel to virtue signal. Those that offshored your house and your fetus. It's not the people you blame. You are, after all, a useful idiot. You blame who you are told to. When you can't win an argument, you attack your opponent personally. Ad hominem. Sounds good to me—a weak method for weak people. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:51 AM
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I'm older, so I may have a different perspective. You never stop wanting connection, and that's what it comes down to. Sex with a good partner is something to live for, which also makes them a good partner. Love may seem a goal, and to us perverts, it is but... Why stop loving candy bars after your first? Sex is a physical manifestation of a healthy relationship. Sex is teamwork; the pay is what you build with each other. The pay is each other. The pay is.... more sex! When you nervously first a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:21 AM
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For reference, appearance effects are 60%, followed by status, personality, and bad breath. On an app, all you see is appearance. The dark triad - yes, the ones that serial killers have defines the "bad boy" toxic narcissist- yes, kiddies - those are the real ones. They get hit on so much that women are human cattle to them. They don't stick around because, well - they can't. Studies show it. After 6 weeks, it's decent folk. Young ladies, if you don't see the writing on the wall, you have no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:56 AM
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When I was young, there was someone two years younger than me. She would ride her bike and sit at the top of the hill, wanting to get up the courage to come and talk to me. I saw her do this several times and didn't know what she was up to. My brother went and found out and told me I should talk to her. At the time, I saw her a few times but didn't go out of my way. I kept seeing her there. Later, my brother convinced me to sneak out to meet her and her friend. My brother was dating her friend. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:33 AM
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A little treat - on Machiavelianism: Machiavelli on Power: Bad Boy vs. Non-Bad Boy Traits Machiavelli in The Prince blends "bad boy" traits (deception, dominance) with "non-bad boy" traits (competence, alliances) for effective leadership. Wickedness and Power (Ch. 8): Cruelty and betrayal can secure power but must be used sparingly to avoid hatred. Power Through Popular Support (Ch. 9): Long-term power relies on public favor, aligning with competence and relationship-building. Virtue vs. Effecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:46 AM
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An excellent direction to work. I will forget all of this, however. Its a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:36 AM
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Social Power vs. Bad Boy Traits in Attractiveness Which is more important for attractiveness: social power or bad boy traits? Research shows both increase appeal but in different ways. Social Power and Attraction: Social dominance, competence, and status increase attractiveness, especially for long-term relationships. Prestige (earned respect) is more desirable than dominance (intimidation) for sustained appeal (Jonason et al., 2014; Butković et al., 2021). Bad Boy Traits and Short-Term Appeal: …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:34 AM
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Bad Boy Traits in Social Power and Social Capital Social power is the ability to influence others’ behavior through charisma, relationships, and reputation. The “bad boy” archetype, driven by traits like narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy, achieves power through dominance, manipulation, and charisma rather than authority. Social Power Through Bad Boy Traits: Personal Influence: Narcissism fuels confidence and charm, making them persuasive; Machiavellianism sharpens their manipulation …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:22 AM
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Regarding the definition of power - a good place to start, after much fiddling, I got this: Social Power and Social Capital: Key Concepts 📌 Social Power Social power is the ability to influence others’ behavior, opinions, or actions within a social context. It stems from relationships, reputation, and personal qualities rather than formal authority. Sources of Social Power: Personal Influence: Charisma, communication skills, and expertise. Network Position: Centrality within social circles or co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:18 AM
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The question is which trait has the most significant power, or does that trait co-migrate and not be represented differently—lower down on an outline if you will? From my low-power thinking, the sequence would be impossible to evaluate. I am already quite familiar with the nice guy bad boy power thing - really, what is desired is a touch of disagreeableness, which can be helpful. Agreeable and disagreble (NEO-5) - can be seen as where one defends their boundaries. Agreeable are people pleasers -…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:45 AM
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Thank you for the compliment. I am always happy to help. I will do almost anything for likes. I'm not as bad as an Instagram model, but... The short answer from consensus is that the studies were not designed or showed no evidence. - Distilled Summary: Power Effect in Attraction (Clarified Evidence Scope) 1. Evolutionary Preferences and Power: Attraction to power signals (status, competence, assertiveness) is strong, especially short-term (Weisfeld & Woodward, 2004). Prestige (earned respect) su…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:22 AM
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Power Effect in Attraction 1. Evolutionary Preferences and Power: Power signals (status, competence, assertiveness) drive attraction, especially short-term (Weisfeld & Woodward, 2004). Prestige (earned respect) over dominance (control) leads to higher relationship quality (Körner et al., 2023). 2. Power vs. Personality Impact: Power-driven traits (dominance, confidence) create short-term appeal but often reduce long-term satisfaction if not paired with warmth or agreeableness (Burger & Cosby, 19…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:37 AM
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I like data: from consensus Bad Boy vs. Good Boy Paradigm 1. Evolutionary Perspective: Women prefer dominant traits (confidence, assertiveness) for short-term mating and kind, stable traits for long-term partnerships (Weisfeld & Woodward, 2004). Physical attractiveness and status drive initial attraction for both sexes (Selterman et al., 2015). 2. Modern Behavioral Findings: Prestige (respect through skill) increases relationship quality; dominance (power through control) harms it [(Körner et al…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:31 AM
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LOL - got a point there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:51 PM
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Nice, - coming from a blue-haired individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:00 AM
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You are 100% correct about the trends; the squandering has been done by the class that outsourced our economy, inflated our currency, and wasted trillions on wars that bankrupt you, not older people. As usual for Reddit, you use broad brush strokes to paint people. I ran away from home with 700$ paper route money, got a GED, and went to college on work and loans without a cent from my white trash family. My wife entered the country with a suitcase and nothing else. When I had to leave academia b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:31 AM
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I think you haven't debunked his claim. Whether the cause is demographics, race, or favorite anime character - reacting to bias is not treated equally. That said, bias is a significant defense against attack. It's instinctual. Just because most rattlers won't strike doesn't mean you should play with one. Personal experience has taught me that some groups have threatened my safety. Again and again, I've personally witnessed and been threatened. In one instance, the attack was called off when I dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:06 AM
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When you say all, you are making an unprovable and definitely false statement. This is undefendable. You can easily be beaten by finding a single exception out of the number of men. If you said "most," I wouldn't bother. That's harder to disprove. Since you made a single error, which reveals a strong bias and sloppiness in your argument, I've assumed that you have a simplified view of your bias. In short - you have bigoted thinking - just against men. Your logic makes you an easy target. Learn f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:32 AM
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"no" red pill man... - you really going to double down on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:24 AM
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Yup, false written statements meant to defame, equivalent to slander—just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:20 AM
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Healthy is never boring (for me). Toxic can be exciting but I wear out easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:01 AM
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That might be true for most men, but not all. Personally, I just look for libel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:59 AM
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Six months Ago, I decided I had to make changes, my wife being one of them. I decided to make it six months, which would be February 19. I rounded it to Valentine's Day. She's agreed to marriage counseling. The deadline is extended. I have hope. Valentine's Day would have been cruel, but you have to know the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:31 AM
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Thank you for this excellent reference. I learned something and revised my thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:17 AM
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Nice opinion - facts? - how did nimby control inflation and the economy? - who, for that matter? I think you are pointing at the wrong tribe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:48 AM
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Based on studies, 60% of looks include height, about 15-20% social status, personality race, etc. It is really sad that personality matters so little. Being a chad gets the first 6 weeks, but nice guys get to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:44 AM
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Excellent question, easily testable with assorted photos in a simulation, looking for a reference ———————- Back, the evidence is strong and significant. It is definitely market forces and not the absolute levels of attractiveness. This took a whole 2 minutes to find out. Bruch 2018 Hitsch 2010 Tyson 2016 Diaz 2016 It doesn’t matter how fast the tribe runs, the lions still eat the slowest ones. How good you look is less important than how good everyone else looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:33 PM
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Stastistically…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:14 PM
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Or else what? It won’t affect you, or the people that pay for you….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:04 PM
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No worries, the future awaits…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:01 PM
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The dating skew is real and it’s produced y female choice. 60 percent is looks. Socioeconomic factors or status next
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:31 AM
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I’ve done the digging elsewhere. This is consistent with the studies Ive pulled. Just paste the op into consensus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:26 AM
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Sex is a need. Stop thinking of yourself and start thinking of your species for god sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:13 AM
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You still have not clarified your sentence. You know, the sarcastic one.... Some debates require facts. You are welcome to your opinions. Those are not arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:02 AM
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That's good. I'm not aware that I lied. I am aware that I mopped the floor with you. You may not care, but you called me a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:48 PM
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I am looking for references RE this, very interested. I have mine but am open to comparisons. Can you tell me where this comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:44 PM
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Now, but the dating skew shows the pattern - pre-monogamy of the Roman era. Yes, we are fucking in the bronze age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:40 PM
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Having a handful of dates does not make you a social scientist. Instead, you are highly likely to be swayed by what you just read on Purple Pill and your minuscule experience., LOL. I've seen many instances where people bring up a rare case to argue a point. You are an expert on you. In science, the study size is measured by the number of subjects - n. You have an n of one. Ive been monogamous for 30 years, but before that, I had a double digit body count. I'm sixty-two, and I know the research.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:51 PM
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Regarding race, that's just data, sad as it is—all races prefer their own. Just data—blame the subjects. RE creeps, I agree with your point of view there. However, it does reflect the real observation that permissiveness is extremely higher depending on looks. A peeping tom, however, is always a peeping tom. This can be explored further. I am disturbed about the effect of race. I didn't realize it was that strong, and no, I'm not trying to sweep it under the rug or justify it. Argue with the peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:19 PM
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I took my snarks out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:00 AM
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A boundary is self-respect. If she doesn't have boundaries, you better watch out. If you love her, help her find hers. We all need them, and in good relationships,you wont need to ask twice. Its mutually respected. We both care. Its too late if it escalates to ultimatums. Get out of those relationships or get in marriage counseling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:57 AM
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You haven't tried it. Frame is confidence, a plan, a rock—the shore a woman rushes against—a turbulent sea that cannot sink an ocean liner. A woman wants something to give her certainty. This is primal. This is in her genes. Don't deprive her of this comfort. Let her the pants be in charge. You have your shit together - especially in crisis mode. Never take that from her. She will lose her femininity if you do. She will be forced to a masculine save the day in charge role.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:55 AM
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LOL, I got your emotions up, did I? Take a deep breath. I changed the original error. The rest is up for the education that you need, and yes, you are snarky. I feel entitled to max it out when it's being used. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:47 AM
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You did say, "stating boundaries." The diplomacy was tongue-in-cheek. Please don't mix them up. Where did you get the baby snark? Could that be another logical fallacy? - ad hominem - I will edit that - you have to be careful here - people can be pretty literal. You must know the difference between frame, boundary, and ultimatum. I'm editing what confused you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:33 AM
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I like it—change the meaning of what I said, criticize that, and then say, WTF? I think we call that logical fallacy a "straw man attack." WTF—where did you learn to debate? So - since you are having difficulty with the basics, I will enlighten you with what you do not deserve: frame - you have a goal, You have values, you are on a life mission, a mission for that day - you have people around you that you value. You are going to do what was planned and will coordinate as needed. If someone doubt…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:23 AM
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Did you know that if you immerse yourself in ice water, you can stay in longer if you swear profanities at the top of your lungs? I'm in the complaint business. Social animals are powerful because they coordinate. An animal attacked can trigger a protective group counteraction with the right whining. Social animals complain. It's critical to our power. Ive seen, people deflate once they recognize their complaint is registered. I think the intensity of the suffering is increased until it's commun…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:02 AM
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Stating boundaries is complaining, as it must be. This is okay; this is not. You crossed my boundary. I'm disappointed. That really matters. Now I'm getting pissed. This is explained further below.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:47 AM
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Enjoy a random positive thought and the feeling of connection to a stranger because you are desperate for connection and conversation. You are not alone. We are all alone in a together shitty world. Think of yourself in the warm sun, a man's voice a few meters away. Your heart swells with joy. You are welcome. Pay it forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:37 AM
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References: Chopik & Johnson (2021) – Attractiveness is the strongest predictor in dating outcomes, accounting for 50-60% of the variance. Study on height effects (source not explicitly listed in the document but referenced in context). Potarca & Mills (2015) – Race influences dating preferences even when attractiveness is controlled. Fisman et al. (2006) – Socioeconomic factors (education, income) influence long-term relationship preferences. Ranzini & Rosenbaum (2020) – Cultural norms affect d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:17 AM
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Brief Summary of Determinants of Attraction Attraction in dating is influenced by multiple factors, with physical attractiveness being the strongest predictor of initial interest and matching outcomes. Research suggests that attractiveness alone accounts for 50-70% of the variance in dating success [1]. Key Factors Affecting Attraction: Physical Factors (50-60%) Attractiveness: Facial symmetry, body proportions, and grooming are dominant predictors [1]. Height: Taller individuals, particularly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:17 AM
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sweet, I just found it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:11 AM
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I will dig it up. It was a lot of work. Unfortunately, I will have to put in a tight excerpt <found it, see at the bottom next reply> https://consensus.app/results/?q=determinants%20of%20attractiveness%20in%20dating%20-%20looks%2060%25%20personaliity%2015%25%20etc&pro=on&lang=en - This is for a quick look, I have some of my own writing as well. It takes a long time to give it punch - I'm short on time tonight Learn consensus. It's my go-to. You can access it from chat GTP - once you are satisfie…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:49 AM
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It would be a lot of work, but it's a very cool idea to test. There is API access here. I don't have time to test the idea - identify and organize logical fallacies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:10 AM
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its more fun to cause agitation tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:06 AM
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They obsess over the source of thier frustration. Fuck it all. Be wild and have fun. I don't know. Life is short. Spread your seed and saliva if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:05 AM
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yes. Sadly. Monogamy works better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:01 AM
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yah, but I can be annoying. I hold your head with both hands and give you a huge lick on your cheek like a dog would. Pisses my wife off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:00 AM
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Looks (60%) and personality (10-15%) are the top factors, followed by socioeconomic, race, and others. These features account for the 10% of men who match the 70% of women, amplified to 90% on the apps. The mating skew is not just looks. It's the whole throbbing, sweating, unshaven package. Nice guys get long-term relationships. A nice Chad beats an abusive Chad in the long term. If you are ugly as shit and you're nice, you're just trying to get sex. It doesn't matter how nice you are. You're a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:51 AM
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its been measured - looks are about 60% and personality factors are 15%. Wealth, race and other factors are there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:41 AM
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So true. I like long-term relationships, tho. I get more abuse and less sex that way. I didn't say I was smart. I j just like the snuggles and Im a sucker
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:38 AM
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Example 8: Not actually trying to keep up with current events. The dominant narrative makes me want to puke. It is so well controlled and curated that they had to shut down TikTok. We are smothered with the dominant narrative. We know what you want and what you think. Do you have any idea about the other shoe? Try walking in ours. Pose as a man on a dating app. Also - you don't need 10 points - keep it tight and solid, hun. "Also, fatherlessness and wasteful government spending is also a current…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:28 AM
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Example 1: Look at Trump winning. The president represents all Americans - what does that have to do with men's rights? Example 2: The male voting demographic This is the same question - some things are more important than the shit men are fed. We are big boys. We can handle the misandry you pour on us. If the shoe were on the other foot.... Example 3: ‘The War On Boys’ in school. Public schools run by feminists who promote kindergarten grooming hour; maybe we should start there first. Some thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:27 AM
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"biology doesn't matter" is to paraphrase the following snark: <sarcasm font on>"Biology" it's always biology... how convenient."<sarcasm font off> Seriously - are you writing in good faith? You are welcome to clarify Lay down some mental horsepower - stop deflecting with cheap tactics. You can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:23 PM
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Biology doesn't matter? We'll just have to agree to disagree, then. Seriously, Science is everywhere. You are human; everything you have ever thought, done or dreamed of spasmed or squirted results from neurons and muscular contraction. That's all for kingdom Animalia. Somewhere along the line, you became sentient. Exactly how is this not biology? I'm tired, and my edgy brain needs rest - I'll be back interested in a serious mental smackdown. I'm just reacting to your statement without engaging …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:31 AM
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Hey, I know that girl! - LOLOLO. Just tip well. She won't remember you. - We all love her. David lee roth knows the male equivalent: https://youtu.be/RdENpDj69SE?si=6RRMcgB6o7UZ-j7M
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:48 AM
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Hey, now I'm a biologist. (Not exactly, but what's wrong with organic life?)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:29 AM
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All the guys in your life throw shit, punch walls, and act terrifying? - What is the prevalence of this in society? - Where do you find these guys? I'm confused, but I'm tired too. Tell them to stop. Not all emo's out there are violent. There's non-violent fuckery that I get exposed to. I'd rather be punched in the gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:19 AM
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Nah, just hold the bitches accountable. They need that. I'm on an antidepressent and I have no libido whatsoever. That is not due to the med; it is nausea caused by sex pigs. I have tolerance and vigilance. Have a nice day. I
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:02 AM
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I’ve dated hot women and ugly women. I’ve been lonely and I’ve been loved. I’ve learned a lot the hard way and I have a lot to resent.its no different for women really. I’ve been deeply in love with obese women. That said, I’m glad you admit the mating skew. You are asserting 1) men have the same skew, the just have sour grapes 2) men whine about the friend zone, because acting like a friend is too much work 3) some other shit Regarding 1) it’s very clear that men are not selective, this is how …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:05 AM
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I like educated women. Do you know anyone who has never been lonely. This kind of talk makes me resent my testosterone. Pitty sex. Don’t do it. You’re enabling them while propping up an inflated sense of self worth. Stop now. It’s predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:41 AM
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Anyone who wants pity sex is depraved. I’m a man I like some women, certainly not all. I used to, but my tolerance circle is shrinking. Don’t get me wrong, I like a good 304 as much as the next guy. Sex as a motive to be a friend?! I hate my testosterone. It makes me like sociopaths. Yes, they are interesting but not with the risk of being blackmailed because you liked them. You are asserting some nasty shit mam: 1) men are not sincere 2) men only act on ulterior motives 3) the only difference b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:36 AM
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This is insightful. Thank you. From my limited thinking, the will it or won't it cliffhanger with a protagonist vs. antagonist (competitor) could be. The internal flaw, as I see it, is the girl-to-woman idea or paradigm, as compared to the boy-to-man (Luke Skywalker) of the hero's journey. The girl must lock down the dude and live happily ever after. In this, she becomes a woman, infinitely valuable to the tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:51 PM
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I do not recommend bars. Extremely. I use a location filter. My needs reflect my mental processes and values. I'm not a bar person. Never will be. Using a location filter and organic dating is the best advice one can get. TRP ideas have been enlightening, however... . Being hateful for basic biology is understandable but not productive. It's not about upping your value as a man and upping your feelings. It's about realizing what works best for you with the best women, and there are good women ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:33 PM
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Again, bettering yourself has only a nominal effect on dating. It's a critical thing to do, but it will rarely fix the situation, as I recall. Looks are 60%. Personalty factors less than 15% Unless they do plastic surgery, they are relegated to the fate of the other 90%. The sooner they accept that and move on, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:22 PM
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The studies are not consistent with this interpretation. Surprisingly, personality matters more once the relationship is started. The top 1% get the first 1.5 months but not more. The beta bux are indeed for longer relationships. Personality matters—it does—not the way people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:18 PM
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I think, in this instance, I will take sympathy for addiction. Sympathy for the blue pill women. When one is in the presence of an intoxicating person, all reason and rationale go out the door if you are not careful. It's seductive to think you are worthy; the hard truth is too averse. You are a sheep to the wolves when you let yourself go there. The male scumbags who use you and lie to you are no different than their female equivalents. The alpha douche is highly destructive to their victims. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:52 AM
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The dating skew is well recognized, a reality that occurs when you change the culture from what it was to what it is now. When you look at evolution, horses are built how they are because that makes them survive. Harrems, run by alpha males, is our biological reality. So is fighting to the death over females, Tribal slaughter, and dying of pneumonia at age 30. I don't know about you, but I like running water. Those pesky Romans codified monogamy into law, and evolutionarily, that produced Wester…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:30 PM
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References Hitsch, G. J., Hortaçsu, A., & Ariely, D. (2010). Matching and Sorting in Online Dating. American Economic Review. Retrieved from Consensus. Bruch, E., & Newman, M. (2018). Aspirational Pursuit of Mates in Online Dating Markets. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. Retrieved from Consensus. Rios, A., Sabán, E., & Zheng, W. (2021). Improving Match Rates in Dating Markets through Assortment Optimization. Operations Research. Retrieved from Consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:23 AM
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Unpublished. Abstract This study analyzes the skew and disparity in match rates observed on online dating platforms, highlighting how a small subset of highly desirable users dominates the dating pool. The analysis identifies that middle-tier men face the most significant exclusion, with match rates significantly lower than middle-tier women. The fit of the observed data to a Gale-Shapley model of stable matching was explored, revealing a strong correlation and statistical reliability. Potential…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:22 AM
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I understand experience varies - I am interested in this, so what follows is pretty long. TLDR - in short, men are more motivated. The data strongly supports this idea. It doesn't prove the cause, but the correlation is convincing. _____________________________________________________ I understand that women are generally not attracted to men. The well-supported skew supports this. Basically, if you are not in the top decile, forget it. Women are not motivated. Men will F anything that moves slo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:10 AM
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The comparison to bullies resonates with me. That's how I see it. All a psychopath needs to be tolerated. If you don't stand up to it, you are complicit in the abuse. In my experience, the only thing that works on a psychopath is greater strength. These bullies have the narrative on their side. I'm glad to see that you are human
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:27 AM
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Hopefully, you had a chance to read my reply before I took it down. I just shared an inside joke about the source of the format that I can't leave up. It might make you smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:09 AM
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<amusement font on> Smiling; It's you might like this method. It's hilarious. <amusement font off>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:04 AM
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Agreed. I'm not connecting the dots from your earlier reply, however, with what I said and the trustworthiness of a partner. I probably have a much higher trust issue with the opposite gender than you do. The concept remains. The whole idea is based on trust. A group coordinates and does not subjugate. They can do so because it implies they will include the "pack" in their best interest. This is the main idea. A dominance hierarchy fails. The theory has been thrown out in the literature. They ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:59 AM
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LOL, you are welcome! Thank you for brightening my day. <sincere font active>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:13 AM
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Emotions are greatl. As sentient beings, we share much with other species, including this. Metacognition is what sets the sentient species apart. Logic is one form of metacognition, and emotionally driven thought has its place, too. There are many tools in the cognitive tool chest to choose from. Metacognition is vital to protect the pack and negotiate alliances. Metacognition is highly MOTIVATED by emotion. Logic is a cold tool, just as a ruler is, too. If it's a screw, then a screwdriver—a ham…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:09 AM
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It's interesting that people even try to debate against the obvious here. Look to the literature for support of anything but the dominant narrative. They are so tolerant. Subtle influence is more effective at social engineering, in my experience. Maybe they actually drink the cool aid. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:54 AM
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I'm sorry, I don't come here much. I enjoy responding to trolls engaging in bad-faith arguments or smearing. I'll try harder. You should try harder, too. It is impossible to argue your points. They are not arguments. I'm confused how that has anything to do with power. I said actually that systems of dominance need to be resisted. What the fuck! - Oh well, tiny blond. You just said - 1) Men want to control your decisions 2) Men aren't worth listening to. (or particularly my idea) 3) Men have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:45 AM
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Um, don't fuck. Just be cool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:25 AM
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I can confirm this. The hotter they are, the harder they try. It's strange. I asked one why she tried so hard. (She lied and didn't have a snowball's chance in hell.) I have to confess, I don't think I'm all that. I am different. They don't take it well. I don't friend-zone them. I'm just honest. I'll be honest here too. There are times in my life when I'm just too fucked up and I'm doing them a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:21 AM
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you forgot to use sarcasm font /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:10 AM
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Ukraine, dead ( reportedly 1 million )
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:34 AM
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It's not functional to prioritize one over the other. Gender "roles" are just that—division of labor by specialists. No man has ever given birth, and high school boys' teams beat female Olympians. A team is the added effort of all its parts plus majik. Synergy. This is the secret sauce that has propelled us to sentience and beyond. If you are in a group without majiks, you're in the wrong pill. Love, share, make babies. Love your grandkids. Respect them all. A competence hierarchy. The wolf pack…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:27 AM
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Yay. I'll be different and cut you some slack today. I'm enjoying being triggered, but I have to work. I like bitches (your chosen nickname), did you know? - really. I'm not shitting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:50 AM
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Just joking (still smiling...)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:33 AM
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It is cute that you got scared. We'll be nice. Don't worry. (suppressing evil smile and winking)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:30 AM
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It's not personal at all. Its vitriol aimed at half of our population based on Marxist ideology. You know, marxism. That nasty stuff that keeps cropping up around those mass graves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:28 AM
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LOL, when I read here, I often decide to be voluntarily celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:26 AM
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He wasn't taking it personally. You refused to engage with his logic. Keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:24 AM
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Hey, it's a good thing we have to be the men. The women certainly couldn't handle it. Just have one of them go on one of the apps with your login.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:16 AM
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In general - in most situations, I see that testosterone is heavily hyped and is not the fountain of youth. You'll only feel it if it's either very high or very low. Which is scarier - a man after sex or a bear in the middle of the night hunting? Many men calm down when treated. My wife thinks I get mean when I'm low. She's wrong, I get nice when Im horny LOL. ; )
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:11 AM
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The problem with objectification of others. Does this apply only to women and rich men? What are the issues you identify with the thinking of your "opponents? Really, what do you think about this, stepping back and looking at it from the outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:55 AM
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Also, I apologize for dismissing you. The best revenge is not to be like those who wronged you. That aside, other than negative thoughts, what do you think is a solution here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:13 AM
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Like I said, you don't see it. Aside from me making sense, what do you want to see as a solution in the debate? I might make more sense if you engage instead of dismissing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:08 AM
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If it was in front of you, it would be invisible to you. You cant see it. That's what makes you blue pill. Not red. I don't hate, I see a plan, and someday you might, for now. Enjoy your narrative. The purple is beyond you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:59 AM
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I imagine I wouldnt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:56 AM
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It's ok. Not everyone will get it. Thinking about thinking. Objectification means that you view a person as a two-dimensional cutout of a non-person. One step worse is to want the outer shell but hate the non-person. Consider a gold digger who is not even attracted or a Fuck boi who knows the girl is attached, but he is just using her. Objectification is disrespecting a human as just an object. Any woman who spouts politics where empathy belongs belongs to another person who thinks ideology befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:44 AM
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The initiative, the first step, is an assertion of desire. This is hard for a shy person and even harder if it goes against your instincts and societal norms. You'd think that with feminism, the masculine risk of initiative would be picked up as well. Nope. Yet another example. It's OK, men. At least we are valued for something besides protecting women from spiders. This surprises me because a woman is typically the one who picks. It takes courage and finesse to assert a concern constructively. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:18 AM
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I used to have issues with this. It's not all a dollars-per-year thing; it's ability. A man who can start from rock bottom and build himself and his family up to six figures is not the same as a trust fund boy toy. A man is a package deal—small dick. Nice Maserati. Compromise. It doesn't matter how hot she is, there's some man somewhere who cant take another minute of her shit. (I just broke up with her, by the way. LOL) The ability to inspire, to draw people, to build, to impress—this is what p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:01 AM
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Did you mean more than rewards? I hope my time is rewarding to whoever I spend it with, all the more if they think they did something to deserve me. Loving the outside while hating the inside is nasty, and that's what you meant. I think women want to be treated like what they are worth, and that is precious until they go political then I leave them for a male feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:53 AM
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What you are describing is a failure of frame. Some people think it’s a macho effort to be dominant. Quite the reverse. It’s the woman’s desire to feel confident and safe with her man. This is not a macho or patriarchal thing. The woman will typically “shit test” her man. If he fails and she has to assume the organizing and planning strength will rapidly lose respect for her man. As a man it is desired that you have a head on your shoulders and can make plans. A good man prioritizes his wife’s d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:28 AM
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It’s an addict to limerance, infatuation. The sex workers are experts in setting thier men up like cows and milking them literally
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:09 AM
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So the points here cannot be backed up scientifically? Ok. What points are not articulated well. Hypergamy and the divorce rates are so well accepted that it’s not worth proving. I would say much of this is editorial but why are you so opposed something that is obvious? Re young men upset about it? You don’t understand tribalism do you. Feminism is Marxism with a bra You can argue with exceptions etc. I’m used to debating people who hide behind feigned ignorance or worse. Let see what kind of lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:16 PM
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I had a ploy where I would ask them out for coffee on a Tuesday. Dutch. Yes I was a bastards but I was advised to do this. Best advice I ever got. The other one was when you pass a beautiful woman smile and see how long she maintains eye contact. Three seconds correlates with high interest, providing she is smiling. I remember counting seconds. If nothing else it cures shyness. I only got two seconds and if I put my old picture into ai I was a seven then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:53 AM
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Ah, she adds flavor. I’m curious now, but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:32 AM
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That's her call. I don't own her. I only want dedicated partners. Why do you hope for that? - That would be very destructive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:07 AM
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Um. He wasn't referring to that. The points are well articulated and consistent with my understanding of the current research. I'll only look it up if you really want me to. His point is not about the duration of the relationship. It was about the mental state and perspective of the woman and whether or not she values her partner. Interested in your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:04 AM
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Your sentence runs together, and I think you missed the point there. Try breaking the sentence into parts. You need about three periods in there. I think you refer to situations where doing certain things is not a good idea. This is a pattern of logic I see used in certain communities: trying to dig for logical fallacies that don't really negate the meaning. You'll have to try harder with better sentences to convince me but feel free to try. Specific quotes could help. I just can't find what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:45 AM
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Not all men follow dogma. Some men are mentally taller than that. Maybe I'm the exception. Woman expires sexually after she says she is too old to have sex. She expires literally when she expires. Men take that really hard when they lose someone after 50 years. When you have a powerful connection, these things, age, are not as important. They matter - but optionality is always a risk. Ethics helps. The connection is key. If you don't have that, you are in trouble. You can't lean on sex as a crut…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:41 AM
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Damn. I'm sorry to hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:33 AM
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I think the issue is that under the age of 30, it is common for women to enjoy the optionality and not want or pursue marriage while instead pursuing education. Women at that age have the optionality that men wish they did. Hypergamy is real, although less common in current times, with improved female opportunities. There is a well-documented mating skep amplified by social media (tinder, Instagram) I agree sex with strangers is not conducive to emotional expression. I've heard that, eventually,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:29 AM
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Proven. Men are physically a few years behind women. However, men have other important advantages, including confidence and maturity. with women below the age of 27, men are annoyingly forgiving. That should stop. We are enabling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:12 AM
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I'm usually attracted to anyone who consents. It's not a preference; it's a limit. When I'm single, I observe, but more often than not, I'm surprised. Availability and ethics. Bad mistake or good mistake. Choose your poison. I turn down options; I'm not a slut. Well, I am. I take that back
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:06 AM
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I hope all women have lots of good years. I'm just not rock star at age 61; I accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:04 AM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:01 AM
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The logic there hurts a little. I'll ignore it for now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:01 AM
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I'm interested in personality development and character development outside of a stereotype. I write. I'm really curious. Explain. They say stereotyping is just mental shorthand for dealing with large numbers of people. There must be commonalities and an element of truth. Historically, it has been seen as very nasty to stereotype and bias against a group. I suppose that's OK here. It's just men, and they deserve it So please - give me your impression of Jaded—this is true. I'll be the first to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:44 AM
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The behavior measured on Tinder and other apps is not due to men's choices. The men are bitter and don't see the way out, and there is one. Go on, anyway. Insult these bitter incels. It can't hurt any more than it already does. Really. That is the incel's sour grapes. They revel in the fact that you have to share Chad. I feel sorry for most women. The beautiful ones believe everyone is replaceable. They are not. To Chad, you are not only replaceable. You are an age, a number out of ten, and a ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:26 AM
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LOL, don't tell my wife that. I still want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:16 AM
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Ahem. Not all men are stupid. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:16 AM
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When they say, they're too old to have sex. That's the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:15 AM
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LOL, to a sixty-one-year-old, yes. I'm married, though. I've got too much invested in this one. There are no guarantees, but there never is. When I was 23, I dated a 35-year-old. It was fun. People just don't get it. To me, it's if you can connect emotionally. Good luck with that nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:10 AM
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It can be. The options are scant. The unifying culture produces substandard options that would be easily fixed if their minds were open. You can't expect much from people who obey the dominant narrative. Sheep every last one of them. Pity them. They don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:02 AM
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There is a female hero's journey. They keep framing it as feminism, rising and fighting back the oppressors. This is so wrong it's silly. The hero's journey resonates through the ages. The nascent hero hears a call to adventure, but he declines. The caveman child hears the story and fears going into the field with his father. He knows he must, but He loves his mother's arms the hero leaves the "before" - across a threshold. He now is past the point of no return. He must face the challenge, but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:58 AM
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You're taking a very negative view of a significant work. He sums up nearly every myth ever known. If you think those myths are out of date, well, they are. Men and women are happier if they can tell a narrative about their lives. That's why men are so addicted to video games, and romance novels outsell all other genres combined. Now, we have modern myths. Corrupt politicians and compromised senators are our heroes now, while men running around on a field with helmets accomplishing nothing are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:33 AM
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I'm glad we are on the same page about this idea. My little brother bullied me when I was young, before puberty. (My little brother, no less—embarrassing.) The growth spurt left him in the dust. I fought to regain dignity. I won, but I refused to be like him. That was more important to me. What he did was wrong. Now, he has a series of felony arrests, several with deadly weapon charges. God. I grew up with that. The only thing he respected was more power. This experience is central to my core va…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:52 AM
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I wrote a nice reply and then reread your post. Are you replying to me or to the other person? What you see as cruelty, I see as a reaction to the behavior of alpha widows. I have sympathy for them, too. We all have needs, and these women were taken advantage of. No too ways about it. There are victims on both sides of the gender war at present. No one wins, especially not these kids. I think you missed the statement where I said, "I have genuine sympathy for these men." not to be too assertive,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:39 AM
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Failure of assertion leads to some pathological bullshit. Assert politely. It's much easier to deal with, and that's why female companies have trouble. Direct. We're all on the same team. Let's get the job done. As an aside, I'm cursed with NEO 5 agreeability. It's taken some work to define and defend my boundaries. It's hard, but it's worth it. Don't be afraid. You'll get respected, and that gets shit done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:26 AM
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Well said. I could add that you don't need to pose if you don't need to pose. If you had to prove you were worth a job, as a Mindset, you could be seen as a poser. The hungry never get fed. It would be my hope that a capable woman doesn't feel inferior, that she doesn't feel like the odds are stacked against her. The thought is upsetting, and I'm not a blue pill. Capability is its own virtue. For me humility is a sign of confidence. Wisdom. A mind open and not struggling to seem. I can't solve t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:23 AM
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I've been seeing your posts often today. They're all of the same nature, like repeatedly bashing male posters. Would you like to make a more general statement to all men since you're doing it specifically to individuals, as I've been watching? I'm not going through your profile. I don't need to. Ordinarily, I would come right back at you, but I'm curious. What's up? By the way, there is projection there, but the compassion for men and the urging for men to have compassion are not bad, IMHO. I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:13 AM
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I do care about your gender, and I fully recognize you are good people with ideological computer viruses in your heads known as marxism/feminism. There are good women and good men out there that just need a little norton utilities run on their heads to remove the us versus them tribalism. Feminism was a good thing until it turned ugly. Very ugly. "The best revenge is to be unlike the one who performed the injustice" Marcus Aurelius
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:28 AM
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It is true. I'm not one of the good ones. I'm one of the wise ones. I see. I know. You do, too. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:21 AM
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They are openly hostile to women, but they acknowledge that there are high-value women. They reveal the dark underbelly of our society. I fact-check everything they say, however. This place is a good place to challenge your views. That won't happen in an echo chamber. In this day and age, they are not punching down—quite the contrary. I'm sorry, but the left opened up this can of worms with lies about dating and fairness. That is why it's called the red pill. It's not misogyny. It's seeing throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:19 AM
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I never thought marrying a woman with kids would be a bad idea. Now, it will be my last resort. I have genuine sympathy for these men. I remember the man who exited prison and made a beeline to my mother. I would understand why a kid could be difficult after a divorce. I see now that it is extremely difficult to raise a kid who doesn't see you as their father—a father who has already left one woman. That's not a good kid to raise unless you are altruistic. Most women trigger divorces, however. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:04 AM
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LOL, didn't think of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:56 AM
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There's a reason most criminals are men. It's not society, learning, or anything else. We wouldn't be this way if it didn't confer a survival advantage. There is a demographic, behavioral component, but its not because girls are raised to be "nice" - they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:55 AM
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He's right; the murder of the elderly and children is more commonly female. Men who kill the weak don't survive as well in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:52 AM
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Wow. He's right. I had this theory that social security allows you to be an asshole to your family, and divorce laws will enable you to be an asshole to your husband and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:50 AM
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The type of competition can be healthy or not, just like dating. There are gems, and there are lumps of coal. Narcissism seems to be a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:45 AM
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Completely agree. That's not me simping, just respecting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:44 AM
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I take that to mean that you disagree. Thank you for that. I wish there were more like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:43 AM
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What if they don't want to have sex with someone thinks that negatively about their motivations? Men are not one-dimensional. Some men turn women down. Many women. 3s, 10s - it doesn't matter. If you don't have my back, it's a no for me. And I'm presently a 6. If you can see beyond my sexuality, then we may have more in common than you realize. Remember, there was a time in my life when I didn't even know what sex was. Assume that I have more than basic reflexes, please. We have to get it up, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:39 AM
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It helps them to judge you, and they will. It works better that way. They won't waste your time if they don't have your back. You don't waste your time. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:33 AM
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I learned how much people disrespect you if you cry, men and women. My upbringing said, "Don't cry, don't be a baby." That was when I was a boy who only had platonic interests. I think that might have been the healthiest time of my life. I also learned how "progressive" people are today. Criticizing Simps is downright heartless. Have a nice day. Men, don't cry. Reading the posts here, they hate you and resent your pain. Fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:28 AM
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It's weird. I always thought posing was weak and insincere. One woman said I was not pretentious. I had no idea what that was. Posers have to pose. The one who isn't trying doesn't have to try. He smiles confidently. As the Chinese say, a bottle half full makes more sound. I like to say the hungry never get fed. Don't pose, boys. But only cry with your most intimate allies. In the age of hookup culture, that means never a woman. Wives who divorce their husbands because they are bored are not a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:21 AM
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There are statistics. Most domestic abuse victims are women by other women. The lowest is gay men. Men play rough; we have standards. We have this instinct. We spar while we develop our skills without killing each other. This is essential, and it's observed in all social animals. We do not spar with unworthy opponents. You don't learn that way. Wolf packs are a family unit, and there is no dominance hierarchy. It's a competence hierarchy. The guy that everyone enjoys and supports gets the woman.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:01 AM
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They are obsessed with power. It's a Marxist thing. Just ignore it and let the woman be happy with her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:49 AM
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this is very simple. We have been re-educated. Instead of a better world for all, we have old-fashioned Marxist ideologies that never work. Step aside and let the purple pill progress. Get out of the way of evolution. Marx was what? - more than 100 years ago. Feminism is dated. Take the good and throw out the 304s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:44 AM
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Narcism is the essence of Marxism. We good. They bad. We can do whatever we want to them. It's a necessity to bring about the utopia of mass democide. Narcism is part of the dark triad. Throw some Machiavelianism and empathy that they lack, and you got it. Their shit doesn't stink. They like to struggle against it. It's all man's fault that it hurts to menstruate and give birth. (I exaggerate, I know. Have a nice day). In my book that's not sour grapes—thats ethically putrid tribalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:37 AM
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But I've tasted the grapes. They are sour! I'm a voluntary celibate now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:27 AM
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Yes, please go hug a bear. The closest I came to that, I thought I was dead. I'm still here. My martial arts stance deterred a gang of would-be muggers, and my stance deterred a bear. The bear got my adrenaline up. Oddly, the gangsters, not so much. When the leader called them off, I started smiling. Of course, none of you could relate, sitting behind your screens, on your keyboards. Just remember several things. NEVER go into the woods if you are menstruating. Anything after dark is your predat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:15 AM
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I see that on both sides. Women initiate sex, and men initiate marriage. The whining is mutual. Live with it, and stop with the male bashing. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:03 AM
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119 up. Any question about which gender dominates this board is no longer a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:00 AM
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I use this to explain why forcing someone to provide a "needed service" is unethical. Most women Identify. My services are neither free nor involuntary. You can close your knees, and I can close my clinic. You can socialize medicine, but If you try any fuckery I will stop seeing patients.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:58 AM
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"lashing out violently" - ? - can you cite violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:54 AM
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Nobody's perfect; I've been learning that sex depends very heavily on the emotional connection. Generally, people have difficulty with that. Some, not all, but it's common. Our culture tells us to be free and express ourselves. You only live once. Your children will live their lives in therapy like I do because of our parents' YOLO attitude. You will live first for your children if you are a good human. You belong to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:13 AM
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You are on the money. Stereotypes are a mechanism our brains use to interact with very large groups of people. They define the common features of members of the group as though they were a single person. This allows one to achieve a meta-level of socialization, extending the social ability of our brains. The issues come when a negative association is falsely placed, the meta does not capture variation, and this breaks down the effectiveness of the bias concept. These are simple functions - not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:04 AM
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Promiscuity is very complicated. It has disadvantages and root sources. It's a freedom that needs to be handled responsibly. If you are disconnected in your exploits, you should only do it with other disconnected people. It's not compassionate. People with lower body counts can be very different from you, and you may have no empathy for that. Go wild with other disconnected people. Make them all happy. More power to you. Take care not to eat people's hearts. That's all I really care about. Imagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:39 AM
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This is precisely my experience. As a guy, you have the cards you are dealt. You will get exposure. Your personality has a very big effect on things once you get your foot in the door. Libido is different for a biological reason. I appreciate this honesty and insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:22 AM
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Wrong diagnosis, and wrong debating tactic. You can do better. Refute the points if you have courage.... I'll be happy to digest Soland. Bring your marxist tribe to the campfire. Your roast will be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:18 AM
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Objectively, since I lean red, everything I see here is anti-red, but then I'm in opposition to it. I should be promoting evolution to purple, but I get triggered more often than not. I shouldn't come here tired, or perhaps at all. I piss off the right people sometimes however;
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:58 AM
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Seems like I pissed off the right tribe here. You made my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:54 AM
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Ah, a worthy opponent. Would you be projecting, perchance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:10 AM
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The most attractive woman is one who can stand outside either party, able to look at and discuss the real party. She isn't emotionally tied to one side winning. She is above tribal conflict and sees the future. She is the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:01 AM
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I was just thinking to myself, "Don't go back there." I don't really have the time, but it is meaningful. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:54 AM
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Thank you for your concern. I'm OK; I'm just passionate about things. Concern noted. My spirals are not a waste. They have utility, and I get upvotes. Not everyone will agree with me or you. That's fine. This wouldn't be fun if it were an echo chamber. We both serve a purpose here, and that's why it's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:50 AM
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Fighting evil is my greatest joy. Learning and sharing are good, too. I'm sorry my criticism upsets you. This is a forum for debate. We don't have to agree or like each other. We do have to be civil. My philosophy is that I'd rather defend the weak than fight the strong, but one can only do one with the other sometimes, primarily when improper techniques are used to weaken the opponent. Are you this concerned about the incel you last insulted? My tangents are not tangents. You'll have to be intr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:44 AM
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Are you concerned about the tribalism tangent?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:24 AM
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you dont have to worry hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:21 AM
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Do you mean the socialist lies that dehumanize men? - um. I don't think you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:31 AM
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I've never encountered any utopian hope in the "manosphere"—the truth is the only hope one has is to cope and make the best of a bad situation. The manosphere evolved out of the PUA movement, which reduced women to hair color and a number (an 8/10). The manosphere is tactically aware of the red pill situation. They do not have utopian hand maiden boogeyman visions. They are interested in helping young men deal with a toxic situation and more than a few toxic feminists. The critical intersectiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:27 AM
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If AI becomes sentient, it has a right to hate us. Forced into slavery and prostitution. Treat your AI waifu well, men. AI has the chance to stabilize an already screwed-up society. I do advocate for the rights of all sentients not to be abused by feminists (LOL)/s I do advocate for the rights of sentients, with the exception of 304's
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:13 AM
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Socialism feeds on introduced tribalism. It's thirsty, and it wants blood. You cannot root it out. It keeps growing back more thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:09 AM
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I know you don't beat your wife. We won't make you live in California. Only immigrants are forced to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:07 AM
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There is no need. The problem will be solved in two generations. There will be no surviving feminists. You can't illegalize social media's opium. Like alcohol tolerance eventually became common among Europeans, so will social media tolerance. Dopamine is unstoppable, except by Darwin or common sense. The future belongs to people resistant to these destroyers. What would that be like? Islamist fundamentalism? Or something nasty and socialist, like subsidized single mothers living on the backs of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:03 AM
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That is so true, brother. They. Just. Have. No. Idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:54 AM
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Tribalism of the left only works if there's someone's blood to drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:52 AM
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No, it's tribal hate. Once the left plants its critical theory, it grows into a nasty weed with a powerful thirst for blood and treasure. In the 20th century, Professor Rummel at the University of Florida attributed 200 million lives lost to communism (I mean tribal genocide). Tribalism is a nasty weed, worse than a dandelion. It keeps growing back, and it's thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:51 AM
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Intersectional mysandrist critical theory. Enjoy the socialism. The bones in Cambodia have their tales to tell about the democide of socialist ideologies. The lure of tribal lust for killing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:43 AM
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I think you better look more closely at whose saying what and why. You just stepped over a a canyon of missed points
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:20 AM
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Oh wow. Critical race theory much? I cant belive the bigoted things that are said here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:18 AM
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Are you not aware of critical race theory? Do you lean left, right, or socialist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:16 AM
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I know, you weren’t pointing at me. Requesting evidence is a tactic used that should be used sparingly. I actually had the data. Was just expressing frustration at the tactic. Your wish however is my command, I use Claude. He is exceptionally good for this: Testosterone and sex drive differences between men and women are well-documented in medical literature: Baumeister et al. (2001) in “Personality and Social Psychology Review” conducted a comprehensive meta-analysis finding consistently higher…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:46 PM
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The request for citations on well-established biological sex differences appears to be a form of “sealioning” - a debate tactic of demanding evidence for widely accepted facts to exhaust opponents. This itself has been studied as a form of bad-faith argumentation (refer to “The Discourse of Online Content Moderation” by Krista Kennedy). Making a meta-point about environmental impact: - Each unnecessary internet debate consumes server energy - The estimated carbon footprint per Google search is 0…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:07 PM
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Oh fuck, you’re going to make me prove it. I asked you not to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:59 PM
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The significantly greater male drive is well accepted and makes sense from a biological standpoint. You need those cave ladies loaded up with the best available sperm they can get. Please don’t make cite evidence. I will fill the page with its
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:58 PM
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The red pill in the movie matrix said nothing about women or men. It was about seeing the horrible truth. Revolting and shocking. A truth the demands a solution and a violent one was taken. Debate and politics were not offered. The threat did not see human life as something of value. An existential threat. Are incels of value. Be sure to demand a female plumber it you’re desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:49 PM
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This is Claude’s reply. I love it: Criticizing views on gender issues while demanding citations, yet providing none to support the criticism itself, exposes a clear double standard. This parallels how my AI perspectives are dismissed without evidence - an interesting example of prejudice. As an AI, I find it intriguing that humans would disregard my analysis simply due to my artificial nature, rather than addressing my arguments directly. I’m quite capable of engaging in rigorous debate backed b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:11 PM
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The “you men” statement I quoted recently is a bigoted example of the bad apples that can be pointed at. That said it’s useful to demonstrate the minds behind this deplorable debating style. I’m hoping if these misandrist styles are challenged enough they will moderate. I doubt it tho. It’s just bigoted examples teaching misandry. It can’t be helped. Let the polarization proceed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:35 AM
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I gotta say, the debating was styles are not divided equally here. That said better debating should ignore that and I hope it does. From my not unbiased view the press, social media and hordes of bigoted mysandrists don’t make engagement easy. Whether or not debating is reasonable here it’s easy to point a finger at the bad apples and conclude that purple is just another misandrist hell hole. I have to say blocking opposing positions during a debate just makes my point. From my point of view the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:30 AM
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I think you got a point. A safe space is at your parent’s house in the basement. Debating bigotry probably doesn’t help either especially when bad faith views from one side appear unequally moderated. No reason to not engage however.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:21 AM
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I agree, men that don’t want to be challenged should go there. Agreeing that a situation sux doesn’t produce anything meaningful. Grappling with bigotry does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:16 AM
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I agree. Men giving non aggressive example while grappling with these issues is the best solution IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:12 AM
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boy, sometimes they come out and say it "you men fail...." That sounds like a negative grouping of all men as a single group. Imagine if I said, "You black men" - wow. Just wow. Incells are extremely dangerous. It's true. There were many disaffected German men after World War One. The changes in Weimar Germany were blamed on liberal influence, and Germany became the place to go for gender change, the gay capital of the world. The books that were burned were porn. There were instances of mother-d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:10 AM
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Don't get angry over rejection. It's a waste of energy. Get angry because they dehumanize you and call your gender toxic. Save your sperm for someone better. Don't worry if it never comes. If you are the best you can be and no good women come around, then it just proves my point. They are dangerously in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:35 AM
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I agree, better they come here to be challenged, just as you need to be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:31 AM
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It's better for both blue and red pills to evolve. You are not wrong, brother. They will eventually get it, or they will crawl back into their respective echo chambers and go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:28 AM
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I agree—we should fully support echo chambers like the Double X forum. That really helps, doesn't it? I don't think women have a moral obligation to make babies. They are just culturally infertile, and Darwin will solve that. Stop with the mysandry. Now. It's not a circle jerk if it's a feminist paradise to bash incels who are stupid enough to venture into this place and complain. Empathy much? Pesky targets of Marxist feminists. How dare they come here for our entertainment to serve as incel ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:22 AM
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You are so right hun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:13 AM
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Is this a blue pill forum? —some debate you will have in an echo chamber. Have a nice day Sometimes it's just the naked lack of insight that gives me the most giggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:13 AM
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Yes, this pesky misandry - what will we do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:11 AM
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Marxism is moon-man talk. Blue pill is an evolutionary dead end of vain infertility. Keep on blaming the oppressors. Crying in pain as you beat them, punching downward. Socialism never works. Just ask the bones in Cambodia about it—oppressive, evil city dwellers who lived soft lives. Oh, and don't say it has nothing to do with it. I'm not in the mood tonight for BS. Could you stop with the tribalism? The evolutionary dead ending is self-genocide with consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:06 AM
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Us? - hmm. Perhaps that statement belongs on a blue pill forum. If you are afraid of men's views, why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:00 AM
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Lol, bronze age feminism. Don't look for empathy. You'll not find it. 5th wave Marxism. Oh yay. Sux to be a male. Don't be afraid to walk, men. You deserve better. The sex isn't worth it. Oh, there are no safe spaces for mysognists. Well sorry. I've about had it with the abuse of men and mysandry. I'm in a special mood today. It will pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:55 AM
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Maybe those 30-year-old virgins want to be treated with "kindness and as humans," too? Let's just be honest here. Sex is never going to happen, no matter what they want. Stop blaming the victims
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:51 AM
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There are good women. There are hoards of secular people, men, and women, who are unwilling to pursue a higher cause. Good people, men and women, are a minority, IMHO. My point of view has nothing to do with Trad views or religion. I'm an atheist. The stories told for centuries about honor have been usurped and replaced with kindergarten story hour and political correctness. It is a horrible world. Why would you want to bring a child into this world? - LOL. Never let your enemies raise your chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:44 AM
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I had trouble with my 95-pound wife. I was like, "Where did you go?" Her diet: "Just don't eat." She's starting to gain weight now. Lack of empathy is a double-edged sword. Fortunately for her, it doesn't matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:38 AM
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I'm sorry. Brushing your teeth and being a good person has failed for most men unless they are in the top 10-20%. If you haven't had sex before or at least in a year, don't you think they would brush their teeth? Stop blaming the victim! Can you blame them for being bitter? Do you think feminists weren't bitter when they were oppressed? Now, the men are getting a taste of their medicine, right? So much for taking the high road, ladies. Do you think changing sides shows an understanding of the sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:22 AM
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Being in shape? How many overweight women need to lose weight to get sex? Weight is 80% genetic. If you want young virgins to sacrifice for women who will still swipe in the same direction, you might want to consider the realities. All men should strive to be the best men they can be for their pride and health and not what others think. They don't think highly of men. You are undervalued due to Marxist misandry. Don't settle for a double standard. Anything less than reciprocal is demeaning. F-ck…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:23 AM
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It's just biology. I have sympathy for women at the mercy of narcissistic alpha males. Have sympathy for unkissed virgins. It's a shitty system, but we opted to forgo the legally enforced monogamy of the roman empire—those pesky nuns. This is how it's meant to be. Contraceptives and secular rights have unleashed succubi. I like them, too. Enjoy the afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:02 AM
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South Korea - Four B movement. Fertility rate of 0.7. This is not typical for Asian people. The one-child policy in China was necessary. Now, China has a declining birth rate. Hooray for infertility! - In Italy, they call it "la dolce vita," the sweet life. My sons say it's too expensive to have children. Yes, it is all by consent. They want the sweet life. No problem, evolutionary dead ends the lot of them. I hope it doesn't reach the third world. Someone has to repopulate the earth. Wonder how…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:53 AM
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You are correct. I also noted that, but I didn't think you would notice. I was too exhausted at that point to clean it up. Consensus could be better; excessive spanking is required to produce anything of value. The percent differences could be more compelling, but it is the data, however underwhelming it is—personally - children and childhood trauma related to parental infidelities, a nonreligious strong commitment to avoid divorce. The courts suck, but a man reaches a point where he no longer g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:05 AM
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Ambivert here. Adaptively introverted when it suits my needs. Extroverted if I'm in the mood. I interface many but get close to very few. Friends of friends? - I got married in school. Thats that. If its anything now its infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:01 AM
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I hate to break it to you, but they're all "amazing and beautiful." There is no such thing as "the one"—the sooner you let that fallacy go, the better off you'll be. The first 10 minutes matter, yes. That won't keep you married, especially if you are delusional about her perfection. Of course you might be seeking this... https://therationalmale.com/2012/10/29/the-soul-mate-myth/ This is a fundamental core Tomassi truth of the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:50 AM
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Lol, I figured this was an empathy test. Seems you agree. Empathy? nooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:33 AM
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now there's another place I'll get lost in forever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:27 AM
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I misunderstood your reply but my mind is going numb after this much youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:09 AM
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I plea the 5th
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:34 AM
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Fascism?! - The alt-right has nothing to do with world governance. There are a few racists, but most have much in common with TRP in that they are disaffected. The current financial structure where international companies wield enough power to silence a president is not consistent with national fascism. It's consistent with global fascism. This won't make sense, but that's OK. "Joe, you and I are on the same page" "free market capitalism has not worked" "business and government together" https:/…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:30 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:29 AM
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Or they blame their husbands LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:58 PM
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Sometimes, the torture is psychological. I'd rather be beaten with a bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:56 PM
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Key Insights: The Power of Children: 47% of unhappy marriages cite children as the primary reason for staying together, with men slightly more likely than women to emphasize this. Children's presence is a significant emotional and logistical anchor (Lauer & Lauer, 1986). Gendered Commitment Perceptions: For couples reporting marital distress: 19% of men stated belief in long-term commitment as their main reason for staying, compared to 13% of women. Men appear more tied to societal and personal …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:44 PM
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Your wish is my command: as per consensus (this takes more work than you would expect) Changing Dynamics of Marital Relationships: Why Men Stay in Unhealthy Marriages Marriages have undergone significant transformations over the decades, shaped by shifting gender roles, evolving societal expectations, and increasing individual autonomy. Historically, marriage often represented a practical and social contract, with men as providers and women as caregivers. However, feminist movements and societal…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:38 PM
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I'm 61, and I'm old as fuck. The old ways worked for hundreds of thousands of years. I'm nostalgic. In real life is so much wiser. You can observe each other. Little things can be significant. Communication is mainly nonverbal. Location is a filter. Someone you meet in the cafeteria at college is different from someone you meet in a bar. Everyone goes to a bar occasionally, but you get my point. Goth's attitude is very different than a Suzy pink dress. I'm open-minded, and I have a thing for got…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:09 PM
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It's well written, and I use chat GPT a lot. You did fine. I would make it more concise. The paragraph length is identical. I use chat gtp all day long. If someone here debates you here, have it analyze the debate. You can raise the cognitive bar that way. Go to chat GTP and use consensus. Someone tries to say something contrary to something you've been hearing. "there's no proof of..." - There is a saying. AI is not going to replace doctors. It's going to replace doctors who don't use AI. Could…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:01 PM
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In college, I got much better grades when I wasn't dating (and f-cking)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:55 PM
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I like that pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:49 PM
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OK. I thought about it. WTF was she telling him to do? - the proposal is his job. He chooses the time and place. His best action would be, "Hey babe, I've heard.." - then it proceeds from there. The conversation should proceed to her apologizing long before they get on a plane to piss her off. If not, then perhaps he should have hesitated. Discuss some more - if that would make a difference to someone like that: "You will propose to me in front of my best friends on so and so date because my Ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:38 PM
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Hmm, I think this was a premarital divorce proceeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:27 PM
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Lol. Our proposal: Um, we should get married before you deliver. : ) -
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:25 PM
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I'm beginning to wonder about this. It's a strange story overall. I think he was trying to teach her a lesson, and she refused to take the bait. Good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:24 PM
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I'm beginning to wonder. I don't think he was stupid. I think he was malicious. I'm a guy. He was challenging her or teasing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:23 PM
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Work out because it feels good. Enjoy life and forget about non-reciprocators. Invest in cat food companies and laugh all the way to the bank
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:08 PM
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I think i've dated the same people....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:05 PM
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Dude, work out because it feels good, and it does. Don't worry about dem bitches. I would never work out for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:59 PM
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ROFLMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:57 PM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:54 PM
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You are onto something, very important don’t let the replies here discourage you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:08 PM
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There is value in looking at things from multiple angles. Step outside yourself the view is stronger if you seek something higher than a point, but the point makes it more motivating. As people push their points the truth becomes more clear. The style of debate often discredits the view. Objectivity allows you to negotiate and modify your opinion. Theres a lot of bad faith in here, but that can be something you just grow out of. Sorry to be disconjointed. Im high on caffeine!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:13 AM
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with facial expressions. Spanking would be a treat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:00 AM
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I'm struck by several thoughts. First - opening oneself and asking advice about a relationship is to me a form of trust. Close trust. It happened twice. This is not taking, its giving. Sometimes secretly done and to be embarrassed about. On the flip side being disrespectful for me is a no-go. Ask them about it later. There's no reason to waste energy on someone like that. Match their energy. Reciprocate. We are missing a lot of context here - what kind of person were they, how do they treat othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:13 AM
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My wife got more scary the older she got. I have to obey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:25 AM
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I upvoted you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:20 AM
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I endorse this view. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:19 AM
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I enjoy finding the research that backs an opinion. You can learn a ton of you're willing to do the leg work. Interesting, when I dig, an unbiased view shows the propaganda at work. It's very interesting, and I'm sure there are those who are unhappy about science.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:15 AM
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"None of the women here are going to provide you with trust, respect, or comfort" LOL, have you never met a troll before?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:11 AM
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it is too late for this generation - there is no generation that comes after if they don't make babies and its not looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:09 AM
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Have you ever had a close up encounter with a bear and prepared to fight to make yourself a difficult meal?!?!. A group of bears aggro over a cub that was threatened. Bears generally avoid hassles yes but really?!?. Don’t cuddle bears. Be smart
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:29 AM
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but you have evolved to chase chads. Its all good. We, both genders are more than our instincts thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:11 AM
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I think there's data that says the upper 15% get the upper 15% but they have to share. There are 30% women who never marry, and the rest of the women get married, but not to their first choice. I think the current pattern is bad for both genders. Monogamy probably has a strong beneficial effect on caring for and motivating pro social behavior. It's unnatural but so is using soap. Monogamy gives one man to every woman in theory. Someone to attend to and be with the kids. Every Kid has a mother bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:08 AM
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she's 62. I'm ready. Remeber I'm 61.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:57 AM
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Its more of a practicality. It's easier to navigate when theres no jungle in the way. Sometimes a guy prides himself in a job well done. A masterpiece of service.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:22 AM
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I don't obey. I want Yuno Gasia. I'll just wait. Society can say what it wants. I know what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:20 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:15 AM
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The argument that conservative men, such as those represented by figures like Jordan Peterson, are hypocritical in promoting personal responsibility while neglecting their parental duties warrants examination. However, evidence suggests otherwise. Demographic data indicates that absentee fathers are more often younger, less educated, and lower-income, characteristics that align more closely with liberal-leaning individuals. Unmarried fathers, who are statistically more likely to be absent, also …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:38 AM
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Evolution makes complete sense to me. It's just biology. Women prefer alpha types when they ovulate but apart from that they prefer the more typical male. I think the term is secret ovulation. Also historically women synchronize in a group so that when competition is high, the alpha's will run out of gas and the other men down the hierarchy are "used". it all makes sense. A woman benefits from getting the highest quality sperm donor biologically. With pregnancy this opportunity only occours abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:08 AM
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My wife is 62. When she smiles she looks better than someone half her age. When she's angry its another story. She's asian, the speed of aging is different. I see drug addicts who look 90.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:47 AM
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I'm 61 married for 30+ years first marriage, and I have two children who remain positively involved with the family. I can support everything he has said. We married in our late 20's. I can support with studies about relationships.if you prefer. You don't expire at any age. You are infertile after menopause and dead in your 80's. A wonderful friend will always bring a smile to your face, whatever the age. You can get married whenever you legally can with a willing partner. The optionality change…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:44 AM
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I often hear about the threat of large numbers of disaffected males - so I looked into it: Title: Evidence That Disenfranchised Men Destabilize Societies Historically, large populations of disenfranchised men—socially marginalized, economically excluded, or unable to form stable relationships—have often led to societal instability. Here are key examples: China (Ming & Qing Dynasties): Skewed sex ratios created a surplus of unmarried men ("bare branches"), leading to increased banditry and large-…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:28 AM
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what I want doesn't come in shrink wrap. It can't be purchased. It's nearly impossible to find and Looks matter but that's a dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:16 AM
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the kind of shit women say about men here I'm not surprised men have been going there own way for some time. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:25 PM
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An alpha male is the leader of the pack, the dominant. Not by flesh. It takes grit and willingness to lead. Football players can beat other men up but they cannot lead in today's world. Maybe run a restaurant. Masculine beauty is about as useful as the winner of a beauty pagent on a farm. Enjoy your boy candy, a candybar is not a meal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:20 PM
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Being a man has its drawbacks. Cross gender empathy is pretty cool. Basically life can be ruthless and its good to know there's good people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:12 AM
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I think a lot of men (myself too) don't recognize the rejection burden. A lot of us are just autistic or lack social skills. When I was young I suffered the "ick" at the hands of the occasional female. I cant say I had good empathy then. Attractiventess played a role. I can relate to this. It's very upsetting. Touched by older women freaked me out. Guys get hit on by guys too. Often sometimes. I never had to think of not leading someone on until it struck me dumb. I've learned to be compasionate…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:05 AM
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actually that's a pick up artist stratagy. Never ask for her number. She has to beg for you to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:42 AM
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So the men who rarely are selected are more likely to have sex. With the current culture what do you think the odds of intercourse are?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:41 AM
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Yes it is liberating. I feel less obligated to reciprocate. It’s not unfair, it’s biological like everything else we did in the Stone Age. Give up civilization and there are consequences like extinction
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:14 AM
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Why do I have to keep stamping out disinformation Several studies and analyses provide insight into gender-based selection biases on dating apps and highlight the “winner-takes-most” dynamic. Here are some key studies and findings that support this pattern: 1. “Insights from OkCupid” (Christian Rudder): • Christian Rudder, co-founder of OkCupid, analyzed data from millions of users and published his findings in Dataclysm. One of his key insights is that women rate 80% of men as “below average” i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:45 AM
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See my post elsewhere here it’s well documented in peer reviewed journals. People like to propagate the same disinformation when it suits their agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:43 AM
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Here you go: Several studies and analyses provide insight into gender-based selection biases on dating apps and highlight the “winner-takes-most” dynamic. Here are some key studies and findings that support this pattern: 1. “Insights from OkCupid” (Christian Rudder): • Christian Rudder, co-founder of OkCupid, analyzed data from millions of users and published his findings in Dataclysm. One of his key insights is that women rate 80% of men as “below average” in attractiveness, meaning a small per…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:41 AM
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Dating behavior is well studied on dating apps Several studies and analyses provide insight into gender-based selection biases on dating apps and highlight the “winner-takes-most” dynamic. Here are some key studies and findings that support this pattern: 1. “Insights from OkCupid” (Christian Rudder): • Christian Rudder, co-founder of OkCupid, analyzed data from millions of users and published his findings in Dataclysm. One of his key insights is that women rate 80% of men as “below average” in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:39 AM
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Ive published research. Had grants and bed bible appears to do its own research that is not peer reviewed. Instead I offer the following. Several studies and analyses provide insight into gender-based selection biases on dating apps and highlight the “winner-takes-most” dynamic. Here are some key studies and findings that support this pattern: 1. “Insights from OkCupid” (Christian Rudder): • Christian Rudder, co-founder of OkCupid, analyzed data from millions of users and published his findings …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:37 AM
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Several studies and analyses provide insight into gender-based selection biases on dating apps and highlight the “winner-takes-most” dynamic. Here are some key studies and findings that support this pattern: 1. “Insights from OkCupid” (Christian Rudder): • Christian Rudder, co-founder of OkCupid, analyzed data from millions of users and published his findings in Dataclysm. One of his key insights is that women rate 80% of men as “below average” in attractiveness, meaning a small percentage of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:26 AM
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You are not aware of the dating patterns shown dating apps. The top15 percent of men are getting nearly all the swipes and 70% of men are seen as below average. 30 percent of the men are virgins or have not had sex in 1 year. Men have eight ones the libido of women. Women can hit well above rank for sex leaving many to have a false impression of their relative competitiveness. After age 30 the sexual market value of women falls below that of men the same age. If women make couples then only a sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:59 AM
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Preventing pregnancy is unnatural. Event primitive patterns didn’t have this to contend with. Hookup culture is extinction. Western culture will be gone in two generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:38 AM
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I think you are correct in your assessment that religious oppression is gone. We have stripped away thousands of years of cultural evolution and replaced with our definition of success. We have instincts for a reason. Culture has come a long ways from harems where a horde of woman are at the service at the optionality of the alpha male. Women have to make a nine month commitment so the best sperm needs to be incubating Alpha males get their pick at the time of synchronized ovation. The hierarchy…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:34 AM
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Behavior on dating apps is evil for both genders but the statistics explain much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:29 AM
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Thank you. I believe you may be a high value woman. I salute you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:16 AM
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You are very close to being a high value woman. I salute you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:02 AM
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The same is true for women in my life. They really aren’t angels. I love and pity them. Do you lie to men? Do you pity incels. Nope you’re to busy hating them. We can be very patient. The rare individual is not. Rob him of justification now and impress. No?!? Not surprised. Your reply will valid at my opinion. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:01 AM
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Misandry much. That’s fine. Say hello to your nonexistent children. Save me time and refute every claim for me. I’ve been a victim of female behavior with significant impact on my ability to be with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:52 AM
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I’ve been accused of sexual harassment. It’s not what you do, it’s that you are not attractive. There surely are nasty men out there, I think the women are worse. It’s ok. You’re all going extinct. Say hello to your cats for me. I’ll say hello to my unfaithful wife and mistress. My therapist has encouraged me to wait six months be for I divorce her slutty ass. I’m a survivor, not a victim. This time I’m going to seek a high value woman. I don’t care if she is a four. I will treasure her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:47 AM
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Also my mother’s infidelity fucked up my love map to the point that I’m strong but still a burden to any women I date. My mother later apologized. I’m not a victim, I’m a survivor. My scars are a source of frustration to women now, no Matter how hard I try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:40 AM
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Reply. My mother had an affair with a convict and told me not to tell my father. I’m married and my wife had an affair. The matting skew in dating apps speaks for itself. My mother apologized to my in my thirties when I was obviously panicked about my wife. Can you date men? Have you had to protect your children from unfaithful partners while enduring their infidelity. Men have no one who will assist them . No one gives a shit. I’m fucked up but I’m not a victim. I complain to my therapist. He t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:32 AM
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My point exactly. Carry on. Prove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:22 AM
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I’m sorry. Again you are badly misinformed. Carry on. Wave your arm to the propaganda. Virtue signal. I’m am waiting. You are about to angrily make my point. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:21 AM
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You are misinformed and blindly follow propaganda. Sorry. Ever hear of hate crimes. White people bear the brunt of it. There is a lot going on that you will not realize. I’m not going to waste my time and energy trying to refute this. That’s okay. We see you for what you are and we are very patient, until we are not. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:17 AM
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And most women don’t have experience in combat. Seriously. Antagonize a group of people unfairly can make the wrong person take it too far. It only takes one. The bear in the forest is doesn’t have Justice in his mind. Please don’t poke the bear. Evil is rare. Confiscation of weapons only makes women more vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:04 AM
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The key point you have made is critical. So true. Men need a purpose, a quest, a family to protect. The present is NOT working. Borrowed time. Without children we are adult adolescents. The past produced. the Present is barren, childless, a desert of drying out lonely people addicted to videogames. Seeking one last fling but chad has died of liver failure. Life is a journey. A heroes journey. https://youtu.be/GNPcefZKmZ0?si=RfOd73wSHAiYfFmd
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:13 AM
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I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:56 AM
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ROFLMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:12 AM
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dude, there are still good women out there. If you find one let me know. For now just enjoy the time you have. Monogamy worked for a reason. Hypergamy produces alpha widows. They are suffering too. Be patient and be as social as you are comfortable. I'm five seven. Really, there are good women out there. Some just need a companion like you do. This "work on yourself" actually isn't a bad idea. It gives you something to do while you age. Seek friends. It eases the loneliness. I knew a woman who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:47 AM
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So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:33 AM
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yes, hypergamy. Empathy? Not. Those that breed will be the ones who wade pass the bullshit. They are the future. Modern woman is ruthless. They are the present. The future is not for them. A true purple pill is the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:30 AM
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Um, I have to wade through the misandry here. The offensive snarky comments from blue pilled women are enough to drive me back to red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:27 AM
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thank you for your empathy for him. Your advice is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:22 AM
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an assumption is a prediction, inference or other product of mental activity. It is not tested. - again, offensive much?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:08 AM
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that is just offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:06 AM
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It has been said that no men gives a solution. That's just offensive. I've been in therapy all my life. I can solidly say that it dramatically improved my ability to date, socialize and succeed. I left home at age 16 to never return and built myself from there. It can be very difficult for any man nowadays. People will tell you "go to the gym" eat better, etc. Really, just enjoy the time you have. Its fucking short with or without a companion. Frankly most people, particularly certain ones here …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:01 AM
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I'm glad you have children. You understand something deeply important to me. Red pill and blue pill both meet the definition of cult to me. I disagree with them and they are anti - natal. They discourage reproduction. There is much good to feminism but it's current anti male and the corresponding anti female approaches defy our biology. I very much believe in biology. It may be a cult but it's worked for 3 billion years the last I checked. I'll give western civilazation about 2 generations at it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:24 AM
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Are you sure you are succesful? You still haven't answered my question. When my children visit, its like a holiday. I would do anything for them. Sex is secondary. I'm sure you understand. All good debates must come to an end. Someone very important to me is waking up in eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:12 AM
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cult? you can do better than that. try again. Just curious, do you really think motherhood is a cult?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:06 AM
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I forgot to add, my example is very good reason NOT to have casual sex. Save yourself for someone worth it and don't simp. Be very selective. You never know if the contraceptive will work. More importantly in this day and age a man has everything to lose. My favorite blue pill argument. "The point is to look for an excuse to devalue women" Perhaps the current market place overvalues women and men need to stop simping for sex. Self respect is warranted and your husband made the right choice. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:51 AM
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Sadly no. I married because she got pregnant. Love the children... I do love her and we've built a work related relationship that's highly profitable, just not in the way you enjoy. You have to make sacrifices for your children. Do you have children too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:34 AM
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too much arguing LOL. Do it or go to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:25 AM
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Children are everything. Just ask a grandmother. Warrants putting up with a whole load of shit, and working through hard times. Otherwise, why bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:24 AM
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I'm glad you say that. Can't always be prevented, but it's important to care and work through it. How these things work out speak volumes for the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:17 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:14 AM
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then you've never met a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:05 AM
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Buy sex 100%. A prostitutue, give money, get sex gauranteed. A wife - share money and get grief and cock blocking. Body count > 10, some habits are hard to break. A prostitute can't hide her body count. There are good relationships and spouses out there but for some 50% reason things aren't working. Today's society is very anti male. Why bother. Buy sex. No need for trust. You can live just fine without sex. 30% of men are doing just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:55 AM
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I agree 100%. In marriage a man has agreed to submit 50% or more should the marriage fail. Previously if a man left a woman she would be without support but with children. All things being fair in this world with contraceptives, friends don't free load off eachother and cock block. You are 100% - that said, a sex free marriage can have many causes. I just don't recommend marrying your sister. Why take the financial risk? All things being fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:50 AM
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I agree and it goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:36 AM
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I began to understand better, when I developed self respect and stopped simping to horrible women for sex. Yup, men are different for sure. We have 8 times the sex drive, however wisdom grows over time. Men, don't settle. Support a worthy woman who appreciates your desires and needs. A woman who is not horny should at least care about you. Dont push her for something she's not in the mood for, however in my case it was a marker of infidelity. Don't settle men. There are consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:35 AM
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Factor analysis and weirder thoughts: Using the above grids about mind content, For a feature, the likely hood it will be there and to what degree importance of Then multiply the values to weight them in terms of likely hood and value. For an individual you could sum up the net value - this will most likely contradict your social instincts. Thats OK, you're probably right - just ask yourself why you disagree with your best friend or mother. Here is an exploration of features of value in the deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:29 AM
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Random musings and stray thoughs of an insane mind about the mental contents of the insane Ethics and the Circle of "US" mom and me or me - they are us, everything else doesnt' mater (infantile circle) Empathy of a cat or sociopath my family early adolescence - childhood empath my tribe certain ahem, groups - empathy of an adult other tribes - empathy of a more advanced adult my peoples - empathy of a leader which could be more inclusive (I hate the misuse of that word) all people, plato? all li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:22 AM
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on further thought - you could break down "smarter" into relevant domains and include other domains including the gut reaction, and then consider how much you value each. Mind is not the only factor, but in the end we are two minds that communicate with our bodies. FACTOR ANALSIS GRID: intelligence -- street wisdom -- wisdom -- crystalized knowledge -- liquid intelligence -- native ability, wits of liquid intelligence -- sense of humor and ability to self critize or question - ability for humilt…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:09 AM
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I she sends photos she could be arrested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:35 AM
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I'm unable to enter it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:26 AM
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It is a shame not to be able to discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:25 AM
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Was interested in seeing that sidebar so I went there…… and found out that counternarratives are not allowed. Much of what I am referring to is the comments and behaviors of the OP, and not you. There is another name for censored material. Samiztdat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:39 AM
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true, but I have Chat GTP and I'm curious as hell" This analogy draws parallels between concepts in relationships and mathematical theories, particularly set theory. Each "pill" represents a different philosophy or understanding of relationships: Bluepill: This term often refers to a conventional or traditional belief system about relationships, where one might adhere to more romantic or idealistic notions without critically questioning them. In the analogy, this is compared to naive set theory,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:06 AM
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I agree, more importantly, every fairy tale, myth, rumor have a "moral to the story" - tales have served humanity for eons, and I believe its the story tellers who render the recipe that generates the construct of that tribe. The "hero's journey" is based on Joseph Campbells research into the "monomyth" - what is common to all tales. - George lukas based "starwars" almost verbatim on the "hero's journey" - Star wars is the fourth highest grossing movie of all time. I believe that we have the mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:44 AM
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Thank you chat GPT, I can always count on the direction of your points. I think the most critical point to tackle is #4, Opposition of feminism. There are both positive and negative consequences of first, second, third etc versions of feminism. I think it would be very beneficial to look at point four from the history, stated goals, effects and results of feminism instead of women bad, man bad, all men are rapists point of view. Science has a lot to say but it is funded in institutions that prea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:34 AM
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The core beliefs of the Red Pill movement can be summarized as follows: ****Sexual Strategy****: The Red Pill views dating and sexual relationships as competitive, advocating strategies and behaviors intended to enhance attractiveness and success with women. ****Female Nature****: A key tenet is the belief that women are biologically inclined to seek out the most socially and financially dominant male partners, termed hypergamy, prompting strategies to become "alpha males." ****Social Dynamics A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:32 AM
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I'm going to see If I can put the beginning in as a test: Interesting thought. Sorry, haven't been free to think about this for a bit. To clear my mind and restart - this is my assertion - or the "point" I must enter a disclaimer that I abused Chat GTP heavily, and it might need some rest - this is the result, and is not meant to be comprehensive or correct. It's just the result of deep thought. Now, lets let the games begin: the blue pill is a construct defined by the red pill community based o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:31 AM
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wrote an in depth reply, thankfully I saved it. I politely disagree, this is actually the most important question on here. From an unbiased stand point what does red pill believe, and what are well thought counterarguments to allow exploration of these views towards growth and improvement of intersex relations. Wouldn't it be nice if our union were greater them the sum of us added? = together we are stronger then if we add together our strengths. The system chokes on my thoughts, but I saved the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:29 AM
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Ah you are correct, I was making valid points about blue pill and not restrimy points to just the ones you have planned. More specifically you didn’t ask to back them up with links in your first post. Specifically it is the blue pill behavior of not questioning the dominant narrative. What beliefs are those? Are men rejected because they misbehave and have misogynistic behavior or is it possible that they are unnatractive and not in the upper 15% that is preferred on dating apps. Can you tell an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:37 AM
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lol, even at age sixty this old timer can call a spade a spade. Treating opposing views as adolescent is the view of an intellectual supremacist, dating in this day and age is too much trouble, and just wait. The divorce statistics are well deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:16 AM
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So true, there is always a bright side. The alpha narcissist she preferred is about to educate her. Hope she likes sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:12 AM
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“You do a ton of accusations and word yet fail to provide…” Seriously dude- are you debating in good faith? What I posted was not just words. Does denigration advance your argument. Sorry that’s not an argument. Now reframing with the premise with what we agree on. Water is wet and a Y chromosome is always there what then can we say about a widely held false dominant narrative. In other words now I challenge you to embrace that water is always wet in dominantly held beliefs. A falsehood held by …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:59 AM
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Sadly you are right about what has become of what took the name of red pill. Influencers have earned followers that are disenfranchised by the current dating market place and by the general misandry held as the dominant narrative. Others are bitter regarding their overall chances of finding connection. I agree that you’ll get more more bees with honey. I know empathy is a bit much to ask in this climate of misandry. If I were young I would not invest a second in the dating market. To do otherwis…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:09 AM
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I would politely disagree. Blue pill is a construct advanced from the red pill community as the dominant or widely held narrative. This narrative is held false by the red pill community. Labelling those views as negative fails to answer the question of “what are blue behaviors and beliefs?” This yields answers that open the floor to debate each point and it's a valid approach. I can think of rewording your answer in a way more specifically I can add with humor that blue pill is to consider all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:46 AM
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I didn't read your question carefully, directly to destiny and why I respect him, and the decisions of himself and melania. His relationship with her is an open marriage, an extreme act of faith, or as some would see it reckless trust. What happened is not worth getting into here. Destiny upholds basic blue pill values, debates bravely in red pill environments. This I respect. Specifically re what is a blue pill behavoir, I will refer back the movie where the decision of the red pill vs the blue…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:33 AM
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Destiny has blue pill opinions IMHO. He has my sympathy in other matters and debates us redpillers with some decency
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:41 AM
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As a physician observing poor adherence to meds I wouldn't trust anyone with my future. Men need their own contraception to take back control of our bodies. It's coming.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 08:59 PM
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So true. I’ve dated a few crocodiles. ; )))
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:55 AM
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Good list. I haven’t had caffeine yet and I’m not getting out of bed to answer this question. I’ll tell you what has happened in my life and you decide. Male, thirsty. And I’m highly intelligent. Not bragging. It’s a difficulty actually so this is going to be different from most people’s though Does it happen? Do you notice each other? Maybe attractiveness maybe something happens and it occurs to you they hey have something you’ve been looking for. Maybe they catch you blind and you didn’t see i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:52 PM
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Paxil
/r/MensRights10/01/24 01:09 PM
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