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I was with a guy that sound similar to your man. I wanted the white picket house by my early 30’s. He was thinking more like 40. My biological clock doesn’t have that much time. He broke up with me, and I’m very glad for it now. It was a really rough break up, but now that I’m over him completely, I realize I have much better prospects, and I can date a man that can give me everything I dreamed of plus more. I would have been very unhappy, and I already was unhappy about it while with him. Don’t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/19 01:35 AM
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Sorry, not that he expects me to be his slave, but he just expects me to trust him and to never doubt him/his words. And never let other people’s opinions of him influence my trust in him :s Because apparently, there are enough people in his life that do that constantly, and he doesn’t want that in a partner
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 06:57 PM
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His reasoning is that he has three friends in his life who have NEVER doubted him. So in his mind, it can be done. What do you think of this?
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 06:08 PM
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Yes, if nothing were to change, I would still be happy! In fact, he is currently my Master, and I AM very happy. The void of loneliness is not filled for me by time spent with someone, but rather, a feeling of connection. As long as I can his monogamy forever, I will be very, very happy. I would never go into a relationship expecting someone to change. I know what I’m signing up for. The problem for me is: who knows if he’s gonna sign up for the same with me? We haven’t delved into DD/lg yet, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 04:41 AM
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You say he wants you to trust him. Trust his words when he mentions that he wants to marry 18 year old virgin, without a baggage, stable emotionally and submissive. I probably didn’t phrase it properly, my apologies. What he said in fact was that he used to want this, but he got over it as he realized that 18 year olds haven’t found themselves and will change later on. I was the one who asked him what his ideal qualities were in a woman. He also told me before that I could meet his requirements …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 04:29 AM
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I know why I’m doing this. Because he told me to, as sad as that may sound to others. I doubted him once, and he told me to never ever do it again, as that’s THE most important thing for him in a woman. We actually haven’t had sex yet. I was planning on doing so, however, because of this post, I am rethinking it. I posted this question originally primarily in hopes of getting hamster advice (as many women who post here do), but this was actually worthwhile for me, as I will approach him with som…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 04:01 AM
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Honestly, I thought so too. Believe me, even my mom said the same thing before she met him. But I Googled him and was able to find two articles written on him and a video interview, and everything he told me that the news articles covered matched up 100% perfectly. When I found those, I believed him lmao. He says he gets that a lot though
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 01:10 AM
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Actually, you know what..I reread this after worked out, and I have a slightly different perspective on your words now. I’m going to take some time now to process them properly
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 12:30 AM
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You're not going to fulfil your existential hole by worshipping a stranger. He's not your God, he's a 22 year old man. You're smarter than this. Fucking rekt hahha I’m going to take some time to process all of this...especially your last paragraph. Would you mind if I DM’ed you on a different day, after I gather more information? Your words seem like they could potentially be very close to the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 12:25 AM
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I’m aware. I truly believe that the reason why I don’t just put up with it, but am also drawn to it, is that I am exactly the same way, ESPECIALLY with the idealism.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 12:13 AM
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I agree that he had his childhood taken from him, or at least after the age of 12. That said, I don’t think a stolen childhood means someone is immature..
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 11:16 PM
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I have a history of it, but it’s gone right now. Ew wtf. Heck no. I would not say we were exclusive if he wasn’t exclusive too. I asked him specifically after he told me, and I trust him 100% on that. Never felt like he was lying about that
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 10:30 PM
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I’ve talked to other millionaires in the past and I cut them off. If I was after money, I would have already been hitched with one of those guys. My life has been filled with existential depression; money doesn’t solve my existential issues. Honestly, I do think it’s normal. I think I’m confused as to why he would ask for exclusivity but that’s all.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 10:08 PM
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Yep, I realized the same thing a while back. That said, I don’t think he’s doing that intentionally. But do you think what I’m doing is hopeless?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 10:05 PM
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Ah, no worries! My apologies if I’m unclear anywhere. I’ll take any of the help I can get. I haven’t had sex with him yet, but he definitely wants it. We live 1.5-2 hours away from each other, so it’s not an LDR, but we don’t have the luxury of seeing each other often given his schedule. We met on Hinge. In terms of BDSM, so far, all of it has been through the phone. He has 24/7 control over me, but I assume that the next time we see each other, he will hit me..and yes, he will want sex. I’m on …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 10:02 PM
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Ah...what makes you day he has no cattle then?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 09:50 PM
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I agree, but he doesn’t sleep around. If his history told me that he was doing that with other girls, I would be gone immediately. But that simply isn’t the case. No, the reason behind by other country statement is a bit irrelevant, but I can assure you that wasn’t a shit test. Or at least, not an intentional one. He happened to have that response though. That said, I definitely did shit test him that one time last week, and I heavily regret it. After that, I vowed to not shit test him ever agai…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 09:50 PM
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My therapists used to tell me the opposite about my ex (that I needed to decide to trust him or not). That said, I do agree with that in terms of the beginning of a relationship, so hopefully he does overlook my previous infraction.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 09:44 PM
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The thing is, he’s not the type of person to waste his time. As soon as he doesn’t see a relationship lasting, he ends it. I guess that’s what confuses me. If he wasn’t like this, I would run away so fast, believe me. I know how bad it looks..but he’s not.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 09:38 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/ealvpb/is_this_all_in_my_21f_head_or_something_else_22m/fauczuh/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 09:35 PM
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But he doesn’t sleep around? 2 out of the 3 girls he’s been with were in LTR’s. Also, I haven’t had sex with him yet?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 09:23 PM
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I’m sorry, but where is the red flag in my comment? I can’t see a possible one at all in that one...
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 09:05 PM
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He says things like this: “I see weakness but not weakness that can’t be improved. With the right structure and conditioning you can turn it all around. I’d be happy to help be a part of that process.” So can it be both? I can almost guarantee you this won't end in a fulfilling RP marriage. Gah, this is all I want >.<
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 09:01 PM
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You know what? If a “high status” immature 22 year old boy is this interested in you, YOU are high status. You are a plate. I’m sorry, but isn’t this contradictory?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 08:52 PM
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Honestly, I’m okay with anything as long as someone is monogamous to me. Also, I brought up the god thing originally. That said, you comments are still very appreciated, so thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 08:01 PM
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I agree that I’m doing that, but he also told me that that’s the type of woman he needs..one that NEVER doubts him. I think because he’s told me that, I’m following his directions. And, as well, in our BDSM relationship, he told me to never ever doubt him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 07:02 PM
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That completely makes sense! It’s okay! Honestly, perhaps everyone else in this thread is stereotyping him as well. And tbh, I would probably do exactly the same in your positions, so that makes total sense. I also agree with the almost all of the rest of what you’re saying. I don’t want to be inauthentic either, simply the best version of myself, and hope that’s compatible with him. If it’s not though, I won’t be upset; I experience no loss if we aren’t compatible in the first place. I also don…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 06:22 PM
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Very, very true. Perhaps I will bring that up with him next time we speak, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 06:11 PM
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He had had his heartbroken..he just experienced death of a loved one two months ago. He was homeless at 16 because he was thrown out by his parents. He was beat up by his stepfather as a teenager and put on the news for it. He wrote his own court cases at the age of 16, had to drop out of HS temporarily to write these cases despite previously was planning on going to Harvard, some lawyers saw what he was doing (which was absolutely insane), and picked up the case for him and was able to go to co…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 06:08 PM
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It seems like he kind of enjoys stringing you along. Not seeing you for two months, hanging up abruptly and not telling you why... etc. That’s an interesting theory. That’s quite possible. That said, given that we are in a BDSM relationship, I do enjoy being manipulated and controlled, so it’s very possible he would enjoy the opposite side of things. I don’t mind being manipulated, but as long as he has my best interests at heart. But, I’m definitely going to ask him about what happened with the…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:59 PM
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Never met a guy more mature than him
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:47 PM
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That is very true. Perhaps, by then, he had already felt as though he should have earned it from me. I hope he can forgive me for my previous infraction.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:46 PM
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Honestly...I think sounds exactly like that too 😹😭😹
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:45 PM
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Please be harsh on me. I want that. I don’t care if he’s a control freak or whatever, I simply don’t want to get plated. I just want to know if it’s possible to get plated by someone who doesn’t historically have plates. And nope, I’m in love with his intelligence and the meaning in his life. I don’t care about wealth or status, and I think that’s one of the reasons he is speaking to me. That said, I know other girls are obsessed with wealth and status, and I’m not dumb; I know he can have his p…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:44 PM
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I am so happy that you responded. I definitely wanted advice from you. This is utterly useless... right or wrong, you are going to stay. You're head over heels for him. Just look at the number of tears you have shed and paragraphs written. I can’t argue with that obedience requires trust, which he wants and you don't feel...Tell him this: The thing is, I have decided to fully trust him now. I am 100% emotionally vulnerable with him already. Firstly, I can’t go back on my words. Secondly, if I di…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:41 PM
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I think this answer makes a lot of sense, so thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:25 PM
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Actually, he knows exactly what he wants in life. I am 100% certain of that. To think otherwise of him is fault of mine for not conveying that in my posts. He also won’t date someone who doubts him. Honestly, I’ve given him 100% trust in his words. The main reason I’m posting this is to tide my thoughts over until he replies to my messages (which will be a while). I truly thought that my hamster was spinning, and I wanted to confirm that here. I also think you make a valid point on the baggage t…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:10 PM
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He also told me that, “He wouldn’t be talking to me if he was planning on getting rid of me.” Also, historically, he’s not the type of person that talks to someone hedonistically.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 05:03 PM
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I’ve also gone from extremely happy to not the best of moods :( I wouldn’t say sad or upset, but I’m no longer on cloud 9 today. (For me, extreme cheer is my natural state)
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 04:41 PM
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It is lol https://www.reddit.com/r/PinkpillFeminism/comments/eaegk3/my_husband_left_me_for_his_sugar_baby_what_do_i_do/fapu3oq/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 04:08 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PinkpillFeminism/comments/eaegk3/my_husband_left_me_for_his_sugar_baby_what_do_i_do/fapu3oq/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 04:08 AM
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Nice try Mods, please delete this post https://www.reddit.com/r/PinkpillFeminism/comments/eaegk3/my_husband_left_me_for_his_sugar_baby_what_do_i_do/fapu3oq/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Why even do this? This isn’t even funny.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 04:07 AM
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Out of curiosity, why is it not working out?
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 04:32 PM
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Why are black people so god damn aggressive? God, even the way the girl hits him is disgusting; she’s making unnecessary up and down movements. It’s not their skin color I’m against; it’s their fucking temperament. White-washed black people are the best tbh.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 12:43 PM
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Yep. The man I’m seeing now has dated celebrities in the past. I will never ask for who they were specifically because I know myself enough to know I’d be asking out of insecurity. OP, if he is not a man of value, and you were the only girl he could get, then perhaps you do have a point. But if he is a high-value man, and he is pursuing you, you better believe that there is a reason he chose to pursue you over the other girls. Was what he said the most tactful thing to say to you? No. But, your …
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 11:48 PM
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While I agree with that,I’m fairly certain I’m in the statistical minority. Well, at least for the U.S.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 09:31 AM
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Yep. I can’t even orgasm with a man, and I suspect it’s partly due to me watching porn everyday since the age of 12. I am 100% porn-free now while in a relationship, and I wouldn’t want to live any other way. Now that I’m unplugged, I can’t believe how normalized it is.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 03:41 AM
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I got banned from there. Please check out their rules; rule #6 states “RPW banned on sight”. (Yes, I was banned for being a RPW)
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/19 09:06 PM
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There’s other ingredients in it than just plain soap
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/19 09:14 AM
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Bruh, I’m not gonna direct you how to kill yourself..I’ve already said far too much tbh
/r/MensRights11/12/19 03:13 AM
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Yes. But nitrogen is easier to attain, and tbh, it should feel more similar to breathing in normal air
/r/MensRights11/12/19 02:47 AM
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That ‘Daddy’ shirt hahahha
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/19 01:49 AM
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Stop being a slut because riding the CC isn’t fulfilling
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/19 01:30 AM
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Yeah rip..I probably shouldn’t have told him..
/r/MensRights11/12/19 12:09 AM
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I got mine off of Etsy, but they sell it on Amazon and lots of other places as well
/r/MensRights10/12/19 07:56 PM
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But that doesn’t necessarily mean the type of serotonin that is in your brain, no? Those are blood levels, yes, but not the serotonin in your nervous system. For instance, the serotonin that is needed for digestion has nothing to do with your mood. Here is a source with tons of subtypes: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK28234/#_A965_ It was just my understanding that neurotransmitters are impossible to measure, but I could very much be wrong
/r/MensRights10/12/19 05:31 PM
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I found that site years ago haha That’s where I learned the nitrogen method..I don’t understand why you would think it would snap someone into the “want to get help mentality”? Lmao..it made me very excited to finally have a painless method to die..Perhaps that is the difference between someone faking it (EDIT: maybe not necessary faking it, but someone who is not at the genuine tipping point yet) and someone truly suicidal; learning about real methods didn’t “sober” me up at all. I saw it as my…
/r/MensRights10/12/19 05:23 PM
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Yet most people who attempt to OD on it don’t even take the necessary precaution of taking an anti-emetic beforehand /facepalm Ffs, if someone wants to die on a substance that you can ingest, and is easily accesible, just take sodium nitrite. It also has the benefit of not being as painful as Tylenol..and, it actually won’t take hours upon hours Do I see females taking this though? Nope. Well, the extremely and actually suicidal ones, yes. But other than that, no. It’s not as peaceful as nitroge…
/r/MensRights10/12/19 05:13 PM
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I’ve had professional help for three years :/ Neither therapy nor meds helped I am also an atheist; I get existentially depressed, which tends to be treatment-resistant..the only thing that has helped so far is switching to a conservative lifestyle. It is meaning that I am after. Thanks for your kind words though
/r/MensRights10/12/19 04:16 PM
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How did you get your serotonin levels tested? I didn’t know it was possible to get brain levels checked.
/r/MensRights10/12/19 02:48 PM
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As a suicidal female, this annoys to no end. It tarnishes the desires of the women who actually want to end their lives. Just the minimal amount of research would enlighten someone on how ineffective modern OTC pills are in killing oneself. Honestly, because of this phenomenon, I promised myself that my first attempt would be my last. No, I can’t bring myself to put a gun to my head, but I can bring myself to put on a gas mask with nitrogen and peacefully lose consciousness forever. If females w…
/r/MensRights10/12/19 02:41 PM
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Hey girl, this is an absolute mess, but there are only a few of us who are into DD/lg and RPW, so just letting you know, my DM’s are always open for you. I read all of your post, but tbh, I don’t exactly know what your question is. If you guys both want it, I don’t see why you can’t make it work. It’s technically possible. That said, it’s very possible he will grow resentful of you over time for what you did. I understand how BDSM makes it easier to sleep around, as you feel as though you are or…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 04:18 AM
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Divorce
/r/AntiFeminists08/12/19 05:54 AM
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Oh my goodness, THANK YOU for the recommendation! As embarrassing as it is, I could relate to the movie a ton..I have no clue if that is a good or bad thing..but I loved the film..thanks so much!
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 04:57 AM
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Nope, but I looked it up, and I will now!
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 01:13 AM
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I don’t think RPW exists for this..sorry
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 09:41 PM
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Lol yep. I had to switch main accounts for personal reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 04:10 PM
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I would suggest thinking about your single days as limited, because they likely are, whether things work out with this guy or not. You'll eventually be married and have to wait to watch TV shows with him or order the pizza you both like and compromise on the Christmas decorations. Then, one day, you'll have kids screaming in your ear and tearing up your house. But but, how do you know this? If you don’t mind, what age were you when you found your husband?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 07:19 AM
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Nun-mode has been a thing for years lmao
/r/MGTOW07/12/19 04:44 AM
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Yeah, even though his n-count is low (2 out of the 3 in his body count were due to LTR’s), he seems more than willing to have sex with me, which is definitely very interesting. I’m very glad I found RPW when I did, however, because if I didn’t have this knowledge, I might have been okay with being demoted to a plate. I guess only time will tell which one of those options it is. And I don’t know, perhaps he was too in shock due to the death..He closes off like that to everyone when something trau…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 12:17 AM
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Yep, as a right-wing female living in California, this is also what I experience. People think that it should be fine as long as we’re not discussing politics, but it’s really not.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/19 11:25 PM
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Ahh, okay...well, hopefully he think I’m worth working through this. Thanks again!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 09:25 PM
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Yes! And that’s also exactly why I like him so much. It’s been virtually impossible to find someone who is both a good captain and also a Daddy Dom. I see no reason why you two couldn't work it out. If you don’t mind, this seems a bit contradictory to me. Because if it wasn’t for my kinks, there would be reason why it wouldn’t work out, no?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 09:21 PM
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Really? That’s awesome that you think that! Thanks so much!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 09:06 PM
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So for starters, he was never my boyfriend; we’re in the “talking” stage. Secondly, I know and fully understand your first paragraph..believe me! I’m hopefully working towards building a life where I can still be dependent on my man, but also keep myself busy during his absence. As for your second paragraph, that’s interesting that you tested him. May I ask what you did exactly? I would definitely call the guy I’m talking to rigid and systematic, but I am also somewhat rigid when it comes to stu…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 08:37 PM
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Seriously, thank you for this. This is my favorite advice I’ve received so far. I will definitely bring up the neediness of DD/lg. I actually told him two months back that 1-2 texts was minimum, but he didn’t reach that, so I started distancing myself, and that’s when he hit me with the fact that someone close to him has died...so I let it go. What confuses me most is that he said we were done, but then..did he change his mind or something? If so, why? Regardless, thank you for you words..Out th…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 08:26 PM
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I wanted to get hold of him I needed to wait till 1am. Yes, this is exactly what I'm experiencing! This guy didn’t commit and it looks like he didn’t tell the OP he wants to be in serious relationship with her so I can understand the doubts. He has told me that he is looking for a relationship, and while he hasn't outright said he is marriage-minded, I tell him that I am, and he hints to himself wanting the same. That said, I think he is vetting me, so he doesn't outright say it's as serious as …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 07:55 PM
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Yes, and I only knew him for a few weeks prior to his departure. He did have a death in his life that really brought him down during these two months though, so I understand. He said this was the second time I doubted him though, as the first time, I voiced my concerns to him after he disappeared for a couple weeks (then he told me about the death, and I was like “omg, I’m so sorry”). I just really hope he can forgive me for doubting him a second time.. I believe him, and I know I won’t be makin…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 07:36 PM
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Thanks for this. I am more than willing to reach them because I also am the type to have very rigid standards. I lost my last LTR due to my rigid standards. If anything, it makes me more attracted to this guy, knowing I’m not the only one like this, and I’m not crazy. If he forgives me for this, I hope I can reach his..
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 07:32 PM
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No offense taken at all; I want this help. I am incredibly broken. I have binge eating disorder/bulimia and depression. The reason why he wants me is because: 1) I am a RPW. My anti-feminism, my submission, my desire for a family, the fact that I don’t sleep around, smoke, drink, party, have social media, etc. 2) We share the same BDSM fetishes. Primarily, we share DD/lg. He needs this as badly as I do, and he has been unable to find someone with this quality and the previous one wrapped up in t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 07:28 PM
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I didn’t want to bring up his income, but this guy already makes well over seven figures.. It’s not money or time that I’m after, but rather, meaning...perhaps a sense of love that transcends time, as unrealistic as that may be. I think I understand his “unrealistic” expectations because I also have my own.. Regardless, thank you for your advice!! I will definitely take it into account when making my decision
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 06:38 PM
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He is extremely busy..like, it’s hard to believe he’s actually human with how much he does. He’s definitely how I imagine people like Steve Jobs or Jeff Bezos were in their youths. I also mentioned that the fact that it’s been two months was getting to me, but he didn’t care about that. I honestly believe he’s also using these two months to test me to see how I react to it. I think he needs someone that can handle it. And to be clear, it’s not time apart that stresses me out, but not being secur…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 06:13 PM
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Basically by leading me/dominating me. Telling me what to do to have meaning in my life and not be so depressive. I thought so too..but he does occasionally take the time to text me.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 05:49 PM
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I’ll send them in an LTR, but I typically never show my face (more so out of plan insecurity though lol)..But even then, I know I’m on the more liberal side of RPW when it comes to nudes..OP though, sending them in your situation is ridiculous. If he’s not even your boyfriend, don’t even think about sending them. Not only is it risky, but he’ll see you less as LTR material. Why do that to yourself?
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 06:57 PM
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I’ve literally read stories over suicidal guys because they weren’t circumcised. I’m not trying to be rude either, but bruh, I’m confused
/r/MensRights20/11/19 09:59 PM
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I’ve been subscribed to her for a while now!
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/19 08:53 PM
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