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Because no matter how goodlooking she is, she can still be insecure or scared or just not in mood to talk to you etc.
/r/seduction29/10/24 10:40 AM
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/r/seduction28/10/24 06:20 AM
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What do you want to do is the question. Do you want to go to her place or you want to meet for a date ? IF you want to go to her place and just want sex say "Let's split a bottle at your place, how about thurday evening 7pm"(or whatever time), if she says she busy but suggest a alternate date/time you go for that date/time if she says she "busy" or "not comfortable" she not that into you and probably using you for attention. If she says "some other day maybe im busy that day", you ask when are y…
/r/seduction27/10/24 04:59 PM
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You can't build attraction if there is none, there has to be some level of attraction, the more the better. Same as if you are a straight guy, no matter how much game+looks+whatever the gay dude comes and hit on you, you will not fuck him right. But if you are bicurios a very cool and goodlooking guy whos your type might be able to convince you to fuck him. So if you are a NO for a girl nothing you can do to make her a yes, if she is a yes there is actually stuff that can make her a NO if you fu…
/r/seduction27/10/24 04:38 PM
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I fucked like 130 girls in last 5 years. (not sure how many dates but i rejected quite a huge amount because i didn't like their vibe or they were not goodlooking enough) There are girls who are DTF and just want ons and thats okay, but reason why i fuck them on first date because i want the girl to be so attracted to me to throw her 1st date rule out of the window and be so into me she wants to fuck ASAP. And on top of that i wanna see how she fucks and how she behaves after we fuck. If you hav…
/r/seduction27/10/24 04:30 PM
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so you think because a girl makes you wait 2-3 dates or so she makes other dudes wait as well ? XDDDD if a girl is dtf and on app she can have 21230123012 matches and dicks, so if she picked me she obviously liked me rofl.
/r/seduction27/10/24 04:03 PM
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if she was really into you it won't mess it up lol, i got plenty of girls like that, and they are usually DTF right at that moment
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:34 AM
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no method works all the time lol, its a numbers game anyway
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:26 AM
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All good but 1 point i don't agree, online you have to be fast, so schedule the date as soon as possible, i try to get it done for next day or same day, preferable as close as possible because otherwise she will meet some other guy who she might like and "see where it is going".
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:16 AM
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Problem is with 90% of guys who go on dating apps, they try to "wing it", you can't wing it even if you are chad, not in todays age and time. Same as you can't "wing it" when you go approach a girl, you might get laid 1 out of 300 approaches, but if you know what you doing that number would be 5/ 300 or better which is a way better ratio. You have to know what you doing on dating apps, have a top 5-10% profile, decent bio and pay for the app, also you have to be in a large enough city 2mil+ to a…
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:14 AM
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better metric is time invested vs results in my opinion.
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:46 PM
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If she is into you "sex shit" will not put her off lol.
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:40 PM
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It doesn't matter, the goal is to get laid /get a longterm girlfriend/fwb. getting a number or date means nothing... Id rather get rejected than get useless numbers/dates.
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:37 PM
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You can approach and say whatever you want, it will not sound weird to a girl who is into you lol. I did it sometimes directly lol, i said lets go to my place and im gonna take off your clothes but that girl was into me. Thing is if you put something sexual in convo you will quickly know if she would even consider to fuck you or not. You can do the indirect approach, when i do daygame (which i don't like tbh) i do something like hey i think you were cute and tell her we should grab coffee someti…
/r/seduction25/10/24 10:51 AM
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You either say a sarcastic response "im a virgin or i had around 999 girls last months, looking to make it 1000 tonight tho ;)" and if a girl likes you it will not matter if its 0 or 100, so find girls who actually likes you for you
/r/seduction25/10/24 09:37 AM
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why would you play it safe ? are you scared of rejection ? i love rejection, because that means i can move on to the next girl who will like me i push to sex on first date if possible and give her other chance (maybe) on the 2nd date. Personally i think if you have to use all of those extra techniques on the girl she not that interested in you meaning that your time would be better spent somewhere else. Because time is the nr1 resource in your life
/r/seduction25/10/24 09:18 AM
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Jab is the most important move in boxing, very far from push pull or negs. Thing is if a girl is into you, you will not need push-pull or negs. I never used negs and banged heaps of attractive girls. The extra time spend on working on a girl on which you have to use push-pull/negs/whatever the fuck is much better spend on nexting her and talking to a new one who is actually into you.
/r/seduction24/10/24 07:09 PM
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No PUA techinques are push/pull and negging and stupid shit like that. Thing what i wrote is having game
/r/seduction24/10/24 06:49 PM
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PUA techniques are such bs rofl. Being confident, having outcome indepedance and hitting up women and knowing which are into you and which are not and having a plan/structure how you proceed with ALL women you are interested in is everything you need to know. PUA techinques are to try to make a girl like you which doesn't like you, its a waste of time, rather know which women likes you and proceed with them in the direction you want
/r/seduction23/10/24 08:16 PM
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no its not. Solid games means you know how to present yourself and what you want in a good way without masking it. If you have to go on 3 or more dates to get laid you got no game if you have to take girls out to dinner to get laid you got no game If you had game you would find girls who are into you and want the same thing as you not pursue girls who use you for attention/food/etc Girls see when you have good game because you ghost them when they say "i need to get to know you more, lets talk l…
/r/seduction23/10/24 08:11 PM
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Also it is subjective from girl to girl. How i know ? because i had heaps of dates in 1 month and some girls tell me i look so hot in person, some tell me i look fatter than pictures some tell me i look same. And same thing when i go on dates with girls, some girls look way more attractive than in pictures some look worse, some look same. Also if im very into the girl when we meet its usually that she is into me as well. Types are a thing for both men and women, i was comparing girls with friend…
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:21 PM
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It is not hard. You are not sexually attractive to the women you talk to, you need to talk more women, why you small talking about stupid shit especially if you want something casual, be more direct. Something like "Hey, i came over because you looked so sexy in this dress, my name is ......" and then if she obviously feels uncomfortable or blows you off you think "great, im not gonna waste time on girl who doesn't like me" and then you go talk to other girl. Thing is you probably talked/approac…
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:42 AM
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yes. Yea i agree its in the eye of the beholder. And looks are very subjective, i know it because ive been on many dates and girls will say anything from :"you look worse then pictures", "you look so hot in person", "you look same as pictures" so it means some girls like my look in person better some worse etcetc.
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:36 AM
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Mr locario and everyone on the panels is not "goodlooking" per say. Jonh Anthony is not goodlooking Alex from PWF is above average. Most of PUA coaches are not attractive lol, they are above average sure but they are not like chads or smth
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:57 PM
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So what ? it doesn't mean they have a good relationship, i known heaps of people who were dating like this and they were not happy. Not sure why it even affects you, by just trying to make something happen with the girl (even in friends circles) it sets you so much apart from everyone else its crazy. And i doubt the "dime" did actually put in all the work to get the guy.
/r/seduction20/10/24 11:26 AM
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Cold approach either in activities, bars, clubs, on the street, coffee shop etc
/r/seduction18/10/24 12:05 PM
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You don't, instead of talking to women who are not interested talk to a lot of women to find ones who are interested in you
/r/seduction16/10/24 11:33 AM
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you are not attracting them as a sexual prospect but attracting them as someone she wants to talk online to and never meet. If they were high interest in you they would meet you. When will men learn that because a female responds or send hearths or tell you i love you or whatever bs she tells you online it really doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is her doing what you tell her which is meet me for a date and she says yes.
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:14 PM
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So they not looking for a relationship simple as that, find someone who is if that is what you looking for, if not no need to label it jeez, just keep them as FWBs
/r/seduction14/10/24 03:35 PM
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why you going through a girls phone who you just met/fucked ? truth is she not really into you and she likes different dick, if she was into you, you would fuck on the first date. So if you want keep fucking her and use a condom, simple as that
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:12 AM
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Personally i like dating apps because i am introverted and i do very good on them to the point that when i go out i don't really see many (if any) girls that are better than girls i meet/date from the dating apps. But i know how to approach in person and because i have so much experience and game it is extremely easy to get girls. Do i maybe not get as many hot girls as if i would go out and approach in person ? probably, but that is the trade i am willing to take to not put in quite a lot of ad…
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:08 AM
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not league, but to me personally its very hard to find a girl i actually like with combination of looks+ personality. And if i actually find and go on a date with girl who is exactly my type usually it is waaaaay easier then with girls that are soso to me
/r/seduction09/10/24 02:11 PM
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yea could be, im more of a fun/short term/fuckboy guy and look quite young as well. Depends on the girl. but that was my experience. Also i am saying from girls you go on a first date with outside for drinks/coffee rather then straight to your place. But it is way easier to schedule a date with a 25+ y old then a 18-23
/r/seduction09/10/24 12:09 PM
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its easier to find them, but not easier to fuck if you do everything the same way
/r/seduction09/10/24 12:07 PM
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Yea i brought high quality girls on the first date back to mine as well, not sure what is that bullshit that "high quality women" don't have sex on the first date. Maybe not with most guys but they do have sex on first date just like any other girl.
/r/seduction09/10/24 11:05 AM
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Sure, but from my experience the 18-23 are quite more likely (if you get them on a date) to go home with you after the coffee/drinks and be more comfortable doing that then girls who are 27+. What im trying to say if you go on date with 100 girls who are 18-23 you will have WAAAAY higher odd of fucking them fast and on first date then if you go on date with 100 27+ y olds I am basing this on quite a large number of dates i had.
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:52 AM
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no because that would mean if you approach a girl who is below your "league" or in your "league" you would have a easier time having sex with them which is not the case. There is only 2 key things: Are you attracted to her and is she attracted to you ? Also looks are very subjective and ive seen that by my own eyes, girl who i was very attracted to she was so nervous talking to me and sexually attracted to me that it was uncomfortable for her while some girls who i would consider like a 5-6 when…
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:44 AM
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If you only down to get laid with young women 18-23 inviting over the first date works if you have sex appeal. But if you act like a stable guy and look for a relationship 2 date model is better, meaning go on first coffee date to meet them then 2nd date invite them to your place, if they don't want meet them somewhere for drinks coffee for 2nd date and them invite to your place. I do get laid A LOT on the first dates but most of the girls don't stick around because if you fuck them fast on firs…
/r/seduction09/10/24 09:09 AM
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They not that into you You are simping and giving way too much from start (money,dick,dinner,attention) and females are greedy so with time they will expect EVEN more then you give. So find a girl who will be happy spending time with the least effort you put into her and with time you can increase that if she deserves, that way you will know the girl is into you and not into what you giving. So no talking everyday for all day, no "good morning beautiful", no dinner dates etc
/r/seduction09/10/24 09:06 AM
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gj you are spoiling the women for being retards well played, now they will cancel on you and everyone else even more because they know men will tolerate it. But i have so many matches/girls and as well other shit in my life that i really don't gonna deal with girls canceling, after canceling first time its up to her to hit me up and schedule the next date. If you are employer and hiring a person and that person cancels 2-3 times would you still hire them ? absolute the fuck not. And you know she…
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:45 AM
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when you are a player and obviously fun guy and fuck her fast as well as not giving a shit and not being a reliable/stable man
/r/seduction08/10/24 07:03 PM
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Yea, exactly i agree. Same as girls rescheduling or canceling, after that i leave the ball in her court so if she is actually interested she will hit me up and try to meetup. I think the problem in today society is that either the men don't wanna feel like omg i couldn't get that girl or they really want that 1 specific girl and they think effort will make the girl interested so they waste so much time and effort on a girl who is not interested (days, weeks, months EVEN FUCKING YEARS) which tran…
/r/seduction08/10/24 08:17 AM
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Yea no shit, most girls want a relationship no matter what they say, so most likely they tired of just fucking and went to find a "boyfriend" I either get ONSed by girls after 1 time (because im obviously non longterm potentional) or i get them for 2-3 months and i get dumped with no explanation usually (same reason). it is what it is
/r/seduction07/10/24 03:32 PM
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or chasing means going for 1 girl or trying too hard while pursuing means you doing what you meant to do and you hitting up multiple girls and seeing which one are interested and proceed with them
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:21 PM
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Because if you need to chase means she not into you that much, if she was you wouldn't need to chase, everything would go smoothly if she was into you.
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:53 PM
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oh no this one girl she special because she is so hot oh she is the chosen one. Do you not have anything better to do with your time then talk to a girl who you didn't even met and MAYBE you will meet in 6 weeks ? What i would do is text her same as i do with all girls who say im busy/traveling/whatever the fuck (doesn't really matter) i say well when you back/free hit me up and we will plan something. You know why? Because i have so many new matches that i litterally don't have time and willpow…
/r/seduction06/10/24 11:08 AM
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if she is attracted enough you can fuck after 30 minutes coffee, 5 venues and whatever means she not that into you lol
/r/seduction06/10/24 03:00 AM
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oh god, nobody on seduction knows what they doing lol First of all the first date not having sex with you doesn't make her a good gf material, it just means she didn't wanna fuck you on the first date, if the girl sees that you will judge for sleeping with you on first date she will not sleep with you on the first date. don't compliment her apperance you don't need to tell her to text you when she got home because if she is into you she will anyway you don't take her out for dinner on the first …
/r/seduction06/10/24 02:57 AM
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or you can just kick her out if she not down to do what you want (what i usually do) and tell her to come back when she ready and you move on.
/r/seduction05/10/24 04:22 PM
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First of, how do you know they attracted ? if they are very attracted there will be no resistance when setting up a date and they will meet you at a place where you want and most likely do what you want. If you didn't go with their suggestion and you picked the place(coffee or drinks hopefully) without much talking on app you on good track. On the date be chill, don't over compliment her appearance and have a normal convo with her and see if she your type or not. There is no building a natural a…
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:21 PM
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brother what, i usually get laid on first date and i encounter resistance but that makes sense because its first date so i will keep doing if we are progressing in some way, either touching each other or taking off clothes slowly or kissing. You can stop anything sexual when she doesn't want to. stop, i just sit down and play on my phone and kinda ignore her, then she starts touching me and we proceed, if she says no 1-2 times i either tell her to suck me off till i cum or if she doesn't want to…
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:56 PM
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she is a provider hunter, meaning she has a list of things that a guy has to have/not have for her to date him and if you miss on any of those she will bounce. I'd try to hookup with her and you will see the reaction which probably will be "I am a lady i want dinner dates and 3 dates minimum"
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:35 AM
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i thought the point of sexualizing is to get to sex faster and less money spend by screening through girls who are down to fuck. I like the sexualizing part and progress but i would consider it a Win if you didn't go to dinner but she came for 10-15 min walking around(which is more than enough time if she is really down to fuck) or straight to the place. Oh i just realized its you, Alex from PWF, i agree with most what you say but i see no point in going for dinner if you just want a ONS.
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:30 AM
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No its worse, because paying for sex meaning you will get sex, going for dinner is doing something you don't wanna do in expectation you will get sex. Why didn't the guy suggest to meet for coffee or drink instead ? because he was scared for the girl to reject him because she promised him all this sexual stuff. Outplayed by the girl
/r/seduction03/10/24 07:59 AM
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i never had to do a sushi place or any dinner or something like that to get laid lol. The point is guy in example did what the girl wanted and not other way around. Might as well pay a hooker if you have to do what the girl wants to get laid rofl.
/r/seduction03/10/24 07:45 AM
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Tbh, i used to do straight to my place date but then i had some crazies, girls who didn't wanna fuck and catfishes so i rather have a short 30-60 minute coffee / drinks and then to my place, you can see the vibe on date, build some sexual tension etc. I do follow rules 1 and 2 on tinder and i have good profile+ good pictures. Also you will have heaps of girls fall off just by being sexual over texts which you could get done during the date (also make the date close to where you wanna fuck, hopef…
/r/seduction03/10/24 07:41 AM
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women say that so the creepy unattractive guys don't approach them. If you overthink about bothering her or annoying her you have the wrong mentality. By approaching her you offer her a chance to get with you, if she not down with that, thats on her and you move on. Id recommend when you approach a girl actually have a short convo with her to see how you vibe with her, also you can give her your number instead of getting hers and tell her to text you so if she does text you she is obviously inte…
/r/seduction02/10/24 06:26 AM
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Real game no theory (mr locario etc)
/r/seduction01/10/24 02:51 PM
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Any time i had a girl try to push for drink or ask for a drink i just leave, i don't wanna deal with that kind of girls anyway. If its their friend she most likey the same as her friends in that regard so she can fuck off
/r/seduction29/09/24 01:25 PM
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i have 3 great pictures and i spend a total of 50 $ for them. both times friends with a good camera and we snapped like 300-400 pictures in different lightings/locations/etc. I am considered attractive tho supposedly. But you can definitely get better pictures than you have now
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:26 AM
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you don't need it per say but it definitely helps a lot. I would advise if someone is taking dating apps seriously and wants to get laid consistenly with them should have the payed version
/r/seduction26/09/24 02:15 PM
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jesus christ, what are 16?
/r/seduction26/09/24 09:27 AM
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i had way different results with same profiles on both bumble + tinder with payed vs non payed versions. 5 yes girls that are not that interested in you will take longer.... and because i follow 1-4 that i wrote i have too many matches to even have a proper convo with everyone
/r/seduction26/09/24 09:21 AM
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lol, all of that has so little importance... whats truly important: Have VERY good pictures (stand out) dont have a shitty bio have the paid version of app so you can swipe indefinitely Swipe a shit ton of girls, text a shit ton of girls Don't text for years, ask for date and then move to some other messaging app(whatsapp not IG) (Max 15 messages back and forth, i usually do like 5-10 max) Schedule the date quickly success from dating apps to me is girk meeting me according to my terms for a dat…
/r/seduction26/09/24 06:38 AM
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it depends on the girl, some girls will make them attracted to you but not wanna fuck you, some girls it will turn them off and not wanna fuck you. I know for myself because im a fuckboy and treated as such, some girls will find this extremely attractive and wanna fuck me, some will find me disgusting and not wanna do anything, and some will find me attractive but they will be scared because STDs etc
/r/seduction24/09/24 04:20 PM
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Personally i have this experience, for me to get laid is extremly easy and fast(usually first date) but usually the girls either ONS me or after 2-3 months they leave. I don't do normal monogamy style relationship ever so i don't act like a boyfriend and i think girls can very quickly distinguish a guy who is a player and a normal guy (and they will have sex with a player guy quickly usually). Why this happens ? i think its because insecurity of women, they don't want to get attached to me becau…
/r/seduction23/09/24 10:39 AM
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You know how i got over all the opportunities i missed as a kid ?( i was a goodlooking kid and had girls hitting on me) and i never gotten much done because i didn't even try and was a bit autistic to say the least. But i compensated by having now when im older tried all the possible types of attractive girls you can get, i really don't care about the "missed" opportunities anymore at this point. Key is you have to shoot your shot and try with girls and the ones that are very interested in you w…
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:55 AM
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I'm gonna give you the harsh truth. You don't, it will just get worse with time, so if you value sex a lot you will either have to: dump her and get a new gf who is more horny for you cheat on her (i would not recommend that) convert to open relationship if possible (most likely she will leave you if you try this), tell her you want to have sex more often and if she is not able or doesn't want to you will have to find it elsewhere and if that bothers her she can leave. I would go with 3rd option…
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:48 AM
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keep eye contact while furiously masturbating
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:46 PM
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lol i get so much pussy and much better girls compared to girls i went to dates with before, after fucking 150+ girls i went through all the possible types of girls so any one i fumbled i fucked a new younger and better version of her eventually. Its hard to remember all the girls i fucked, how would i even remember ones that i didn't fuck lol. Once you realize that every single girls you ever banged or dated is replaceable you are at advanced level and fumbles don't matter because you will find…
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:43 AM
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they want the most sexually attractive guy for both hookup and relationship but those guys are sexually attractive because they have/can get many women. I personally get laid easily and fast but harder to keep women around because most girls don't take me seriously because they know if they fuckup or i get bored i can replace them easily and quickly. Girls want the most sexually attractive guy in a monogamous relationship but once the guy accepts monogamous relationship he is not the most sexual…
/r/seduction06/09/24 04:54 AM
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i am high iq, i get laid cuz i am smart because i learned what to do and what not to do with girls also read patterns and see how girls react. And now i am better than a "natural", id say for the average guy its better to be stupid then smart to get laid because you will not overthink, but if you are smart you have a way higher ceiling of getting girls then someone who is not. So a dumb guy would get 4 7s per year on average just by being drunk and not giving a shit and just going for anyone. A …
/r/seduction05/09/24 05:22 AM
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i want to have sex with them as fast as possible because i don't wanna waste time on 5-6 dates with a girl who will after 5-6 dates say "oh lets stay friend" or the sex will be bad, also females show their true face after having sex, before that its just a act. Women are more horny and want to have sex fast just as much as men but with men they find attractive(which is not just about body, looks and height). Also why would i go on 5-6 dates with a single girl who doesn't want to have sex with me…
/r/seduction05/09/24 05:13 AM
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do what you want to do, if you wanna fuck them on first date and kiss them do it, invite them to your place if you see the vibe. Think if society didn't program me "how i am supposed to act"and rather do what I really want to do (which is probably fuck them fast) then what would i do. Also good advice is you let the girl talk 80% of time so she invests more and you less likely will say something thats stupid. I am at advanced level so i can say whatever i want and get results i want
/r/seduction04/09/24 10:30 AM
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Why would you wanna go for lower quality? i personally go on first date to see if i am even attracted to the girl in person or not so i don't get in awkward position of her coming to my place and me not wanting to fuck her cuz she catfish. Most of my dates is 1 drink for me and her or 1 coffee, you can as well just walk around some area also works. Most of my dates are below 10 usd. No dinner or fancy places are needed. If a girl is into you she will meet you for coffee or walk in the park. You …
/r/seduction03/09/24 07:43 AM
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The same stuff applies, your definition of "high quality girls" i fucked on first date(plenty of them). I personally never go above 30 y of age(i met hot ones but generally me and them dont get along for whatever reason, probably because they look for more provider guy). And for me personally i have a easier time having sex with girls i find my type/attractive then ones i would consider just above average(not sure if i try harder or what or they put resistance because they not convinced im into …
/r/seduction03/09/24 06:56 AM
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Imo, try not kissing until you at the place of sex, try to kino and invite to your place, start kissing when you at your place
/r/seduction03/09/24 05:03 AM
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No, what i do is take all girls on a same first date after same amount of talking (coffee shop or a drink depending on my mood not her) and there on date you see how it going and i will try to pull all girls that I like on first date and see how much they follow my lead on the date and in subsequent meetups/hangouts. The more she is into you the more she will do whatever you say. Men obviously don't understand that females can act like a "good girl" or "wifey material" or "not fuck fast" with yo…
/r/seduction03/09/24 04:52 AM
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You are physically attractive because only very attractive guys get approached by women at all. And this is proof you need game, you need to know what you doing, you need to progress the date in direction you want it to go. Its simple you are boring them to death, being goodlooking and tall just gets you the date but it doesn't get you laid and you get more room for error then the average guy. I am not as attractive as you but goodlooking, 6'1 and i get dates and i close most dates on first or 2…
/r/seduction03/09/24 02:33 AM
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I live in Eastern europe which is way more conservative then Germany rofl and i still got laid on 1st on 2nd date. Your limiting beliefs are what are preventing you from not having sex on 1st or 2nd date, or maybe they are not attracted to you as much to have sex fast. I am quite certain girls that you dated had sex with someone else on 1st or 2nd date(they won't tell you obviously because they are smart and know you will get hurt, probably they lie to you how many guys they had sex with as well…
/r/seduction03/09/24 12:16 AM
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honestly makes no sense but you do you. If you and girl are very attracted to each other you can't wait to fuck, if you don't want to look like a player you can fuck on 2nd/3rd date. Going on 10 dates before trying anything with a girl seems like a waste of time because you wanna know how she acts after you fuck her, how is the sex and if she is even sexually interested in you (all of which you will know after you have sex with her). I had plenty of girls who i just eliminated because sex was ba…
/r/seduction02/09/24 03:15 PM
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I kinda don't understand how it works, you said you gotten attractive girls in relationship(not sure if there was sex but i guess there was) and you say you are anxious and nervous with this girl. How many girls did you have sex? i am asking just because i am curious and wanna see what waiting for 10 dates before sex gets you. Also seems you are doing all that a lot of dates and acting like a nice guy just to get in their pants and you think you can't do the same on first date. I personally thin…
/r/seduction02/09/24 02:59 PM
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seems like it workout out great considering you in relationship with them right
/r/seduction02/09/24 02:54 PM
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well i had sex with 150 girls and 120 of those on the first date, seems kinda a lot for "girls don't usually do that". Correct is "girls don't usually do that with me or guys i know"
/r/seduction02/09/24 02:53 PM
2

and did you have sex with them and have a longterm fwb or other type of relationship?
/r/seduction02/09/24 02:52 PM
2

bad mindset, you should be greatful they removed you so don't waste time on them. It is on them and you will not know the truth not even if you ask them(cuz they females and will lie).
/r/seduction02/09/24 02:08 PM
1

oh no they removed you from instagram followers oh no, your life will end, grow up. i thought seduction is for 18+ for a reason
/r/seduction02/09/24 02:00 PM
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just putting this out there before it happens, she will friendzone you because you will not try anything and when you eventually try she will say "we should just be friends". Don't say i didn't warn you bro ;)
/r/seduction02/09/24 01:58 PM
3

your environment doesn't get laid or deals with women on regular basis
/r/seduction02/09/24 01:56 PM
7

what about the other guys who she fucked on the first date ?
/r/seduction02/09/24 01:56 PM
3

you wrote "i didnt kino or kiss her because i am pussy and i know i will never go on a date with as attractive girl as her on a date and i can't fuck this up" wrong.
/r/seduction02/09/24 01:55 PM
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nah, you should do it on the 10th date, and wait for sex till marriage, maybe she will then realize how nice of a guy you are and give you some pussy
/r/seduction02/09/24 01:54 PM
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being yourself is best so you find girls who like you for you not for the persona you want to act like :)
/r/seduction26/08/24 01:18 PM
8

improve yourself and social skills, the better you are the less girls you have to approach/open to get laid. I don't see it as rejection, i see it as we weren't compatible so i move on, i rather be "rejected" then being led on and time wasted. Also not like you gonna like every girl you approach(unless you care only about looks).
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:11 PM
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Exactly, this is the only truth. Numbers games is nr 1 how to improve how to deal with women, how to get abundance, how to get laid, how to find the girls of your dreams. Most men fail because doing numbers game is lots of work and they lazy. It is easier to give up and jerk off at home.
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:29 PM
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i always had women trying to talk to me in some regard, but since i lost weight got some muscle and got better facial hair and haircut, as well as just being more confident/chill/approachable it is way easier now. Being like a person that people want to talk to helps a lot, downside is if you introverted like me random people trying to talk to you get a bit anoying
/r/seduction16/08/24 02:34 PM
1

for some women its a deal breaker, some girls prefer it. But generally being fit makes your dating pool wider and makes you more attractive to wider range of women
/r/seduction15/08/24 12:15 PM
1

well i am quite picky and i usually when i date seriously have a rotation of 2 or more girls but not all girls i like and they like me it will workout so i have to consistently get new girls in rotation or go on dates with. So if you go on 5 dates and 3 girls you dont like because their personalities i cant say its a success you still wasted time going on dates right
/r/seduction09/08/24 05:59 PM
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so you get IOI from girls YOU want to bang so consistently that you can get laid left and right ? I get approached by girls sometimes and sometimes its girls that i like and sometimes they not and sometimes i get IOI from girls im into and sometimes i am not but is not consistent enough to get laid on the regular
/r/seduction09/08/24 04:02 PM
2

why you wanna lie
/r/seduction09/08/24 03:55 PM
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a classic guy who banged less than 10-20 girls in his life talking about shit he has no clue about because he is 6'5 athletic. Because you think girls from apps are std hoes and girls on street is better means you ain't got experience with women. So it means you almost never got laid on first date but a few dates because you want "classy ones". You didn't answer any questions i asked because you are a talk out of your ass guy who obviously doesn't get laid. If you ever got rejected and not a fuc…
/r/seduction09/08/24 03:21 PM
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They are positives and negatives : + you get laid. you know she is down to fuck you if she fucks you on first date and you will waste way less time then going on multiple dates, if she has more dates lined up and you fuck her first there is a chance she will not go meet or fuck someone else after that she might diqualify you as a fuckboi or just a ONS if you try to fuck her first date and never see you again, even if you have sex on first date she might think of you as a player and therefore nev…
/r/seduction09/08/24 12:38 PM
2

so any girl you wanna fuck you fuck ? i mostly do online dating so i have to play numbers game no way all the girls i match with or go on date I want to fuck because they stupid or they dont wanna fuck first date etc, i select them on first date and some dates don't go as i want them to go. So mate bodycount ? and how many girls you banged in last 1 year ?
/r/seduction09/08/24 12:20 PM
8

first of all average chicks get hit on from all the guys because most guys are pussies and insecure even me i feel no pressure when i sit across average girl(but a girl thats my type thats a different story). As well as average girls have to weed out the guys who actually like them and who just want to smash, average girls will most likely to go on a date with anyone and then be more picky from then on. Also for some reason if i am attracted to girl(in person) for both the vibe and looks it is u…
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:10 PM
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Im a fuckboi so most i agree (grooming, taking care of yourself,gym etc) For me because i am already confident and more experienced it is actually EASIER to bang attractive girls than average ones, you should always go for girls YOU find attractive(not everyone else but you). Also most girls i had sex with was first date after 1-2 hours max so 3 dates seems way too long if you a real fuckboi and do things right. But you forgot the most important part of being a fuckboi which is playing the numbe…
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:01 PM
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im 32, and i consistently have sex and date 18-23 year old girls? Why i do that instead of my age ? because they are easier to deal with/more fun, more relaxed, better looking in general and less jaded. Are there good girls over the age of 25-26? yes but they will usually be more cautious and take things slower as well being less sexual and more into long term things and more maintenance then their younger counterparts. The part about you feeling bad about having sex with 18 y old girls is becau…
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:23 AM
1

it is in your head.... The issue with 10/10 is that they are rarer to find or they in relationship. Also 1-10 scale is extremely subjective so there is no objective 10/10. I went on 1000 of dates and when i find a girl that i really like/find attractive and she is like 8 9 or 10(subjective) it will actually be easier for me to have something with her then from girls who are 5-6 but the girls who i was not into i will not remember them and just move on, the rejection/not working out with a 9-10 i…
/r/seduction25/07/24 08:52 AM
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i don't get rejected, i get told that we are not compatible so i know to move on to find the other one which im compatible with ;)
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:30 AM
1

girls look for looks more of a minimum of looks, but doesn't really matter, what matters what you are looking for in a girl and finding girls that you are attracted to. The only things that matter is if you get what you want from girls you find attractive and want to date.
/r/seduction18/04/24 09:19 AM
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For normal sex with normal girl? no With hooker? yes, it would be weird if the hooker fuck you for free(happend to me tho lol)
/r/seduction08/04/24 01:38 PM
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its called oneitis, sadly none of the girls is something special, you know how i know? because everytime i thought some girl was amazing/special/whatever and we broke up, sometime down the road i found a new/better one. The only hard part is that you will have to go on a lot of dates to find a girl who you will feel for the same way
/r/seduction27/03/24 06:01 AM
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kinda same tbh, except the part they are harder to find/get out on the date, otherwise i find it easier to bang/date 8+ then 6 for me. Also your 9 is not my 9 its subjective and need to include personality as well. Once you banged enough hot girls you will realize that girl being your type(both looks/personality) is way more important than being generally attractive. Girls that were my type when i show to friends say they are okay or cute but to me they were gorgeous, meanwhile i can show the gi…
/r/seduction24/03/24 10:45 AM
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i say: "ok, cool" and leave No need to give girls extra validation rofl.
/r/seduction24/03/24 04:55 AM
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i mainly just do dating apps, i have same pictures as before and i put same age, but i get way less dates, i just invest less time per girl and meet only ones who are either somewhat pursiung me or responsive, also i don't chat anything special i just send basic 5 messages and then try to move to whatsapp/zalo. Before i tried a bit harder with hitting them up again after a while, trying to meet even if they cancel, send more texts etc etc. I was just more interested in dating then now id say. Al…
/r/seduction21/03/24 08:12 AM
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186 cm, 93-97 kg 13-18% bodyfat. The difference more was the effort i put into trying to get girls than the 5kg difference tbh. If you try to look your best and be around 14-16%boxyfat you are fine
/r/seduction21/03/24 07:52 AM
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lol, are you seriously even asking this question ? over texts she doesn't have to seem interested, i met girls who didn't seem interested, easiest way to findout if she interested or not is to set up a date and if she ain't interested she will flake. simple as that, if she flakes/canceles you ghost her.
/r/seduction16/03/24 03:19 AM
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If they want to reschedule tell them to come to your place. There are just stupid girls wanted attention with never meeting up. If they are older like 26+ they might be like "OKG THIS GUY DIDN'T TALK TO ME ENOUGH BEFORE DATE" i had few like this, this is better to be dodged anyway because theyd waste your time, i usually insult them and block them.(i do it because they had probably heaps of simps which say "okay baby no problem", men are the problem for tolerating this behavior and girls get no …
/r/seduction02/03/24 09:36 AM
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Well have realistic pictures on your profile, i had numberous girls who looked slimmer/not chubby on pictures but in person were very chubby/fat. In those cases if im already on date i might fuck her once if she cute and im horny but most likely i will ghost her after that. But i won't go on date if i see she is chubby in the first place. This way you will find who like your type and want to have a fwb.
/r/seduction29/02/24 10:34 AM
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Looks: Lost bodyfat, gotten muscle, tailoed my facial hair+haircut for my face, dyed eyebrows darker because they looks awful when not. Gotten somewhat profesional pictures for dating apps(high quality pictures but made by friends) + premium tinder + premium bumble. Most important is to not talk to women too much online but try to move them on a date quickly, if they are interested in you they will be down to meet after just a bit of chating. On date: be relaxed, don't compliment them on looks, …
/r/seduction29/02/24 05:42 AM
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Yes, i personally found that the most attractive girls i banged/dated usually look WAAAY better in person and on pictures they look somewhat average/cute, the ones that look insanely good on pictures are mostly not even close as good as in person.
/r/seduction21/02/24 02:54 AM
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This is what i do when i have smash first date AND want to see her again for sure, before she leaves, tell her you to text you when she gets home so you know she safe. When she texts you, you say :" i had a great time today/yesterday with you, lets do this sometimes again this week, i will text you in few days and we will plan something". If you did somewhat of a good job and she is down to see you, she will most likely hit you up when she gets home.
/r/seduction18/02/24 05:54 PM
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im 32 and consistently hookup with 18-23 year old, actually most of the girls i hooked up with were in that range, but that being said i look way younger, goodlooking and well put together so i doubt anyone judges. I even had 16-17 y olds approach me on street/club but for obvious reasons i dodge that :) Also you shouldn't care what other people think, some people will find a 20 y old guy approaching a 20 y old girl creepy, some will find it disgusting, some people think that you should wait til…
/r/seduction18/02/24 10:12 AM
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yes, use a good condom, meet her for JUST SEX 2-3 times a month, if she ask for something else say no. so meet, fuck 1-2 times and then she leaves, no cuddles no dinner no hangouts just sex. Everything else is for nice girls
/r/seduction18/02/24 09:14 AM
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blowjob
/r/seduction17/02/24 10:04 AM
5

i doubt that will happen, just a more of a switch from dating apps to instagran or shit like that probsbly. a lot of people date from IG as well
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:36 PM
1

it also depends on his standars and what he is attracted to
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:35 PM
2

yea you are probably goodlooking guy and in shape. And your game seems a lot like mine(direct and aggresive) That usually works for online dating but not for irl. Social circle and daygame usually takes more time and talking, while nightgame and online is more based on looks+status and aggression imo.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:33 PM
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yea i have same problem, im 30 now and cant be fucked going drinking and to clubs so i have to approach during day. And everybody knows daygame is shit. I mean if you get cute/hot girls from online dating why bother with daygame at all tbh. Evrerytime i tried approaching girls on street and going out i was like why am i even trying, waste of time, effort and money tbh. The only thing why i thought about approachi g on street/clubs cuz the girkz might be better looking but most will be unavaliabl…
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:19 PM
1

this, shit i just wrote a whole paragraph and this giy alreadg said everytjing i did 🤣
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:56 PM
3

Im in the same boat, also 3 digit bidycount from mostly online dating. And i have the same issue, i did get laid from nightgame/social circle/daygame but mostly online. What i belive is the case: if you match with a girl she finds you attractive and is most likey single which may not be the case from real life, she coukd have a bf/bot her type/not dating etc. Also you are running way greater volume on online dating and probably you get laid with 1/30 matches or less(atleast me). Girls that have …
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:55 PM
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