| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 34 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriend | support request | PyromanticMushroom | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/09/23 08:52 AM |
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| 1 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendIts not an SSRI for one, and for two I did go off it for about a month and it didn't help. | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/10/23 08:57 AM |
| 1 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendYeah, maybe. I actually like going slow, she is the one that likes going fast. When I go fast its weird, I don't feel much which is the exact opposite of what I ever imagined. And I mean like in an immediate kind of way, not nothing after a while of doing. As far vulnerable, its like when someone tickles you or something, you know? | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/10/23 08:55 AM |
| 3 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendThanks for the long and detailed comment. How long would say I should give up masturbating before I see her? I've gone 2 days before, and it was very difficult, but it also didn't help at all. I think it would be a lot easier to give up porn than masturbation entirely, so I'll give that a shot. About your last paragraph: are you saying that if we have sex I shouldn't finish myself off at the end anymore? Also, what did you mean about likes and dislikes? We're both completely open with each other… | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/10/23 07:47 AM |
| 1 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendI just challenged their assertions and asked for evidence that death grip is real, since its not scientifically supported, and people freaked out and started being rude. So I wanted to come here and see what people would say in a place where I can be confident the issue isn't being politicized. And yeah, there is good advice here too but its very different so that makes me think coming here was the right call. Except for the one guy who tried to call me a misogynist the discourse seems a lot mor… | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/10/23 07:38 AM |
| 2 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendYou're not being crass at all, I came here to talk candidly about sex stuff so its fine. Maybe you missed it but in my post I said I have to finish myself with my hand. Her hand, mouth, etc. is not able to cut it. Sometimes I do finish on her because she likes that but to be honest man, even if any of that stuff worked I wouldn't be satisfied with the outcome. Trust me, she's not being selfish at all. She's the most patient and kind woman I've ever met. She always asks me what she can do and fee… | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/10/23 07:32 AM |
| 1 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendYou really have not had a lot of interaction with women have you. Lol, this tells me all I need to know about you. Have nice life man. | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/10/23 07:25 AM |
| 3 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendI mean, my goal is to be able to enjoy vaginal sex with her. Her being able to make me finish with her hand would be nice but I would prefer having actual sex since that is supposed to feel better. | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/09/23 08:39 PM |
| 2 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendI don't believe I grip myself particularly hard. I mean, it doesn't hurt or anything. Never been able to use lube ever since I was a teen. There's just no friction and it doesn't feel good. I'm open to the idea of trying, but it does seem to conflict with the advice others are giving to not masturbate at all so I'm not sure what to do. | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/09/23 08:36 PM |
| 0 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriend(there really was no need for you to preface the therapist with her gender, I'm sure she is qualified and is good at her job, as she proved with her diagnosis). It was the cold and rushed attitude she gave me, as if she was just brushing me off like those other posters with the whole "just don't masturbate" thing. I'm sure she is highly qualified at her job and I'm not saying women can't be as good of doctors as men at all, but respectfully, she doesn't know what it is like to be a guy. On avera… | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/09/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendI have a hypersensitivity problem too and I'm cut. At first I thought the reason I couldn't cum was because of the glans stimulation. I still don't really like my glans being touched at all because it just creates this weird overstimulated ticklish sensation that makes me feel really emotionally drained and vulnerable in a bad way. I've slowly extended the time limit I have before that sensation starts, but its one of the other reasons we have to stop before I can orgasm. I can only imagine how … | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/09/23 08:22 PM |
| 4 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendThat’s why I can’t take subs like sex or dating_advice seriously. If a woman doesn’t enjoy sex, it’s the man’s fault. If a man doesn’t enjoy sex, it’s still the man’s fault because he must have a porn addiction / death grip. It’s completely ridiculous that they assume this for every sex issue. Dating advice threads are a hotbed of misandry. I got told I was equivalent to Elliot Roger when I was much younger because I asked what women like, and that combined with a bunch of other stuff conditione… | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/09/23 08:18 PM |
| 5 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendDo you like having sex with her? Yes, she is very attractive and I love her. You said it doesn't feel that good, which makes it sound like you don't really enjoy it. It doesn't feel bad or painful, just kinda like a numb feeling. There are certain angles and positions where I can feel something start to happen, but it never really goes anywhere. (I can be more specific if you want). So after a while it just gets kinda boring, nothing is happening and she is getting sore/worn out from too many or… | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/09/23 08:09 PM |
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