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Women aren't rejecting you, they don't even know you. They are rejecting your dating profile.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/26 10:49 PM
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This is one thing that redpillers and incels have in common. They thrive for the moment when the women they wanted (and also hated?!) the most will hit "the wall" and are somehow now undesirable to them (although they still do want them).
/r/ExRedPill02/06/26 08:19 AM
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Men care about penis size a lot more than women do. Same with gaining a lot of muscle.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/26 11:02 AM
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You're not responsible of other people's decisions. Were they helpful in dating or not. If man is deep in red pill, he won't even care what woman says anyway. He "knows" better than you. Instead of saving others, focuse on people who are worth the effort. People who value you, want to see you succeed.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/26 10:18 AM
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Being mature is one thing yes. But the masculinity you mention there seems to be something else. Something that other men value, rather than women do. The redpill idea of masculinity is just some bizarre performance that requires others to play along with in order to keep the act going. Act that many, especially women nope out of and fast.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 09:57 PM
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Why is masculinity important?
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 09:48 PM
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Yeah. This only works if they actually care about you.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/25 01:53 PM
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I grew up with sexist father and extended family. Never found way to make any of them to respect me or see me having any value, since I'm a woman. As an adult I have no connection to them for a decade now. One thing that might give a stop to your dad, if he cares about you, is to always ask: is that what you think of me? When he's talking shit about women in general. If he generalises women, it includes you too. All women are gold diggers - you really think that about me?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/25 08:19 PM
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You speak of women like when people talk about adopting a puppy.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/25 09:31 AM
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In my surroundings, men are valuable, women not. Men should be respected and listened to. Women just be seen but not heard.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/25 01:05 PM
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Why are you in exredpill?
/r/ExRedPill26/03/25 03:56 PM
3

I'm trying to understand. It sounds like the women were forced in order to get kids outside of the strategy. Doesn't this mean men's strategy is either become insanely rich or force women into having kid?
/r/ExRedPill22/03/25 10:32 AM
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Well he's making waves for sure. In social matters. How does the humanity procreate now that women have only couple options, since wealth is ranked? Why there are kids/partnerships outside of the most wealthy?
/r/ExRedPill22/03/25 10:23 AM
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Ah damn.. Musk it is then and none else. Hate that cunt but strategy is strategy.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/25 10:16 AM
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Can you tell me where I can find high status man or the rankings of statuses? My straregy is confused since I wasn't aware I was doing it wrong. Is status purely money or is the influence part of it? Which one is more important? What I do with all the other women that always have this same strategy?
/r/ExRedPill22/03/25 10:11 AM
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Not sure what you are trying to say there. Red pill is most likely the reason you're not feminist, or in its another word, for equality. Happiness is irrelevant on joining cults or being part of these kind of brainwashing. You can blame for your problems anything you desire anyway. With red pill it tends to be women as a whole. You can be happy with your situation and still see how others than you are struggling and desire for chance.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/25 10:18 AM
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You are here to defend red pill and people associated, as per your other comments here. There are other subs for defending. This is for recovery from red pill.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/25 08:52 AM
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As the description of sub says, this is for those that recognise the problems red pill causes. Not a debate sub for people still in it.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/25 08:27 AM
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Not sure why you are here then. This is for people exiting red pill.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/25 08:04 AM
1

This is just how I see this problem: The man I have now is the best, none else is even an option. Other men are just people to me, rather than "possible partner candidates". Same with women, all just people. Only if my man suddenly changes and becomes abusive, I will rather be alone then. Not even sure if I start considering any of the "people" as candidates again.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 07:45 AM
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At that point I didn't care what he'd look like. It was his personality I fell in love with.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/24 05:20 AM
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Online game. We started to play a lot together and it kinda escalated from there.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/24 05:09 AM
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I fell in love with my ex without knowing how he even looked like.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 04:50 PM
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There are people who doesn't care too much about the appearance. I don't think these people would call their partners ugly either. You seem to care about the looks, especially when people don't "date on their level". Attractiveness is subjective. You should date you deem good for you, not what it looks like to others or other weird measure as the 10 point system.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/24 04:20 PM
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Why would you want to be with someone, who thinks you're ugly? I don't think the women you deem ugly would appreciate that you're with them, since you think that you yourself are ugly so you're just dating on your level.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/24 03:59 PM
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I made the same mistale. I thought debate meant you listen to each other points and then address them. But instead you get piled on if you don't say what the redpillers want to hear. I tried for a while but it's not possible to have discussion where one calls you a liar every time you disagree.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/24 10:49 AM
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No, not even once. For me that sort of attention means danger. I don't want random people to see me that way. Opposite sex or not, I'd like if they would see me as generic person rather than cute/beautiful/sexy etc. Every time when I got this attention, it was dangerous situation. Those men were at least two times my age and sexually aggressive. Or my age that couldn't understand a word no, or me saying go away. This attention started when I was 9 years old and never it has been positive for me.…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 11:33 AM
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Imagine the half of the population is stronger, sexually aggressive gorillas. Some of them are nice and some will assault you. Getting any "compliments" from gorilla means you're on their vision and they might attack. That sure as hell makes you feel good about yourself.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 07:37 AM
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Why you would need or want that? Haven't you read woman-centric subs. Women actively try to not to appeal to men so harassment would cease. I don't want anyone else consider me attractive in any way except the SO I'm with. If I'm single, only opinion that would matter would be someone who you can admire and trust.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 05:53 PM
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Nowadays you're not up against other men. You are against the peace and solitude of living alone.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 06:12 AM
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RP is bad, RP is something awful. You might be in the wrong sub.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 02:02 PM
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I was trying to contrast the point I was seeing you to make to totally another toxic view. RP is still understood as manipulation based woman hating/subjugation essentially. It having some useful tips here and there doesn't save it from being fought against.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:53 PM
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People understand RP still as toxic, even if you've seen a shift. If I start conversation stating I'm white supremacist, it makes sense why people shun me from the start.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 12:24 PM
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But OP is basically saying that they believe in a toxic mindset but take only the good stuff out of it. It's not really red pill then. You can say this about anything really. "I'm consuming white superiority stuff but I take only good stuff out of it. Like how important sunscreen is. So white superiority is actually a good thing!"
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 12:17 PM
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Can't talk about anyone else, but having a stoic robot as a partner doesn't really sound fun for either one in the relationship.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 02:34 PM
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So if I return you to the store, how much value I will get?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 04:01 PM
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Friends are all in range of 25-40. The one who used the app said something like she felt like a piece of meat when all messages were highly sexual. She deleted everything because she got scared of her safety, according to her. Then again the city ain't that big so I think I understand. If someone sees you in street and recognises you from app, it can go south fast. From single women I know she was the only one trying app. From women who are in relationship, man wasn't found from app. I don't qui…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 10:37 AM
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I never been on dating apps/sites. From all women I know, friends, colleagues, family, one was once using an app, before she just abandoned it briefly. She said it was terrible experience for some reason. At least how I see, majority of women who are single doesn't touch apps. Either stay single or find someone other ways.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 06:59 AM
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If we're talking about apps, only a few women use them. Majority are offline.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 10:02 PM
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Oh right I forgot how to female for a sec. I mean first tear I see from onion cutting even takes me to the strong Chad that beats me since at least then I see those powerful muscles move. But I only stay as long as I see someone richer, because I have class!
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 10:12 AM
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I think that to be able to show vulnerability requires a lot of strength. It's a lot easier to yell and push everyone away than reveal your inner working to others. It's very difficult to do and women aren't that much better at it in my opinion. I've had few men show me vulnerability, friends, BF, stranger even. These are the people I respect the most. These are the people who's opinions I value the most. If man can be this real with others, it is he's that real with other things too, which make…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 09:53 AM
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Not sure what you mean there. Feminism means equality. Violence is not equality.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 07:24 PM
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You feel that people have achieved equality? That would make feminism obsolete. I would really love that. I'm afraid people around me must have missed the memo since they sure don't act like men and women are equals.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 10:49 AM
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Is there something particular on that sub or you just don't like equality that much?
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 10:36 AM
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So expand the social circle as the commenter suggested.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 09:12 AM
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I and other women would most likely pay for a guaranteed safe sex experience. Imagine that women could use an escort, who is kind and gentle, is versed in women's anatomy, stops immediately if wanted, respects the wishes of the customer, never hurting or using too much strength. Then of course, clean tested, never stealthing/sterile man with no possibility of getting pregnant. There would be tons of women paying for something like that.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 04:21 PM
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That sounds really rough. I hope you're able to rebuild your social circle, even if it means totally new friends. All the power to you.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 02:22 PM
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We're talking about people, not math.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 06:01 PM
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You don't seem to have grasb of what it means to be emotionally mature. It's not about control or no control. It's about expressing them the healthy way. No bottling up, no diminishing. Everyone is human and feels emotions. Only problem is to learn to express all of the human condition. Supressing emotions doesn't take them away, just postpones and creates later problems. Logic comes from emotions. You get angry about something, so you have to use your logic to deal with it. You cannot be logica…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 03:39 PM
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Same go for men too. Both need to be working, no sole providers possible, unless one is very lucky.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 03:30 PM
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Why it matters who it was who filed? One person in the marriage wasn't happy so divorce was filed. Partnership doesn't work with only one willing participant.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 02:27 PM
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Women in general doesn't need a provider anymore. Having kids isn't something that is that important either. And kids can be had without a man if needed. What women in general need now is a partner. Equal partner, both providing and maintaining home. Men who keep referring to the past will be wondering why they stay single. Men can keep chasing fertility as much as they like, but since women have evolved pass that, it will be a futile exercise.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 12:42 PM
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Network of other high quality men.. Really sounds like only men's opinion matters here. Sexist people make terrible partners. Also man should be the parent for his kids, not just someone preparing them. Controlling emotions isn't the healthy way to go. Accepting that we are all people, who are emotional creatures gives room for being a humam. Rather than robot who doesn't feel. With these criteria, I don't want a "high quality" man. Rather be alone.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 12:32 PM
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Don't do crimes if you don't want prison sentences. Can you give the rest to me? I don't seem to be a woman enough for them. What I have to do to avoid abuse, verbal and physical?
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 02:43 PM
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I feel it's privilege not to be in pain and bleed so let's trade.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 08:23 AM
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Just for those two things I would make the trade in a heartbeat.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 05:16 AM
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You use the looks, I will use the superpower of not bleeding and being in pain so much.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 07:02 PM
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I'd rather be born male. Wanna switch with me?
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 05:43 PM
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I guess people are just wired a little different. For me women aren't interesting at all, I don't understand what others see in them. But on men, there are so many things individuals can have. How they carry themselves, different body types, individual differences like awesome fingers on some or a powerful nose, deep eyesockets etc.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 05:09 PM
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Problem with gay stuff is that it is for the male gaze. Porn that is for straight women.. I never seen. According to one research I heard about, when women look men in lust, the eyes are fixated on hands, shoulders, back, butt and face. These are spots that for some reason turn the female gaze to. The porn I've seen, camera shows just how woman is being hammered and from man you see barely anything. On gay stuff, it's very rough and genital focused, which isn't really working for me or many othe…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 04:25 PM
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Maybe that makes me gay then. I don't watch porn since I have same problem, never found any with my type of men in them. Those muscular Ken dolls lack the primal beast that some man can have. Rough, beard, hairy, bald and those amazing legs. Porn also looks very painful from my perspective and that does kill all the sex drive into a wall. Behind closed doors, at least I have a man that is freaking sexy to not only look at but share a life with. The way he sees the world is something own and as m…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 04:06 PM
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Maybe I can tell about the desire I have for my BF. For me the chad type people are dull and intimidating. No persona. My own guy "suffers" from baldness. Which is bs, since I freaking love bald head. For me, bald is one feature that really shows manliness, since women rarely can have it. Same with beard. His bushy beard is just gorgeous, and I love to make my fingers go through it. He also has nice eyes, but once he looks at me my knees just melt. He also has round cheeks that especially seem t…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:56 PM
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Now you say most men. So you agree that women can have lust now? You should see me in certain time in the month. Holy heck it's hard to act normally around BF especially then.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:31 PM
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I don't see point in trying to show how you're fundamentally wrong since you just dismish things you don't agree with. You wouldn't listen it anyway it seems. Until you are actually curious to listen something about the other side, take care.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:25 PM
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Porn for women exists but you just choose to deny that. Also everything else that doesn't fit to your believes. Hope you one day can choose to listen others than yourself. Hope you get out of the world of yours where women are just props that use men with sexuality they doesn't seem to understand themselves for some reason. Maybe you should stick with men since they are the only ones that can understand attraction, according to you.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:17 PM
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Online has same problem. You talk openly about your attraction, you get flooded with nasty stuff. There's a reason why many women use male/neutral names online.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 02:46 PM
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I don't know. In general women learn from early age to hide a lot of this stuff in order to be safe. Showing lust, checking out a man can end up badly if seen. That's one of the reasons why we keep it between girl friends. Attraction is there but not displayed the same ways as men do Anecdotally, I have to tone down my (visible) lust for my BF since he gets uncomfortable about it sometimes. In my relationship I'm the one who has the "stronger attraction".
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 11:05 AM
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Women have different kind of attraction. All you see in media and porn is made for male gaze. To find what caters women aren't in the places you are looking into.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 10:48 AM
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You say men aren't sexually attractive for women. This sub is women seeing men attractive.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 10:45 AM
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r/ladyboners
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 10:42 AM
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She's choosing to be with you. Physically and mentally. No "what if" situations change that. Unless if the change comes from you.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 12:12 PM
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At the beginning of the relationship I distanced myself from all my female friends. I talk about this more in other comments The thread is so long already so I cannot find your elaboration for this. But this seems so cold and weird way to treat women. Why you distance yourself? You don't trust yourself around other women? Or is the only "use" for a woman to be GF and once acquired, all other women lose their "use"? These were at least what I've read RP men say, is this you?
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 01:00 PM
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I don't know about other women, but how I'd understand the question is that romance in sex means like, man wants me and me alone. That we want each other so much that we "join" together, having an experience together. Only thing that matters is giving and receiving pleasure and having fun with the favourite person. Extension of everything we are already together. Expressing all the love and want for each other. In contrast, sex without romance is a performance for yourself, where another person …
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 11:17 AM
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First of all, why do you need a man? Relationships should enchance your life, not to dictate your life. What man wants is totally irrelevant on how you should live a life. What you actually want is the only important thing. You should focus on what you want to be and how to achieve it. Study what you want, get fun hobbies, career or something else. If along the way you find a man that likes you as a whole, hobbies, personality, looks etc. all the better! Then you have your own thing going on alr…
/r/ExRedPill10/09/22 12:15 PM
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As a woman, I'm not evaluating and ranking men based of their beauty and assets. More important is how this individual makes you feel, do they respect you, are they interesting. I got myself geeky, introverted, sweet man. We both are introverts, like games and enjoy weird beers. Those are the things that attracted me, similar interest, open to try new foods/drinks, treating me with the same respect as I do him. So in other words, his personality, the man he is made him the most attractive man th…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 11:06 PM
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I see only my BF as attractive, so it doesn't matter how other men look like. I make my own money so what another man earns isn't relevant. Only way me to start looking other men is my BF to become abusive in some way. Being willfully abusive means they wouldn't care about my wellbeing anymore so I would end it there. Then it would be quite the task to find a man whose personality I would fall in love with. Once such man would be found, he'd be the most and only attractive man in my world again.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 02:27 PM
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Maybe once you leave red pill, you lose the ability to justify insanities so you go on the root of the issues. Rather than the common red pill talking points.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 08:59 AM
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If taking similar example to Tate, Alex Jones was very popular and it didn't save him from obeying rules of the platform.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 04:40 PM
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He could always try to make his points the way it's not breaking rules of the platform.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 04:19 PM
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Start treating everyone as you would treat a man. Women, children, boys. Don't take into account who you talk with and just talk same to everyone. It takes the power away from any assumptions on how you should behave and basically showing everyone respect the same time.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 11:19 PM
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Not sure where all this happens to you, but if ratio is 5 to 1, woman in this case tends to be alone. It's very difficult to get to talking if there's just bunch of men. Maybe in bars there can be situation like that, but the attention tends to come from predatory men. If I go to bar, it's the 20-30 years older men harassing me. Never really get attention from remotely similar aged men.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 12:26 AM
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You are basically saying feminists and red pillers are mightier than god. If god wants something certain way, he should have the power to enforce it.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 12:21 AM
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Why would women risk potentially their lives for unsatisfying sex? There's no gain for most women to become vunerable with strange man and then be just used as a masturbation tool. If women would get off in same rate as men, I bet the situation would be different. At least in this scenario there would be a possible reward at the end.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 11:30 AM
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If you have a work place or similar, there this your thing would work so much better. Couple men in office just were saying Hi for everyone they seen first time. It felt really friendly and I started to Hi back. I also started to say Hi to people I seen first time and got few friends! The times I've said Hi back to a man in streets, they always wanted something. Money, tell about jesus, one started to ask very obivious questions to figure where I live, one followed me back to elevator and forced…
/r/seduction19/07/22 01:35 PM
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If woman is older, they don't take your hello as a pickup tactic, but just friendliness. Young men don't tend to greet older women for that. But if woman is in similar age range, it seems like an attempt for cold approach, opening the way for more. That tends to be very troubling from a strange man.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:52 AM
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I don't quite agree there. It's not that women wouldn't want casual sex, but finding any passable sex with randoms is almost impossible. You can have sex with 100 men and reach maybe one orgasm. That kind of ratio doesn't really push you to take the risks involved.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 11:28 AM
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I hope that the people who uses those terms see me as low value so they won't interact with me. And it is hate speech. Describing another as "less than" if they don't fit in tight mold especially when it's about what you are, rather than what you've done. Dehumanizing others and saying others are superior. Not sure how far the low/high values go, or are those used only to the "sexual market".
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 02:05 PM
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It's quite insane to read from posts like these that are sure of what I want as a woman. Broad generalizations of half of the population. Fraction of that population might see themselves in this post, but it doesn't seem to matter. We are hivemind apparently. As far as I see, I think you're already a redpill. It seems that only value of woman is their body for you. How to attract a body to get your virginity away. You don't care how to get it, so using manipulation and misogyny are options for y…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/21 05:43 PM
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Everything is suddently so easy and straight forward when leaving manipulations and mind reading expectations away. Having a partner like that is the least stressful relationship I've had. Want something - they say, don't want, say. And then just respect the answer.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 10:24 AM
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I'd rather become celibate in order to get taken seriously in career, healthcare, overal discussion etc. Access to sex is meaningless advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:31 PM
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For me he's incredibly sexy. But I guess people take points down from being halfway bald, uncept beard, mental health issues, being emotional/open and usually dressing in "workers clothes". Those were the things I seen at the start the very least. If I understand the rating right, that's not top 20% in looks wise. I'm not dating looks anyway but the personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:06 PM
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Vibrator rather than that for sure. No danger and always satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 12:39 PM
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That's awesome, being able to be a fleshlight to any random man! Who wouldn't want that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:39 PM
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There's many men around but getting a relationship material is difficult. Having interesting personality, dark sense of humour, respectful etc. is not happening in one package too often. Once those hit together, I get attraction too. Not sure how common that is though. I'm not attracted to anyone until I know them well enough and they have amazing personality first. And then it doesn't seem to really matter how they look since I fell already. But that's something I'm not sure you can generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 11:05 AM
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Getting someone who would actually be good for relationship is own can of worms. Odds are even tinyer and time wasted in search enormous. Unless you get lottery win and get to skip the whole hunt. I have difficulties to relate to men's side since I'm not one, but having one potential person in months/years and hope for best doesn't sound fun either. If that is even accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:48 PM
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Okay got it. I understand your point now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:16 PM
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The problems doesn't correlate because men have way more difficult or what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:03 PM
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You went 180° in the original post of yours now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 02:56 PM
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I guess it boils down to what you prefer. Not having choices or being flooded by things you don't want in the first place. But as the OP mentioned there, getting sexual pleasure is not happening for women in any of those 1000 trials. You just waste time in exchange of letting go for your safety. To get pleasure for women, it takes time and will to learn what works and what doesn't, which essentially begs for established relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 02:09 PM
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Easy access to non pleasing and potentially dangerous sex. If one in 1000 encounters might get close to pleasure, it's not really a choice. Better is to stay home with vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 11:43 AM
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OP worded out it so well what I've been badly trying to explain long time. Casual sex is worthless at best, dangerous at worst. I never had casual relationships for the reasons she points out. Even with my long term partners, sex at start was painful and nowhere near pleasurable. It took a lot of practice to get to pleasure and eventually for orgasms. In casual sex I'd have just pain and no pleasure for the risk of being with stranger who generally is much more stronger than I am. No deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:55 AM
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Doesn't seem to. I rarely see men considering safety or quality when trying to hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:18 AM
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Good quality, safe and fun sex. In order it to be safe in the first place, you gotta know the dude a bit more than just from chat. Related to that, with communication sex becomes good quality (taken into account both care each others satisfaction) and makes it also safer. And having both tends to be fun. This whole process takes time and not really achievable from random hookups. The random dude you can get from Tinder can be anything, from best sex you ever had to rapist/murderer. But mostly se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:12 AM
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Not only that, they know it better than women theirselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:59 AM
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Bad sex is not that bad of an outcome, taken into consideration you're going to be with someone who's much stronger than you, in private setting and without knowing them. It's very dangerous thing to do in the first place. The risk and reward isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:56 AM
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That's a shame though. I agree on what you say and especially here in PPD. Would love to have here factual debates where intent is to understand rather than win.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:11 AM
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If you're attracted to women, it means you're into womanly things, therefore gay. If you're attracted to men, it means you're into manly things, therefore alpha.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/21 09:47 AM
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I don't use dating apps so I don't know what kind of standards I "should have". The meat market that the dating apps seem to be, doesn't really tell anything about the person. It only shows they might look like and profession and other information that tells nothing about the personality. That's not very good way to find good lasting relationship. But that might be just me talking.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 10:08 AM
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Problem with data from dating apps is that it tells only about the behaviour of people who use the app. It's not like all women or men are there. Less so for women. People I know around me, maybe 10% are using the apps and those are solely men. I wouldn't touch those apps with a long stick as a woman.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:26 PM
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Not sure why you say women don't generally play. it's getting near 50/50 in states alone. I play with co-workers Overwatch, alone Warframe, No man's sky, endless space, total war, mass effects, borderlands.. I like to try all sorts of PC games so listing most would take long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:36 PM
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Both being able to earn own money eliminates most problems. If one is millionaire, it doesn't mean that other can get any of it. Upper class but still reliant of other one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:47 PM
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Or when women don't have to rely on men's pay, most problems in relationships go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:38 PM
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You keep mentioning feminism and clearly having no idea what means. Strawman is easier to fight than real issue I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:33 AM
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That sounds so terrible. I cannot imagine how it can be like. I come from place were women are leading the country. Used to have woman president and now prime minister and other minister are mostly women. You're extremely strong to have all that and still survive.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 06:24 PM
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Even when you've been raised there, you still are fighting back. I think that is amazing. It's not easy to rewrite everything you've known. I root for you.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 06:13 PM
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Must really suck to be a woman in that kind of enviroment. You're evil and manipulative by default to others...
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 04:57 PM
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Well first of all should forget what you've learned about it from movies or media and learn what psychology says about it. Problem with incels seems to be they have very warped idea of how people should interact with each other and how to build any relationship. We are essentially the same. Psychology tells better why person behaves or thinks like they do and what lead to that. We all have insecurities and own ideas what makes us worthy. If you think that this jawline makes you worthy of anyone …
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 08:28 PM
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None of the above. They get their self worth from totally wrong sources and how human realtions should work.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 07:30 PM
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You assume great things about the 50% and then about the other 50%. You try to rationalize it somehow but it doesn't make any of it true. Treat people as individuals. Labeling insane amount of people under one label doesn't work or give any infomation about anything.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 06:44 PM
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Most women have these too. I don't see it or anything else as an excuse to demonize half of the population
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 06:23 PM
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I guess that is the difference. They even think exactly the same things about women. Still wondering why redpillers want relationships with the "things" they hate so much. MGTOW is just same, only with the idea of never getting into a relationship with a woman. Rather be happy alone than dragging woman into that toxic situation.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 04:41 PM
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To be honest, I can't tell redpillers or MGTOWs apart. This could be written by either one.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 02:35 PM
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You make your looks to be your profession. Being with a rich man is like a modeling gig where you have to just look nice. Pay is better and more long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:02 AM
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In my opinion women are more introverted than men. If men go somewhere, they go in groups of two or more. If they are more introverted, they still go but just with if buddies go. Never seen even the most introverted to miss anything if they were men. ​ Women I've known usually didn't just go anywhere, and if they went, it was alone or with one or two friends. But mainly just missing parties or gatherings since groups make introverts anxious. As a woman it really sucks to go anyway since it usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 10:01 AM
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I have quite similar experience to yours. Also, once I gain a connection with a man, they tend to become highly attractive for me. Even sexually. I never found person sexually attractive before gaining the emotional connection first though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 12:30 AM
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If you see hate speech then just report. Keep reporting. Same rules should apply to all.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/20 09:33 PM
2

To be honest I know barely anyone who actually got/wants to get married. In my circles I guess none keep romantic relationships going long if there are no sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:07 AM
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I got no clue who that dude is but these problems seem more of male persuation. Men are in this scenario the "sluts" that want all sex and no long term relationship. The thing you were saying is problem with women being. If you are seeking only casual short term, you are having just that. Your priorities are problem, not whole womankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:51 PM
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So in other words, it's just written fantasy. You imagine how the women you want must be horny and lusty for everyone else but you. And only way to cope is to make another story about sexual market value. There are individuals that are like that so why not generalize that to whole demogratic. No matter if none actually met one woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 12:32 PM
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I keep reading about women having sex, left and right especially in their 20s, but never met one who actually does. Where are all these lusty horny women who have laid with dozens of men? More importantly, what do these women even get from hookups? Those tend to give no satisfaction as far as I understand. I'm missing something here or it's just internet fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:53 AM
1

That's so cool, how they ensure the safety of the customers? I've only heard of "freelance gigolos" and those are far from safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 05:38 PM
1

Which countries have this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 05:30 PM
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If women could have service that ensures safety, both in STDs and violence, I bet gigolos would be way more popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 05:11 PM
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I think I'm subbet to all OPs subs and yours and hundreds of other ones. Not quite sure what is the purpose of this post. Subbing and posting doesn't mean supporting the ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 07:17 AM
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Relations shouldn't be some sort of exchange based thing. You should cook if you want to, you have sex if you both want to etc. It's not really a partnership if one is expected to always cook and another should always pay for example. Man shouldn't approach if he doesn't feel like it. Don't do anything for anyone if you feel you're losing in that encounter. The moment it feels like labour you're trying to get wrong woman/person in the first place. Might be cultural difference with your last poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:06 PM
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I mean if you really think like that then women aren't for you. Why you would even try when you seem to hate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:02 PM
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I don't know personally anyone who actually complains about the situation so I'm afraid I can't tell you. Me also liking the situation as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:59 AM
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It's win especially from woman's perspective to avoid relationship all together where man feels like being used for money and effort from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:49 AM
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Sounds like a good next step is to turn to men instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:35 AM
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Dang.. I didn't know I have a friend group or that society is somehow helping me out. Had to come here to know I have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:25 PM
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Your life is yours to live. You get just one life time to live to your fullest. You should use it for yourself, not for others.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/20 11:30 PM
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Why to repress it?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/20 11:23 PM
2

Well incels have hit the news couple times as they were mass murdering women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:08 AM
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Thank you for this. It's incredibly interesting point of view. Never heard before how honestly this kind of relations actually work in practise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:30 AM
1

Funny when you list traits that women seek yet I couldn't care about single one. And I don't know another woman who would. It seems all boil into personality as far as I have seen. Women around me dating co-workers in same salary, which means experience and "status" are the same. Men vary from short to tall, bolding to hair, unique to common looking etc. Only common factor that women always talk is about his personality. Hell even I do that some times. Not sure if all that status seeking is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:54 AM
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To be honest, if common man would be the "personality" that comes through these subs, I'd be afraid to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:50 AM
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You gave your point and end it with: I don't believe your mind could be changed with actual counterpoints. That doesn't really sound like you are open for discussion at all. It is like you are telling what you want and putting the fingers in ears and scream "I can hear you".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:33 AM
1

So seems the system in states is broken. Rather unhelpful to possibly bankrupt one of the parents if something unexpected happens like losing job. Piling dept on top of that is just insane. The system I'm used to doesn't take too much pay from the other supporter and it scales, depending on the current income of that parent. So in case of losing job, you are required to pay less or even none if your income is 0. If you earn much money, it takes the max amount that is same for all if you can reac…
/r/MensRights22/05/19 09:48 PM
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I don't quite know the system USA has with these but I'd assume you go to jail only if you can't pay, and then it escalates to every other point? Where I'm from you have to keep paying the 18 years or more but you still have your freedom, license, enough to live and vacations. Depends on the situation how you can see the child. All these are material things that are much more doable than being forced for pregnancy and childbirth without consent. I can't imagine the horror if it's forced, even if…
/r/MensRights20/05/19 11:12 PM
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To be honest, I'd trade immediately to man if I could in that situation. I'd rather pay 25 years of child support than being forced to go trough pregnancy and birth. To be forced to go through something that changes my body for the rest of my life, taking into account I survive.
/r/MensRights20/05/19 11:42 AM
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