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I am. And it could bc 1) we are paycheck to paycheck so we can’t recover from a missed payment 2) She’s intentionally not paying mortgage bc she’d rather spite me than pay. The house is in my name not hers so she won’t help with it anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 11:15 PM
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That is my issues (the hearing daddy part) also. Luckily (I guess) I have no feelings left for her. I’ve been wanting a divorce for 8 years but dealing with verbal abuse to be around my kids. The thing that has made me move forward is knowing the studies have proved that your kids will have better lives if they see you both separate and happy vs seeing you in a one sided marriage. If you love the kids, you have to split. That’s at least how I’m looking at it. Mine are now 10 and 15 but all I can…
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 08:36 PM
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Oh wow didn’t know you could miss some payments if you list. Thank you I’ll move fast!
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 08:33 PM
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Her name isn’t on the loan, but she would still be entitled to half the equity I would think?
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 08:32 PM
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I’m going through something similar. Very first stages (literally…meeting a lawyer for first time tomorrow) and I was already planning on giving whatever so I can have 50/50 custody. Was told fast that it would be a big mistake. Going to focus on getting as much as I can with the expanded standard custody if necessary bc they need to see me happy and independent.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 08:19 PM
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Definitely.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 03:40 PM
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Definitely agree. Talking to lawyer on Monday and thrilled she’s “letting” me file. I know secretly it’s so she can tell the kids “I’m leaving them” vs the other way around. But either way I will follow their advice before we agree to anything. The one thing I was told was that when there’s equity in the house (and that’s really our only means of money) that it’s huge to be able to sell first, divide that cash asset before courts can do it and give her 80%. I’m sure that’s wrong so talking to a …
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 03:39 PM
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I’m in McKinney. No we are pretty “normal/boring”. Our issues are financial disagreements, but nothing nefarious on either side. My goal is 40-50% custody. Basically at least 41% which I’ve seen is an option. I just can’t handle “standard” that would kill me. I’m very involved and need it to stay that way. Not as concerned about the monthly payments, I can handle it if needed.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 07:54 PM
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Thank you. Did yours flinch when you said this or say “that’s going to be long and unrealistic” and you got lucky, or did they think that was doable up front?
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 03:25 PM
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Ok thank you. And to be clear, I don’t care about it from a $ issue. If I need to pay I’ll pay. It’s simply time. Is 60/40 a strategic thing for her?
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 03:33 AM
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Oh man, thank you. I travel for work two nights, for two weeks/month, but I can choose the weeks and work from home the rest. This is good to know. Worried about her moving with her Mom.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 03:32 AM
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Good questions. I don’t have a lot of evidence of the alienating but she did bash me all weekend to my kids in front of my parents while I was gone. They were really uncomfortable but are afraid to say anything bc she won’t give them access to the kids. LOTs of evidence of my involvement. I’ve been his coach, Boy Scout leader and best friend his whole life. With my daughter she gets most of that time bc she is in dance 4 days/week. I have my son at Scouts, Football and Soccer 5 days/week. But yo…
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 03:30 AM
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I’m starting by filing next week. I love hearing all of this. Congrats!
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 03:21 AM
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Not in Texas. About to file and I’m horrified
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 03:13 AM
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