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QawL/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:59 PM
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QawL/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:57 PM
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QawL/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:41 PM
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She should've been a plate instead of fiancee
/r/askTRP20/06/20 09:01 AM
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Keep looking. When I broke up with my gf I thought I'll never love anyone like that, in a sense it was true. I had crushes but all was different from the other. And still I met someone makes me shiver. The key is meeting new people. You'll see there are different levels of intimacy you'll get, all different from the other.
/r/seduction19/04/20 10:04 AM
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Exactly. I don't block anyone from text or whatsapp. I'll block them on Instagram because it's over and I don't wanna know about them.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:07 PM
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This was just what I needed. I invite you guys who couldn't get her out of your mind here.
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:17 PM
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I myself do this as well and I think this is the fault. Because once you have this mindset, all the girls you meet will be your potential future wife, but it's not. Some of them just to be friends, some of them just to have fun... Don't ever push for a relationship. Girls decide if they want to have a relationship with you, it's just the way it is. Show your interest but don't push for a relationship. And if your crush isn't interested enough to make things between you into a relationship, you j…
/r/seduction26/01/20 04:05 PM
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I guess you don't do anything. Relationships must be equally beneficial. Besides what I learned so far is that, if a girl doesn't want a relationship there is nothing you can do about it. Maybe there is someone else out there waiting to meet you but you're wasting your time on this girl, let it flow in it's own pace.
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:48 PM
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I loved texting at first. Then that relationship is over. And another one, and another one, and another one... At some point you just become bored from all the texting stuff ,cute animal pics, good morning good night messages etc. It feels like waste of time because you'll forget about texts when relationship is over. He probably experienced this and want to cut to the chase. Which are, dates. Edit : Oh, I don't know why he didn't reach out. Maybe he waited for you as well. He'll probably gonna …
/r/seduction26/11/19 09:49 PM
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men want to fuck everything but they still want to be monogamous This is exactly how I feel like right now. I'm starting to develop feelings for a girl, but when she's not around (maybe secretly, when she's around) I'm checking out other girls. I just want her to be around, spending time with her, I don't feel anything for somebody else rn... But still, need for fuck everything that moves mindset going on.
/r/seduction26/11/19 09:42 PM
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If you can't find any friends problem is you. If you can find some friends that's good. It's impossible to get along with everyone, sometimes their energy won't match with yours. If you're friends with everyone, problem is you.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:26 AM
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I've had this happened. She almost manipulated me to talk to her and then she stopped the attention after that. Ghosted me in real life. I did the same. I don't think I screwed up or anything, but idk what happened 'till this day. You did fine, you could never know why she does this. Probably built up her ego after her break up while not being ready for a relationship. Don't think much about it.
/r/seduction24/10/19 03:32 PM
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That's the spirit.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 07:58 AM
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I'm starting to hate this. "Stressed from the work", what an excuse is this? I do the same but I guess we're giving them some much edge. I thought we agreed? Would've been my answer.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:25 AM
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Basically you already got the validation so your desire to move ahead is finished. Try to have a good time with the date
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:39 PM
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Because you got the validation you needed, make a date work out. For your mind it's happened already so you stopped caring. If the goal was sleeping with her you still would've stocked about her. You could just text her "Hey, I'm .... what's up?" and leave it like this for when you really wanna hang out. The date you don't care would be boring for her as well. Just try to have a good time.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 06:37 AM
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The only problem is here that you care about this and think about this.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 09:48 PM
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Don't use 3rd one might end with a slap lol
/r/askTRP11/10/19 05:58 PM
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I read this 'till the point get my nerves and then finished and read the comments. Conclusion is the phrase you might know : Don't listen what she says, watch what she do.
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:36 PM
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She won't text you back if she doesn't even give her number. I think this lowers your changes even more.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:12 PM
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"good girl" will get jealous even if you mention another girl casually. If she knows she's a plate and get attracted even more, then there is something wrong with the relationship. But this becomes false if you're high above her status. Imagine Brad Pitt hitting on some college girl (this is not a good example considering he's married and got old but you get the point). She will throw herself in front of him even though she knows there will be no relationship. I guess what TRP suggests is that y…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:52 PM
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I might add that you could ask her again of course but it can just put her off, so let it be in its own pace.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 12:01 AM
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Well, if you asked something it's clear for her. Don't do it again. If she blows it off some way, that means she isn't ready for it just yet. Even though she ignores your request but keeps talking to you is a good thing. She'll down to it when she can make up her mind.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:57 PM
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She already thought about you guys being a couple so it's answer for both date and relationship. Don't ask her again but show some value of yourself. Let her to catch up with the feeling of you guys being together.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:27 PM
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Plus their hands so soft. Mmm
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:12 PM
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You probably still looking for a reunion. Which makes the getting over part impossible. 'Cuz there is still hope. Get rid of this need first
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:37 AM
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I would have fuck and dump her in an ideal world but probably I would catch feelings again. So no contact at all is the way to go.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:01 AM
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I couldn't find the reason why you're feeling this way in your post. What is the true reason you're clinging to her existence even though you've done everything you could done to get over her?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:54 AM
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Search for the deep stuff. Expand your horizon, try to ask existential questions if those channels started to get repetitive. Other than that read more, try to find new hobbies if YouTube feels like waste of time (mostly it is).
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:49 PM
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They probably wanna make your house her house, in other words a relationship
/r/seduction27/09/19 10:35 PM
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Don't understand why you would be disgusted that she was interested in you for being musical. It's because it communicates something good about you. Kinda like seeing a girl with a perfectly shaped ass attracts you without knowing her. Weird attitude you have man... Disgusted might not be the word that I'm looking for but it kinda feels like she wants me in her life just to show off. I'm okay with using it though. You're just finding excuses to distance yourself from women no matter what advice …
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:12 AM
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I'm lacking the ability to introduce myself great number of girls. Maybe easiest thing I can do is adding them on IG. Kinda used music thing at the past to get girls but got disgusted by the fact that she's impressed without talking to me once. Found out hypergamy without knowing it's name i guess.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:18 AM
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It's being a waste of time, mostly the girls here wanna text for weeks before a date and this keeps going. I'm just better with a hooker time and money saved. And whenever I had a relationship through the internet it's ended badly, 2 person trying to show their best version. Maybe relationship one is my bad luck but whatever, I wanna know her from the places everyday I can see her, which eliminates choices other than university
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:15 PM
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Isn't he said it's ok and call him if she change her mind, I think it kinda respectful, no pressure, and open end to her? If OP was gay, that's the thing he should have done. But no girl would call you and say "now that I think about it, let's date." out of the blue, unless you impressed her really good, or you just didn't care about what she said and kept flirting anyways. He made things harder by not pushing a little bit more.
/r/seduction13/09/19 03:39 PM
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I agree but most cases it's not gonna work like that. You wouldn't even have to ask her out if she's "canceling her other plans" into you. She could make excuses but agree, to seem like she's not an easy girl. Kind of dumb thing
/r/askTRP01/09/19 09:11 AM
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You're completely ignoring that all girls are not the top tier model that aims for the %0.1. An 8 girl that gives me attention, much more valueable to me than a 10 girl doesn't even seems to know that I exist. Which is of course can be vice versa and still holds true.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 01:14 AM
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A man that lost his child was unable to function, all he could think about was the incident. One day his younger child asked him to build him a boat. He was like : "I cannot put up with this." on the inside but did it anyway. After 3 hours of work he finally finished the boat.. and thoughts came again. He realised that he didn't think about his son's death 3 straight hours. Then he just started to fix the all the things that has been broken / needs to be replaced etc. at the house. Coped with th…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:51 AM
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Build the furniture literally (look it up beforehand) and test it for the stability
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:07 PM
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I wanna experiment that out as well. I might have a lead. How much caffeine you consume per day?
/r/askTRP19/08/19 08:42 PM
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Probably outcome will be same. But trying won't hurt though. I just can't put up with their not accepting the date right away because they don't wanna seem as an easy girl, attitude. Maybe she needs help with something or vice versa and you make that into a date, this is the best chance I've found. Or you found out you have the same hobby, hit her up with "hey I'm going to the ... do you wanna join me?"
/r/askTRP09/07/19 08:46 AM
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I had the same problem, as I'm reading this, problem become very apperant. You need to have better intimacy before asking for a date. Unless she has a huge crush on you, girls always does that I guess. It's so hard to get to that level of intimacy through the text, at least 3 weeks of texting (for me). And I'm bored trying impress them through texting. Idk what to do. I probably stop texting to the girls that I can't see in real life, unless they starts the conversation. Otherwise they're full o…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:49 PM
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I did cold approach to a girl that has been looking at me for 2 days straight at the library. I got so excited, it was pretty much a failure, kinda put together through the end. She acted weird after that, I don't know why for sure but whatever. Now I don't have the same anxiety as before. (In addition : what really helped me was 3 second rule, you wanna go talk to that girl? Go and talk to her in 3 seconds after you see her.) If you totally screw it up it's still worth it. You will get rejected…
/r/seduction08/07/19 08:42 PM
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She is incapable of loving properly. Redpill says no girl has that capability right? Well in my experience when girls came into my life that has a loving relationship with her father I was the one that fucking up the relationship so... In other sense they are green flag for sex red flag for LTR.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:13 PM
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You'll always lose to her bff. So.. what you wanna do is trying to win the other girl, it's a long shot though.
/r/seduction05/07/19 02:56 AM
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I already agreed with the statement but, being asexual and stop caring for having sex is the completely different things. You simply getting beyond the need for sex. You do enjoy when it happens but you stop giving a fuck if it doesn't happen. Which is the root cause for the problem here : neediness to have sex. ​ Lift for the better chance, meditate for controling the urge. It's so overtold but that it's the truth.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:46 PM
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Well, break ups a little bit different than rejection. Don't confuse them. For rejection you need to get rejected more (and of course get accepted more) to the point that you don't even care if a girl rejects you right that very second. For break up though, as you met women, as your relationships ends... You'll come to the point where it doesn't even hurts because you get over so many people before. She wasn't the girl and actually you knew that already. If you have another options it just will …
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:32 PM
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I think it does. Being jealous is the problem here. You either go have some sex or stop the care for having sex.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:14 PM
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The moment that I forbid myself meeting women through the internet, I found out that I'm suck at real life approaches. Make yourself a favor and stop hiding behind your online profiles. Once you become relaxed with the real life interactions you can use online dating as a plus. But before that if you manage to get some dates online, you're gonna screw it up in person eventually.
/r/seduction08/06/19 04:23 PM
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She wants to know your worth. The girl that I recently met who we get along well, dodged my question of asking number. After a while added me on IG and suggested that we study for the quiz. So yeah if she convinced that you're worthy after seeing your IG, there won't be a problem after that. You're completely stranger like she said but underline she tells I don't know your SMV.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:34 PM
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Damn. I needed that so much before.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:26 AM
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You handled it well. If a girl says she has a bf out of the blue she probably has but yeah not 100% nuclear bcuz this hoes ain't loyal lol
/r/askTRP01/06/19 07:47 AM
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Yesterday I saw a girl from uni, at a cafe, that I can't even consider pointing, something like 3/10. And she was sitting with a guy so yeah. If girls mentions that they have a bf they act weirdly even you only playing friendly. Soft next, move on for better I'd say
/r/askTRP01/06/19 07:31 AM
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Oops I might've misunderstood. So she told that she has a bf and then you said that right? This might come as rude. What was her response?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 07:14 AM
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You could ask that if you're flirting constantly but at the same time conversation goes friendly. But you need to have a bond beforehand, otherwise it will sound cheesy. In addition to that I felt like writing so here is 3 type of girls that I've observed : Mentions that she has a bf when you try to talk to her like in 2 minutes. Doesn't tell but wants to get away from you. She might have a bf or she might not like you or maybe she is being insecure. Watch her body language. Observe more. She li…
/r/askTRP01/06/19 06:52 AM
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Abundance
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:31 AM
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Not wasting a time for a girl doesn't have any interest, is a success as well. It's a balance. Main goal must be figuring out if she's interested in you, in a minimum time.
/r/seduction14/05/19 07:31 PM
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Always takes longer than a few hours to respond to my text? Move on. FTFY
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:06 PM
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I did this when a girl in library was looking at me 2 days in a row without a doubt. At first we talked, I was so nervous but get warmed up after a while. After that was so confusing, she avoided me (??). Maybe I was so bad at the first time we talked, maybe she was looking at me thinking about who is this creep. Still I don't now till this day. Waiting for final's week to ask her directly, if she was interested in knowing me but been too shy.
/r/seduction09/05/19 04:15 PM
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Do you want some advice or do you just want to validate yourself not getting with any girl? Looks matter but it's like 40% of it. And actually you can get better looking as well ; lift, dress better, take care of yourself in general. And for the reminder 60% you got everything in your favor. Did you ever asked a girl out? Girls won't jump on you even if you are hottest guy around (at least most of them). By definition of society evolved into, you gotta break the ice not girls.
/r/seduction06/05/19 02:45 AM
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You might have been a little bit too much needy. Or maybe she was just being nice for the customer. Wait for her response. Probably she will give some excuse but whatever. I'd go with : "Hey, I know this might seem so sudden but what can I do, I just wanna know you better. Tell me when you're free.". And all shots are fired. I think she will suggest a time after that, given that she gave you her number. Play it cool.
/r/seduction06/05/19 02:32 AM
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Ask for a coffee after the gym, the next time you see her. The only way that you can be sure if she is interested. If she gives some excuse then just be friendly and never ask for a date until she does.
/r/seduction28/04/19 02:34 PM
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Make her talk about themselves rather than asking yes/no questions. If she petting her dog in her story answer it like : "so you're a dog person...". And then talk about your preference etc. Close the conversation on a high note. Maybe ask her number, maybe a date, maybe just saying good night, it depends.
/r/seduction08/04/19 11:31 AM
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Maybe you've came across to this, sorry to mention it but : Iron Rule of Tomassi #6. Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. You've made the best choice for not gaming the girls. That's the closest we could get real love.
/r/seduction06/04/19 07:44 PM
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2 ask her out for a casual thing (in person better). For 3 i have an anecdote : a girl flirted with me for the first time we've seen each other, we joined the same lab group in class, I didn't wanna seem as needy so I waited for the next week, after that I saw her with a guy, didn't care and asked her number, texted "good morning". She didn't answer and told that guy, which turned out to be her boyfriend lol. He confronted me, I asked him if she is his girlfriend, he doubted for a moment and sai…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 01:48 PM
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This probably works but since you're using an excuse for the number i don't recommend it. Let your intentions be clear : "I'm interested in you and wanna hang out sometime."
/r/askTRP03/04/19 01:29 PM
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I know the sub isn't welcomed here but try nofap. When you stop giving the free pleasure to your body, you will try to make something real happen. You will talk to the girl you find kinda cute, you will want to approach more etc.. You have the body that will get you to get laid, then you see problem is the mind here. If you shut every opportunity to masturbation what's left will be that hot girl you see, or when the time has come you won't (can't) hold back yourself from that pussy.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 09:32 PM
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I think it raise creepiness
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:22 AM
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Man, you are not hurting his feelings but what I'm saying is, if you've asked if he wants a ride and he asked you to take him somewhere else which is pretty far, at least give the reasoning with a sorry. Being polite and being weak is not the same thing. By just saying "No", you've attacked his ego at some level; reminded him he can't go where he wants, he totalled his car, unemployed... Basically everything that he is feeling bad about, to protect his ego that led him saying "don't ask me again…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 11:00 PM
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If you happened to quit the job, go for it. I'd answer that something like : +So you're telling me that if I leave here I have a chance to have sex with you? -Haha. No wayyy +Don't be so sure about it. After that if you quit the job, hit her up. She will know your intentions 100%. And yes she is a slut.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:57 PM
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Where are your manners though. At least tell him i know he knew that already but something like : no, gas station pretty far from the store, sorry I can't. He probably wasn't gonna make the talk after you came back, most likely he will in his mind but not out loud.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:40 PM
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It's because women only need to be pretty. And there are tons of sources to achieve that (all make up related things). Once women are beautiful enough, men need to do everything pretty much. Maybe if you're lucky she initiates eye contact. That's just what society evolved to. Raising SMV is the key for more interaction from the women side but still men needs to break the ice.
/r/seduction23/02/19 05:44 PM
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I don't know about the kiss but once I asked a girl in the movie theater "can I hold your hand", it was so cringe know that I think about it but it worked which lead to kissing at the end of the date.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:32 AM
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You're a really sweet and caring and considerate guy, I'm just going through a lot of stuff right now and am not ready to date You are putting so much effort to a one specific girl. I'd think that you date with a girl see if it will go further, if not go on, but that's not the case. Since girls getting attention everywhere their low interest level doesn't satify us guys. Go talk to the every woman you think that kinda cute, don't try to get them commit to a relationship let them bothered with th…
/r/seduction10/02/19 09:34 AM
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Every women has that part that makes you cum. So if you're not disgusted by her looks (I mean literally) having sex with them isn't same as getting in relationship, carrying her around. Do your job, let them go if further escalation makes you feel bad.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:14 AM
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She definitely likes you. This happened to me while I was working as an intern. A cute girl sitting right in front of me, 3 days of no eye contact even when she offered me a chocolate. I mean she is young, attractive woman who got a job. I was getting mad "at least look me in the eyes one time". Then I found out too late that she was an intern as well. She was probably just being shy.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:16 PM
1

I want to grow hair as well. A quick question. Do I need to go to the barber to adjust the hair while growing or just let it grow naturally?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:07 PM
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I think you realized that sex is not the main reason for living by doing nofap so the sex drive fell. Do you find your girl attractive enough? Maybe you are getting bored from her. You might wanna experiment with top tier porns to test it out. If things still the same, as mentioned above, you might having some psychological issue / depression.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:02 PM
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It wasn't love, it was only horniness. Oneitis already known as obssessive thoughts about one individual so it makes sense.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:10 PM
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I do and short after that I realize I have no option than just keep on living
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:31 PM
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Change the things you can change. Lose that weight, lift, dress better, get past approach anxiety. Even if you're ugly though you could be charismatic.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:52 PM
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Yup. When I found this stupid (her victim mentality) and trying to make her become stronger, she broke up with me stating that : I couldn't emphasize her. Lol
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:45 PM
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Difference is watching some dude fucking a girl while you're looking at the pixels on the screen vs. thinking about a real life girl who makes you horny. For masturbation though if it's not excessive than it's fine, about once a week.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:28 PM
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Yo, nothing to feel sorry about. I wish you to have a great week well ^ ^
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:17 PM
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No actually the comment that I made about OP's situation is optimistic. She brings her friend to feel comfortable. If she always brings her friend than there is something wrong.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:13 PM
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It's not always the case, most likely she is insecure. But if a women always brings her friend when you two planing a date it's probably she not into you / you are boring.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:01 PM
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Just some playful respond is okay "I will try till i make it". Something naughty probably would be better but I couldn't think an example right now since English is not my native language.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:52 PM
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? She just said she sucks at cooking
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:39 PM
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Yeah there is something terribly wrong. You call that other girl and do threesome asap.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:34 PM
2

Day game is scary for me as well. But I can talk easily if I see someone regularly look out for something like this. Step by step eventually you'll get the balls to do the day game as well.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:44 AM
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I get why you drove her back home but a simple "I'm not looking for a serious thing" would have done the job as well, plus the benefit of the change to having a plate.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:40 AM
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What you're doing in day time? There must be some way to meet people. If not creating one is surely possible. Courses, travelling, day game, night game...
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:33 AM
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Find what you are actually afraid of. Something is not right. She tells you that she wants to see you but you afraid of setting a date? There is nothing to be afraid of, It's already done?? Maybe you are just afraid of a bad date. Be prepared because it will be so much bad date till you make a perfect date. Keep pursuing.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:22 AM
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It's hard to tell how to find someone like that but definitely there are some. You just need to "click" in some way. Doesn't happen too often. Try to meet anyone. Some of them would fit the description.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:16 AM
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Drive back home part wasn't necessary. What were you afraid of? I should have just fucked her in the morning as well and let her take the bus asap after that.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:11 AM
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It's easier to be comfortable around hot girls for me if I'm talking to them. The fact that they are hot and talking to me makes my ego get above them I guess. Don't forget the essential rule that : you are man and they are women. That's the only thing needed to have a bigger frame than them.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:30 PM
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Yeah, exactly. Snap is like a by product if nothing accompanies it (in this case girl's number), it just an app to have fun.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:53 PM
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Actually it's not the problem I just gave an example. The thing with the snap is she could answer 2 days later without any explanation at all and you just have to bear with it. But when you call or text before a date, she is the one to blame. All the messaging apps (except WhatsApp) doesn't give me the certainty so I couldn't arrange a date through any other app if she refuses to give me her number (obvious reasons).
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:22 PM
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Stop losing yourself in numbers. I never had a flake but that's because I like to be certain about things. Sending snap vs. sending sms. Snapchat, tinder and even an arrangement through instagram is not gonna do it for me. Think like that. Some guy goes to the girl you are sending snaps, in real life and asks her out. Meanwhile you are asking "still on" via Snapchat. You just got blocked. Congratulations. Edit : now that I think about it, I got flaked by a girl-friend which I told her that I lov…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:58 PM
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There is always a hope. I can write paragraphs about what to do but already, you know what is wrong, what needs to be fixed. Good. Just start from somewhere. It will feel like nothing is changing and one day you wake up and see everything is changed. Even a little bit change is good. Start small, build it up like a snowball. And most importantly, believe in yourself that you can.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:00 PM
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I realized overthinking doesn't solve anything nor benefits me about any way. The things I dreamed while over thinking almost never happened. And over time over thinking just dissappeared.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 03:25 PM
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If that would be a porn's entrance scene.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 01:12 PM
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I second this. The girl that made me feel like I'm cheating, turned out to be she was the one who's cheating. At some point I said to myself "fuck this I'll cheat, at least I'm not gonna deal with this crap for no reason."
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:50 PM
3

Tell her : "Hey I wanna ask you out (or something along these lines that lets her know it's a date) but kind of tired everytime I ask you have something going on." After that she might suggest a time, if she doesn't, hard next her.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:38 AM
7

You'll basically rank up her from plate to FWB. If she's a HB9 as well I don't see a problem.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:31 AM
2

Don't burn the bridges unless she's psycho.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:09 AM
6

I try to get some of my struggling friends into TRP but it only frustrates myself. One of them totally close minded and doesn't understand why he is failing when he is deeply blue pilled. The other sees the value but the pill is hard to swallow for him. So no use trying to get people into the red pill. If someone comes and asks "how are you so well with women?" then go ahead if he is a good bro, other than that only waste of time.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 09:36 AM
8

"I couldn't bother counting it."
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:09 PM
1

That might be cringe but better than speaking of which class she's taking. ^ ^
/r/askTRP10/11/18 11:51 AM
2

Just text her "still cold?" the other day. Why'd you make a big deal about this i didn't get much. She probably texted her other dick after ending the conversation.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:42 PM
1

Yeah, cut to the chase with that long time texts bs and ask her to meet. Ignore her last message as well.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:39 AM
7

That's called love, mate. Enjoy it while it lasts. It will surely fade away. I'm not quite sure of this idea but maybe you need to stop seeing each other for a while and really focus on your works if you wanna make the things fall in to the place. If she's understanding she will agree with that. Be careful with the words you're choosing though.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:48 AM
1

Nope. Since he is lying and girl doesn't have any clue about it you don't care about him and go ahead. I couldn't made something happen that day but kissed her on the cheek before I leave just to be an asshole. And yeah she didn't have anything to do with that guy. I dated that girl.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:16 PM
2

Fuck that guy. Similar thing happened to me when I was meeting with a girl for the first time. There was a guy that i didn't knew before in the group told me that he liked her for a long time. I said alright go ahead. I just wanted him to get rejected as fast as possible so I could continue to persue. He didn't take the action, of course. I hate those turds. Cockblocking when he has none. Agree and do whatever the fuck you wanna do anyway.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:55 AM
1

You don't. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:44 AM
1

That nearly exact same thing happened me years ago and she was mine (it was the first day we met). She even had a bf but broke up after we've met. Knowing 2 months later she's going to leave the town I didn't date with her we hang out as a friend group (5 ppl). Out of context but she's still in my life and there is some kind of friendship/relationship between us. Maybe I should have open another topic for my situation lol. The thing is that girl that I couldn't even consider as a possibility bac…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 02:15 PM
3

She seems having emotional problems. Probably she over exaggerates little things because of this deep down depression. Might be a wise idea to seek professional help.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:09 PM
1

never burn bridges unless she's a psycho Painful lesson learned a while ago.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 12:41 PM
2

I'm highly doubtful. But alright let's assume you were. If he is just a Chad with big body and stupidly upfront with every girl he met, you were just unlucky. Think about it. You're talking with a girl hb6 at the bar and some hb9 shows up gives you attention (not saying you and Chad were this way). What would you do? Firstly your ego goes to sky and then you'd just ignore the other girl, give her the minimum attention. From that moment on you could only lose the game. Then stop playing. Go talk …
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:57 AM
5

Yo telling a girl beautiful at the right time works wonders. He just been upfront while you're talking about nothing related to your intend of escalating things. So that one phrase put him to the lead.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:21 AM
4

Who uses snapchat after instagram get stories though
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:00 PM
6

Ofc not. Women are sluts but they hate to feel or seem like sluts.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 07:59 AM
3

You get in the friendzone because you allow it to be. Nothing more nothing less. Show your attention, don't let her be so relaxed around you, kino... And even after all this she tries to put you in a friendzone you just say I don't wanna be friends and next her. Don't get into the fantasies about she will someday see the value of you and will love you. Life is not a movie that hb9 girl will fall in love with that 3/10 guy. Raise your SMV.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:07 PM
8

Probably interested but since she has a bf she's trying to make you her orbiter or "friend". Never waste time with a girl that denies your invitation but doesn't suggest another time or date. At best you'll be the one putting more in the relationship. You might wanna be friends with her and maybe date with her friends but first you need to stop liking her. If you can't, just soft next.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 01:22 AM
1

Nope. Cold approach to bang some chick is easier then fixing your BP look on that girl's eye.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 01:46 PM
1

I'm not sure what I've read. Where it did become from she wouldn't say no if you'd try to fuck her to I'm your friend? next guy will fuck you sooner. Here you are slipping from your frame. Don't get angry when things get heated it causes not fixable situations. Another thing is never force yes or no questions with a girl when things aren't good amongst you, that was a lesson learned while ago by myself.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 09:08 PM
2

No need for doing anything. Go completely cold I'd say. When the time is near for you to meet start with some playful texts, between the messages talk about when/where you are meeting.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:03 PM
2

Text the logistics. Don't worry about what she says on text but what she does when she's with you. Try to escalate and see where it goes. And stop getting oneitis. It will ruin everything. You need some plates.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 01:20 PM
2

I'll suggest that you might want to add a meditation habit in your life to raise your awareness and conscious. What you want, what you don't want, where do you want to be.. overall calming your "monkey mind", meditation might help.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 07:23 PM
1

She is ready for years now. It's up to you preparing the right place for her to be "ready".
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:15 PM
1

Last minute cancels are thing that girls use to run away from the date. I don't know what is your history with this girl but telling her to come over - if it was kinda early for her - was probably was the scary thing in this case which is why she flaked but actually might be down to hang out. Ghost her for at least 3-4 weeks, if she doesn't return you can hit her with a "hey wanna hang out?" kinda thing. Maybe a late night date and after that calling her to your place might work.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:49 PM
3

This is golden.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:18 PM
42

A few days to respond to a text message? What are you doing splitting atoms in Cern?
/r/askTRP20/10/18 02:39 PM
2

"Feel the fear and do it anyway." What could be the worst case scenario? She says she is busy, doesn't give her number. Well, what is the difference? You didn't date her, you didn't get her number, anyway. Besides you might get the positive answer. So everything is better than not asking. By not asking you're taking the negative answer by default.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 03:38 PM
33

This actually is a big frame test. If you just accept that and tell her go ahead i don't mind, you'll become beta orbiter that you'll ever be in her eyes. But if you escalate and tell her i don't lie about something like that, you need to actually date me. A big winner. Besides telling you something like that she gave you the green flag doubtlessly.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:31 PM
1

Soft next her before she does this to you
/r/askTRP17/10/18 07:14 PM
1

They'll probably break up stick around.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 04:49 PM
101

Everyone fails much more then they write about their one big success. At least that's what it is for me. Try 10 times succeed 1 time. Never try never fail your choice.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 08:44 PM
3

Ask like you're asking her name. Hand out the phone to their hand while saying "give me your number". 100% I got their number If she knew me before. Never tried for complete stranger.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 08:24 PM
1

Will do. Hard when she's gorgeous ;( lol
/r/askTRP12/10/18 07:15 PM
1

Her name is clear but surname a little foggy. From what I remember I couldn't find her. The only thing is trying to find her via the infos that she gave me through our chat. Another encounter would have gave the intimacy that I need her to give me a chance but I believe it's not gonna worth the effort though.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 06:53 PM
1

Ofc I want to go after her but the thing is sometimes it's an effort so vein. I think that if she were reeaaaally into me she should have gave me her number, now instead I need to bring miracles together even just to find her in the campus. From my understanding TRP mindset telling that you need to let her go in this case. If we had some common place I definitely should have approached her, which we are not... And she should have thought about this.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:24 PM
1

Yeah, probably. I would need to go to her bus stop looking around foolishly to see her. She'll know. Maybe if it happens to be really the coincidence I could have a chance, which is so low possibility.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:17 PM
0

Although I want to believe otherwise that's probably right. I do think if we were on the same bus I could have just bring the intimacy to the point that she would give her number maybe without asking though, well I'll just move on.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:12 PM
1

First one had a boyfriend so I talked her about my relationship easily. After a few days she said "maybe that was for the best" when I talking it about sadly. I was shocked. Second one had a crush on me. I talked about my recent break up out of the blue. When we were leaving for different paths I said "What was your name again?" She laughed out loud, said her name. When you break up but didn't seem to lose your frame. I think it works great.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 12:23 PM
2

I happened to find out "I recently broke up" is the best answer. It was true at that moment but 2 girls that I randomly talked about breaking up recently worked out pretty solid.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:48 PM
1

Nope. It's more like getting numb to rejection. The person who is not rejected is the person never even tried. But what came to my mind as I was writing is that you can track down your approaches. Thinking about the approaches before you sleep. Maybe trying out new styles, see what works what doesn't... to improve the quality of the approaches.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 05:44 PM
1

Well. Write me on that list as well. On my early 20's it was like golden age, so many choices to pick from. Nowadays (24M) i'm the one who left alone in cold desert. What the hell got corrupted idk but the girls that I'm not even going to consider hitting them rejects me or not interested. I didn't got hit by a car or something so probably it's not about looks, don't know what is wrong but I believe that the thing what I'm doing wrong might be chasing women (or thinking about it constantly for t…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 05:36 PM
1

totally agreed. I'll make most of the people here angry but stop trying too hard to become emotionally numb. How would you feel if a girl gets dressed up and leaves right after sex. Don't try to be badass, you'll feel hurt beacuse we are human, we have fragile egos.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:42 PM
2

You could definitely make her your orbiter, if you play your cards right. But the thing is you could never make her your orbiter when you want her. Find another woman, give the love that you can't because of her mindfucking games. Then suddenly you will find that bitch is gone and now she is trying to make you fuck her. That's what happened me in a similiar situation at least. But the thing is while this shift happened I totally become cold hearted for her to the level that I didn't even bother …
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:27 PM
2

I really don't understand this social media craziness. You met a girl she looked up your social media account and acting cold immediately? Well fuck her. Having an exciting life on social media helps but there is a thin line between having an exciting life and trying to look like you got one. Most of the people acting like they got great life and they are fake af. If you don't enjoy what you are doing then it doesn't matter. Go inactive or even delete the accounts if you'd wish. Live your life f…
/r/askTRP13/08/17 02:49 PM
1

Dude. This thing that chemistry or whatever.. That happened to me exactly like you. And she wasn't there to reject me, I was so much better then her. Still no clue why tf she did it like that. "It's not gonna happen between us.". I can only assume that I over invested, we had different hobbies etc. but still it doesn't tell me why she wouldn't try since I stated above I was clearly better from her.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:15 AM
1

Realize that you are the one making this girl so "great" and there are a lot of better girls around. The way I get over this kind of oneitis is just start liking another girls, talking them even if there is no relationship or sex involved, hanging out with friends etc. Just don't communicate her no matter what. If she does communicate answer her text like she is the guy that expected to find the topics. I don't think she could be your girlfriend after all that, next her , ghost her.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 06:34 PM
1

I made her clear if we are not going to meet then there is no point of talking. She said she is busy (and yes she is) this day is school, this day is course, this day is exam... I found the most possible day for the date but still there is no clear agreement which makes me feel uneasy. Even a little kiss would make us couple but if there would be no meeting then all of my time and effort (nearly 2 months) would fade away I feel. I guess I'm uncertain that should I try just a little bit more or c…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:20 PM
1

Should you just let her come to you when she's not being clear about if she would meet you? She said "I don't like meetings" something like that which seemed silly to me. btw we meet through internet and this would be our first date.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:47 PM
0

Yes I'm new here and I know the basics, that one was just before I heard about red pill. The thing about "that girl" is just she is specific though. I'm not in love or something but probably would rather spend time with her not any other or better girls. She gave her number when I ask multiple times etc.. I accept her she need several approaches I guess. It would be our first date we meet through the internet so I empathise her concerns. Well I don't know what is gonna happen but I know that i'm…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:41 PM
1

What to do when you are the one trying to get a date with "that girl". She doesn't reply negative or positive. I know i need to just let it go try for other girls but this one has some specialty for me.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:11 PM
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