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FundamentalsQjemuse/r/seduction23/02/21 10:05 AM
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Qjemuse/r/seduction12/01/20 03:50 AM
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Agreed with this. Also in mid 30s here Having a nice physique with nice fitting clothings goes a long way.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:40 AM
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Doubtful I'm in your area. Just a little advice cause I'm closer to your age You have to be perfectly honest with yourself on whichever areas in your life you need improving on. Could be phyiques, personality etc. I stopped going to night clubs since around 33. Multiple reasons. Be realistic for your situation because only you know you best. Maybe start from apps and social games to build up momentum.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:37 AM
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I just go up and say "I like your face" They usually laughs and I go from there If they dont, great, move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:06 AM
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Where are you getting your girls from. Day/night/apps/social?
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:03 AM
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Your aura. Calming and assuring is good enough. The question you should ask is how to make people feel safe around you not only girls. A quick example i live in a very busy city with dates or just friends guys and girls i always led them when it's okay to cross the street. I do jay walk or else i wouldn't be able to get anywhere but i make sure and i assume they want me to lead
/r/seduction27/02/21 12:37 PM
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Yes if you're certain you get the most success this way then by all means keep doing it. I wanted to raise awareness on those who don't - maybe they can look into their own strengths and weaknesses and formulate something better.
/r/seduction24/02/21 09:25 AM
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Shy and mysterious - no Confident and mysterious - yes
/r/seduction13/02/21 10:11 AM
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Technically speaking though the fuel will run out for both the girl and you if there are only talk but can't do the actual meet up. For months and months. I know - one of my girls is in wuhan lol So all depending on where you are and when the virus situation will be over
/r/seduction25/04/20 08:11 AM
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Yes i am
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:18 AM
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Sounds like as if it's sex related
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:17 AM
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You'd think the date went so well. Maybe the girl doesn't. Put less energy on filling the girls needs than your needs
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:52 AM
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The thing you're asking is how to gain back the self worth. Be realistic and smart about your short mid and long term goals You're not going to be good or back at where you were in 3 days, but you sure as hell can propel into the right direction pick up momentum and gradually good habits in a week. Who the fuck knows how far you'd go in 3 months yea?
/r/seduction29/11/19 11:33 AM
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there are so many things in common with sales and pick up. one you have to appeal to their emotions.
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:08 AM
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guys learn your lessons here. this is how to get a girl hooked. from a guys perspective maybe he was running some precise evil game, or maybe he honestly doesn't know what he wants or what he's looking for. there are tells after you giving him head did he hug you a little or kiss you on the forehead?
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:00 AM
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Agree with you also. Women are totally clueless and they need to be led. Or trained. Most wouldn't worth the effort however. And will probably dig their own pit of sadness and remorse only to realize it's too late. I honestly think women will get hurt more in the current state of things.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 03:21 AM
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That's sound advice. I thought about it and thanks for the reminder. For my racial background though a prenup is so disrespectful I might as well just knock the girls up. Hshahhaha
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 03:16 AM
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Congrats. I'm also 34 and have the same awakening late last year. I didn't get married with that ex of 5 years thank God but no kids either. I was not born an alpha but the relationship did beat me into a true beta provider. I don't get why others are saying you're still angry I don't sense that in you. The part where you said you understand the real male and female dynamics and are focusing on self improvement now with lifting and Stoicism resonates well with me. I'm really glad to have find ou…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 07:52 PM
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How old are you now we wanna know
/r/seduction23/05/18 10:23 AM
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also 34 here. I had a much younger daygame wing at 25 or 26, a really good looking tall handsome guy. He didn't have much success, he was being way too friendly and I suspect the OP has the same problem. This is beyond pickup, but you guys need to learn and know what girls truly want and get attracted to.
/r/seduction15/05/18 05:18 AM
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I'm 10 years older than you and I can tell you life is all about the now or never moments. There are really 2 choices for this girl. 1, forgot about her for the while and invest your thoughts and energy into other things you enjoy. If she calls back or meet her again later with checkup, great. 2, do you know her name. Go to the hospital and find her. Now I wouldn't normally recommend this but it seems to me you are good at being social already. You guys had the fun banter comfort bit down. It's …
/r/seduction15/05/18 05:06 AM
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The real answer is, if a girl loves you enough she'll do anything for you. Lead like the man you are. The girls will follow and rationalize for you.
/r/seduction15/05/18 04:52 AM
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your frame of mind is wrong. you are trying too hard for her approval. ground whatever situation you're in. i have acquaintances but not much friends either because most of them are stupid and drag me down. indeed you seem to do a lot of things wrong already.. go out and have fun with this girl. and go out with other girls. and whats worse than being straightforward with a girl telling her you havent been going out for a year (which is perfectly fine IMO. you have your stuff working on), telling…
/r/seduction25/04/18 11:49 AM
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I dislike dating apps for various reasons. Apparent ones being you're mostly just feeding girls egos and it's a losing game from the start. Men should be buying not selling themselves. Another one is girls do look much different (uglier, fatter) in person than their profile pictures. Especially where I am in Asia. Develop the skill and game to be able to do cold approach anytime, anywhere instead.
/r/seduction03/02/18 01:30 PM
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You did the right thing, pushing it and trying to score. Her being a grumpy bitch at the time doesn't make you a lesser man. Could try to escalate more quickly next time and less chit chats if you sense a girl is down?
/r/seduction03/02/18 01:24 PM
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You don't. I learnt my mistake. In the end there are really no guarantee with women, just find one that seem to have decent faithfulness and nurturing quality traits.
/r/seduction03/02/18 01:15 PM
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girls dont operate like men. depending on how long you guys haven't talk and the progress you previously have with her, but better to put less thinking into it and move on
/r/seduction30/12/17 09:41 AM
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For me its all about a sense of entitlement. Sometimes it seems like to me the more complex shit you're fed the more you'll second guess yourself and the worse you'll be at game. When you believe in your heart you deserve a girl of your preference, you may find yourself a much simpler and better game.
/r/seduction30/12/17 09:38 AM
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