Qlue- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Just told someone off for the first time, and it feels great. Without reading the text, I can already tell you're needy as fuck. No point "telling someone off", you're better off blowing her off, ignoring her, and tooling her a little. Let her invest into you, while you do your own thing, will drive her insane and get you the revenge you want without wasting any energy. Besides, I would have just ignored her and focused on people who bring value to my life. Negative attention is still attention, and women love it, they call it drama.	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/14 03:01 AM
0	The basics All I see is a bunch of pseudo intellectual insults. Continue learning how to seduce women, whatever that means, maybe you can DHV your way into their pants. You've clearly missed the point. For someone who claims to be so rational, isn't it ironic you're following a theory that has no scientific studies or backing? I mean you're reading pick up guides aren't you? This is an example of how even the most "rational" of people can be the weakest minded.. You, of all people, are buying into the bull…	/r/seduction	03/11/13 06:21 AM
1	The basics Not really, you can't be outcome independent if you're trying to be outcome independent. The whole thing is pointless. Inner game is pointless. Yes I know Mark Manson and he knows me too, I'm one of his earlier members. Mark Manson also wrote a large article talking about bullshit inner game topics like "Outcome Independence" and how it's harmful for you. Despite any belief you have about needing to "learn" something, those are all just excuses you make up in order to allow yourself to take acti…	/r/seduction	03/11/13 05:56 AM
1	The basics Nothing was disproved because you can't prove whether a girl slept with you because you convinced her or because she wanted to sleep with you simply because you approached and touched her, or she was already available and if it wasn't going to be you it would have been someone else. What's changing their lives is the fact that they are willing to face rejection, not that they are changing someone's mood.	/r/seduction	03/11/13 05:48 AM
1	The basics You have been learning from experience since you were a baby, and everyone learns from experience, don't discredit the power of your brain. You didn't read a book on riding a bicycle did you? or learning to walk? It is also why I tell people to journal so that they can remember what was the cause that prevented them from succeeding. There is no skill in picking up women, and you keep getting stuck on that idea. It's funny you project onto me that I am a part of some religious affiliation because…	/r/seduction	03/11/13 05:40 AM
1	The basics I'm familiar with all the newer stuff, it's just an extension of the bad mindsets. Outcome dependence is an example of this, how can you be outcome independent if your goal is to get something like an fclose or kiss? Furthermore now you have more things to worry about, "Was I being outcome dependent with that girl? Aww shit!" See how inner game is also bullshit? I'm saying don't read psychology books, don't worry about inner game, just go out and be social and push your comfort zone. Everything …	/r/seduction	03/11/13 05:29 AM
2	The basics I'm not selling anything, I don't have a blog, and I have nothing to gain. My purpose is to save people from wasting time, and most importantly keeping their mental sanity in check by not allowing poor ideologies such as PUA regulate their self-esteem. I only wish someone did the same for me, and if they did, that I actually listened. Anyway, it's clear you have nothing logical to say.	/r/seduction	03/11/13 04:54 AM
0	The basics Even then, would you want a relationship with a woman who uses sex as a form of manipulation by withholding it or using it as a bargaining chip later on?	/r/seduction	03/11/13 04:48 AM
1	The basics Get physically closer, hold her hand. There's tons of escalation guides out there. Start small if you have fear of escalating. Keep it simple and don't overthink it.	/r/seduction	03/11/13 04:46 AM
0	The basics If you believe you have control over other people's thoughts, beliefs, emotions and behaviours, then you are ruining your package because you will blame yourself for things not in your control, self-criticism and blame is the fastest way to depression and anxiety. However if you believe that you cannot influence other people and you accept yourself, then your self esteem will grow and you will not fear expressing yourself, and people will like you more. So there is no contradiction. There is no …	/r/seduction	03/11/13 04:22 AM
0	The basics There is no "system" to being an adult who naturally is attracted to women, men have been doing this for millions of years without any seduction techniques. The need of a system is perpetuated bullshit. The Game was created by three people (Mystery, Style, and Tyler) who have mental disorders, as the book itself states Mystery's mental hospital visits, Tyler's OCD behaviours, and Neil's extreme narcissism. All three guys admitted to having shitty childhoods, what they needed was therapy, not pic…	/r/seduction	03/11/13 04:05 AM
-2	The basics For me it's by second date or a one night stand, but I put 3-4 in there for guys who are beginners.	/r/seduction	03/11/13 03:43 AM
0	The basics Yes and no. My experience has shown me what is bullshit, which people think you need, but you really don't. Being normal is just having social skills. Add touching and escalation, and saying "want to go to my place and watch a movie?" and you're done. The only way to build social skills is to be social. You will learn automatically from experience. The only way to escalate is to touch women and invite them over to your place. No book or theory will do that for you, yes you can break it down into…	/r/seduction	03/11/13 03:38 AM
2	The basics This is true, but they love power more than sex, as sex is easy for them to get. Therefore the reason the pick up community exists is because some of those women want "attention" or "money" for sex, and "pick up techniques" are ways to bypass those 2 filters, but that is a waste of time and a trap because difficult women remain difficult. You can spend an hour trying to win over a girl who isn't interested in you or sex (PUA techniques) get her number and then spend days or weeks texting her, ma…	/r/seduction	03/11/13 03:13 AM