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You’ve got the right idea by taking the objective out of the occasion. People can usually tell when you have an agenda, but I’ve found the opposite can also be true. When you remove the “goal” and let yourself relax and just go with the flow. A couple specific things that have helped me: - don’t take yourself and your masculinity too seriously. Laugh at yourself, be silly. - Ask them about themselves, be engaged in the stuff they like. Ask real questions. - Don’t be afraid to let your passions s…
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:02 PM
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Also try to stay removed from the end result. Don’t be too desperate for any interaction to go any kind of way. People sense that air of relaxed indifference, like you’re not trying, just being. And in my experience, that helps me relax and stay chill
/r/seduction29/05/24 03:32 AM
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I’m in my thirties and it has helped grant some perspective when it comes to women. Guys will do the dumbest shit if it means they get laid, myself included. But over time, when that is no longer a huge goal, you learn to relax, stop chasing, and let things happen organically. I’m my experience, it’s a lot more fun and less draining trying to impress everybody
/r/seduction11/06/23 04:01 PM
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This is exactly what my STBXW and I are doing. No lawyers, shared custody, moderate child support, splitting everything 50/50, all very amicable. It’s possible friend. If you haven’t already, I highly encourage you both to have separate attorneys review your final paperwork before you go see the judge to finalize. Mine was $500, cheap in the long run. We prove up in court tomorrow morning! PM me if you have any questions or just want to talk! I’m happy to share anything that may be helpful to yo…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/19 11:47 AM
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PMd you, my man. Thanks for your post.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/19 08:53 PM
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