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I will never understand 35 year old men defending dating an 18 year old. It’s so gross.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:01 PM
5

Not all 30 year old women in NY want kids lol. DINKs are pretty common here.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:59 AM
1

Nobody is perfect (me included!) but people are also able to work on themselves. Not paying for a random person you meet once that you don’t think you’ll ever meet again? Completely fair (although should be addressed before). However, not ever wanting to pay for anyone else ever will likely not work long-term (assuming that marriage is the eventual goal). I’m saying this as a woman who earns a high six figures (USD). I don’t need free meals from anyone but I also wouldn’t marry someone I didn’t …
/r/seduction20/12/24 01:08 PM
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Lol I’ve never seen someone call themselves extremely greedy as if it’s a good thing.
/r/seduction19/12/24 02:15 AM
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I think that’s a gross oversimplification. All women do not “just vanish and ghost men on social media”. Men ghost too, yet no one questions their aversion to conflict. There are many reasons some women, to name a few: 1. Demand vs. supply— who is about to tell 10 different men that have matched with that they’re going on a date with someone else? 2. Temperament— like it or not, most men do not handle rejection (no matter how polite) well. I went on a date once, didn’t feel a spark, paid for mys…
/r/seduction20/11/24 02:55 AM
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Right? Not everyone is thinking about the art of dating 24/7. Sometimes people just need friends and if you’re not attracted to someone in a romantic way but like them then why not..?
/r/seduction12/10/24 11:53 AM
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Lol “A woman’s brain is wired to avoid conflict” is the biggest bs I’ve ever read on here before lol. Some people are conflict overs. Others are not.
/r/seduction12/10/24 11:46 AM
3

Ah! I didn’t completely understand what you meant before that’s totally fair. I guess inherently I’d assume most therapists aren’t completely incompetent at their job but that’s a big if. I do think therapy has its merits, especially if someone can’t communicate properly, has trauma etc. Mental health is viewed differently now than it was before!
/r/seduction05/05/23 05:26 PM
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Depends on the therapist I’d say. My partner goes to one and he doesn’t have a victim mindset and I don’t have to be his therapist (beyond basic stuff that happens in relationships), which helps a lot.
/r/seduction05/05/23 05:22 PM
16

Well yes, the point is you should be going to therapy if you need it for yourself, not for fucking women.
/r/seduction05/05/23 05:21 PM
65

5 should also include going to therapy if needed. So many people, women included, expect their partners to be their therapist and that’s not their job. If you need a therapist, go to one.
/r/seduction05/05/23 02:17 PM
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India and Spain are not the same having lived there and my point still stands— it depends more so on honest and law abiding doctors. Some people do have debilitating symptoms and some people are lazy liars who will take advantage of it, it’s the way shit goes. Good for the former, fuck the latter.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 01:50 PM
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Well it requires a doctor’s note so technically it requires honest doctors.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 05:46 PM
1

It’s for incapacitating menstrual leave that needs a doctor’s support so it’s not really all women every month every year. Also don’t think too many people would opt into it since it would probably lead to negative employment consequences for women.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 05:41 PM
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Woman here— I think my favorite answer to date is (and it has to be honest, if you’re saying just to fuck then just say nothing serious..) “the goal is to find a partner I can grow with so if that happens for us then great, I just want to see where things go with you.” Hell, I was looking for something casual and he wasn’t and we’ve been together since so it’s a very honest response unless you’re certain you never want to find a partner.
/r/seduction01/11/22 01:48 AM
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Exactly this. I love people trying to suggest otherwise when they themselves said this is what it was. She also didn’t want to always pause her career, especially having been more globally famous before. I think he was a leader when he was home, he was just barely ever home. Don’t have a family if you don’t know how to make sacrifices or compromises.
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:32 PM
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I feel like it’s pretty restrictive if you’re 100% stuck on these? I understand having some characteristics or preferences that are a no-no but do you meet all women’s standards? No. No one does so I’d suggest maybe prioritizing your list based on values rather than your idea of perfection (in terms of your preferences) unless 1. You’re not looking to compromise or settle down anytime soon. 2. You think/you’ve been told you’re someone else’s idea of perfection. For example— does she have to read…
/r/seduction29/10/22 03:14 PM
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Lol I assure you that most girls will easily pick up on this shit. It will in no way enter their dreams if you say “can I ask you a question”… how old are you?
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:11 AM
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What exactly is it that you are trying to ask or say? I don’t think anyone is afraid of anyone’s opinion, regardless of gender.
/r/seduction24/01/22 06:39 PM
2

Franky, either you suck at sex, you think too much of yourself or are boring to talk to, or they’re aware you’re insecure/want to just pump and dump so they get some and leave. Not to mention that when it comes to dating women also look at personality, background, IQ, EQ etc. where for them you’re lacking. So instead of bothering trying to continue something with you, why not look for someone better suited to their needs/wants? You’d do the same if you’re actually serious about dating I presume.
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:19 PM
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Hmm, it could be that she wanted you to pursue further to get her number or that she only gives her numbers out to friends/people she needs to talk to. End of the day, it depends on how important pursuing this is to you. Only she knows how she feels so she’d be the only source of truth so if you do want to pursue this, you can ask her out again (or even for her number). IMO, mixed signals is always a no to me.
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:06 AM
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Hmm it seems like they’re could be something but she might just be a flirty close friend (I’ve had that before) who’s also keeping her options open which I’d think is pretty common in a school setting. I think it’s common to think about mutual friends unless they’ve dated or something like that, so that I wouldn’t read into. In terms of favors, if that’s your personality then so be it. I don’t think an activity has to be exacting for me to offer to help or for me to accept help but to each their…
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:32 AM
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There’s a difference between being flirty and having someone touch your ass, even if you’re being nonchalant. People have different boundaries. Does she flirt back or is she just being nice when you’re being flirty? Like when her wrist hurt (FYI carpal tunnel is pretty common btw) and you said you can kiss it, did she say “oh yes please”? Is she just flirty in general? Many people are. It’s not a sign of interest, just a personality trait, might not even be linked to insecurity. In this case I’d…
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:12 AM
1

Right? Also you thinking you’re 8.5 doesn’t make you an 8.5.
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:14 PM
4

Emotional intelligence. You’re too nice seems like a cop out to me, or evidence that said person has an affinity for toxicity in relationships.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:23 PM
1

Don’t. Go find someone who loves that you’re nice. Being nice isn’t a weakness. There are many women who would love someone to hold the door open, get doted upon etc. and you deserve someone who has more EQ.
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:59 AM
1

Have you both had a proper conversation about this? Seems to me like everyone is confused. Her dating and hooking up with others casually means she’s not seeing you as a relationship maybe because you haven’t indicated otherwise. I’d just straight up ask. If you don’t want to do that then hell yeah go date others which will eventually either stop you two form continuing or make that conversation happen. If she gets jealous, she gets jealous. You can even use that to your advantage.
/r/seduction17/07/21 02:03 AM
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To be fair, I bailed on my third date with this guy 30 minutes before because I felt sick. We ended up dating for five years. Shit happens so if you feel it was mutual she might reach out but obviously family emergency comes first. I’d try a “checking in if everything’s okay” in a few days if you don’t hear back.
/r/seduction17/07/21 01:47 AM
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If someone offers a raincheck, unless I’m extremely busy (and I’m IB it gets that’s way) I always get back to you but I’m just one woman. I’d just move on to others for now and if she circles back to you then go on your date. Of course you could send her a casual message sometime next week but I wouldn’t do anything more.
/r/seduction17/07/21 01:40 AM
1

I do agree with the logic of getting more used to talking to people who are at at around your level than jumping to the 10’s but the worst thing that can happen if you smile at or ask out a 10 is they say no. Big deal. Millions of people out there and let’s face it looks only get you so far in life. Some 10’s have an IQ of 10, instant turnoff for me at least.
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:47 PM
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Not sure why it’s getting downvoted (hurt feelings I assume)— you make a valid point even if it doesn’t reflect all scenarios.
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:05 PM
2

Sounds like a rather dumb thing to do. Keep it at flirting, especially if they know each other because girls talk. Don’t bang people at work, not worth the drama or reputation.
/r/seduction22/04/21 11:13 AM
4

But women apparently become shriveled and redundant after hitting 30.
/r/seduction10/04/21 09:50 PM
3

As a woman— I very much appreciate a man who actually has feelings and emotions. My ex was emotional, more so than me. Masculinity comes from being sure of yourself, however you are, not from acting a certain way. The whole “all women like men who can punch walls and chop wood with their hands” macho stuff isn’t all that true. One thing we do like? Confidence (which has nothing to do with being emotional or not).
/r/seduction29/03/21 10:38 PM
1

Well... not being idiotic and easily ticked off by strangers on the internet to the point of contacting them because of a comment can really help step up your game.
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:14 AM
1

41 months? Because you can’t be talking about grown people.
/r/seduction18/12/20 06:04 AM
1

Depends on here you are. I’d stick to walking around a park, outdoor activities as much as possible unless they’re comfortable going to a restaurant that’s at lower capacity or inviting you over. Cinemas, bowling etc. not really a good idea. Personally, I’ve had some fun virtual first dates too.
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:18 PM
1

That’s incredibly depressing. 2. If you could give a masterclass to some of these men, I would happily fund it
/r/seduction04/12/20 02:06 PM
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This man’s 28, how are you not emotionally stable at this point. Jesus, time to start dating in the 30s I guess bc I have never thought I’d have to emphasize that work is more important than a guy I went on one date with.
/r/seduction04/12/20 01:55 PM
1

People have other shit going on, I wouldn’t over think it.
/r/seduction03/12/20 01:35 AM
1

Yes, I get that. I’m saying that it’s still her choice and if she keeps pulling “maybes” after three/ four times, I’d just move on but we can agree to disagree.
/r/seduction01/12/20 09:06 PM
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As a woman all I can say is that the guy who comes up to me at a bar and strikes up a conversation is more likely to come home with me that the guy trying to analyze my body language and clothing (this to most women would be creepy). I’ve gone to bars in a little black dress and covered head to toe— it’s not at all the main indicator of interest, although it can be for some, depends on the situation. Main signs of attraction— laughter, flirting, facing you (the hips/chest are facing you), touchi…
/r/seduction01/12/20 09:02 PM
1

The ball is technically still in her court if she’s the one who says maybe. Personally, I don’t get the logic behind chasing after someone who can’t be bothered to say yes to a simple date. Plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction01/12/20 08:50 PM
1

I have had the exact opposite problem, it’s like a tsunami. Isn’t that how it’s supposed to be?
/r/seduction01/12/20 05:33 PM
1

I think she would have come up with a better excuse than “I only like vaginas” if that were the case, he might just have a terrible gaydar.
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:33 PM
2

Yes, I get that. However, the I’m a lesbian thing isn’t a popular lie for many reasons. She might just be a lesbian lol.
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:26 PM
0

Why would she lie about being a lesbian, that makes zero sense.
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:23 PM
2

If she says maybe, she most probably means no but doesn’t want to straight up say no. Ball’s in her court regardless, move on. Again, not rocket science :)
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:11 PM
1

What does “acting like males” mean?
/r/seduction01/12/20 12:45 AM
1

I love every single book written by Robert Greene. Personally, seduction isn’t the highest on my list but it’s a great book nonetheless.
/r/seduction01/12/20 12:44 AM
13

That was a lot of flamboyance. It’s simple. Ask her out. If she says no, move on. If she says yes, go have fun. Not rocket science.
/r/seduction30/11/20 08:44 PM
1

Nothing. Grow up and be a friend to said girl if the boyfriend really is toxic. Given that you’re asking how to seduce her, I think his jealousy and wary behavior is reasonable.
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:01 PM
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Everyone is insecure, including men. One of the points you mentioned once in a while is normal from men and women. You’re talking about psychotic and manipulative women who are gaslighting you— not the same in my opinion. I wouldn’t date or sleep with someone like this, life’s too short. #SaveTheCount
/r/seduction29/11/20 10:42 PM
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