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| 1 | Q4All: Do you like it when servers flirt with you for tips?Annoying. I am eating, almost certainly with at least two people. You wanna charm someone bring my kid a non food treat. Fold a napkin into origami and hand it to my four year old. Something like that. I am either eating or having a conversation you are not a part of with who I'm eating with. Be nice, polite, and quiet please. I tip better for good service with no conversation. Or servers who try to make conversation and take a hint quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 03:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men see themselves as being in the top 20%I'm a Chode. I got a 6 on Hot or Not in 2001. Any of you young fucks (or old fucks) remember HotOrNot.com? But I'm a feminist bluepilled gender traitor so I get laid plenty with my steady feminist girlfriends who do not exist according to red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you date an unstable, broke hot girl?That's such a generalized question. What does unstable mean? Hot, obviously, broke I don't care about. What's unstable? Define it OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you want to accomplish by saying that looks don't matter?Yeah none of the women I have ever dated, none of the women my friends date, are hypergamous in any way. I'm not a man of status. I'm not hot. I'm definitely not rich. I date and get laid. You ask for a counter example because you have no real idea what modern dating is. I wouldn't have to give one if you were out dating normal people instead of looking on at dating from the outside trying to guess what goes on based on what you see online about it. Thats what you need to understand that Red Pil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How influential are feminist blogs when it comes to how women view men?Individual feminist blogs have marginal influence. But there is a larger feminist narrative just like there is a Red Pill one and that one is influential enough to give us female ghostbusters in contradiction to the wishes of every perpetually single male fan of the series in the world. Depends on what you're actually asking. Some of, many of the views espouses on those blogs have influence far past the blogs themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 12:55 AM |
| 2 | What do you want to accomplish by saying that looks don't matter?You'll never catch me saying they don't matter. Looks matter an amount equal to the individual value the person you're asking places on them. Now, what do other people want to accomplish by saying that? It's simple. The idea that looks do matter as put forth by red pill is far less correct than the idea that looks don't matter put forth by blue. Lets look at both. First, lets establish our world and a few basic factual premises everyone has to acknowledge. 1) Actual looks based attraction varies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How to love hypergamous women?Theres no discussion dude. Your perspective is based on non facts, personal prejudice and emotional reactions, and demonstrates fear of the outside world thats approaching gender based agoraphobia. I did not come here to discuss anything with you. I came here to inform you that your perspective is fucked and wrong hoping you take the time to read and discover why. If you refuse to listen thats on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 10:56 PM |
| -1 | How to love hypergamous women?Alright lets tear this apart. Your entire post is worthless. Complete garbage from an intellectual standpoint. Lets examine why. "After a long personal journey I have come to accept the fact" means "My subjective experience has convinced me" and is just a terrible opening. You're stating right off the bat that your experience is the basis of facts you believe in, not actual facts. "We know women don't feel this" is insanely assumptive. You accept a non fact as fact and your conclusions are not e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | What is “ordinary” sex?No it's not, the thread you were replying to was from someone who's equated casual sex with being completely self absorbed in bed. That's their right, it's also not a recipe for good sex for their partner. That person described going out to be handed a good experience by someone else. While I'm sure they might say "I put in the work! I just want to make sure they will too" the truth is that's horse shit. Good sex comes from connection with the other person. Even casual sex is often not absent an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Why are redpillers so against the metoo movement?https://www.nysenate.gov/newsroom/articles/senate-passes-comprehensive-strengthening-new-yorks-sexual-harassment-laws Funny you should mention new york. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Why are redpillers so against the metoo movement?You must be kidding. Every law has conditions that revoke consent includnig wording about power differentials like medical providers, landlords, clergymen, and guess what also BOSSES. Because if your boss threatens your job with sex and has it, there is no consent, legally, and he is culpable for rape. Like, companies know lawsuits cost money, but the actual person depending on the circumstances, can be charged with rape. Which is why, you know, people want it investigated. By police. That's wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Why are redpillers so against the metoo movement?I love that you just walk straight by how difficult it can be to build what you might call a "credible case" The statistics for how many accusations result in convictions are out there. They're low. The defender requests a jury trial and the defense attorney tears the victim apart any way he can on the stand. This isn't a CSI episode this shit happens every day. Eyewitness testimony is notoriously unreliable by courtroom standards and there is almost never such a thing as proof of consent in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Why are redpillers so against the metoo movement?Consent under coercion, including that involving career, is legally rape lol So, uhhh... you don't have a point. You're just ignorant of the law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Why are redpillers so against the metoo movement?If you want to talk about sexual assault maybe you shouldn't walk around deciding for yourself who is and isn't one and then only talk about the ones you think aren't like you're the goddamn arbiter of trauma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV As a man there is no reason to date, have sex, or get marriedThat's a sad, depressed, hopeless, neurotic perspective. Even you admit that basically you just heard too many bad stories, too much anecdotal evidence. You're afraid of intimacy and connection and don't want to seek it. Ok, that's fine. but admit your neurosis. Your perspective is built on incorrect generalizations and projecting your fears across the world like they are rational when they are not. You really should actually talk to a therapist if this post was genuine. Ask them about thought f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Toxic masculinity has no solutionUhh the solution is education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Explain the appeal of 'the rules' to betasI'd have to read the book... let me see if I can find something about it. Oh. Lol wow. Ok so this book is supposed to be a how to guide about massaging the male ego to get what you want. The premise of the book is essentially that open communication and equal treatment and respect are not a given from men and so you essentially HAVE to "shit test" them to make sure they give a shit and are around for the same things you are around for. The book is grounded in the truth that especially in the 90s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: is your sex drive responsive or spontaneous?People in general naturally have responsive drives and spontaneous drives. People vary on an individual basis not correlated with gender as to how their sex drive works. Though, men are conditioned to be spontaneous and women reactive so that heavily skews the numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Why are redpillers so against the metoo movement?Anything they can take legitimacy away from in their eyes is something they do not have to consider in their actions and perspectives. It's the same old refusal to look at or acknowledge cold fact you see among the religious, except it's about sexism. Bigotry isn't just a bunch of individuals who believe bad things. It is a shared ideology that self perpetuates and self reinforces. Sexism is no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 05:23 PM |
| 13 | Why are redpillers so against the metoo movement?This is called a concern troll. "I just want to protect the legitimacy of the movement by only ever talking about things that take away legitimacy" is actually "I want to delegitimize the movement" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/18 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4 Red and Blue pillers: How many people on either side do you think actually want to learn, grow, understand, etc., and how many just want their side to 'win'? And how many just want to feel good about feeling they're right, even at the expense of their side?I like how every assumption you made about me down the line is wrong. Well except revolutionary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/18 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4 Red and Blue pillers: How many people on either side do you think actually want to learn, grow, understand, etc., and how many just want their side to 'win'? And how many just want to feel good about feeling they're right, even at the expense of their side?The obvious answer to that is my family is here. If I had the money and a way to convince everyone to leave the country we totally would. We do not, so instead I enjoy watching capitalism die and old values get put in the dirt. I don't particularly care at this point if men grow or not. Those of you who can't will find it harder and harder to find people who put up with their shit. Fewer will resort to disrespect and power plays because fewer women every year tolerate that. TRPers often cite tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/18 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4 Red and Blue pillers: How many people on either side do you think actually want to learn, grow, understand, etc., and how many just want their side to 'win'? And how many just want to feel good about feeling they're right, even at the expense of their side?Hahaha are you kidding I cannot fucking wait for the fall of western civilization it needs to die. The fall process I don't really wanna go through but you know, omelet->eggs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/18 05:01 AM |
| 0 | Do you think the female libido is stronger than the male one?Hahahaha no you haven't. Just cause they don't know doesn't mean it's all they can do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/18 05:00 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Is being played/used for sex that bad?Oh jesus you just described my ex wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/18 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4 Red and Blue pillers: How many people on either side do you think actually want to learn, grow, understand, etc., and how many just want their side to 'win'? And how many just want to feel good about feeling they're right, even at the expense of their side?Red Pillers aren't my enemy your ideology is. It's no different than the fight against religion. Rationality backed by proof won't win everyone but every year new adults enter the world who can be taught to fight it too. We're slowly gaining the numbers. Some day we'll be the social majority, we've already got a hand and foot solidly in that door. Ideology isn't about enemies and strategy it's about education and propaganda. You are thinking bullets and battlefields but that doesn't apply to a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/18 04:12 PM |
| 7 | Reverse-shit testI prefer to just throw some genuine at her and see if it sticks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/18 08:33 AM |
| 0 | Are sexual friendships better than modern dating?It's not that hard. Dating done the right way...I will say I do not do games. If she won't be blunt, I will. If she doesn't like my blunt, honey why are you fucking with me in the first place I do not want that. There's a trick to dating that some women have figured out and most guys haven't. Anything you put in you have the right to demand in return. You have a right to a two way street. So if you're honest, and she won't be? Nope. Bye. You want no games and she won't cut the shit? Gone. And th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/18 08:31 AM |
| 0 | Do you think the female libido is stronger than the male one?Experience =) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/18 04:11 AM |
| 0 | Do you think the female libido is stronger than the male one?Of course not I'm just saying that you don't really know how to use yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the female libido is stronger than the male one?lol username post combo Trust me, your dick cannot do to a girl what a lesbian can do with her mouth and fingers. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How to change your mindset when trying to talk to women? How do you become the kind of guy who doesn’t worry about failures anymore?Most people say you shouldn't care. I say change the objective. What are you failing at? If you're failing to get laid, that can suck. If you're failing to have a conversation that doesn't bore the shit out of you, suddenly life is actually kinda easier. Change your goals. Smaller steps. Just look for getting a girl to talk to and smile at you. Look for fun conversation. Exit conversations with girls that are dry or where you're putting in all the energy. That shit is boring. That's not even fai… | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 10:05 PM |
| 0 | why is caring about personality, as opposed to looks, seen as virtuous and deep?Because looks have nothing to do with anything meaningful emotionally and personality does? So if you want something meaningful at all, even casually, personality matters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Concepts of TheRedPill are true for both gendersRed pill describes a vocal minority of the dating population with a high degree of inaccuracy and overgeneralization and sustains it's bias by using methods which self select away from any woman who it doesn't work on so quickly that no one examines who all thsoe women are or why it doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Feminism does a disservice to women by discouraging them from preferring mates with benevolent gender attitudeslol that study is shit and everything you said about moving away from conditioning with regard to behavior is complete and utter bullshit thanks. If you can't figure out that women raised in a society that celebrates benevolent sexism on the male side wouldn't internalize some of that and end up with a fair number of women being attracted not to the ideal man but to the men they actually have to work with I don't know what to tell you. But seriously, moving away from conditioning? No that's like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the female libido is stronger than the male one?What do you think drives sexual performance dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What wouldn't you tolerate from your partner's past?Addiction issues that aren't at least five years in the past with no more issues. Addiction to anything. Drugs, work, sex, thrillseeking, gambling (fuck especially gambling you know what no no gamblers not now not fucking ever no thanks) etc. Like, doing these as a hobby is cool. Addiction in any form scares me tbh and I don't want it around me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Are Millennial men (90s) really more feminine than Gen X/older men? (1970s and before, and to a lesser extent 80s babies too)I'm 1984. Being gay or bi or not "super manly" became acceptable and a whole boatload of us stopped. I'm bisexual. I fuck men and women. I'm a big mix of qualities some of which are traditionally manly and some of which aren't at all. The only men who complain about my life are straight men who are insecure that their perspective is a shrinking majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Power dynamics switch when couples get marriedSo many generalizations that you think apply to everyone. Everything you said is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Women are not biologically programmed to give men the right answers when it comes to getting laidThis post is...something else. Wrapped up in some of the straightest, dumbest, most emotionally stunted machismo bullshit I've ever seen in my life are some pretty accurate observations about how to socially power move past attempts to push people away. Never let it be said that Red Pill hasn't effectively picked up on emotional manipulation tactics and codified how to come out on top. No, women don't tell you how to emotionally manipulate your way to sex. You don't get it. You the opposite of g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Feminism does a disservice to women by discouraging them from preferring mates with benevolent gender attitudesUhh. Sexism is never benevolent that's a highly subjective interpretation and that shit can die thank you. Notice why it said heterosexual women? They're the ones that buy into toxic masculinity bullshit the most because they're the ones stuck dating straight men and straight men are the worst overall kind of men. If that's all you have to rely on for your dating pool you're gonna end up finding things about straight men attractive whether they are good things or not. Hetero women are conditione… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Without TRP/PUA, what is your advice on how the average man can be able to have casual sex?lol there is no method for the average man to just go find casual sex. Sex is individual. The choices to have it are individual. If you stop trying to find a method that works to get sex out of women you'll probably get alot better at getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Women are more picky with their partners, yet a large number more men seem to be "punching" than women - why?Different standards. A woman will date down in appearance if she picks up a guy who is what she needs. Like you wanna find one of the biggest disconnects there look in the D/s community. LOTS of dudes who aren't great looking but who have damn good dom presence and are well spoken and a good mixture of nurturing and sadistic end up with gorgeous ass submissives because a woman with her face in a pillow trusting you to cane her until her ass bleeds sure as fuck does not care about your looks one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Why most very-high-value men get married instead of following their supposed "sexual imperative"?Cause TRP is pseudoscience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Have you ever met a "nice guy" in real life?I've met tons. Very little to no self awareness. The entitlement exists in real life not just online but they are MUCH quieter about it. Change? No tbh I've never known a manchild who couldn't put forth enough worth and good vibes into the world to attract a partner to grow up or change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Who is better marriage material: PhD student or woman with a steady middle class job?Who's funnier and more intelligent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the female libido is stronger than the male one?Yeah I do you've never seen how long lesbians can go. they put all of us to shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/18 07:27 AM |
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