Quaiyle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”. Womens' online dating woes online could be summarized as "I'm mad because I'm too bitchy and fat to find, let alone keep, a good man"	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 04:27 PM
1	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. You really should stop projecting. Your posts have no substance or logic to them, simply ad hominems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 03:50 AM
0	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. Who hurt you? You sound incredibly butt-hurt. Did an older man steal your girl or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 03:43 AM
5	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. It comes up all the time because men who were unsuccessful with women growing up feel entitled to the bodies of young women now, and because young women range from confused to disgusted by sexual attention from men their fathers’ age. You should really deal with your issues with men. This is an incredibly bold claim to make about a large amount of men (yes there are many men who are unsuccessful with women growing up)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 10:05 PM
9	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. I wish it did. Why exactly do you wish older men would stop approaching younger women? How does a man approaching a younger woman affect you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 10:02 PM
5	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. You're making an awful lot of assumptions about their situation simply from their age gap. Nowhere in the post is a single thing that would be considered "patronizing" or "giving advice like a parent or uncle", or that she was ever even sexually excited about being patronized or being given advice. That only exists in your misguided interpretation of the post. You are doing a poor job of hiding your biases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 10:00 PM
2	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. Women grow up at twice the speed of men since they are sexualized since middle childhood. Gonna need you to provide your sources for that. Sounds like blue pill pedestalization of women. There is very little an older man can teach a young woman that isn’t self-serving. And where is the cutoff? If a man is a year older, and he teaches a woman how to deal with things she isn't experienced with, is he being self-serving? Considering that most kids learn to drive by 15-16, yeah. Most, but not all,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:56 PM
3	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. That's a great but irrelevant anecdote. He didn't say he was her mentor prior to dating. Your anecdote has nothing to do with the situation described above. Just because I use the word mentored doesn't mean it has to be a professional mentoring, anyone who advises others on a subject is a mentor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:46 PM
3	Bluepill is mostly right on relationships, Redpill is mostly right on dating and meeting new people Nope, BP is fine on dating and meeting new people. Just be a nice guy have a good personality, take her out on fancy dates, and all of that. You forgot rules one and two, Be attractive Don't be unattractive I kid, but no, good personality is not special enough to get a date without having numerous other sought after characteristics such as build, height, finances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:25 PM
9	Bluepill is mostly right on relationships, Redpill is mostly right on dating and meeting new people They got it from the cornfield where they keep the rest of their strawmen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:21 PM
1	Bluepill is mostly right on relationships, Redpill is mostly right on dating and meeting new people This is an "argument from middle ground" fallacy. A.k.a. false compromise fallacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:20 PM
1	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. You have an unhealthy bias, bordering on misandry, to assume that a man is "grooming" or "manipulating" her just because he taught her things that she may have never dealt with before. You don't know anything about the girl's situation. It's comments like these that cause the goalposts to shift and definitions to shift. Simply helping your partner learn how to do certain things is not what "grooming" means. Furthermore, last I checked 21 yrs old is well beyond age of consent and/or majority. I g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:05 PM
6	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. This is a loaded comment, you could have used "mentored" instead of "parented" so I have to assume you are trying to cast their experience as something other than a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 06:25 PM
1	Your location is the biggest factor in success in dating I don't know why you posted this as it is irrelevant. The top comment by the creator: " Pinned by jakenbakeLIVE @jakenbakeLIVE13 days agoFor context for the 50th time... this happened 6 years ago in 2017. We met two local girls who showed us around the area because was new to Tokyo. One was telling me how she was self studying English and learning slang from English speakers on the Hello Talk app. This was her attempting to tell me her new phrase "I F*** With You" meaning you're cool or my homie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 03:31 PM
1	Your location is the biggest factor in success in dating Why would I do that? I'm not the one making the claim that traveling changes their market value. I'm not going to do the due diligence for someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 12:34 AM
–	Most Men Struggle in Dating Because they Lack "Main Character" Energy Most people are average. If every woman wants some extraordinary life even if she herself is mediocre, thats the entire problem with the situation female population Fixed that for you	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:40 PM
–	What do you think of hypergamy? this guy emos	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:34 PM
0	What do you think of hypergamy? There is nothing wrong with it when you think about it. I think a lot of the controversy is due to women getting upset when it is pointed out, and claiming they don't date up, all the while actively spouting nonsense about height and earnings etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:30 PM
-5	What do you think of hypergamy? Yes, but women routinely compare all the men, and they do usually go for the tallest. It isn't enough to be tall as a man, you have to be taller than the other men around her, to be the most sought after by her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:28 PM
7	What do you think of hypergamy? Men aren't actively searching out women who are better than them. Even in your example, I would argue there are way more important factors to why that man is marrying that woman other than her education level. Women on the other hand, actively search and want men who are better than them in almost everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:20 PM
4	Your location is the biggest factor in success in dating Only if you are average or better in all other categories and traits. If you are below average in anything, you're not at the top of any line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:13 PM
3	Your location is the biggest factor in success in dating I mean simply having a passport isn't enough to say that someone is above average, go down to CVS and the post office and bam got yourself a passport. However, I agree that the average dude and most men don't ever leave the country. I still am not convinced though that simply being from somewhere else is enough to significantly increase your sexual market value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:12 PM
2	Your location is the biggest factor in success in dating You are just describing basic normal distribution lol. I should elaborate on my previous statement. If you are average OR better than average this concept would apply, but if you are below average in even one trait is enough to make you mediocre in other locations too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:10 PM
-1	Are single fathers attractive to women? And men have always been expected to provide and bring home the bacon. By your logic women should do more household work and care giving since men are expected to bring resources. My point remains, there is no expectation of women to step in and be a kids mother the same way that men are expected to step in as fathers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:07 PM
1	Your location is the biggest factor in success in dating So unless you are an average man, the idea of traveling to a place to change your market value doesn't even apply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 06:09 PM
1	Your location is the biggest factor in success in dating This only applies if places exist where your market value will actually change. I am not convinced that there must exist such a place for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 06:07 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Welcome back from Clown World. Women never get called out for their irrational "preferences". Women have no sense of accountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 06:00 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Welcome back from Clown World. Women never get called out for their irrational "preferences". Women have no sense of accountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 06:00 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Welcome back from Clown World. Women never get called out for their irrational "preferences". Women have no sense of accountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 06:00 PM
1	Social isolation and male dating That is a false dichotomy. Men have to approach, women just need to be present. There is more nuance than your "interpretation".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 05:51 PM
0	Are single fathers attractive to women? Single dads are also more likely to push the burden of childcare and housework for said child onto the woman more than the reverse scenario. What basis do you have for this claim? I don't see why a single father who has his act together would need/want to push his responsibility onto someone else. In my experience and many other mens' experience they are expected to step in as father for kids. The same expectation doesn't exist for women dating single dads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 03:58 PM
1	Are single fathers attractive to women? This person isn't arguing in good faith and does not have any stats to back up their claims. Don't feed the trolls plz.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 03:47 PM
1	Guys who lie about their height vs women who lie about their weight No, women shouldn't utilize the same foot-in-the-door strategy. One is a controllable feature, the other is immutable. This false equivalence is brought up too much. Women have no such immutable feature that they must lie about or risk never getting a second glance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:47 PM