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OP doesn't say men have to. But many men would probably deny it if it weren't said that directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:50 PM
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School is also not real life, yet we get mad when teachers teach inappropriate stuff. TikTokers are influencers and maybe role models for MANY young people, it's definitely relevant for greater society what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:13 PM

People might marry despite not being sexually content that much, especially if you think sex is only after marriage and only for making children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:10 PM
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No, they don't. You ever heard the famous "everybodx on earth knows everyone else through at most x people"? You can always go one person further
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:23 PM
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Depends. I never approach someone unless there is at least some third person who we both know or some other reason (something they have just said, something they have just done) to talk to them about. I'd find that so weird if I just went to someone and were like "hey do you wanna have a conversation" like what
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:19 PM
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Yeah like if I wanna get off I'm gonna do it myself. If I wanna have a good feeling during an intimate time I have to really be comfortable with my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:37 AM
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Yeah but dating sited are generally much more rigorous and surface-level than real life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:05 PM
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The last paragraph is really interesting. Never saw it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:22 PM
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Well I mean the type of woman who will let the man do everything for her and treats herself like a princess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:55 AM
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I'd say the equivalent is the Damsel in Distress
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:15 PM
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My ex was very adamant about her clitoris being not sensitive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:36 PM

I know, that's why I wrote "if you do"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:31 PM
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That's what also bugs me the most about this topic. How can you "feel" pretty? You feel pretty because you "feel seen pretty" or "feel perceived as pretty" by a non-existent other human being. I also like when I dress my hair nice or when it falls nice. I do that because I know other people will think positively about me and that boosts my self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:38 PM
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"cars are taken to the mechanic" that's exactly the point. They are not. At least not where I live. Men do that kind of work themselves. If it's not something really really specific, we do it ourselves. And yes, it is periodical, but in sum it's more than enough work to even manage for "the man in the house" alone. I don't wanna discredit "women's work" (I don't like this term, but yeah), but I find this an odd and outdated stereotype that men lie in bed while their wife is doing the dishes. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:21 PM
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I don't know many men who don't constantly work at home. Houses need maintenance, heating, water, power supply. The garden does. Cars do. There's not just cleaning. Also, where I live, practically everyone remarries if under 60, so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:42 PM
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Men happen to have experiences with women who don't want to be treated as equals, but want to be sheltered, protected, and absolutely not put in effort. I can't blame a man for trying to treat a girl as a princess rather than an actual equal partner because his last girl left him for actually treating her as equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:24 PM
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If you interpret a man not getting laid as women's fault, that's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:06 PM
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I always phrase it like this. Sex is highly sensitized and should be seen more like other activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:54 PM
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Yeah but if it's the first week of dating? You just met them? What would be the barrier
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:51 PM
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why is she having sex with someone else My point is: What if he doesn't want to have sex yet? What if he has a mental blockade or is hesitant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:28 AM
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Except in most cases, the guy wouldn't say no to the girl if she asked him to have sex when still not in the relationship, thus no reason for the girl to sleep with someone else. However, most girls (at least in my experience) do have mental blockades and are hesitant when it comes to sex before a relationship, even in relationships they are way more hesitant than guys. Understandably so, nonetheless. So when a guy gets the chance to sleep with a girl and is in the uncomfortable situation of sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:03 AM
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Flip the genders. Then you have the actually interesting question. How do you see it the other way round?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:01 AM
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What if he doesn't want yet? Maybe that's hard to imagine because of the genders. But imagine the flipped version, a guy and a girl are in the talking phase and he gets to speep with a girl he occasionally sleeps with when he's single. But the girl is hesitant with sex (also deeper into their relationship she's still putting up LMR). Would the guy be in the wrong for sleeping with his F+ before they're officially a couple?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:59 AM
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Women will snark at sluts, but men will not usually snark at fuck boys. At least not ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:52 PM
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You can't force it, but waiting for someone who's "equally excited" is gonna be very dry, someone's always gonna be the "more" excited part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:57 PM
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But wouldn't he have tried even harder if you had said "maybe"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:48 PM
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But people are indecisive. If every "maybe" were treated as a no, there would be way less happy relationships. I personally know people who have found their way into a relationship because they didn't back off (without actually being creepy) just because their crush didn't head-first jump at them. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:45 PM
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Big thanks for this post. So would you say if you don't find a man attractive you wouldn't get aroused, even if he flirts, builds tensuon, gently touches you (as you say)?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:01 PM
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The first one especially. I think I met every female friend in my life ever (except for my neighbors and school/uni colleagues obviously) through other people in various social circles and explicitly got introduced to them by someone. Edit: In some cases, I talked to them because they knew someone I knew. So yeah, technically, I started the intial conversation, but not to "complete strangers".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:32 PM
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Hobbies and (sports) clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:14 PM
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Maybe it's a defense mechanism from the female part, since they don't wanna admit they "fell" for an older guy and his tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:21 AM
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It is. I dated one when I was 20/21 and even then it was exhausting. I mean she grew up very sheltered, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:18 AM
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Austria has that as well, so I also did it. I can't say if it helps against introversion. What helped me the most personally was joining (youth) clubs/organizations like the firefighters or the music orchestra when I was 16-18.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:26 PM
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