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Because my ego is linked to how good I am at PIV sex, not at anal or at how much blowjobs I receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:25 PM
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Day 86 of dailyposting (and a reminder that women don't want virgins). So they're firing my mom from her job at her school. I dunno why but this makes me anxious. Dad makes good money + they do own some real estate that they will rent out, so it's not like they're going to starve or anything. But still, it scares me. Anyway, what will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:14 PM
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I certainly wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:52 PM
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It's education. There is perfect correlation b/w how educated any class of women is, and the fertility rate of women of that class. This holds true for basically any country in the world except maybe North Korean and Afghanistan type places.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:49 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:46 PM
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No, but I think youre gay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:46 PM
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Oh they are high maintenance. The funniest bit was about how all of them wanted a HVM (read:rich) but also hot guy who would put her needs first. I suspect it's because most of them want to become mothers, so they want a rich hot guy to care for them and their eventual child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:49 PM
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I tried to like the datingover30 sub but the women there were brutal to 30yo virgins. So I dislike that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:13 PM
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I will inherit a lot of real estate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:07 PM
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Bro, try your luck on the bipolar ones. They're super horny. Only risk is they're guaranteed to cheat on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:06 PM
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Me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:05 PM
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I have a confession to make. I used to read FDS, and I found a lot of stuff they said to be valid. Although some of it was just bonkers wrong. Like the time a woman said that men just have to pick up and put down heavy stuff and they'll get jacked and it was so easy. Lold so hard at that one. But still, I couldn't bring myself to hate the FDS gals. They were mostly alright, they all just seemed like they had some kind of dating trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:04 PM
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FDS has leaked into the real world for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:03 PM
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Is valid tbh. Most people aren't right for each other and are just settling. Better to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:02 PM
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Contradictionmaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:01 PM
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I have coined a new term: maxxmaxxing. It's when you've maxed out all the maxxings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:09 AM
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Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:08 AM
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Brutal. It's over for PPDpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:05 AM
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Start with asking her on a date first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:03 AM
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Just pick a PPDer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:39 AM
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It’s on her husband he didn’t let out the sexual fiend in her. She should have never said yes to marriage until he did. Ngl, even as a virgin dude this is why the thought of virgin women scares me, they won't even know if they're settling for me. It's why I think the n-count is fucking meaningless, because fundamentally people who care about the n-count do so to preserve their ego. But even sleeping a 0 n-count woman won't preserve their ego. Much better to find a woman who has slept with half t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:39 AM
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Brutal proof that women settle in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:40 AM
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You're wrong about us being worse than other artsy people. The WORST artsy people are those who're into fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:37 AM
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Roo rul
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:02 AM
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What the fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:59 AM
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Obsessed with being the best at PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:07 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:07 AM
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It does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:25 AM
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In the future there shall be shrines where women and men can go to and pray to reduce their n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:18 AM
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Wrong. See my other comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:15 AM
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It kinda shows that the whole spiel about being the best she’d ever had is nonsense No it isn't. It doesn't count with women is because they don't have a dick, and for a lot of us when we say the best, we mean the best at PIV sex. Using a dildo Or a strap on doesn't count because those are things any man can also use. It has to be real dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:15 AM
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It's over for normal height-cels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:13 AM
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Why not ask for a date instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:11 AM
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AF/BB. Women settle for BB men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:08 AM
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Lol who cares what Candace Owens thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:07 AM
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Big L for real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:03 AM
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infidelity should be punishable by law Wot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:56 AM
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You guys don't have aerospace engg at the bachelor level?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:34 PM
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Honesty usually the only good polls are the most comprehensive ones. But due to their comprehensive nature they're more involved, and so that reduces the sample size, since most people don't want to do such an involved poll. It's a difficult problem to solve. I think polls can be useful in more academic settings where they are validated and peer reviewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:31 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:33 PM
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Not that I'm a fan of USAID but this is somewhat disingenuous. What Americans (or really any people believe), is mostly ascertained by polls, and those are very vulnerable to how they are framed. For eg, I was watching the latest John Oliver episode and he talked about how more than half of Americans support mass deportations. BUT, in the poll if you explain what mass deportation entails, and juxtapose this with a policy that gives a pathway to citizenship, and explain what that entails, then mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:13 PM
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Washing them yes. But wtf moisturizes a dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:08 PM
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No I said a lot of men. I didn't say all men. In any case, what I mean is a large segment of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:07 PM
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I don't know. Maybe it's because they know that there's almost nothing they can do, since they're generally weaker than any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:01 PM
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This is not true lol Oh it is. Trust me. In my country you have cases where men will kill a family member or who brings dishonor upon them, or even themselves. And there's an entire trope of humiliated man murders a woman in a fit of humiliation-triggered-anger in literature and media.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:59 PM
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That's fair, but I wasn't commenting upon any individual case, more in terms of what men are usually like. I don't think this can easily be changed. I do think it is changeable societally in the long term tbf, but the people who have been conditioned to be ego driven, can't turn that off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:58 PM
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That is good. Sadly I see so many cases of women settling, when I search for it on Reddit. It scares me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:53 PM
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No, therapy won't help with this. I'm in therapy, and I'm telling you that it won't. The feelings arising from a bruised ego are far too strong, far too overwhelming, far too primal, for any kind of emotional regulation technique to be able to handle. It's like trying to contain the world's largest tsunami with primitive dam building techniques. Those techniques just won't be enough. The best you can do is to teach the man to immediately remove himself from the situation and withdraw from societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:52 PM
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Yeah if I ever do get angry enough to get into a street fight then I won't stop until I've really broken the opponent or killed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:49 PM
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Ah. That's somewhat fair I guess. My only issue is that women who do want Chad should never ever date a beta guy. No growing older and then seeking out more steady relationships with relationship-minded beta guys. None kr that shit. Because that's settling, and it's as disrespectful and as demeaning as stabbing the guy in the gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:48 PM
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I'm sure some men talk like this, but most good dudes don't. I can guarantee this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:41 PM
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It's a CIA ploy to send agents across the world. Srs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:40 PM
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how they bully women into not lying about their preferences due to their own insecurities Explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:39 PM
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In reverse order, hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:38 PM
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lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:37 PM
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Yeah. Sleek titanium frames with Carl Zeiss lenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:37 PM
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Okay since there was a guy in the comments talking about an African proverb, I also want to talk about one. I'm not sure if it was Ursula LeGuin or Margaret Atwood who said that "men are afraid that women will laugh at them, but women are afraid that men will kill them". I've always felt this was incomplete. There should be an addendum that "because men would rather die than be laughed at". This is important. I'm not condoning male-on-female violence here, but trying to explain that a lot of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:36 PM
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Oh I got a new pair of glasses today. They're really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:31 PM
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Even better, kill IMF and the World Bank. This is what they're aiming for. I'm ngl, I despise Trump and all he represents but killing the IMF and the WB would be such an unironically good move for the Third World. I'm slightly happy about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:31 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:28 PM
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Day 85 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins). I'm still recovering from my illness. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:18 PM
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Both I guess. But way more at my friend for ruining my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:13 PM
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(Except me)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:48 PM
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I guess you're a part of the cope-industrial-complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:46 PM
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Are you pro-choice Or pro-life? (I'm pro choice).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:42 AM
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No because not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:22 AM
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Yes even then. My relatives in Delhi did a 100k USD+ wedding last year. Indian weddings have gone insane on the expenditure, thanks to the Gram.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:38 AM
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That women don't settle. Like cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:37 AM
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Damn. This is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:35 AM
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That's cool and all, but no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:29 AM
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I can't stop laughing at the hubris of this post. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha. Women from Afghanistan barely get asylum, and these idiots think American women are entitled to asylum in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:29 AM
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Start and early days. Less than 6 months ie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:28 AM
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Lol @ 75k. That's downright cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:27 AM
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It's cum guzzler.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:31 PM
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You're seeing the extremes of the incels tho. P sure there have been radfems who wanted to castrate all men. Those are the feminist variant of incel extremists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:30 PM
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How many dolls do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:27 PM
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I just feel that way. I don't know if it is true or not. Probably because I lack self esteem + I feel that I'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:55 PM
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You wouldn't post if you didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:46 PM
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idc about cooked attraction. Only raw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:34 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:31 PM
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I just found out that the IncelTear subreddit had a mod who was grooming underage women. https://np.reddit.com/r/IncelTear/s/fncZFggo0z Hahahahahahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:28 PM
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And I'm saying most actual men learn this the hard way and become assholes. Don't believe me? See the # of men who will vote against women's interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:26 PM
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You know the guys name.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:18 PM
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Raw attraction is when women are so into a guy they just want to bone him all the time and they're really excited to be with him, and he drives them wild with lust. Cooked attraction is when the guy is nice and cute and she wants to spend the rest of her life with him and feels safe with him, but doesn't want to jump his bones constantly. She doesn't lust after him so strongly as to ignore sense. They are happy to be with the guy, but not excited. The relationship isn't exciting. There's no thri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:18 PM
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Raw attraction is when women are so into a guy they just want to bone him all the time and they're really excited to be with him, and he drives them wild with lust. Cooked attraction is when the guy is nice and cute and she wants to spend the rest of her life with him and feels safe with him, but doesn't want to jump his bones constantly. She doesn't lust after him so strongly as to ignore sense. They are happy to be with the guy, but not excited. The relationship isn't exciting. There's no thri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:17 PM
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Raw attraction is when women are so into a guy they just want to bone him all the time and they're really excited to be with him, and he drives them wild with lust. Cooked attraction is when the guy is nice and cute and she wants to spend the rest of her life with him and feels safe with him, but doesn't want to jump his bones constantly. She doesn't lust after him so strongly as to ignore sense. They are happy to be with the guy, but not excited. The relationship isn't exciting. There's no thri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:17 PM
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But why do women care ? Those men will just filter themselves out of your pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:13 PM
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giving a normal amount of fucks for a strangers feelings (ie a tiny bit but not much) isnt inconsistent with confidence For men who have been brought up to care too much about other people's feelings (ie most modern men) , being able to give a tiny amount of fuck doesn't work. It's all Or nothing. Hence the need to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:12 PM
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Interesting. It's over for virgins then. RIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:10 PM
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Q4M: How would you/do you ensure that your partner has raw attraction to you? What things point to her having raw attraction for you ? Q4W: What signs/behaviors do you display if you feel a raw attraction for a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:09 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obBelA1srtw my fav version btw. You really get to appreciate the vocals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:07 PM
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AUH AUH
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:06 PM
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Bro the OG mario game on the NES had more pixels than this screenshot. I can barely read anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:06 PM
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For men, to be confident you have to approach a lot of women. Which means being willing to creep out women. Which only happens once you can cultivate an attitude of not giving a fuck about the woman's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:05 PM
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Bro all of these need to be compiled into a textbook and taught in schools istg. Raw attraction > anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:04 PM
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Maybe it's because I'm down with the sickness, but I feel so angry today. I've been doomscrolling a lot. I know I'm not supposed to do that, but I'm visiting my parents and there isn't much to do. And everything I doomscroll makes me feel like I will always be a virgin. That no woman will ever be attracted to me. That I will always lack confidence. And these feelings of inadequacy fill me with such rage. I wish I had an arsenal of nukes that I could use to turn this planet to a cinder. Anyway, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:03 PM
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Women like men with confidence. For a lot of men, it's very difficult to downright impossible to be confident without being a bit of an asshole. This is because boys have been told since a young age that men are bad and men are rapey and men are predatory. So they don't approach or don't do anything that could possibly make a woman uncomfortable. The ones who don't give a flying fuck how a woman or other people might feel about their actions hit on women. This is percieved as confidence. And thu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:58 PM
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Nope. Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:38 PM
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English and Hindi-Urdu
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:31 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:30 PM
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You're a redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:29 PM
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Don't do that. Commute if you have to. Save money. If you don't you might have to move back in 4 years and this time with crippling debt. Do a community college first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:25 PM
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Day 85 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins) Today I feel ill. It's really cold. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:24 PM
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Yeah that was me. Sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:46 PM
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Based as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:44 PM
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Research programs do, but again the ones that matter aren't involved in DEI research. Yeah see my other thread. The way they're going about it leads to funding freeze for a lot of non-DEI things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:03 PM
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Uhh have you seen how they're going about it? They're looking for keywords. And the keyword list is huge. For eg one of the keywords is "bias". Which means RIP to a shitton of stats and data science papers and anything neural net.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:02 PM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:01 PM
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Will they fund them though? I guess the Ivies will be fine, but what about public unis ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:59 PM
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Also afaik US Unis rely a lot on PhDs. So unless you think the Unis not functioning isn't a big deal, it's a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:50 PM
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Uhh, PhDs do a lot more than DEI projects you know. All modern technology comes because PhD allows scientists to be trained. That's RIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:48 PM
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Yes but like how will the unis function? Afaik they rely a lot on PhDs working as TAs and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:47 PM
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Just what it says. US unis will be in crisis mode if they can't get the exploitable labor that is PhD and postdocs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:28 PM
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Lie to them that you want LDRs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:22 PM
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So I just realized something. Trump has basically killed all science grants. PhD students won't get funding. In which case most students will abandon their PhD and no new students will join, since the PhD won't be funded. What will happen to the unis then? Without PhD students working as TAs and maybe even postdocs (if they also get paid from the funding grants), how will a uni even function ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:19 PM
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Damn, my friends just sent me a report on how Musk et al are gutting science research funding. And damn, that's a self goal if I ever saw one. RIP to American science I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:11 PM
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I KNEW IT j/k
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:10 PM
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You know Tim Walz had the right idea about putting up a positive message to people. Like you can't just be against something. You can't just be anti Trump as an election plank. You have to be pro something. I suspect some deep stater got a hold of the Kamala campaign and ruined it. Should have stuck with the Walz strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:53 PM
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It is But do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:52 PM
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Wtf. Who are these weaklings?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:50 PM
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Also it isn't just marriage. You know how you were ranting about rich people having shit handed to them. Well this guy was rich and well connected so now he's pretty well off in his career. I'm still floundering. But fuck it. This year I'll work so fucking hard. Like this dude used to suck @ academics. He has barely ever read a book in his life. Meanwhile I'm literally tested 99%ile IQ CS-Maths whiz who likes to attempt Olympiad tier problems because I enjoy it. And I'm not as well off as him. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:49 PM
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If all you eat is home cooked food, and you don't live in the West, then it's bloody hard to even meet your protein requirements. I'm actually jealous of how cheap whey protein is for Americatards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:45 PM
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Yes. Ngl wish I would get a hot girl like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:43 PM
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Htf you happy about school closure and sad about it being senior year ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:38 PM
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And get Atul Subhash'ed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:37 PM
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Another guy I knew got married. He used to lowkey bully me when I was a kid. Now he's married and moved to Switzerland. I hate how everyone has made progress in their life but me. I'm stuck. Stagnant. The only thing that keeps me going is when I tell myself that even though I feel stuck, I will peak higher than other people will. I'll make a lot of money and get those plastic surgeries and sculpt myself into a far more attractive man than the rest. And I'll get hotter women than they got.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:14 AM
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Dude was schooled in a gurukul. Stupid, I know. But it annoys me that women can be physically violent with men and face no repercussions. Or accuse men of shit and face 0 repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:58 AM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:39 AM
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I like my therapist too much to even contemplate doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:24 AM
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I don't actually. Not anymore. I used to, and people would mess with me in school. I bulked up in college and got a bald haircut. I used to look scary and people just left me alone. But my point of venting was that this shit is why I am afraid to approach women. And it's also why I feel like the only way I will be able to approach women is if I (internally) reduce the emotional valence of something like non-consentually touching someone. Basically stop giving a fuck if a woman thinks I harassed …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:23 AM
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Women attacking men verbally or physically. Yeah it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:14 AM
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I'm not man istg. This kind of shit does happen. Especially in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:11 AM
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Yeah I don't think it's made up. I know of atleast one case like this which happened in my school. Dude was a little retarded (as in mentally, he wasn't the brightest tool in the shed, not using this as a slur). One he ended up in this group of rich delinquent kids. And they were gossiping about all the women in the class. You know, locker room talk shit. And then one of the kids in the group goes to one of the girls and tells her that this kid was saying shit about her. Well, the girl goes and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:11 AM
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In India it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:04 AM
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Read a post on OffMyChestIndia subreddit. Dude went to a mall. He was just standing in a queue to buy a ticket or something when the woman in front of him turned around and accused him of touching her, and then slapped him. And then her boyfriend slapped him too. Poor dude says he didn't touch her or do anything. This kind of shit is what makes me both afraid to approach women, and also a wee bit misogynistic if I'm being truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:49 AM
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Damn, they gave my dailyposter account a 3 day ban. And I'm not even sure what for, because the linked comment is deleted by Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:43 AM
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I was reading IncelExit and it made me realise that most of the advice in that sub and other subs basically boils down to "it depends on the individuals in question". Which is very useless to give as advice. I think any and all advice subs should have rules where the advice given HAS to lay out concrete actionable steps for the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:33 AM
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Zuck also said how Oculus would like totally revolutionize everything. Stop listening to tech CEOs (seriously). It's their incentive to have you believe that their tech will like totally take over everything. It's how they get funding from the gullible VCs (and VCs are some genuinely dumb motherfuckers istg). Also read this https://www.wheresyoured.at/godot-isnt-making-it/ the entire blog. You'll see the rot at the heart of the tech industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:59 PM
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I agree, and that's what I plan to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:02 PM
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I don't think is an apt analogy, because from the pov of men, women being more passionate with other men = women were more into those men. And it's really about that. Is she not as into me as other men. That comparison matters because if you're lower on the totem pole then it feels emasculating. And for a lot of men they need to know because otherwise their brain just assumes the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:25 PM
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All the women in my family do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:55 PM
2

world peace solve the Riemann Hypothesis colonize the moon cure male pattern baldness (the loyl is balding)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:19 PM
1

Sigh, alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:09 PM
1

I just didn't check before posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:08 PM
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If I were a woman, life would suck (although not as much as it did now). Because I'd have big boobs, and Id be hot. But I'd be very intelligent, so it would be near impossible to find hot men who can match my intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:08 PM
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Yeah. I know I should. But even at this moment, I am procrastinating. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:04 PM
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In ancient India, there was a rigid caste system. Every person was put into one of four categories - Scholar, Warrior, Merchant and Untouchable. The untouchable was the lowest of the low. Outcast. He was placed at the very margins of society, because he was inferior to the others and dirty. It was said that he was infectious, that touching him would transmit diseases. He was also said to be a complete fucking retard. In today's society, that role is played by the podcast bro. There is no one mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:03 PM
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Ew. Why do you want to be a podcast bro? That's the lowest of low, betaest of males.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:58 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:56 PM
1

Give eli5 for us ootl peeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:56 PM
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Day is almost over. Was meh tbh. I feel like I'm addicted to my phone and mindless browsing. Need to set up appblock, but I procrastinate. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:55 PM
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Day 62 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins) What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:41 PM
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RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:01 PM
1

How much u lift?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:59 PM
2

Day 61 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that women don't want virgins) What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:56 PM
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No and it's unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:20 PM
1

No and it's unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:16 PM
1

Yes but they reduce my libido so fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:07 PM
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I feel hatred and anger at the fact that other men have to not work hard at all to get multiple hookups, all due to the fact that they were born without an anxiety disorder to overcome, that they grew up in bigger cities where women actually want casual sex, and where hooking up is normalized. And so they never grew up with the conditioning that I did, they never were afraid of making a move, of flirting, of physically escalating. It's unfair that I have to work so hard just to get a fraction of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:02 PM
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I wasn't talking about other people hating me. I meant the hate and anger I feel. That's what makes me less desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:55 PM
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Ironically the hate makes me less desperate with any single woman. Like I said if she's turned off, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:35 PM
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I feel what I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:35 PM
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Doesn't seem to happen to other men. In any case I don't care. I refuse to be desperate. I will work very hard to get hookups, but I refuse to invest emotionally in women anymore than those other men do. So if a woman gets turned off, whatever, I'll find another one. Women are fungible now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:33 PM
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Then it sounds incel. I'm not going to shy away from talking about how I feel, no matter how people label me. I feel angry. It's not fair that other men don't ever have to overcome the challenges I do, that it's so easy for them to get hookups and so difficult for me. It makes me angry. And I'm going to try as hard as I can to get as much casual sex as I can until this feel of anger and hurt is assuaged. And I don't care who I hurt in this endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:32 PM
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I feel what I feel. If that sounds like RedPill stuff then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:29 PM
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And you know what's funny mate? Just like back home, I've noticed that the richer kids tend to be more open to casual sex here in my suburb. Most middle class people want to get a LTR and then get married. Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:30 AM
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Nah I know for a fact because there's some irl Twitter people I have come to know who talk about this. It happens in Hyd and Gurgaon and basically any liberal arts uni which sends rich kids there. It's also a thing to do with subcultures. Outside of Bangalore (where it seems like everyone seems to be cheating on everyone else if I go by Reddit), all the other places have certain subcultures where it's common. Mostly in places where gender ratios are equal - so universities, the media and PR indu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:15 AM
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Are hookups really that popular outside of the top 4 cities? I'm not sure about younger Gen Z people. In my city, which is also one of the top 10, it wasn't a thing when I was growing up. But like it's so normalised in the Big 4. I didn't realise it until I started reading Reddit and Twitter and talked to all my friends. It makes me envious. Actually even outside the Big 4 in some up and coming cities. Pune, Gurgaon. And also college cities like the places where they have Manipal etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:03 AM
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I think that's just as fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:42 AM
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I disagree with 3. It takes two people to have a sex life and he has every right to document things that happened TO him (including how frequently and why he got denied for sex). And I think if the woman doesn't like it then she can leave him. In fact the man should have published the list and divorced her at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:37 AM
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Good morning, happy new year. I'm beginning this year with a realization I had last night. Lots of men(even in my country) are able to get hookups easily anytime they want. This hurts because I have to fight and try so hard to get even a fraction of the results those guys get. I'm trying to get into grad school so I can make more money, so I can move to a city where there's lots more single women my age. I'm preparing my ego for a lot of pain and rejection because I'm a virgin. I'm trying to put…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:22 AM
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Should have shouted at her more tbh. Let her show up at your doorstep and then hatefuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:52 AM
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Bro I feel this SO DAMN MUCH. Fuck me, I was literally thinking about this very thing this morning. Like I wish that I could change this trait of me that deems it a virtue to be always available, giving and pleasant into being unavailable and toxic. I think those traits are fine for friends whom you trust. They are not for sexual partners you attract. I'm slowly getting convinced that women are attracted to men who are moderately toxic. Although I'm not sure exactly which traits of those men mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:48 AM
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I think ADHD and Bipolar are advantages in the sexual marketplace. Autism, anxiety are disadvantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:41 AM
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Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:35 PM
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It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:23 PM
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I know. But I'm a slave to my feelings. And rn it FEELS as if it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:17 PM
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I do have obsessive tendencies. No specific longstanding compulsions, but I do get compulsive tics. They come and they go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:15 PM
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Thats true. But it'll take timr before it emotionally registers that doing this again and again won't change the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:12 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:11 PM
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Me telling them that they're wrong is satisfying. But initially it's triggering, again because it feels like they're judging my existence itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:10 PM
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Yeah, I can see where you're coming from, but I hold the value of letting people do what they want very highly. I actually don't like regulations on sugar or sugar taxes. Or even on trans fats. And not because I'm anti government. I think if someone prefers to sacrifice their health for food then their wish needs to be respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:08 PM
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You have to learn to live with it. That is true, but it will take time. Dude, if you're so intelligent, you should learn not to seek content that triggers you Meh, I'm book smart. Basically just high IQ. Doesn't mean emotionally well regulated. For eg, there's this woman, Lisa Nowak. Incredibly smart. Masters degree in aeronautical engineering. Pilot with US military. Got selected to be an astronaut at NASA. But when she found out that her bf was cheating on her, she drove for 15 hours to go and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:05 PM
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People are judgmental folks, and society overall is interested in people being functioning and doing more than just "having fun". I find that to be a very feudal mindset. I honestly feel like society needs to let people do what they want as long as they're not directly hurting others. So is taking drugs or pursuing ego validation above everything else. Pursuing what you want as long as you're not directly hurting others, without judgement, is above everything else. I genuinely think this attitud…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:56 PM
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Because when I do share my desires, people judge me as being insecure/immature etc etc. And since these desires are at the very core of me - like I wouldn't be me if I didn't have these desires - it feels like my very existence is being judged. And that hurts. And also pisses me off. I figured out a long time ago that different people have different values, so now I don't really judge other people's desires and the way they live their lives. I expect intelligent people to recognize this and act …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:48 PM
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Yes but judging is considered wrong by most of society. I don't really take religious and conservative folks seriously. And also, gay people fought long and hard to have gay sex be seen as normal. My issue is why the fuck is everything not as normal, just accept that different people want different things, and it should be okay to let them pursue that without judgement. I'm talking about people who aren't religious or conservative - they should know better. But the still like to label certain be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:41 PM
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Yes but others don't. They should be allowed without judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:37 PM
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I mean we stopped judging gay people because fundamentally the idea of civil society is that people should be allowed to do whatever their heart desires as long as it doesn't hurt others directly. And so we don't judge other people's desires for the most part. Like we don't judge women for wanting CNC. So why judge people who are doing anything? Whether it be drugs, or chasing casual sex or whatever else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:35 PM
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Yeah, this is also something I disagree with society. I think if people want to take drugs, they should be allowed to. Their lives, their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:34 PM
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Yes but if someone choses fun all the time, what's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:29 PM
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But in the moment of actually receiving the validation will feel so good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:28 PM
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You nailed it. That's exactly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:07 PM
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I don't. I go by the experiences of my friends in bigger cities. And of people on the India subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:06 PM
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Yeah I'm open to that. It's possible that this can happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:37 PM
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No bro I tried, I just didn't meet any women. I'm open to meeting someone, but I just don't see any women my age at the places I go to. So I'm mostly resigned to going out of the city once I get into grad school in 2026. This isn't just a me thing either. There's a post by a woman in her 30s in the 2XIndia subreddit, asking where to meet men. And the other women are like you'll have to get arranged married now, no other way. It is what it is. I'm open to meeting women here, but I can't help it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:36 PM
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Yeah. I think pure hedonism is dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:30 PM
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If that’s the case you’ll probably end up as my uncle (recovering alcoholic) call “always chasing the dragon I know. Lowkey (and this isn't really blackpill so mods don't fucking delete this), I hope that in chasing validation, I end up meeting my death. I don't want to get old. I don't want to be a 60 year old. People that old are not attractive and can't get that validation. Women can love old men, they can't lust after old men. And I appreciate that you want something better for me, but nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:30 PM
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Yeah, and in my case it's also the place I'm in. India has a dating app ratio of 93 men to 7 women. And it's worse in smaller towns. Because women get married early and then there's no one left.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:27 PM
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I've had moments in my life when I've gone above and beyond to do some things, and it's always been about ego. And I'm incapable of letting things go. Maybe that's what I respect others who are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:24 PM
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Eh, I think chasing the drug high is a quality life too. Depends on priorities. I don't really value longevity or stability or things like that. I do value the high of validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:23 PM
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But you’re actually using the fears to prevent you from getting there. No, right now the biggest challenge to why I'm not dating is my health issues (surgery prolly next year if it doesn't resolve by then, that's what the doctor said), and not being able to meet women because I'm stuck in a small town and most women are married. I've tried dating apps and it had like 20 profiles for women my age +- 5 years, none of them appealing. I've tried going to hobby groups etc. Didn't meet any women, much…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:22 PM
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I'm ngl, validation absolutely feels like a drug. You crave it more and more. But I'm okay with it resulting in a train wreck. Like if that's the price to pay for feeling the pleasures of a drug then so be it. And I don't get why society isn't okay with that. People have agency, they should be allowed to live lives of self destruction if thats what they chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:16 PM
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You will always have those doubts because SHE isn’t the one feeding them. I kinda don't think I will if I can prove them to myself. With other self doubts, I've actually worked very hard and proven to myself that I can do certain things. Once I did, the fear melted away. I don't even think about those fears now. So in this case being able to get ONSes will prove both that 1) I can get ONSes and 2) that women lust after me enough to want to sleep with me immediately. Atleast that's what I feel. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:14 PM
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Yeah but I can't just keep the fear aside. I would if I could. But I always get the what ifs back. What if she didn't lust after me as much as others? What if I'm not good enough to get women to have casual sex with me? The only way to silence them is to prove it to myself that these things aren't true for my relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:03 PM
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You see what you did there. You literally read and believed “something you read in the internet” to confirm your bias. In this particular case, tbvh, this is what formed the bias. This is many years ago, 13 or 14 probably. Back then I used to be afraid of women with high n-counts, and I wasn't sure why. But it used to bother me. Took me a lot of contemplation and introspection to realise that I'm jnsecure and compare against her exes and want to be the best. But once I did realise it, I stopped …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:52 PM
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Eh, sometimes they do find out though. Long ago I remember reading a post, I'm not sure if it was the girl or the guy who wrote it. But both were teenagers in a relationship, and he found out that she had had a couple one night stands where she met a guy at a club and took him home. And when this kid found out, he (prolly) got hit by a storm of emotion - atleast I suspect this is what happened, because in the post he basically just got super mad at her, called her a whore and all sorts of names …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:40 PM
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Her taking it slow isn't in his head though. That is his lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:25 PM
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No, it's not just about sex. Ego validation in ANY form. For example there's this video I've watched that talks about how Kobe Bryant and Michael Jordan both excelled at basketball because they wanted to dominate other players and prove to other people that they were the best. Another one is Dave Mustaine. He got kicked out of Metallica, and felt so hurt and humiliated that he decided to form another band and beat Metallica. And so he formed Megadeth. Most of the world tells you to let go of sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:16 PM
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Tbh I also dont understand why people think chasing ego validation is a bad thing? I've always respected people more when they went to extreme lengths for ego validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:01 PM
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Doing what feels good isn't immature, not being able to control your feelings is I honestly don't see much point in controlling feelings. Like why not just follow your feelings. You have one life? What's the point of caging your feelings and missing out on feeling good. Doing only what feels good is how people end up broke, morbidly obese and depressed You know, athletes do a lot of things that don't feel good. They're disciplined, nature. They work hard for their sport. And at the end of it, ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:46 PM
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Girl Im a man 😤 Although, you've given me something to think about. If everyone gets surgery in South Korea then why are there still incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:34 PM
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I think this problem will be solved once free plastic surgery is given by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:30 PM
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How did she not notice though? Unless he faked his love for her, in which case, p shit move. Hope I can do this to a woman someday 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:28 PM
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Why is going after what feels good deemed as immature? It's like people expect you to do the less fun, boring things, because that's what it means to be mature. And it never made sense to me. If you have one life, why not chase what feels good? Sometimes I wonder if it's because most people plan to have kids, since raising kids requires a stable environment and parents who put the kids needs above their own. Anecdotally, I've noticed that childfree people (even those older than me), are a lot mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:25 PM
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Would you have dated him if he was a 26 year old virgin and you had had multiple partners and weren't religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:54 AM
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What's wrong with the sentiment he's expressing though. If she's taking it slow with you, then she don't lust after you like she lusts after the guys she doesn't make wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:52 AM
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It's also about those lacking experience being sad about potential rejection for lacking experience 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:50 AM
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They actually do regain weight on gastric bypass. Not sure how it happens but weight regain is the norm. Only way weight doesn't come back (whether you diet or ozempic Or surgery), is if you change diet and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:31 AM
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Tbh I wish I'd get a partner who is smarter than me, but (I swear this isn't a flex), I'm v high percentile on IQ so it's hard to find people who are smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:29 AM
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Same but "fuck lots of hot women and have them begging for me" instead of "raise kids"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:26 AM
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❤
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:23 AM
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Post yours and I'll tell you that you look like my grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:23 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/pzv8kfv4fy8e1.png?width=1220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=02fa95c9e10436754ef5063bcc7a21bf952b0dfb Errybody talking about Luigi's eyebrows. These are mine. Get mogged, plebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:20 AM
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I'd date a woman who's attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:18 AM
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I honestly don't think teachers can make kids like the subject. It makes more sense to find the kids who gravitate towards such subjects. Tbh I really do think school is overrated and beyond some basic clases in reading, writing, basic science literacy and critical thinking, everything else should be optional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:14 AM
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It wasn't an accident. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:12 AM
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Man I miss highschool. We used to play CS. Now everyone of those peeps has a kid and is busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:11 AM
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I just want the Lord to give me a cute big tittied rich heiress who is the perfect match for me, and who loves to spoil me with money and gifts. Fuck it, there should be male romance Writers writing books that cater to the male fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:10 AM
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Happy Holidays.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:07 AM
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Where you from bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:50 AM
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Okay, what if the motive of the aliens was to get a large workforce of people to walk 8 hours a day on a treadmills that are used to generate power?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:31 PM
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They are duoliths.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:30 PM
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Oh okay. Tbh marriage IS a scam, but DBRs can happen in LTRs also, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:28 PM
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The Duality of Man <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:26 PM
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Why would those men complain about dead bedrooms? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:21 PM
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I don't think he's talking about the mentality, but about actual abundance. As in he's saying avg women still get tons of suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:21 PM
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How is it inconsistent though? A man in a dead bedroom complains that his wife isn't attracted to him and only wants to sleep with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:19 PM
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I've never played that game so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:18 PM
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This makes me wonder, what if it's a literal rotation. Imagine Chad lives in a hut on a very small rock in the middle of the ocean. There's a HYUUUUUUUUGE (diameter of miles) merry-go-round that's right outside his house. Everyday it rotates and the next woman on the merry-go-round steps off it to go and fuck Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:16 PM
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It IS one sided. Nobody knows the womans side. The reason he offed himself is because the judge was corrupt and asking for a bribe. This pissed him off enough and he did it to make a statement. The judicial system here is incredibly overloaded and slow, thanks to our inherited system of British bureaucracy (seriously, fuck the Brits 😤). Everybody hates it. Although I don't doubt that his ex wife prolly said some mean shit to him, which he mentioned in his letter. The people were sympathizing bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:13 PM
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Merry Christmas bro. Maybe your looksmatch will be under the tree this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:06 PM
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I just saw this post and it gave me an idea for a TV series where aliens invade and try to enslave humans, and incels side with the aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:06 PM
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Do you ever think that he doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:58 PM
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tl:dr?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:58 PM
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Have you ever come across a 10/10 yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:56 PM
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The (lingering) smell of shampoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:55 PM
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What about "future baby momma material"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:54 PM
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Yeah it's become a thing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:47 PM
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Nah he was too ugly for Stacy. Dude left a huge 1.5 hour video ranting against women, feminists, Marxists, and what not before he offed himself. Said wome deserved to be raped and worse. Maximum incel rhetoric. Dude left behind a 4 yo. RIP to that kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:35 PM
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Apparently brown women in America chase white doods. Atleast that's what Reddit tells me. Ngl, sometimes I'm glad I didn't grow up in the West. Not being in the dominant ethnolinguistic group must feel like a mindfuck. My inferiority complex would have had an inferiority complex if I had grown up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:32 PM
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She was crying by the end of it. I don't think she'll ever do anything like that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:29 PM
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RIP. Hope things turn out well bro. Extended family is always a pita.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:28 PM
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Okay this is really funny but This dude in my country recently offed himself because he didn't want to pay alimony in a divorce case. The reason for the divorce - she wanted him to lick her armpits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:27 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:17 PM
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He's very similar to what I used to look like when I was skinny. Especially the jawline. I was wondering if people with my jawline can be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:12 PM
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Okay, I giggled @ this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:10 PM
2

Remind me to post something tomorrow. I'll show y'all what real food looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:10 PM
1

Damn, that bad huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:08 PM
1

I dunno, jaw implants, a facelift. P sure he can afford the best doctors. A light beard to offset the bald. Or maybe he could transplant other people's hair idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:05 PM
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Q4W: What would you rate this guy from 0 to 10 https://preview.redd.it/41fb9krj2v8e1.png?width=1220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2edae1e0f2295e27676b8a6f5171333dd421c2ec
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:04 PM
2

Tbf, I don't know why Bezos doesn't get some plastic surgery and roids. He's rich enough to buy a brand new face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:56 PM
1

That's okay, the scientists don't understand Quantum Computing either. And it will never be really useful anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:49 PM
1

Just keep introducing him to more works of literature like Go The Fuck to Sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:47 PM
2

Lmao. Your kid's gonna grow up to be dope. I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:46 PM
1

Same tbh. I've never understood such displays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:45 PM
3

I think they did studies on this. Those who aren't delusional have a more accurate reading of the world. But they get less success than the delusional people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:42 PM
2

ResearchMogged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:41 PM
1

Hiroshima was less traumatizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:40 PM
2

Play it this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=teIbh8hFQos
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:28 PM
1

Sigh. All the good women are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:19 PM
2

That's hot. Give her my number.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:17 PM
2

inb4 someone talks about AFBB and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:16 PM
2

How does she sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:15 PM
1

I didn't know Jschlatt made music. Dafuq.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:14 PM
1

Q4A: What is everyone listening to right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:11 PM
1

Y'all really need to spend a few years living as a brown person in a third world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:02 PM
1

Wrong team, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:00 PM
1

You don't want to be any height in Afghanistan bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:59 PM
1

Hey, worst case scenario, you can always drop them off at the orphanage and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:58 PM
1

I think kids are usually taller than their mothers, so that's close to guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:57 PM
1

I have this one neat trick that can help them achieve it. It's called Heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:54 PM
2

"Excessive whining" and especially the "crippling insecurity" can both be pretty subjective. I have this friend, who has almost no patience for any kind of insecurity. She once got mad at a guy who had been caught by the police with drugs. Mad that he didn't have the wits to be able to talk his way out of that situation, and had to pay off the cops :| So as a man you never know how much insecurity is kosher. And if the amount they feel is kosher. So then the best thing to do is suppress it all d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:53 PM
1

Have kids with a really tall dude then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:43 PM
1

Yeah I know, I'm the same way. I still have some of those instincts about feeling that life is fair, and I actively have to push them down. For me, I deal with it by being an antinatalist and chosing to not have kids of my own. That and resenting my own parents for teaching me this stupid shit. My dad follows rules and laws to the max. Won't even give bribes. V idealist. It's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:43 PM
2

This is redpill fuel tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:40 PM
2

Wot. If he's extremely tall then I'm positively a giant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:35 PM
1

I pretty much get enjoyment from the validation. Even my fantasies revolve around recieving validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:52 PM
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but your goal is external validation and you're completely unwilling to do the one thing necessary to achieve it I am willing to work towards becoming the best by working to improve at sex. What I'm constitutionally incapable of doing is choosing to stay in a relationship where I can't be the best. Again, I think that's kind of pathetic and a lot of other people would too. And for me, what's pathetic is chosing to continue to be in a relationship even when you know you aren't and can't be the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:43 PM
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Because to even think about changing it is to accept (even for a moment) that I will have to live the rest of my life as someone who isnt the best. And to me that is so pathetic that I'd rather jump off a building. It's that unacceptable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:29 PM
1

Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:26 PM
1

Thank you :😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:22 PM
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No, you don't understand. This need for validation of being the best is at the very core of me. I AM that need. It's impossible to change Or give that up. So all I can really do is try to be the best sex for any partner I end up with. And if I can't be that (I'll ask her and she will tell me) then Id rather leave. That's all I can do, and hope I find someone for whom I can be the best. That's all there is to my existence. Anything else is impossible. Accepting a situation where I am not the best…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:22 PM
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For one, the situation. For example I've read a post where a guy was talking to his drunk gf and she talked about how the best sex she had was with her ex. The sex was so good because it was forbidden (she had to sneak out of her parents house as a teen). Now that she was living on her own, that forbidenness couldn't really be recreated (the guy tried). So sometimes it's situations that can't be created. Other times it's chemistry and lust. Women will date a guy who they somewhat lust over but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:18 PM
1

Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:16 PM
1

Should any other women who is a great partner but can't measure up to the consex feel rage at you for settling? She should and Id do the dignified thing and leave her. Besides, sex is a skill and can improve. I am specifically concerned with situations where you can't improve. Where the sex simply won't match up to her past partners because of immutable factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:13 PM
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Maybe. But nothing else is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:12 PM
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Well if I don't get the validation I'm looking for from a partner, then I'll just walk away from them. Does that connotate enough self esteem? That's the best I can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:07 PM
1

That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:00 PM
1

Me and other men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:59 PM
1

Damn, that's incredibly disrespectful. Why do women put up with that shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:44 PM
1

I think it's best to ignore feminists now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:41 PM
1

If you're low libido, why don't do you just inject Testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:39 PM
2

Weak. I saw a YouTube short where this tiny 5'5" or so Korean wrestler was picking up and slamming people twice his size and weight. Skill and strength issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:36 PM
2

Here have a cookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:33 PM
2

Almost no one is answering my second question so it's kind of meh. Beyond that I was hoping for some diverse responses but I only saw women saying their current is the best. Which is good and makes me happy, but also makes me wonder if other women aren't responding because they'll be downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:29 PM
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Yes but the man wants to be the best for her. To him that's what's more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:26 PM
2

China is scaring the crap out of all car companies. I for one am glad to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:25 PM
1

That was most people who grew up middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:20 PM
1

Day 55 of dailyposting (and reminder that most women don't want virgins). Today I felt rage. What did you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:14 PM
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Okay, I finally snapped and talked to a friend about my trigger and the rage Im feeling. She was v nice about it and I feel much better now. The rage isn't gone, but I understand WHY I feel it. And that makes it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:14 PM
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Is your favorite author Ayn Rand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:12 PM
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I have a friend who's like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:09 PM
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Exactly what pisses me off. Like, it doesn't matter that she wants me as a partner for life. What matters is how good I am at sex compared to her exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:31 PM
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I don't know why. Maybe it's because it feels like it could happen to me. But I think maybe it's because when such things are posted on Reddit, the woman simply fail to understand the mans side of the story. That's what bothers me the most. instead of reassuring the poster about his need for validation. They tell him that love is more important than validation. And I can't help but imagine that they're saying that to me. And I'd rather they understood that for a lot of men, validation > anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:29 PM
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Respectfully, fuck you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:21 PM
2

You can re read the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:20 PM
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Q4W: Is your current partner the best sex of your life? Also does a man have to be "bad" to be the best? I'm specifically asking the second question because I see A LOT of women say that the best sex of their life was an Ed who wasn't good for them and who was abusive. And I've also seen women claim that what made it good was the toxicity of the situation, which made it raw and animal and devoid of love. Do you have to not be in love for it to be raw and animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:18 PM
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No, what I said is that it pisses me off when women settle (according to my definition of settling) and I wish women didn't do that. I wish women didn't marry the guy who was not the best, most exciting sex of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:10 PM
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Yes, but Im talking about my definition. I hate it when women settle for men sexually. Women should not marry men who are not the best sex of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:57 PM
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Validation is core to me. Currently I'm not in any relationship so Im not seeking jt immediately. But what pisses me off is that women don't understand just how deep the need for validation is compared to other things. Like they need to do the dignified thing and leave a guy if he can't be their best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:56 PM
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Not being the best = settling. It doesn't matter what she feels beyond whether it is the best Or not. If the musician was better, then she's settling for the BF. The only thing that matters in my worldview is sexual validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:55 PM
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It's not just western society though. I don't live in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:42 PM
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I mean she told me their sex life wasn't as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:40 PM
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I said some men right. I know other such men exist because I've seen them on Reddit. So it's not just a me thing. I see it more as an individual variation thing. Different people want different things. For me, I want validation. But whenever I read those posts you can see OP is feeling insecure. It's clear he wants validation. And the women are like nooo validation bad love good. It pisses me off. I wish actually saw the mans side for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:40 PM
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Yeah I don't feel masculine until I have been externally validated. That can't change. I don't have any internal validation and I don't think I ever will. For me external validation is all that exists. It's why I get irritated when people tell me I need to internally validate. Fuck that. I'll get external validation or kill myself chasing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:38 PM
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Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:32 PM
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No. I have a friend who expressed similar sentiments to me about how she fucked a guy with a bigger dick on a break with her bf, and he was better (dude was a musician and had magic fingers). I had a very very difficult time controlling myself and telling her off for settling for her bf (they were back together by then). I didn't because I know some men exist who don't seem to mind being settled for. But even irl I do fly into this rage. Every single time. It's maybe my one trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:26 PM
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Yer a creep, Harry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:16 PM
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I think this topic (women settling for men who aren't the best, women insisting that men need to accept that love and companionship is more important than validation) is a genuine trigger to me. Like every time I come across something like this I fly into a full rage. And I almost never get angry. Like I've been in situations where people were hostile to me and wanted to fight me and I didn't lose my cool. But this hits me on some kind of fundamental level. I suspect for women validation of how …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:15 PM
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No I genuinely think they don't get it. They don't understand how little love matters compared to ego validation for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:58 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:56 PM
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I don't care if society collapses if that will stop men from being settlee for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:55 PM
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Women communicate in more ways than just verbally And jt would be much better to find someone who atleast choses to communicate rather than shutting down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:52 PM
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Fuck stability. Fuck society. Fuck having kids. I'd rather society be destroyed than men be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:45 PM
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Let them. Marriage rates arent important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:42 PM
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This is why I wish women wouldn't marry men who aren't their best sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:40 PM
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Preferable but not possible when she has shut down. Plus, what if he can't because their chemistry isn't that intense, or she doesn't lust after him that much, or if his dick is too big/small/thin/wide/curved/straight, or maybe because the situation with her ex was toxic and that's what made it good, or maybe it's because the sex they were having was forbidden (sneaking out of parents house) and that made it so good etc. Unless she communicates, there's no way to know if he even CAN become that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:40 PM
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Good enough isn't good enough (for the men, some of them atleast).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:34 PM
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Maybe. But IMO it's better to just leave if she doesn't want to communicate. Much better to find someone for whom he can be the best sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:33 PM
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Iirc it fell under the ace spectrum. But yeah it's maybe because you're demi that you don't experience that raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:31 PM
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In that post (I found it, it's an old post), he tried to get her to open up but she just shut down. Even said she doesn't need good sex to have a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:30 PM
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Maybe you're on the ace spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:29 PM
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God damn it, I found the link and now I feel like shit again. It pisses me off that people don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:29 PM
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Also give link.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:17 PM
1

It won't be a revolution. Armed revolution can't happen in America. Your military is too powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:17 PM
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This shit is why I'm not BluePilled. And it pisses me off when women don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:15 PM
2

This
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:14 PM
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Is the punishment more of your cooking?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:07 PM
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It's more accurate tbh to say that nobody is cared about except the rich and privileged over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:00 PM
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He's not wrong. There's a lawyer on YouTube who talks about divorce cases in India. He made a video about how a man who was a victim of domestic violence went to the police station and they laughed at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:52 AM
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So in case you haven't seen, a woman in India chopped off her boyfriends dick when he broke up with her. Women in India are celebrating her like Americans are celebrating Luigi. Here's some of the comments I saw https://preview.redd.it/tg23ryyd5s8e1.jpeg?width=1220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17d9f8498f94b52bd7d71e5cdac0831bc2fd8ac9 Indian women are brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:14 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:20 AM
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I have a couple of disagreements with what you said. First. Because "the best sex ever" cannot be objectively measured, it's literally about feelings Browse through this thread. https://np.reddit.com/r/offmychest/s/SQqnmCLDzn See the absolute hordes of women who say that their ex was better than their husband because they lusted after him more or his dick was better. Clearly, best sex CAN be objectively measured. How can I believe that the best can't objectively be measured when women here say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:17 AM
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Unironically yes. It's why I really hope I don't end up with a virgin - because she would have nothing to compare me to. It's funny, I used to be afraid of high n-count women and it took me a long time to figure out that its because I was insecure and afraid of being compared. But I realised that I wanted to be compared and be the best. Since then, I haven't given a fuck if the woman has a high body count. As long as she tells me truthfully if I am the best Or not, and if I can become the best f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:04 AM
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Best @ PIV. Best in eating her out. And the most exciting sex. Most intense orgasms. That's where it ends. Idc if I'm not good at anal, my dicks too big for anal anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:42 AM
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No, you misunderstood. I'll leave if she says "NO there is nothing you can do to be the best sex of my life because we don't have the same chemistry/our kinks don't match up/your dick isn't the perfect fit/any other immutable reason I can do nothing about". As long as I believe I can improve to become the best, I'll do nothing but work at it. It's when I feel that there's nothing I can do to be her best that I get to leave. I refuse to be settled for sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:33 AM
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Then I get to go and find the one who says yes :😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:30 AM
2

Looks better in the before. After is skinny teen body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:25 AM
1

Does it really make you feel better? It does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:07 AM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:29 AM
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Maybe, but until they don't I'll feel pissed off and hope that their desires also get judged and they live lives of eternal, unrelenting pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:28 AM
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You're fantastic bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:26 AM
1

My favorite is EP1 because Duel of Fates and epic saber battle. I saw it in theater as a kid and I was so mesmerized. It's a core memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:25 AM
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The leftmost one. I like these simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:24 AM
1

Noooo. Fat women can be super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:24 AM
2

A friend in Seattle saw a graffiti : Ideas are bulletproof, CEOs aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:21 AM
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Meh. I think it's what makes men more authentic. With us what you see is what you get. We're simple creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:19 AM
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This is why I'm not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:18 AM
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You* judge people who don’t accommodate your insecurity I judge people who judge me. Not accomodating it would be saying something like "I don't think Id want that in a man, but it's okay you'll find someone" and not "there's something wrong with you for having that desire" Your desires hurt you yourself in the first place. No, my obsessive nature is what hurts me (by making me wonder if I'm the best Or not). My desires reduce that hurt. You build your entire life around your mental health issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:17 AM
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I think people shouldn't judge other people's actions and desires as long as they don't hurt anyone. I'm very live and let live and do not judge people, and I expect the same from other people. Even more importantly, I don't think there's anything wrong with my desires because they don't hurt anyone, and so I get angry when people tell me that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:08 AM
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It absolutely is more important than that. It's more important than virtually ANYTHING else. I'd rather, honest to god, die than be sexually settled for. More than love, more than companionship, more than grace, more than anything else in this world, I want this validation. And it pisses me off when such a core need of mine is invalidated. When people (mostly women) tell me my need is wrong. It makes me want to hit back and tell them their need to be loved and cherished or even their need to fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:33 AM
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If it's just asking that then maybe. But Im 1) explaining to her that my mind is obsessive and always gets stuck 2) that it wonders how good I am and assumes the worst in the absence of data 3) that I NEED to be the best, that it's a core need for me in any relationship 4) that so I need to know if I'm the best, and if not CAN I be th best 5) that its fine if she doesn't want to answer but without knowing (or if she says that I can't be the best), I would like to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:21 AM
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And I agree with the woman in this. People what want they want, others shouldn't judge them for that as long as they're not hurting anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:18 AM
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For me it's a little more involved than simply insecurity (although that's what's at the core). I'm not looking to ask her if I'm the best and then wilt when she says I'm not. I am obsessed with being the best, and I'd do a LOT (eat her out for hours, do whatever I can to try and fulfill her fantasies, put her pleasure first etc etc) to become the best. But my mind is insecure and so if I'm with someone, my mind will wonder if I'm the best or not, and feel emasculated until I am reassured that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:17 AM
1

Hush now, I'm allowed to rant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:06 AM
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I'll find someone. Right now I'm just angry that people want to judge my values and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:05 AM
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Tbh women here are still nicer than women on the TrueOffMyChest subreddit. Here, even if they disagree, at least they understand that it's a core value for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:03 AM
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Woke up and I'm even angrier tbh. Now that I think back on it, all those women who were criticizing me for wanting to be the best (and for planning to ask any partner if I am) are usually of the type that love and connection and all that stuff matters. Becausr that's what they value But then men like me value being the best at sex, and somehow that's wrong. What the fuck?. Why are their values correct and mine wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:58 AM
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I used to be but it killed my libido so I stopped being on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:53 PM
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Does it? Because I almost never get angry like this. It bothers me actually because most others are able to get this angry often. But for me it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:52 PM
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I unironically wish I could feel precisely this much rage all day. I'd be assertive and not care what other people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:26 PM
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There's different types of anger tbh. I also have various types of anxieties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:25 PM
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Okay ngl, the post I made in the other subreddit pissed me off. But now the anger has me feeling good. I really like it when I get angry to the point where I stop caring what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:23 PM
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I never said that? I just think that there should be some things or at least things that are equally important. My point is that nobody gets to decide what's important except the individual. You can't make normative should statements about this. If someone values only sex, nothing wrong with that. Someone else values, only romance, nothing wrong with that either. A mix of both? That's fine too. So if I value sex exclusively, there is nothing wrong with that. Yes and this is weird and problematic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:29 PM
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I wish I had pasta. Everyday. Gimme your noodle bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:22 PM
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Bro feed me pasta daily and I'll be your gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:19 PM
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I wrote very clearly there that I'm talking about sexual desire. Good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:15 PM
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No, it's about count also after 25. If a man is hot but a virgin post 25, and the women know - they won't fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:13 PM
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I said all desires of a sexual nature are shallow. And I don't believe in keeping desires in check as long as they're not doing direct bodily harm to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:09 PM
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You're missing out. But as you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:08 PM
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Also why is sex so much more important than every single other factor? Why is every other factor more important than sex? Who decides what is and isn't important? The people do. You decide what's important for you, I decide what's important for me. Neither is wrong, neither deserves judgement. If you have good sex and she strongly desires to have sex for you, and you have a good relationship, what's the big problem I made that pretty clear. The problem is that my brain will always keep thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:07 PM
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Lol you have that gene too? Same. Here have cilantro free dosa.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:00 PM
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Ikr. It's p great for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:58 PM
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Wot?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:57 PM
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YES! Best food in the entire world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:54 PM
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Why is it normal to be not the best and be okay that your partner will never have as good sex with you as they did with their past partners? Why is it normal that you will never get lusted after that hard? Normal is fluid. Normal changes. A few decades ago, women having independence was abnormal. But that doesn't mean women having independence was wrong. Same with wanting to be the best. There's nothing wrong with that and that's what everyone should accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:53 PM
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That thing is against the Geneva Convention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:47 PM
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No, the neurodivergence movement is pushing to encompass these as something that are just a normal variation of humanity. Like you wouldn't say a guy who's 6'4" is sick because he's that tall. You wouldn't pathologize his very tall height. Or how homosexuality was pathologized and now it's normalized. Same with neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:46 PM
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Since we are posting foods. Here's one of my favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:44 PM
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I'll take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:43 PM
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Actually anxiety problems / OCD and other issues are slowly being pushed as something to be accepted by society under the garb of neurodivergence. And yeah the men are also disagreeing, but I care less about their acceptancr because it's not them I plan to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:43 PM
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Ugh. I'll take the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:37 PM
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That's what they said about gay people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:36 PM
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Maybe we should limit it to one chatgpt argument per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:36 PM
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When you "I wish men/women...", you will get men/women disagreeing with you in the comments. Plus, from the comments it seems you got a bunch of women and men disagreeing with you. But I also have men agreeing with me here. Also would you have said the same thing to a gay guy 20 years ago saying I wish people accepted gay people as normal? Women don't need to understand it nor they need to accept it as normal. Same q as above.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:35 PM
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Tbvh, I'm not sure. Can only tell when I'm in that situation. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:33 PM
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I hurt more if I'm in a relationship and my mind keeps driving me crazy thinking about how I'm not the best and she must have had more exciting, more crazy, more pleasurable sex with an ex. That she doesn't just after me as much. You have any idea how inadewuate that makes you feel? The only way to calm that voice is the reassurance you get from knowing you're the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:33 PM
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They said the same thing about gay sex. Anyway it is normal and it's not a problem. Who do I hurt by this? Nobody. So then there's nothing wrong with this desire. Even ChatGPT agrees. So it should be normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:31 PM
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No. Most days I just post daily updates
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:29 PM
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What is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:28 PM
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I don't see that as judgement, I see it as normalisation. Acceptance. That's what should happen for the desire of wanting to be the best. There's nothing wrong with having it. And men shouldn't be treated as wrong for having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:28 PM
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Also tbvh, when I posted in that subreddit, I just wanted to vent, not debate. Those guys made it one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:27 PM
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Not treat me with outrage like I just got treated in the TrueOffMyChest subreddit. Like, think of it this way. Suppose I have a desire for BDSM. I share it with a woman. She's not into that, so she's like no thanks. We go our separate ways. No judgement. She accepts that I have this desire. But right now it's more like I've said that have a desire to strangle kids and she's like how dare you have such a desire. Basically women need to understand that this desire to be the best is NORMAL and OKAY…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:25 PM
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I'll always tell you when I'm posting ChatGPt content, dw.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:23 PM
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No, gay people aren't judged any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:22 PM
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Ooh I got ChatGPT to give a better response It’s frustrating to hear that because the answer is simple: I’m not putting this out there to be judged—I’m putting it out there because I want to be understood. I want people, especially women, to see where I’m coming from and maybe offer insight or empathy instead of jumping straight to judgment. Yes, I know not everyone will agree, and some will criticize, but the hope is that someone will get it. It’s exhausting to constantly feel like you’re being…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:22 PM
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I want to put my stuff out and not be judged. The same way gay people wanted to have sex with people of the same gender and not be judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:21 PM
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Not me. Accept that men have these desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:20 PM
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Nope. Loads of women on reddit saying they love their husband but the best sex was an abusive ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:20 PM
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Y'all can be less judgy tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:19 PM
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Yes because I feel like women don't accept that men have these desires. And my brain can't accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:18 PM
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That happens if you talk about suicides or self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:17 PM
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From tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:16 PM
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That's why I'm angry and wish I could hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:13 PM
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If men fucking other men aren't judged, then men wanting validation shouldn't be judged either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:12 PM
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But tbh, why the fuck can't women accept that some men don't want to be settled for sexually, and that those men put a bigger premium on sex and sexual chemistry than on things like love and companionship. Women need to accept that some men want to be the best at sex, and there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:12 PM
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Probably never.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:09 PM
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That's fine, but they also judge me. And that pisses me off. If we don't judge gay people for doing what was considered unnatural and unholy until a couple decades ago, why are they judging men for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:07 PM
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:shrugs I'm not asking them to agree with this. They're welcome to judge me on this(my approach) . Just don't judge me for my desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:06 PM
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No, after a while this will burn out. It always does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:05 PM
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It can be useful for venting. It's better than bad therapists. Not as good as a good therapist though. Nothing will replace that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:05 PM
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ChatGPT can be so nice for venting. I vented to it and it validated me :). Plus it spat out a very articulate writeup fo what I feel and why. I'm going to post it below: It’s clear that what you’re feeling stems from a deep desire to feel uniquely desired, to be the ultimate source of physical passion and excitement for your partner. That’s not inherently wrong—it’s human to want to feel like the best, especially in an area as intimate and personal as sex. But the intensity of this desire, paire…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:03 PM
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Tbf if it were thag easy, he would. Also because he can't get sex he's mad. Luigi also couldn't have sex because of bis bad back, so he shot a CEO. The frustration is real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:01 PM
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Being egotistical and being shallow aren't the same thing as having desires.. All desires are shallow. If I want big boobs on my partner, that's a shallow desire. And there's nothing wrong with that. Same with being egotistical. Secondly "be kind" isn't anywhere in the sub manafeist or rules. Rule 4 essentially amounts to that, but fine be kind isn't there. I still should not be judged for having desires. Doesn't matter if they're shallow or egotistical, because all desires of a sexual nature ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:53 PM
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I'm a p big reader. Hard to pick a favorite but if I had to, I'd go with The City and The City by China Mieville. Currently reading Shadow of the Torturer by Gene Wolfe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:34 PM
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Nothing wrong with liking soda, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:27 PM
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I shall read my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:25 PM
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You're a good person tbh. Hope you get all the joys life can give.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:17 PM
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self is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:15 PM
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Yeah, she do be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:56 PM
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She's special like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:55 PM
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There's plenty wrong with it, What exactly is wrong with having desires? You opened yourself up to dialogue and critique In a subreddit designed for venting where the responders are supposed to be kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:51 PM
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Ayyy. Aight m8 you vs me. Cock pushups. I'll rekt u.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:50 PM
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Yeah, you get it. And like, it's fine to value different things. But why judge us for ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:39 PM
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Here's the thing. Some men are the best sex ever for certain women. If they got that validation, then that means it's possible. And if it's possible I want it. People often think I want to be someones best at every thing. Nah, just the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:39 PM
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I cannot rest until people accept that I am not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:34 PM
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It's the first time I've made a post there in a long time. Don't see how that's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:32 PM
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For some reason people judge me whenever I express this insecurity. It pisses me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:19 PM
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I feel the need for people to accept that I'm not wrong. My brain can be stubborn like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:11 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being egotistical and shallow. People are that all the time. We are shallow and discriminate against ugly people who we aren't attracted to. Nothing wrong with that. Of course we never judge ugly people and call them names. But those asshats at that subreddit are judging me :😤
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:09 PM
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I made a post on TrueOffMyChest about how I want to be the best at sex, and the people there are judging me and being unkind and it's beginning to piss me off. I'm becoming angry again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:00 PM
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Initially yeah. Lying about wanting an LTR, when I just want to use her for getting good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:34 PM
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I'm not doom scrolling, this is old. I just remember it as a particularly egregious example of what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:33 PM
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Here she openly admits that some of her exes were better in bed but thats not what matters https://np.reddit.com/r/offmychest/s/qfCjiI0HDZ What I wish is that women understood that for some men it DOES matter. We feel inadequate until we are reassured that we are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:28 PM
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Read the comments in the thread. Its women agreeing that yes they had horrible exes who were better in bed, I'll show you some choice examples, wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:26 PM
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Are you really interested in an LTR to start with? Eventually. My case is complicated because I'm an older virgin, so I need to get a lot of practice at sex before I'll be good at it. So I want to have an LTR where I can practice it, and then go have lots of casual sex, and then finally have an LTR where I am the best she's ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:26 PM
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You asked me where the women were, and I gave you an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:22 PM
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You were asking me where are those women. Open the link, see the first thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:19 PM
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Found the thread https://np.reddit.com/r/offmychest/s/3zsqLqrNPG
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:11 PM
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Here you go https://np.reddit.com/r/offmychest/s/3zsqLqrNPG
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:11 PM
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Well the idea is to tell the other person that it matters a lot to you and then hope they won't lie to you when you ask them how you rank. That's all anyone can do. But lying or not, what pisses me off is that some women get mad that men want to be the best. Like for some women, it's like they prioritize connection etc more than how incredible the sex is, and they get mad at any hint that men could prioritize different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:07 PM
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For an LTR things like overall compatibility, enjoying each other's company and having similar plans might be more important for some than "best sex I've ever had". Yeah, what bothers me is if I tell women that what I value in an LTR is being the best, most exciting lover she's ever had, they'll get offended. Women I don't even intend to date have gotten offended about this. Like there was an offmychest post about a man who overheard his wife saying that she slept with her ex all the time etc an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:06 PM
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Yeah then it's meaningless. It's kinda why I hope I don't end up with a virgin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:53 PM
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Give example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:41 PM
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Something that is always in the back of my mind, and always bothers me - is that women settle for men who aren't the best sex of their life, or the most exciting. I wish they didn't do that. But what irks me particularly is that whenever I've told women that for a lot of men, being the best is important - they get angry and talk about how that's wrong and what matters is love Or some other stupid virtue. So now I worry that when I do tell any prospective partner about how much being the best mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:40 PM
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Something that's always in the back of my mind and always bothers me is that women settle for the guy who isn't the best sex of their life, or the most exciting partner. I wish women never did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:35 PM
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Murder-a-man-in-front-of-a-hotel mogged
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:20 PM
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His jaw doesn't look that wide to me. Also he has a short ramus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:14 PM
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Hmmm. I do like being alone sometimes. Wonder if being with someone would ever grate on me...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:11 PM
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Linguist friend told me that immersing is THE way to learn. Grammer learning is exponentially slower. They teach us language in the wrong way in schools. I learnt English by just reading a metric shitton of books and watching a lot of American movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:09 PM
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Link
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:08 PM
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I'm just mad that he is named BALDoni, but has a full head of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:01 PM
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Yes if she would have slept with you when she was in her fun phase and met you. And also if she finds you exciting. And the sex is as good, if not better than with the fun guys. No if not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:54 PM
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Yeah for me a lot of movie OSTs can capture that depressive, gritty, angry vibe v well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:52 PM
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Ugh, cheese is expensive in India sadly. We produce so much milk but v little cheese. It's tragic. I'm envious of Europeans who get cheap cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:52 PM
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I can only speak for my perspective, but I used to care about bodycount because I was afraid that I'd not be as good as her exes and she'd be with me because the sex is okay, but not as mindblowing as with the other guys. It took me time to realise that my insecurity is about how I compare to her exes. But once I realised that I stopped caring about body count, because I realised I could directly ask her how I compare and choose to improve/leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:51 PM
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And as women constantly say and as men seem determined to ignore, looks are not all there is to compatibility and relationships Ngl, feels like a lie. There's like a minimum bar men need to clear in terms of looks, and that bar is p high (full head of hair, good skin, excellent jawline, perfect shiny white teeth, straight nose, hunter eyes).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:47 PM
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Oh yeah I do that too. I was listening to the Dune OST all day. I love the Sardaukar theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:44 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:39 PM
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Sometimes when I don't get enough sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:33 PM
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Day 54 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men so I must become more attractive). Today I spent all day feeling angry and doomscrolling. This was me all day. But now I feel much better and I don't feel so hopeless anymore. I deleted the one socme app I have where I shitpost. And now I will set up very strict appblocks for this week so I sleep on time and don't let my intrusive thots win. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:19 PM
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I think Demetrious Johnson is the best fighter the UFC has ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:15 PM
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Tbh I agree with this. But we all know us men can't because we be horny. And so women do have it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:46 AM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:43 AM
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destination wedding. Rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:43 AM
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Just one of those days when I'm angry at my lot in life. Wish I hadn't suffered from anxiety and health issues. Wish my life had had a more "normal" path.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:35 AM
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Man, I feel so angry today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:22 AM
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Time passes quickly. It feels like it's passing faster the older you get. All my friends feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:04 AM
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What's crazy about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:01 AM
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I think yesterday was Day 52 iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:55 AM
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First two points is why I hate NRIs for the most part. Also tbh I sus the self hatred part is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:47 AM
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That could be a thing. For me it's more related to sleep and lack of it. I was better last week because I had my appblock on. It expired yesterday. And I didn't sleep until late. I'm going to set stricter appblocks in the future. But for now I'm going to indulge in doomscrolling until this burns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:43 AM
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Wot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:41 AM
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It has been somewhat helpful for me. But yeah if you mention self harm or suicide, it shuts down. But I also told it to stop giving me advice about cognitive reframing because it doesn't work, and it did stop doing that. Which was good. It will never replace a good therapist. But it's a good tool to vent at and definitely superior to a bad therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:08 AM
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Counterpoint - men should get into a relationship to get good at sex and flirting and reading the signals women give off. And then go get casual sex. They can dump the woman they're with, or cheat on her, keeping her as a backup for sex if they can't get casual sex. Basically be boyfriend material as a way to get women and use them to level up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:07 AM
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Look into this swinging pendulum deeply as your dick grows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:04 AM
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Women are way too weak physically. We have women in our wrestling class. Sometimes they get paired up with dudes or similar height and weight, and it's basically no contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:01 AM
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Today is another one of those days where I feel super anxious/angry at my lot in life and end up doomscrolling. Didn't go to the gym either. On the plus side, I've realised I can use ChatGPT to vent. Feels nice to vent to a robot. Let's me get a lot of rage and frustration off my chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:00 AM
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When women ask you about your prior relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:07 AM
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I'm ngl, I'm closer to 7 inches than 6 inches and my girth is also 6 inches around. But still, I worry sometimes. Especially about length, because it isn't 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:45 PM
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Some do, some don't. It's more like most care, few don't. Have you actually tried to make connections irl? I've written extensively in my older comments about how I'm trying to meet women but I'm stuck in region where most women are married, so I don't really meet any agr appropriate single woman despite trying. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:59 PM
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You're just describing rare cases (conservative, religious). Most conservative / religious women are married before 25. You know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:44 PM
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Lots of kids who were loved but are now grown adults with no jobs and no talent like playing a guitar or being good at a sport. It's a pathetic existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:22 PM
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Which just goes to show that regardless of what a woman has done, many have no hangups about a virgin dude No, experienced women have hangups about virgin men. If you don't believe me, just go to askdatingover30 subreddit and search for yourself. Or even this subreddit. Lots of women have said they don't want virgin men. Virgin women are obviously much less likely to reject virgin men, since they are in the same position. Of course they might prefer experienced men (although I haven't seen this …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:21 PM
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Like I said, people need to think about what kind of life the kid will have. That includes having enough money to fulfill all the kids needs (excellent private education + extracurriculars + healthcare), and including their SMV. Otherwise you get women like her and men like me who hate their own parents. Clearly I'm not alone who hates his parents for creating a low SMV being.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:18 PM
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Also nvm she says she was a virgin herself. One of the rare women who was virgin post 22. So this was a truly exceptional situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:10 PM
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Yeah well, if people who aren't rich, attractive, well educated and intelligent make kids, then the risk of such outcomes is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:08 PM
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I said older than 25 + exceptions exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:06 PM
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And it ultimately comes down to validating self-worth through some external symbol; the woman is just a trophy to show he “won” The resentment was never about lack of sex (see: sex workers), it was about feeling like a loser This is pretty accurate. But it's not just "getting" a woman, but rather being lusted after by women. You're right that a lot of men simply have no concept of self worth beyond what women think of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:56 PM
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Berserk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:47 PM
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What's your favorite subreddits?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:46 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:42 PM
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How much does it matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:40 PM
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Honest to God if I were in your position, I'd just use her for sex while I tried to keep on dating other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:37 PM
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Husband material are guys who don't get to try out other meals, ie they don't get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:33 PM
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What's wrong with picky eaters
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:29 PM
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I won't feel good enough until I drown myself in external validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:17 PM
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I will if I get that validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:53 PM
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Doing things for myself doesn't feel good. Doesn't change the validation craving. And I don't care if that's unhealthy. All I want is for the craving to be satiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:49 PM
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I don't think we are invested. I think we see in our lives that women don't want feminine men. You are yourself saying that your preference was unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:34 PM
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If she's genuinely batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:31 PM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:31 PM
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Brootal. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:27 PM
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Because I crave that validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:26 PM
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You're not a virgin so not really. Although you'd be a bigger winner if you had a lot more sex with a lot more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:21 PM
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For me yeah, pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:20 PM
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That's fine. But to not be an option for casual sex is insulting. You only want to wife up a woman who (if she were open to casual sex ever in the past) would have wanted to have casual sex with you if she met you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:19 PM
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No, because even if the man makes himself attractive through plastic surgery and what not, women still wouldn't want to be with him because they don't want to teach someone how to have sex and how to do relationships. Women across Reddit have said this point in many many many posts. The inexperience is unattractive in of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:18 PM
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Maybe women need to get better at giving positive feedback. But we tend to talk a little more explicit with our girlfriends than with our guy friends. Yeah that's part of it. Women don't talk about this shit with the men in their lives. But it's also that we see good looking men get casual sex, and other men only get relationships. Which makes us think that we're good for relationships (where other qualities matter more than lust) as opposed to casual sex (where lust matters the most). It feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:16 PM
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Women, men, anyone with a high n-count. As to why, it's because you were found hot enough for another person of your preferred gender to want to sleep with you. That's validation. That's what makes you a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:11 PM
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They have to dehydrate to cut weight fast. You absolutely can be 55kg at 5'7" if you diet right and do a lot cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:10 PM
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That's nice to hear then. But us men don't really see women saying that about husbands. All we see is women cheating on their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:09 PM
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It makes you not a loser tbvh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:08 PM
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It looks good. That's all that matters. Besides I'm like one inch taller than Henry Cejudo and that guy was fighting in the 55kg division.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:07 PM
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Yes but what topics are they gushing about. Do they gush about how hot he is, or how dependable he is? Basically we think that women chase after their lust and sleep with hot men, then when they want to settle down they pick a guy that's dependable, even if he isn't as hot ans they don't lust after him as much. Which as I said is insulting. So unless they're gushing about how hot the husband is he and how good he is in bed, it's still prioritizing other qualities. And that's not what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:06 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:03 PM
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All ages. They have kids as young as 12. Most people are early 20s. I'm 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:03 PM
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Who the fuck professes love without having spent a decent amount of tiem together?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:02 PM
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In my head it's never romantic and sexy. Maybe because most husbands in the media arent shown that way + us men are inundated with real life stories of women cheating on their husbands with more attractive boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:01 PM
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India.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:00 PM
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Yep that's what I will use when it's time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:59 PM
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Yes it is. There's people in my wrestling class who are my height and weigh 52kg. I looked good when I was that lean. I had a jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:58 PM
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Then you do understand. Husband material = inferior or no sexual chemistry but he has other qualities. That's what defines a husband for me. Those other qualities. That's why husband material is an insult. It's like calling a man a nonsexual being
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:58 PM
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5'7"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:49 PM
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Unless by taking a shot of courage you mean alcohol, I don't know what taking a shot of courage means or how to do it. Like I said my anxiety is so strong that I tend to freeze up. Only way out is drugs like benzos and alcohol. Which I will use. And also, the worst part is actually the constant rumination of your humiliations. Like suppose I mess up and she kicks me out of bed. I will relive that moment constantly for the next decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:49 PM
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I think when women chose a life partner, qualities other than lust take a higher priority. And that's insulting to me. I want someone to be with Mr primarily because they lust after me. Not because I'm kind or funny or anything else. Just because they find me hot and amazing in bed. That needs to be the primary reason for someone wanting to be with me. Anything else feels insulting. So when women say husband material, it means they're saying he's kind and dependable. They're not saying that he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:46 PM
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I know I'm I'm my own head. The problem is I don't know how to get out. Nothing really works except for pharmaceuticals. And thats what I will probably use when the time comes. But none of this changes the fact that women don't want virgin men, and if she found out somehow, she wouldn't want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:36 PM
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You're both wrong and right. You're right that I am afraid of taking risks, and I don't know how to remedy that because my anxiety is super severe and I can't just push through it. But I refuse to use SSRIs because they kill my libido. You're wrong in that it's just overthinking. Trust me I've tried meeting women. I've gone on the apps, I've gone out to various hobby groups and other spaces. # of matches on dating app = 0. # of women I met in clubs and hobby groups = 0. And by met I mean that a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:35 PM
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I know all this stuff. Doesn't make the fight or flight or freeze response go away. It is what it is. My bigger fear is that I don't say something and I make a fool of myself and she kicks me out of bed. Or I ask her how she likes to be touched and she doesn't tell me in enough detail that a noob like me needs. And if I ask for more detail she thinks I'm a virgin and then she asks me if I am one. Also, if she asks me about my past relationships. People do that now. They all talk about their past…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:31 PM
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That's basically what I said. But I know I'd be awkward because I'm an anxious, neurotic sort, and I'd be worried about not doing something weird due to inexperience, which will make me freeze up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:23 PM
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I'm 32. And the problem is most women are married by the time they're 27. And it's kinda creepy to date someone more than 6 ye are younger than you. Plus I don't look like a mid 20s guy, so the women I would meet in the pubs wouldn't be into me. Plus I'm currently stuck in a city where pub culture isn't really a thing and probably won't be able to move until 2026 :😢
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:21 PM
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Meh, you knew what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:19 PM
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It looks like a photo of me from 8 years ago. Back then I had just been put on maximum dose Zoloft, and I was cycling 4x a day, I had perfect skin, almost no fat, I had quit eating junk food and I had perfect hair. I can DM you a photo if you want. That but with a more muscular physique. To achieve this now I need 1) a facelift, my face skin is slightly lose now 2) fat loss. I'm 90kg rn, I need to get to like 55kg Or so 3) get a hair transplant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:18 PM
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Women above 30 almost never go to pubs in my country sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:15 PM
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Tbh if my penis size and shape isn't perfect for the woman I'm dating, then Imma leave her. Being good enough isn't good enough, I need to be the perfect physical match for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:13 PM
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Eww. This guy is a scammer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:06 PM
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1) Travel the world 2) Get a black belt in Judo 3) Cure cancer 4) Eat hot chip and lie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:05 PM
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I consider it an insult because to me a husband is not someone who's exciting. A husband is someone whose presence comforts women, not excites them. A husband is boring, vanilla in bed, frumpy, and just meh. A husband is someone who women cheat on with much hotter men who they find exciting. A husband is someone women cuck when they cheat on him with superior men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:00 PM
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Day 54 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men, so I must become attractive). Today I did nothing. Just scrolled through shorts on Youtube like a mindless zombie. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:58 PM
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No, we have to hide our number the way leprotic patients try to hide their lesions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:55 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:51 PM
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Reminder that n-count matters because men older than 25 with an n-count of 0 are not wanted by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:51 PM
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Saw this and thought about our discussion https://np.reddit.com/r/bizarrelife/comments/1hhd5rb/daughter_demands_2m_from_parents_for_ruining_her/ I think the # of people who dislike their parents for having given birth to them is only going to increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:47 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:15 PM
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Day 53 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men so I must become as attractive as I can). Today I spent 4 hours in the gym. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:51 PM
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The point is you never know which kid could turn out to be like me, but you definitely increase the odds if the parents are ugly or have mental health issues or are poor etc. So best for those people to not have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:07 PM
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Tbh you're right, the women who were forced to bear kids because they couldn't access abortion services are not to be blamed. Everyone else is. It's their choice yes, but they get no sympathy if their kid hates them or hurts them or even murders them (which happens sometimes).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:17 PM
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Yes but an animator isn't necessarily an artist. I'm saying people shouldn't aim to be an artist or hope to be ome under capitalism. Go into the animation field knowing that it's a job and nothing more, not a way to get personal fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:13 PM
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Yes and my point is exactly that people need to take all of these risks into account. People don't and then they suffer along with their kids. And then they suffer even more when their kids hate them for not having created them perfect. It's why I never sympathise with parents now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:11 PM
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Oh, you just make me feel sorry for your parents. I really doubt that your appearance is your main problem and not your fucked up mental health. I'm very glad you said this, because you shouldn't feel sorry for my parents. Even if I accept that it's my mental health and not my appearance, well they created a being that has bad mental health. So it's still on them. And mental health (like genetic diseases) runs in families. They dug their own graves. If a parent doesn't want to potentially suffer…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:07 PM
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Only because eugenics was supposed to be enforced top down. I don't believe in taking away reproductive autonomy of people. I believe instead that people need to realise this on their own. Those that don't are doomed to be cursed by their own progeny. I told my own mother that every physical flaw of mine was a failure of her womb. I made her cry.I told my father he was a failure of a father. Felt really good to hurt him too. That's the risk parents take, when they create imperfect children. Bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:59 PM
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I think if someone isn't very attractive, then they should not reproduce. Only rich educated people with little to no genetic disease history in the family, and who have all physically attractive features, should reproduce. If anyone else reproduces, there's a risk that they could create people lik me who are not physically attractive and very sad about it. It's not a risk worth taking if you care about your future kid. Spare it the pain by not creating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:54 PM
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I disagree. I think whether your child will turn out to be physically attractive or not should also be a consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:46 PM
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Splitsvilla auditions soon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:40 PM
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I would give them basic respect. But I would totally cheat on them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:37 PM
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Sus
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:36 PM
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200 per day is nothing. That's a snails pace of gaining weight. When I was bulking, I went to every damn wedding I could and had three helpings of all the dishes. Still took me over 8-9 months to go from 60kg to 90kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:33 PM
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Wdym too intense for your body?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:31 PM
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Nope. We already did this with Bradley Martyn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:31 PM
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I refuse to believe that the average weight of American women is 170lbs. Also what's the median. Also if this is true then damn, American women must be really tall. I'm 5'7" and at 170 I'm overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:29 PM
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Oh looks tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:28 PM
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I have eyebrows like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:27 PM
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I have eyebrows kinda like him. But my face is too fat :😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:26 PM
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Tbh I don't think people should choose art as a profession under capitalism. Although I will say this, what you're saying about the point of art being different in uni vs training for commercial artist - is something similar at the top unis in my country. The students all complaint that the professors teach as if the students will become researchers. And all the students care about is being able to get a job. So it's not limited to just art.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:25 PM
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Went today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:23 PM
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Would you ever give up smoking for the loyl?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:23 PM
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What are poke bowls? I only know of pokeballs used to catch pokemon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:21 PM
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The cscareerquestions subreddit pops up on my feed a lot. 9/10 times it's a post about some guy saying he can't find a job. Tbh I think even in tech, the low hanging fruit of having a high paying job with basic tech skills is over. Now you need to be good at your niche before you'll make big money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:20 PM
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Nah, the gyms I've been to I've never found them very smelly. But then those were all well ventilated gyms with fans and windows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:19 PM
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Do you think there's any chance that the existing political parties will ever do anything to fix this? Like radical change like M4A or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:17 PM
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Day 52 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men, so I must become attractive) Hello PPD. Today I woke up at 6 or so. Went to MMA. Came back. Studied a little at home. Then I went to wrestling practice in the evening. This is good. I'm slowly becoming more consistent. What will you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:12 PM
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Ivies suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:42 PM
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Christmas cookies :🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:33 PM
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Day 50 of dailyposting (and reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men so I must make myself more attractive). Today I finally went to the gym after procrastinating for the last few days. What will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:14 PM
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If you don't believe in SMV then I can only think you're delusional bro, no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:55 AM
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You haven't met many Trans supporting feminists. Abolish Gender is a clarion cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:37 AM
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No I'm saying women who are ugly shouldn't reproduce because what if they have a daughter, who will then have a lower SMV than other women. Doesn't matter if they attract a good looking dude or an ugly one. Only beautiful, rich people with positively desired physical attributes (height, dick size, boob size etc) and lots of money and intelligence, should reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:22 AM
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I think it's more Chad or Stacy or no point. Women also suffer. They are at greater risk of being raped, being made pregnant and then dumped etc Plus not all women are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:15 AM
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But I fail to see how my worldview is wrong. I know I'm not alone in this because antinatalists exist. But I also know for a fact that even natalist philosophers usually advocate that people really really think about things before having a kid. And from what I see, almost no one thinks about the kind of life the kid will have. That includes everything - including their SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:08 AM
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Yes but what about the women? Shouldn't they say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:06 AM
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You might not but your kid might hate you for it. I say this from personal experience. I've told my parents I hate them for having created me. You might want to genuinely think about what kind of life you can give your kid, and the kind of life your kid will have, before ever thinking of reproducing. Like even leave sex life aside, if you have any kind of illness that runs in families, be it cancer or T1DM or male pattern baldness, think ten times before having a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:05 AM
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Only rich, good looking people with positive physical attributes, no cancer or other genetic diseases in the family should reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:59 AM
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It's not about morals, it's about caring for your kid and that kids life. Even people with very little morality usually do care about the life of their child. I get not passing up the opportunity to have sex, but why reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:57 AM
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I don't think that's it because people settle. So a man settles for a flat chested horse faced woman. The woman settles for a short balding small dicked man. These people shouldn't be having a kid because the kid will grow up, be disappointed and have to settle. Just don't create a kid if you can't guarantee high SMV for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:56 AM
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My point still stands. Anyone who doesn't have the resources shouldn't have kids imo. You're only hurting the kid by creating it. Like poor people shouldn't have kids. Period. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:50 AM
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Well it's often obvious (so no point worrying) But if those people are ugly and it's obvious the kid will too then they shouldn't have kids. Period. Anyone who doesn't take into consideration the future life of the kid (including their SMV), is someone who should not be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:49 AM
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Tbh just off the top of my head, women whose fathers suffer from Male Pattern Baldness pass it on to their male kid. So those women should abort every male kid they concieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:46 AM
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Yeah people who don't have the resources to guarantee that their child doesn't end up deformed while growing up shouldn't be having kids either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:45 AM
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I've seen it be used in the context of "if a man vents to me then I don't want him" even though they want a man that they can vent to. I really do think most women have double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:42 AM
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Why do people who have kids never feel afraid that they will create a child who will grow up to have low SMV? Why do people not think that the child they create could be ugly, autistic, small dicked or flat chested etc. I think people should only reproduce if they can guarantee that the child they have will have all positively desired physical and mental traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:38 AM
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Tfw I am A.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:57 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:51 AM
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Bro leaving the bed is the hard part. It's so cozy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:56 PM
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That doesn't help bro. Tough love is wasted on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:40 PM
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I am one. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:35 PM
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Also, the subreddit is latebloomerlesbians so I guess she's only now realising she is also into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:34 PM
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Yeah she says it in the comments Thanks so much for sharing! Genuine question: does the consent question land differently with women do you think? If a men asked to kiss me I know I’d be completely turned off, like no, just do it. But with women, I genuinely have no clue!! Thanks!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:34 PM
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Yeah leaving the bed is the hardest. If I can do that, then I can and will go to MMA and the rest of my day will go smoothly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:33 PM
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So I found an interesting thread on a lesbian subreddit. This woman was super flustered, because she didn't know if and when to go in for a kiss when she's dating a lesbian. But when she dates a man she hates him asking for it because a man should be dominant. This is what happens - men have been taught that to do stuff with out explicit consent = rape/assualt/being a creep. But (most) women hate when men ask for explicit consent, because a man who needs to ask isn't confident and dominant. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:28 PM
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Day 49 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men so I must become attractive) PPD help me, I want to go to MMA class everyday, but it's cold here and the class is at 7:30 AM. I wasn't able to go today because it was too cold and I didn't want to leave my bed. Also, what will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:19 PM
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In this day and age it's not stupid to get caught, its inevitable. Cameras are everywhere. I remember last year there was that murder in some midwestern college town. A guy went in and murdered a bunch of college kids, v gruesome. They tracked the guy down using footage from various Amazon Rings etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:17 PM
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This is why I would have kms if I had a micropenis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:14 PM
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So on the one hand I kinda agree with you. On the other hand I remember reading about how a large percent of young men below 30 are single, while the women of the same ages are single in lower percentages. And I've been told that it's not because multiple women are dating the same guy, but because those women are dating older men. So I'm conflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:13 PM
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Dont worry there's always a new app or place. I remember when MySpace was a thing. Also I bet, most of the people you follow will just move to Youtube or Insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:11 PM
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VPN will work to access the app. But most people will end up quitting Tiktok in America, so the creators you follow might have moved to someplace else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:10 PM
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That's gonna be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:30 PM
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What's tt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:26 PM
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Wind and Truth by Brandon Sanderson.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:26 PM
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Day 48 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that most women don't want virgins, so I must become attractive). Today sucked. I was up late last night (again), reading my book. Finally finished it though. But thanks to sleep deprivation, I'm having all anxious thoughts in my head. This sucks. Also, I got a shave. Feels nice to be clean shaven. What will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:23 PM
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I'm an only child. I was good enough I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:17 PM
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Oh interesting. Here we have a couple of systems. The first is personal lockers if you live in apartment buildings. The second is selecting a neighborhood shop where you can have your item be delivered and pick it up from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:17 PM
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I say they can be all kinds of people. My aunt is a single cat lady. Never married. Never been in a relationship. Possibly ace. She's close to her 60s now and she's living life and having fun pursuing hobbies. She's had a v interesting career too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:08 PM
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This year was interesting for me. had a heartbreak at the start of the year took a couple months to come back from that decided I never want to live with regrets so I'll do things even if I'm afraid of doing things went out and tried new hobbies fell in love with wrestling and MMA made some new friends read quite a few new books
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:04 PM
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This is me if I don't get physical exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:57 PM
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Good. Abolish hotness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:56 PM
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Wait, y'all have communal lockers? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:56 PM
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Yeah. It's just so hard when you have a book you can't put down. I block all the other distraction apps, but I cant block books.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:53 PM
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This I have found to be true. My mom has a very different standard for what counts as "clean" compared to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:51 PM
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I'd be okay with this if I ever wanted to be a father tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:50 PM
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Yeah, if I don't get sleep my anxiety also spikes. Sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:48 PM
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I think we need to give everyone free plastic surgery so ugly people like us can become hot and we can finally be interested in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:48 PM
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My friend is an expert in languages (both learning them and studying them formally in Linguistics). He tells me that the best way to learn a language is through immersion. So I'd say watch a lot of movies in that language.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:45 PM
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Day 49 of dailyposting (and reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men therefore I must make myself more attractive) Today sucked balls. Woke up late and felt sleepy the entire day, because I was up late last night, reading a book. Ended up missing MMA practice in the morning. However the 2X post I posted was funny. I posted it in my shitposting groups and the response was v polarized along gender lines for the most part. Now I will go and read some more because this book is addict…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:44 PM
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Bruh you're obviously going to use whatever advantages you can if you're fighting a crackhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:05 PM
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Boyfriend sure. But from what I read she told the Uber driver and immediately started to go at the dude. Even the Uber driver will first ask thr man to get out a couple of times before he calls the police. But the moment she physically escalated it got a lot more dangerous. I'd have ignored her post if she hadnt done that, because as long as you're not physically escalating, wanting your bf to have your back is a very fair demand. It's when she puts hands on a drunk guy (who hadnt touched her fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:44 AM
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We don't know that because immediately after informing the driver she shoved the guy. In any case if the driver doesn't handle it, you take the other girl and walk with her back to the club and call the police from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:36 AM
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We don't know because before the Uber driver could do anything, she started being grabby with the dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:32 AM
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I agree that he should have put himself between his gf and the guy. But I don't think provoking a drunk guy by shoving him and expecting your bf to deal with the fall out is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:20 AM
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Avoid Stormlight Archive. They're good but too long. The others are nice. Short and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:18 AM
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I do agree that he should have done SOMETHING. But here's my perspective. If this happened, I'd be right beside her while she ensures that the girl gets into a cab. If he tries to get into the cab I'd tell the cab driver that this guy isn't her passenger. I'd also call the cops and maybe send my gf to get more help. But if in this scenario she goes and shoves the man, I'd go what the fuck. Because now this guy would want to fight. And whether he tries to fight me or my gf, I'll take the hits. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:18 AM
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The answer would satisfy my curiosity And that is the point Of answering Questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:57 AM
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Why do you Always talk like this Bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:50 AM
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Wind and Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:46 AM
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Umm, the driver is in the front seat. The guy was trying to get into the backseat. She already told the driver that the guy isn't her passenger. It's after that, that she shoved him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:46 AM
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She did tell him. It's when what she did after that which exponentially increased the risk - shoving a drunk dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:33 AM
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Let me give you a comprehensive response. First of all I didn't say that the woman faces less physical risk. I said it can go either way. She could be in more risk, she could be in less risk. There's no good way to know. Secondly, physical risk isn't all that's there. Even if a fight breaks out and the bf wins, he can STILL be jailed. This happens all the time. Third, it makes sense to deescalate. It doesn't make sense to put your woman forward because you don't know how much risk there is, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:31 AM
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too long didn't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:03 AM
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Harassers usually aren't the types to think about consequences. Drunk ones especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:48 AM
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If you get into an altercation, the BEST option is to deescalate or move away from the situation, not to use someone (anyone) as a shield.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:47 AM
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I fucked up last night. I stayed up late reading a book and now I'm having a horrible day and I just want to go to sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:33 AM
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What if it's people you don't care about though? Like what if it's just some rando on the road? Do you think a man is less of a man if he doesn't get involved in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:15 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:55 AM
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Which woman? The other woman? He doesn't know her, why should he risk prison for her? His girlfriend? While I agree that he should stand by her, SHE's the one escalating and putting herself in that situation. She literally put hands on a drunk man. That's escalation. Anyway, my larger point is this - that men who are afraid of violence, are seen as not real men by women. Hence the use of the word emasculation. So men should learn to get violent. - furthermore, no matter what rhetoric comes out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:28 AM
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This can go either way. Sometimes men are likely to back off against another man. Sometimes they're MORE likely to get physical if it's another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:14 AM
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I'm lowkey envious of how good looking he is. Imma go to a plastic surgeon and give him a photo of Luigi and tell him to make me look like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:05 AM
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Hey I'm from India. We had the Tiktok ban long before y'all. I've seen how this plays out. You'll get a bunch of knock offs of Tiktok trying to make it big, they will all fail. And the big boys will step in. I wouldn't be surprised if Meta launches a separate app for reels that can also be integrated into Insta, or just make Insta more like Tiktok. Most of the Tiktokers of India either moved to Instagram or started making Youtube Shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:03 AM
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Thats a gross simplification, no ? Nobody is saying men shouldn't help. It's whether helping includes being willing to get into physical fights where the outcome can be prison or even death.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:58 AM
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I can't believe we're back to Luigiposting. Make it stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:56 AM
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Something else will replace it. Possibly Instagram reels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:55 AM
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losing a fight is a million times better than sitting there glued to your phone Err, if the only consequence of street altercations was lost fights, then men would get into street altercations a LOOOOOOT more then they do now. The potential consequences include death, severe disability (upto and including paralysis), or serious prison time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:54 AM
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I don't disagree, but that doesn't change my point. For someone I care about, who started it becomes irrelevant While that is completely fair, and yeah I'd absolutely step up for someone I love, I still think if she's actually escalating fights and expecting people to step up for her, then she's being stupid. "Escalating" a situation is a different animal than starting it, and at the end of the day the drunk man was the cause of everything. Technically true, but you always want to deescalate. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:51 AM
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then he had more concern about his own safety than his girlfriend's after things escalated physically, which is cowardice. and thus she thinks he is not a real man, as evidenced by the word "emasculated". Which goes back to the point I made in the daily post. That women expect certain masculine behaviors from men, no matter what they say about gender roles and feminism. I would have jumped in for my male S/O; my female friends; my male friends; my family; my dog; other pets; and depending on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:17 AM
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I find it hard to blame the bf. Not everyone reacts the same way to danger, and men can be just as scared as women. I get having the expectation that he should have stood by her while she told the Uber driver that the drunk guy was harassing the woman. Its when she went and started pushing the drunk guy himself when she did the stupid thing. Lady you're not fending him off, you're getting into an altercation with a drunk guy, who is possibly carrying, and clearly too drunk to understand conseque…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:30 AM
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I suspect she thought her boyfriend would beat him up. Or she's just never had violence done to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:23 AM
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Interesting situation happening in 2X subreddit right now. Apparently one guy didn't step up to protect his gf when she tried to stop a drunk guy from harassing another woman. Now she says he's "emasculated" in her eyes. And the 2xinas be fighting over whether he was truly emasculated, or whether its gender neutral and he just wasn't an empathetic human being. My take is that this is why I don't believe in men being feminist. Because whether you like it or not (most)women uphold masculinity by h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:12 AM
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what possesses people to think they know all men and all women so comprehensively? reddit posts? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:07 AM
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But one can find such examples for women too. Take for example women's body image issues. There clearly exists support for women, as well as a movement towards normalizing all kinds of variations in women's bodies. But I'm pretty sure women would push back if we tried to ban cosmetic surgery. You could for example come up with ways to help men deal with/prevent gambling, without banning gambling/sports betting. But nothing like that really exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:06 AM
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No if she let's me fertilize her egg iykwim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:26 PM
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Damn. I thought all women wanted oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:54 PM
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Day 49 of Dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men so I must become attractive to have a chance). Today I didn't do much at all. Just enjoyed my Sunday, talked to some friends. Shitposted a little. What will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:52 PM
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Oh. Nvm then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:00 PM
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Oh. I thought you meant she knew him personally. Although you'll be rich if you're getting a finance degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:59 PM
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That's USD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:51 PM
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His gf knows a podcaster in my country who is super popular and (the podcaster) went to an ultra rich people school. Think people with a networth of hundred millions and billions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:51 PM
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I can't believe Zair's gf is so rich. Makes me wonder how rich Zair is...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:39 PM
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Also your gf is confirmed rich then. That guys is rich af.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:21 AM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:17 AM
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Damn I need to start drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:10 AM
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Is she into beerbiceps podcast?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:08 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/InstaCelebsGossip/s/YMBjRebCxd peak stalker behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:04 AM
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Lmao yes. Wanna see?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:03 AM
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I think it's slowly happening irl too. Yesterday someone posted on the r/virgin subreddit. He was mid 20s Or so I think and he was talking about how he was telling his friends that he hadnt had a relationship. And one girl was like "Oh an incel".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:03 AM
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Yeah this trope is bs, and it always bothered me when people said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:01 AM
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Its okay. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:57 AM
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Showed it to Sheila in the DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:56 AM
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Also as an aside, there's this male podcaster in my country who has a very creepy and obsessive stalkerina. She got his name tattooed on her bosom. V large too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:55 AM
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I'd be flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:54 AM
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Okay I did a face reveal and got some good advice. Gonna lose fat now and trim my beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:53 AM
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Thx 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:33 AM
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That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:15 AM
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Oh, will test it out tonight on dailypost.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:12 AM
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Yes, will you volunteer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:09 AM
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I'll have to do it from a new account. But I need to get its karma up before I can post on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:05 AM
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Not you. But someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:03 AM
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Someone needs to volunteer to see what I look like in DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:02 AM
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idc I never liked bright red lipstick on women for some reason. It reminds me of circus clowns (no offense).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:59 AM
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Yes, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:57 AM
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People who know me are on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:51 AM
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I wanna do a face reveal but I'm shy and afraid of being doxxed. Wish I could do face reveal in DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:47 AM
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Meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:46 AM
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Mfw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:14 AM
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Hop on the apps bro. Swipe right to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:58 AM
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I'm not surprised. Should check out the canadian_housing2 subreddit. They made a second one because the OG one wouldn't allow them to be racist to immigrants. I find it funny because overall, Canada is cucked. If they don't bring in immigrants, they basically will become a Japan but less prosperous because they really have nothing which can make them grow. But when they do bring in immigrants, they can't build housing fast enough or expand their medical system. It's over for Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:23 AM
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Male gaze : looks Female gaze: looks AND hypercompetence AND status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:21 AM
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I'm a 25+ virgin so no woman wants me. I'm also pathologically insecure with no cure for it. And I hate coriander/cilantro (people tell me that's a sin).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:16 AM
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For men it feels like a Catch-22 because I will only have genuine self confidence when I know women want me and when I'm not a virgin anymore, and I know that I'm decent at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:12 AM
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Was it anti Indian hate lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:11 AM
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Why not go for cheaper dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:09 AM
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My dad has a name so common that he shares it with two famous people in our country. If you google his name, results show up about an actor or a famous comedian.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:06 AM
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It's a scary thing being a virgin over 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:04 AM
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My aunt is like that. Has never had relationships, doesn't care either. She's nearly 60 now and just enjoying life doing hobbies and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:02 AM
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Oh damn. That's scary af.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:54 AM
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That was a stunt he pulled to try and get the California rail project shelved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:53 AM
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Tomato
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:53 AM
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Yes, I've also talked here about "just get therapy" is dismissive, because therapy doesn't always work. "Try therapy and see if it helps" would be fine. But "need therapy" implies that therapy has a cure to insecurity. Not always. Not all feelings can be worked through or coped with, or even should be. In some cases (like mine), all you can do is try to live by catering to the insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:46 AM
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I think it's fine to say "I don't think you need that surgery", its not fine to say "No, you need to get over yourself and get over your insecurity instead of seeking surgery". Basically, not tell people that they need to deal with their insecurity instead of catering to it, because nobody knows how deep the insecurity runs for that person, or how painful it could be. As to people being how they are, I think some people are like that, and I hate such people. I wish our society ostracised such pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:02 PM
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What does disagreement mean in this context? I don't think anyone gets to decide what others do with their bodies. I see it in the same way I see abortion, it's the womans choice, and no other individual has a say. Same with plastic surgery, no other individual gets to have a say. Its b) that bothers me in the context of insecurities. Because usually I try to be very nonjudgemental. But when people judge me for my insecurities, it makes me want to hit back at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:56 PM
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No, but I will from today. Thanks for the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:26 PM
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Yeah but why hate on them or judge them? Let them do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:25 PM
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Shouldn't be. I think people should be more sensitive about this. And tbh I think there is a slight gendered aspect to this where men are punished harsher for having insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:04 PM
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I think I can. More importantly I'd rather die trying to cater to this insecurity than to spend a second of my life actually coping with the feelings of inadequacy. Those are too strong and unbearable. I'd rather die than to feel those fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:03 PM
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I don't think people should argue. Insecurities are tricky things. I wouldn't tell a woman insecure about her weight that she's stupid and wrong. I might tell her that I don't agree with her. But I wouldn't like, be attacking her for having that insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:59 PM
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I've talked about this before, but for me I feel like I have to be the best at sex with any partner that I have. Maybe not off the bat, but eventually. And this need comes from a place of insecurity. Because if I can't be better than the people she's been with, then I am less of a man then them. Which is a shitty feeling, and I refuse to cope with that feeling. I'd rather not feel it at all by looking for someone with whom I CAN be the best because we have the best sexual chemistry and we fit to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:57 PM
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I mean okay, let's take an example. Say a guy is insecure about his height. If he so much as mentions that he's insecure (or wishes he were taller so he had more options), people shit on him for having that opinion. I've seen it happen. It's like he committed a thought crime, and people rush to punish him for that. Like, the dude's insecure, let him be. Why shit on him? They don't offer words of support, they tell him he's wrong and stupid etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:49 PM
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I can only talk about myself for the most part. I've realised that I simply cannot overcome some insecurities of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:46 PM
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Yes, that's what I'm saying. It's like, it's fine if you don't want to be with a person who has a visual flaw, doesn't mean you make them feel subhuman for that. Same with insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:37 PM
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Catering to your insecurity sounds like a very bad idea though (Sometimes) It's either that or suffer the pain of that insecurity, which is even more worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:35 PM
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But there's pornstars with bigger tits and better bodies, who also look cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:33 PM
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Did you receive your books yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:32 PM
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I'm ngl I don't get why men are so crazy over Sydney Sweeney.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:31 PM
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Some kind of lack which needs to be fixed, and if it isn't then the person with the lack is a bad person who deserves to be condemned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:30 PM
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Maybe, but you can't always win over insecurity. Sometimes people just have to cater to their insecurities and there is no other way to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:29 PM
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I'm okay with people not accomodating insecurities at an individual level. Everyone has things they can deal with and those they can't. What bothers me is people telling insecure people that if they don't / can't get rid of their insecurities then they are flawed and wrong and dont deserve happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:22 PM
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I disagree. I don't think it's a flaw and I wish the world understood that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:17 PM
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Okay fine, we're both mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:08 PM
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I wish people didn't look down on insecure people. We're human too. People look at insecurities as flaws and failings. This needs to change. Not every insecurity can or should be overcome. Sometimes you just have to accept that you're insecure and live that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:06 PM
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Second!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:04 PM
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i don’t believe people who want to hurt others should date. Doesnt matter, still mean 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:54 PM
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I wish people didn't look down on insecure people. We're human too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:53 PM
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This is lifefuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:53 PM
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That's because imo large swathes of people are stupid and never stop to think beyond the surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:10 PM
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Kernel dev (at whichever place offers me a nice work life balance and decent salary)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:09 PM
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Green button. With that money I could get enough plastic surgery to become Henry Cavil and get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:08 PM
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Something about how I shouldn't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:06 PM
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Day 48 of Dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that most women don't want virgins so my only option is to become more attractive) Hello PPD.! Today I went to MMA practice and survived it to the end. Then I came back and I was so tired that I took a nap which turned into a long nap. What will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:21 PM
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Ngl the first title (Missing You) sounds almost like a Booktok smut/erotica type book title. It's surprising how common that stuff has gotten thanks to social media. Before Instagram, romance books existed but they weren't this goddamn hegemonic. It's almost annoying walking into a bookstore and 90% of the stuff is just this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:19 PM
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Social conditioning is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:17 PM
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Hell in a Cell PPV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:10 PM
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You were mean to me the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:08 PM
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Which book?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:08 PM
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Stopped reading at 5-way polyish relationship. Ain't got no time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:07 PM
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Yeah tbh I've read about people being weird, and I'm like how come I don't know any such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:06 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:21 PM
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Til.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:48 PM
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I struggle with both of these. any advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:48 PM
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I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:47 PM
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If women actually could pull it off (decentering men), that would actually destroy men. Our egos wouldn't be able to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:46 PM
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Women’s psychology and biology aren’t wired to be the one who leads. This is Essentialist BS. Explains all the matriarchal societies and matriarchal tribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:43 PM
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Karl Marx was a shitty person irl, who never bathed and was a horrible friend who survived on the handouts of Engels. Don't make heroes out of people. Don't believe in heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:42 PM
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They sound interesting. Minus the sex negativity part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:31 PM
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Separate the person from the ideology. She can be both. A sexual deviant and a feminist icon. Like Engels literally was a capitalist. But he was also Communist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:29 PM
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No, what I'm saying is that most women believe that men need to be taught and so they avoid virgin men. This means that if 100 women knew a man was a virgin above 25, 99 of them would reject him even if they otherwise liked him, because he was a virgin. Atleast that's what I get from Reddit and other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:27 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:23 PM
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Nah, foreheads on women can be cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:23 PM
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Maybe, but I think most women believe that men need to be taught. Which is why most comments on any woman centric subreddit I see is usually that she doesn't want a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:22 PM
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Still believes in romantic love. Edit: aiming for a guy that possibly does not exist or is already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:19 PM
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MOAR!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:15 PM
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Day 47 of Dailyposting (and reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men and so I must make myself more attractive) Good day, PPD! How are y'all. I went to my MMA class today. I almost puked by the end of it. It's been sometime since I went so I guess I'm not in form. Anyway, today I observed that the endorphin high of this exercise stayed for about 7 hours. Basically from 9am to 3pm Or so. After that I went to the library and studied (solved some Discrete Math problems). And now I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:15 PM
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Explain the hashtag to me please. When I see #womeninmalefields I think of women working in traditionally male professions. Not what ever this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:11 PM
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Nooooo, I have thick eyebrows. Don't ruin it for me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:10 PM
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That could be a reason. But from what I saw it was all about not wanting to teach man how to sex, and even more importantly not wanting to teach a man how to relationship. It does feel like women like you are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:07 PM
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Roast me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:06 PM
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You're a rare person ngl. Most women I've seen in the women's subreddits (and even here) say they would avoid a virgin. Especially if he's above 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:02 PM
1

Take one. Eat some cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:12 PM
1

Why cry?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:10 PM
1

I think you can still succeed if you're in a niche. But need masters for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:51 PM
1

It's never satisfying until I can see their tears and hear their cries for help while I burn down their entire village.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:50 PM
1

Yeah high scores and stuff always bored me even as a kid. I always gravitated towards games with stories. Or strategy games.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:24 PM
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I'm a dude. No you don't need to cook & clean to get a man to commit. Just be hot and have lots of sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:20 PM
1

YesWeCan
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:48 PM
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I always sucked at that game. What's the point of video games that don't have an intricate storyline? Arcade games are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:36 PM
2

Did you study? Also you're a woman, so different rules apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:35 PM
2

Okay the top posts don't mention Luigi. Clearly we are over him. Fucking finally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:33 PM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:32 PM
2

Day 46 of dailyposting (and a reminder to myself that most women don't want virgin men so I must make myself more attractive to have this option). Last night I slept at 10PM. Today I woke up at nearly 9AM. I clearly have some fatigue left from my spiral. Anyway, I went to the library. Studied Discrete Maths. What will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:31 PM
2

You're a rare breed then. Most women would leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:20 PM
3

Would you stay if your husband got ED, or got disabled or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:17 PM
1

Murcan unis seem dysfunctional af ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:08 PM
1

Thanks ☺
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:07 PM
3

Do you think women are going to stick around if the man gets erectile dysfunction or something? Nah, it's fine to leave for any reason. People can leave for whatever reason, and there's no blame to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:01 PM
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Nah. I'm India so passport broing isn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:59 PM
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They've never been interested tbh. Like when they respond, there's usually no enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:46 PM
2

I have to fix my room tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:36 PM
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My problem is that I'm unable to break the ice tbh, and also not as aggressive in flirting as other men I've seen. Doing the commenting on something else always makes me feel like a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:36 PM
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Plausible. But I refuse to give up until I'm 42. I just kinda wish I knew for certain if my anxieties can be overcome or not. And also whether I will be able to meet enough women or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:30 PM
1

I get a lot of these on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:27 PM
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Will I be able to overcome my anxiety of flirting and escalation? And even if I do, will I ever be able to meet enough single, childfree women now that I'm 30+ ? This is what my mind is worrying about right now. Tbh I wish there were programs that taught men how to flirt and other romantic skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:26 PM
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Day 46 of Dailyposting. Reminder to myself, that most women don't want virgin men so I must make myself extremely attractive to have options. I think I'm better now. Instead of rotting in bed and doomscrolling, I went to the library, read a book.. I put an AppBlock on Reddit so I didn't spend all day on here. What will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:07 PM
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Maybe long term relationships should not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:54 PM
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Hmm. Maybe I just haven't experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:40 PM
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Actually that's what I'm thinking. Why do people stay together once the lust peters out ? I've seen people talk about how love is a verb, and it makes it seem like beyond the honeymoon period, you actually have to put work into a relationship. And if that is the case, why stay? Why not leave and find someone else with whom you can have a new honeymoon period and it doesn't feel like work?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:38 PM
2

Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:36 PM
2

Shit, I'm caught in a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:35 PM
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I'm not hating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:35 PM
1

Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:34 PM
1

I've read that they have injections which give you boners for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:34 PM
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Okay then, I'll change my statement. Romantic love doesn't exist, only lust and infatuation do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:33 PM
1

Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:31 PM
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Yeah, I want to know how it would impact a woman mentally? A dude would be pretty stoked if he got to fuck 100 women in a go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:31 PM
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No, my parents only have obligations towards me, not feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:30 PM
2

Oh hey Boomer. How was your day? Also my grandma didn't love me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:28 PM
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Love doesn't exist. Only lust does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:25 PM
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Q4W: I just saw the Lily Phillips stunt of sleeping with 100 guys in one day and she was teary eyed @ the end of it? Why would a woman cry after having sex with 100 guys, if it was voluntary?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:22 PM
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Meh. If a woman wants to sleep with a thousand men, let her. It's not worth bringing back religion for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:20 PM
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No fucking way is this real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:20 PM
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I think I'm at the end of my spiral, fingers crossed. And I ended up realizing something about me. Every time I'm in a spiral, there's these scenarios in my head, worst case scenarios, and I feel like I need to argue against them somehow. This argument happens in my head with me going back and forth with my anxieties. But this isn't satisfying and doesn't really make the spiral go away. But if I can get someone real (irl or online) to take the position of my anxities and argue against me, then t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:19 PM
1

This is why you never have kids, kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:14 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:25 PM
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I used to have nice skin :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:25 PM
2

Sometimes I feel like everyone else has life figured out and I am immature af who doesn't know what he's doing. But tbh my idea of maturity is sacrifice and responsibility. And those are things I hate. It's why I'm childfree. So I guess I'll never feel mature. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:24 PM
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I dunno, my guess must be really off then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:23 PM
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I feel somewhat better now. Hopefully this spiral will end by tomorrow, and I'll go back to being less anxious/more hopeful. But I've been reading about the case of the guy who committed suicide. It makes me feel sad ngl. Do you guys feel that women should be entitled to alimony if they work and earn enough money to live? Personally, I feel that they shouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:22 PM
1

It's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:18 PM
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Sleep early.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:17 PM
1

I don't trust ChatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:17 PM
1

What program showed a penis on TV?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:15 PM
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Just don't have kids. You'll get another 2-3 decades of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:15 PM
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The guy who committed suicide in my country because of alimony harrassment. He's becoming a bit of Luigi here, dominating all social media. Everyone's talking about him. I wonder if this will lead to a change in the laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:59 PM
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Who then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:44 PM
2

Plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:37 PM
1

You must have tiny hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:34 PM
1

Monica Belluci truly is the most beautiful woman to have ever existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:34 PM
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Believing that nothing on the internet is real is a Boomer opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:17 PM
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Become unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:15 PM
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If I'm talking about my real issues here then I have no reason to believe people are lying until it's egregious. Yes I believe shit on here is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:14 PM
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"Anonymous LARP" sites. Okay. Anyone you disagree with is LARPing. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:01 PM
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No, it's not relevant because like I said, I found an overwhelming amount/ratio of women saying they wouldn't date a virgin over 30. I've looked at all the subs. The only sub where women were overwhelmingly pro virgin was IncelExit and r/virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:58 PM
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Sigh. Okay, boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:55 PM
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No I found overwhelming confirmation. Just one or two comments and I wouldn't have cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:51 PM
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Fuck, I want pasta.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:50 PM
1

What you gonna cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:45 PM
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It is supposed to cure anxiety, depression, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:45 PM
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I'm not on any social media except reddit. And these beliefs came about because I searched to see if women reject virgins over 30. And I found overwhelming evidence that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:45 PM
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I'm already in therapy bro. My point is that people wouldn't just say "get therapy" with the idea that it will fix all their issues. Theyd be kinder about it. And especially in the medical field, a lot of the times if a cause for a symptom can't be found, they push people off to therapy instead. It's happened to me. They would never do that then. Like they actually try to wash their hands off the patient by sending him to therapy instead of doing more investigations. So therapy needs to stop bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:44 PM
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Doesn't matter in terms of beliefs. I can't choose mine. I can only discover mine. And they can only be changed by external evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:40 PM
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Day 45 of dailyposting. My spiral continues. Once it gets over I'm going to hit the gym twice a day and work really hard in my quest to become attractive. What will you do today, PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:39 PM
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One thing I really hate is this idea people (and institutions have) of therapy and psychiatry as this black box where you put in humans with emotional issues on one end, and on the other end out comes the same human with no emotional issues at all. It's a really reductive view of human emotions. I wish people (and institutions) acknowledged, that there is NO guarantee that therapy (or psychiatry) will cure the issues of a particular human. Or do it without curtailing other emotions that the huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:38 PM
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Did you read the part where I feel the need to tell her so that I can lower expectations and have her guide me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:32 PM
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I guess this makes sense because I don't really believe in free will except as an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:31 PM
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Everyone was a virgin at some point. The point is that most everyone lost it before 25. And if you're a virgin after 30 it becomes a Catch 22 as most women reject virgins. I'm not going to lie about it and I do need to tell the woman I'm with to have her know so I can lower expectations for the first time. This means most women would reject me solely BECAUSE I'm a virgin. Which means I will need to date way more women than the avg guy does before he loses his. Which means I need options. Which m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:26 PM
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Since when are beliefs a choice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:24 PM
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Uhh no, I posted earlier about women in the AskWomen subs saying their best was a fling or a ONS. Lots of them said their best was toxic af. Improvement isn't linear or guaranteed. If your genitalia don't match up v well, or if the sexual chemistry isn't there, then you simply CAN'T be the best no matter how much you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:23 PM
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Oh wait you're the Boomer. Nvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:19 PM
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I'm pretty now, it will raise my self esteem + give me more options to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:19 PM
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I dunno. So many women settle for a guy who's not their best sex. Plus women here and in other places say that me communicating that would turn them off. If what you said were true it wouldn't and theyd tell the guy what he needs to do to be the best of if it's even possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:19 PM
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Well there's really no other way. I can't ever be in a relationship where I can't be the best eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:06 PM
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That's fair. I don't really know how to solve this problem. But I do know that I can't get rid of this insecurity, so I'll have to find a woman who's cool with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:56 PM
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Hmm. Tbh I disagree that it doesn't matter if she says that I'm the best. It does matter, or I wouldn't care so much. But her saying it has to be believable, yes. One part that I always knew is that because I'm anxious I might doubt her, so I promised myself that I'd believe whatever she tells me. Because obviously its not fair to keep asking her to reassure me and put that on her. Overall though, I can see where you're coming from. You want someone who's secure in himself. That's fair. It is pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:54 PM
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Make it 72 hours. I want to see a siege.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:45 PM
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It is extreme insecurity, I agree. Although I dunno how that translates to him making you responsible for how he feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:44 PM
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What did you want to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:41 PM
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Although I am curious, why that kind of talk bothers you? Like what is it about saying that stuff which irks you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:39 PM
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First rule bro, cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:36 PM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:36 PM
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Don't trust ChatGPT. It's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:35 PM
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We should form a club of some kind where we do violence on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:35 PM
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I think those women are best avoided. They're the female equivalent of the dudes who fetishize Asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:34 PM
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A bit harsh but fair. I'd wonder if you dumped me for this reason (confirmation is nice), but I'd remove myself anyway if my question wasn't answered, so perfectly fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:32 PM
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Damn, then I must be good looking. Or at least not bad looking. Even when I got bullied, it wasn't for how I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:31 PM
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In my school people weren't bullied for their looks tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:28 PM
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That's a partial fear, but I'm okay with being dropped. The question is would you ridicule someone for that? That's what I fear more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:26 PM
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Medication works but it numbs me completely and I lose any motivation to do stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:16 PM
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Quite a lot. But my therapist basically doesn't have any techniques that work to calm me down when I think about this stuff. He told me he was running out of ideas lol. I've had more success with reading therapy books. I can recognize that I'm completely fused with my thoughts, so I'm experiencing them as if they were real, but I haven't ever found any technique that works for cognitive defusion even when this shit is mild. And rn it's the opposite of mild, since I'm in a full fledged spiral. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:14 PM
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Im already in therapy. Hasn't really helped with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:11 PM
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Hmm. But tbh the thought loop of me needing to be the best also comes from anxiety. Would be interesting to see what happens if I roid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:06 PM
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I'm not too worried about her thinking about Big Dick Chad as long as she tells me what I need to do to be her best. But I do think having options will help me. Because if I am ridiculed, I can just go to another woman. Also interesting point about the roids. I thought those make you more neurotic. I watched a video where Dr Mike(Israetel) talked about how he feels anxious when he's on gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:03 PM
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Do you think telling someone to just not be so neurotic ever works?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:58 PM
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For some reason this doesn't bother me at all. Maybe because I know the kind of women that fetishise a particular type of man and those women you really want to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:51 PM
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This really bothers me a lot. But tbh the solution is the same. To get more dating options. Which means the solution is to become more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:50 PM
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No I mean theyd humiliate me completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:48 PM
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Generalised Anxiety Disorder. Some levels of OCD and Social Anxiety Disorder. Mostly anxiety in general. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:42 PM
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Another thing that bothers me is that even though I want to be the best a woman has ever had in bed, I feel like if I ever reveal that to a partner, theyd ridicule me and leave. Like if I tell them that if there's nothing I can do to be your best partner then I'd rather leave, they would laugh at me and call me names.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:41 PM
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As long as you apply that standard across both genders I'd say that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:40 PM
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Something that really bothers me is when women say that virgins are obligated to disclose their status to their partners. I get revealing it so that you have a load off your shoulders, but obligated? Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:35 PM
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Thank you. I will sooner or later. I always do. These things happen to me with some regularity (one every six months or so). The worst one happened last year. That was so bad I literally didn't eat for 6-7 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:31 PM
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I've spiralled so hard today. Every time this happens, I come out of it with some new insight about myself, but I doubt I will this time. Right now I can't stop thinking about how women will reject me because I'm a virgin. Or they would only accept me out of pity. Like I'm a creature to be pitied, not a man to be lusted after. This is making me feel very angry. The only way out of this is to have a lot of dating options. Which is why I MUST become attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:09 PM
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The answer to your last question is yeah. I'd feel more comfortable lying about my virginity than I would losing it to a hooker. If I did that, I'd always feel a sense of shame that I wouldn't be able to bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:06 PM
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I can't, I'll always be ashamed of myself if I have to resort to a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:51 AM
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Its because of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:00 AM
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A man in my country committed a very dramatic suicide. He was apparently being harassed for alimony by his ex wife. He left behind a long letter implicating his ex wife, the judge presiding over his case (apparently she laughed at him) and his ex wife's family. He also left behind a full 1.5hour video detailing the ordeal of his divorce. Now the MRAs are up in arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:40 AM
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Lend me some of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:38 AM
2

I made a new account to post here but my posts won't show up. What gives ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:14 AM
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Just answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:10 AM
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Nah. Women are on median lower libido than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:03 AM
1

It is a bad thing with 2 caveats. It's a good thing if you're one of the best in the world - like if you're the absolute best at Fortnite. Top 20 in the world. Or if the game is super nerdy. Think EVE Online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:02 AM
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Nah he's fun, he's not responsible at all. He literally runs away from responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:58 AM
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19 is still high school gf age tbh. You're barely in college. Some people don't go until 19 or even 20 if they take a drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:58 AM
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Im more interested in seeing how the answers split b/w men & women. There's no right answer. I just want to see what people pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:56 AM
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Q4W&M: Which do you think is more masculine the guy who does drugs and parties a lot. Very irresponsible. Is always chasing fun experiences. Chases women. Can't commit to one. the guy who doesn't do drugs, seldom parties. Works a normal 9-5. Is rock solid dependable and reliable. Married to his high school gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:47 AM
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Bro none of that shit helps in the moment when I'm feeling the anxiety. I know all of this, but thr anxiety is far too strong. It's a physical sensation and it's one that makes you feel like you're drowning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:25 AM
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That's what I wish I could do. Not worry. Sadly it's not a switch I can flick off. I hope I can find a good way to overcome this, but if I can't then I 100% will hop on to drugs to kill my worrying dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:19 AM
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Yeah that's my problem. I just can't go for it even if I do get hints because what if I'm wrong about the hints. I want to but I can't because the worst that can happen is that she goes on all social medias and puts me on full blast and everybody thinks I'm a potential rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:05 AM
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Another thing I hate is this idea that you have fun flings in your 20s and then get "serious" and settle down, and now there's no more fun because you have to be responsible and raise kids, and so it doesn't matter if you don't have very good sex or don't even have sex at all, because the kids have to come first. Like if you can't have more sexual fun with a husband than with a fling, then why the fuck are you marrying the guy? And if you think your sex drive will dry up once you have kids, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:56 AM
1

It is bad for my mental health I just don't care. Fuck my mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:48 AM
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It's very difficult to take a break from reading these things. It's like a compulsion. Liek I need to know what's the worst that could happen, how badly could I be outclassed sexually, so I know and am prepared for that situation emotionally. It's a spiral, it will end after a while. But the thing is this - you said that your gf would have hated it. Lots of women would. But this guy took a risk. He didn't care that she might not have liked it and told all her friends that he tried to molest her.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:47 AM
1

I think there is large portion of women chasing a smaller portion of men. I do think that because they can't get those guys they settle. But that's why fucking a small portion of men doesn't apply. They fuck the guy they don't have much sexual chemistry with. Which is disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:41 AM
2

I have been insane for a while now tbh. 12 years to be precise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:37 AM
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I do think that because women don't have to be the one pursuing, they really don't understand how important being seen as the proverbial Chad is for men. Because for them life is just an endless line of willing guys. They can have their pick. I'm pretty sure if they actually told their partners how the compared to Chads, the guys would absolutely level up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:36 AM
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<image> This guy pushed her against a brick wall and made out with her on the first date. I know I can't do that because I'd be too scared that I'm crossing some boundaries. This is why I hate myself. Because women find it hot when the guy just does things to them and I can't because I'm afraid of violating their boundaries + inexperienced. I hate life for making me like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:33 AM
1

That's like hiding your head in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:28 AM
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Bro I've found similar posts in askwomenover40. There's no age to chase sex like this. I've seen 60 year old women say similar shit there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:24 AM
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There were a lot of other women saying the same shit in that post :/ even more on an offmychestpost I've found. It genuinely seems to be a pattern:/ I really hope I can become the type of guy that women have the best sex of their life with tbh - which in my head is someone physically attractive, ultraconfident(I'll take drugs to achieve this), abusive, egotistical cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:22 AM
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That's fine but she's talking about how she let go and did things with him BECAUSE she didn't want to maintain a relationship. Clearly those things are pleasing her sexually. So why not do those things with husband? And why not tell husband to do the things the guy did? And if the physical chemistry isn't as good as with that guy, why not leave ? Why disrespect a man by settling for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:12 AM
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<image> Yet another vote for "the best sex is usually douchebags". I really wonder if these women realise how men feel when reading this. I really really wish women did and accepted this shit and didn't settle for men who weren't the best sex of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:10 AM
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But it's disrespectful to settle for someone. If you aren't insanely attracted to them, let them be only an FWB or leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:03 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/agrqeryqoy5e1.jpeg?width=1220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=de89281d0bdbc418cc116e9c7fe1d6d5c62aad70 Why do women do this? Why don't they marry the guys that they're insanely attracted to? And why don't they let go with the husband in the same way that they did with the insanely attractive fling? Shouldn't they be able to let go easier with those dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:01 AM
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<image> Why do women do this? Why don't they marry the guys that they're insanely attracted to? And why don't they let go with the husband in the same way that they did with the insanely attractive fling? Shouldn't they be able to let go easier with those dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:01 AM
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Q4W: is your current partner the best in bed? If not, was your best a douchebag of some variety?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:54 AM
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<image> A gaslighty manipulative abusive cheater tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:49 AM
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I might in the future unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:46 AM
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Maybe I should become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:44 AM
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Some of them be dating actual crackheads and he's the best sex of their life. So I'm not sure how true what you say is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:42 AM
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<image> Note the plural - narcissistS
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:40 AM
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Yes but I see SO MANY claims saying the best sex isn't the kind of guy you marry. SO MANY. On reddit and other places. It makes me think that being a dick is the cause of being good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:35 AM
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<image> When I read stuff like this, I sometimes feel that if you're a douchebag then you really somehow become good at sex. Like it's a causation, not a correlation. Which makes me wish I could overcome my own conditioning to care about what other people think, and just be a selfish dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:29 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/57z2uy8siy5e1.jpeg?width=1220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=396104100f960b4b50342cd24497df0091e84a0d When I read stuff like this, I sometimes feel that if you're a douchebag then you really somehow become good at sex. Like it's a correlation not a causation. Which makes me wish I could overcome my own conditioning to care about what other people think, and just be a selfish dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:28 AM
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What's the heavyweight then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:26 AM
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They should do the opposite. Jamaican heroe with British woman. Reverse colonialism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:14 AM
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I do crave validation for how good I am in bed. But that's not really superficial to me Or imitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:06 AM
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Yes but I'd like to see how women say about casual sex that is ONS (on avg) and casual sex that is FWB (on avg) and compare both to what they say about LTR sex (on avg).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:08 AM
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We were talking about "on average" tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:03 AM
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Tbh I do feel confused about this. On the one hand studies say that casual sex sucks for women. On the other hand women say that sex with their FWBs is fantastic. Maybe it only sucks if it's a ONS Or a one time hookup. Would love to see a study that quantifies how women rate sex that is a ONS, that is LTR and that is FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:47 AM
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Also you're right in that I value the sex/lust. But I think it needs to be clarified a little further. What I REALLY value is having my ego stroked and my masculinity validated. The only way that can happen is if I'm told that I'm better than other men at sex. But it can't be fake praise, it has to be true. So that's why I value sex/lust over everything else. Any relationship of a sexual nature, where I can't get that is emasculating. And therefore women settling is scary. Because it could happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:40 AM
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What is MXN
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:38 AM
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My emotions are running really high and I'm going to ramble here. I doubt I'll make much sense but idc. I feel like if it's a hookup or FWB them women prioritize lust and sex. But if its a relationship they prioritize other things (like whether he's kind etc) atleast as much as lust and sex. This is a problem because it means in a relationship, I could get settled for - ie she might be with me even though we don't have the best sexual chemistry. But this is not likely in a FWB. But because I'm a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:26 AM
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I don't care about society, I care about what I want (which is a guarantee that I'll never be settled for).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:09 AM
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Go read my posts before that. I specifically say relationships should only be because of sex and lust, not love. Should have been clear from that anyway. But whatever this definition bit is a stupid tangent. You already know what bothers me and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:50 AM
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Then why are you even talking about how I define things versus what you think the correct definitions are. You acknowledge what bothers me. Address that instead if you have anything to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:41 AM
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Look when it comes to point 2 - I don't care what 2 people do, because it's just 2 people. When it's nearly half the population of women, then it gets scary because they're doing something (that something being what I call settling) and I'm afraid it could happen to me. I wish women didn't do that. As to point 3 lol, go read 2X posts from the week he got elected. It was non stop dunking on men. It was very clear they were upset at men for voting for T, just as much as they were at T getting elec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:40 AM
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Lol it's not a choice. Women were pretty upset that men voted for Trump. By this logic it's the women's choice to be upset. You can't control how you feel, and that includes feeling upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:29 AM
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The point is that women end up being with the guy who isn't their best sex scares me because this could happen to me. I wish this was an actual anomaly and 99% of women would leave a guy if they didn't have the best sexual chemistry with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:28 AM
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unhinged It's a core value for me, and if I can't have it, then life isn't worth living for me. So it might be "unhinged" to you, but to me it's unhinged that women settle for the guy who isn't the best sex of their lives. Just focus on having fun and learning about what you like before you stress about being the best. I'm going to focus on trying to be the best. That includes learning. But always so that I can be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:27 AM
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I wouldn't care if it was one or two women. Meh. My issue is that a large # of women do it. I wish they didn't. I wish people would leave any partner who didn't atleast match or exceed the sexual chemistry of their previous best partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:22 AM
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Not being the best at sex is settling in my books. And that's what I'm afraid of. Over half the women seem to settle (according to my definition and that's what matters to me).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:21 AM
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I guess our values don't align then, for you a guy not being the best doesn't matter. For me, I'd rather a woman tell me that I'm not and can never be the best, and dump me with that then continue to be with me. I value being the best more than anything else in my life. Like if you gave me a devils bargain that I could be the best sex of a woman's life, but that woman will kill everyone I love, including my parents and my dog, I'd say sign me up. That's how important it is to me.I find that her …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:20 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/lbbqw9j?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2 try this link ETA: nvm it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:10 AM
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Smh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:09 AM
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Like y'all need to understand that for some men like me, being the best at sex is the only reason we want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:09 AM
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The point is, some men will never be the best sex for some particular women. But the women will never tell them this, that they don't have the same intense sexual chemistry they shared with their exes. And I absolutely have to ask. I'll sit her down and tell her that I absolutely need to be the best, because not being that is emasculating to me, so 1) I need her to tell me if she thinks we have that potential, and we have that kind of chemistry and 2) what exactly she needs for me to be the best…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:08 AM
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Some guys will never be the best at sex If I can't be the best at sex then I'd rather commit suicide. No joke. It's that important to me doesn’t really matter as long as he’s good at sex. It matters to me. And it matters to a lot of other men. This is what I want women to understand. It's very very important for our egos that we be the best sex you've ever had. So if you don't have the kind of chemistry or sexual compatibility where you think this guy could be your best sex, women please don't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:59 AM
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The moment I saw the subreddit I knew exactly which post this was linking to. That shit is nightmare fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:53 AM
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I don't think I could ever commit to a woman until I knew that I'm the best sex she's ever had and the chemistry we have is better than anything she's ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:45 AM
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https://www.today.com/health/ivillage-2013-married-sex-survey-results-1d80245229 scroll to the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:39 AM
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Best at sex. I'm looking for that study, just am unable to find it. Wish I had bookmarked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:33 AM
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That's not OP, thats the first commenter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:32 AM
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ou're purposefully only using "sex" to determine the entire relationship quality, which isn't remotely an objective declaration, that's your personal choice Sure, but that's because not being the best sex to a partner = emasculating for me. Nothing could be worse than that. It's why I feel so angry when ever I read about women who settle. Because it could happen to me and so it feels personal. A relationship where you're not each other's best sex is utterly worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:32 AM
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modernbee is the OP and a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:26 AM
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I literally told you over half of women settle and you're like most people don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:25 AM
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Also I've read of studies where women were asked if their partner was their best sex. Over half said no. So clearly a big number of women settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:23 AM
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No. I want a relationship. I just want that relationship to be because of sex and lust. Love is a side note to those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:23 AM
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In most relationships this doesn’t happen. I've read of a study where they asked women if their current guy was their best. Over 50% said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:19 AM
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I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:17 AM
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I just want women to stop settling. I don't want a women to be with me for any other reason except absolute lust and incredible sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:17 AM
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And there's WOMEN agreeing with him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:16 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:15 AM
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There's women literally agreeing to this person. Wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:13 AM
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The problem is that women settle for the guy who isn't the guy they lust after or have mind blowing sex with, but they do it because they see a future with him and he'd be a good father/provider. And this pisses me off. If I could, I'd make settling illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:07 AM
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Maybe, but trends exist. Patterns exist. And I believe the overarching pattern seems to be that most women (atleast half I remember reading from a study about whether a women's current guy was their best sex or not) settle for their husbands in terms of sex and lust. And that pisses me off. If I could, I'd legally ban settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:06 AM
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<image> Ever more stuff that will live rent free, in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:00 AM
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Then what the fuck is the screenshot I posted? It's literally from a deleted post off of AskWomenOver40. Tons of women chiming into that saying oh yeah this is good advice, go date the broccoli guy not the candy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:53 PM
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Gym, looksmaxxx, plastic surgery. My real issue is that in popular media and discourse, things like "love" are still peddled. And men like me end up believing that if a woman loves you, then she lusts after you. That's a lie. And it pisses me off that this lie keeps on being perpetrated. I wish media was instead dominated with women leaving the guy they love for the guy they lust after. That way men would wake up and go to work becoming a guy women can lust after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:51 PM
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That's literally women in AskWomenOver40. I can't seem to post the link because it was deleted. But it's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:45 PM
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I'm worried that a woman that I chose will chose me because I make her feel safe and comforted. She will chose me for these reasons, not because she lusts after me uncontrollably. That's what I want, uncontrollable, unhinged lust. Women dating a man for anything that isn't lust is disrespectful. That should be the ONLY reason woman get with a man. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:44 PM
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What I want is lust and desire and attraction and want in a relationship. But it's clear to me that women chose different things for LTRs. And that pisses me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:35 PM
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Passion and fun is all that matters. I find it disrespectful that women date a guy who they don't find passionate and fun. And what makes me REALLY angry is that us millenials were brought up with the idea that being a kind and intelligent person is what matters, and if you do that, you will be wanted. That's BULLSHIT. Being hot and and being fun is what matters. I wish our parents had taught us that and forced us to become hot instead of being intelligent. More gym, less school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:34 PM
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That's a woman posting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:29 PM
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<image> This will now live rent free in my head. I am convinced that nothing else matters in life except being hot and being good at sex, if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:25 PM
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The point is that it's hegemonic that women do this. And it's utterly disrespectful to the guy. I wish women would simply never date anyone that they didn't lust after as atleast as much as the guy they listed after the most in their past. Settling for a guy is disrespectful because it is emasculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:23 PM
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I think I've found the most compelling account of AF/BB <image> Woman comparing the AF guy to addictive junk food and BB to boring but healthy food. I'm reading this as a guy and thinking why the fuck would I ever want to be with a woman who doesn't find me as exciting than another man? Who doesn't list after me as much as she lusts after another man? This kind of stuff is brutal redpill ngl. It's why I now get angry anytime I see people talking about love in popular media. Love is an illusion, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:18 PM
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Bro 7inches and above is humongous. There's very few 8 inch dicks in the world. Anything above 6 is already big.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:56 PM
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I'm hanging out on Twitter and Reddit. I get that maybe Twitters format doesn't allow for deep takes. But even Reddit is disappointing on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:53 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:48 PM
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Luigi this and Luigi dat. Why don't you Luigi deez nuts? No but seriously, he's not even been convicted, shut up about him. Why is pop culture so monoculturic ? There's only like 4 or 5 things that everyone discusses breathlessly before the next news cycle. And nobody talks about things in depth. It's all "let's discuss how big Luigis dick is" instead of "let's talk about why the healthcare system is the way it is, how it got here, it's political economy, proposed policies to improve it, critiqu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:45 PM
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Then why are male pornstars ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:41 PM
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I've been told the same in the past. Dunno if true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:39 PM
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Aren't you aiming for what is a vanishingly tiny percent of the population. The "well-read" alone knocks off a huge chunk of men in your age group, since Gen-Z doesn't really read.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:55 PM
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As long as I can date whoever I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:51 PM
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Day 44 of dailyposting. What did you do today?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:49 PM
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Play the long game. That's what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:56 PM
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I trust real life experiences if they're my own, or from sources that dont have a known predilection to lie. I don't trust individual academics, but I would trust if multiple academics from multiple institutions all did the same replicable experiment and the results were similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:55 PM
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