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touch grass
/r/TheRedPill28/06/24 10:10 PM
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tldr; OP didn’t get into medical school
/r/TheRedPill21/12/23 02:02 AM
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im not the balding retard crying about it about to take a bunch of drugs because other internet retards told me so. it is just hair! if you have a ~baby face~ get lean and if you are skinny fat go workout! If you were comfortable about the direction of other facets of your life you wouldn’t be panicking on reddit
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:10 PM
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you are being such a fucking pussy. dont even worry about it, ignore the people telling you to take drugs, go LIFT 4x a week for 5 years and it wont even matter if all your hair fell out or not.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:03 PM
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Realistically OP needs to move on, but I’d first suggest a doctor’s visit, ideally an endocrinologist, to see if there is some underlying medical issue. If she won’t go to the Dr I’d say then you’ve done all you really can.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:27 AM
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no, he currently has a gf who is an onlyfans camgirl. didn’t think I’d be doing a deep dive on larry wheels’s psych profile today, but his childhood was wack. dad left his mom as a toddler and she basically abandoned him at 6 after suffering physical abuse from a boyfriend. Moved in with grandma, got booted, and became an orphan at 11. He is only 26, so an onlyfans camgirl that tells him “ily baby” is probably one of the more healthy relationships he has had. pretty sad.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 02:44 AM
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pretty wild you got so visciously downvoted. newbies in awe of a dude meeting new average and ugly girls slighlty more frequent than monthly.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 01:03 AM
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7/10 tall blonde with almost a perfect body... but saggy boobs breastfeeding single mom and meth addict? scale probably seems at least 2/10 higher than reality based on descriptions but interesting read
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 06:26 PM
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dont worry about it. record and send it in to admin. if you arent actually friends it is extremely unprofessional and will be immediately dealt with.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:45 PM
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if she doesn’t have multiple children with you, yes
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:44 PM
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This is so ridiculous lmao. VAST majority of 18-22yo women do not care at all about your financial situation. Drinks at a bar? $12 IF you end up paying for her drink. That’s maybe like an hour of work. You shouldn’t be spending much more than that on a date with a woman anyways. Don’t be embarrased, frame it in your head as you work so as to not go into debt. You’ll get a real job after you graduate.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 05:48 PM
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super normal to be anxious during sex. don’t take any medication for it at 20, this all sounds psychological. as nice as a ONS sounds, you may be better off developing and building intimacy by going on a date or two or like hanging and hooking up (without fucking) and progressing towards sex. IMO the best sex is with girls you actually know something about and gets better as y’all get to know what each other likes more. Just my two cents.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 07:29 PM
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tldr guy making 300k/yr living the dream with 4 kids has a wife that cheats on him, he beats the shit out of her lover, gets in legal trouble, also gets meningitis same time, physical and mental health down the tubes and now he is kinda fat and alone but on the mend
/r/askTRP07/08/20 05:39 AM
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See this is the kinda shit that got your life messed up. Your wife cheated on you. You should have contacted a lawyer and taken your kids with you. You assaulted someone. Not allowed in society. Were they not nice to you? Sure. They slept with your wife. But you can’t assault people. Can you take back your mistakes? No. Can you learn from them? Yes. You’ve had a tough go. At 6’5” you can weigh more than most people and put on more mass, but if you were 190 in great shape 2 years ago you should h…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 05:28 AM
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Just relax, be happy, and continue to lift and improve yourself. As much fun as banging dozens of hot girls in your twenties sounds, banging a really hot girl who is great and loves you doesn’t sound bad at all. redpill is about improving yourself and living your best life.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:25 PM
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hey at least she asked. she couldve shagged random dudes and given you an std keeping you in the dark the whole time. you may feel like you are at rock bottom, but you already hit rock bottom and are on the upswing. the real world can be a depressing place, but there are good men and women out there. As long as you try to better yourself and learn to love yourself you’ll be on the right path. Best of luck
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:49 AM
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Your daughter has a mental disorder. She has tried to kill herself multiple times and thinks she is a man. There isn’t going to be a fairy tale ending where she changes her mind, becomes daddy’s little girl again, finds a good hard-working man, and has a nuclear family. You need to support your daughter and continue to love her unconditionally. This is what you need to focus on. Unconditional love. “I will love you no matter what.” BUT you can say you don’t agree with her decision. You can say y…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:33 AM
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It reads as very childish. She might’ve liked you or even banged you on the 5th date and is just really shy or conservative. If you don’t want to wait past the 3rd date, the reasonable thing to do is move on, not try to make her feel bad for whatever her reasons are. Maybe she was trying to test how “beta” you were or whatever, but just not contacting her again (idgaf) would show the most abundance
/r/askTRP20/06/19 07:25 AM
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“High SMV dudes will compete for 7’s.” Yeah. How are you looking at/setting up your ranking? If you are ranking people linearly (same number of 2’s and 5’s and 9’s etc), then a dude at the top 20% would be “equivalent” to an 8. If you are ranking people on a bell curve, not much changes, but a guy at the top 20% is probably pursuing 6’s or 7’s as his “equivalent” on this scale. If you’ve read the pill and lived in society though, you’d also understand most 8’s don’t want to settle for a top 20% …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:02 AM
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Average is at 50%. If you start at 50% and start maximizing your potential you can leapfrog into the top 20% in a year, top 5% in maybe three.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:34 AM
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oh lol that’s pretty reasonable then. Make a move OP! You 6’4” fairly muscled shy boi
/r/askTRP09/03/19 08:18 PM
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Honestly this stood out to me the most. Lifting for 5 years... once a month? OP should be hitting the weight room at least twice a week and ideally 3-4x week. Agree on second point too. Just lean in for a kiss at the end of the date. It is a date. She knows it is a date. You know it is a date. If it went even okay she is likely expecting a kiss. If you don’t try she’ll probably think you aren’t interested or scared. If she isn’t interested she’ll yank her head back. A significant amount of women…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:36 PM
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https://naldc.nal.usda.gov/download/IND43861419/PDF
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:17 PM
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ok lol, I’m really talking about the large amount of men sitting at 20+% bodyfat percentage being unhealthy
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:49 AM
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Really can’t argue with this. People act like microplastics are affecting and leaching chemicals, which happens to a certain extent, but if the average man in 1900 was 5’9” 160 lbs and slept 8 hrs and the average man in 2019 is 5’10” 200 lbs and sleeps 6 hrs... that makes a big difference.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:34 PM
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The point of unicorns is that they don’t exist. Your ex was not your unicorn. Why? She wasn’t yours. It is just your turn. She wasn’t a unicorn. She is an attractive woman with an interesting set of personality traits. Don’t pedestalize your ex. If you like your current girl, great! Calling your current girl lower value than yourself doesn’t seem like a great sign though! You can enjoy your relationship with her, but stay on the lookout for someone you might be happier with. If you don’t find an…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:09 PM
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Normal people think you are stupid and low class. But why? They are just facial tattoos? They look really ugly and dumb. Smart people have facial tattoos too. The only people I’ve ever seen with facial tattoos are convicted criminals and soundcloud rappers. There isn’t a single billionaire, US politician, astronaut or respected scientific researcher with facial tattoos. It will increase your attractiveness to nobody, and only low life thots who already have kids, stds, or debt find it bearable. …
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:57 AM
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It is not unreasonable to get married, and you shouldn’t lose respect for everyone that gets married. Plenty of marriages actually work out well, sex is consistent, and you raise healthy kids that go on to have kids of their own. The issue is that these days you only have a 20-40% chance of that happening. If Chad Bigmoneybags marries Sarah Putson40lbsin2yearswithnokids, sure, think lowly of him. When Brad Imadoctor marries Brittany Nokidsbutstayathomewife, sure, think lowly of him. But when Tim…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:29 AM
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kink communities are another level of debauchery bang a freshman girl in college every other month? cool, each has an n count of around 10, and those 10 dudes had average n counts of 5. participate in orgies with people that have had loads of sex and into specific kinks? Think of it like 6 degrees of Kevin Bacon, but with stds. 2 degrees from the freshman girls was around 500 people. Probably a few stds in that population, doubtful of an hiv case but it is good to be safe. 2 degrees from the kin…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 04:42 AM
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this link is golden people shouldn’t be as scared about an infection that will go away in a couple weeks... they should be scared about bringing another person into this world accidentally. Surprisingly enough, women evolved over millions of year to have kids, and the ones that were more fertile... had kids easier! These offspring were also more predisposed to having kids easier. This is why you should only have sex with post-menopausal women 55+ (/s)
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:35 PM
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where do you get tested so frequently? I feel like it would be awkward and expensive seeing my general practitioner so frequently
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:26 PM
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getting out of a relationship is always so strange and red-pilling. all the people that called you a “power-couple” or #relationshipgoals come out the woodwork with their actual opinions “How could you date him? He is so short and looks like a goblin,” “I can’t stand her, she is so fake.” “Her laugh is like cackling and she has a crooked nose” “She is literally obese.” “He has a beer belly.” “She has a nice body but I’d need a bag over head to keep it up.” I always find it bizarre waking up real…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:24 AM
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Yes. In the current economy most people go to college, and a college education is the standard for most well-paying jobs (welding, truck-driving, and probably military being the main outliers). In regards to a finance degree, you probably want to stand out somehow. A finance-math dual major might improve you further. Working part-time jobs could also help you gain experience. Work hard at what you are doing currently, but keep in mind what you want to do in 2 years and 5 years. Does doing A help…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:41 AM
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You are on the right track. Be nice to your stepdad, it sounds like he is genuinely a good person. Think about what you want out of life. Where do you see yourself in 2 years, 5 years, and 10 years? STEM usually gets jobs, but some kind of business major isn’t bad if you have no interest/knack for STEM. History, English, and social sciences are generally poor choices. Work hard in community college. Always aim for the A. It sounds like you don’t come from a lot of money, so check out scholarship…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:22 AM
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Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:07 AM
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famous last words lol Bluepiller: The odds are a million to one that this situation will happen, should I go all in or fold? TRP: fold Bluepiller: ALL IN, BABY! 6 months later on astrp Bluepiller: Where did it all go wrong?
/r/askTRP29/07/18 08:11 PM
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All you can do is look out for yourself and essentially the invisible hand will play itself out. If you want to get married and have kids, find the best most level-headed woman possible and be active in your kids’ lives. Feminists, drug addicts, socialists, purple-haired people, victims, and gravy train riders aren’t the future. They don’t have value. I think we are seeing them at their peak right now, but they are losing the culture war. They have converted a lot of women and betas who would ha…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 05:07 AM
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Could be any reason. Childhood trauma. Parents yelled or beat him. Doesn’t want the added stress. Believes population is overgrown, etc. Biologically almost everyone wants kids. If you want sex, you biologically want kids. With modern medicine/technology it is fairly easy to just have sex without having kids. You can feed the biological urge for sex without reproductive consequence.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:30 AM
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You literally have your answer. He didn’t want kids. She did. She really really liked him. He is jacked and rich. She thought, “maybe he’ll come around,” but he didn’t. Having kids was a bigger life priority than marrying John Cena. If she find him, she can find someone else that is jacked and rich and wants kids. She thus saved herself a decade of waiting and fighting and becoming infertile.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:16 AM
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You might just be healthier in general and less lethargic as a result of healthy diet and exercise. Caffeine could also be affecting your sleep. I’d still recommend 7-8 hours if you aren’t doing anything else.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:17 PM
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I think you just need to talk to more people in general, both men and women included. Don’t put a woman on a pedastal or treat her like toddler. It might be easier for you psychologically to imagine talking to her like a guy and just subtract out the more distasteful jokes. Edit: Reread your post. I hate to break it to you, but you aren’t some stoic viking action hero killer manly man who speaks a thousand words with a stare. It is the most neckbeardy thing I have read this week. Talk to as many…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:44 AM
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there is an article called “eunuchs of the redpill” you should search for I can’t help you further. You know you should break up with this girl because being in a shitty relationship with an average girl is dumb when there are a million better options. Your oneitits logic is dumb. It is shitty to try to play games with her and get in some fake power position. Just break it off man
/r/askTRP22/07/18 08:13 PM
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bruh this situation gets worse and worse the more you reveal. A 2 year LDR? She could have 6 side dudes that you never know about. Not to mention there are sooo many women on this planet that live closer to you. Trust you can do better. You haven’t swallowed the pill man - you have hardly even licked it.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:58 PM
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I would never engage in an LDR that is at least 4 months. Can she not visit you or vice versa? The answer is no, you cannot expect her to stay interested. My max would be like a summer away from each other after having been dating for months before the separation. 4-6 months away is kinda insane unless you are already married with kids. Plenty of military men on go away for that amount of time and come back to wives that are 3 months pregnant though.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:47 PM
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Usually trp frowns upon LDR’s. If you ignore the advice and are in one, I would probably text/call/snapchat at least once a day. I like snapping because it feels slightly more personal.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:42 PM
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Check out u/VasiliyZaitzev
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:34 AM
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Intro to Less Vanilla-ism: doggy 1a. smacking her ass 1b. pulling her hair 1c. pushing her head/upper body against the bed/ground missionary 2a. lift her legs so they are on your shoulders 2b. choke - medium grip for 4 seconds and let go 2c. slap - don’t draw back and hit hard, but don’t just tap 2d. put a finger or thumb in her mouth finger in ass 3a. doggy/69ing/other 3b. work your way closer and gently push in 3c. check in “You ok?” etc 3d. slowly get it all the way in and push/pull
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:22 AM
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I really don’t know what else I’d do besides see a doctor. My guess is you will probably be prescribed something for your anxiety or maybe need to see a psychologist. My non-doctor opinion would be to keep trying until it feels progressively more natural. Maybe just casually touching yourself when sitting, in the shower, at morning, at night etc
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:02 AM
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“I’ve never actually jerked off” Sigh Have you tried? Sit down in a chair or lie down on a bed. Pull out your laptop, computer, phone, ipad, etc. Smash that mf power button. Google “Porn” and click on a link Start playing with your dick. Different strokes for different folks. Squeeze it, tug it, twist it some, play with your balls whatever. You probably want some lube, lotion, or spit. I usually don’t advocate for porn, but if you want that nut you are gonna have to chase it. It might take 1 min…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 04:54 AM
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Woman dates man in high school. Man is nice and they have great sex. Woman is nice and does nice things for man. Man and woman go to college and date throughout college. Woman is good woman and does not cheat on man. Man is good man and does not cheat on woman. They go on nice dates and help each other out in a symbiotic, mutually beneficial relationship. He stays alpha and other girls see him as attractive, so woman makes sure to make value known. Gives head, back rubs, sincere compliments, etc…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:25 AM
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OP: “I have been full blown alpha” Narrator: “OP had not been full blown alpha” She sounds like a thot. At 19 with an n-count of 12 (always multiply by 3) is a lot. If she lost her virginity at 17 that means she has been with a new guy every other month. And you are... 3 months in? It is about time for her new hookup. She is entertaining the idea of meeting with strange older men. In front of you. A real “good girl” wouldn’t have given out her number or at least ignored any texts from this guy.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:32 PM
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If you are looking for an LTR and thinking decades into the future breast size shouldn’t be that high on your checklist lol. Personally, I couldn’t LTR someone with a small chest. Don’t want to feel like I’m with a boy. The enormous mouthwatering ones are 100% going to be giant sag bags in their 60’s though. Your best bet is probably somewhere in the middle.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 08:22 PM
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Hopefully you know by now that women actively seek out the top 20% of men. The average woman can have sex with 50 chads easily. All she has to do is be easy, download tinder, and go to bars and clubs. The average man cannot have sex with 50 HB9’s. He is average. He will get shut down by an HB9 every time at a bar and maybe get some bad tinder matches. Why am I saying this? Because the average woman only needs to not be obese to get laid throughout her twenties. Her Weekly to do list to get laid:…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:55 AM
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So what would your advice be? “You suck at sex. Get better or I’ll leave you like your father left your mom”
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:06 AM
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happy cake day! care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:59 AM
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If you are lifting - you need protein! Lowest amount I’d go is 1g protein per 1 kg of bodyweight. Ideally closer to 1g protein per lb. If you are cutting/losing weight, do exactly that! If 3,500 cal maintains your bodyweight, you need about 3,000 cal doing the same activities! (maybe some extra cardio) If you are bulking, lean bulk! If 3,500 is maintenance, eat 3,700-3,800 doing the same activities! Tips: Vegetables are healthy and nutritious! Greasy fast food is greasy fat food. If you can cook…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:58 AM
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Saying “you suck and your sexual prowess is a lie” isn’t great. Imagine if she said you can’t give dick. Analyze the situation. Why isn’t it better? Is it the angle? That good be a big factor. Is your dick just not that big? That is a major factor. I’d go more along the lines of just suggesting ways to improve either before or right before/during. “Use your legs,” “lemme grab a pillow” etc
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:43 AM
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Eh. Depends. Let’s say you are talking about a 5’10” HB8. 6’3” athlete ex boyfriend? Yeah, red flag. Gay guy best friend? Not really a red flag. Maybe yellow just because of possible idealogical beliefs (read:feminism likely) 5’4” beta orbiter childhood friend that she wouldn’t consider touching? Skinny indian guy who is a classmate? Not a red flag. If she has no female friends than yeah that’s a red flag.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:18 PM
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This could be stooopid fun You can tell the parents you have been dating for years or getting married You could tell people you are a polygamist looking for a 4th wife You can pick up other chicks You can have sex in the house loudly
/r/askTRP04/07/18 08:35 PM
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OP sounds like an absolute psycho Good luck meeting anyone that values you as a human and isn’t a pathetic human themself via a sugar baby website Sub rules - don’t announce if you are a woman
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:06 AM
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cold sore = hsv1
/r/askTRP29/06/18 02:25 AM
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You could carefully vet your girls and go on multiple dates with self-proclaimed virgins before sex and still get an std. “I didn’t know the guy I sucked off had chlamydia!” The only sure way to not get an std is to be celibate. Most stds are very treatable with antibiotics, and in regards to herpes most people already have it. The big one you want to avoid is HIV, which hasn’t been a death sentence for over a decade. Pregnancy is probably the main thing you want to avoid. Not everyone’s mom has…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:53 PM
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Wrap it up. Prostitutes are generally aware of STD’s, so it is probably less risky than thots that don’t even ask about condoms. That being said, this girl can never be upgraded from a plate.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:00 PM
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Kinda neat field report. You hit rock bottom as a homeless, uneducated, and unemployed incel. Now you have two jobs and are pretty clueless with women, but guys you think of as “alpha” had dozens of experiences like the one you described. You will gain wisdom and confidence with experience. Make that money and when you go back to school, get a degree that counts. Go all out and get the best grades possible. Your new homes should be the gym and the library.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:18 AM
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Do not engage. You have nothing to gain. Anyone sane person around already knows the facts. Feminazis can and will report you to whoever they can report you to for disagreeing with them. They will lie, trash you to coworkers behind your back, and do everything in their power to hurt you. If you are around these kind of people, the only thing you can do is ignore politics and be platonically friendly. A “Hey how is your day going?” is all you need to avoid confrontation and keep them on your side…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 04:56 AM
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That theory probably applies pretty often, but the main exceptions are lesbians and the extremely religious. It also would have only applied 8 months ago - not months after you gave her commitment in exchange for nothing. You could last ditch ultimatum her, but it is probably better for both of you to just leave.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:04 AM
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If you were stronger you might never have been in the relationship... a lot of girls don’t deserve LTR’s. Half of all marriages end in divorce, and waaaay more relationships end than marriages. You might not have vetted well in the first place and are still viewing the past through a blue pill lens. She sounded bad from your last post.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 11:03 PM
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It is probably too late for this one. A basic strategy is: Have sex within the first 3 dates. If this doesn’t happen, then NEXT. Have sex again. Have sex again, and now she is a “plate.” Keep having sex with her and your other plates. A couple months in the future you might say, “Wow, this plate has been exclusive the entire time with me, worships me like a god, and is intelligent. I enjoy spending time with her, so I think I’ll upgrade her to an LTR.”
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:59 PM
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Liberalism is religion for the non-religious. “2+2=4 you say? That can’t be true! CNN, NBC, ABC, ESPN, Cosmo, Vice, and my single mom all say 2+2=misogyny.”
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 09:52 PM
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She’ll eventually message you or call you. If you don’t respond, she’ll probably follow up along the lines of: “Hello??” “Are you mad? I didn’t do anything” “I am cheating on you” The longer you dread the more she’ll go in to overdrive. If she is super into you, hasn’t cheated, and everything is just a big understanding, she’ll probably go out of her way to make you understand she didn’t mean to do anything wrong. If she doesn’t ever message you or call past “Hello??” then you have mutually ghos…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:24 PM
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Pretend your phone broke and see what she says. See how many days it takes without communication before she cracks. If not just ghost forever.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:55 AM
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“ 6’4” firefighter “
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:19 AM
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Meet up with her in person. Hold her hands in yours. Looks her in the eyes and whisper softly, “Begone thot,” as you slide the ring off her finger never to see her again.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:32 AM
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Be calm. This shouldn’t be a big deal. You have learned the lesson that girls tell their friends everything, and “lockerroom talk” is most pervasive among female friends. Yes, everything you do with a girl is going to be fed to her friends. They can feed this information to their friends as well. This is a big reason why the concept of “Don’t shit where you eat” is important. Now, what do you do? You screenshot your texts from the girl you kissed saying everything is fine, you did nothing wrong,…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:32 AM
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Obviously you want to bang. Both parties know this. This is her ASD (antislut defense) in action. If you say you were just over there to cook a meal and hang out, and your penis somehow accidentally slid in her vagina, that would be, like, crazy, like, lol! I’d say “just trynna bang out an amazing dinner 😤🍽” if you think that is kinda funny. I definitely wouldn’t say “No” or “Yes”
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:08 AM
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Drugs and alcohol dumb you down over time. People act like weed is harmless, but I’ve witnessed half my friends derail themselves from being on track to earn A’s at the best universities and be 1% earners to just settling for average grades in bad majors. Maybe they’ll get employed for 50k out of college, maybe they’ll just be unemployed. A lot of them might try grad school because it is better than being unemployed. Vegetables, staying in good physical shape, and hydration help you stay sharp. …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 07:19 AM
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Some guys can’t cum or get soft laying on their back during sex, but being on top requires more work. If you are going at it to the point you are exhausted you probably won’t be able to cum anyways. I’d try to up my cardiovascular health and in the meantime just ask girls if they’ll finish you with head whenever you get tired.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:29 AM
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There is a difference between being alpha and being an asshole. If your waiter sucks at a restaurant you can tip them less, but you don’t say “you need to find a new job because you are slow and can’t refill water to save your life.” If someone pees in the urinal right next to you when there are twenty open urinals it would be weird to call them out on it. If a guy in a wheelchair is rolling slow, you don’t tell him to pick up the pace. Society does tell you things. It sounds like OP’s gf might …
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:50 AM
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You can’t confront women about their weight. Your positive actions would be cooking healthy food with her and inviting her to the gym. Your more not nice but potentially helpful options include openly checking out other girls (especially fit girls) in front of her.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:12 AM
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They actually love very predictable accountant types. Women go NUTS for guys who make their bed when they get up in the morning, send them “good morning :)” texts every day, and take them on a a good old fashioned dinner date that he pays for. Women HATE fun and adventure, so don’t do anything spontaneous. It drives them WILD when you finally go in for the kiss four dates in after asking for their consent to kiss them on the cheek, after asking consent to hold their hand of course.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 04:22 AM
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might be bad at kissing, but the last 20 guys said she was great at sex
/r/askTRP18/06/18 03:31 AM
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Don’t make it a “oh no I have to give you head” ordeal, just go after it before and/or after next time. It would suck to be giving head to your partner all the time and never receive any. Interesting option: You could slide a finger in her butt while going down on her and try to put anal on the table if you are going to be going down on her.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:51 AM
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I didn’t grossly misread OP’s message. If you are a man with wife and kids you have responsibilities, but his perspective was overly gloomy and pessimistic. I get that he was making a point, and OP’s post can be summed up as, “Heavy is the head that wears the crown.” No reason to be so sad about it though. Women are just people - don’t put them on a pedastal. Cool. Children like to have fun and aren’t as responsible as adults. Cool. Life can be unfair and times get tough. Cool. Get hobbies, lear…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 07:09 AM
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Pretty powerful stuff, but it is a little overblown. You don’t have to be miserable to be alpha. You don’t need to be sad to be “a patriarch.” Life is tough and unfair, but it is what you make it. Knowledge isn’t a curse if you don’t treat it like one. Smiling definitely does brighten peoples’ days, and it doesn’t make you a beta loser to like working out, to love playing pickup basketball, date women, and enjoy life smiling.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:03 AM
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This just isn’t a thing. If you look at instagram and think the people on there (majority women) surround themselves with harsh truths and realities you are wrong.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:55 AM
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You don’t have to wife up anyone... If you hit it off with a 25 year old HB9, add her to your plate collection, LTR her 6 months later... that might be great. Women don’t spoil at 22. The drinking age is 21. You can’t even get a rental car until 24 most places. Most normal college educated women won’t consider getting married and having kids until their late twenties. In the 1950’s people got married younger but the trend has progressed later by about a half decade. Women start becoming infertil…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 03:34 AM
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Go to the main sub and read the sidebar Read the entire sidebar Read some of the top posts Realize the only person getting in the way of you being the person you want to be in life is yourself Lift Work on social skills, engage men and women in conversation, focus on eye contact, handshakes, hugs, etc Keep lifting Ask girls you think are attractive for their number and ask them on dates Get rejected a lot but have some success Keep lifting and being social ... 5 years later... ... “Wow I’m jacke…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 07:36 AM
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Ok law boi, here is a good case for you. It is called “sexual harrasment.” Worst case scenario: She reports you and you literally get kicked out of law school. Best case scenario: She only tells a handful of friends you are a loser fuckboi that sent her that message. You are a beta orbiter with oneitis and a 0.01% chance of anything sexual with this girl happening. Do not send anything else. If she asks in person say your friend took your phone at the bar. Don’t send anything incriminating via t…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:30 AM
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It is by no means uncommon to date but not marry someone for 4 or 5 years. If at that point you felt more ready you could propose and still ride out as fiances for another year or two. If the sex life is good... the sex life is good. Having sex with 10 7’s isn’t going to feel significantly better than having sex 10 times with an 8 LTR. If you are unhappy just bring it up, and you can try new things. Before breaking it off I’d probably go down this path and see if she might be interested in MFF t…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 06:43 AM
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This question gets asked every other week. TRP doesn’t have a clear agenda on it, so the responses are split every time. Steroids are bad for you. Like any drug, they have negative side effects. If you use them incorrectly the negative side effects are worse and show up sooner. You can lift for 4 years, never touch steroids, and get the desired body you want through exercise and good eating habits. The argument is you can get the same body in 3 years with drugs and lifting, but maybe even leaner…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:36 AM
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If you want plates: It doesn’t matter when you have sex with them. They are for sex. You might not be able to have sex with them on the first date/interaction. If you do, you do. If you want a gf: Spin multiple plates. Once you have mastered spinning multiple plates, see which ones are the most loyal and high quality. You can reward good behavior with nicer dates, cuddles, etc. Some on here would say screw monogamy, but a lot would say at least wait a few months of excellent plate performance. Y…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 03:55 AM
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focus on the clit use tongue and hands tease
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:36 PM
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5’ - 5.5” avg all vaginas shaped differently. if you are both average sized, guess what? you fit perfectly. relax and foreplay at least 10-20 minutes
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:13 PM
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-some people are saying to incorporate more back and pulling motions, which is true. Pullups, barbell shrugs, barbell/db rows, hang cleans might all help with muscle imbalances -stretching should help significantly -there are breathing exercises that go along with stretching that can also help -check out what javelin throwers do - they have among some of the best shoulder strength and mobility around -here is a little guide that might help: http://www.stretching-exercises-guide.com/breathing-and…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:48 AM
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tinder is primarily for validation if you aren’t in the top 20%, you are going to have a bad time on tinder read an article the other day that said tinder’s practicality is for hot people to hookup with other hot people go out to bars and clubs you can meet women and get numbers almost anywhere, even at the park
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:22 AM
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There are lots of financial and legal benefits to getting married. Also, if your girlfriend decided to leave the state with her kid, it is a lot harder to ever see “your family” again if they aren’t your legal family. Lots of potential pitfalls with that family scenario as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 06:19 PM
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Because if 60% of marriages fail and are absolutely disasters and 20% aren’t great but don’t end up in divorce, you still end up with a solid 20% of marriages that turn out pretty good with a family. If you are in the good 20% of marriages you would feel the risk paid off.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 06:01 PM
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“permission” message to her wasn’t a great move sending a snap of you in a stranger’s house or like the girls hands eating/cooking is kinda subtle. Don’t picture of the other girl, essentially saying “look who I’m with - not you!” Key is being subtle. You are essentially trying to inspire her being nervous about your relationship status not mad at you.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:04 AM
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Shyness used to be considered as a disorder. People are drawn towards loud, extroverted, exciting people. This doesn’t mean talk obnoxiously loud in a library, but being able to have a conversation in a social situation is a very good skill to have. I wrote a similar comment on how to develop social/flirting/talking skills: “Someone walks in same elevator? Compliment their shoes and make eye contact. Make eye contact with every single woman you see when walking - a solid 2 second hold. Talk to p…
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:00 AM
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If you got there first I don’t know why you would even say anything. Rushing over to beat out some old women for chairs at a bar is kinda a dick move. Natural/instinctual behavior is fairly broad. We live in a society that is built to protect its citizens and keep things running smoothly. For example, if you see an attractive 15 year old girl you can’t force her to have sex with you, even if you have a “natural/instinctual” urge. Rude and amoral would be an understatement. You could potentially …
/r/askTRP02/06/18 03:47 AM
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You can’t just toss Lebron’s name out there willy nilly. Lebron was born with nothing to a single team mom in a shitty part of Ohio. He put his heart and soul into basketball and was blessed with the physical genes to become the best player on the planet. He married his high school sweet heart and had kids young. He is the face of the NBA and one of the most recognizable athletes in the world. He is also on track to becoming a billionaire. Marrying young and having kids early is generally a not …
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:35 AM
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Your foundation is rock solid. You are a tall athletic basketball guy who is a little out of shape and shy around girls. We aren’t starting with a 5’5” 300 lb incel, you have a nice clay to mold. Here is the plan: Lift 3-4 times a week and eat healthy. At 6’4”, not obese, and not freakshow ugly, you should be able to draw in HB6’s and HB7’s easily. Talk to as many people as you can. BE WEIRD ABOUT IT. What is weird to you is likely a normal small talk conversation. Someone walks in same elevator…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:24 AM
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There are relative levels of promiscuity. Just because she screwed a couple guys within an hour of meeting them doesn’t mean she’d do that with anyone. Also a difference between going back to a guy’s place after a party or bar vs after a coffee. Also, after you’ve gone on a date or two and smashed, you can just invite them directly over and skip the dates. You aren’t obligated to eat or do something with them before hooking up - in fact, they might like if you cut the bullshit.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:27 AM
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I think the general recommended path out of this is: Don’t pay for them on dates (at the very least not second date onward) Don’t buy them gifts Tell them not to expect monogamy from you Have sex and go on dates with them and whoever else you want They are now plates
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:59 AM
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First off you need some background knowledge. Sit down and research for a solid 8+ hours the following terms: Nutrition Protein Dirty bulk Clean bulk Cutting Caloric Deficit Caloric Surplus Bench Deadlift Squats 5x5 Now let’s do someone background about your question. You want to “bulk up” from 5’9 138 lbs. How does one do that? You should be lifting at least 3 times a week and eating your bodyweight in grams of protein every day. You also should be eating a ~500 caloric surplus on training days…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 05:50 AM
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People don’t realize how dead end computer science jobs really are. Yes, you initially can easily find work and make good money, but it is generally pretty monotonous work with long hours. You also become fairly obsolete after 10-15 years as the technology and softwares advance.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 03:42 AM
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Is she not attractive or are you just feeling less attracted? You could always try to spice up sex before just breaking it off.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 01:21 AM
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“I want to get to know this girl” Do you just want to be a beta orbiter? Are you trying to meet up? Do you want to smash? What is your goal here?
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:32 AM
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No context given Have you been on one date? three dates? five dates? Hint: If it is less than five, you should’ve shut her down. Have you banged once? Ten+ times? If it is less than ten, you should’ve shut her down. Have you been “seeing each other” for a week? Four weeks? Eight weeks? If it is less than eight, you should’ve shut her down. She likes you if she is screwing you and telling all her friends she is seeing you. She likely had a prior obligation or didn’t want to go on a canoe trip - I…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:27 AM
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What did you start out as? Most people are able to add on 30-50 lbs on their bench, squat, and deadlift every year if training properly. You might need to shake things up and try different programs. It is likely you aren’t eating enough
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:47 PM
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The rating system doesn’t work well on men. It is why we can improve (or decline) in SMV fairly rapidly. Example: (Lower SMV) Shy 21 year old man, bad haircut, 3rd year of college, been lifting for a year... 2 years later... (Higher SMV) Outgoing 23 year old man, fashionable, good job, been lifting 3 years It also changes drastically depending on the situation and from woman to woman. Example: Brad is 5’10” and in good shape. He stutters on his opening to a 5’8” HB7, she turns him down, “only lo…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:53 PM
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u/vasiliyzaitzev
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:39 AM
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Depends on a lot of factors How old is she? How old are you? Are you considering marriage and kids? etc Your n count definition by including all sexual acts is probably gonna increase n count by a factor of 2 to 10 depending on the person. In today’s age, there are a few kinds of women with single digit n counts by their mid twenties. Women who are grotesquely unnattractive and/or morbidly obese and/or have some serious disfigurement. Women who have serious anxiety problems and/or crippling shyn…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:13 AM
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lmao this guy made eggs sound as dangerous hand grenades humans are about one step removed from goats in terms of all the random shit we can eat I would try to limit my fried foods, bacon, and sausage gobbling, but eggs are great nutritionally, including the cholesterol. Unless you are like 70 years old with high levels of cholesterol there is literally nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:41 AM
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“Don’t worry I’m tired,” and proceed as if you had bust normally. It is like free dread game and nobody did anything wrong.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:50 AM
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I think this relationship is busted, and you hopefully you dodge this bullet. She does not see it as wasting your evening, because she doesn’t view you as the prize. She is a princess, and it is your honor to be graced by her presence. I’d say you are in her frame, but it really seems like you are in the frame of the sister who is 12 years younger than you. When people start speaking in another language in front of you, that is a good time to excuse yourself and leave. I wouldn’t hang out with y…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:15 PM
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You’d be hard pressed to find a college aged woman (or any woman in her twenties) who doesn’t drink or smoke something. Drinking in moderation is my limit for an LTR, but I also don’t smoke. I wouldn’t consider even plating anyone who uses hard drugs because of the risk of sexual diseases, especially with needle users.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:02 AM
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This is absolutely wrong. Just because guys are bigger, faster, and stronger than you doesn’t mean they are on gear. It doesn’t accomplish anything to slander pros to make up for your own physical shortcomings.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 05:24 AM
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“I take steroids and my organs are doing well now, checkmate doctor” You don’t instantaneously die, but you will question if that 2% body fat difference was worth it when your liver fails at 45 and your heart fails at 52.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 03:22 AM
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You are hopelessly dumb if you think almost every major athlete uses steroids. Almost nobody in today’s NBA, MLB, or NFL uses steroids. You see a couple people each year get caught and subsequently banned. Why are steroids illegal? It isn’t just because the advantage is unfair; it is because it destroys your body internally. Acne, liver damage, heart hypertrophy, arrhythmias, palpitations, and sudden cardiac death are all on the table. There is a reason you see bodybuilders and WWE stars die you…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 03:14 AM
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Haven’t seen any cons Just wait until your organs start to fail before you hit retirement... There is a reason most bodybuilders and WWE stars die young
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 03:07 AM
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Please read the sidebar, but it isn’t particularly hard to tell. Generally hard-working, above average looks, above average athleticism, above average intelligence, above average height. Getting into the top 20% of men isn’t really a feat. Hundreds of millions of men are in “the top 20%” If you are short, stupid, fat, poor and ugly, in the 5th percentile of men, then you can only overcome that through sheer will and hard work. If you lose fat, gain muscle, and lift constantly within 6 years your…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 10:41 PM
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I like the first option minus “babe, I know you are working hard and busy so”
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:37 PM
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Sounds like you aren’t mainting frame well. Shit tests happen, learn how to handle them. Brush up on the sidebar, but I suggest a dose of “amused mastery” and “agree and amplify.” On not following through, I would prescribe some “DGAF” attitude. She said she was going to cook an elaborate dinner three days in advance but cancels an hour before? No problem! Go out with your buddies to Hooters. She is going to be a half hour late to lunch! Don’t worry about it, go pickup something with your cowork…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:57 AM
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Ball is in her court. You reach, she’ll teach. Sit back and don’t text her. See what she does. If wednesday comes and goes and she hasnt texted you, then so be it. Don’t initiate. If she is interested she will profusely apologize. Dominate her in the bedroom after and everything should go smoothly from then on. For reference, grad school can be hard and overwhelming. I would never suggest putting a woman over your education, it isn’t unreasonable for her to not put a man over hers.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:27 AM
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Depends on what she is doing and how long the LTR has lasted. It is hard to go backwards and punish after she has been promoted. It is much easier to regulate behavior along the way and treat her better through a reward-based system. The redpill gets harder to implement after each “promotion” and why married red pill is like playing on Veteran mode. But yeah you have to give context on what behavior you are attempting to correct.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:21 AM
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You get to sit around watch every sporting event you want on TV. You can relax and get as rock hard as you are able to get during bath time. You play bingo and maybe mahjong. It is better than being dead. It gets sad and lonely as you age, eventually all your friends and siblings die off and you can’t even have high school reunions because not enough people are left. Most old people live through their kids, grandkids, and great grandkids. It is pretty rewarding to see that you will live on throu…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:22 AM
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Literally everyone already knows face matters. TRP doesn’t say “just be confident.” It is about self-improvement. If any ugly fat dude that doesn’t lift walks up to a model and stutters asking for her number, he is almost certainly going to be rejected. If an ugly but well groomed and absolutely shredded fella walks up and asks for her number like he is adding her to his harem of 50 other exotic babes, he has a much better chance. He has an even better than some handsome billy betas, because the…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 04:06 AM
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Having a perfectly symmetric face, chiseled jawline, dreamboat eyes and a nose of the gods would be cool, but... if you don’t got it you don’t got it. SMV is more about just looks though. Example: An ugly fat slob dude is a 1/10. An ugly fat dude with good hair, good hygeine, and good style is a 3/10. An ugly dude with good etc is a 4/10. An ugly fit dude with good etc is a 6/10. An ugly shredded dude with good etc and the confidence of Zeus himself is an 8/10. An absolutely shredded, father of …
/r/askTRP21/04/18 03:36 AM
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Not a meme. Stretch before and after every workout. Before exercising I usually warmup, do dynamic stretching, static stretching, and then start. After exercising doing some static stretching and rolling out with a foam roller is very helpful. If you don’t stretch actively you can end up with mobility deficits and more severe issues. Most back and shoulder injuries can be avoided with solid stretching and warmup routines along with proper form.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:19 AM
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AWALT Billions of people of the planet and billions of them are women. Red Pill theory is probably one of the most accurate and pervasive theories on how society works, but even if it is 99% accurate, that means a few million people might not adhere to the program. That being said, the worst part of AWALT is you don’t know until you know. In other words, she might be amazing... ...until 5 years from now when she develops depression and gains 50 pounds... ...until she goes off birth control witho…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:48 PM
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Lotta things to pick apart in this post. If you are 22 years old aren’t you a senior in college, with like a month left before graduation? Little late to be thinking about med school unless you plan on taking another 2-3 years of courses (chemistry, physics, organic chem, biology, psychology, etc). If you aren’t a senior in college, you should know you don’t just “get in” to med school. You need stellar grades, taken certain courses, and acheive and a high mcat score. Nobody just “starts a busin…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:31 AM
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Watch xXx with Vin Diesel
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:28 AM
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This is why the plate theory exists. You vet women over months. You date them, you test your sexual compatability, and you see what she is like. If you deem her a high value woman and she is seeking to upgrade the relationship, you can promote her to an LTR after months of already interacting with her. The mental, emotional, and personal disorders only come out after months if not years of interaction. 3-4 years seems like a long time, but is it? Most issues in marriage happen in the first year …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:31 AM
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Wrap it up every single time. I think a lot of TRP chooses to ignore that condoms don’t protect against all STD’s. Most STD’s can be spread through oral sex and skin-skin contact. Get tested annually. For people who go through 10+ partners a year, I would suggest getting tested more often than that. On a bro-level, don’t bang chicks who you know have ridiculous n-counts. If she doesn’t ask you about a condom when you are about to have sex, she didn’t ask the last 20 guys either On the bright sid…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:09 AM
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This post is over the top, but I’m going to try to be reasonable in my response. Asian men tend to have smaller bodies than white or black men. If the average white man is 5’10” and the average asian man is 5’7”, there is still a lot of overlap in height. If the average white dick is 5.5 in and the average asian dick is 4.5 in, there is still a lot of overlap in dick size. Asian women are similarly smaller on average than their counterparts of other races. They are a smaller sized racial group i…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:54 PM
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I would never consider driving three hours to watch a stranger’s dog. I would also wouldn’t consider driving over an hour to get laid with someone I met online.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:59 PM
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@EC’s or people that know, can you get points on asktrp or only on the main sub?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:00 AM
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Being at someone’s big event when not a lot of other people show up is HUGE. Imagine setting up a huge event, you have a speaker, food, etc, and estimate 100 people will show up. Well when only your mom and some weird old guy shows up, it is amazing to have someone else attend your function. It is the closest thing most people get to a life debt.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 03:25 PM
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Not your circus not your monkey He will find his own path. You can only change yourself Getting schooled by his younger brother will probably only cause him to resent you
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:25 AM
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Colorado School of Mines Many Engineering/STEM heavy colleges MIT, Caltech essentially artificially below 60%
/r/askTRP03/04/18 12:11 PM
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Go to college for the education. There will be women at all of them. You can look on gender ratios online, basically avoid anything over 60% men if you are worried about girls. US news puts out lots of rankings and whatever, but make sure to look at school’s reputation for the major you want to do (and if they actually have that major). If you aren’t sure what you want to do, look for schools with a wide range of respected majors, especially in what you might be interested in.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:07 AM
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Pre-screening: Black women are more likely to have stds. Women who are bisexual/queer are more likely to have stds. Women who have sex with men who are bisexual/queer are more likely to have stds. Screening: If they give no shit tests and you feel it was too easy getting them back to your place, you weren’t a pro. They just go back with anyone. Le Final Test: The ol’ see who reaches for the condom first trick. If she wants you to put it in raw or doesn’t ask about a condom, that is a red flag. A…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:13 AM
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Two isn’t a big enough sample size. You said yourself that one was going through a breakup and one had a bf. That definitely diminishes odds of success. If you have approach 30 girls over the next month and they all flake on you, then come back here and ask about a problem.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:49 PM
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They want strong alpha men to be romantic towards them. Think Arnold Schwarzenegger feeding them chocolates, not Tim from accounting handing them a weird handwritten love poem. Women do enjoy cuddles and lovey-dovey activities. They might be with BP men after they’ve ridden the CC. Beta traits aren’t entirely bad.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:10 AM
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lol what I wouldn’t screw anyone I thought was homeless. It is such a bizarre story I almost feel like it could be an undercover cop posing as a prostitute It is just weird. Just go to a bar or get tinder.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:06 AM
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Advantageous how? If she is on the pill, she isn’t ovulating and it really shouldn’t matter if you are trying to gauge her hormones/sexuality. If she is off the pill, don’t try to play the “I don’t have to pull out because it is X day” game. Are you trying to avoid period sex? I don’t know why tracking would have much use, and I wouldn’t go beyond keeping mental note of “it has been 4 weeks, she is probably going to have her period again soon.”
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:09 AM
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Sounds like you are on the right path to becoming redpilled. The anxiety and fear will go away with practice. The more girls you approach, the easier it will become. Making eye contact will be natural, talking, dancing, and escalating will become 2nd nature. Keep doing what you are doing OP, but know you have a long path ahead.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:29 AM
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You have answered your own questions about her. She isn’t interested. Hopefully this thread serves as your closure
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:52 AM
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You aren’t dating her. You can’t be exclusively having sex with her if you aren’t even having sex with her. You can stay her friend, but you don’t need her permission to go out and get with other girls. She isn’t entitled to know about your behavior. Again, you have lost frame. Don’t call her. Just play it like nothing even happened, but withdraw physical contact. You can’t just push, push, push with no pull. See if she initiates.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:33 AM
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“Body count of 2” Multiply x3 so probably 6. She has had SEX with MULTIPLE men but will not even KISS you on the lips. This doesn’t include all the DICK she sucked (also not yours). Have you not listened to the news in the last 3 years? ANY physical contact she deems nonconsensual can at a minimum RUIN your career. Lawsuits and prison sentences are IN THE PICTURE. You don’t need closure, because you are a MAN. Read the ENTIRE sidebar, because you obviously HAVE NOT.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:21 AM
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“We don’t have sex” You are friends “She is sick of fake guys who want her for sex” She is sore from all that dick (that isn’t yours) “I kiss her on the cheek” Like a gay guy friend “She stays overnight and we spoon” Face cringes into oblivion “It just seems like she’s merely consenting” Nothing beats the sweet smell of sexual assault charges “She only wants me so” She doesn’t even want you “Her own dad is basically unloving” Daddy issues! Didn’t think this could get better “I’m a mess” You have…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:56 AM
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Sally has an n count of 3. She has been in 3 long term stable relationships before she met you that ended amicably. Jane has an n count of 20. She got around the block in college and has been in and out of a few relationships. Half her sexual experiences consist of one night stands and hook ups with guys she doesn’t know or barely knows. Rebecca has an n count of 150. She lost her virginity at 14 and has cheated in every relationship she has been in. She has had threesomes, orgies, one night sta…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:44 PM
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As a top 5% male, if I found an intelligent, hard-working top 5% female with conservative background who devoted herself to me unconditionally you can bet your bottom dollar I’d settle down. Issue is we are talking maybe 1000 women in the USA that fit that description, and most of them are currently in relationships.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:16 AM
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Read the entire sidebar of r/theredpill 2a. I can’t say how many guys your woman has banged. Is it 10? Maybe. Is it 30? Maybe? Is it 100? Maybe. Is it less than 5? No. 2b. You might have discovered a small pocket of dudes she happened to get with in college. Maybe she got with 4 guys over 4 years, which isn’t out of the norm for college women. 2c. She might have been passed around 30 guys. Sometimes shy girls, wallflowers and the like are the most promiscous females. n count isn’t the end all be…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:10 AM
1

feminism isn’t about equality; it is about power. liberalism is a religion for the non-religious.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:37 AM
1

“do guys usually fall for that?” I never bring up the fact that other men exist in the world unless I’m just talking about my friends. I feel that talking about other guys reminds her that she has options, and you don’t want to encourage that. I also don’t think it is a good tactic to do more than a single call on the bullshit. Nagging and arguing over text is never good and 9/10 times looks butthurt or desperate. You ask her to do something, she makes excuse. You either soft next or just barely…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:11 PM
1

This is ridiculous. If they don’t swipe on you on tinder, it is WEIRD to message them via instagram. Maybe some very high SMV guys convert, but the vast majority of people who do this look very weird and desperate. Just message the actual girls you match with on tinder.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 09:08 PM
1

Don’t dm girls on instagram if they aren’t even following you back.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 07:52 PM
1

Wow man, read some of your stuff and it is pretty awesome. I have a pretty hairy ass tbh, should I do something about that or is ass eatin ass eatin and just not worry at all?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:42 AM
1

The psychology of it can be so frustrating. If she said she wanted it and it was meh, I’d be over it. I know it probably won’t be great and it probably will be gross but knowing it is just out of reach makes me want it more than any other factor haha.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:21 AM
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Chill. Delete your tinder and reinstall it. Edit your profile around maybe. Download bumble, because might as well. Go to bars. Pickup girls at bars. Get male friends. Do social things with male friends so you are going out. Get a girls number while you are out. Sometimes dry spells happen. If they didn’t, there wouldn’t be the concept of dry spells. Stay strong and carry on.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:05 AM
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Children do best with both a mother and a father active in their lives. A single married household is generally the prototypical structure best for that. Don’t go out seeking multiple kids with multiple women - it is usually a bad idea and more of an accident or option C.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:44 PM
1

Tinder is what woke me up to the red pill. I have a friend who is a model/athlete, and it is PITIFUL how women throw themselves at him. Girls that are 8’s and 9’s who wouldn’t even look at average SMV guys send him the most cringey lines. He swipes on maybe 1 in 10 girls and matches on half, nothing less than an HB8. He also gets 2-3 superlikes a day. I’m high SMV myself but not in his level. A few of our matches overlapped, but girls I assumed must be bots or inactive because they never respond…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:57 AM
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Not being able to get it up with a girl on the first time isn’t uncommon. There is a cycle of anxiety that usually causes this: anxiety about boner -> lack of boner -> increasing anxiety about boner -> even less boner If you have been jerking off watching A LOT of porn over YEARS two weeks isn’t going to make a very significant difference. Some of nofap is voodoo bro-science, but there is a lot of truth about how you are used to being aroused in a certain state, with constant visual stimulation,…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:43 PM
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hahahahahahahahahaha
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:49 AM
1

If you have a career or an online dating profile could be shared with people you know like in this example, I would suggest NOT putting anything raunchy on there. No shirtless selfies, no PG-13 lines in the bio. You can put something outdoorsy or even you at the beach, but don’t put anything you wouldn’t post on facebook or want your family to see. Maybe you get less swipes without your sexy ab pics, but you won’t have to worry if someone you know finds your profile.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 03:09 AM
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Yes and No. Day to day they aren’t getting enough. It is why some 20 year old HB5’s have n counts in the 20’s+. If you party, go out to bars regularly and thirst for the D, then odds are around 1am some guy will approach them. They are probably getting more than you think, but they aren’t getting it regularly or in an ideal way. That shy wallflower you assume must be a virgin? Lost it at 16 and has an n count of 15. AWALT.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:33 PM
1

Ok so you don’t have a question. You just want to abuse this drug to the max regardless of the side effects. It sounds like you already have some “addiction concerns.”
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:25 PM
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Have you told your doctor about this medication? Maybe it is working wonders, maybe you have some wild placebo effect going on. Either way I’d probably have a goal of eventually trying to wean myself off of it if possible.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:16 PM
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It is hard. You just gotta know it is really hard. Most kids are born out of wedlock these days and most marriages fail. These are the facts. You would have to find someone without red flags. Mental problems, suicide attempts, massive n count, prostitution, previous marriages, kids already, avid feminism, drug addiction and alcohol abuse are all no-no’s. Even if you take these candidates out at least half remaining are still not LTR worthy. It is just hard to find a woman between 21-28 years old…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:08 AM
1

If you are only lifting twice a week you should be more than fine. If you were lifting 4 days a week you should be fine. If you said you were lifting 6 days a week and going to do squats 3 days a week I’d say don’t do that.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 11:08 PM
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Lots of text, but pretty clear you have oneitis. She is likely getting nasty with multiple guys and you are dancing around in her frame. Text only for logistics with her, if she doesn’t answer then soft next.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 04:07 AM
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If yall meet on tinder and go back to your place, they want to smash. Keep that in mind. They might shit test you a bit, but you shouldn’t need more than a push-pull-push.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 10:19 PM
1

F close is notoriously difficult if not near-impossible on a first date unless yall met in like a bar or tinder. Most success stories you hear are probably this or the girl would literally get with anyone. If you hold out for one more date your odds are exponentially better.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:43 PM
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Totally understandable. I have had X, so I should be able to get X. I have had Y, so I should be able to get Y. I have had Z, so I should be able to get Z. Issue is you can’t get X, Y, and Z. Unicorns don’t exist, and people aren’t perfect. I totally get the “I’ve dated 8.9’s, so my standard should be 9.” Sometimes instead of chasing a crazy 9, it is better to “settle” for an 8.8 that is crazy about you.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 05:10 PM
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There is 7 days in a week, so you can use it gym-wise as a “rest” day. Nice to get extra cash, and maybe you can practice some scheduling in getting ahead on hw monday/tuesday. Most high schoolers probably spending that time playing fortnite.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:45 PM
0

this plate is gonna spin fast and fall hard, but it can be fun while it lasts
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:38 AM
1

Definitely over-investing. Texting for logistics is sometimes overblown, but it is emphasized because for a lot of guys if they don’t take a hard-line stance this sort of stuff happens. You are too-present in her life and trying to do too much too soon. She is a casual hookup/plate. She knows this and accepted it, so you are promoting her too fast. There is complete absence of any dread game here and you lose any sense of push-pull after date 2. Even if you are super excited about her, you need …
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:35 AM
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You can meet women in class and get their number. Meals are often frowned upon at trp, but if I was going to eat dinner from 6:30-7:15pm, I could invite a girl to eat with me and spend just an extra 10 minutes dating than I would have otherwise. You can do study dates too. Tinder seems lazy but really is about the most effective way for easy lays if you are busy.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 03:38 AM
1

Alright put the roids away forever. Decently muscular means what exactly? If you can’t bench 300+ and squat 400+ at that height and weight, then you have a lot of fat to lose. I’d do a cut and see what happens. Probably can get you down around 220-225 before trying to bulk up.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:53 AM
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Probably not said, “I think you’re attractive.” She likely just had a bf or wasn’t interested.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:29 AM
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Basically the thought process is: I have bf. I like having bf. Susan wants bf. If I don’t keep Susan in check, Susan will take bf. I keep in Susan in check, I keep bf. If you want more hypergamy in example maybe: I have bf. I like having bf. Susan wants bf. If I don’t keep Susan in check, Susan will take bf. I keep Susan in check, I keep bf. I also like Chad. I sleep with Chad bc he looks good. Chad will not make me gf because he has options, so I stick with bf while also sleeping with Chad. I w…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:05 AM
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This makes more sense at 12 years old than 19. Do whatever you like more, but keep in mind that lifting probably won’t do anything to your height. Maybe you go from 5’9” to 5’9.5” lifting and 5’9” to 5’9.75” swimming but you aren’t going to be 6’3” either way. If you lift for 3 years you will have put on 20+ pounds of muscle. If you swim for 3 years and then eat badly for 3 months nobody will notice you did any fitness.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:09 PM
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One of the bigges red flags I have ever seen. She should have said “got my period” or “tests were negative.” This should have been so easy and relatively minor, but now you CANNOT procede further in a serious relationship with her. Just ask yourself: Q: What would she do if you both were trying to have kids and weren’t conceiving right away? A: You would be cucked and not find out for years. Her logic is her body and what comes out is not your business. Q: What would she do if she had second tho…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 08:22 PM
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“we met at a bar” etc you don’t have to say every detail
/r/askTRP18/02/18 08:26 AM
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Fightingbear, please read the sidebar. If you read the entire thing, I guarantee you will find what you are looking for. The tldr you want is that the only way to talk to hot women is... by talking to them! You will get less nervous with more practice. By lifting and improving yourself you will see more success in your interactions with them. With enough self-improvement and self-confidence, one day you might even take one home with you.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 04:48 PM
1

Magnesium is lowkey a big help
/r/askTRP17/02/18 03:55 AM
1

There is a girl you know. You barely know her. You haven’t even made physical contact with her. She makes you nervous. Why? Because you have put her on a pedastal, this one woman who you really don’t know is being though of as more than an average, or possibly below average human being. You should introduce yourself, get her number, and ask her on a date. If she goes, escalate from there. If she says no, then you move on to the next girl. If you were in contact/plating several girls you wouldn’t…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 03:44 AM
1

Ahh this is called “oneitis.” The cure for this is known as “sidebar.”
/r/askTRP17/02/18 02:49 AM
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leave the seat up
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:56 AM
1

Probably better to ask and get it right then not ask and have a bad time. I wouldn’t ask unless/until what you are doing is clearly not working.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:33 PM
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Imagine a device that made you a 7 that you used every single day, but if you don’t use it you were a 4. It is a day you aren’t using that device, so would you want to try to A. Draw attention to yourself B. Not draw attention to yourself
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:22 AM
1

...you sound like the best roommate ever...
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:39 PM
2

If you have a hobby that you are passionate and confident about then people are more likely to respect you for it. If you act embarrased about it or unsure how people will perceive it people will pick up on the shame cue. Singing is a good example. If you are in a choir group and like it, own it. Don’t think about how people might perceive it as feminine etc. Instead women might imagine you singing to them etc.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:49 AM
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Even if you love philosphy, you have to treat it as a hobby. Employers looks at it and might say “that’s neat,” but that’s about it, regardless as a major or minor. If you minored in compsci, that is a little different story.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:57 PM
1

“What did I do wrong” almost always oneitis
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:46 PM
1

honestly just urban dic butthurt lol. many on this sub harbor some bitterness and anger towards women after years of rejection, betrayal, and societal unfairness
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:59 PM
1

Apply: Improving yourself. Lifting. Working hard in school. Avoiding drugs/alcohol. Not putting women on a pedestal. Not overinvesting in women. Ignore: Butthurt mentality towards women, lots of advice on how to game women (at least for now).
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:54 PM
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Sometimes this attitude helps: Nobody cares The server at chipotle doesn’t care if you want brown rice or white rice. They don’t care what you look like, if you speak eloquently, or stutter. They are just trying to make some money in a basic low-skill job. The cashier at McDonald’s doesn’t care if you get a large fries or a medium fries. The bagger at Walmart won’t care if you get paper or plastic. The girl behind you in line at Starbucks could not care less what your coffee order is, because sh…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 04:15 AM
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Everyone thinks it is the sex robots that is going to lead to society’s demise, because well... sex bots. I really think once ectogenesis (artifical womb) becomes viable everything is off the table. Almost any man with wealth would prefer to use them as opposed to tying themselves down with women, and most women would prefer to use them instead of giving birth themselves. As divorce rates skyrocket, feminism grips tighter, and the betafication of men keeps increasing marriage is becoming obsolet…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:54 AM
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Get over your oneitis! She isn’t a unicorn, and she has red flags all over! Girls like this don’t just drink and do drugs for fun, they are trying to fill deep emotional holes. Re-evaluate your relationship and remember, she isn’t yours, it is just your turn.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 10:33 PM
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At 15, you are all children. It is not bad to be exposed to TRP philosphy at your age, but the male-female dynamics at 15 vs 25 (around the avg age on this sub) are wildly different. My best advice for you right now is to try and be a good person and work hard in school. There are ideas on this sub involving alpha behavior etc that most grown men mishandle, let alone young teenagers. Your biggest tool for high school should be understanding oneitis. Don’t invest everything into one girl. In your…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 10:30 PM
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Yeah more or less like this: Me: “Hey this is X” Her: “Hey what’s up” Me: “Let’s meet up thursday night at Y for Z” Her: “Ahh I get out of W at 7, can we do a little later” Me: “Sure, see you at 9.” Her: “Great see you there :)” It is almost zero effort for a girl to type in her number so you can have a more permanent and reliable contact than tinder. If she doesn’t want to give you her number, she probably isn’t going to put in the effort to get dressed and go out on an actual date with you. Sh…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:59 AM
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Interacting with women requires you to think own your own, but some of us are slow learners: Example convo: Guy: Hey what’s up Gal: Nothing, you? Guy: J chilling, what are you looking for? Gal: Idk haha Guy: what’s your number? Gal: Number If you get: Example convo: Guy: Hey what’s up (no response ever) Then it is just gameover. You might not even get the number every time! But it works at a pretty high rate.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:32 PM
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Read what I wrote. Then re-read it. It doesn’t matter what she responds. “Idk” is a great response. “Not sure” is great. “Idk haha” is even better. It means she probably wants a hookup. “I’m not looking for hookups” is an okay response, and it does NOT mean she isn’t looking for hookups. If you read the sidebar you’d know this is nothing but a minor shit test. I DON’T go “ok” and say some corny joke, because I know that usually doesn’t work, hence why it isn’t in the formula. Also, notice I don’…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:12 PM
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It is really hit or miss and everything is relative. The “creepy” vs “cute” factor for the same messages is exponentially increased on tinder. Some girls like funny, some direct, some like to get to know you better through tinder first or send gifs, but I just posted this on another tinder question: “An easy formula: Hey what’s up What are you looking for? What’s your number? It usually doesn’t matter what she says she is looking for, but if she straight up says “a hookup” etc then just know to …
/r/askTRP10/02/18 08:31 PM
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An easy formula: Hey what’s up What are you looking for? What’s your number? It usually doesn’t matter what she says she is looking for, but if she straight up says “a hookup” etc then just know to never upgrade above a plate. If she responds “what are you looking for?” you can respond with “nothing serious (or something like that). What’s your number?”
/r/askTRP10/02/18 08:23 PM
5

Saturdays Are For The Boys 🍻
/r/askTRP10/02/18 04:31 PM
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From Wikihow on how to save a drowning person: “...Swim rescues should be used as a last resort... Dive in with an aid. Do not attempt a swimming rescue without a buoy on hand; a drowning victim's first reaction will be to climb on top of you, so you'll need a flotation device to keep both of you safe and perform the rescue effectively.” I wouldn’t get involved. He is a grown man and if he wants to stay with a woman who cheats on him it really is his own problem. It is usually not very effective…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 06:12 PM
1

I’ll entertain you a bit. TRP isn’t necessarily Democrat or Republican, although it is true most of its base probably leans conservative. I think the main political consensus would be that modern far-left political theory, governed by twisted feminist rhetoric, is detrimental to society, women and men included. Back to the kids question, most people that don’t want kids ARE NOT thinking of the environment first. They are scared of the responsibility, of the immediate and long-term consequences, …
/r/askTRP09/02/18 02:54 AM
1

What sub do you think you are in?
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:33 PM
1

So is the consensus on this I need to approach more or change an attitude/style of approach
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:17 PM
1

Nah 230
/r/askTRP08/02/18 07:14 PM
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“I don’t know what my plans are yet” = “No, and I don’t mean ‘I have dinner with my parents,’ or ‘I am sorry but I am going to my sister’s wedding,’ but I have literally nothing planned and would rather do nothing than do something with you. I have 6 other guys lined up who I’ll text if I want to do something, but you aren’t even at the back of that line.” If you don’t get a ‘sorry’ it is total gameover. If she doesn’t make the least effort to reschedule or send a paragraph explaining herself, i…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:53 AM
1

Fan of whey protein. Creatine and caffeine are pretty popular, but I try to avoid them. With any sort of chemical you put into your body, there are side effects.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 04:27 AM
1

I totally get it, but she may just want a friend though too... as an HB2 she could be just generally lonely. You being nice to her and letting her orbit you doesn’t have to be “cruel.” Also, being friendly with someone like that could reap massive benefits. She mentions how great you are to 20 people, if you come up in convo those people say “I heard monsieur was a great guy” and 100 people end up having a vague positive opinion of you with little effort. You seemed interested in how she could a…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:21 AM
1

Gotta disagree with your attitude and most comments here. If you treat her nice and entertain her conversations she could be of great benefit. She tells other people how great you are etc, people see you being nice to someone of such low SMV is like doing charity work, AND she is willing to share notes etc.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 03:37 AM
1

You didn’t mess up, sometimes things just don’t work out
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:06 AM
5

First date meeting - hug
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:05 AM
1

You have to do some research on accutane. The tldr on the research is that it does chemical things to your body so you won’t have acne, which is different from washing your face etc. You should make sure to wash your face 2-3 times a day, use salycic acid and benzoyl peroxide, and avoid touching your face and popping zits. That is all you can really do. Most people’s acne gets better after a couple years, so your main goal should be minimizing scars. It might never go away totally, but odds are …
/r/askTRP04/02/18 01:05 AM
1

I don’t want to say “your girlfriend wants to marry you, obtain citizenship, and dump you after wasting years of your life and takin as much money as possible,” but that is the most probable outcome of this situation. She literally told you both her sisters married their husbands ONLY because they were citizens. Missing the dad thing for 6 years is probably a yellow flag, but more due to the working to help his family/not being a citizen business than he just ran off. Issue is you have this coll…
/r/askTRP03/02/18 08:49 PM
1

If a beautiful 22 year old blonde bombshell approaches pre-lift billy beta at his first time in a bar with his fake ID, is he going to respond well and be able to game her properly? Two ton Tammy is the same way. Literally no idea what to do.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 11:26 PM
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Look up the laws (often known as Romeo and Juliet laws) for your state Do not ask her for lewd images or save any lewd images she may send you - that is most likely to get you in trouble as child porn Overall if I were you I would NOT pursue her. A 15 year old with an N count of 2 already is very high. An N count of 2 isn’t high if we are talking about a 20 year old, but for 15 it is ridiculous. She may have emotional issues beyond that of a normal 15 year old, and it is very dangerous waters yo…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 05:44 AM
2

This is horrible to do. She will likely say something to “let you down easy” like she is busy or there just wasn’t a connection. If not, she might say “you are boring.” This just isn’t helpful. Next case is she says something like “the sex was bad” (if you got there). The worst case scenario is she shows 20+ people, who you might even know, how she brutally rejected you, how she is out of your league, and how you begged her for a reason. Then she sends one of the above messages.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:35 AM
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If you haven’t met this girl multiple times and slept with her yet your value is approaching zero. Every girl is different, but all attractive girls (HB6+) has at least one hundred tinder matches. Hot girls (HB8+) have several hundred and swipe left more than half the time. I usually put odds of flaking at 75+%. Odds of flaking last minute even after she has already confirmed earlier she would come are at least 50%. Tinder first dates should be free or cost you less than $15, and be very close t…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:27 AM
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I think most people have had several dates that went far worse than this. Being alone in a restaurant waiting for the other person to show up sucks for everyone. You have literally nothing to do except think of if/when the other person is coming and what to say, and if you haven’t really met them before like in this case it is often hard to recognize them. Practice will help. Know it might take 5 of these kind of dates before you really nail it. You just gotta go in for the hug to your date no m…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 04:14 AM
1

I’d probably feel morally obligated to not involve myself with her. If you don’t, then set up a time and place. She’ll either meet up or be loyal to her bf. You’ll have to wait it out until she breaks up or tries to branch swing to you.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:52 AM
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Idk how tall Jose is, but let’s say he is 5’10”. Probably ~170 lbs in that pic then. That means you have a solid 3-4 years of lifting before you approach Jose-level. You have 5-8 years of lifting before you start really looking “big” or “ripped.” This is normal, lifting is hard. The most important part is that you are actively working out lifting weights 3+ times a week every week.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:39 AM
1

If you are talking to them always maintain eye contact. If you are looking at them from across the bar you can maintain like a second or two and then raise your eyebrows or do like a wiggly eye brow thing and see if they respond. Don’t just stare at girls you aren’t talking to for 15+ seconds.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:33 AM
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First off, be cool. The professor, who has spent his entire life on his research, is obviously going to be more familiar with it. Just because you are not secure with physics, biochemistry or whatever field he is in, it doesn’t mean you are dumb. Idk if the other undergrad guys started working with him before you, but clearly you are uncomfortable. Thinking you are bad or awkward at your tasks is probably a self-fulfilling thought process. The point of research is for you to develop your skills …
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:15 AM
1

Plates are plates. They last a few weeks, a few months max. Eventually either they will drop you, try to LTR you, or do something red-flaggish and you need to drop them.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:27 AM
1

Their words and actions say more about them than you. Work on self-esteem and improving yourself.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:23 AM
3

Don’t fight. Talking about how good you are at street fights sounds isn’t impressing anyone. Try to make friends with new people and don’t interact with these gossipers as much.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:21 AM
1

“can’t I’m busy” I do not like saying “sorry” and she isn’t entitled to an excuse. If you see her in person or she is insistent you can always say like “my friend needed help moving his couch” etc
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:11 AM
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Be cool, my dude. You seem anxious to be thinking of these scenarios, but “you look fine” is fine. You don’t want to validate her for eating poorly, not exercising etc but also don’t want to say “you are a fat pig”
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:07 AM
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The takeaway from this should be The friends might not be the best friends. Doesn’t mean they should be cut out of your life. It could mean A LOT to show up to someone’s party or event, especially if you know it won’t be “lit” or have lots of guests. If one person decided to show up instead of watching netflix you would view them as the ultimate friend and probably willing to do them a favor etc.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 03:28 AM
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It does not matter. I think showing off a car, especially a fancy car, demonstrates beta provider characteristics.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:29 PM
1

Working out is fantastic. Lifting is a long process, but you will start to notice your gains as the months go by, and 2-3 years from now you will look like a well-built guy. You also need to work on the social aspect. Anxiety often never really goes away, but you learn to control it and overcome it. Approach girls and start up conversations. Get some guy friends, hang out with them, and see what they do. Go to bars and parties together. Approach even more women. There are a lot of anxious shy gi…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:24 PM
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If they are online, you aren’t the first guy they’ve met online. If you find her attractive, you are likely one of a thousand prospects, many of which she has already tried out. Maybe try the gym? You could have some luck with an art, dancing, or cooking class. A majority of women are liberal or feminist. The others are often locked down already. Just because she is a sjw now doesn’t mean she’ll always be... you can also introduce people to reasonable ideas (after several meetups and gradually)
/r/askTRP24/01/18 11:33 PM
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Yes. Just do it. If they say no, it is over. If it works, awesome, that is exactly what you wanted.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:13 PM
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It seems there might be some confusion between a soft next and dread game. There are many different levels of initiating (or not initiating) contact. Hard next is removing her from social media, no messaging/calling again. My understanding with soft next is more you don’t reach out unless she demonstrates interest, and whatever “category” she was at she gets demoted, probably permanently. The idea with soft nexting is if there might be 20 girls you kinda like, but they all behave poorly or try t…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:12 AM
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Could be a lot of things. Might have a boyfriend and draws line for cheating at kissing. She might have liked the playful flirting and touching but “didn’t want to take it too far,” especially around other people. If SO hears about her interactions, it is easier to brush off a guy being handsy than evidence of making out. Did you try to isolate her or escalate further? Or get her number to set up a hangout/date away from work people?
/r/askTRP21/01/18 10:10 PM
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It will probably go badly, but that is okay. Best thing you can do is try to relax and have fun.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 05:10 PM
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6 months ago I might have given a different answer, but with everything that has happened in the news and #timesup I wouldn’t go near anyone from your workplace. She has established you as a friend. If you so much as try to escalate you could be up for harassment.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 05:08 PM
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this is the correct response
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:46 PM
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Some might say “AWALT, sidebar,” but it makes sense that women would like a guy that makes a lot of money, is good looking, and is a sexual veteran. It makes sense that beautiful model women and mega-millionaire heiresses limit their pool of dating to wealthy handsome men. Are some more conceited or vain than others? Yes. The redpill teaches there are no such things as unicorns, but just because women usually prefer rich hot guys doesn’t make them evil. Main thing you can do is tone down your ow…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:13 PM
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Tinder dating is tricky business. It is like dating, but most women on there are open to hook up, even if they aren’t actively looking to hook up. The two most common responses are “I’m looking to date/relationship,” or “I don’t know what I’m looking for,” but you should know many or most people on tinder are looking for something sexual fast. There are women on tinder looking for genuine connections and might develop a sexual relationship after a few dates, but from your post either the girls y…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:58 PM
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This is so bad I want to hope it is just trolling. You cannot ever talk to her again if you respect yourself as a human. You can send a single text, two sentences max, to tell her it is over. You have to hard next and read the entire sidebar twice over. Read a book, lift hard, be 100% at your job/schooling and move on. Even if you want to get back with her, you must force yourself not to. Your frame is completely embedded within her own at this point and unless you cleanly wrench it back things …
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:28 PM
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sidebar
/r/askTRP13/01/18 01:59 AM
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Sounds good man! You have made tremendous progress, keep at it!
/r/askTRP12/01/18 08:47 PM
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It really is astounding how many snaps some girls get. You could always check her snap score. If it is over 50k gameover dude. She might have 20 streaks with other guys that all have priority over you. So deep in orbit scientist are debating whether or not you are a planet or dwarf planet.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:26 PM
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She says n count of 8 which likely means n count of 16. If she has been sexually active since 18 that is about 4 new guys a year. More than average, but not uncommon by any means for college girls. Drunkenly cheating on last bf means cheating on last bf. You don’t know if she cheated on the one before that too, etc. If you look at her n count and prior cheating history you will likely have about 3-5 months of a relationship before she cheats on you or breaks up with you. Plating best option.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:16 PM
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At 6’5” 265 if you aren’t already moving 3 plates bench, 4 plates squats, 5+ plates deadlift it means you have a lot of fat to lose. Lifting is great, but you probably want to start off with a cut and be at a caloric deficit. Easiest way to a 6 pack is not to have fat in the way. It is up to you to choose how you want your body to look, but my guess is you have up to 20 pounds to lose before you exit “chubby,” and another 15 or so before becoming “lean.” You should be lifting and exercising duri…
/r/askTRP12/01/18 03:58 PM
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