QuantumofRomance Archive

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7	Sex after divorce Advice applies to men too. Practice flirting. Try it at the coffee shop, grocery store, etc. it doesn’t have to go anywhere. Just make a lighthearted comment, smile, and eye contact. Don’t decide if you are attracted first. This is practice and also just fun. If you are attracted to the other person and they reply. Just keep the conversation going. Doesn’t matter with what. Ideally throw in a compliment. If it feels right throw in a light touch (eg upper arm squeeze). Don’t be shy about asking t…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/24 04:05 PM
2	Why is Dating Supposed to be a Meritocracy? I think people confuse “everyone deserves love and affection” (true) with “if I’m a good person I should get dates” (false). Being good is just a baseline qualifacation for most people. I assume people are good. I want to date people who are also funny, interesting, smart, and attractive. Bonus points if they have more money than me (hasn’t happened yes, but hope springs eternal)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 02:02 PM