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I'll have to look for that later if I have enough time, but some studies have also shown that women are more prone to reproducing the vocabulary of the hegemonic culture of the society they live in, or something along these lines. I don't have that one saved, so I'd be incredibly grateful if someone could help me find the source of that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:07 PM
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Mate-choice copying, preselection, and the marketing of diamonds are some other easy examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:57 PM
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Asch conformity experiments and marketability studies say otherwise. I might get some studies examples and studies later when I get off work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:40 PM
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Anecdotal crap on my part, but damn, my sisters are really almost like this. They're the main reason I avoid chatting with women I don't meet through my friends or have a formal reason to, except for old women, despite it using to be absolutely normal to chat with whatever stranger on public spaces around where I live untill about 6 or so years ago. It's quite interesting to say the least to go out with my sisters and see them interpret random stuff in the most maleficent ways, such as merchants…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:48 PM
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If Mom was stay at home, forget it. Redditors' bubble is a fantasy world based on the worst of 1950s ads and this site's echo chamber. My mother is a STHM and my older siblings — including the male — had in total more responsibility raising me than my mother, part of the housework ends up being delegated to the children (including males) in the majority of such households. And that I wouldn't know about other families, but now that my father is old and doesn't work as much, he too helps with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:11 PM
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Refer to https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13r19cc/commentary_by_divorce_lawyer_reasons_for_divorce/jlntaxp/?context=3 What "you" are you talking about? The only common houseworking skill I don't have and I'm useless at is plumbing. Been integrally responsible for the cooking, electricitywork since I was a teenager. I even used to be paid by my older sis to clean her room and keep it organized, and by my mother to clean the bathrooms and do the gardening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:25 PM
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Redditors' reading skills are truly blessed. You are either young Yes, my comment already implies I'm young; Go for crappy women Not talking about my own experiences here, just what I see; Or the women Don telll you about it Reffer to: The only instances I see them consider it is when they're complaining about their partners The issue is that people on Reddit keep going back and forth conflating relationship issues and attributing it to the single guy's issues too, and I've seen this particular …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:01 PM
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I'm not making a point that you shouldn't learn housekeeping. They're definitely important skills, and I'm quite good at it tbh. It's just that realistically, it really isn't typically anywhere near the forefront of women's mind when they pick their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:42 PM
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Never seen a woman my age or under vet for guys for housemaking skill and I doubt older women are much different lol. The only instances I see them consider it is when they're complaining about their partners or claiming that men are bitching about women vetting it on Reddit, but none of my male friends who do have housemaking skills (some have to solely take care of elders in their family) are doing better than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:10 AM
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His value increases and the woman's value decreases. But why? Preselection I suppose / Low sociosexuality Besides that, I suppose that in part what leads to the adoption of this double standard is the social double standard that comes with male and female virginity. Growing up you'll likely see virgin guys being mocked in some social circles, in the media, wherever, it usually is accompanied with a negative connotation from progressives to conservatives to different degrees from the mouths men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:19 AM
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Nope, just google "light weight baby".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:37 AM
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True, both "anti-racists" and "anti-patriarchy theorists" are quick to resort to such unfounded claims when convenient. "We must do X lest we become like those brown rapists over there". This rhethoric is so insidious that sometimes it evens ends up seeping into the conscious of our own nations and schooling systems. Albeit I believe it to be diminishing nowadays, I'm not sure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:32 AM
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Idk. You would have to ask women. Women here are constantly asking men to condemn other men for being promiscuous. And it's like, uhh... you're the ones choosing whether or not to date men, so that's for you to decide. That's how it works. Men cannot influence each other's behavior for you--at least not to the extent that you can. That's so on point, I've been thinking about making a post about it. It's so utterly senseless in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:45 PM
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I would if it weren't CONSIDERED predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:59 AM
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I actually considered dating a fat girl I knew in HS, but most women I know consider it predatory, so eh — I can find dozens of posts with unanimous analogous opinions if I search.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:18 PM
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Ctrl+F "Feel" Can you tell a funny pattern downplaying objective things?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:32 PM
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LMFAO at neoliberal westoids itt daring to dictate what is or isn't left based on their carrot on a stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:15 AM
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Pretty sure the biggest risk is actually having to pay child support to a child you don't care about, of a woman you didn't even marry. Which may or may not be accompanied with having zero rights. This is the case in my country, and it may be the case of most reading this. Many don't know any better, so you better read the laws of your jurisdiction before making any stupid decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:38 PM
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Ok. So you agree that men don't usually conduct the same in regards to approaches, unlike previously stated, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:52 AM
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Finding someone creepy just because I'm unattracted to? Not really. The only instances I've felt creeped out by women were two instances of older women attempting to harass me as a child. Other than that, no. I've been hit on twice by women old enough to be my mother when I was a teenager. Once while I was working, in the presence of my mother on top of that. Neither were smooth approaches to say the least, and despite of the potentially troublesome nature of this latter occurrence for me to han…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:29 AM
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Ok, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:35 AM
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1) chance Likely 2) average age of people you meet on a social basis Somewhat likely 3) you act / look older than your age I don't look older than my age 4) you need to learn to approach since older women and men in general are usually more likely to be the ones willing to approach Yeah Do you think that this is just a result of age or could it also be that women from different generations look for different things? (Perhaps I should ask this to someone from the same country as me, but still, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:22 AM
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Men care a lot about women. I would argue the majority of men care more about women than women about men. But somehow you are considering the idea that all men would rape if they had the chance. Correct, here's a PDF of a small comprehensive study on it (It's not the best, but it's pretty simple and straightforward) https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.malepsychology.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/john_barry.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwi2v5Oi5vj1AhXKFbkGHUIVA_YQFnoECCkQAQ&usg=A…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:49 PM
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Basically correct, I'd just reword "manly" to "embarrassing". I don't care about being perceived as manly, but still, I'm not willing to talk about such things, absurdly more so than superficial things, which I don't talk about either. I've once went out on a walk with a couple of nice highschool colleagues I wasn't intimate with, and they began to talk about their personal and somewhat intimate things they liked on girls — personality traits, small behaviors — while I don't even like to talk ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:09 PM
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While I do think that lesbians partially have different interests than men, the way I see it they mostly overlap, and the biggest divergence is the conservatism / liberalism leaning. I find it more of a difference of signaling and sugarcoating than anything, but alas I've never seen any occurrences such as the ones you mentioned, for both men and lesbians (except for instances of men actually joking).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:08 PM
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Honestly, even if I were to succeed, it doesn't seem like an interesting choice for me. I'm not interested on making part of a scheme that has everything to gain — and does gain — from maximizing the failure of it's users.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:39 PM
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Rather die single than ever feeding the dating app industry. I lose some respect even for male friends who use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:21 PM
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The only flirting I've ever received was from women ranging from about 35 to 50. That was before the covid, I was 16-18 at the time of occurrences. Makes me happy for being noticed, but no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:12 PM
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get every 18 year old and hand them each a gun and have them run toward the 18 year olds of another country who all have guns and kill each other. give some of them grenades and let those children toss them at each other, blowing each other up. During most wars the vast majority of men — 85% in World War II — weren't willing to actually pull the trigger towards any person, they'd "waste" their bullets shooting at nothing. You will find similar rates with other wars. Why do you think that one the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:02 PM
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Quite ironic of you to talk about racism while unfoundedly accusing all indian men of being rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:02 PM
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I'm seen plenty of these statistics hovering about 1/16 and 1/5 with abhorrent methodological errors such as not considering repeated offense or sampling bias (especially when american college campuses make their own research based on their students) going around a few years back. Honestly I cannot believe this, I need to see your source.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:52 PM
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Also, the women who approach me are usually very young or significantly older than me. Nothing from the age range that would interest me. If I were single and looking for something serious, this would not help me at all. Oh, so it's really not just a me issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:19 PM
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I've only ever been approached by other men, and women old enough to be my mother. I mean, I'm not complaining, I'm happy for it, but I won't get any relationships out of this. Does anyone know how could I solve this "issue", that is if it can be solved at all, or could this be just a matter of pure chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:15 PM
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I just almost had a stroke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:12 AM
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I’d actually rather they just be honest about caring and only date virgins or whatever they want than pretend to not care Social suicide speedrun any%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:53 AM
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Oh, the source of the graph? Source: Me, (2022, February 7) https://ibb.co/mzzDG3Q I simply made a graph using the numbers of the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:19 PM
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It doesn't become majority because their last number, 21+, is averaged down due to it's range. It has also to be accounted that as result of methodological limitations the numbers will pend towards zero. Had they included further groups it would easily reach 50%+ On a NOT SERIOUS note, here's a linear regression graph I made to represent what the numbers could possibly be: https://ibb.co/KjyGz2N X = Number of partners, Y = Percentage of cheaters; As far as I know the app didn't allow for curvili…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:56 PM
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About this... This study disagrees and indicates the exact opposite — women, not men, have a "Monsignore Manwhore Complex". Not to mention the Dual Mating Startegy, an already a well known, accepted and empirically supported theory. What's this? Projection. Abstract: Sex is critical to marriage. Yet, there are several reasons to expect spouses to experience declines in the desire for sex over time, and the rates of any declines in sexual desire may differ for men and women. We used two multi-wav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:03 PM
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Probably. Edit: most people, especially traditional people don't have any idea wtf demisexual means. I for one didn't before just googling it, despite my social circle leaning towards the liberal left. They'll likely just think you're an alphabet person or something of the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:40 AM
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Total bollocks is a bit strong. The majority of high n women don't cheat based on the info we have today, so you would be incorrect more than correct to say so. Source: Pull, Arse (2022, February 6) Incorrect [DIVORCE RISK] “Contrary to conventional wisdom, when it comes to sex, less experience is better, at least for the marriage,” said W. Bradford Wilcox, a sociologist women with zero or one previous sex partners before marriage were also least likely to divorce, while those with 10 or more we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:07 AM
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My fukken phone had a problem and I lost my text and 2 of the papers I've included which I hadn't saved beforehand. It's ok though, the most relevant is still here. So here, that's it for this thread: https://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-020-00239-9
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:58 AM
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Incorrect. I present you the Laffer Curve. MGTOWs are in part an example of it. Also, women's standards are contingent on the standards of other women and the quality of men she's presented with, not some magically accurately perceived fixed average. I'll come back with studies and personal anecdotes if I find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:44 PM
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"If a friend came crying to me about their partner's history of promiscuous/paid sex I'd tell them to get tf over it." I think that for anyone to "cry" over it is perfectly valid as long as the individual complaining doesn't have a promiscuous past. It more often than not comes accompanied with baggage and indicates underlying character issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:17 PM
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Why should anyone care about the sex astrology a small mostly undesirable fraction of the population use as a surrogate for personality? The unfounded identities of western pseudo-revolutionaries used to "score" and feel special on this increasingly identity politics driven world, ironically, adopeted by the very people who like to pretend to break restrictive societal constructs, by just creativing new even more ridiculous and unsubstantiated ones. Gender is literally a social construct to conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:38 PM
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In no particular order: Had casual sex (worst one) Began dating without personally knowing the individual for at least a few months; Had sex without dating for at least a few months. (were it a few years ago I'd go as far as to say all sex outside of wedlock altogether) Had piv sex without being capable of properly raising a child as a couple, be it not having the maturity or the stability to Had anything but a serious monogamous relationship. Engaged in serial monogamy; Engaged first and foremo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:12 AM
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