Quealpedoestoy Archive

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10	When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped. If a woman wanted me for money, I would lose interest inmediately. She wouldnt be much different from a prostitute in my eyes. Companionship is a form of emotional validation, IMO you got a few things wrong. And anyone wants to be lusted after, by someone they find desireable, not just men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 03:06 PM
2	At what age range do you wish women would stay physically and mentally forever? Yes, but regarding dating we do for different reasons. Women complain they cant find a decent man, yet have lots of options. Lots of men on the other hand complain that they dont even have bad options to complain about. Its like being thirsty in a desert vs being thirsty in the middle of the ocean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 10:32 AM
0	At what age range do you wish women would stay physically and mentally forever? Early mid twenties, they look the best and their compañy is more njiyable because they are not jaded. Regretably they play a lot of stupid games while dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 09:32 AM
1	Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will. Yes, but what makes you think those countries will remain as democracies when muslims become the majority of the population?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 09:20 AM
0	Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will. Really? Look at Iran in the 70's, men established a caliphate, told women to do their biding or get stoned. And this will happen in Europe sooner than we all think, european women will push for it just like on Iran, and european men at large wont do shit because they wont defend a system that has left them behind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 01:28 AM
2	Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing. Yet in my experience women have lower standards for the wrong kind of men. All my female friends have had at least one boyfriend that has been psychologically, emotionally, physically or sexually abusive with them, and they stayed with those guys for years. Most of them had some substance abuse problem too. Meanwhile lots of my male friend have been single for decades, all hardworking men, with a future ahead, and they could get sex once every leap year, with some luck. Women should give decent …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:59 AM
2	Men are lonely because women are changed. Women can have everything only because men allowed it, nothing stopped our ancestors to put you all in shackles and fuck you whenever they wanted, they just didnt do it. But remember, things can change very fast, just look what happened at Iran in the 70s...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 09:55 PM
31	Men are lonely because women are changed. Add to that than ugly women get inflated egos because they can access men that they couldnt before all this mess, so their stanfards go up too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:12 PM
–	Women's "being seen as a body" problem is NOT about men's behaviour. While you are not wrong, a lot of women actively contribute to beeing seen as a body, or to be more precise, a body to be fucked. The most extreme cases are porn actresses, but I will make a little comparison that will give some perspective. A prostitute from early 1920 dressed more modestly than a woman in average gym clothes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 11:29 AM
4	Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing. Women shold have consistent standards too... Apply the same rules to all men...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 10:36 AM
0	Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women. Thats called MGTOW and women bash it because they dont benefit from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 06:38 PM
3	Are you afraid of being alone in your twilight years? Yes and no, I dont fear loneliness, I fear not being able to take care of myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/25 09:49 AM
1	Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad? IMO, women are aplying outdated standards for men. They want a provider, but with the current global economy only a very small percentage of men can support a house by himself, just to give an example. Also, the 6666 (sixpack, six feet tall, six digit income and 6+ inches) standard is only unreasonable if they are not the female equivalent of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 12:23 AM
2	Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex? Nope	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 07:13 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Once a slut, always a slut, she cant unsuck all those dicks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 04:29 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Its a couple of factors: No men with an ounce of self respect wants a slut as a long term partner or mother if his children. No men wants a slut to make him strugle to get what other men got far easier from her. Mo men wants to find out than his long term partner used to engage in lots of casual sex with different men. There is no such thing as a former slut, they are sluts on standby mode. And dont forget than men get mocked if they never had sex or had very few and spaced sexual partners. And …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 04:28 PM
–	What would you want instead of sex? Then she will never be more than a friend to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 09:38 PM
–	What would you want instead of sex? Nothing can replace sex, specially on the early stages of a relationship. Also, I bet she has an ass and a mouth, even if she suffers from vaginism, there are alternatives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 09:36 PM
0	Dating is prostitution. Lots of men dont have the posibility to be picky, if they want sex they have to have it with who they can, not who they would want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 06:41 PM
1	How would women be treated if we physically equals We would get into more fistfights with them. You would stop being the weaker sex and would get punched if you scale thing too much, just like any men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 08:51 AM
3	A lot of men who complain about attractive men being assholes and still getting laid are themselves bad men who wish they didn’t have to act like a good person in order to get laid. Or maybe we are tired of women complaining than their bf/fwb treats them poorly while they still give them sex. Women dont incentivice men to be decent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 09:31 AM
1	Would you be okay with a (one-sided) open relationship if there was a lack of sex in your LTR? Honestly, no. Why dont you try some variation of a "free use" dynamic? Since you lack desire and he doesnt, he could "use" your body in a masturbatory way instead of going with other women. Both scenarios are less than ideal, but at least you dont risk him meeting someone than fully satisfies him both sexually and emotionally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/25 03:16 AM
1	I think there’s some truth to “why but the cow when the milk is free” Women face two big problems if they want to aplly the "waiting/build up" strategy: 1) there will always be women willing to put out while you are making a man wait, and if that man has options, he has no reason to wait for you. Also, if she is not having sex with him, there is no monogamy to uphold. 2) the man has no garantee than while a woman is making him wait, she isnt sleeping with someone else. A man has nothing to win if he decides to play the waiting game with a woman, if she doesnt want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 01:27 AM
1	During sex, what's more important to you: Your orgasm, or the validation you receive when you inspire sexual desire in someone? Orgasms, the rest is just an extra bonus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 01:22 AM
1	Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative). Most likely the majority of those attacks were perepetrared by muslim, thats why it might not have reached the media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 07:40 PM
2	Delaying sex strategy really works well for women. That's why men in this sub hate and despise this strategy so much. It works only with men without other options. Men that dont have trouble getting laid will skip women with this kind of strategy if they are not looking for commitment. And men with options that are looking for commitment might "cheat" on her until (and maybe after) she makes up her mind and starts to have sex with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 06:52 PM
2	If age gap relationships are wrong because of the power dynamic, so are hypergamous ones Havent you understood feminism yet? imbalances are opresive only if they dont benefit women, oterwise they are empowerment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 01:27 PM
–	How do you feel the red pill gave you value personally since you "took the red pill"? It brought me peace, sometimes things are out of my control and there is so much I can do	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 01:22 PM
2	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? A lot of people sucks at fucking. While a lot of men dont care much about a womans pleasure, we also have to admit than a lot of women do less than the bare minimun, they just starfish and let the man do all the work. And lets be honest,how willing would you be to put effort into satisfying someone like that? I had a starfish once nd I just wanted to end it quickly and go to sleep ASAP. If she does nothing for her pleasure (and ours) and just stays still, why should men care about her pleasure?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 02:09 PM
0	If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell you Because fucking is the main reason I have for dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 05:23 PM
-5	If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell you In that case, she should be the one asking for celibacy and monogamy. The default is also not waiting to have sex until marriage, specially if the woman is not a virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 09:21 AM
4	If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell you That used to be the case, but thanks to the feminist sexual revolution, now it depends from person to person. Also, she is changing the "rules" by saying she wont have sex, when exclusivity is within a sexual relationship, no sex, no sexual relationship, it might be romantical, but on a platonic way. And since we are talking about the other person, where in all this "I dont want sex, and you cant have it neither" does she care for me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 07:52 AM
-10	If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell you That used to be the case, but thanks to the feminist sexual revolution, now it depends from person to person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 07:48 AM
-2	If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell you Kissing on the lips is a sexual act, or do you kiss your father on the mouth when you greet him? Again, I dont care if a partner has a male friend, as long as they are not doing anything of sexual nature. The same way I have female friends Im not trying to sleep with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 07:47 AM
-9	If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell you If she goes out with other men and doesnt do anything sexual, then it isnt cheating. Most men dont give a fuck about what her wife does with other men as long as she isnt spreading her legs for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 06:52 AM
-7	If you are celibate, you can't expect your partner to not have sex with others, nor does he have to tell you Did she had the exclusivity talk? If she states she doenst want to have sex, she is the one that has to state that she wants to keep the relationship monogamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 06:50 AM
1	When people complain that 'the juice isn't worth the squeeze', they are just admitting that they can't do the bare minimum Of course someone with an ideology than puts womens behaviour on the spot and critizices is not going to sit well, but Im not dumb enough to go on a date and spew that kind of worldview. Its funny because you talk like if women didnt have warped views about men too. And to your surprise, I have female friends that trust me enough to let their mask slip, and some of the thing they told me they did would be a huge red flag if it ever came out on a date. But here is the thing, you are judging men b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 04:33 PM
2	Do men genuinely understand that love-bombing is real — and that it’s their responsibility? And they reinforce it too by having sex with men that lovebomb. They are basically showing than lovebombing is a method that works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 10:29 AM
–	CMV: height boosting products for men are deceptive and a red flag on a first date So, push up bras are red flags too? ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 07:10 AM
1	Straight men on this subreddit, would you take a magic, gene-altering pill to become gay? (Not a satire question. Be serious.) AFAIK is easier to get sex, but a lot more dificult to get a monogamous LTR	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 02:57 PM
1	Straight men on this subreddit, would you take a magic, gene-altering pill to become gay? (Not a satire question. Be serious.) No way, even if they sometime can be a pain in the ass, I wouldn change my atraction towards women. I can choose not to date, but go gay just because its "easier" is ridiculous. Also gay men have their onw issues in the dating world, so I would be changing one set of problems for an another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 11:15 AM
-1	"Female privilege" only exists because of men This picture shows how quickly can women´s situation drastically change, its not tradwife porn, its an omen of what could happen the day a group of men impose change. Im of the opinion than Islam is the scourge of any civilized country. Religion was and still is the best tool of social engineering, regretably some religions that should have fallen to oblivion are still very present.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 11:19 PM
-3	"Female privilege" only exists because of men Women wouldn't have any obstacles to their rights if men didn't exist/suddenly vanished. For how long? its in human nature to exploit eachother, sorority would last as long as a fart in a basket. But regardless of that, women wouldnt have to worry about other problems because they wouldnt last a year (being generous) without us. Men keep society´s infrastructure running, there are not enough trained women to fill the demand if all men suddenly dropped dead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 10:51 PM
0	"Female privilege" only exists because of men It is acknowledged in the community than hypergamy allows that kind of situations, there is something called red pill rage and its a transitional period when a man realizes how female behaviour works (I know, the name they choosed couldnt be more ridiculous) until he accepts the world as it is given and chooses wheter to improve to become that kind of man or go his own way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 09:56 PM
3	"Female privilege" only exists because of men Women live in fantasy land, they dont understand than humans are just flawed animals. They also dont understand than a piece of paper with a law or a right written on it wont change that. And that little piece of paper can be changed or burned if it suits those in power. In another comment on this thread I posted an Iranian woman cutting her birthday cake in 1975, five years before the islamic revolution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 09:52 PM
0	"Female privilege" only exists because of men terps or terfs? whats the acronym about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 09:47 PM
0	"Female privilege" only exists because of men I will answer you with one picture <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 09:36 PM
0	"Female privilege" only exists because of men I raise the bet, women have rights only because men allowed it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 07:41 PM
2	When people complain that 'the juice isn't worth the squeeze', they are just admitting that they can't do the bare minimum By the time you are 40 to 50, the main goal of marriage, which is having children, has a lot more complication and suboptimal results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 09:01 PM
17	When people complain that 'the juice isn't worth the squeeze', they are just admitting that they can't do the bare minimum I have two jobs, a degree, a healthy bmi of 23 with muscle, im 5 11, I read and do woodworking and shower daily. Acording to you I should have a women chasing afer me, yet Ive been single for the last 15 years, with poor dating results. Explain that under your premise?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 10:57 AM
–	It's ok to not want to date someone who had a hoe phase if you never had one Perfectly reasonable, sharing values regarding sex is very important	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 10:24 PM
0	Redpill men complain that women are too picky, but they also complain when women have low standards. The thing is than women aplly different standards to different men, if we were all measured by the same ruler, then there would be no complains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 05:16 AM
5	The biggest issue in gender is simply that men die faster single. Lets be honest, why would you want to live longer? you are getting more "old" years, the 50s are not the new 30s. By the time we are old retirement will most likely be at 70yo or more, and most countries dont give a fuck about the elderly from a policy standpoint. You are not getting more out of life, you are just stretching its shitier phase.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 07:15 PM
1	The biggest issue in gender is simply that men die faster single. Obesity impacts negatively on fertility, so no, they dont have an excuse to be fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 07:15 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Indeed, but somehow a lot of them make it our fault. Women dont even tell what they like or not, go starfish or a lousy doggy and somehow we are the ones that are bad at sex... whamen...	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 12:53 AM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Dick works well regardless of who is taking it, pussy on the other hand doesnt work well with all users...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:23 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. I never told they should remain virgins until marriage. But not spreading their legs just a few hours after meeting someone has more pros than cons for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 10:58 AM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. There are LOTS of methods to avoid that, most of them are under womens control. But if those fail better to have a little scare with a lt partner than a random dude they fucked half drunk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 10:49 AM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Well, then women shouldnt fuck with random men whom they dont know if they will harm them or dissapear the moment she gets preagnant. Those problems can be greatly reduced if women dont sleep arround Regarding men lesser inhibitions, its true, so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 10:31 AM
0	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Dont misunderstand me, I think of the idea of a woman being the active partner as a chalenge for her, a man that doesnt take the leading role is basically him saying to her "show me what you can do". And I think a lot of women fall into the pasive/submisive role because is easy, confortable and safe. If they do very little, they cant fail to satisfy, and their ego doesnt get hurt. But if they "give all they got" and their partner looks dissatisfied or bored then they failed at one of the easiest…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 06:52 AM
0	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. So, men having boundaries and autonomy is because they feel emasculated???? You can have sex with a woman you desire while avoiding certain practices you dont like. For example I wouldnt participate in any kind of scat play, if a woman wanted me to give her a golden shower I would decline, no matter how atractive I found her. Regarding your particular fantasy, I have an issue, there is no way than the average woman could overpower me into sexual submision, I find the idea of "dominant woman" rid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 06:23 AM
0	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. If he keeps on trying to lead someone that doesnt want to be led, then yes. If a woman insists to take a dominant role with someone that doesnt want to partake in such fantasy, yes, she is being pushy. And regarding the second part of your question, its an incompatible scenario, why would a man try to initiate sex to partake in a fantasy he doesnt want to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 05:51 AM
0	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. When the woman insists she leads and the man feel emasculated in doing so. If she insist on leading, she is not leading, she is being pushy. Invert the sexes and you will see how bad that sounds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 05:43 AM
0	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Considering than gay men score evenly with straight men inregards of achieving orgasm, my bet is than dick is not the problem, the body part taking it is...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 05:32 AM
0	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. If women need to do the work to get themselves off, this might be why women have begun preferring toys to men. Seriously, you guys believe having sex with you devalues us, and you also don’t care if we enjoy it? Do you realize than OP post also says than men are doing all the work to finish themselves during penetration? If women want to finish too, the least they can do is lend a hand...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:42 AM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. When has a man complained about a woman actively wanting to fuck with him???	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:31 AM
-2	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Dont tell, its like they know how to ride a bike because they had one their whole life??	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:28 AM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. I would add to that than women rarely comunicate what they need in bed, even when asked, they go for vague answers, specially if you are starting to know eachother. I dont expect her to give me a 330 pages manual with time stamps on what to lick and when, but some dont even tell how they like oral of if they even do it. You have to ask if they do and if they are the ones giving it, you have to ask her where to cum, some dont even tell if you dont ask. Yet en are supposed to read her body languag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:21 AM
1	It's possible for women to be more attractive in their 30s than their 20s. Yes, but those are exceptions, not the rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 04:38 AM
2	At what point does sexualization become objectifying and dehumanizing? When she doesnt get what she wants from self sexualizing	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 07:03 AM
-1	If men objectify women with their bodies, women objectify men with their ressources. I think it was Camile Plagia who said "women are sex objects, and men are success objects"	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 07:53 AM
4	Q4M: What do you actually want from women in romantic/sexual relationship/connections? You have my sympathy and my condolences	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 01:51 PM
0	Q4M: What do you actually want from women in romantic/sexual relationship/connections? Sex, food, peace, respect. Yes, its that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 12:48 PM
1	Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut? Because amateur porn loses the novelty fast, and kink porn actresess are trying to surpass eachother all the time. There is something called the 13" club, and thats circunference, and there are women using them on the backdoor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 03:38 AM
2	Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut? Take a peak at r HugeDildos and you will see the kind of stuff that is not a decor piece	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 03:22 AM
0	Beautiful Women are Accustomed to a Certain Dating/Lifestyle and Shouldn’t be Shamed into Dating Down IMO that should only happen when they are picky above their SMV	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:49 AM
–	Whats wrong with modern women At this point I think its easier to ask whats not wrong with modern womenn, the list will certainly be shorter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 01:10 AM
1	"Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women. A man that cant get sex wont speak out loud against the people giving him sex...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 09:27 AM
3	Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's human Understand than men are not afraid of being alone, a lot of us have been for most of our life. We are afraid of picking the wrong woman, and in todays world it seems to be an surplus of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 06:03 PM
1	Q4M: Does "Whoever invites you out for the date should pay" make things equal? And which sex does 95% of the inviting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:42 PM
1	Q4M: Would it be cheating if your SO got her emotional needs met with an AI behind your back? I meant than transference could be considered emotional cheating under the OP premise	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 10:45 PM
1	Q4M: Would it be cheating if your SO got her emotional needs met with an AI behind your back? I know, Im a psychologist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 04:18 PM
3	Q4M: Would it be cheating if your SO got her emotional needs met with an AI behind your back? IMO this is not cheating, if it were, going to a psychologist in most cases would be considered cheating too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 06:32 AM
7	Q4M: Would it be cheating if your SO got her emotional needs met with an AI behind your back? IMO this is not cheating, if it were, going to a psychologist in most cases would be considered cheating too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 06:32 AM
2	Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age. If she is a virgin at 25+ years and she looks fine, my only thought is than it will take a LOT to get her to open her legs, and there are lots of women that dont ask a fraction of hat she might expect from a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:29 AM
1	The advocating of age gap relationships Everyday I see at least two posts made by women in relationships with at least 7-10 years gap...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:34 PM
5	Would a stigma-free, normalised sex work industry reduce how many men participate in dating? IDK if stigma free is posible, but if prostitutes were cheaper, a lot more men would pay rather than date. A nice looking prostitute is really expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 07:56 AM
4	Do you think gender equality has had a positive effect on dating? Nope, if she expects men to be providers, then she should be a homemaker. If expenses are divided 50/50, then house chores would be too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 02:19 AM
5	Do you think gender equality has had a positive effect on dating? Nope, it just added demands on the checklist women hold men up to. Have you ever heard a women even insinuate something like "watching you do the dishes gets me so wet" ??? Its always the same "more benefits without obligations" for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 02:50 PM
1	Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards. Well, from a biological point is the biggest aproval sign a woman can give a man, the chance of getting preagnant by him. Men have way more testosterone pushing them to have sex, and our sexual desire is not reactive as women´s is. From a social point of view too, masculinity is validated by the amount of sex a man can get (among other ways), the same way femininity is validated by the amount of desire a woman can incite (among other ways). we validate eachother in an intersexual dynamic, thats …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 06:42 PM
1	Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards. Choosing better also means choosing who to stay with, I know a few women than stayed on abusive relationships for years, and they did not financially depend on the guy... And you say women will be pickier, yes, and you know what will happen, the guy that get chosen will have a bigger flock of women after them and will have a quite smaller need to treat them kindly because the replacement will be at an arms lenght reach. The same way men put up with more bullshit from beautifull women because you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 06:36 PM
8	If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her? Just like men... thats equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 08:25 AM
10	If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her? Responsability without choice for men, and choice without responsability for women, the escence of feminism...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 07:46 AM
9	If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her? Every woman against mandatory paternity tests, or than the male should have no legal participation when an abortion is considered allready is agains male reproductive rights...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 02:43 AM
2	Is it fair to say that women can struggle in dating as well? If she was never kissed by 46 and had the looks you described, maybe it was aproblem of sexual nature. No man will stick arround a woman that doesnt even kiss. There is where the ugly bridge troll has the advantage, ugly women compensate in other ways...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 09:13 AM
1	Q4W: Would you hate a man if he divorced you for quitting your job? There is a BIG difference between being fired and quitting your job. and after that there is another BIG difference betweeen looking for a new job or scratching your crotch. Thing can go south, what matters is how you deal with those situations and what you do to prevent them in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 03:10 AM
–	There Is No Point in Being Loyal to Modern Women Then explain why a lot of deadbeats and assholes are so succesfull with women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 06:00 AM
29	Q4M: Why aren't men as into Consensual Non-consent or raep fantasies as much as women? I bet a lot of men are into that kind of power dinamic (in a consensual agreement), but if they were the ones to propose it, they would be seen as r@ppists	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 10:15 PM
1	Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying. Ok, but how many of your female friends (and their female friends) are as honest as you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 07:32 AM
-1	Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying. But do you think most women would be honest in said scenario? They are betting on more than one horse in the same race, they wouldnt be so stupid to impair one of her "runners". Lets make the oposite scenario, what incentive would a man have to tie himself to a woman than he cant be certain she isnt sleeping arround?? why would a man buy the bike everybody used for a ride??	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 03:15 AM
5	Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying. I dont think its that hard not to fuck other people while you are trying to form an emotional bond with someone. You can know if someone in worth your time on the first few dates, and if that person isnt, move to the next one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 11:26 PM
4	Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying. Some men, and only if those men dont see her as LTR material and are also sleeping with other women. Basically, the only way a man would be okay with a sexual partner sleeping arround is if she has no other use in his life than providing sexual gratification, basically an expendable bootycall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 10:28 PM
16	Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying. When the woman asks if he is currently sleeping with other woman (to protect her own sexual health), the man may answer “no, only you,” when, in reality, he had a one night stand a week prior. A LOT of women do the same, and then they excuse themselves because they are casual and they dont have to tell you if they have been sleeping arround. The "exclusivity talk" its a curse for relationship building.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 09:59 PM
1	Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”. "Nice guys" hidden motive is sex, which is a very natural and expectable part of a relationship. "Bad boys" will fuck her, other women, maybe even one of her friends, and all while putting a facade.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/25 02:25 PM
1	What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate? Its cultural, Im from south america, men liking anal stimulation is seen in a bad way from a manliness pov, a finger might get a pass, but a toy is gay as fuck here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/25 06:16 PM
2	What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate? For most women I talked to, its the complete oposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/25 01:40 PM
4	What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate? They didnt imply they being penetrated and submisive as something bad (I admit I dindt asked them directly that). But I agree with you than seeing receiving certain types of pleasuere as something bad is bad in itself. If I had to guess I think than they see a man ocupying a sexual role than is not stereotipically his as a bad thing. I must clarify Im from South America, so culture has something to do with this too, a man must be "macho" to at least certain point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/25 01:27 AM
1	What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate? The problem is not how men see themselves, its how they are seen by their partners. The women I talked to said than their problem was than the man looked submisive if taking it in the ass, and they wanted their man to be a man, and a man being the one penetrated is less manly in their eyes. IMO its a bet not worth gambling for, in one hand sex can be a bit more exiting, but on the other hand the way she looks at the man could change for the worse and he might end up losing her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/25 01:14 AM
4	What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate? Most women I talked with had a negative view about a man liking to be penetrated, and some women would back down if he agreed to be penetrated too in this eye for an eye scenario. Would you see him as less masculine and lose atraction for said man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/25 12:40 AM
5	What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate? Most women I´ve have the closeness to talk about things like this had a similar opinion, they dont like men who like butt stuff, even the most sexually open woman I know gave me that answer. Kind of a double standard IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/25 12:35 AM
1	What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate? Would your answe be the same if he wanted to be analy penetrated by a toy? or than he uses one during sex with you (in his ass)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 11:18 PM
1	Women sometimes contribute to themselves being ghosted, cheated on, & dumped... Nope, the moment a woman allows you to have a hallpass is because she is allready getting fucked by other people. The moment a woman "allows" you to fuck someone else its because she no longer cares about you, and if she doesnt care anymore, she has no moral boundary to not to cheat on you. Threesomes can be complicated, if she proposes them, its bacause she is getting bored of a sexlife just with you, and that is something to consider if you want to have a monogamous partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 05:14 PM
2	Women sometimes contribute to themselves being ghosted, cheated on, & dumped... The only valid instance for cheating is if she decides to stop having sex, and by that time just dump her. On the ghosting and dumping I agree, womens expectations on men increase as they age and as the relationship grows. They wont date the same kind of guy at 20yo than when they become 30, and as the relationship grows they expect more and more (vacations together, living together, marriage, kids, then a bigger house, more expensive vacations, etc). Mens expectations are easier to satisfy, don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 11:49 AM
1	Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a family Men are not hypergamous, men tend to be polygamous. But regardless of that, I was just matching his arguments with what a man willing to do what OP is saying could want to maximize his investment return (I cant think of a better way to put it in english). Now, I dont want children, and I have no interest in a woman under 30, the age gap and the generational differences with an early 20s are too big for my liking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 04:28 PM
2	Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a family Where did I said the child doesnt deserve a father than takes cae of him??? I said than dad´s money should go to the child, not to the mother of said child, she is an adult, she can pay her own bills. I will quote myself just in case you miss the full paragraph again: The problem men have with child support is that we have no guarantee than that money gets spended on the child instead of mommy´s visit to the nail saloon... IMO women should justify each cent from child support with recepits showi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 10:31 AM
3	Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a family There are a few problem with your arguments: 1) The earning capability of a man becomes important the moment the woman becomes preagnant. What does she bring to the relationship before that to justify dating someone from an economic bracket that could provide for a family by himself? 2) Since the endgoal seems to be preagnancy, should men in said economic bracket date early 20s women only, since they are more fertile and preagnancy will be easier to acomplish and the chance of complications is w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 10:16 AM
2	Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a family With this logic would you also agree that average earning men should be okay with having no women, and all the pretty women share a higher earning chad? Following that logic, preety women should be okay when their "chad" replaces them with a new batch of preety early 20s. Beauty is a depreciating asset, but there always will be young preety women. The problem men have with child support is that we have no guarantee than that money gets spended on the child instead of mommy´s visit to the nail sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 09:55 AM
-1	Very few people out there actually want an "equal partner " Should a man be willing to split the >$110k cost for a surrogate? A man could impregnate another woman free of charge and in a more fun way, why should he pay for her choice of not carrying a child Let’s say I work from home making $120k. And my spouse is a nurse making $80k. What is equal? That he has to pay half the rent/mortgage despite making less than I do? Or that he has to do more chores to make up for the fact that he makes less, even though I am home all day and am available to do them,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 05:47 AM
2	Are you woried about feminism? Understanding the context of something, and finding it ridiculous are two different things	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 04:19 AM
6	Are you woried about feminism? Im a native spanish speaker, maybe something got lost in translation. I consider calling yourself empowered for doing basic tasks ridicuolus. the same way I consider ridicuolus being pridefull of your sexuality, being gay is not an achievemet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 05:48 PM
2	Are you woried about feminism? Yes, but that doesnt mean its ridiculous, just like gay "pride".	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 05:41 PM
2	Are you woried about feminism? Nope, but id wish they got down of their pedestal, what they call being an empowered female is just the basics of being a functional adult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 05:30 PM
-1	Madonna/Whore: the male dual mating strategy, and how women can protect themselves from male resentment If she is a prude, thats her problem. In todays world there are more than enough tools to enjoy sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 09:51 AM
–	Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was right If you think he was celibate while waiting for you, you are preety naive. Women want a commitment before a relationship, men want sex before getting commited because we want to know what kind of sex life we are commiting to. And if there is no sex life and no commitment, then there is nothing to be monogamous to. You cant deny a man of something you are unwilling to have with him and expect him to deny himself of that just because you expect to. Women shoot themselves in the fot with the sexual …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 09:33 AM
-2	Madonna/Whore: the male dual mating strategy, and how women can protect themselves from male resentment A cost/benefit analysis. She knows than if she doesnt find a way to be sexually uninhibited with him, he will either cheat or divorce. And you talk like disgust cant be dealt with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 06:26 AM
1	Madonna/Whore: the male dual mating strategy, and how women can protect themselves from male resentment Be a whore, but only with your man, and dont hop from bed to bed between relationships...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 05:45 AM
6	Is it that hard to be top 20% anyway? 20% its not just looks, its also income, education and dick. You have to earn above the average, Uni degree (in something that pays good and gives status), be knowledgeable in stuff in general to be able to hold interesting conversations, and have an above average dick, over one standard deviation preferably (that would set you above 86% of male population)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 05:16 AM
2	The bitterest pill of all to swallow : Your Ex cheated for a reason Yes, people are assholes, cheating is never justified, if you dont like how your relationship is going, fix it or leave it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 07:30 AM
3	are women not as attractive ? Women are still atractive, but IG filters, makeup, and surgeries have completely distorted our perception of beauty standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 07:28 AM
3	Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women? Then bring it on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 01:15 AM
2	Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women? Question: would those women giving me attention the ones that would sodomise me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 11:22 PM
16	Women aren't meant to be monogamous. Animals whose offspring take long to develop and be independent are observed to form monogamous pairs, sometimes for life. Animals whose offsprings develop fast have the oposite behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 11:59 PM
7	Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic? At least he wont be waiting nine months for nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 04:17 AM
6	is making a woman laugh one of the most important qualities for a man ? Its making them laugh while you build rapport, not just telling jokes	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/22 06:05 PM
1	Do you consider yourself to be the one your exes tell their current significant others not to worry about? Im betting one of my female friends tells that to her husband about me. The guy has barely any libido as far as she told me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 09:58 AM
9	Is withholding sex as a man a mistake? Im betting that the "waiting rule" will come preety early, in response to that I would enforce a "strict monogamy rule". Whats the point of waiting to have sex in order to build a relationship if you are seeing other people? If you are going to deny sex in order to build something, I want the other person 100% invested in me. Think it the other way arround, why would you invest time in a relationship that doesnt entail sex, when there is other avaible people that dont have the same restriction?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 08:23 AM
9	Is withholding sex as a man a mistake? I think there is a fundamental problem with this idea, and that is multidating. Even the women in FDS get the man to "wait" those three months, there is no certainty he or she have a sidepiece to get sex while they "build" a relationship. I wouldnt trust too much on anyone asking me to wait for sex in the current dating scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 08:13 AM
0	Men also practice dual mating strategy Yes and no A man will still fuck with the alpha women and beta slut, also, an alpha can become a beta and viceversa. A woman wont fuck with a beta bucks unless she has no other option avaible, a beta will never become an alpha in her eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 05:32 AM
1	What responsibility do men have for having relationships with nightmare women? The same responsability than women who have relationships with abusive men	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 12:01 AM
5	Why does the manosphere despise high n-count women while actively creating those women via promiscuity? IMO, its making the best of a bad situation. With the current moral values most women have, you know finding someone who hasnt slept with quite a few men is rare, so, why not enjoy the "easy" sex? If you cant get what you want, why not enjoy whats avaible?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/22 09:56 AM
0	How valid is Psychology? IMO, the problem is that a lot of people equates psychology (wich is a science) to psychoanalisys (wich is a pseudo science, and honestly, a very lousy one)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/22 06:36 AM
3	I’m not sure if this space was inspired by Myron Gaines and his following but I have a question, mainly for women…. Do you care about a man’s sexual performance if they are rich or if they have a large income at the least? Myron Gaines is the worst cancer the manosphere has, dont believe anything that idiot says. If you dont give a woman an orgasm, she can quickly find someone willing. If you dont fuck well, you are definitely not a HVM, and I dont mean giving her orgasm after orgasm, life is not a porn. Just atend to her needs the same way you expect she will atend to yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 08:14 PM
1	Women have access to more sex than men, but do they have access to more "quality" sex than men? Some, not most, and if you never slept with someone before, going for what most people likes is the smartest choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 08:07 AM
3	Women have access to more sex than men, but do they have access to more "quality" sex than men? Preety ridiculous idea, and most women are not into RP content, she was just bad, thats all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 03:36 AM
3	Women have access to more sex than men, but do they have access to more "quality" sex than men? they are not a myth, but just like men giving oral, a lot of women think they know what they are doing	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 05:25 PM
5	Women have access to more sex than men, but do they have access to more "quality" sex than men? I did, she stoped using teeth, but at 28 that should be known.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 05:23 PM
19	Women have access to more sex than men, but do they have access to more "quality" sex than men? Bold of you to asume than women know what they are doing in bed. The last blowjob I got included teeth, she was 28yo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 09:05 AM
8	Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? In my experience is the complete oposite. My single male friends (who never had a relationship) and those who only have their first relationship now (we are all early 30s) are overall happier and more satisfied with their lifes. They have learned to enjoy what they have and not complain because that wont solve anything, the world doesnt pamper us. My single female friends on the other hand bounce from one idiot to the next. They either get used for sex, emotionally abused, cheated in short term …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 04:31 AM
1	Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? celebrate and plan significant dates for their male partners If those dates were significant in the first place, men would care to remember. Aniversaries of this or that hold little significance to men, most of us barely care about our own birthdate. So, why would we care to celebrate something that we dont even bother to remember? Aniversaries and dates mean something to women, they are the ones making a fuss if you forget one. PD: lingerie is just the icing of the cake, men would still sleep w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 04:19 AM
2	Should women contribute to half of all bills regardless of differences in income? If they expect us to do half the house chores, then yes, 50/50 is not only when it suits them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 08:11 PM
1	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. Kudus for ending on good terms and looking out for her and appreciating her for being nice. IMO its basic decency. I think men can say they just want sex and in this society if he’s hot he has better chances than you believe. If he’s hot his failure isn’t anywhere near certain. Completely agree, the problem is that the bar is too high, the illusion of choice fucked up womans minds. I think if someone cares about being a decent person they shouldn’t want to be manipulative. Or if they find someon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:59 PM
1	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. Actually lots of women only want sex too (they’re in a different phase to those seeking commitment) so sometimes a man being upfront gets him a woman who just wants casual sex. Yes, but if a woman is upfront, she most likely will get someone to have sex, wether if a man does the same, failure is almost guaranteed. Women control access to sex. To make a bad analogy this would be like the roadrunner jumping into the coyotes mouth, its getting the "prize" without having to work for it from a mans p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 11:17 PM
1	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. I never rush straight to the bedroom but actually sometimes men do have confusing intentions. I might leave if I am not confident they’re good but it can be confusing. Although yeah if they want a date I know they almost certainly want sex. The fact I am not being used for sex because I say no to guys who might use me makes me think I am making the right pattern of choices! Good for you, but a lot of women dont have that same kind of awareness, and its not a mans work to protect people form thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 10:50 PM
1	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. Manipulation is just wrong and unless it’s an urgent situation to get intel for a good cause it’s not justified. So just wanting sex isn’t it. Choosing to manipulate and mistreat another human being is the fault of the manipulator. Even as someone who deals with a lot of manipulative behaviour and is on guard. Deciphering a mans intentions is not rocket scence, if he asked you out, he wants to have sex with you. If he mistreats you, get up and leave, its that easy. You are the one in control of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 10:35 PM
1	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. It could be she has bad luck or is in situations where she’s more likely to meet those men but even I agree that some women don’t have much to offer and attract those kinds of men. Once or twice is bad luck, if it happens all the time its a pattern. I think if a man just rushes straight to the bedroom to pump and dump she doesn’t have a chance to show other qualities so it’s not her fault if she doesn’t have a chance. And even if it is her fault for not expressing herself (it can only be her fau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 02:41 PM
1	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. Lots of men are literally not looking for commitment. That’s their goal and individual women who meet him in that phase aren’t to blame when he decides he only cares about sex. Perfectly valid argument, but, if a woman is only sought by men after men just for sex, that the only thing that particular woman has to offer. For some men, they will only want sex and it’s not the fault of women because they didn’t give women a chance to know what else they bring to the table. If I never showed X qual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 01:55 PM
1	[Q4M] Have you never in your life met any girl who was sexually interested in you? Yes, but I could count them with the fingers of one hand	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 01:01 PM
1	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. If you really want to be an asshole the best response to that would be something like: "if you think men only want sex from women, maybe thats the only thing you are capable to provide", or if you want to be a mayor asshole "if men only want your pussy, thats the only asset you have"	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 02:11 AM
5	How many of you have actually dated/hooked up with someone that you don't find attractive? She was a Bumble ONS. Her pictures were not high quality but it seemes she looked fine, when I met her, her pics were older, she didnt look bad, but she wasnt anything to be glad to have arround. She wasnt fat, but neither firm in any sense. I decided to give it a chance because she seemed nice and I hadnt had sex in two years by that time. We slept together but her skills were nothing to brag about (I had to tell her to stop using her teeths in a BJ) By the end of the night there were too many …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 10:10 PM
10	How could OLD be improved? Remove the posibility of linking IG to your OLD profile and shadowbanning people who put their IG (or other kind of profiles) on their description. That would make OLD so much better. Also, not showing the number of matches you have would be great too, or doing like Bumble does and deleting them after 24hs if there is no conversation. This two things would get rid of A LOT people using OLD apps for ego boosting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 06:07 PM
5	What are the professions of the men on this sub? I havent been successfull getting pussy because I wont compromise my values and beliefs for some leftist feminist women in my field of work. My career is doing fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 02:36 PM
17	The problem of RP men Lol. Because as all men know, women notoriously treat men “as human beings” and not at all as meal tickets, errand boys, validation factories or full time simps. Dont forget they also treat us as potential r@pists	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 04:11 AM
2	What are the professions of the men on this sub? Not in Argentina, getting the degree allready takes six years	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 02:02 AM
1	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Im taking into account all women I see, that includes 80yo grandmas. Yes, there are a lot of preety (beautifull not too much) women but the proportion has decreased considering than the lower class is incentived via wellfare to reproduce more, they get money up to their fifth child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 12:15 AM
6	What are the professions of the men on this sub? Clinical psychologist, lots of women, but most of them are leftist feminists. And since Im not willing to compromise my opinions for some pussy, I havent been precisely succesfull.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 11:11 PM
1	Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised. If she was the head of the HR department it would be the same, a womans career doesnt add to her sexual desiderability	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 03:55 PM
3	On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see? Atractive 3/10 Gorgeous 1/50 Im from Argentina	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 03:13 PM
17	Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservative Thats the thing, sexually unsuccesfull men most likely wont have sons, so, on the long run, why would they care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 02:42 PM
1	Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised. I wouldnt say womens achievements are worthless, but, the bar is much lower, as long as she is not a burden. Her being the CEO of playboy wouldnt make her hotter than one of the models in the magazine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 02:14 PM
1	Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised. I highly doubt women are willing to downgrade their apearance, intrasexual competition is a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 01:18 PM
1	What is an average guy? I dont give my attitude when im dating, its called showing your best face	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 05:56 PM
2	What is an average guy? I am only when Im confortable with the person in front of me. One of my downsides is than I HATE texting, Im funny in person but I detest wasting time with texts. Hygiene and physique are well sorted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 08:17 AM
11	What is an average guy? Im 180cm, 75Kg fit, white, finishing a post graduate, living by myself and with an top 85 percentile salary in my country and I strugle with dating, specially with OLD. What women think the average man is, its complete bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 03:25 AM
0	Ex-RP'er here: Thought I found the perfect girl, shit got weird. Whose perspective makes more sense? Red or Blue? Ditch and find a new one, dont waste time with people that put you through a merry go round	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 07:19 AM
18	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy The problem with that is than she will be half assedly in a relationship, she wont be fully invested for someone she is setling for, half assed sex once every month (luckly), constant nagging, reproaches and desdain, etc. And the moment she finds a man she feels she wont be setling for, she will dump your ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 05:41 AM
1	Q4A: Do you ever regret turning someone down? This is going to be wierd but at first no, then yes, then no. I started to date a work colleague, she was incredible in bed, nice, preety, but she "ticked" most of the diagnostic critera of Borderline Personality Disorder. At some point she asked me "if I didnt want a relationship with her because of her emotional instability" she was spot on but I said I wasnt looking for a relationship with anyone right now. We cut contact, I started working night shift and she got into a relationship. A year …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 04:06 AM
6	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy The main difference when the OKCupid survey was made is than on line dating wasnt used as a plataform to inflate egos or promote IG or OF profiles. IMO it got harder to date that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 03:41 AM
26	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy The problem is not the change of mind, the problem resides than she comes back when she needs to setle. When she was young and preety she wasnt willing to even look at our direction, now that she is older, not so preety anymore and has a lot of emotional bagagge she sudenly remembers the nerdy guy existed. She is setling and we know it, if she didnt wanted us at her prime, why would we want her now???	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 03:33 AM
1	PPD Men, why do you desire romantic relationships? Nahh, I think my expectation are much more realistic than the ones I listed for women. If you think that a woman who cares about her hygiene/appearance, has no STDs, is affectionate and enthusiastic towards sex (with me alone, cus monogamy matters) is too much to ask, then what would be a good standard a man could aply to women ??? I think my expectations are preety basic	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 03:17 AM
1	PPD Men, why do you desire romantic relationships? Like women didnt wanted a athletic/muscular, well endowed, asertive, emotionally intelligent (towards her emotions), economically established, high status, educated men. Once you have realized what both sides really want, its up to you to decide whether you will play this skewed game or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 10:34 PM
1	4 Attractive Variables for Men - PLZ MAKE YOUR ANSWERS SUPER SIMPLE FOR OVERTHINKING PPD MEN Im talking to any man who reads your post, a sugar baby advert would have an ass pic and a price tag, nothing more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 06:35 AM
4	4 Attractive Variables for Men - PLZ MAKE YOUR ANSWERS SUPER SIMPLE FOR OVERTHINKING PPD MEN If you ever thought of dates as job interviews, this post is the perfect model of job description requirements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 06:28 AM
1	Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything else If you have power depending on other person actions, then you have no power. Specially if it can be taken away as easily as paying an escort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 06:38 PM
1	Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything else Yes, until men realize than there are women who dont wait for sex, they are DTF from the first date. Then all their power vanishes. Worst case scenario, he has a sidepiece while "waiting for you".	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 06:00 PM
1	Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything else I agree, Im into certain kinks that 99% of women wouldnt be willing to participate, if you tell me a girl is willing and enthusiastic to be part of said practices, I would wait for her. BUT, waiting for vanilla stuff is not worthy at all, I can get that from any woman, people waits for things that are special, not for common stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 05:59 PM
2	Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything else If the only value she brings is sex and nothing more, she better be the best one by far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 09:06 AM
2	When it comes to one night stands do you care about your partners sexual gratification? Yes. I aim to convert ONS to FwB. But the problem is than when asked (and I do ask) if they would like me to do something in particular or if there is something they dont want me to do, most of them remain silent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 05:08 AM
2	Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything else I’m not saying women need to jump into bed on the first date but if you’re intentionally stifling the romantic part of a romantic relationship it’s probably because you don’t have much else to offer that would keep a guy otherwise IMO you are wrong, if she only has sex to offer (wich allready is an extreme case), she could offer sex thats not easy to find in other women, like threesomes, BDSM o other more niche/extreme kinks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 05:02 AM
10	Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything else IMO you are wrong, if she only has sex to offer, she could offer sex thats not easy to find in other women, like anal, threesomes, BDSM o other more niche/extreme kinks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 04:57 AM
1	What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers? The easy solution is getting creative with masturbation, very creative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 04:39 AM
16	How do you deal with losing your virginity to a man then being alpha widowed by him? they dated seriously for a couple of months, he met her dad, she fell in love and he convinced her to have sex. Then he abruptly ended things, saying she was “too young”. Why do you think he had to manipulate her to "give it up"? The guy met her family, thats dating serious in my book, if he wanted a pump and dump he wouldnt have been with her for months, specially someone as famous and good looking as Jake, he can have as many pumps and dumps as he wants. Considering the recurring themes in Tay…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/04/22 05:39 PM
1	How true is to say that rich guys gets more dates and more relationships opportunities than the average male? In my experience as a middle class guy, having some friends with a lot of money, it is completely true. One of them (33yo too) dated a 19yo woman not so long ago, money can easyly get someone 14 years younger interested in you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:08 AM
2	PPD Men, why do you desire romantic relationships? Basically yeah, it could be interpreted that way. I want my personal, STD free, well hygienized, genuinelly affectionate blow up doll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 04:46 AM
2	PPD Men, why do you desire romantic relationships? You cant pay for genuine affection. I agree with you than women are draining, thats why Im not looking for one, not even hook up. There is a saying in my country "There is no cheapest woman than the most expensive prostitute". The thing for me is, than I think you are getting too little for the amount of money you are paying with a high end escort. IMO, its a one in a lifetime experience to pay to have sex with the kind of woman who wouldnt pay attention to you even if you were dying right besid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 04:38 AM
2	Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hot IMO is the other way arround “most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women who are actually hot, not the women they can get” To ilustrate my point I will leave you a joke from Fontanarrosa, one of the greatest cartoonist of Argentina: Dígame don Inodoro ¿usté está con la Eulogia por alguna promesa? Mendieta, uno se deslumbra con la mujer linda, se asombra con la inteligente... y se queda con la que le da pelota. Tell me, Mr. Inodoro, are you with Eulogia for some promise? Mendieta, one …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 04:27 AM
4	PPD Men, why do you desire romantic relationships? Yes, but I find prostitutes disgusting for several reasons: STDs Lack of hygiene between clients (unless you find a high end escort, there is a probability she has several clients in a row) Trashy oversexualized appearance (they just look blown out, they literally had a train run through them) These are the main ones. And paid affection and company are not real, just acting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 04:22 AM
7	PPD Men, why do you desire romantic relationships? I want one to obtain the only thing I cant provide for myself: sex, physicall affection and company from a woman (who is not a friend or family)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 04:12 AM
1	What do you think of women who pay in the first dates? Never found one, I dont think they exist	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 05:00 PM
1	What do you think of women who pay in the first dates? Never found one, I dont think they exist	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 10:36 AM
2	What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive? Leo is an outlier, he has more than enough means to atract some of the most beautifull women in the world, and none of them are over 25 (their expiration age)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 11:55 PM
1	What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive? I agree with you to some extent, because finding someone atractive doesnt mean you will try to hook up with them. A 50yo man can find a 20yo woman physically atractive, but he wouldnt make any advance because of many reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 05:08 PM
-1	What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive? Woman: from legal age of concent to 25 (with some exceptions) Men: 25 to 35 (with some exceptions) This range is based on looks alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 05:06 PM
1	Would you date or marry a single mother or father? No, I dont want to deal with kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 08:28 PM
2	Men need women. Its called post nut clarity, not post sex clarity for a reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 08:09 PM
2	Men need women. People has brothers/sisters, cousins, friends...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 03:31 PM
13	Men need women. No. I'm not saying men need women in order to be any of those things, and they can't be those things on their own. But in the majority of cases, they do need that push their woman provides for them to do these things. The thing is than those things you listed are requirements to get a woman, not perks of having one in your life. Most men I know, and the usual stereotypes around the world, are very content with what they have in life and aren't really looking to gain anything other than money and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 11:03 AM
1	Dating, Marriage, and life is full of Female Privelege I think u/WillingnessSuper9066 is talking about abuse from a female teacher to a teenager boy. And to be honest, when I was young it wouldnt have bothered if certain female teachers wanted to give me private lessons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 09:46 AM
0	What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ? Just look at all the trans women athletes	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 04:08 PM
9	my mom keeps telling me that every man I'm friends with isn't truly my friend and that deep down they see me as a potential romantic partner and at the very least see me as a "sex object" She has definitelly a point	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 02:35 AM
5	Prostitution and mainstream dating TBH what you said sounds a lot like "happy wife, happy marriage". If I have to keep you happy to perform an activity we both enjoy, tell me where is it not transactional?? If I make you angry you wont participate in an activity you enjoy, honestly, it sounds like punishment. Either you get the outcome you want or we dont get sex, it sounds preety fucking ridiculous from a logic point of view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 02:26 AM
1	Prostitution and mainstream dating No, if you wemt to do exactly the same activities with friends or family members, everybody would pay their share. Men only cover the bill to increase the chances of getting laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 02:19 AM
5	Prostitution and mainstream dating If you are extra enthusiastic when your husband has a nice gesture, but deny him sex if he makes a mistake relationship wise, then sex is still transactional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 12:25 AM
2	Prostitution and mainstream dating If you are paying for the date, then sex was not free. If each pay their share, then and only then you could say than sex was free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 12:23 AM
0	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? To be fair. I think it would be a whole lot better if men actually started asking for what they wanted on "dates" rather than going along with whatever she suggests. And you know than 90% of the time what he would suggest is going to a motel. The success ratio would be astronomically low. But I still enjoy spending time with my wife. But I make sure it's also doing something I like too. Let's go on a hike. Or let's go out axe throwing or something. Or see a film, I enjoy going to the cinema. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 03:07 PM
1	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? If she didnt saw sex as a chore, all of this could be prevented	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 12:07 PM
1	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? like what? eating dinner outside? what do you mean by fun time? its not like its women who take care of men, plan the date and pay for it. men does that so you guys have fun and in return men expects sex. Most guys dont have fun paying 100 dollars for one meal and talking to you for hours. If women understood this life would be so much easier, for both sexes	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 12:04 PM
2	How common do you think these petty women are? In some degree AWALT	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 10:32 PM
2	How common do you think these petty women are? She was a 23yo girl making a lousy atempt to be a woman, she was still missing a guy ten years older than dicked her down for three months, three years before we met. Being alpha widowed does some serious damage to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 10:01 PM
2	How common do you think these petty women are? A girl dumped me because I said I didnt want to buy a car, I told her I would use the money to buy an apartment. One week later she cut all contact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 06:49 PM
1	What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers? I thought it a lot, where I live is not regulated at all. The two factors that have disuaded me from going head on to prostitutes are diseases and cost (the kind of prostitute I would be willing to pay cost too much for what I would be getting).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 10:36 AM
1	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. We were talking about female sexual desire and you managed to make it a mans fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 06:26 PM
1	The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order. I would put loyalty first, you got to make sure those kids are yours	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 06:09 AM
23	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. Its preety convenient than her sexual desire changes after he signed a paper saying than if they split, half his shit goes to her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:05 AM
3	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. They do, but in todays world everything gets twisted as coercion or manipulation if it fits someones interests. Women will speak shit about their exes out of spite and convenience (just look at divorce courts). Same with all the other factors you mentioned, they can all be used to justify a certain behaviour without taking responsability for it. I care about people actions, the only observable thing, I cant asure if she felt forced or willing because I cant read minds. If sarah didnt love jim, s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 05:03 AM
5	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. If that was my partner, I would play the video in front of her and demand an explanation, depending on her response things could end right there. No man (or woman) should be treated as less than an ex by their partner. Sarah loved jim and she got her ass enthusiastically pounded every night by him. Ten years later she marries bob (who she says she loves) but she doesnt even want his pinky finger in her ass. She is treating bob as less than jim. COUNTEREXAMPLE: bob marries sarah, they never go to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:46 AM
3	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. Being manipulated is an excuse, something a lot of people says to deny their own agency in a situation. Unless her life was in danger she wasnt forced, if you cave to the pressure to do something, you are doing it voluntarily. No man (or woman) should be treated as less by their partner. If sarah loved jim and she slurped the semen from his cock, and ten years later she marries bob (who she says she loves) she should slurp his cum too, with the same enthusiasm, else she would be treatin bob as l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:17 AM
1	What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market? A small one, and it wont change anything. There have allways been prostitutes, now they come in more flavours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 10:00 PM
2	Q4M is it easier to hookup or get a relationship with a 22 year old woman or a 32 year old woman? Some do, some dont	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 06:18 AM
1	Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother? I have a good relationship with my mother, not so much with my father (untreated schizophrenia with mystic delusions). But, my mother was overprotective in some ways that affected my openness to experiences up to today. So yeah, if she had been a diferent way I would have got laid more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:45 AM
1	Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos? There are tattoos and there are tramp stamps. Also, a lot of tattoos, or really big ones that lack any meaning seem wierd to me. I dont have nor will have any tattoo	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 03:09 AM
3	The idea that Will Smith is a "beta male" is ridiculous and shows how delusional the manosphere is If you slap someone and you are the one who end up crying, you are definitely not a macho men. Will is a cuck bitch and nothing more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 05:34 AM
-1	(Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.? My vemale equivalent would be shaved from the neck down, or at least a combination of trimmed/shaved down there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 07:17 PM
1	female emancipation and subsequent promiscuity does not causes societal decline. The whole post is ethnicaly charged, an ethnicaly charged comment is apropiated in this case, as it is not discriminatory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 10:29 PM
3	The deteriorating relationships between men and women discussed in this sub are indicators of a society breaking down and about to eat itself And wich was one of the determining factors of the fall of the empire?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 10:58 AM
7	The deteriorating relationships between men and women discussed in this sub are indicators of a society breaking down and about to eat itself History will tell if "equality" was a good idea	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 10:54 AM
3	Being a lesbian, is 10x worse than being a straight man in terms of dating, and it makes me angry when they talk about how bad "THEY" got it. But I would never get away with something like that as a lesbian, I have to get up every morning, and look my best, just hoping I find a woman part of the 0.9% who will actually be attracted to women, then hope they fall into the 20% that are attracted to me, then hope they fall into the 10% that are actually compatible with me as a partner. Im still a virgin at 31 years old due to this, men have 50% of the population, and I have about 0.5% of the population to ask out / attempt to date. (...)mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 04:35 PM
6	women are attracted to both looks and personality. The problem with drunk women is than no matter how willingly she jumped on your cock, the morning after there is always the posibility she feels she was taken advantage. Stacy, no one forced those mojitos on your throat, if you know alcohol loosens your panties dont drink, and dont cry after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 12:42 PM
1	women are attracted to both looks and personality. You have to divide thing in atraction and longevity. Your physical features are the first thing she will notice and what will most likely pay attention to you, your personality will make the difference between an ONS or a LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 12:39 PM
13	About Emma Watson The main difference is than Brendan Fraser has a lovable character, Emma as you said is a man hating feminist.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/22 09:11 AM
1	The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern world There is a saying than a lot of single women use in my country when reffering to themselves: "single but never alone" It gives you a lot to think about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 07:02 AM
2	What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill? Feminism and modern women dating attitudes	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 05:49 PM
1	when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to income Actually no, I dont want to have children, so by being two fully functional adults not tied by the constrains of raising childrens, she would have to be near my income level. There is nothing she could do (that I cant do by myself) that she could use to "compensate". As the OP said, lower bracket is off limits, a higher bracket too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 08:30 AM
1	Having kids might be a really good option for the average Men, Here's why. I was going to write most idiotic but it sounded a bit harsh, then forgot to correct it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 04:48 AM
5	when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to income I would be using the lower salary as a standard, and if I didnt like the lifestile I could get, I wouldnt move with someone. Im not a high earner, but I live very well by myself, debt free and making some savings, why would I want to bring someone in that its an economical burden? If you cant finance yourself, dont move with someone and expect them to cover the difference. Before moving with someone, you have to be able to live by yourself, couples can break for nothing this days, and the low ea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 04:10 AM
6	when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to income IMO no, Finances should be separated and, except food, all living costs should be 50/50. We both would use the house in the same measurement, the one who earns less wont be using a percentage of the house proportional to their income, if I covered 67% of all bills, I dont get a room just for myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 03:46 AM
3	Having kids might be a really good option for the average Men, Here's why. You are forgeting another scenario, she gets preagnant of a hot late 20s and passes it as yours, makes you pay all the bills and raise another mans child. If you can be a sociopath, she can be a worse one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 06:28 AM
6	Having kids might be a really good option for the average Men, Here's why. Dude, Im from Argentina. A man who has worked his whole life wouldnt sudenly stop for two years, he knows than that would cost him a lot of economical growth and a lot of missed work oportunities. You forget than nothing would stop said woman from having your child, getting rid of you and get a hot late 20s man while living from your alimony. You offering money in todays world will get you some sex, but never someone who you could trust to raise your children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 05:48 AM
8	Having kids might be a really good option for the average Men, Here's why. The whole plan is non viable: 1) Most preety modern woman dont want a family in her early 20s, they start seriously wanting one at their 30s. 2) If she wanted a family at that age it would be most likely with ayoung hot dude to have future hot children, remember than at that age she doesnt think much about the future. And at her early 20s she doesnt need to setle with an average joe with some cash. 3) The plan has too many variables you cant control, just to build up to executing the final part …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 04:48 AM
23	Having kids might be a really good option for the average Men, Here's why. This is by far one of the most dumb things I have read in this subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 04:34 AM
1	Cooking Trial, error and youtube. Also, ask your mom how to do basic things, with time you will like it.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/04/22 03:21 AM
11	The logistics of dating as a man. Exactly my experience, and Im not an ugly guy, women only aproach to see what they can get from us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 07:02 PM
5	Sex life of a high value man? Its because he changes partner when they turn 25	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 08:11 AM
2	A high "N count" woman is probably going to appreciate a man who is a good lover, more than a low N count woman will..... Because most of us dont have the avaiability of possible sexual partners the average woman has	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 04:56 AM
3	A high "N count" woman is probably going to appreciate a man who is a good lover, more than a low N count woman will..... Starfish or BJ with teeths	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 04:53 AM
1	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? On a weekly basis? 10% at most	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 01:25 AM
1	What Do Men Get Out Of Relationships Other Than Sex (And Are Relationships Really Reciprocal)? 1) Emotional support 2) Company 3) Different perspectives and tastes 4) Unconditional love 5) A champion to fight for you and take your side 6) Someone to always rely on I honestly would argue points 1, 4 and to an extent 5 and 6. Not all women in a relationship give emotional support, thats why stoicism on a man is seen as more atractive than emotional men. Number 4 is particular cancer, from the moment you start courting a woman, nothing is unconditional, if relationships were trully unconditi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 05:11 AM
2	Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it? Because most women are trying to buy a Ferrari with the budget of a Fiat 600 What I mean is that most women cant provide the female equivalent to the high standards they impose on men. There you see women demanding a 6 6 6 6 man (6 feet tall, 6 figure income, 6 pack, 6 inches plus) that cant even reciprocate two of those categories (weight, financial stability, hourglass figure/muscular tone, big breast/ass), its a rough comparison but you understand. Being stereotypical good looking its easier …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 04:42 AM
14	I feel like young men should never commit to a relationship if women will have sex with them regardless. I started balding at 19, decided to shave it clean at 21, its not a big deal, I dont understand why men choose to have a horseshoe haircut when there are razors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 05:05 AM
1	Questions for those who MGTOW / WGTOW 33M here Is this truly voluntarily? As in did you set out to have a single life, or did it happen due to inabilty to find a partner who meets what you are seeking (due to lack of numbers, market matching inefficiencies, the people you desire not desiring you, etc.?) 75% involuntary, 25% voluntary. I lack some social skills required to catch and generate sexual tension (others I have, but just rusted), signs of interest have to be very explicit for me to catch them. Im stereotipical atractive but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 05:26 AM
1	Would you rather be in a relationship with someone hot but poor, “below average” but ambitious and financially secure, or be celibate for the rest of your life? 33M here, going for the third option. Im financially independent, can support myself and still make savings, Im 180cm, 75Kg toned, no dad bod here. If Im getting in a relationship, I expect to recieve the same things I can give, I dont want a money leech nor a "curvy" girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 04:29 AM
4	Question for men and woman: why dont you use Instagram as a dating app? Maybe the comment is directed at your granma	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 04:04 AM
1	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men Historically speaking, men didnt need women to provide for them. In todays world men are not educated to depend on women in any form, most of us know how to cook, clean and do basic house chores, besides pussy and some companionship, we dont need them for much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 09:36 AM
2	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men Its actually very easy, men are needed to produce and women to reproduce. If tomorrow all men die, society crumbles (no food, gas, elecricity, water, etc), women wouldnt last a year before they die too. If tomorrow all women die men would survive (as we built and mantain everything needed to keep civilization runing), there wouldnt be a next generation, society would be finished anyway, but men would have last good years. Women are more valued because they are the bottleneck of societies growth,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:28 AM
2	Q4M: Do you have very many positive relationships with women? How does this effect your perspective? So, acording to you, sleeping with someone (not blood related) than you find atractive is somehow a bad thing? Get a grip of reality and stop trying to put female mentality on how men conduct themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:59 AM
1	Q4M: Do you have very many positive relationships with women? How does this effect your perspective? They may not want to date you but they may see (dating) value in you and wish other women to date you. But, do they actually se dating value in men they are not sexually atracted to?, comming from the gender that say "where are all the good men", I doubt any would pass on a good one they allready like enough to have a bond.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:48 AM
1	Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women? Im going to guess "wet ass pussy"	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:07 AM
2	Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women? Peace (drama free relationship)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 02:59 AM
13	Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women? So I guess I would ask you, what do you WANT women to “bring to the table?” Genuinely curious. Peace of mind, trust, maturity, affection, independence (monetary mostly, Im nobodys ATM) physical intimacy, willingness to explore in sex, beauty and youth. EDIT: almost forgot, no children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 02:35 AM
1	Q4M: Do you have very many positive relationships with women? How does this effect your perspective? I have years long friendships with women I met while studying my mayor (psychology), longest one is a 6yo friendship (I had a female friend from the beginning of my career, our friendship would have been 11yo by now but I lended her money and she didnt keep up the payment schedule she proposed and thougt I lended her less than I did, she paid me in full but our firendship died that day). My female friends go to the full spectrum of political view from a conservative chatolic to a militant femini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 10:59 PM
1	What do you think “the wall” looks like for women over 30? Have you actually seen evidence of the wall? My thoughts are the wall for women is more myth than reality. Agree or disagree? There seems to be a confussion, "The Wall" is not the moment a woman stops being sexually atractive, it is the moment she can no longer atract and/or keep arround the caliber of men she thinks she is entitled too. There are lots of preety 30s and 40s years old women, but if they are as HMV as they think they are, why havent they secured a good partner by now???	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 05:42 AM
1	Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women. Some choose to call this woman “Alpha-widowed” in the red pill community but let’s face it, this is PTSD and nothing else You are mixing concepts, an "Alpha widow" is a woman who dated a stereotipical ideal man, lost him and now compares every other man she dates with him, she chases an ideal, not dicks. An "Alpha widow", does not necesarily have a high body count, but unless she finds another Alpha, she will eventually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 12:27 PM
1	Q4Men: Would you go out of your way to talk to a woman you had no sexual attraction towards? If its work or university related, yes. I have female friends I made in those two envirroments. BUT getting intentionally out of my way to talk to a stranger without any reason (except I find them sexually atractive), then its a big no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 06:34 PM
7	Are men actually the initiators? With the current political climate, we men had to change the way we act, in case of doubt, its not a "sign". The costs outweight the benefits in case of a mistake, women need to be more explicit wih their aproaches now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 07:56 PM
1	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? It is estipulated than 70% of an average Argentinian earnings gets spended on taxes, we also have free healthcare and education, but since the public system has to be inclusive, public education is really bad. We have really good proffesionasl in healthcare, but the condition of hospitals is deplorable. If you want good education and healthcare you have to go to private institutions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 02:57 PM
10	Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline? IMO checking out means than if you know you are sexually undesirable you will start working less because there is no prospect of a family in the future, so you will only need to provide for yourself, and we men can be very frugal. Working less will not only generate less but you will also reduce your spendings to hobbies that you can do alone, gaming is actually preety cheap considering that you can play the same game for hundreds of hours (for example, Minecraft). Hobbies like reading, excersic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 02:13 PM
4	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? For the USA war is a business and a part of its culture, the military budget wont be reduced to feed the lower class	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 03:17 AM
3	What solutions would you guys propose? There already is, its called Sudy	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 03:09 AM
4	What solutions would you guys propose? Until the next califate takes over. The moment they start experiencing the same issues we in the western world are experimenting, they will do a 180 turn, and it will be easier for them because the its culture its way more conservative than christian culture is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 03:04 AM
0	Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships? Im from Argentina, one of the countries with higher taxes in the world, with a governament that suposedly cares about poor people, believe me, more taxes are NEVER the solution, they dont even help a bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 02:57 AM
2	Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to dating Besides the sex industry, female psychoanalists are a big red flag, I had a few dates with two and they both had A LOT of issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 10:02 PM
15	The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue. A subreddit where women openly call men "scrotes" while having a ridiculous list of demands its the equivalent of neckbeards calling women "holes" while pretending to have a nympho supermodel by their side. I dont understand how TRP subreddit was quarantined but FDS did not, another feminist double standard from the reddit moderator team???	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 01:18 PM
3	Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men? Wanna get married as a woman? Be nice, supportive, gentle, loving, kind, etc… You can be a death row felon who genocides cats and be all those things a second after you decide you want to be them. All the kindness, support, niceness, etc can dissapear at a whim. And dont forget than her beauty will start slowly but steadily depreciating, there is a really small percentage of women than are preetier in their 30s than in their 20s. And for those who will say than men age too, yes, but first of all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 12:58 PM
3	Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men? I’m already aware of the intangible “benefits” such as companionship, motivation, encouragement, and all the fluffy attributes you’d use to bejewel a job application for a position which you’re severely under-qualified for, but I’d like to see the tangible benefits of marriage, for men, enumerated. Men should be getting all of this without having to bet half their assets. IMO marriage is an extortion tactic wich lets you keep the bond you had before proposing, there is no real gain beyond a negl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 04:41 AM
1	Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men? They might earn more, but what percentage of his income is at his dissposal??? Single men eanr less because its less expensive for them to live alone and they can dispose of 100% of their income at their will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 04:41 AM
1	Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to also Eh, this makes sense. Women invest in our appearance a lot more trying to impress you guys. Cost of make up, cute clothes, nails are not cheap. Really... Im tired of hearing women say than they dress for themselves, not for a man. And in the remote case you do dress for a man, its because you want to have your ego stroked when he compliments you. Also we risk our safety a lot more. Choose better partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 04:08 AM
3	Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to also False equivalence, you are asuming than its equaly easy to be a slut as a man, than being a slut as a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 03:59 AM
2	Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to also All that nuance is for very specific scenarios. Neither me, nor most in TRP would say "She gave anal to that older guy but doesn't with me." if she was indeed pressured. Pressured is different than forced. If you are pressured you can always say no, how many of us on this forum were socially pressured to smoke cigarretes/drink/take drugs and how many actually did it? In the end its always a choice. Unless the older guy forced her to do anal, then it was her choice to comply to his wishes, dont t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 03:53 AM
2	CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to women My thinking is that most women are marrying a beta bux tells you that the bottom 80% men ARE getting into relationships and marrying the women that couldn't land a top 20% guy. Well, nobody wants to be a consolation price and be resented for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 02:26 AM
7	If you’re seeing multiple guys and none of them invested the time to get you flowers, that fact should prove that you’re nothing but poll na síol salach! She is two days old leftovers but she thinks she is the whole banquet, let her delude herself, its better for the cats.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/02/22 05:58 AM
5	If you’re seeing multiple guys and none of them invested the time to get you flowers, that fact should prove that you’re nothing but poll na síol salach! Dont tell her the HIV part, in some countries you could get legal repercusions for a joke like that.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/02/22 04:01 AM
18	If you’re seeing multiple guys and none of them invested the time to get you flowers, that fact should prove that you’re nothing but poll na síol salach! The funny part is that her whole group of men doesnt consider her worthy of a misarable bouquet jajajaja, this bitches burn themselves	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/02/22 03:58 AM
29	21 year old single mother finding out it is hard to date after leaving her baby daddy. "I'm a young girl, my opportunities aren't ruined or finished". Insult a list of demands A through K. And that's just to get you in the door with this single mom. Maybe she meant libido, but who knows	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/02/22 09:33 PM
3	With one 1 requirement, she has filtered out 85% of the population. Never mind anything else like his emotional status, income, looks, physical and mental health, d size, career or anything else. One stipulation and 85% are out. And women think they are reasonable? What do you call an overentitled 19yo on Tinder? A sperm cementery	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/02/22 09:00 PM
47	You can't be sexual even though her TCS shows he has had plenty of it. she got fatter at each picture	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/02/22 04:21 PM
22	Another girl who regrets riding the cc. In her opinion, she is relationship material and deserves more! Indeed, never forget Giacomo Casanova, the first documented Überchad (Genghis doesnt count he did a lot of r*pe). He had A LOT of women, but still had to court them. He was a master seducer.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/01/22 04:47 PM
6	As the discussion to make James Bond a woman rolls on I thought of some other films that we could change the gender of: Im still waiting for Brokeback Mountain with Margot Robbie, just saying...	/r/MensRights	02/10/21 07:13 AM
1	Something seems off about FreshAndFit. What do you think about them? 100% on both Red and Myron. IMHO Myron has zero debating skills, he just repeats and pushes his point of view until the guest get tired of aguing against a wall. I´ve seen the show quite a few times and he never considered another point of view that doesnt match with his ideology.	/r/askTRP	12/08/21 04:56 AM
1	Something seems off about FreshAndFit. What do you think about them? posted this in another reddit thread but it aplies here too. "IMO their traditional muslim upbring permeates a lot in their ideas (i dont mean it in a bad way), specialy in gender roles and what should be expected of a "high quality women" (wich is basically a 1920 housewife in their eyes). It just doesnt aplly in XXI century. Also and specifically about Myron, he doesnt bring women to debate, he brings them to give them a lecture about his ideology and doesnt admit any rebutal or different pers…	/r/askTRP	02/08/21 04:46 AM
3	Thoughts on Fresh & Fit? IMO their traditional muslim upbring permeates a lot in their ideas (i dont mean it in a bad way), specialy in gender roles and what should be expected of a "high quality women" (wich is basically a 1920 housewife in their eyes). It just doesnt aply in XXI century. Also and specifically about Myron, he doesnt bring women to debate, he brings them to give them a lecture about his ideology and doesnt admit any rebutal or different perspective. He never brought someone who´s a psychologist, sociolo…	/r/askTRP	02/08/21 04:36 AM