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https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/jan/23/vladimir-putin-rogue-male-ukraine-war-russia From the very first sentence of that article. The term “rogue male”, denoting a rampaging bull elephant, is also used figuratively to describe a dangerously out-of-control, cold-hearted loner. That the leader of a world power can get painted with such a wide brush would be the most prime example I ran across today.
/r/MensRights23/01/22 06:51 PM
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This too shall pass! Humanity has survived holy wars, plagues, famine, genocide and other tragedies. We will survive COVID-19 too! Wishing you comfort and good cheer during these stressful days. ♥️
/r/MensRights13/07/21 07:21 PM
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Some of those commercials were pure cringe. Gillette springs to mind.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 04:51 AM
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That is true.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 03:50 AM
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I do not see the similarity. Men have always paid for things like perfumed soaps, beard conditioners, cologne etc.. I’d hesitate to label the likes of George Washington as a metrosexual. Grooming standards have always been more of a class distinction for men.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 01:58 AM
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As a woman, I can answer this. Because any man capable of being a traditional man is at a premium and women hate competition for those men. As women have been pushed into the workspace, taking jobs from men and lowering the value of labor by creating a surplus, men who can still bring home the bacon to run a “traditional” household are in increasingly short supply. It’s about the money, honey! Men hate hearing how women value them for their money, but this has been true for ages. It is not about…
/r/MensRights29/06/21 11:45 PM
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Only if you enjoy coating your hair in micro plastics.
/r/MensRights11/06/21 07:36 AM
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Hold up! Beards are luxurious. Some men refuse to grow them because of the itchiness. Beard oil can mean the difference between getting to stroke a beard, or not. I do not care how long a man spends in his personal care routine as long as he grows the beard out for me occasionally. Beards are magical patches that, when stroked, relieve stress. Some men get paid to have their beards stroked. +1 to all the men out there rocking the man fur!
/r/MensRights10/06/21 06:11 PM
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I have never had a problem with this. If a man does something I do not like, I tell them in no uncertain terms so that they may correct that behavior. If they do it again, they get shut out quick for not respecting boundaries. I have no idea why this is such a hard concept for some people. Words have power, use them!
/r/MensRights10/06/21 09:45 AM
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That is not rape. Not even close. The dilution of that term does a great disservice to victims.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 09:11 AM
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In Cuba it is because women are seen as fellow revolutionaries. Che Guevara had a very strong influence upon positioning women to aid his cause. He understood they would be viewed with less suspicion. They could recruit, influence and obtain supplies easier than men. Female participation was seen as essential to success. He was also considered to be exceptionally attractive, and had to evade groups of female admirers. Propaganda is a powerful tool. Uganda has gender quotas.
/r/MensRights07/06/21 04:15 AM
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The result of androcide would be genocide by default.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 09:46 AM
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Not as hard as you might think. Biological warfare is a real threat to humanity. It is possible to develop a weapon that has the potential to wipe out an entire ethnic group. We have already developed and released genetically modified mosquitoes with knock out genes that will kill off entire specific breeds of other mosquitoes in the name of preventing diseases like Malaria. CRISPR has enabled us to genetically modify humans. Many countries are actively trying to create so called super soldiers.…
/r/MensRights06/06/21 08:44 AM
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The choice to engage with others is a personal one. If you try it and you find it positive, there is nothing wrong with that. You have the right to change your mind. Worrying about what other people do is an exhausting way to live. You can only control your own actions. Taking the time to explore your options and feelings seems to be the only real way for you to find out what you want. So go ahead and take a break. It may be just what you need to figure things out.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 08:30 AM
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I believe MGTOW gets an unjustly bad reputation. If a certain group has hurt you, often repeatedly, it is not rational to keep wanting to associate with them. Men going their own way is not about hating women. It is a perfectly reasonable reaction to the way some women behave in our society. As a woman myself, having read these unbelievably horrible articles, I have been shocked by just how hard life has become for men in our society. It seems wise to take this information into account.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 08:11 AM
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No one should be advocating and promoting mass murder. It is not funny, cute, or creative. It is sick, repulsive and degenerate.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:28 AM
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No pumpkin spice lattes?! Now that is a crisis if I ever heard one! Finally! A man who understands the real issues! Take the gold!
/r/MensRights05/06/21 04:05 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HKSQeUqHOuI The montage begins at 1:26. Ready to Rumble was created to cash in on the hottest era in wrestling, but ended up a box office bomb. The movie kept getting changed during production, but there is enough winks at those familiar with the lifestyle to make you question the intention of whoever had the final say on including this. The movie is filled with over the top crude humor, so there was no need to include a supercut of all the low blows already seen by…
/r/MensRights05/06/21 02:50 PM
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Do you have proof of these pictures being posted in 2016? I will stand corrected if that is in fact the case, but surely the press would have seen them and roasted her during her campaign?
/r/MensRights04/06/21 12:57 PM
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If they were published before she ran for office, why is she seen with a subordinate? If the relationship occurred before she was in power then she did not abuse her power, because she did not have it. The Daily Mail published the pictures in October of 2019. She was in office January 2019.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 12:49 PM
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Your politically powerful wife is cheating on you with a woman staffer and using drugs gives you permission to post pictures of those facts for the world to see knowing full well that it would end her career said no woman ever. If you honestly believe she consented to that, I have a bridge in Brooklyn you might be interested in!
/r/MensRights04/06/21 12:31 PM
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You do not need a subpoena to get a copy of your own phone records in most cases. Depending on his carrier it can be as easy as logging into is account and printing it out. Also, if you are not backing up your history now, you should definitely start. Men need to be more proactive in protecting themselves given the frequency of false allegations.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 10:57 AM
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It can be as easy as calling your phone service provider and making the request. Wayback may not be what you need depending on the sites you used. I would need more specifics to help you.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 09:56 AM
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Deleted on your end and deleted on the other end are often two different things. Phone records are kept. Posts can be retrieved using a wayback machine and other methods.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 09:51 AM
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Even if they were taken with her knowledge, sharing them with the world was not something she consented to. We gained nothing from seeing her naked. We did get rid of a corrupt politician though, so there is that.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 09:46 AM
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Always trust your instincts! Is there any chance this proof that you no longer have is recoverable? You may be surprised by the information that gets stored elsewhere.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 09:33 AM
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Do you have documentation to show this is not the first time she has done this? She has escalated to harassing your wife and children. It is worth your time to gather the documentation and see a lawyer regarding your options. Harassing children is a lot more than he said, she said.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 09:20 AM
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You moved on, but she clearly did not. You have a wife and children to protect from her. If you have a wife and kids, this woman is years deep into still thinking about you. That’s scary. Scary enough to where you need a plan to protect yourself from what appears to be an escalation of delusional behavior. If you do not have social media, how did she get a picture of you? Is it an old picture of you together, or something more recent? That is a cause for concern.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 09:07 AM
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No one deserves to be a victim of revenge pornography. While she never claimed abuse in her divorce documents, she was successful in getting a restraining order against her now ex-husband after the divorce was finalized. While abusing her power to have an affair with a staff member was clearly wrong, this is a separate matter and it should not get swept under the rug. The law basically said this was O.K. and in the public interest because she was a public servant. If this were a male politician,…
/r/MensRights04/06/21 07:14 AM
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So is Emma Watson.
/r/MensRights03/06/21 10:53 AM
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Harassment does not have to be sexual in nature. It is still highly inappropriate. No adult should be touching a child without consent. Relation and intent of the person doing the unwanted touching does not matter. The only thing that matters is you. You have autonomy over your body. No one gets to touch you without your permission. Period. There is no justification for what they are doing. None. Whatsoever.
/r/MensRights03/06/21 10:41 AM
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They are in the wrong. No one, not one other soul has the right to touch you when you do not want to be touched. Period! That goes for any contact, not just sexual. That they persist will only drive you further away from them and for good reasons! They have no respect for you, or your boundaries. They have no problem trying to gaslight and emotionally blackmail you into submitting to their unwanted contact. Your instincts exist for a reason. You owe these people nothing. Even less so because the…
/r/MensRights03/06/21 10:17 AM
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Being into porn at such a young age is a huge red flag. You say nothing happened, that no one in your family was tortured. These thoughts you are having clearly indicate something happened that made you uncomfortable at the very least. There is nothing wrong with acknowledging that. Whatever you are feeling is valid. You did nothing wrong. Just in case you need to read that again. You were just five years old. Whatever happened, you were innocent. A five year old has no ability to consent.
/r/MensRights03/06/21 09:38 AM
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You were 5 years old. Your sister was 10 years old. You were lured. There is nothing in those facts that make you wrong. A 10 year old girl should not have that knowledge, nor guile. It sounds like your sister may have been sexually abused as well. That an abuser may have been abused themselves does not absolve them of personal responsibility for their actions. Even if they were not of age. That is not sexual harassment, that is sexual assault. That is rape. You should see a doctor and get check…
/r/MensRights03/06/21 07:40 AM
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Have an evil cackle award too. You’ve earned it!
/r/MensRights02/06/21 09:16 AM
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I see you are a refugee from r/relationships. Username checks out. Yeah, if your idea of rational is listening to more of that, I’m good too.
/r/MensRights02/06/21 09:12 AM
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Calling women hysterical nitwits, trying to gate keep an entire gender through suggested speech correction, and trying to call someone out on Reddit are poor ways to make your case for women not being irrational creatures. If you are a Karen, take it to the Mods. Otherwise, bye Felicia!
/r/MensRights02/06/21 09:04 AM
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Now you are claiming I said things I did not say. You can not engage without making false accusations and labeling.
/r/MensRights01/06/21 11:52 PM
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So you can not pick up on cues, but now magically know what I think and believe? The cognitive dissonance...
/r/MensRights01/06/21 11:42 PM
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As a woman, let me tell you we most certainly can detect periods. There are a whole range of visual cues. Flushed cheeks, slight temperature... we have a whole name for it. It’s called PMS and it is real. LMAO! I can not believe I am having this conversation! Yes, men and women are mammals. Like other mammals, we detect signs that assist in reproduction. These are not radical feminist concepts.
/r/MensRights01/06/21 11:32 PM
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No, they really do. Men are able to detect when a woman is ovulating due to changes in scent. They also emit pheromones that help women regulate our monthly cycles. Men’s bodies are amazingly responsive and supportive of women’s bodies.
/r/MensRights01/06/21 11:16 PM
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People are definitely more kind to you when you are perceived to be beautiful. I have not seen the ad you referenced, but I have seen that behavior in real life. Some women act as if it would kill them to smile, or even treat a man seen as unattractive with the same decency they would as one they found attractive. I find that behavior repulsive. You never know if you might be the highlight of someone’s day. It is much better to be kind than to be mean. It was probably those same kind of people w…
/r/MensRights01/06/21 09:05 PM
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The ending credits in Ready to Rumble features a montage of groin shots throughout the film to highlight the ridiculousness of this trope.
/r/MensRights01/06/21 06:11 AM
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You do not have to show skin to get the interest of men. When I go shopping, I’m covered. Men really seem to like stockings for reasons I do not understand. That it gives them a reason to approach me may also have something to do with it. It makes for an easy conversation starter. Plus, men take compliments easier when they perceive a woman to be attractive. It really makes being able to ask questions about a man I may find attractive much easier too. I definitely agree that showing skin raises …
/r/MensRights01/06/21 03:57 AM
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Men are visual creatures. Some women fail to understand that fact, or are conditioned to believe otherwise. Men can control themselves, but women can absolutely lower their ability to do so through their method of dress. I wear dirndls almost exclusively because it enables me to take advantage of this fact. Men will absolutely be more receptive and helpful to you based upon your dress and how you take care of yourself. Men love beautiful women and there is nothing misogynistic about that. As a w…
/r/MensRights01/06/21 12:29 AM
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What language did she want you to learn and why? Canadians who also speak French have the sexiest accents on Earth. I do not know where you are from, but is there any chance she may have been turned on by your voice? Some men just have the power.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 12:50 PM
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That compromise gets easier when you have the money to do both and then some. I’m not taking anything you said personally. Everyone is entitled to the pursuit of happiness. It is good that you declined to settle for someone who did not make you happy. Average wife, average life. It seems cold, but all you are asking for is a partner who shares your drive. Perception can be such an unreliable guide. What seems 30% to you may have been 100% to her. Your 90% may not have seemed like much to her. Be…
/r/MensRights31/05/21 12:00 PM
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What if I told you I do not want a man to sacrifice? A relationship should be the opposite of sacrifice. I want a man to compliment me and vice versa. I do not have to work anymore. It’s everything they say it is. I did take some part time work offered to me by an acquaintance last month who reached out to me. I had done some small work for them previously and it has been a very beneficial relationship. I get a flat rate, plus percentage on each deal, so the pay has huge swings. I find people pr…
/r/MensRights31/05/21 11:27 AM
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Sacrifices are not equal. That is why they are sacrifices. You do not always get what you give. Having things handed to you without having to sacrifice is great. Anyone telling you otherwise is lying to you. I used to think just like you, but it is not true at all. As a matter of fact, I appreciate stuff being given to me much more than having to work hard for it. I used to work 240 hours a month for what I make in five minutes now. Do I appreciate having to sacrifice my time, health, relationsh…
/r/MensRights31/05/21 10:50 AM
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I worked for everything I have. Money makes it easier to be selective. Dating is more fun and relaxed. You can really get to know a man by putting him in a situation where he is free to enjoy himself. I have no interest in sacrificing my world for anyone else. The whole sacrifice thing is overrated and unrealistic. If you can not be a whole person without someone else, that is a “you” problem. If you are that person, quit doing it now. I was once that person. Once I quit being that person, life …
/r/MensRights31/05/21 10:17 AM
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I will take the downvotes for saying it. Money does matter. I was a poor once. Never again! Having money is so much better! You sleep better, work better, feel better, treat yourself better, and so on. You get used to a higher standard of living and you never want to go back. Having other people take care of you is so nice. The part that got me about it was that it is a self fulfilling cycle. Once you actually make it, staying there gets so much easier. Opportunities find you and life just gets …
/r/MensRights31/05/21 09:48 AM
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The need for emotional support is a basic human need and no one should be made to feel ashamed for it. Men sometimes have deep issues that women are shocked to hear about. Men are way better at bottling up their emotions than we are. When those floodgates finally do open, it can be overwhelming for us to hear about what men are experiencing. Women are also likely to experience strong emotional reactions to such information. We are emotional, irrational creatures. Think about it. The first stage …
/r/MensRights31/05/21 07:56 AM
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Internet access is widespread and freely available. You gonna ban your kid from joining Nick Jr. or something? Did they need a school email? Friend set them up with an account to play online? Oops! They are on the grid! Children are sent suggestive materials all the time because you need an email address to sign up for anything. Those email addresses eventually get put on a list somewhere to be used by anyone for any purpose. I received unsolicited, graphic images by email by age 11. Internet sa…
/r/MensRights31/05/21 07:18 AM
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I joined Reddit to participate in Wall Street Silver. Investing in silver was something I was doing long before the price shot up. I have read plenty of criticisms about cryptocurrency, but I had never seen it described as being sexist before. How could the made up names Dogecoin, Litecoin, or Bitcoin, be considered sexist as that author suggests?
/r/MensRights31/05/21 02:59 AM
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As a former ugly duckling who had a glow up, this is an uncomfortable truth. People treat you so much better if you are considered to be pretty. The difference is night and day.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 02:18 AM
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I think the answer would vary based upon culture, country and be skewed towards men. Just think of all the world leaders throughout history that had professional hitmen on stand by. Thomas Beckett was murdered because several such men misinterpreted what Henry the Young King said. Dirty deeds are not done dirt cheap and men were the most likely to be able to afford it.
/r/MensRights30/05/21 09:41 PM
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I am not the OP. I have no children.
/r/MensRights30/05/21 04:04 AM
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That was my point. Foreigners are not stupid and they likely targeted this poor child because he is autistic. If they could get him to send them money, that would be bad enough. Worse, they could blackmail this poor kid depending on what they were able to convince him to do in exchange for the nudes. Even worse would have been if the parents had not taken action and this advanced to trying to get this child to meet them somewhere. Luring people to their deaths for black market organ selling has …
/r/MensRights30/05/21 03:50 AM
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The OP stated these were foreign women. Looking for a foreign partner to marry, or produce a child with for citizenship is not uncommon. They may have been grooming a child so they could take advantage of him for that purpose.
/r/MensRights30/05/21 03:28 AM
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Part 3, section 2 of your post is particularly awful. Imagine a world in which no man is ever allowed to be woken up with a blowjob. Section 3, part 1 of your post would allow men to be found guilty on the word of another. Section 3, part 3 does not address consensual non-consent and a range of other dynamics. Imagine a man being married for years, his wife develops a paraphilia, or loses a previously established interest in one. How would the law protect a man who would have no way of proving t…
/r/MensRights28/05/21 10:24 AM
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If I have gleaned anything from Reddit, it is that men have few resources to meet base needs. A man is hard pressed to have anyone listen to him without being given a derogatory label in return.
/r/MensRights28/05/21 02:17 AM
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Proving you do not hate women is not a prerequisite to advocating for men’s rights. That the stereotype exists at all is proof positive that men are not treated equally when advocating for their basic human rights. Men and woman are not equal. Nature has drawn lines of distinction between the genders. Acknowledging that men can do some things better than women, and vice versa, does not make any man here a hater of women.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 11:11 PM
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Less invisibility and more tolerance. Even when a teacher abuses her students, she is able to escape punishment. Society tells the poor child how fortunate he is for being violated in the worst way possible. Out of all the double standards, this one is the worst.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 11:49 AM
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L'Oreal products are trash. Seriously, they coat your hair in micro plastics. They made a big deal about taking ten years to remove micro beads from their hair products, but micro plastics are still in their make up products. The mica they use is obtained with child slave labor.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 12:21 AM
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Housing for men is desperately needed. Men who leave abusive situations often find themselves with destroyed credit that makes securing shelter difficult. This lack of shelter compounds issues abused men face. Identity documents and other necessities become unobtainium without an address to send them to. It makes employment drastically harder to secure. Men who sleep rough are often stopped by police and that can make a difficult situation even worse. By far, the number one resource men in such …
/r/MensRights26/05/21 12:33 AM
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Are you shy when it comes to public speaking? That is really common and something you should not feel bad about. Like many other skills, it can be developed with practice. I have run across many men that are reserved by nature, but once they become comfortable talking, they open up. Some of the most interesting conversations I have ever had were with shy men.
/r/MensRights25/05/21 11:43 PM
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I am sure that I will, barring COVID ruining my European vacation plans again!
/r/MensRights25/05/21 07:57 PM
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I wish there was a mansplaining option in real life. As a woman, I’ve always thought that would be a super helpful feature. Men have this magically direct way of explaining how to do things. I would pay for that service. Can’t figure out the assembly directions? Mansplain it to me! Have no idea what tools you need to fix something around the house? Time for a Mansplaination! How no one has developed an app for this yet is beyond me. Sometimes you really do just need a man to explain it to you.
/r/MensRights25/05/21 07:23 AM
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I would recommend taking the paternity test now. It may be your only chance to know for sure. If the child is not yours and you are cleared, you will never have to spend another minute of your life wondering. That child will grow up someday and who knows how much more convoluted the law will be 18 years from now? That is a real gamble. That woman will tell that child who knows what. This may be your one chance to be free once and for all, because that child may well come looking for you someday …
/r/MensRights25/05/21 03:28 AM
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Thank you. That is very kind. :)
/r/MensRights25/05/21 02:41 AM
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Men are not disposable. The calm resignation with which you speak of this subject is horrifying to me. That what you mentioned could be considered normal... just no. If that is the normal for men then normal needs to change. Hypergamy is a foreign concept. I could never marry a man I did not love. Companies do want to hire women. I was not looking for work and I was offered a job making beaucoup bucks out of the blue last week by an acquaintance. I work when I want, wherever I want, how I want. …
/r/MensRights25/05/21 01:03 AM
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That entitlement originated from their creator. It is not wrong for men to want things a certain way in their household. Are there statistics for that being the cause for divorce? I would think that if you went into the relationship knowing that the man would be unhappy with you being the primary earner, and you failed to help him achieve the goal of earning more doing something that he enjoys after more than half a decade, that the failing would not rest solely upon the man. In a partnership, b…
/r/MensRights25/05/21 12:22 AM
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Money buys a certain amount and kind of happiness. Money can buy me a donor, but it can not buy me a man that I love, and a beautiful two parent family. A child needs and deserves both parents in a stable, loving home. You can’t put a sticker price on that happiness.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 10:20 PM
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I have been surprised by messages I have received from men regarding my comments. It seems there are men who are relieved, or otherwise feel unburdened in some way, to see supportive statements from women in regards to being able to express emotions. We are all human and we all need support and validation to reach our potential. For anyone reading this who may need to see it said : It does not make anyone less of a man to experience, or express, emotion.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 09:08 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.rt.com/news/507496-husbands-unhappy-wives-earn-more/amp/ I would be happy to be wrong on this. Women who push men to earn more often do not work themselves. They like being “trophy wives” like they see on TV. Basing your sense of self worth and social status on the capacity of someone else to earn fiat never made any sense to me. What if you meet a really great man, but his passion is a line of work where he is unlikely to make a lot of money? That society bases …
/r/MensRights24/05/21 08:59 PM
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A partnership is supposed to be just that. Just because a man would be unhappy if he was making less does not mean he is wrong. Men are entitled to have emotional needs. As a partner, I would obviously be willing to help my partner earn more money. Just because you meet someone when they are making less than you, and they are unhappy about it, does not mean that circumstances can not change. I really do believe in “for richer or poorer”.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 07:16 PM
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English is clearly not the first language of the author of that article. As a financially independent woman, this topic concerns me. Studies show that men are unhappy in relationships where their partner earns more money than they do. Not all men, obviously, but enough to where it may significantly impact the pool of potential partners.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 06:43 PM
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You realize you were given an inheritance, only to learn it has been taken from you, of course you are upset. Rightfully, justifiably so! I’m a woman and can not speak to this matter in terms of how to address what has been done. All I can say is you are entitled to your feelings. All of them. Anger, grief, resentment, anything and everything you are feeling regarding this having been done to you is valid.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 05:04 PM
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That innocent child will grow up and see his own mother made those videos. That pure, blameless infant is being abused by the one person who is responsible for protecting him from the horrors of this world. She is so mentally ill that she would do this to her own baby so she can solicit attention from strangers. The illusion of acceptance from some random off the street is more valuable to that woman than her own child. The need for institutions to house psychotic people to prevent them from har…
/r/MensRights23/05/21 07:01 PM
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You do not believe women are as intelligent as men. You believe they are flaky, unreliable, and make stupid decisions based on emotion. You still made the decision to see female doctors. Shocked Pikachu Face
/r/MensRights23/05/21 04:22 AM
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First wave feminists were arguably the worst. Almost every single major player was heavily involved in the eugenics movement. They forcibly sterilized hundreds of people without their knowledge. These first wave feminists experimented on humans they deemed “unfit” with uranium, leading to many agonizing deaths. At that time, a woman could be confined in an institution against her will on nothing more than the request of her husband. Suffering something as common as postpartum depression could la…
/r/MensRights23/05/21 04:07 AM
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Thank goodness you survived and escaped! That is not “no big deal”. That is a huge, painful ordeal!
/r/MensRights22/05/21 05:43 PM
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Even if you are in full support of circumcision, hanging body parts for display is tacky to say the least.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 03:10 PM
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I’m just curious. If you raise a child, how do you not know the kid is a psychopath? I bet there were plenty of red flags before this. That aside, I would take my child to the hospital. Yes, there would be evidence. If you do not know your child has a boyfriend, or could be having consensual sexual activity, you are not being a good parent. In this case, the OP stated that the reason for this false accusation was because the woman did have a boyfriend and was sleeping with them, but the parents …
/r/MensRights22/05/21 03:06 PM
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Imagine your lady visiting her mother-in-law and seeing the foreskin of her partner being used as home decor. There is no way to make that seem respectful. It is not like seeing a baby book, or a jar containing a baby’s first tooth, or something.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 01:54 PM
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How about colossal failure? Those parents colossally failed to protect their own son when he needed his parents the most.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 03:13 AM
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He referred to one as his stepdaughter. Not his biological child. He believed his ex’s daughter over his own son. Why she would be in the wife’s will, I have no idea. The damage can never be undone.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 03:11 AM
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This world is so sick! A man’s foreskin is not for mounting on a wall like some kind of perverse, sadistic trophy. Nor is it to be dried, crushed, and used like some kind of manufacturing ingredient for the profit of a multi-billion dollar beauty industry. I pray for the day when men have a choice. That so many are never given autonomy of their own bodies is nothing short of terrorism. Every man deserves to be able to make that choice for himself. Every single one. Every single time.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 02:37 AM
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I do not agree. Sloth is not beneficial. Too much leisure time is a source of depression in retired persons. Intelligence does not correlate to leisure time. You could be as smart as a brick, but have a lifetime of leisure time through inheritance. Many geniuses practice time management and intentionally limit their leisure time. I have ample leisure time. I set my own hours. I never have to work another day in my life if I so choose. There are people much smarter than myself out there who have …
/r/MensRights22/05/21 02:02 AM
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Can he sue them for enabling her? She was seen multiple times, and even after this attempted murder she was granted bail. So what if she was raised in a village, abused and poorly educated? Even a village idiot would not try to murder a man with boiling water!
/r/MensRights22/05/21 01:35 AM
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You believed someone else over your own child with no proof, ruined all of their relationships, their education, their future, and let them rot in jail. Then somehow made it all about how you feel. You absolutely destroyed the foundation of who he was. You feel bad because he is unable to rebound, give you back the trust you don’t deserve, and he has no way to ever go back to being the perfect son that he always was. That is a whole lot more than just “TIFU”!
/r/MensRights21/05/21 10:30 PM
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This! How little self worth did that woman have that she would be willing to have sex with someone for a couple hundred bucks to have her rent paid? That’s gross and there is no way to sugar coat it otherwise. I say this as a woman. Men owe us nothing. They owe any woman willing to do something like that even less.
/r/MensRights20/05/21 01:45 PM
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No. If you are demanding that the things that are your personal responsibility be provided for you by someone else on the basis of your existence, you are acting like a child. The world owes you nothing. She wasn’t being “trad”, or a “brat”, she explicitly wanted a man to pay her rent because she was shacking up with them. That would be prostitution with a mentally handicapped woman.
/r/MensRights20/05/21 01:34 PM
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Whatever happened to the presumption of innocence? False accusations absolutely do happen and it is a real problem because there are zero consequences for those who would destroy the lives of others for their personal gain.
/r/MensRights20/05/21 01:25 PM
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Yes!
/r/MensRights19/05/21 06:15 PM
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True off my chest : Women who behave that way should be institutionalized. They are a danger to themselves and others.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 06:06 PM
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I’m a woman though and this is a men’s rights sub. Besides, I always feel weird talking about it. All I want in life is a loving husband and a beautiful family. When I have to explain why I do not have any contact with my family, it is always awkward. It makes me feel bad, ashamed, like there is something wrong with me, as if I am dimished by virtue of my relation to those people. I am safe now, and have made over a million dollars. Logically, I know I don’t have to be afraid anymore, but I am. …
/r/MensRights19/05/21 05:20 PM
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You have no idea. She spent the 401K of her second husband on having an affair in England, dragging the guy to live with us while still married, and with the second husband still in the house. She abandoned her children for months on end. She then proceeded to have us drop out of school to take care of the children as a result of that affair. That is only the tip of the iceberg. Not getting fed if you made her angry and not having basic things you needed while she bought whatever she wanted for …
/r/MensRights19/05/21 04:56 PM
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All the time. Not once has she ever suffered the logical consequences of her actions. It was deeply embarrassing. She would act as if less than perfect service was a personal affront to her perceived status. She once abandoned me for over a day at a nursing home with my great grandmother when she was dying because I said something that she took as a personal attack. No consequences.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 04:39 PM
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Nope. She eventually beat everyone around her down long enough that they accept her behavior as something to expected. They tip toe around her whims in a vain attempt to keep her pleased, but it never works. She has no friends, just her own family she destroyed. People like that always find something to be angry about. Everyone except me. I left and never looked back. To this day, I say it is the best gift I ever gave myself.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 04:26 PM
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Women who do this only escalate. Keys, laptops, a box of cereal, pots and pans, anything they can grab becomes a weapon. The above are just some I have personally witnessed. My mother was that woman. It is terrifying to be around someone like that. They make everyone around them miserable. They do not limit themselves to their partners. Children, animals, neighbors, literally anyone they come into contact with is a potential victim of their rage.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 04:17 PM
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Accessory. I do not know where the video was filmed, so I am not sure if it applies. Police brush stuff like this aside all the time and act like men can not be victims. They expect men to “just leave” if it gets “bad enough”. Abuse is abuse and I wish society treated it as such.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 03:58 PM
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The only reason I would record something like that would be to break a lease and get as far away from that psychopath as fast as possible! Just being around that would make me cringe! The roommate filming said they were fighting again, which means this was not the first time, and possibly a regular occurrence. Being around such behavior and treating it like it is acceptable is gross. She literally sat there and filmed it as calm as could be. I understand not wanting to redirect attention from a …
/r/MensRights19/05/21 03:47 PM
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The roommate just happened to be there recording her friend? Right. They were working together and trying to push that man to retaliate so they could get it on film. Sickening!
/r/MensRights19/05/21 03:30 PM
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They are almost as dissimilar as it is possible to be. I mean, maybe the most useful comparison would be to see how two geniuses could view the same information (Xerox) and use it for completely different purposes. I’m not sure that comparisons between those two men could be used to draw any useful conclusions pertaining to men’s rights. At least not yet. Steve Jobs was pretty good at protecting himself legally. Some will take that to mean not providing for his daughter as well as they think he …
/r/MensRights19/05/21 12:31 PM
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Steve Jobs > Bill Gates. This is not an apples to oranges comparison. No pun intended. Steve Jobs was given up for adoption as a baby and had complicated relationships throughout his life that led to him treating others the way he did. Many of those who saw the worst of him will also be the first to tell you how he inspired and motivated others to do the best work of their lives. Steve Jobs brought us Pixar, iPods, personal computers in the palms of our hands. It would not be right to lump Steve…
/r/MensRights19/05/21 12:04 PM
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A man has personal self care issues to the point he has skin infections and is losing teeth, but they are more worried about his behavior toward women? The man is clearly neglecting base needs and that is a huge red flag. How about making sure those needs are met before trying to treat him for other things? He believes women are responsible for the personal grooming of men. To the point he has regressed to attention seeking from women of all ages in an attempt to have that base need met from any…
/r/MensRights18/05/21 03:06 PM
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I absolutely agree. I also believe paternity tests should be mandatory.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 04:24 PM
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That is definitely a sticky situation to put it mildly. Is risking facing the anger of a woman worth the potential outcome? Only a man knows the answer to that one. I can’t speak to that perspective given that I am a woman and I know how we are. To ask for a paternity test could seem tantamount to accusing a woman of infidelity during a vulnerable moment. I hope to go the IVF + PGD + selection route someday, so this is a situation that is hard for me to envision being in. I would want to see the…
/r/MensRights17/05/21 04:19 PM
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The mother never need know. Men absolutely have the right to be sure their child is their own. There are incredibly easy ways to have your child tested that do not involve saliva, hair, or bloodwork. As long as you can obtain skin cells from objects they have touched, you can have them tested without raising suspicion. It is a fundamental human right to know where you come from. To intentionally deny someone that knowledge is considered a form of genocide. Children deserve to know their biologic…
/r/MensRights17/05/21 03:48 PM
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Fear is a great motivator. You wife acting heavily based on her emotions? Women are emotional creatures, granted, but that you invested at least ten years of your life to maintain a relationship that made you this unhappy from the beginning screams for self examination. Fear has motivated you to start and maintain a relationship that has made you deeply unhappy for at least a decade. Your time on Earth is limited. How much more of it are you willing to waste on a failed relationship? Consider th…
/r/MensRights17/05/21 12:01 PM
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The paternity test is the easiest one to get. You can refuse to sign the acknowledgment of paternity and demand a DNA test through a paternity action. Alternatively, you can sign the acknowledgment of paternity and have the DNA of your child tested privately. Regardless of the paternity, the law will still likely put you on the hook for child support, so consider wisely if you honestly believe there is a chance the child is not your own. If you are married and the woman has an affair, you can st…
/r/MensRights16/05/21 10:13 PM
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Rennet can be labeled as “enzymes” on the package. Also, the sheep’s milk version of mozzarella on the link you provided clearly says it is made with rennet. I make cheeses in my own kitchen, from scratch, using rennet. It all depends on the recipe. Some do not use rennet. That’s O.K. too. All I know is that I make cheese, I like cheese and the mozzarella I make contains rennet. Enjoy your cheese.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 06:17 PM
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That jealousy could explain abuse is a level of evil I care not to comprehend. For an emotion to be a cause of abuse sounds more like an impulse control problem, but I’m not a professional. It just sounds like such a thin, hollow, flimsy excuse. How severe would that jealousy have to be to override the natural maternal instinct to nurture and support your own child? That such a thing would even be possible is incomprehensible to me.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 01:18 PM
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Men who wear kilts are often subjected to women lifting up their kilts in an explicit attempt to view a man’s private parts, or expose them to others, against his will. Traditional clothing is attractive on a man. The women who do this and discourage men from wearing them are absolute trash. I wear dirndls pretty much exclusively. If a man tried to do that to me there would be justified outrage. Women somehow get a pass on kilt lifting and it is absolutely disgusting behavior.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 01:12 PM
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The scariest part is that those statistics are woefully underreported. Female violence against males is one of the least talked about topics that directly impacts men.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 12:33 PM
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Too many men stay in abusive, non-functioning relationships and end up with nothing to show for it aside from pain, debt and trauma. Some do not survive at all. I hope my posts are encouraging. No man deserves to be abused. Suffering in silence is never the answer and I pray anyone in an abusive situation can find the inner strength it takes to leave and never go back. You may doubt yourself at times. I know I did when I left. Before I left, I made a recording and whenever I felt tempted to reco…
/r/MensRights16/05/21 12:28 PM
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Men are the most amazing, beautifully designed creatures on Earth! There are many things that only men are capable of providing to women. Even the body of a man produces pheromones that help women regulate our bodies. Men’s rights is not about hating women. Men experience things like kilt lifting, genital mutilation and financial exploitation and no one bats an eyelash. That needs to change! Loving yourself enough to respect yourself and others does not make anyone here a hater of women by any s…
/r/MensRights16/05/21 12:06 PM
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I have personally witnessed outrageous behavior from some of the women in my family that to this day still burns me internally. Not a single one of them ever suffered the logical consequences of their actions against anyone they abused. When I read articles like this one that excuse their actions, things like cutting car lines, financial exploitation, wailing on men and children, it makes me want to cry. Not for myself, but because I know others who suffered worse and did not receive justice eit…
/r/MensRights16/05/21 11:41 AM
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As a daughter who experienced abuse from my mother, I can tell you there is no needs based reason behind it. Any woman who would intentionally inflict harm upon their child is just evil. Articles frame female abusers as if their actions stem from needs to engender sympathy for them. Male abusers are not given the same treatment. No one would say a man is an abuser because his needs are not being met. The motivation for abuse as an excuse and reasoning for abuse needs to end.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 11:19 AM
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A man said he was physically and emotionally abused. No context is needed. It does not matter what is going on with the, hopefully ex, girlfriend. There is no justification for abuse.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 09:42 AM
2

True mozzarella is made with buffalo milk, but here in the United States anything goes. Like how most of what gets labeled parmesan cheese here is not real parmesan. Our food laws are woefully outdated. That said, most beginning cheese making recipes will instruct you to use rennet to make mozzarella because it is easier to achieve a curd. Using lemon juice and vinegar requires more skill and can easily ruin the entire batch if you get it wrong. Cheddar and the majority of hard cheeses contain r…
/r/MensRights16/05/21 07:13 AM
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Leave. Bail now and go surround yourself with people who support you and can vouch for your whereabouts in case she tries to get charges put on you ASAP.
/r/MensRights15/05/21 07:51 PM
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You kind Sir are an absolute Mensch! Don’t change a thing!
/r/MensRights15/05/21 01:27 PM
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Absolutely NTA in this situation! If this ever happens again, and you don’t feel comfortable telling someone why you are carrying tampons around, saying that they are for emergency preparedness could work. Some men carry tampons because they make excellent fire starters and filters.
/r/MensRights15/05/21 01:18 PM
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I make cheeses at home. Practically all of them have organ meat in them. There is something known as rennet, which is used extensively in many cheeses, that is made from animal intestines. This is why some vegetarians avoid cheese in addition to animal cruelty and exploitation concerns.
/r/MensRights15/05/21 10:28 AM
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I absolutely agree.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 09:09 PM
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I agree. It’s weird having an ex keep offering to take you on vacation when you have made it plain the relationship is over. I still have the occasional Amazon package turn up filled with random things he believes I should have.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 08:52 PM
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Um, I’m a woman, raised by women. The world is not unjust to me, but I believe that it is to men. Men are beautiful creatures that deserve to be treated with love and respect. That so many are not means things need to change. That is what I believe.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 08:08 PM
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My understanding is that toxic masculinity covers a range of concepts, such as misogyny, and homophobia. I’m not sure how that would apply here. You mean the idea of sexism and the social norms enforced upon men to behave a certain way to conform to some mythical concept of an ideal man? I need something more specific before I could answer your question. Most of what gets lumped under that umbrella seems like it could be better explained by other terms.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 08:02 PM
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A type of suffering does not have to be exclusive to men to become a men’s rights issue. I did not diagnose anyone. I merely said there is a striking similarity. I was trying to point out that a large group of men, a demographic renowned for direct and straightforward communication as a whole, feel that they can not accept compliments and gifts to the point it makes them suspicious, or feel unworthy in the event they do. This is clearly a problem that affects men.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 07:46 PM
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Imagine feeling that asking for your base psychological and physical needs to be met is asking too much. Many men feel this way. Something as simple as patting their hair gently, or receiving something makes them feel like it is too good for them to deserve and enjoy. Have your heard of PTSD? That condition causes changes in the brain that literally inhibit the ability of those suffering to be able to feel pleasure. There are thousands of men suffering from that condition and the comments on thi…
/r/MensRights14/05/21 07:33 PM
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If you waste time arguing with someone, they win by default. That said, information on male shelters in Mexico? If you must argue, the statistics on the border crisis will be all you need. Shelters packed far beyond capacity with men in some of the most inhumane, squalid conditions possible.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 07:05 PM
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It is the exact opposite for women. Men try to buy us things constantly. If we so much as look at a pair of shoes, dress, or what have you, men will buy it for us without asking. Try and split the bill? They won’t let you. Unsolicited gifts and vacations are the normal. It think it may relate to showing they can provide more than others. Edit: Not sure why this is being downvoted. I’m not saying I approve, I was merely noting my experience. YMMV. I believe men deserve better than some compliment…
/r/MensRights14/05/21 05:39 PM
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Compliments? We get unsolicited pics of a certain nature and thirst epics. Hundreds of them, on practically every site. Edit: Not sure why I am being downvoted for confirming what the OP stated. Women receive a ridiculously disproportionate number of compliments compared to men.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 05:24 PM
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The proce-dure has been associated with “strikingly significant changes in physiological, hormonal and behavioral parameters, and adverse events such as choking and apnea” Wow! The study goes on to show the rate of severe complications as a direct result of circumcision is over 10%! That is absolutely horrifying!
/r/MensRights14/05/21 02:38 PM
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This attitude right here is why many men never come forward. It can take years for someone who has experienced trauma to build the courage to come forward. Many never do because of the fear they will not be believed and if time has elapsed before they are able to report. While true that it can become more difficult to obtain a conviction with the passage of time and the statute of limitations, pushing a survivor of sexual abuse to disclose information about the attack before they are ready can c…
/r/MensRights14/05/21 01:39 PM
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I am extremely interested to see a source for this information. I endowed a scholarship and named it in honor of the son of another who died from SIDS. One of the requirements for the award is to write an essay on the topic. Action is the only thing that can change this reality for men.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 01:24 PM
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She is a psychopath. I believe you. You are not the bad guy. She is trying to shame you into silence. Just because she is highly skilled and successful at emotional abuse and gaslighting others does not make you bad or wrong.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 09:54 AM
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She did that! You are not responsible for what happened. If her family would “treat you like a son”, yet value a rapist above you, they are not family. You are not responsible for a rapist. You are responsible for you. You are not some “dude who was raped by his girlfriend”. You are a man with the self worth to understand that he deserves to be treated with love, respect and dignity no matter what.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 09:43 AM
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An apology from a rapist is worthless! Not fighting back does NOT mean you in any way deserved this or did not do enough to stop it from happening. It is extremely common for assault victims to “freeze” during and after an attack. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 09:34 AM
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I wish you all of the blessings! Peace, love and prosperity.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 09:20 AM
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I’m a woman on the internet and I believe you. That you have the strength to acknowledge this happened to you and seek therapy is incredible. If you suspect that social media attention would add to your trauma, you are not obligated to do or disclose anything that makes you uncomfortable. You and your healing come first. I strongly encourage you to report this to the proper authorities and obtain the services of a lawyer.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 07:57 AM
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Keeping track of deaths by gender is important in countries that are suffering from gendercide. Men have a strong emotional response to women and children in danger. This is used to emotionally manipulate men to recruit them as soldiers.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 07:37 AM
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I have never seen that movie and now I definitely have to! Not to thread derail, but that made me smile! :D
/r/MensRights13/05/21 06:19 PM
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Thank you for your insight. Goodness no! The man cave and work den are both men territory. My kitchen decor is sterling silver and pink. A nice, strawberry milk pink, not some garish shade. I always dreamed of having the perfect kitchen when I was little. It is all nice, high end stoneware and cast iron. Even the stand mixer is pink. It is good to know it is not a complete turn off.
/r/MensRights13/05/21 05:14 PM
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What sort of “culture” is cutting off the most sensitive part of a man? What sort of religion justifies the torturous removal of flesh from an infant with a clamp? Barbaric!
/r/MensRights13/05/21 04:41 PM
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The education of women on this matter is an important form of prevention. No man deserves to suffer circumcision without their informed consent and against their will. To phrase this like it is some double standard is not strong enough. Intentionally depriving a man of natural pleasure is an act of torture. Men are not born with foreskin without reason.
/r/MensRights13/05/21 04:37 PM
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It sounds like the ex-wife could not communicate her needs effectively and that is not the fault of the man. Men are not mind readers. A man’s home is his castle, but a woman’s place can be the kitchen. My kitchen is pink and silver. I do a lot of home canning. The thought of not having that space makes me sad. If it meant that much to her, she should have taken care of it herself. I’m sure I will get downvoted into oblivion for saying as much. Men definitely have a place in the kitchen, but now…
/r/MensRights13/05/21 04:25 PM
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Men are given less choice, are pressured to have suits for all occasions, and still spend less than women on clothing. Women who dress feminine are treated differently. It is almost like a cheat code. I wear dirndls almost exclusively. I can go anywhere and receive better service just for dressing in a way that makes me comfortable. The only similar garment for men I can think of would be a kilt. It really isn’t the same. Men get those creepy women that think lifting a man’s kilt is O.K., when i…
/r/MensRights13/05/21 07:38 AM
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My childhood was filled with the worst sort of toxic women. I vowed to myself I would do everything in my power to never be anything like them from a tender age. The abuse and neglect they inflicted destroyed several families. I cut them all out of my life completely and have never looked back. My life has been richly blessed ever since.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 11:14 PM
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Some women delegate this aspect of parenting to the father. The theory is that potty training boys is somehow easier if both father and son are circumcised. It never made sense to me. What kind of monster would intentionally deprive their child of one of the natural pleasures of life? The theory about it being better for the woman is nonsense. If most women can not orgasm from PIV intercourse, then prolonging sex by diminishing the ability of the man to feel pleasure makes no sense. Maybe I am i…
/r/MensRights12/05/21 10:34 PM
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The bit about looking like the father, to provide more context, was with the intent to not cause trauma to the boy by causing him to wonder why he is intact while his father is not. With that context, it is even creepier. It basically acknowledges that circumcision is not the ideal, but we should keep quiet about it and repeat the abuse.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 09:43 PM
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I have heard many excuses for circumcision. “So he will be the same as his father”, “It will make potty training easier”, “It is cleaner and better for the woman”. None justify reducing the ability of a man to feel sexual pleasure.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 09:28 PM
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Men do not magically expire at age 40. That is when some hit their prime. It seems like it has become trendy for society to talk about men like they are disposable and not needed. I really don’t like it. If I have a son someday, this is not the society I want him to live in. I knew things were bad when it came to issues like divorce and child custody, but it just seems so much more frequent lately.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 09:09 PM
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Good. For the record, I would rather be here than with bad company. Feminism is nothing but superiority under the guise of equality. I want nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 08:52 PM
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Is she wrong though? If they believe men are past their prime by 40, consider women mature faster than men. When you realize that heart disease is the leading cause of death in women, that post can be interpreted as a self own. I hope it is O.K. for me to post on this sub as I am a woman. I just couldn’t let this one go without comment. I have been lurking and am disgusted by the toxic vitriol leveled at men in our society. The posts on this sub are shocking!
/r/MensRights12/05/21 08:46 PM
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