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| 17 | Leave him Rachel!Similar one from my ex- “I never want to talk to you about serious things because you just always end up crying and it makes me feel like a horrible person”. Gaslighting to the extreme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Woman asks if it’s acceptable for her boyfriend to want to split the cost of her ENGAGEMENT RING. The highest voted comment is just sad. 50/50 is always a scam.I paid for my own ring, but let my ex believe I had no idea. When my ex and I were dating, I was traveling a lot for work (making 5x his salary, I might add). When we moved in together, I got him his own card linked to my account (such a pickmesha!) so he could put home expenses on it while I was away. I justified this to myself by saying I was getting a lot of points for mileage, etc. but you can already guess I paid for a LOT more of his charges than just joint home expenses. Fast forward a fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:46 PM |
| 21 | This Sub is so empowering that I can't stand other relationship subredditsBeen there. Took the advice of EVERYONE and went to couples counseling (which I initiated and paid for). Had two different counselors basically tell me the same thing- it was my fault and I needed to work harder. Damn if that didn’t dig me into an even deeper hole! Please please trust yourself- that voice inside your head is truth and the only one you should trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Marriage has not only NOT been a boon for women's sexual needs, it mostly runs against our interests, even in terms of sexual stability.And they bring up those “one time” things as evidence of how great they are and how they are giving you everything in the relationship. This leads to guilt and women wanting to continue giving more and more of themselves with nothing in terms. It’s really easy to let this cycle slowly erode your confidence until there’s nothing left and you fully believe something is wrong with YOU for not being happy in the relationship. Fast forward 10 years later: found FDS and was able to end that relationsh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:16 AM |
| 54 | Don't get it twisted; women didn't leave "in the good old days" because they were trapped, not because they were fucking ride or die. We literally had no choice but to put up with abuse and other myriad bullshit. Men cannot stand the fact that we are no longer forced to submit.Same here Fade- going through it now. I’ve also had family/friends comment things like, “You don’t seem very upset”; what they don’t know is that I was living with severe depression for the last 10 years because of his emotional abuse. I cried enough and making the decision to divorce has finally made me feel whole again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 07:20 PM |
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