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| -5 | Forming a surrendered circleBabe, I'm not a feminist. I dislike ideology and disagree with all branches of feminism in many ways. I just don't think, by common sense, not feminism that grown-ass people can make themselves a sandwich or they are losers if they can't. It's like... you can't feed yourself? And you think you are a man? uhm. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Most of the dating struggles of men will fall on death ears when it comes to women. Which is why the Redpill is important.I never dated a guy that was 'hitting ' on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | women and men with obvious red flagsYou are plain wrong and you are looking at it from the shallow side. Here are thinking prompts: The human mind wants to be right over being happy. Relationship with parents is something humans need to be fundamentally fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How many women here are actually in shape?Good that you specified that you mean a v taper equivalent because I don't find v taper to be good looking, or this sort of appearance good looking at all. 'If not, other than mental illness or the inability to afford a membership, what’s stopping you from achieving that certain body?' No mental illness, no money issue. I just don't want to look this way because it's unattractive to me. I do pilates to certain level, mostly for health benefits but also to keep my boody as perfect as it is now, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Just saying yes to sex has made him more affectionate!I'm way less affectionate than my husband. It is nice but generally, I don't care about it much and the same with nice words. So not much of a motivator haha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Should women contribute to half of all bills regardless of differences in income?I don't care what other people do, so there is no 'should'. In my own life? I don't spread the money that way, money is all together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much do you contribute to traditionally male household duties?We don't need to do any of these things most of the time. I check the noise if I hear one, I just let my husband know that I am going. It is better if I come to the first fight with someone, because as much as I am very violent and react extremely fast... I am still weaker and less trained than my husband, so if I get into a struggle he has time to be ready and this gives us better chances than if he went and got hurt first. My husband mowed the grass first time at 36, whereas I did at 12. He … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 01:53 AM |
| 4 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.husbands hate "date nights". Basically they don't really care about the relationship or their wife. The reason they stay is the consistent source of sex and sharing bills. That's the real I prefer men who are like 22. Best looking and youthful energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | What is confidence really? How does it have any real effect in your dating success or failures?Ok, I am very confident. I have no body image issues and never had them, I don't have doubts about my skills, intelligence, or character. That definitely does influence my dating experiences. Why? Because I am comfortable with other people's opinions about me and feelings about me. I specifically say 'comfortable' not 'I don't care' because to say 'I don't care' often implies that someone has a more negative attitude. It doesn't affect how I feel if I get rejected, if a loved one has a bad opini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors?That's a great reply! Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors?Interesting! I don't live like most people in most fields so, so I'm in a different circle and what you are telling me about it is definitely something I would not see, in my environment. People I'm around are more of outsiders too because of where I meet them haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors?Do you think it's wrong to be an authority figure? I used to be so in most of my relationships, I am bossy by nature and I attract people who feel the need to follow a lead. For example, my ex, who's my age was totally following me on most things and I was comfortable with the authority role. He was not looking for equal partnership and neither did, I to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Are you guys actually asking your partners N counts?I do ask about everything. It ain't self-harm since it doesn't harm me. I just naturally collect data for the psychological profile of a person. Then I know if we are a match or not. That is how I think, but it doesn't upset me at all. I love gossiping so I will gladly listen to the details too. Interesting to see your partner from a different side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | In what situation is it ok/ not ok for your partner to have friends of the opposite sex (or whatever they’re attracted to)My attitude is like this: I don't say anything, a person does what they want and I see by their actions what I think. Never try to stop them or change them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Women, how often have you run into micro vs bigger dicks?I've seen quite a few naked. Had sex with 6. Never in my life, I have seen a micro penis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors?Don't think I disagree with you, I do agree, just want to add some examples of different circumstances that could be factors also. To add variety to what you are saying. My husband is 10 years older than me, nearly exactly as we are born in the same month. 'They need to be careful of not becoming an authority in their relationship because they're older, while also using their wisdom to help the younger partner. They need to provide the younger partner with the benefits of dating an older partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors?It's strange to me that people think that young people don't want just sex. I remember when I started a friendship with one of my friends and he was way older than me, people were telling me 'oh, he wants to use you for sex'... That was more MY thing, I wanted nothing but sex and fun for a few weeks and bye. However, not with that friend, since he was gay anyway and we were never in romantic thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors?I am comfortable with the opinions of people, so I don't mind them. I think what can be concerning is context and the pair of people not the age gap between adults. When it comes to some sort of possible advantage, there are many circumstances in which one partner holds more potential power. Most common one? Not age gap. Mental health, if someone has low self-esteem, their view of the world and themselves askew due to mental health, they will always have less power than someone strong in their p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Everyone’s delusional about the opposite sexMost humans are not stereotypes. What you are doing here is genderism and that is why some people think they are outside of gender because they don't fit these two rigid frames. For any objective observer these descriptions, for example, fit neither me or my husband. Shall we start our transition to opposite sexes? I would even say that on average men are more loving and romantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Genuine question for women. When you see this do actually recognize what is going on?One of the worst cases of such a situation that I have seen on video was this famous case where the teacher was with a 13-year-old student. Then they got married and there was an interview with them when he was already over 30. The way this woman speaks to him, sickening to me, makes me sick because I know this man has been groomed and abused. She make herself his everything when he was a child, so to go on like this is very hard. When it comes to an adult in a situation like Will's... I don't g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What's y'all's opinion on female friends?Or they are not attracted to each other? Are you attracted to all females? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | What's y'all's opinion on female friends?' she values something in me, not that she actually enjoys spending time with me/my personality.' Babe, that is how you supposed to pick your friends, by them having value in your eyes not just because you enjoy them. Enjoying someone without valuing things in them can mean you are best mates with serial killer because he is fun to be around. As for the rest of this? You are actually sounding like a person that you don't want to be friends with. 'there ain't nothing female friends can help you w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to themIt's not about women gravitating to anything. It's about PEOPLE having subconscious motives as to why they date someone, this motive usually being: Trying to date their most problematic parent. Another one is that human mind likes to be right over being happy, if you have low self esteem then you bet that you will be looking for someone who will prove you right. Both of these are true in men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Sugar Dating RealityOh, no! Never in my life would I got for this. Doesn't fit with my personality or lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons dating and marriage are so bad in the western world is you will never be the best at everything for your partner. There will always be, in their past someone better than you at something be it sex, money, looks etcI don't really see it this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 05:51 AM |
| 4 | Dating is A Scam And Doesn’t Work For Most PeopleI never 'dated', I never looked for a partner or a lover. I just happened to meet them. I never pretended anything than I am, always spit out everything frankly and honestly. I don't engage in any strategy, any energy. Dating someone is either effortless or, for me, not worth it. I don't adhere to any rules at all, the rules that people are talking about. I think that value of marriage is not about it lasting whole life but what it means when it does and lessons from it. I am not interested in l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Would a man being rich and famous change things?I have height preference, I prefer shorter or mid height men over tall. I don't think I would ever date famous man, I don't see the attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Sugar Dating RealityI think that this is for people looking for specific type of relationship. That's all. I see how it could be attractive. However it depends on what do you want. I am not dating to be loved, or feel special. I date for companionship with my equal essentially BUT I also dated sometimes, someone who was not really my equal so that we were not really a team but it was a lover, something like you describe here but without paying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?I disagree with you on what marriage is. I explained above what marriage is to me. 'Do you think your happiness is the best base for a relationship? As soon as your happiness changes or leaves, everything you and your husband previously built is suddenly jeopardized?' Yes, yes and yes. Although I am a practical woman and so I would never jeopardize my husband's assets or financially wise no matter if I chose to end the relationship or now. 'You shouldn't agree to do something that you don't agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:08 PM |
| 3 | How traumatic is puberty for women?I did not find it traumatic, especially not physically but I did find men being creeps disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | People that define themselves by their independency make for unstable partners in LTRsHmm... You are a little bit scattered in the way you formed this argument. I am, in theory, a sort of person you are talking about. However, it is actually a different thing to be independent in romantic relationship and to have level of dependence on society like police helping you or doctors or staff at old people's home. I can perfectly well accept and depend on others in such situations, or if we are being attacked I will depend on teamwork or when I am climbing I will take a hand. It's not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?I agree with you that if you go to extreme and you have 3rd ex husband and you are going on and on like that, then it is in the best interest to examine that, why are you constantly getting married and try over and over and what makes you do it. However this part 'there is a false expectation that...' I disagree with. It's not false if you actually live it. I live this way: I put my happiness first, over everything else. Happiness is on top and freedom is one step below, then I have some other p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?It boils down to this: Let's say a husband doesn't want his wife, he doesn't love her, doesn't admire her anymore. He stays for kids? Resentment builds because he is trapped. Now, the wife? Is actually showing the kids that it is fine to be in relationship with someone who doesn't want you, doesn't even like you or admire you. Kids? Go on to relationships where they get similar outcomes. It's actually not a big issue that people leave, the big issue that is everywhere is that people don't leave.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 01:36 AM |
| -1 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?In the past, women had little to no possibilities to earn living or make wealth. It's very different now because the consequences of leaving and not that severe most of the time. I think that you should leave if you are unhappy because staying somewhere you don't want is definitely not a good thing to show to your kids anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 12:47 AM |
| 2 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?Doesn't mean that society needs to have an opinion of what someone chooses to do with their time. I mean, relationship is like buying pricey car, you pay for it, you get to say if you keep it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?Never happened to me, I'm not someone they pick for this reason. I know maybe three women that this has happened to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | The notion of "unconditional love"People who claim they love their partner unconditionally are either not very sharp or crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Women love it when men impress themThat is how it works..? I mean, men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:14 PM |
| 0 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?Why does it matter what society thinks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a widower or widow with children? Would you date someone with children if you yourself had children?I would never date someone with kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:09 PM |
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