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| 2 | It is said that women are more emotional than men?I am one of those women who has road rage but i am usually on my bike in a large city so it happens :)) | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/26 09:11 AM |
| 31 | It is said that women are more emotional than men?Im European watching the football world cup right now. If you think women are more emotional than men, you should watch what happens to men when the national team loses Also, i almost never see women having road rage. When it happens, 99% of the times its a guy. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/26 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free?Thats why you shouldn't have sex with someone you are not attracted too, because that's good for nothing | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 08:07 PM |
| 8 | Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free?into believing that controlling a woman's sexuality is the best method of getting sex from them So strange, how those guys assume sex is like some mind numbing corporate job or factory work for us. Would they go do those jobs if they weren't coerced into it (like we need an income to live). | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 12:34 PM |
| 5 | I’m having a hard time with wanting to be nice to women who I meet who are interested in me and vice versa who I am interested inFirst, why would you want to be with a woman who likes being treated like this? Second, what do you expect to happen in a relationship, constantly being on edge. How do you imagine having a great time together when you are out on a date? Third, would you have a good time being with a woman who treats you like you behave? I'm already exhausted trying to imagine this, how about you OP? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/26 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Red pill and other ideologies are just marketing scams, but what about “mental disorders”?For example, how do you explain the fact that all women "only love what every other woman desires"? Indeed, just look at their behavior on social media. I wish my female friends were more into the things i like, i do sound design. They zone out when i talk about band pass filters and the advantages of proper equalizing but oh well. Am a woman, and i post about this on my social media. I do live shows. My female friends think its awesome but they have zero desire to do the same. how do you explai… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/26 12:00 AM |
| 11 | Sexual selectionYeah as if no guy ever said "i can fix her" | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/26 11:41 PM |
| 11 | Sexual selectionSociopathic people on average do not have a lot of friends, because they tend to copy and usually lack a sense of identity. Narcissistic people tend to have acquaintances, not really friends, again because of the lack of sense of identity. Kind and extrovert people tend to have a lot of friends and acquaintances. People who are pleasant company and who enjoy the company of others also tend to have more friends. This is what i mean by human dominance. It's not agressive, it's people who understan… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/26 11:41 PM |
| 32 | Sexual selectionBut with humans you ignore the most important characteristic, and that is the fact that we are social and cooperative. Thats how we got on top on the food chain and the world. We are not particularly fast or strong, so there's not much else we actually can do for survival. Dominance in humans is determined by the ones who are the most socially able. So it's not the biggest monkey, but the monkey with the most reliable friends. It's not a coincidence that autism diagnosis is higher among incels. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/26 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Are normal men sexually attractive the same way women are to men?Assuming OP is American, Lets get some numbers Average age is 39 and the average weight is 82 kg which is 181 lb. How about that OP? Why are you putting Sydney Sweeney in this category? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 06:34 AM |
| 13 | Are normal men sexually attractive the same way women are to men?I find someone like Sydney Sweeney on the same level as the average barista or sever at a local restaurant I think a handsome barista is more attractive than some celebrity because they can't hide behind the filter. The most beautiful person in the world is usually that guy/girl from the store around the corner anyways Also, you dont find almost every woman attractive. For one, you have preference for an age range, a range of body fat % and you probably like symmetry too | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/26 08:41 PM |
| 11 | When women complain about being invisible why does it seem like its mostly white women?Why use YouTube as a source? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/26 10:08 AM |
| 16 | Red pill and other ideologies are just marketing scams, but what about “mental disorders”?Hi, i've studied psych for 7 years so here's my take What the pill talks about could actually be based on Cluster B women and narcissistic women. In fact, you can find many similarities. Yes, it seems like red pill assumes that all women have a personality disorder by the way they describe them. But simultaneously, the red pill seems to be meant for men who also suffer from cluster B. Cluster B and C are mostly rooted in childhood trauma and a fear of attachment and abandonment. Somehow the men … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/26 03:22 PM |
| 4 | How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past?Look, i'm a bisexual woman, she is not causing anything by not wanting to date bisexual men. I don't exactly understand why she or other women would reject bisexual men based on that, but it's really none of my business and they are in her right date or reject whoever they wants. For me it's a simple case of "not their type" and that's that. I have far more sympathy for that than your comment trying to blame her for all other straight women in the world rejecting bisexual people. There's also st… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/26 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Could Jordan Petterson be one of the voices of the manosphere? They say he's a very good psychologist. I don't like him at all.This would absolutely not fly for any actual scientific paper. I also studied psych and they will rip you to pieces if you deliver nonsense like this. I also do not see any references which is very suspicious | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/26 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Could Jordan Petterson be one of the voices of the manosphere? They say he's a very good psychologist. I don't like him at all.I studied psych, he studied psych, one of things you learn is how to influence people. He is full of shit, and he knows he is full of shit, but he knows how to use big words. That is actually one of the things they teach you to stop using, bc you are working with people, and you need to be able to translate complex subjects to your average Joe. Combine these two skills and you have a very powerful grifter tool. Just Pearly Things also studied psych and she does the same, tho her style is more ra… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/26 06:20 PM |
| 3 | It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat menAh ok. In my country it is legal and the sex workers get tested every few days or so. Well. But if you only go for looks, you also do not desire the woman. If you don't care who or what she is, why does it matter if she desires you or not? How does that work? Idk if i can make this sound not as an attack but as curiosity (my English is not my best language), but why should a woman sleep with you? As in, does she get to have fun and pleasure? Will you have conversation and share jokes after sex? … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/25 12:19 AM |
| 7 | Secret to a faithful relationship?There is another saying that “opportunity makes the thief”. that's a very black and white expression. Isn’t there a saying that “everyone has a price”? For some that price is very low and for others it’s very very high to almost impossible to buy them. Yes. I can probably make you do some pretty weird stuff if i pay you one billion euros. a couple should attempt to remove as many “opportunities” to cheat as possible And what does this mean in practice? I'm sorry, but this all sounds very anxious… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/25 12:05 AM |
| 3 | It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat menOk so let me get this straight. You write an entire essay about why and how with fat women getting laid. The other commenters already stated many reasons why. I offer a possible extra explanation and thats not good? Then why ask? I am not American. We like cooking here in Europe, in the mainland. Not for me. I can cook for myself. Why would I care if she can? Because it is nice to spend time together with someone you care about. Sharing a good meal together is one of the greatest things life has… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/25 11:44 PM |
| 3 | It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat menBut what if these fat women you focus on are great cooks? Do you understand how attractive that is? Both men and women who can cook, are instantly elevated to a higher place on the attractiveness scale. We love that. I have seen lots of men dropping their "beauty standards" for women who make the best dishes. Cooking is linked with food and social behaviour, the most basic yet important necessities for staying ALIVE. Being good at it = being good at staying alive and that's what living, at its c… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/25 11:02 PM |
| 7 | Ex wife gave me the best gift ever - are all women like this?I could write a similar story about my ex. Yes i had a hard time trusting men again after that, but the reality is that not all men are like that. Far from it, actually. Therefore, same goes for women, who are people. People like these are the exception, but their stories stand out because they trigger lots of emotions. I would not even think about treating my husband like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/25 10:35 AM |
| 5 | does anyone want to discuss Varg vikernes/ thulean perspective and his sycophants?I had no idea, but i am not at all surprised Varg is into this. I remember him from my youth when he was running about burning churches and killing band members left and right. Mostly right ofc :)))))) He is just not a good guy. Neither was the guy he killed, but he is not a good guy, plain and simple. His music is less than mid, his art is ok-ish, but he has always been a hateful person and at this point/age i am sure he will never change. The guy is fascinating, he's got that going for him. Ab… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/25 10:48 PM |
| 7 | What do boys need to hear to not fall for the red-pill in the first place?You can leave the word "but" out tho, i exist because "maybe a baby would improve our marriage" People learn that neglect or abuse is love and if you look into the relationship Andrew Tate has with his father it says a lot. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/25 10:02 PM |
| 14 | What do boys need to hear to not fall for the red-pill in the first place?That makes them more vulnerable for that rethoric. People should not neglect their children. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/25 09:49 PM |
| 38 | What do boys need to hear to not fall for the red-pill in the first place?That their parents love them | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/25 03:21 PM |
| 2 | New red piller, want to hear your thoughts/have a discussion, NOT recruiting.You didn't look into Elliot's case by Damasio and it's obvious from your comment, you just want to yell on your soap box. I studied neuropsych for 7 years, but what do i know? You are not here to challenge your ideas so i'm not wasting more time on you. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/25 12:41 PM |
| 2 | New red piller, want to hear your thoughts/have a discussion, NOT recruiting.This had me confused for years and I could never tell what I was doing wrong and why there seemed to be so much cognitive dissonance on the female side. That's not women, that's humans. Especially young humans. Why would they say a certain thing is what they want, on which we would agree on, and then with their behavior and dissatisfaction insinuate that the opposite is what they want. Again, humans, mostly young humans. I had the same experiences with boyfriends when i was under 30. Which makes… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/25 11:56 AM |
| 7 | does anyone know what pearl's problem is with women?She's angry at her mother and she's a daddy's girl. Appearantly, her mother was always working as a business woman or smth, she had many siblings so she probably didn't got much attention at home and blames her mum for it. She also knows what she's doing, she studied psychology, so she knows very well that what she's saying about gender is bullshit. You also see it when she debates, when she starts talking her nonsense to people who get angry at her, she suppresses her laughter. It's a bit sad t… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/25 05:22 AM |
| 7 | Women Follow MenYou think too much, and i say this as someone who studied psychology for 7 years. Pick up some other sources to learn about human behaviour, because this is nonsense. If you don't want to read books, try Dr. K on youtube: healthygamerGG women are not leaders but are followers Have you ever met traditional women? My South East Asian family has some traditional women and trust me, they are dictators ruling with an iron fist. Eta You can see evidence of this in the fact that men build societies The… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/25 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Well yeah my husband adores his videogames, but we also do love our side hustles indeed :))) In my country we say, there's a lid for every cup. Being with someone who's compatible and loyal is best to working out in the long run. That's why i mentioned similar(ish) interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Yeah, it's called being an extrovert | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do You Feel Guilty About Anything You Have Done to a Man?Yeah. When i forget to eat and i get hangry i can be a total bitch, and my husband deals with the fallout of that. Then i eat something, realize i was being very mean, apologize, tell him i love him and he then says that its ok, i should not forget to eat, i love you too I stay away people who don't apologize when they realised they've hurt someone, that's toxic as fuck. They usually have a victim mindset too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 10:07 AM |
| 6 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.These pill guys all be like "feminism bad" but meanwhile are complaining about gender roles more than actual feminist do 🤣 Idk why they don't date feminists if they hate being a provider so much. But many want to have a tradwife but don't want to be a tradhusband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Its in the last sentence i wrote about compatibility and loyalty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Yes that was what i meant to say too :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:55 AM |
| 9 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Men should be more picky too! "She's hot" and "the sex is so good" is not enough. I can't tell you how many times i have told my male friends and co workers they should have higher standards and deserve better. No more "i can fix her", and more "we make each other happy" Most important thing is compatibility and loyalty, but that's not something you know from from first impressions of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:28 AM |
| 6 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Then improve yourself and try again, better luck next time. Yeah some people won't like you, and if they are put off that easily, she wasn't right for you anyways. There's 4 billion women in this world. Would you like someone who gives you ick? I think not My husband made a bad impression first time we met, and i made a bad impression on him. It's become now a funny story he likes to share. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:16 AM |
| 13 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Not in my social circle, i don't like boring people. I don't have patience for them. I want to make music, art and do stuff together. Im also from a country with a Nordic like culture so we ladies pay for our own meals and wanting to be a trad wife is looked down upon. My husband on the other hand is from a more conservative country and he doesn't agree with me. He would say only guys who behave like that are leeches but women doing that are not. I still have no idea why, i guess its just cultur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:04 AM |
| 25 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Idk about the rest of you but i'm married because we have a great time together, and we are there for each other in good and bad times. That being said, most people don't like leeches be it a man or a woman. Imagine just some guy who is smoking weed and playing videogames all the time, no job, no studies, no nothing. That's just boring. Or some woman who's only scrolling TikTok and drinking wine, no job, no studies, no ambition to do anything else. That gets old quick. At least be with someone y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:54 AM |
| 3 | What would happen if the Redpillers had political power and one of them became president? What would their government be like?I meant it's a similar amount of batshit insanity coming out of their mouths. It's just that Kanye has bipolar, his symptoms increased when his mom died who probably didn't take his grandeur delusional shit while his and Andy has attachtment issues because his daddy left him. Also Kanye's dad abandoned him. What do we learn from this? Don't be a shitty parent | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/25 09:45 AM |
| 3 | What would happen if the Redpillers had political power and one of them became president? What would their government be like?I shouldn't laugh about that But i do 🫣 | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/25 09:23 AM |
| 8 | What would happen if the Redpillers had political power and one of them became president? What would their government be like?Wouldn't happen here, no one ever gets the majority vote ever in my country, and we do coalition. Andrew Tate wanting to become PM of the UK is on the same level as that time Kanye wanted to become POTUS, so therefore, irrelevant. It's those pesky Christians who disguise their anti women politics as Christian values you should be on the lookout for | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/25 02:39 AM |
| 20 | Are unattractive men supposed to be in sexless relationships?Am asking this because i had a period of quite a few years in which i found no one attractive. It came from trauma. TLDR: I had a complicated childhood. i could not rely on my parents. Other things happened in life when i grew up There was no reason to trust other people, let alone be vulnerable. I figured that feeling attraction is also a way of being vulnerable. ETA: You also mention being bullied, so | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/25 03:00 AM |
| 16 | Are unattractive men supposed to be in sexless relationships?Do you have attachment issues? Genuine question | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/25 02:54 AM |
| 8 | I feel like women aren't interested in relationships and are just as happy as singleYour comment makes me think like: imagine you are some guy, and all the women you meet only want money and nothing else really. Come home from work, your wife is just sitting there playing videogames, asking for a new handbag and there's dirty laundry, dishes and crumbs everywhere. Guy tries to vent about his day, seeks some affection and she goes like "shut up! Go away! Can't pause, i'm playing online!" While your kids are fighting because they are hungry. Wife ignores both the guy and the kids… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/25 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market?Dont be sad :( i wrote in another comment about my mom who started dating when she was 50 and she is married now, and the happiest i've ever seen her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:29 AM |
| 4 | Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market?What? My mother started dating at 50 when her friend made her a dating profile and she got so many dates. Then she found The One and she is happily married now. Happiest she's ever been. Travelling the world together and all that. Have you ever heard what happens in these old people homes? Lots of troubles with STD because them widows and widowers who's spouse passed away don't like feeling lonely :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:27 AM |
| 2 | How does a guy navigate being short(er) in todays dating world?My son is 5'5 and we live in a country where the average guy is 6 ft. Tons of girls like him, and he is engaged. His insta was always filled with heart eye emoji reacts when he posted a selfie. Before he got with his fiance, there were always girls in his DMs. I still call him my tiny dwarf as a joke, which he doesn't like, but i like it so he gotta deal with that lmao His father is around the same height as you are and always has women who are into him. Both him and his father are extraverts an… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/25 06:23 AM |
| 13 | A lot of Redpill/Manosphere guys are some of the ultimate simpsWhat are you on about? Look into biology instead of economic systems. Basic needs? Basic needs are food, shelter, clothes and a social network. Humans are social animals, and therefore provide each other with this. Thats how you build relationships. Yes, there is an element of sexual strategies, or do you think that these birds who learn how to dance are not "jumping through hoops"? Female bitchy nature? If that's your experience with women, reflect on yourself a bit. I can be bitchy with guys, … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/25 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers.The problem is not raising someone else's kid, because plenty of people do this. That is very natural (see, step parents, foster parenting, orphans, parents who get so disabled they cant take care of their kids, etc). The problem is the betrayal of not only cheating, but also lying about a child's identity, and forcing to the kid upon someone who believes the child is his. That is so evil, that if you somewhat slightly suspect your wife doing this i truly wonder why you would even marry someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers.It can always happen, so what? I didn't trust my ex, always checked his phone and whereabouts, he cheated on me. I was miserable for almost the entire relationship because i always was afraid he cheated, even tho i had no proof back then. Afterwards I remained single until i felt i able to go all in. Otherwise its not worth my time. I decided to 100% trust my husband, because if i dont, both he and i will be miserable and i'd be happier single. He decided to trust me 100%. Love is being vulnerab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers.No, that cost me too much energy and is bad for my mental health. The father of my son cheated on me with dozens of different women and men. Among other things. I was always checking his phone, checking on him etc. Exhausting. Never again. I decided to 100% trust my husband when i married him. Otherwise im scared the whole time and that makes both of us miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 03:15 PM |
| – | Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender normsMy husband expects for the man to pay and does so, even tho i wanted to split on our first date. He was absolutely offended by my suggestion i'd pay half. How does that fit into your point? He is very much about gender roles, according to him paying for dates shows the woman and her family that you are able to financially take care of her. Does that mean he is self destructive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers.Hahahah what is this comment even, where does this idea come from that men are not attracted to mothers? Everytime i go outside i get a lot of attention from men, and it has been like that since my son was born 20 years ago. The only time i didn't was when i was visibly pregnant. I dont know what kind of copium you're on but it has nothing to do with reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 09:27 AM |
| 4 | Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers.There is no reason having a partner if you're going to treat her like that. Its the similar kind of paranoia when you install a tracker on her car or handbag so you can watch every move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 09:17 AM |
| 5 | Red pill guys telling men to avoid women with daddy issues is unrealistic.Because you cant change 4 billion people. You are not here to change your mindset either, so im done with this conversation. Good luck on your deprogramming | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/24 09:22 AM |
| 11 | Red pill guys telling men to avoid women with daddy issues is unrealistic.Case in point: Andrew Tate himself. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/24 08:58 AM |
| 18 | Red pill guys telling men to avoid women with daddy issues is unrealistic.Let's just call this what this actually is: severe childhood trauma | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/24 08:57 AM |
| 4 | Red pill guys telling men to avoid women with daddy issues is unrealistic.Measuring attachments styles is among the most important research being done in psychology because it is so detrimental to relationships and society. You probably dont like it because it feels very counter intuitive, because it doesn't match with your own experiences. I can relate to that because i have been there. But that is exactly why data and science exist, because people are biased. I assume that because it the behaviour that people with healthy attachment styles absolutely do not exhibit.… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/24 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Red pill guys telling men to avoid women with daddy issues is unrealistic.How come? if you are attracted to red pill ideas and to women with unsafe attachment styles there is a very high probability that you yourself were emotionally neglected at least, and in turn you tend to surround yourself with people like you (also friends). Which, of course creates an immense bias. Its no surprise that these men treat Peterson and Tate as father figures, or need guidance getting into relationships. That is screaming "daddy issues" (aka childhood trauma). Why didn't your parents… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/24 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys telling men to avoid women with daddy issues is unrealistic.I find it interesting that this is being said, while these red pill tactics: A) are specifically aimed at guys who themselves have attachment issues, and B) only might work on women with attachment issues. A woman who has a good relationship with her father or either parent will probably not tolerate being treated like that at all. It's mostly about being abused and neglected, and red pill tactics are recreating the childhood of a neglected kid so it feels like recognition, which can get confuse… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/24 07:13 AM |
| 10 | Red pill guys telling men to avoid women with daddy issues is unrealistic.My father is a "man" who hits women, to the point they end up in the hospital. He cheats, he lies, he smokes a lot of weed. He has dislocated my jaw when i was a teen. He doesn't care about me at all. The only things he's got going for him is that he is a very good looking SE Asian man (even now, well into his 60s), and that he is rich, but he is a pathetic lonely man without friends. Nobody loves him. What exactly does that say about me? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/24 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Nagging is a sign of insecurityNooo no no no you got it all wrong. According to my husband, a woman who doesn't nag is the biggest red flag ever. If she doesn't nag, she is cheating on you, or she is planning to serve you divorce papers. Either way, she stopped caring about you. You probably should put your dirty socks in the hamper OP, just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 06:42 PM |
| 6 | A cautionary tale for passport brosMy father is from one such passport bro country. Indeed, they think these women are more meek, shy and submissive (esp because its an Asian country), but they obviously never met my aunt and grandmother | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/24 07:27 AM |
| 1 | I need a trad husbandYou have never met traditional women i see 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 08:12 AM |
| 4 | I need a trad husbandThat sounds boring. My husband is a bit traditional, i am not. He likes to provide, but 80 hours a week? How do you even spend quality time together that way? The submitting stuff gives me mayor ick. Like, what is that shit. People can also just love and respect each other, what has submitting to do with any of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 03:10 PM |
| 10 | I need a trad husbandThe point was not shaming, the point is trying to empatize with the person in this tradwife position. Why would anyone want this? A real tradwife is the leader of the household by the way, the man is just there to bring in money. There is litterally nothing submissive about tradwives. Source: my Asian grandmother, my white grandmother, their female friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:57 PM |
| 8 | I need a trad husbandI think you dont get the point of this post, why would a women want to be a tradwife if this is what her life looks like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Men who fail at patriarchy and capitalism are eliminated from the dating poolHmm if you truly mean the lowest of the lowest type of men, like, an abusive man who is a drug addict with no job, because her dad was like that. I didn't directly equate that with a poor neighbourhood, but then well yeah i think attachment explains it. But tbf i didn't get that from your original comment. Sorry, English is my 3rd language 😅 sometimes i misunderstand. Still i think that is a very specific case. Women do have diverse tastes in men, and there are some strange couples our there. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployedNah, every experience is a quality experience with the right person. Money makes life easier in general. My son is 20 and quit his job two weeks ago, but he is engaged. So how does that work in your mind, i wonder? His girlfriend likes him because he is kind, sweet, funny and handsome. And, he brings her flowers and chocolate when she is on her period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 01:41 AM |
| 11 | Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployed.... that's what you pick out of my little essay? Really? Yes prices are higher than in 2019 but the meal doesn't have to be a 3 course restaurant style. A simple pasta bolognese or a good stew is not hard or expensive, but always appreciated by any partner. What about the other things i mention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 01:31 AM |
| 25 | Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployedThey should do whatever they want, the advantage of dating when broke is at least she will pick him for other qualities he has. Its very sad if a man is convinced he has nothing but money to offer, he can offer loyalty, pleasant company, a support system, he can cook nice meals for her, there's so many things that make people worth building a life with that are so more valuable than money. Its 2024, we can make our own money! I mean, i could have picked a richer man but my blue collar husband is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Men who fail at patriarchy and capitalism are eliminated from the dating poolPeople model their relationships to their parents in general. Thats why attachment theory is a thing. But that doesn't tell the whole story because attachment style can be changed, although its very hard. Its not as if people in poor neighbourhoods are by definition bums, at least not in my country. Its mostly factory and retail workers, teachers, nurses, immigrants, and some bums here and there, yes. People also date within their class i think. Agree with your 2nd and 3rd paragraph, for both on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Men who fail at patriarchy and capitalism are eliminated from the dating poolOne of my closest friends has had 150+ hookups and he is definitely happy he has found an amazing woman he married. I have never seen him happier. They are a good match. Dude is average looking and kinda short. Oke he is late 40s now but he always says that getting laid means nothing compared to love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Men who fail at patriarchy and capitalism are eliminated from the dating poolI suspect these men are either funny or pleasant company to be around, probably just talk to women and move on to the next if one is not interested. Like most men did since forever. This is why i think datingapps dont work, it takes away the social component while that is the most important for men for getting into relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Women in American society are poor prospects.The American women i've met were always very kind and friendly. Easy to talk to. Sometimes a bit too performative maybe? For context, im a European woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Women in American society are poor prospects.Yeah, i have many Eastern European friends living close by, but we all live in Western Europe. Here, we are a bunch of softies compared to them :))) Now, dont get me started on my Asian (female) family members... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 10:10 PM |
| 9 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingYes that always surprises me, these men and women want their cake and eat it too, well sure they are free to want this, but they are very selfish people who have no values at all. Not really worth going into a relationship with these types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingI truly believe that both progressive and conservative women thrive when they are with a good man that is compatible. A bad man with a conservative woman resents her for having to pay her more than just food and shelter (which is below the absolute bare minimum for someone who wants to marry a home maker). A bad man with a more progressive woman lets her do all the home making/child rearing herself while they both work and earn an equal salary or she might even be the bread winner. Filtering for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingI think you are right, im from NL and for us, going Dutch is the default. I might be onto something here, but i have a suspect that that's why it's called going Dutch. My husband is Italian, a country where gender roles are much more defined, and he is definitely not a fan of splitting the receipt. We fixed this "issue" by paying living costs by percentage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why Splitting the Check Should Be the New Standard for DatingIn my country this is the standard for dating, by default. It's either this, or the one who invites, pays but this is discussed. I was raised very feminist and without gender roles, and i was surprised and almost offended when my husband felt emasculated by this on our first date. He is from another country and according to his values, a man has to provide for a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 09:25 PM |
| 2 | The debate on men and women's positions on infidelity and divorce needs to be settledIt's equally damaging and insane i think. Imagine being that child (either scenario) and becoming familiar with your lore. Damn. About France and the test: in many EU countries its illegal to use a surrogate, so there are actually quite a few people who decide to "have one with the milk man" or a close friend/family member when the man is infertile. It appearantly happens more than one might expect, because there is still a lot of shame around lack of fertility, especially for men, especially in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobI know depression is horrible. Its not even sadness, its the disconnect that makes nothing worth pursuing. Increase your vitamine D a bit by taking a 10 minute walk every day. That's like 2 or 3 songs. Or get a dog so you are forcing yourself to care for another living creature. Im just saying, use a science based approach if intrinsic motivation is lacking (which is a unfortunately a key symptom of depression). Good luck | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/24 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobnot feeling love. only respecting fictional characters. celebrities are edited in such a way that they can be deemed fictional, as i wrote earlier i work in music industry so i know this. Even myself during my own music performances and my social media content is just a very tailored and edited version of who i am. What the audience perceives of me has almost nothing to do with reality. Humans have evolved to be social creatures because we are not particularly strong or fast. We are on top of th… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/24 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobThat sounds very unhealthy | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/24 05:39 PM |
| 17 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobYou deserve better. That woman isn't worth your time and energy. I'd say you dodged a bullet, there are so many amazing women out there. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 8 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobThat is nonsense. Im married to a blue collar guy, while i come from a wealthy family and have a career in music industry. Completely different social class. It's about compatibility, and mutual love and respect | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Given the "ideal" wife/girlfriend/partner, do you genuinely *enjoy* providing?He also never met men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Who is the "good guy" who struggles with dating?"nice guys" He explained that women don't like "nice guys" because they have no spine, and are therefore easier to manipulate. Which means that they are unreliable. They will be nice to people who can do something for them, and nothing else. Apart from that, being nice is basic human interaction. It means nothing. Its being polite, and then acting entitled. Being kind is what truly matters. As much as i hate Peterson, he explained that very well i must admit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | The Issues with Conversations about AbortionDamn bro dont be racist, that's impolite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Who is the "good guy" who struggles with dating?He is indeed an idiot and an assclown and i really dont like him. But if even he can explain why nice guys are manipulative, its ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The Issues with Conversations about AbortionUhm, it is not a tiny population, its in the most densely populated areas in the world. 18 million people on a land compared to west Virginia in size. One of the largest economies in the world. Uhm yeah we have children 🤣 wtf are you talking about 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | The Issues with Conversations about Abortion"PIP: People in the Netherlands consider unplanned pregnancy to be a large problem that society and decision-makers should and do seriously address. The abortion rate fluctuates between 5 to 7/1000 women of reproductive age, the lowest abortion rate in the world. Oh, my bad. I thought it was the lowest in Europe. Seems that we have the lowest rate in the entire world. Source: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/7971545/#:~:text=PIP%3A%20People%20in%20the%20Netherlands,abortion%20rate%20in%20the%20wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Who is the "good guy" who struggles with dating?Bro needs to have self respect. Lack of self respect/spine is a sign that someone is unreliable. This is why people keep saying "work on your confidence!" When boys go like "but i am a nice dude" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 10:32 AM |
| 4 | Who is the "good guy" who struggles with dating?Even Jordan Peterson outlined this theme. Nice guys are unreliable. Kindness is what matters, because that is character. What the comment you reply to describes it basic human interaction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 10:24 AM |
| 2 | The Issues with Conversations about AbortionOf course tax money should be used to pay psychologists. There is nothing wrong with that. What else is tax money for if not for healthcare, infrastructuur maintenance and education? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 07:53 AM |
| 23 | I realized that Andrew Tate is a weak manI have found out some lore about this man. His father abandoned him. Mr Tate is still trying to impress his daddy. There is also interesting lore about Elon Musk. You can appearantly do something with rockets and PayPal, but your racist conservative POS father will still choose your little brother as his favourite golden child. Mr Musk is also still trying to impress his daddy. Many men in these spheres have obviously abandonment issues, and it gets exploited by men who never went into therapy f… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/24 06:42 AM |
| 2 | The Issues with Conversations about AbortionI dont know that saying but with a mindset like this, i do understand why there is a "male loneliness epidemic" Like, what girl/women wants to get into relationships or even have sex when there is men walking around wanting to raw dog without taking responsibility? A weak and impulsive man like that is not a good deal, and is very unattractive at that. I raised my son to take responsibility if he wants to have sex with girls, and i feel for you that your parents lacked in that department. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 06:30 AM |
| 2 | The Issues with Conversations about AbortionAh oke, you want it like that because of your feelings. No rational argument found in either of your comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 06:12 AM |
| 2 | The Issues with Conversations about AbortionWhat do you think? In my country there's 18 million people, in my neighbouring country there's 80 million. So, its both by absolute numbers (of course 🙄) and relative nummers. I dont understand why i need to explain basic statistics but here we are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 05:52 AM |
| 2 | The Issues with Conversations about AbortionThing is, women don't get pregnant on their own. Your comment is misandrist. Men are not slaves to their sex drive. Do you really think abortion is more expensive for your taxes as is paying child support for 18 years? Or takes more effort than actually dedicating all your time, money and energy to the child you helped creating? Do you really think that abortion is more expensive than what an unwanted/neglected child will cost in tax money? Or is it just something that "feels right" for you when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | The Issues with Conversations about AbortionYeah that math isn't mathing. Tell you what, i will be pro life under the condition that DNA tests are done on every citizen, that data gets stored into a data base, and that way they can always match the dna of the child to the father. That way, they will forced to pay for that child they created, instead of the tax payer. ... Which is of course ridiculous, i hope you can see why 🙄 idk whats more important to Americans, lower taxes or their freedums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | The Issues with Conversations about AbortionAbortion is free in my country. There are a lot less abortions here than in many other countries. It's also a very egalitarian country, with many women being the higher earners in their families. Do you really think abortion is more expensive for your taxes as is paying child support for 18 years? Or more, actually dedicating all your time, money and energy to the child you helped creating? Do you really think that abortion is more expensive than what an unwanted/neglected child will cost in tax… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or are dating gurus just insecure men that blame women for their short comings?He looks like as if you ordered Christiano Ronaldo from Temu | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you.Can you read? The comment refers to preferences. I work in a male dominated industry because it just happened like that, but my social group is very mixed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 09:18 AM |
| -2 | Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you.Not evil at all, but it's very cringe because it demonstrates a severe lack of mental/emotional/social development. That is very unappealing for both genders. If i were a guy i would not trust these guys around my hypothetical wife or female friends. It's the male version of an NLOG. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you.These guys with lots of options are the least likely to treat their female friends as a glass of water while being stuck in the middle of the desert. Because of the superficialness of having access to a lot of casual sex they tend to value friendship a lot. Your comments are very misandrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you.Yeah its almost as if most people can acknowledge they find people they are friends with attractive and, you know, act like an adult instead of like a rabbit on viagra. Imagine that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 11:39 PM |
| -4 | Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you.This is why these guys cant get into even non-romantic relationships. People dont like conditional basic politeness, for it means they are untrustworthy. These guys won't stick by your side in times of need and run along when they exchange their "niceness" (bare minimum of social interaction) to someone who has something slightly better to offer. Meanwhile, complaining that women go for the 666 stuff because that's exactly projecting the same mindset and it doesn't occur to them that most other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 11:31 PM |
| 0 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?Nah i would send them both to therapy if these two losers were my sons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:48 PM |
| 15 | What’s the hate towards older women?Because when you get older, you'll learn to spot red flags. You become less impressionable and more aware of toxic behaviour. Demands and standards on personality become higher. You can be a handsome guy but if you're toxic it wont work anymore on older women. This also applies to men by the way, many older men say "don't stick it in crazy" which summerizes also this concept. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/24 05:58 AM |
| 10 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?Yeah it does, and this is exactly why i sometimes visit this sub. Because it makes normal life feel so healthy and not unhinged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Why do you all keep ignoring one of the most important cornerstones to the Red Pill: Briffault's Law!I guess so. I remember the social warfare at high school/middle school when i was a teen, it was... Something. Entertaining nonetheless, but very intense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 09:43 AM |
| 0 | Why do you all keep ignoring one of the most important cornerstones to the Red Pill: Briffault's Law!Bro has never seen two or more teenage girls interested in the same dude lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 09:31 AM |
| 3 | Is it really true that attractive men often have sex with different partners?I dont understand what you mean? Why would they say that if they would secretly long for it? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/24 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Is it really true that attractive men often have sex with different partners?Uhm, did you ever meet older men who are succesful with women? If not, you should. They give better advice for attracting women than these weird red pill gurus online. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/24 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Is it really true that attractive men often have sex with different partners?Three of my male friends have been with over 100+ women, one of these is older, in his 50s, and has been with 300+ women in hookups. One of them is married with a woman he found on tinder who was supposed to be a (mutually agreed) hook up, but it turned out they were a perfect combo. He was 40 when he met her, and is so much happier now. The other two... All three guys say it is a very empty way of living. They would prefer to find a woman to share life with. It is basically a permanent state of… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/24 04:57 PM |
| -1 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.If thinking that people who got into the wrong relationships when they were younger were just dumb and stupid makes you sleep at night, you do you :))) Im not the first one who had to learn spotting red flags, and i won't be the last. It's not as if i had such a great example back home in my childhood 🤷🏻 which is not my fault anyway. The question is how you learn to make better judgements, and that's by living life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:06 PM |
| 4 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.This all feels like very rigid way of thinking. I dont mean this in a bad way but you sound as if you might be on the spectrum? Could that be possible? The OP in the parent comment explained it in such a clear way, i dont know how her and the other comments could explain it in a way that it is more understood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:12 AM |
| 4 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.I kindly disagree. i find people who overcame struggles (whether self inflicted or just life throwing shit at them) and learned from it more interesting, wise and empathic than people who have always had an easy life. 99% of people are not bicycle champions anyway. That being said, people who keep being self destructive after 30 are very exhausting, draining and not worth my time or energy. They should know better by then. Like very excessive drug use, not going in therapy when its needed, havin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 12:07 AM |
| 4 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.Why is that a bad exactly? Shouldn't people be free to pursue what they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:55 PM |
| 3 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.The only way to mature is to have many experiences, to make lots of mistakes and to learn from all of this. Otherwise its like trying to learn how to bicycle by reading books about it, and never actually doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:43 PM |
| 6 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.I can relate to many of these, very well put. Young people are just more superficial because of a lack of life experience, being less able to spot red flags in behaviour, and less insight into the consequences of actions. And there is nothing wrong with that. Young adult life is like learning how to 'do' life. Just like when kids learn how to walk, they will fall many times before learning how to keep balance. To become old and wise, one must first have been young and stupid. It is the only way … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMAll of this, and another possibility is that OP is one of these guys who mistake basic politeness for flirting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:51 AM |
| 3 | The only ones who really care about 30+ year olds dating 18+ year olds are older, and/or unattractive and unable to partakeMy 19 y/o son told me he would find it creepy and weird, same as most young women find at creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:43 AM |
| 2 | The only ones who really care about 30+ year olds dating 18+ year olds are older, and/or unattractive and unable to partakeI had the same when i was around 18. These girls always look so uncomfortable when you see these old guys try to take a shot while they can't read body language, its so cringe. People around your dad's age should first and foremost be protecting you against this. It gets better when you get older, because it gets easier to say "no fuck off" and also the quality of guys approaching you gets better. These angry guys in your replies are terminally online, brainrotted by their curated social media f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:39 AM |
| 1 | The only ones who really care about 30+ year olds dating 18+ year olds are older, and/or unattractive and unable to partakeYour husband sounds like an amazing and caring guy :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?In the local grocery store here i see couples everyday who are not the most attractive people. Some are attractive, most are average, but many of them are slightly overweight, very old, maybe disabled. Most adults are in a relationship anyway. I live in a city with around a million inhabitants and over 100+ different ethnicities, so 🤷🏻 I dont know what else to tell you. But if you want to believe its over, and it helps you sleep at night than you do you i guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Again, you dont have sex with someone's personality, usually. Do you really believe that if you were to be rich, good looking and tall, with a horrible personality, that this would guarantee you 100% that you would get litterally every girl that exists? Its an honest question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Do men stop wanting attractive people past 25? Did they learn by then that "one doesn't stick his dick in crazy" because the drama is not worth it? Most of them do, so 🤷🏻 red flags Honest question: Didn't your parents talk about this basic stuff with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 05:14 PM |
| 6 | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityI feel more and more as if you are on to something here. This sub is interesting because i never ever see or hear about these mindsets offline, its very fascinating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Yeah when they are below 25 years old. After that, being hot gets less important. Thats why people have more demands when they get older. Also for sex by the way, the ability to spot red flags is learned by experience :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?That wall doesn't exist, little guy. Believe me, i wished it does... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:45 PM |
| -1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?There is no doublethink dude. Hot people can get sex easily, especially when both are young. You dont have sex with someone's personality. I dont know why that is such a revelation? The guy doesn't have a bad personality, he has a very severe mental illness. We had a relationship and the guy wanted marriage with me. The topic title states "is it true that if she doesn't like you..." Which is not the same as casual sex. Edit: might be fair to say i was very young back then, that relationship star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:40 PM |
| 0 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?How doesn't it matter? It was a learning experience, and i am married with someone who makes me happy and is even better than my list of demands honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?I spoke a few times with the guy afterwards about this, because he, his friend and i were working on a project together few years back. It was sad because what he said was very much true, he was very unsuccesful in the nightclubs and outside of those as well. A fun fact by the way, is that this project was setting up a series of events in nightclubs. I work in event management and music industry, and these guys were involved in a few of my events. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Pick up a book on psychology or read the Wikipedia about bipolar and schizophrenia to understand why personality and mental disorders are unrelated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?What are you saying? I did not like that dude because of his idiotic behaviour. I believed him 100% when he said he never had a girlfriend because it was the most awkward shit i have ever seen. I told him to connect with some of my male friends and acquaintances who are more successful with women and wished him all the best. Because he seemed like a nice dude, he just turned cock blocking himself into an art form 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?I was only 17 or 18, so i was basically just a child 🤣 there was nothing wrong with his personality, he was very mentally ill. Am very late 30s now, so this happened around 20 years ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?I was 17 or 18 years old back then, and when i was that age i found it very important if the guy was hot, made me laugh and was intelligent. In that order. Am now very late 30s, but my list of demands for a relationship got a lot longer after that one, yes. I see the same thing happening with men when they age a bit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?For him our relationship wasn't about the sex, he can get sex everywhere. But not many women see him as husband material, which is unfortunate for him, because that's what he wants, and what most guys eventually want, especially when they get tired of meaningless hook ups. I wrote in another comment about how mid and average men in my social circle don't have any problems getting dates, one night stands, girlfriends or wives. It doesn't ruin their day if they get rejected, and they certainly don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?These guys don't grasp this. Long time ago i was in a relationship with a very handsome man, he also did modelling, cat walk jobs so very tall too, minor acting jobs. Amazing musician also. But he went bipolar which turned into psychosis later, he started using drugs which... Well you can imagine. Im not equipped to deal with that. Stalked me for years after I broke up with him. Guys are getting brain rot from the content they consume, not understanding that these grifters make money as long as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Hahaha i love this for you guys, it sounds amazing <3 Marriage is walking the road of life together, better be with someone who's company is enjoyable, comfortable and safe. Yes the smell, and also body movements can make or break attraction somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 07:24 AM |
| 7 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Hahahha trust me, he wasn't 🤣 his friend apologized for his behaviour, and explained he was exhausting. I think you underestimate how awkward men can be with women, it's crazy. Men with a severe lack of social skills can go from 10 to 0, some men can even come across very threatening without realising they are because of it, but this guy seemed pretty harmless. It is the polar opposite to these guys who are mid or below average in looks, but who have been with 100s of women. My best friend is li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Because many straight guys have a celeb crush on Cavill. At this point i collect memes about straight guys crushing on Cavill. He embodies a male fantasy. I never heard this about someone like Timothee Chalamet, while many women find him attractive. Its ok, we all have that person that makes us question our sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?My husband reminds me of Jack Black, he is funny, entertaining, sweet, loyal. Cavill looks nice in his Witcher outfit, he paints warhammer miniatures which is nice, but i imagine he goes on and on about lore when i have already mentally checked out, too serious. The most important requirement has always been if he makes me laugh and if he has a nice smell next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 11:04 PM |
| 9 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?These guys have some terminally online brain rot going on. I remember a guy who was ridiculously handsome, bright blue eyes, olive skin, amazing curls, ripped, well dressed so it looked like he had a good job, was probably around 1.80m (is that 6ft?). I thought, that is one handsome guy, he could be a model! Anyway, as soon as this guy opened his mouth, it was so bad!! I heard his friend say "go talk to her!" (me) He was giggling like a shy high school girl, and he went like "you are so out of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:58 PM |
| – | Would you rather hire a woman or a golden retrieverLet me fix this for you and change this dilemma into: "would you rather share your home and life with a random dog or with a random woman?" This way it makes a lot more sense if you want to compare it to the man or bear thing. And you know what? I, a woman, suspect that both men and women would choose the random dog, because with humans you never know. That is why many guys would also pick the bear in the man or bear in the forest dilemma :))) Humans can be bat shit, dogs and bears are just more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:36 PM |
| – | As a male victim of serious domestic violence it is heartbreaking some women shut down after I tell them.Hey dude, speaking from experience, it is people as a whole. Many people do not (want to) grasp the idea that the world is unfair and that bad things happen to innocent people. That's why victim blaming exists. That is why people get told to pick better partners. Because they want to keep their image of a fair world intact. That is why people prefer to believe that you lied or exaggarate. The sad reality i have learned in therapy is that an abusive relationship can happen to everyone, and that o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 09:43 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on people making claims such as “I’m in my 30s and I get mistaken for a teenager all the time”?Could be truth, im late 30s but mixed Asian, happens to me all the time. The thing i saw with my father and my other Asian family members they tend to look very young until their 60s and then suddenly they seem to turn into a wrinkly turtle within a week or so My white friends in the same age have some wrinkles, or occasional gray hairs. I still have none of that really, am happy with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:40 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Well, my man told me that the fathers of the girls he dated took him on a separate "date" as well. The father then asks what he wants with his daughter, what kind of job he has, how he has planned or sees his future, how much money he makes, et cetera. Appearantly this is common. So i can imagine it also happens to girls and their potential future MIL. It is also something i have never ever seen in my own country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Im sorry about that. So if you are still single, just ask them out. Seems that they were shy too!! Appearantly people on their death beds say they regret missed experiences more than having an experience that ended up a bit bad or embarrassing. So go for it :)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:36 AM |
| 3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I dont understand the mindset behind the last sentence of your comment. If you don't like each other, you won't go on a date, if you are afraid to lose money, don't go on a date. Easy enough. But yes, i know that especially conservative women expect the man to pay for the first date. I wouldn't say conservative women are all trashy, she probably wants to be a stay-at-home-mother and i assume that it is part of a vetting process. The mindset is like: "if he isn't even paying for the first date, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:30 AM |
| 6 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.In my life it was about 50/50. Many guys are shy, or think you are out of their league, and when they do, they fear rejection. When i asked a guy i was interested in on a date they always told me that they were afraid i would say no :)) Sometimes as a woman you have to do it, otherwise nothing happens and you just hang around each other with the tension hahha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:22 AM |
| 6 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I dont think that is kind, no. But i might be manipulated into believing it isn't kind because i was raised without gender roles. Thats why i found the vision of my husband on this interesting. Like i said in my very first comment, for many women in my country it can feel offensive if a guy wants to pay for the whole date because he might expect sex immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:17 AM |
| 3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Yeah you could argue that culture is manipulation, he feels that women in my country are manipulated by our equalitarian culture when he sees them carrying heavy groceries with their boyfriend walking next to him, so yeah i kinda get that Still, Italian men (and women) are among the most "popular" ethnicity for dating here in Europe at least. Both men and women seem to be raised to be kind and caring to the other gender, i guess that's a reason why Italians are seen as attractive by most Europea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:11 AM |
| 3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Well, he explained to me that in Italy that is called a true masculine man, and that men who cannot or do not want to pay for a date are deemed losers in his country. He explains that Italian young girls and women won't date a guy without a car, because "yeah you are handsome but handsome doesn't pay the bills" or even "i need a man, not a boy!!" So, Ester Vilar is a feminist, right? I have read the book, felt like she kinda hated herself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:01 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.What is the deal with the downvote? It seems that American culture also differs from European culture when it comes to gender roles, good to keep that in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:58 AM |
| 5 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I suggest you date a feminist woman. Splitting the bill is the default in my country (western Europe) except when someone invites the other, the one who invites should be the one who pays. But usually for dates, women want to pay split because they don't want the guy expecting sex right away. Imagine my surprise when my date (now husband) got very offended when i offered to split the costs. He said that as a man he should be able to pay for dates, that is how to show a woman he is interested in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Can women feel true empathy for men?What is this question even? Are you seriously asking if women are humans? Im sorry i can't ☠️ Im a mother of a son, would be a very crazy and unhealthy if: A) i didn't love him unconditionally and B) if i did not have empathy for him Especially in the first few years of their life when they are not verbal it is absolutely necessary to empathise with your kid. He is a young adult now (19), and doing fine. He is a very empathic little dude, has a lot of friends, has a strong social antenna, is abl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 12:36 PM |
| 1 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?Wearing "preppy" clothes Extremely different taste in music Not liking spicy food | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assaultThe second part of this post triggered my PTSD. Ahhh, it has been a long time since that happened, EMDR is such a blessing. Any woman should stay away from men who hold this opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why?That is what i mean with social skills. You can tell someone (you care for) they are concerningly overweight without being an asshole about it. People will get defensive and wont listen. A message also needs to be received. Empathy and honesty are not mutually exclusive. A masculine guy has good social skills, especially in leading positions it is quite necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why?I'd (politely) argue that low self esteem leads to narcissism, because narcissism demands continuous validation. Narcissism is like a black hole, you can poor all the love, care and attention you have into it, but it needs more. It won't fulfil. High self esteem people don't need validation from others, they are fine with who they are, and aware of both their talents and their shortcomings equally, and therefore they have the confidence and motivation to work on those shortcomings, especially wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why?Telling people that they are fat is not peak masculinity, neither is having bad social skills 🙄 Yes you can be masculine in this society, very much so. For example, no one complains about men building houses or going into the army. No one complains about a man taking care of his kids, like ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Men respect reliability not fickleness strengh not weakness, logic not immaturity,and that is why they will never respect women as equals.Some people confuse respect with authority, like OP seems to do. Its not the same. I do not respect authority for random people who are better in (whatever skill) than i am. I do appreciate said skills instead. But in my country the word "respect" means treating people with politeness and basic kindness, not authority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 11:06 AM |
| 20 | Men respect reliability not fickleness strengh not weakness, logic not immaturity,and that is why they will never respect women as equals.Your post is very strange. Most men do not conquer land either, there is billions of men in the world and at this very moment, from the top of my head only Benjamin Netanyahu and Vladimir Putin are trying to conquer land and they are not very respected by litterally the rest of the world. That is just two men versus 4 billion others. Im married to a guy and i would not be if he didn't respect me. Usually i am the one who needs to take away the spiders because somehow lots of people are afraid of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:51 AM |
| 3 | What are examples of women caring for their husbands / bfs when it's not tied to the man's status or money?I met my guy in 2019(-ish?) through a mutual friend. He lost his job during the first year of the pandemic, and subsequently lost his house too. I had an extra room and i think you should always help a friend in need, and a friend of my friend is also my friend. My guy is Italian, and i am not. I am not so much a fan of pasta either. But i am learning to cook Italian pasta because he left his home country to come here when he was just a very young adult, and he misses Italy and especially the fo… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/24 11:01 PM |
| 2 | The "Liberal Andrew Tate"Yes, i'd recommend this guy too. He has his own subreddit where you can post and then he might talk about it in his streams too | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/24 08:01 AM |
| 1 | When dating, why do people claim to speak a foreign language?Main question in the title: I think because its an interesting fact about someone when you are in the process of getting to know each other. The rest of your post, i dont know why. I live in Europe and my husband is from another European country with another language. For us Europeans it is normal to be bilingual at least, or even trilingual if you would categorize local dialects as a language (and yes, those can be entirely different languages to people who are not from the same region). I spea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 11:06 AM |
| -1 | Why do some men feel the need to “test” you when you state your interests?Hahahahahah i cannot believe guys who truly think this exist 🤣 my passion is music production and sound design. But, i am sad that not many women are into this, and neither is my husband :( i wish i had a few female friends with who i can share this passion. Luckily the guys into it are not very gate keeping, they do a lot of mansplaining which is meant to be helpful so i just nod and say "thanks bro, appreciate it" and then do it my way anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingNah this is bullshit. I dumped a "Chad" after a 6 year relationship right before i turned 30. Am much happier now being in a marriage with a sweet handsome man. "Chad" and i are still friends/co-workers. His love life is dramatic, even tho he gets tons of girlfriends and female attention, has still very good looks and even better social skills. Still, he doesn't seem to find someone to marry even though he wants it now he is getting a bit older. Appearantly, also a lot of adult women who are mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 10:18 AM |
| 7 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesTbf, this sub is like watching reality tv about people with entirely different lives than mine. Some of y'all have such wild crazy takes on life and relationships. i never ever encounter these kind of people in real life, while my job is in event management. So thats why its so entertaining and fascinating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 02:39 AM |
| 10 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesHow do you reach this conclusion? Abuse is the abusers fault, always, period. I have never heard that its the guy's fault of the woman is abusive. Maybe "don't stick your dick in crazy, bro", and that is kinda victim blaming. So yeah, if a woman gets abused by man, its the man's fault. If a man is abused by a woman, its the women's fault. And yes, i have met some abusive women, they are very scary. If the child is abused by their parents, its their parents fault, and not the child. Abuse is the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesIf it walks and talks like a duck its probably a duck. Would you be attracted to a woman who says that all men are evil and abusive all the time? I hope not! Here, have a cookie 🍪, i know life is not fair, and that sucks. Hope you feel better soon, goodnight! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 02:09 AM |
| 11 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesI think its interesting how everyone would lose their minds, rightfully so, if we would replace the word "women" in this entire subreddit with "Black people" and see how these arguments hold up. As if Black people have to feel sorry for racists not being able to speak freely without getting judged. Sometimes i cant believe these guys really exist, they only seem to exist online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 02:01 AM |
| 5 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesBecause these women are probably very young (18-25) and young women prefer assertive guys that are good looking. They still lack the experience to pick up indicators of bad morality. Same goes for young men, they like and want pretty girls and often do not select on other things like morality. In this sub its even worse, for the young men in here any girl seems to be good enough, for... whatever the hell guys like OP look for, because it is not clear to me at all. Older people (especially 30+) h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 01:42 AM |
| 10 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesIf a woman gets abused by a man, of course it is the fault of that man, no shit 🙄 Usually either parents, female friends or older ladies get the heebie jeebies from the abusive guy. Abusive guys who have relationships have charisma on max level, charming to both men and women, with guys saying "i didn't expect it from him, he seems like a chill bloke" well who's fault it that? And especially young people lack the life experience of picking up red flags, they are quite impressionable and naive. O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 01:32 AM |
| 11 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesAgain, the only reason why people abuse people is because they do not respect them. Bancroft's book is written from the perspective of abusive men because he has given therapy to men who got charged for domestic abuse but he emphasized in the book itself that it applies to everyone abusive. Love cannot exist without respect. Its not that deep really. Tell me, do these guys like OP sound as capable of respecting or even loving a woman? Not really. He cant even hide his disrespect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 01:11 AM |
| 55 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesThis is exactly what i think, the difference is that guys who are abusive and are also in a relationship have better social skills and other redeemable qualities, i've read "why does he do that?" by Lundy Bancroft, the most consistent and only predictor for abuse is that men abuse their partners because they simply do not have respect for them. That is all there is to it. The way some of these posts are written, my god, sounds as if they are jealous of men who are better at hiding it because in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Marraige is a net loss move for men.All friendships require emotional support, otherwise the friendship doesn't even exist. Its a mutual exchange thing. Otherwise you are just drinking buddies/gaming buddies which are easy to replace. Like, if your best friend suddenly loses one of his parents in a car crash, and is absolutely devastated, wouldn't you be there for him? Assuming you are both straight men of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 10:59 AM |
| 13 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offYeah this is so strange to me, why would this guy so desperately want this hypothetical in his mind to be real? Must be very bad for his mental health and it won't make him happy. I am just an internet stranger in probably another country too, so why would he get worked up about that | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 05:01 PM |
| 13 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offIdk my husband is quite tall for an Italian man, but somewhat on the shorter side compared to the Dutch men. But height is not on my demands list, im somewhat short myself | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 04:58 PM |
| 11 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offI didn't affirm that? I was in a relationship with 1 very tall guy. Here in Netherlands 99% of men are tall by the way.... | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 04:54 PM |
| 18 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offI wasn't "after" him, i was in a relationship with him. Why would i date someone else if i am in a relationship? I am monogamous, other guys were not interesting to me at all. To be completely honest, he was a bit too tall for my taste, it made kissing while standing hurt my neck! I am a bit short for a Dutch woman so i would not have minded if he was 30 cm shorter, he'd still be taller than i am. But, what attracted me to him back then, was how connected we felt, how sweet and empathic he was, … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 04:50 PM |
| 8 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offYes, i do not understand this mentality, it is as if some people want to hate the world. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Should women be more proactive in promoting pro-male ethical non-monogamy?With limerence you mean infatuation? What does the thread you posted have to do with this? Im in my late 30s and i am very much in love, married to an Italian man so no shortage of romance, haha :) Italians do romance best, so i do not agree with that statement at all! What you want doesn't seem fair or realistic. Bullying someone into a one sided open relationship until she gets depressed or traumatized? Well that is emotional abuse, and that is illegal in many countries, definitely in my count… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 05:14 AM |
| 18 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offBut i do think my man is handsome, i don't know where you took it that i think he is not? For marriage, you gotta ask yourself, is this person still amazing to spend time with when we are 70 years old? At some point we all get old, wrinkly and sick.... Love is about loyalty, who is there when we are at our worst. Do you really expect your girl to find you the hottest guy when you are 70? Seems unrealistic... Then again, isn't marriage, in the end all about having a best friend to do taxes with, … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:22 AM |
| 14 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offI wrote another comment here but TLDR is that i had a very tall handsome man, he wanted to commit very much, but he turned out to be very mentally ill. My current husband might be not model-like handsome but, he indeed makes me feel very safe and makes me truly happy. How can that be settling? It is a big upgrade | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 02:42 AM |
| 39 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offYes this is a very strange conclusion. OP, let me tell you something. Many many years ago i had a long term relationship with a guy who was indeed very tall (2 meters). He used to be handsome too. Very talented musician he was. But, he had bipolar, which emerged over the course of our relationship. I am not mentally equiped to handle that, not many people are, and he went undiagnosed for years. Bipolar emerges in young adulthood, so this timeline is not strange. By the end of our relationship he… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 02:37 AM |
| 6 | Should women be more proactive in promoting pro-male ethical non-monogamy?OP, you have used some very strange terminology that i find confusing, i am not 100% up to date with all internet lingo and this feels like another one of those strange takes this sub often times seems to have, which is entertaining, however, i try to answer to my best understanding. If you want to have an open relationship, best is to find someone who is open to the idea (accidental pun). It is a bit strange to want to bully your SO anyway, do not go into a relationship if you feel like bullyin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?I wanted to write something similar to this, because first i needed to figure out what those words in the OP even mean, now i grasp it and it is so weird. It's indeed people, but they are talking about them as if they were cars, houses or game consoles. But, you have a better way with words than i do, i am not a native speaker. Thank you for writing this. This attitude sounds like an average 12 year old, that is why tweens can be so vile, you know? But they are litterally tweens, not full grown … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Men erroneously confuse being confident with being an asshole with the whole nice guy/asshole dichotomy and womenSome also confuse being nice with being a doormat, that has some subtle manipulative component in the behaviour that rubs many people the wrong way. I wonder if these men struggling with dating also struggle to make friends in general. Like that old meme about putting nice coins in and hopefully sex comes out, this could also be applied to that particular person who keeps buying beers for the entire social group all the time in the hopes that earns them a friendship. These are people who either … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?That would not even fit in my home, and i am pretty sure the neighbourhood won't appreciate that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?I work in the industry too, am a woman and wrote a comment somewhere else about how this is not really my experience, but you might be in another country or working in another genre. I do trance events. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?Better sound system of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?Those friends are not ok, they do not respect your girlfriend and she should learn to set clear boundaries and enforce them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Is it controlling to want your girlfriend to not go clubbing?I work as an event manager and organise raves for almost 20 years. I am also a happily married woman, monogamous, with a conservative man. I have worked at and organised over 400 raves and festivals in multiple clubs in multiple countries all over the continent. I also do music performance. So i guess i can give you a perspective from someone with experience. The majority of the people who visit are there for the music, both male and female. Of course there are visitors who come to get laid, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:26 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.Just go to the closest super market in your area, you'll see a lot of them, also many ugly guys who have wives or girlfriends. It's not that strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 04:34 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.That is what he said, don't be a vile misogynist. The point being, the misogynist who gets laid and those ugly guys who get laid have one thing in common and that is, they have amazing social skills. The vile misogynist lacks these skills, therefore doesn't get laid, therefore gets more desperate and frustrated. Sexual frustration and desperation are repellent. Take a look at some incel content to understand why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 03:51 PM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingYou have never been on a beach here in Europe, obviously. I saw in Italy almost all women wear g-string bikini, including my 60+ y/o MIL. In my own country the g string bikini is not really a thing, but you do not want to fight the boomer women who want to go topless. And mind you, Italy is a lot more conservative than my own country which is more nordic Do you really think these people care about someone else's libido? It's a non issue Edit: you make this too complicated. I dress way more modes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 03:11 PM |
| 2 | The red pill makes me feel like I should have an arranged marriage?Morals being forced on people by there culture do not prevent cheating, no. I think true morals are more an individual matter. There are people who cheat and people who do not. Culture or ethnicity doesn't correlate with that at all. It depends on the individual. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/24 02:16 PM |
| 6 | The red pill makes me feel like I should have an arranged marriage?I wrote another comment but if a woman marries you for mostly your resources like women from passport bro countries, aren't they more likely to leave you for someone who has more money than you? My father is from an Asian passport bro country, if these women marry you for your resources and not your personality or other traits you possess, what is stopping these women from having a secret boyfriend they are attracted to on the side and stay married to you because you have those resources and div… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/24 08:30 PM |
| 5 | The red pill makes me feel like I should have an arranged marriage?Try to look at it this way: because women are not dependent on men anymore for having a bank account and owning a house, they don't need you for basic needs and shelter, they marry you because they like you. Couple this with stagnating divorce rates: people nowadays marry because they want to, not because it is expected or needed. That is why there was such a sharp raise in divorce rates a couple of decades ago but now a decline. It makes logical sense that if people like each other, they marry … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women: Would you date somebody who was neurodivergent?I am a ND person (hate the word, why downplay something that is litterally a mental disorder) and i 100% agree with you. Yeah i struggle with forgetfulness and am timeblind, but that is my problem to deal with. Paying your bills and doing basic shit is called "being an adult" in my book, and one way or another as an adult you need to find a way to make it happen. Therapy and medication exist for a reason, and so do creative solutions to these problems. For example, i automated my bills being pai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 01:47 PM |
| 6 | To 35+F, what do you think of men 35+M who went on strike against you?To be honest, i do not notice a lot of difference in the amount of attention i get from men, its exactly the same right now at 37 as it was when i was 20. The only difference is that the attention is given in a more respectful way. It is somewhat less creepy. It's just that that 20-something guys can be a bit wild, they are the ones that get drunk and then say some weird shit or use weird ways to let you know they fancy you, while slightly older men (30+ or 40+ and beyond) know more elaborate wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 03:49 PM |
| 4 | To 35+F, what do you think of men 35+M who went on strike against you?Not sure what you are trying to say, but i would be amused. a strike? It would at least be a lot more peaceful and comfortable because i would be left alone by quite some men who want my attention all the time. My spouse is 33, i am 37. Its not bad at all. Example: last weekend, i just finished my gig, i was standing at the bar with 20 euros and some guy wanted to buy me a drink and asked me to put away those 20 euros. I said, well actually i need to buy also drinks for my friend (male) and my g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 03:38 PM |
| 23 | What's the reason red pillers love to hate on women over 30, Obese women, single religious women, Single moms, and effeminate men?Single mothers who do not co parent are also the most independent women. For them, changing a tire, using the screwdriver, repairing a laptop, car or bike or doing some heavy stuff in the garden or around the house aren't tasks for men, they are just ungendered tasks that need to be done. But the argument is also that her kids are her top priority and they don't want to be lower on her list of priorities | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/23 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Should women be blamed if their marriages fail?The first two paragraphs in the OP are what feminists in the 60s said. I guess OP is an oldskool feminist :)))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Ever notice how it's always AI girlfriends in the news? Why not AI boyfriends?Holy shit dude, last week there was a mass shooting in my (European, no guns allowed) city, so it was quite shocking for us. He killed his neighbour, her kids and his professor at his medicine studies. The police shared all his online writings in the news. He wrote exactly the same stuff that you write. Like word for word almost. Especially about the artificial womb stuff. People told the police they were already worried about him. Please, and i dont mean this in a bad way, but you might need to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksOk i've read the articles but they all seem to imply that interpretations should be taken carefully, and especially the second and third ones which are not almost 20 years old like the first one seem to suggest that it's the hormonal effects of contraception itself can cause a lot of troubles for women themselves which could make problems in their relationship. And that is something i do notice among women, many of them suffer from side effects and especially when its mentally its not weird at a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksAlso, many guys dont take a lot of effort into their looks and self care like women are expected to do. I dont think many people are naturally ugly or unattractive, but many attractive people know what they have and what not and they know how to work with that. They know very well how to present themselves, how to dress themselves, which haircuts, clothes and make up look good on them, and how to be socially fluent and capable When i go outside i see so many men of which i think, dude brush your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksYeah thats why i wrote in another comment that there are men who instantly make you feel sexually aroused but if you want to get casual with this guy, you have to figure out if he is dangerous or turns out to be a creepy stalker, would do stealthing, et cetera | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksHow is it such a revelation that humans, including women, like attractive humans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksAhh but, there is Hugh Jackman, there is Henry Cavill in The Witcher, there is Johnny Depp in his earlier years, there is this random super handsome guy you sometimes see on the public transport, there is this extremely attractive local musician who always plays in that cozy place with his band. Like, if i was single i would not even think twice. If a guy makes me laugh, yeah that is one essential feature for a relationship, among other things. But if you just want to be casual, who cares if he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksHaving been on and off of birth control and having friends who did the same, and with all due respect, but this is nonsense, seriously where do people get their information? Being on birth control or not has never made me or litterally all the other women i know change their taste in men. If this was true, almost everyone would be single nowadays or women would ALL be pregnant with guys other than their SO. And while that happens rarely, the overwhelming majority is not. You cant be serious 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:12 PM |
| 6 | How do people in wheelchairs, double amputees, people who can't leave their bed, or other "non standard" kinds of short people view the height issue? If you are "non standard" short, how have people treated you? Have you ever been in a relationship with someone like this?I dont know what you are trying to say exactly but i have an auto immune disease that makes me sometimes having to spend time in bed, and i ... Wait i still dont get what you exactly are trying to say. You mean to say that if in the future i become entirely disabled, it would not matter anymore how tall my husband is? Not sure how short you are, but my son is the same height as me which is 167 cm (5.47900262 in freedom/usa measurements) that is appearantly quite short in my country for guys, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:00 PM |
| 4 | Ladies of r/exredpill what inspires you to help and advice men here?Because I got complex ptsd from a guy with a similar mindset, it was a relationship where lots of abuse and rape happened. Also I wish to give a female perspective both just as a woman and to show what it actually does to someone you are supposed to love | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/22 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?Red pill is something women should look into just to spot red flags in men. That's how I use it anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Alpha Seed/Beta Need is bothering the hell out of me…What? I am really happy I'm not with those guys I was with in my 20s. The love was different, more highs and lows, but the relationship I have now is way more steady, more balanced, more loving, more peaceful. I have no reason to leave the guy I'm with, because I'm happy Those 2 guys I had relationships with in my 20s used "red pill tactics", even tho they didn't know about red pill. They were just abusive, they know it, and they deeply regret it. In those relationships I was literally always do… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 01:35 PM |
| 8 | Is it ok if I don't want to pay for a woman on a first date?Dude, I live in the country that invented splitting the payment for any dates. And even in this country it's rude to say the things you said :/ | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I unswallow the Black Pill?Hey bot, I'm not gonna post my university in here. Go read Stahl, there is some info on neurogenesis and autism, very interesting, also this is not an article I wrote.... I just wrote a summary about many things I learned | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I unswallow the Black Pill?I wish I would understand humans more, or humans worked in a more computer like fashion, as an Input-Output-Machine, that I could understand. I'm not autistic, I have some other mental disorder which granted me with a lot of empathy, in such a way that other people's emotions can be contagious for me. But still, I wish I could have that manual too. I even went to study psychology, especially neuroscience and cognition in order to figure out how certain behavior X from my part would lead to respo… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/21 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Had a date, still terrified of herHey, I'm the other way around, having severe ptsd from redpilled exes. I'm in therapy and since a few months in a relationship, my bf knows that I have a past of abuse and rape. Often times I get really anxious and want to run away but that's just an easy escape, according to therapy. Confronting your fears and slowly accustome to them is healthy. Very proud of OP, you are on the right path. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/21 04:14 PM |
| 6 | Should incels become redpilled?Trust me, by the time cluster b women get into their 30s they will have enough experience to recognize these patterns in men too, and not be falling for it anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | The Upcoming War Between Men and WomenAre you gay? Someone who writes this can't be heterosexual, right? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 11:06 AM |
| 8 | The idea of submissive women is gross to meThey might get desillusioned, when I think about the Indonesian women in my family :) | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/21 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Do "Chads" really get all the girls?But it's not that all women have the same 'type' they like. I prefer intelligent somewhat nerdy guys over bodybuilder kinda types. It totally depends on the type that you like. An Instagram model goes for a completely different type than an artistic girl | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 12:32 PM |
| 10 | I'm scared of women..I kinda get you, but the other way around. Most men in my life were toxic, but then again, most people were. Emphasis on 'were' tho. What I have learned is that because I was raised in a certain way, I felt comfortable with toxic people. At some point I learned how to spot red flags and then keep my distance. But yes, I needed some therapy for that | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who *you *are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmonI wasn't attracted to men at all for years. Even if they were personality wise and physically wise my type, the thought of even being touched by men freaked me out. Its hard to say how I would be without the PTSD, but I think I would like him even 'faster' without the PTSD. But I met him in a phase when I wasn't attracted to anyone at all, but carefully trying to at least talk with men a bit, to overcome triggers. I think most 'nice guys' who orbit are too afraid to tell the girl/woman they like… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 04:06 PM |
| 3 | this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who *you *are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmon24 is still quite young. No they had personality disorders and cheated and also abused me so hard I ended up in hospital. Got a severe post traumatic stress disorder from those relationships. I swore I never wanted to have a relationship again. I also told this to the guy I'm having a relationship with now. He just really liked me and it took him almost a year to convince me he likes me, sees a future with me and that I am the kind of woman he wants to marry. I rejected him even a few times. But… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 08:55 AM |
| 2 | this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who *you *are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmonBullshit. The assholes I had relationships with got dumped by me in the end, and the nice guy I have makes me happier than ever. Not a typical 'nice guy' but a friendly, helpful and honest guy. Maybe you are still very young? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who *you *are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmonHmm, with this post I could argue that 'men are all the same and don't have any ethics left as soon as they see a chance to get laid' - a mindset I used to have and that I actively tried to change, and that worked :) So I could say stories like these made me go into hardcore feminism. However, some people are really shitty. Some hard lessons, but yeah, it's not gender related. That i found out. Hope you can too, OP :) | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/21 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Sadly, this is from the shooter in UK. Please, please, please take care of your fellow Red Pill/MGTOW homies. Come on, we can do better. 💪❤Elliott Roger wasn't ugly, but the vibes he gave off were totally yikes. Ringing all alarmbells so to speak. It's about the personality that shines through behavior that scares away the women | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 10:25 AM |
| 7 | Updating beliefs on women's sexualityNevermind, I feel like you don't want your perspectives to be changed. Sorry about your wife tho, hopefully you can find it in you to talk with her and for her sake that you can find a way to satisfy her. Best of luck | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Updating beliefs on women's sexualityYour anecdotes contradict my life appearantly then :) fine, maybe we hang out with different people. I studied psychology for 7 years and I have always been taught that evopsych is a pseudoscience because there is no such things as fossils on behavior. Why do both men and women have the same neurotransmitters involved with love, sex and attraction then? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 12:50 PM |
| 7 | Updating beliefs on women's sexualityHmmm, I'm a woman, have a lot of female (good-looking) friends between 25 to 40 years old and I don't recognize what you say in any of them. We talk very open about sex. I'm the only one of us who is actually only interested in having sex when having an emotional connection. I also know some dudes who have this. And when I have this connection, it doesn't matter if im ovulating or in my period or in between, I just have sex with my bf every day, because its good for the mood and sex is awesome :… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 12:41 PM |
| 2 | My story of becoming Red Pill believer..My new boyfriend became my boyfriend after I saw him crying, showing his emotions. He is a masculine guy and always strong. But he was in love with me for months. I had my doubts before. But when he cried and said 'you make me a better man, really you do. I love you so much' I realized he was serious. Because I saw that he could be honest about his emotions. Also I really don't want to date a redpilled guy :) so it was a huge green flag for me. Here is why: I had a lot of trust issues because I … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/21 02:01 PM |
| 6 | How exactly is RedPill wrong about women's attraction to dominant "bad boys"?Lol...indeed. I look and dress as feminine as they come, yet I am a bit feminist 😂 my man is very caring, has a small chubby belly, but is masculine anyway...while if you would see us, we would look a bit 'traditional' even. Also, I have a job that is mostly done by men. Now what? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/21 11:05 AM |
| 6 | Kinda confused about a situation. Hope someone can enlighten me.Don't stress too much about the bro fist. Also, ignore your mom's comments. I have a feeling many guys end up redpilled because there is something off in the relationship with their mother, or how she relates to men. and how your mom responded to this gives me kind of a 'red flag'. From her, not from you. It's good that you left the red pill. About your time spent with the girl and what she does, it definitely sounds good. Yes, dating involves also making yourself a bit vulnerable. Not only from… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/21 10:30 PM |
| 5 | How redpill videos made me feel insecure as a womanBecause humans fully operate on emotion, rationality is an illusion, because of how humans perceive and interpret all information entering the brain through sensory perception. you should try and look into neuroscience or neuropsychology if you are interested in that kind of stuff | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Most Red Pill Users are Jealous of Women's Sexual Power in our SocietyBut only because.... They wanna have sex with them. Not because they value them for anything else. It doesn't mean that these people love them. Love is an entirely other thing. They expect the sex in return. When men do this to me I even feel more shitty actually. Because they don't really care, they just want to get laid | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/21 06:49 AM |
| 10 | TRP is and always was stupid but the alternatives aren't betterUghh, even the way you are writing shows your personality. I understand why women reject you... What kind of women are you after, do you think you have matched personalities or are you going for looks? Edit: they rejected you for someone better. That's just a matter of perception. For a serious relationship you need someone to rely on. If someone is full of frustration, one needs to work on that first before getting into one. It's something we all experience. Even the most beautiful women get re… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/21 09:59 AM |
| 3 | If success is what attracts women, what defines it? And how can a man prove to success to a woman?A feeling of connection. That's what matters most in the end | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/21 06:44 AM |
| 2 | What would you tell your daughter if she dated a RP GuyYes that's true. But teenage girls in love.... Can't tell them who they can and can't date. Especially a daughter of mine :) That's why I would do this approach :) | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/21 09:50 PM |
| 10 | What would you tell your daughter if she dated a RP GuyThe same I would do when she was dating a secret pimp (the ones who pretend they are boyfriends but try to isolate them from their relatives to make them a prostitute) Invite the dude over. Cook him some dinner. Shower the dude with love and affection. Show the dude how connected the family is. Show him basically he's got nothing on us. Invite him for many many many things. All events. Show him how to treat my girl with respect. That's probably going to scare them off and make them run :) | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/21 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Do you think the red pill/alpha males/incel movement is fueled by narcissists?I'm a psychologist, not a clinical one tho. But, as far as I know and having dealt with people who suffer from NPD, I would rather say it's a trauma that's not been dealt with. Narcissistic personality disorder, like most PD's, always has a root in childhood trauma, but it's one of the most extreme outcomes of this. Childhood trauma wires the brain in a specific way, looking for possible dangers. I am always wondering what the relationship with their parents, mostly their mother looks like. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 10 | YouTuber Alexander Grace Here - Looking For Someone To Tell Me I'm WrongIn theory it could :) but the brain is just one element, especially the scans, they look fancy and cool, I love them too, but those are just measurements of blood flow to specific regions of the brain. Which means that area is more active (when people do or think X). It doesn't tell us anything on the content of the thoughts or the drives we have to display certain behavior. I'm not sure if we humans have the brain capacity to understand the brain in itself because we are very biased because of … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/21 09:29 AM |
| 28 | YouTuber Alexander Grace Here - Looking For Someone To Tell Me I'm WrongEvolutionary psychology is pseudoscience. I have studied psychology for the past 7 years, and when it comes to evolutionary psychology, there aren't fossils of behavior itself, they don't exist. But, especially the past 5 to 10 years, neuroscience research has accelerated, due to lots of new methods being discovered and due to refinement of earlier methods. So much new information is discovered, how neurons connect. Basically, a brain is just a brain. It changes according to the information it g… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/21 07:35 AM |
| 6 | if the red pill is bullshit then who are the guys who get all the sex?I have a few of these typical friends. One says he used to work in sales, and he applies that knowledge it to tinder and real life. What works for him, he reads body language very well. I know he finds me attractive too, but he doesn't even have to try because he reads. That makes me feel safe. A lot of stuff comes from feeling safe. We girls/women know for a fact, that men are usually bigger and stronger. Feeling safe and picking up on emotions is very very very important in order to have sex A… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/21 01:30 PM |
| 2 | This is a positive and warm sub-reddit, but I have to criticize one thing about it.I think this stems from the focus on the girls most guys find attractive, and of course they gonna date attractive guys. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/21 11:34 AM |
| 14 | Help me understand - exredpill doesn't make sense to meMaybe someone who is mentally healthy doesn't need that red pill stuff. The couples I know who have the most stable and loving relationships have build these on mutual love, respect and trust. So I guess in the long run red pill will always fail. If you love someone, you wouldn't want to do something like dread to her. Because if she is hurt, it hurts you too. That's love | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/21 11:33 AM |
| 8 | Help me understand - exredpill doesn't make sense to meIm here to pay more attention to how red pill guys work. I have a lot of unstable guys attracted to me who display red pill techniques and it made me afraid of men. This way, I can learn to spot dread and other forms of manipulation more easily and get out quicker. Red pill doesn't make your significant other happy, but afraid. That's not love. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/21 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Redpill bad for those with mental illness?Thank you! Yeah I study neuropsychology and more books are always welcome <3 Actually with this he kind of proves Freud's points on choosing partners based on by who we are raised :p | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/21 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Redpill bad for those with mental illness?What is the title and who is the author :) I'm curious to read it | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/21 09:53 PM |
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