QueenieTheBrat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Valentine’s Day Attire Ahh. I'm unfortunately a chestier heftier lady and if I go without a bra it causes earthquakes. My apologies.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/25 12:09 AM
1	Valentine’s Day Attire Not necessarily. The dress has a lovely cut, beautiful fabric colour and may sit well on the OP.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/02/25 11:07 PM
2	Valentine’s Day Attire You can get little partial slips that clip onto bra straps that cover cleavage. They're adjustable too so you can place it where needed.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/02/25 10:52 PM
6	How to instigate desire? I had something really similar to this. What helped was reading Come as you are, by Emily Nagoski. It talks about desire in terms of accelerators and brakes. Figuring out what gets me going, what prevents my desire, and what works for my partner. The next thing I did, was discover romance novels. It helped me to think about sexualities and desire as more than my own experiences (which include SA).	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/25 10:22 PM
2	Need advice on this man When he says he will send something, stop him and say it's great to talk about this, but without a follow through it can build distrust. You can mention about how you want to build relationships with people based on honesty and accountability.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/25 08:55 PM
1	Hard Nun Mode attempt Give yourself time. Eight years later I still struggle with touch. I have spent the last year working with an indigenous practitioner. She has been helping me to adjust to touch, using massage and meditation.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/01/25 10:12 PM
2	How do I deal with having a higher libido than my partner? how can i get him to want me more? There is an amazing book called Come as you are. It talks about every day things as brakes or accelerators for sex drive. Very insightful!	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/24 05:15 AM
2	Husband burnt out from work, and I’m struggling with feeling lonely and not as loved due to his screen use. Rice bran oil works perfectly. Don't heat the oil, heat a mug of water for 3 minutes, then pop a plastic squirty bottle of oil in the cup to warm it. Lay two layers of towels, best if you have a waterproof mattress protector. To remove the oil fully at the end, soap up with body wash before you get wet. Also, invest in a massage gun for shoulder rubs, it makes it much easier.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/24 09:03 AM
6	Husband burnt out from work, and I’m struggling with feeling lonely and not as loved due to his screen use. Have you tried giving him a shoulder rub while he's scrolling? Might be enough to pull him out for the phone and back into reality, while still relaxing. My husband games when he is stressed, and I found this to be a great way to help without adding too much stress to myself. Another thing you could try is a hot oil full body massage, (using your body to massage his as well as your hands). The sensory aspect will help him relax and may reignite that connection between you.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/12/24 11:05 PM
8	how did you know that you found 'the one' for you? I felt like a teenager in the first few months. He was the first man I ever felt truly safe with. He treated me with care and kindness, and that has continued throughout our relationship. He still treats me like that, and I still feel like a giddy teenager many, many years later.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/24 02:37 AM
4	How to express love and affection to my boyfriend? Your own version of showing love is what matters. My partner is Audhd. He's never bought me flowers, but he makes sure my computer never has issues, and that the house is a comfortable temperature. It's love, just like how others feel it, just a different colour.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/24 01:29 PM
3	Cortisol face? Hormonal weight? How to get healthy without buying anything from TikTok shop? It may not be cortisol. A lot of where weight sits is genetics. Drink enough water, make sure to exercise, and take time to relax. Those are the best things you can do.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/24 08:14 AM
2	Men Who Use Sex Toys Are Labeled 'Perverted Creeps,' While Women Are Seen as 'Sexually Liberated' This is a really refreshing take on this.	/r/MensRights	31/10/24 12:09 AM
2	are house chores/being a stay att home parent/wife/husband really that much harder then working away form home like feminists say it is? I think it depends. If a man is mature and cares about his home, then it is no bother at all. If a man acts and lives like a child, then that is a different story.	/r/MensRights	31/10/24 12:02 AM