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Field ReportQuelaansBlade/r/seduction11/06/22 05:11 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationQuelaansBlade/r/seduction26/03/22 06:14 AM
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Lots of jerks are extremely self confident. Women like confidence but being a jerk isnt neccesary to acquire confidence
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:46 PM
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I might make one more attempt but missing the date is a very bad sign. If she was highly interested in you she would not forget. You were likely a backup date if her main date fell through
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:31 AM
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Powerlifting helped me a lot. I am still not athletic but the increase in muscle mass and the natural large boost in testoterone helped me a lot
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:28 AM
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If she isnt getting it and she doesnt have a reputation for being dense she probably isnt interested. Interest is the #1 thing when it comes to flirting and becoming romantic. I suggest setting your sights elsewhere but keep your eyes open. Who knows she might start expressing interest months from now but dont count on it
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:27 AM
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Instead of trying to make impossible to maintain personality changes focus on staying positive. Positivity is a mindset that is cultivated. Every negative thought is a miniscule step backwards. People feed off of raw good vibes including women
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:25 AM
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Good luck approaching can give a lot of bitter rejections but the times you are succesful feel very validating. Remember that if an approach doesn't work out there are other people out there and 1 positive response from the right person outweighs 100 rejections
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:22 AM
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You are in a rough spot dude but 28 is not old. One insecurity will kill you. Two dont be fat. Its hard but the gym can be your savior. Three debt will drain you personally but it isnt a deal breaker. Get some financial education online before intrest kills you. Four plenty of chicks thirst for older dudes and you got plenty of time to get your life together. Jerk off to let off steam and focus on getting your life together for a year or two. You will have plenty of oppurtunity to meet and hook …
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:52 AM
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It can be offputting to some men but just because you are a woman doesnt mean you cant be the one doing the approaching. It can be refreshing change of pace for a woman to extremely blatantpy show interest. Gawking is part of the male condition unfortunatly and I dont know how to help you there.
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:48 AM
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Sports? Bro you still in highschool?
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:30 AM
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Ageing matters less for men. If you develop your body and social skills lots of chicks thirst for older dudes
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:14 AM
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Yes but it is surmontable. Use something like snapchat where you can message girls without the hassle of keeping a real social media presence and do a l9t of cold approaching
/r/seduction25/08/22 03:06 AM
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Beleiving that cigarettes are bad and give bad breath. Beleiving basic excercize is more important to her looks and health than any amount of makeup and clothes
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:33 AM
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Being an exotic foreigner has its own upsides
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:44 AM
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Yes, but don't count on it. Keeping your eye open to the interest in others is important for grabbing oppurtunities.
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:03 AM
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I mean it was a natural enviroment for it so its fine. Never lead with i go to therapy
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:35 AM
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Its fine. Neither hot nor unhot. Im probably more focused on making out
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:55 AM
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Being a foreigner in Korea is a type that some chicks dig. Its pretty monoethnic over here so even white guys like me are considered exotic. That being said Korea has a pretty conservative culture for a modern country
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:35 AM
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Tell her to stop and that it bothers you. She would hate it if you started commenting on otger women like that. If she can't accept something simple like that she isn't girlfriend material
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:08 PM
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I 24 (M) was in a similar situation. Life is long. Its okay to like them but try to stuff it down and feel platonic. Chances are they aren't going to marry their current partner and once they are single again make your move. Don't try to make a move on him if he is in a committed relationship. If he works that actually a terrible sign and chances are it won't work. Be patient look elsewhere until an opportunity pops up. Don't get too fixated on one person when you don't even have a serious relat…
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:38 AM
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If she told you she wants to go down on you just say yeah lets do it. What is so tricky?
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:45 PM
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Depends if he likes you or not and if he is familiar with you. If he likes you and is comfortable around you he likes it for sure. If he thinks you are hot but you just met him and latch onto his arm it can be a bit akward but no big deal. If he doesnt like you its hopeless anyway
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:42 AM
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Coworker I flirted with all the time. Waited for her boyfriend to break up with her because he had to move for his work. Swooped in and started hitting on her like crazy. It wouldn't have worked if she didnt already like me though.
/r/seduction19/06/22 04:13 AM
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Unless you get the year subscription it is horrible value and unless you have no interest in a serious relationship you dont need tinder for a year
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:26 AM
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Have you tried having a vagina?
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:51 AM
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Compassionate listening. Taking care of your skin and hygene better than the average man. Expressing feelings
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:37 AM
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Virgin to three soon is too much. Figure out which one likes you the most and go for it. If it doesnt progress quickly try another girl.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:54 AM
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See how she responds to breaking the touch barrier first. There are plenty of natural ways when flirting with a girl to touch her hand or shoulder. If she responds super well go for it in a natural way like trying to lead her somewhere you are going together. Dont just grab her hand randomly but even if you fuck up bad its just going to be akward. If she never wants to see you because of unwanted hand holding she is psycho or childish
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:50 AM
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Being too attached too fast is a recipe for heartbreak but telling her how you feel is actually good. I found that the safest thing for a girl you really like is mirroring her attachment. If she becomes closer to you its okay and even great to be feel the same but if you get attached first you are either setting up a one sided love or turning a hookup into a heartbreak. That being said as long as you are blunt and honest with your feelings without getting overly attached, women like that. Women …
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:31 AM
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Hit the gym with the goal of putting on weight. Being muscly and a little fat is actaully way better for your testosterone levels than being shreddded. Dress well but not like a dandy. (Girls do like dandies but noone thinks its masculine). Consider getting a haircut. Learn better more confidant posture. Speak confidently and don't be afraid of eye contact ever. Learn to respectfully stand your ground in confrentations. Finally don't go too hard into embracing your masculinity many of the best p…
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:22 AM
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Unless you are rich and can casually afford a super fancy hooker that you 100% know isn't being human trafficked or exploited you shouldn't get a hooker. Dont do it you are only 20. It feels like you shpuld be slaying it but plenty of men don't slay until later in life. Plenty of 20ish women are going after men in their 30s you literally have like 20 years to get your shit together without any prostitutes involved
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:29 AM
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Hit the gym abd start doing blind dates. You need lots of exposure therapy. Eye contact is a basic skill and yiu are going to need it
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:51 AM
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There can be multiple reasons. One depending on her personality she could care too much about trying new exciting things/showing up to her friends. It is a common peraonality problem but not a woman problem. 2 she could just have things effecting her life just like anyone else work, friends, ect can make it hard to maintain a relationship. 3 she could just be looking for a quick fun fling which is why she dumps afterwards not everybody is looking for a long term relationship. 4 women's hormones …
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:29 PM
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Wait till she sexts first do not initiate sexting
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:22 PM
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If you meet them in a way that doesn't have the connotations of possibly hooking up. Aka work, church, whatever you have to interact regardless if you want to be there or not. When you cold approach or tinder approach the goal is obvious to both parties so the only results are succes or fail. Friend zoning more often happens when trying to step up a relationship that previously existed.
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:56 AM
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Cigarettes are gross
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:33 AM
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I had a similar situation. You real key is asking out a lot of women like thousands of women. Try to become numb to rejection and get past any dislike of strangers. If you are blunt about your intentions and ask enough people you will be succesful
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:04 AM
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Sounds like you fucked up. Most girls dont like mind games in long term relationships and getting romantic with friends is a bad idea unless you are willing to risk this kind of thing happening. Move on hit the gym and focus on improving yourself. If she is still interested she will reach out to you
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:55 AM
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Regardless of this experience if she likes you it should be obvious after you make your intentions clear. If she was just drunk and horny then thats that. Dont read too deep into it make a pass and if it fails move on
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:49 AM
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Work out, sleep right, eat right, get a haircut, and at a minimum dont dress sloppy. This will make it so more girls even give you a chance. The hard part is getting used to a ridiculous amount of rejection. Dont become too attached to any girl you simply have a crush on. I'm an introvert too and I hate interacting with strangers so I feel your pain. The sad truth is you just have to try hard and cast the net wide. Ask a 1000 girls out a few are bound to say yes. From there you just keep pushing…
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:40 AM
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Getting into good shape does matter but probably not as much as you think. I got into body building and put on 50 lbs of muscle. Did this make girls more attracted to me? Yes. Did it help my god awful flirting skills and introverted personality? No it did not.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:32 AM
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She does seem in to me though. She hunts me down at work to talk to me and flirt with me, invites me to more social events than she does her boyfriend, and has opened up to me emotionally a couple times. If that isnt interest I dont know what is
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:24 AM
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Yeah I do this sometimes. I'm an introvert who thinks flirting with strangers is stressful and not fun. I go to the bar convincing myself that I'll have fun and meet a new girl but then once my displeasure of being in a loud crowded place kicks in I revert to guy talk which is extremely easy. I have better luck flirting well once I get to know a girl but that limits the dating pool to people you actaully know which sucks in its own way
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:21 AM
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