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I know, I even introduced a friend of mine to one of them to have some fun. Just a rule I have that worked in my favor so far. And also, why should I, if I can take a girl home that they don't know every time I go out with them? It's just not worth risking some potential future drama that leads to one of the girls not wanting me to be there when she's also around
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 10:56 AM
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I am not sleeping with any of the women in that social circle: Their benefit to me is that the whole club notices me when I go out with them and I can almost pick whatever girl I want from there
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 10:44 AM
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I think what made this work is the honesty I had to my ex plate, she and the whole circle of female-friends I now have know that I am seeing 2-3 other girls and would never ever date friends of friends. I am the safety-dude they can come to without being afraid that I develope feelings. In return they are happy to set me up with other girls
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 10:36 AM
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I was the same as you about a year ago. Then I started reading TRP and later started asking my plates TRP related questions. I know reading comments and posts from online randos is one thing and getting rl confirmation from girls is another. So just keep on gathering experience, but do not give in to your BP tendencies. You‘ll soon figure out yourself that there is a lot of truth to what is said in the sidebar & the most upvoted posts. And when you say they have done nothing to deserve it and tr…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:47 AM
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You feel like shit because you haven‘t experienced the other side of it yet, would be my guess. Without failure every girl I plated up to this point expected I was dating others without ever asking. So don‘t feel bad or as if you‘re doing something wrong. They always let you know when they want you to stop doing it via asking for a relationship. So up to that point. Don‘t stop doin what you‘re doing and enjoy yourself; always stay vage about your other plates; never be the one initiating the con…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:31 AM
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Firstly: One thing I took away from TRP is that you should do whatever the hell YOU want. So if YOU like giving compliments then just keep on doing that. If and when this leads to behaviors on her behalf that you don‘t enjoy, that would be the time to reconsider. I don‘t see how giving out compliments by itself would make you clingy. What does is if you give up what YOU want out of the relationship to accommodate her needs. So don‘t forget what activities etc make you happy and never forget that…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:25 AM
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I‘m a 7 on looks and a 9 on game I guess. I‘ve gotten pretty decent at socializing with everyone I meet and people always smile at me. The women are 6-8 in looks. All slim and above 1.7m because I hate sex or walking beside them if they’re smaller. I‘m 1.93m, 10% bf, 87kg
/r/askTRP24/11/17 12:48 AM
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I exclusively date women that make the same amount or more money than me. This gives me peace of mind in trusting them to be careful with the pill because I don‘t like condoms. Maybe it‘s that kind of demographic that doesn‘t endure inofficial stuff for too long.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 11:52 AM
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Thanks for the reminder! But i‘m not sure how it helps or I‘m missing something. All the women who put me in this position confronted me in person and kept returning to ‚just give me a clear yes(relationship) or no(Buh-bye). There wasn‘t anything I could utilize from that article to negotiate an expansion of our status as a not-relationship , so I always had to choose the drop option
/r/askTRP23/11/17 11:41 AM
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Thanks for your comment! I think this will help me a lot. Why I like to keep plates around rather than just have a LTR: until now I haven‘t met a person that fulfills all my needs: Some enjoy blowjobs & swallowing, some don‘t. Some do anal, some don‘t. Some are good at cooking some like to drink & Party And the list goes on.. I was in a 7 year ltr before with a women that was all of this and i‘m not really willing to settle for anything less
/r/askTRP23/11/17 11:15 AM
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I wouldn’t listen to this guy OP. Besides the content that I don’t agree with his aggressiveness towards you let’s me think this guy is some BP or Incel that‘s trolling this board. (To me his subtext is : be happy that you even have a gf yadda yadda) Although it‘s true that in the end your confidence should come from somewhere else, a good and fast way to get there is through getting better at opening/socializing
/r/askTRP23/11/17 10:47 AM
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I am aware that they all wanted more commitment and what my options are. I always chose to drop them until now. My question was how to make things last longer than 1-3 months before they want that
/r/askTRP23/11/17 10:34 AM
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I've been in the same boat before. However anything besides kissing and more is okay in my book in a relationship. Althought I'm currently not in one I'd keep on opening girls & going on 1. Dates if I was. It has had an immensely positive effect on my public speaking ability and socializing with men and women at work & in general. You should also keep in mind that women also hamster away their orbiters and say they're just friends. So just apply their own stupid logic: When you're opening women,…
/r/askTRP23/11/17 10:07 AM
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Du hast nichts verpasst. Bin 27 und War bis vor nem 3/4 Jahr 9 Jahre lang in einer Beziehung. Seitdem dank Tinder und Lovoo ca 10 Mädels von 20-26 gehabt. Vom Körper her seh ich übrigens nicht ganz so ‚cut‘ aus wie du(bin aber ca genau so groß (191cm). Was dein Aussehen angeht musst du da nichts mehr optimieren. Glaube du musst eher an deinem character /deiner Ausstrahlung arbeiten. Habe angefangen mich auf Dates mehr wie ein eingebildeter arsch zu verhalten und man merkt richtig wie das den Mäd…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:48 PM
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So her reaction was potentially vetting me in that I wouldn't be a butthurt asshole if she refused me something? Anyway, followup question: I'm certain that I made clear to her what I expect from her on our next date while not spelling it out,.. so if it doesn't happen, should I cut the ties or just make her my lowest priority?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:39 PM
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If you're wanting a LTR, then keep on keeping on as you are Why not string her along and make a better prospect my first priority, even if my interest isn't a LTR? I don't get this concept of hard nexting someone if you still potentially have the time to see them.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:29 PM
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I know the thrill to post in this sub after your first 'success' .. been there myself. The guy's intentions were right and imho any perspective is better than none at all as long as it's honest. I don't think he should have deleted his post
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:16 PM
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I do and am, I go to the gym 4 times a week, meet with friends on thursdays fridays and saturdays. Should I really lie and say I have less time than I do just to play some stupid games with her? To answer your question: I don't define a relationship after just knowing someone for a few days, I'm open to anything and it depends on their behavior. As I haven't slept with her yet, she isn't a plate, and by the same reasoning she isn't a LTR either
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:34 PM
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Thanks, i‘m aware of that, however I‘ve been doing this stuff for about a year now and think I know what it looks like when a girl is actively trying to manipulate stuff. Her reaction seemed genuine and it looked like she was scared of her own emotions and that she had let herself go like that. In the text you quoted it even says that religion can be one of the few exceptions to what is written in there, so i‘d take from that that I should overlook it and give her one last chance ?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:42 PM
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I don‘t agree, she got my time on a Sunday and Wednesday evening, both days where There‘s usually not much else to do for me in the evening. The other one was a dinner date where I let her invite me and had plans with friends afterwards
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:32 PM
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Date 1 was the evening I approached her in a bar, date 3 was an evening where I had plans with my mates and told her she could take me out to dinner beforehand if she really wanted to see me
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:27 PM
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I don't really know anymore to be honest. Been going to the gym for a few years, so working on my physique isn't something I can really dedicate myself to as it's just something that's part of my life now. I have a decent job in IT-Consulting and with good prospects for the future. I wanted kids down the road, but with what trp is telling me that's a no go and finding that special someone you can build a life with is apparently impossible
/r/askTRP13/06/17 12:22 PM
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I have an awesome circle of friends who picked me up after the breakup and who I do stuff with 2-3 times a week. I don't know,I think I'm hunting after this stupid feeling of 'being in love' again that I had before. Should I abstain from women 100% until I found something else that gives me happiness/purpose?
/r/askTRP12/06/17 03:15 PM
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