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uhhh.. yea bro rape culture is not giving adequate punishments to and apologizing for rapists.. literally just like this this is a great example of a rape culture actually lmao
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/23 06:29 PM
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y’all do know feminism is pushing to have all sex crimes be recognized and brought to justice.. that includes cases like these improving the language and calling that what it is, rape, is part of feminism lol it’s assuming all men want is sex that comes from very old and outdated assumptions that leads to this shit, not feminism lmao
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/23 06:27 PM
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see my comment above because it doesn’t look like your reading comprehension skills are very good
/r/MensRights30/08/22 12:21 PM
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There you go, admitting that you can’t really counter anything I said. Good job engaging with people who disagree instead of only responding to people that add to your echo-chamber. “tYpiCaL mAn”
/r/MensRights30/08/22 12:04 PM
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Great response! Very obvious that without buzzwords you can’t make any valid points. But yeah everyone who disagrees with you is gaslighting you.. but definitely make sure you don’t actually point out how.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:52 AM
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Like.. no? My response was perfectly reasonable with no backpedaling or gaslighting, but good job making shit up..?
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:47 AM
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Humans can do the exact same shit. That’s why we have intelligent brains.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 03:37 AM
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Wild concept for people who believe in enforcing gender roles: Men and women can do the exact same shit at the same quality (now don’t misinterpret this as woman being same strength as men, people have innovative brains to build machines that do things for us) We would have all of the above at the exact same quality because men can be in healthcare and women can also build roads.. I know, difficult concept to grasp
/r/MensRights30/08/22 03:34 AM
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yes because there’s a lot of valid arguments for saying women should depend on men
/r/MensRights30/08/22 03:30 AM
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Your version of women’s history is so inaccurate. You thinking feminism fighting for women’s right to work.. labels them as weak? Men bro. Imagine having to skew history so much to justify the idea that women weren’t ever oppressed. Moron. Complete and utter moron.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 01:35 AM
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gaslighting you with legal facts my bad (you should try to use your brain instead of just buzzwords.. i don’t think you know what gaslighting means)
/r/MensRights29/08/22 09:52 PM
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You thinking women didn’t do things in history because they didn’t want to is so funny. I thought you’d be logical and understanding of gender issues but then I remembered you frequent this sub so of course that’s not really an option here. The fact that you’re so confidently wrong is actually hilarious Spinning it around to try and paint WOMEN as the ones saying they were weak and less intelligent is wild This sub is the epitome of r/persecutionfetish with a mix of very poor understandings of h…
/r/MensRights29/08/22 09:50 PM
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Business! A masculine world! (definitely not because women weren’t allowed to work or gain an education AND their innovations and ideas were often taken credit for by men) You thinking women weren’t reduced to motherhood for most of human civilization is very strange. You can’t possibly believe women were thought to be more than just wives and housekeepers for most of history.. right? You give “I’m a man but I know women’s experience and history better than women.” vibes
/r/MensRights29/08/22 09:00 PM
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Women hating their femininity and ability to be a Mother is because a lot of the time- and for most of history we were reduced to just that. Anyway, I think we agree with each other here but you’re nitpicking what I’m saying. Obviously no one is entirely independent and able to function just by themselves. But teaching women they can function independently without depending on men and very important. Especially when striving for equal relationships. You can reverse this for men, teaching them li…
/r/MensRights29/08/22 08:25 PM
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Damn it’s almost like my point was neither gender really need each other for anything other than companionship. Parents needing financial support after separation is not a gendered issue, it’s for the betterment of the children. But good job missing that point! Child support is LEGALLY defined as the right of the child. I am not telling you that’s my opinion- that’s literally just how it is. Blame the judicial system for not holding financial abusers accountable- men or women. Hmmm you’re acting…
/r/MensRights29/08/22 07:40 PM
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You could ask the same about men going after women for both of those things. Also, child support is this right of the child, not the mother. Plus loads of single mothers who don’t collect child support function well enough. Same goes for single fathers.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 07:30 PM
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Obviously men can’t give birth, but women aren’t incubators and are also necessary parts of society. If you think my being independent enough to not need anything OTHER than companionship is bad.. I’m not entirely sure what to tell you. That is independence.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 07:27 PM
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So I’m actually a woman The world needs people yes, but women don’t NEED men just like men don’t NEED women Both can do the exact same shit If you think women NEED men to survive and teaching girls to be independent just like men is bad.. you might like the 50s better than this timeline Edit: If you downvote this comment you don’t want equality, you want male superiority.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 07:01 PM
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teaching women they don’t need men is anti-men according to this chronically online mf
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:39 PM
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go outside guys please i’m begging you to touch some grass
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:38 PM
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No, you’re making two different points. Sex isn’t the go to insult, but if you’re on a dating debate sub and being hyper misogynistic, yes I am going to assume you don’t get a lot of opportunity to be within 10ft of a woman. And I’m going to tell you WHY you are unable to get any women to want to spend more than 30 seconds in your general area. Especially when it is very common to see men on this sub literally tell me, a woman, that I have no value in a relationship outside of my ability to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:29 PM
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Yess exactly. People use the term incel mostly in reference to the person’s character, not their sexual success. I don’t know if anyone has had sex before, but I’m gonna call you an incel if you’re raging about how women only date chads and women have no personality or that women’s only value is sex. Glad we’re on the same page lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:20 PM
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Making fun of incels because they can’t get sex is literally just making fun of the fact that they can’t get sex BECAUSE of how disgustingly hateful and misogynistic they are. Not the fact that they can’t get sex. If you’re making fun of people just because they can’t get laid you’re just a cunt. It’s WHY they can’t get sex- not the fact that they can’t get it. A lot of people who make fun of incels usually do it along the lines of: “Well maybe if you weren’t just an insufferable human being wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:02 PM
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Relationship success is different than sexual success. You can separate the two. You can value one significantly more than the other. Obviously not EVERY woman has the same opinion, but most don’t really care if you’ve had sex before. That also may be different in term of what they are searching for at the time.. like say not wanting an inexperienced man for a hookup, but at the same time not caring if someone is a virgin if you intend to be long term with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:53 PM
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I am telling you the post you linked does not support what you are trying to say lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:40 PM
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She cares about if he has been in a relationship before. Not if he has had sex before. You can have sex while not in relationships. If she cared about whether he had sex before- she would have said just that. She doesn’t even MENTION sex in the post bro So yeah my point still stands. Maybe actually read my response so you can grasp why she might be concerned if he’s dated anyone before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:09 PM
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Having dated someone and having sex with someone are very different things, my friend You can have had sex with 20+ people and never have had a long term relationship with any of them- that would be something I would be wary of. On the opposite side- you can have zero sexual relationships and also never been in a relationship. This would still make me wary. A lot of people are nervous about being someone’s first bf/gf, especially those who have already had relationships. I don’t want you to lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:55 PM
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repeating what i just said is making stuff up durr durr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:20 PM
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thinking women are equal is a false narrative durr durr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:19 PM
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And you think the women you deem worthy of approaching are gonna give your sexist ass the time of day?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:05 PM
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“most women are not worth approaching” hmmm generalizing negatively is def not sexist or anything.. nahh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:59 PM
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It takes 1-5 dates max to figure out their intentions. I would rather not remain in the dating phase for months.. that seems very counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:42 PM
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You asked me when I think I would make up my mind about a person. I gave you a general timeframe. What point are you trying to make now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:33 PM
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It depends. I like to get to know people, which takes time. It could be the first date or the fifth date. Probably somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:20 PM
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Never said it was true, just telling you that men have literally told me my whole life that men are only after one thing.. doesn’t mean I’m going to pretend all men on the planet are only after one thing lol I am just making sure they let me know in some shape or form that they are not only after one thing.. that’s all I’m asking. Very doable and very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:16 PM
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And you think you’re worth being approached by a woman when you literally hate women? Rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:30 PM
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Use your thinking cap babe it’s all this sub likes to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:51 AM
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Who said I didn’t care about them? I want equal effort. EQUAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:45 AM
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Everything that a “high value man” would bring lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:41 AM
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this sub is so funny women should put more effort into dating!!! women shouldn’t put equal effort or they’re not worth pursuing 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:14 AM
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how did you read equal effort and think that means chase
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:03 AM
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if i have to repeat one more time that i expect literally the cheapest possible date so i can just focus on getting to know them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:40 AM
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Hmmmm asking people to care about me as a person must be too big of an ask
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:08 AM
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I agree. Equal effort on both parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:11 AM
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They literally did?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:04 AM
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I didn’t even bring up incels.. you did bro lmao You called people who think like you incels so I went from there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:02 AM
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do you think incels can only be men she literally coined it to discuss her involuntary lack of sexual activity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:54 PM
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because no one can accept that they’re any of those things bc it doesn’t effect them however if they’re the root cause of your lack of pussy you might do some self reflecting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:02 PM
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No, I’m mocking you. Here, let me edit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:30 PM
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HMMM I WONDER HOW I WOULD BE ABLE TO DO THAT
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:29 PM
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Not impress me. I want to know if I click with the person and if they want to know the same about me. If we don’t click, we part ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:27 PM
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“if woman have sex??? why should i care about her??”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:20 PM
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Not asking anyone to impress me bro Just asking them to get to know me as a person without expecting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:19 PM
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I did not mean TAKE care of me, I meant care FOR me as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:39 PM
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Lying about rape doesn’t sexually victimize people, hence why this is a moronic take
/r/MensRights21/07/22 08:34 PM
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no one cares that you’re not having sex but women do like to point out your misogynistic and/or unappealing behaviour that results in your lack of sex hence the involuntary bit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:09 PM
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Damn I definitely don’t think you could figure any of those things out by talking to them and getting to know them.. You seem to really hate women. Maybe men would be a better option for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:32 PM
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I will simply have to intervene and save ur tit dw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:16 PM
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shouldn’t everybody..? don’t date people who burden your happiness, health, or wealth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:12 PM
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Are you expecting me to have zero critical thinking skills and think that everything people have told me growing up has to be 100% true?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:01 PM
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Incels named themselves bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:00 PM
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I meant care for in like a care ABOUT me. I don’t attempt to woo men, nor do I expect that. I just try to get the know them, their interests, and their goals in life. Just as I would expect them to ask me about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:59 PM
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I looked up “Wage Gap” and every article is about how it exists, why, and why it’s worse than we think?? Thanks I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:43 PM
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mf do you think any healthy relationships are built on “let’s see who can care less about the person i’m supposed to care about a lot!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:37 PM
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I don’t think all men are like that, hence the get to know and care about me part. That would tell me you aren’t like that. Very easy concept
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:31 PM
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Hmmm I wonder how they would be able to figure out what I bring to the table.. it wouldn’t be through.. no.. getting to know me.. would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:30 PM
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It’s not. I am not asking them to impress me. I am asking them to get to know me as a person, just as I would show the same courtesy to them. How is that hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:28 PM
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You are the example of men are after one thing and one thing only. The type of man I am actively trying to avoid. Are you trying to prove my point or..?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:25 PM
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So don’t date women that think like that? You are mad that some women want expensive dates, the women you actively dislike, and still get mad when they reject you? Have you not expressed you don’t like women who act like that? The trash let itself out and you’re still salty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:24 PM
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what part of I don’t have sex with men who only see me as a vagina do you not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:20 PM
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If I need to prove to you that I am more than a vagina, I don’t want you anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:19 PM
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if I have to explain to you how women offer more than just sex, you are already beyond saving
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:16 PM
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Asking you to get to know me instead of trying to fuck me is not unreasonable nor is it a commitment. I would prefer they didn’t take me somewhere expensive, coffee/ice cream and going for a walk is a perfect first date setting. I am literally asking for them to sit down for an hour or so and get to know me without feeling like their effort should be repaid with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:51 PM
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What point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:36 PM
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I am very aware of my self-worth and value (I bring more to the table than just sex), and I don’t struggle to find men who are attracted to me. Expecting people to care for me as a person is the bare minimum in relationships. I’m not sure why you think that’s too much to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:33 PM
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You are the exact type of man I am trying to avoid! Women (who are people) offer more than just sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:29 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:20 PM
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That is NOT what I mean by proving they care. Money does not show me you care about me. I expect conversations to be equally initiated on both sides. I expect them to be as interested learning about me as a human being as they would be interested in physical relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:20 PM
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Literally!! My entire point is I AVOID the men they’re describing “don’t want me” because effort is too much That is a win in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:09 PM
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You just described the exact type of men I like to ward away by expecting them to care about me as a person! Thanks for understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:06 PM
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I don’t really need to SHOW people I can offer them more than just sex.. The type of people that need that to be proven are the type I DON’T want anything to do with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:03 PM
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If you think that feeling as though it is necessary to prove to a woman you care about her as a person rather than as a vagina is a turn off.. idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:01 PM
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The pay gap doesn’t compare overall earnings between men and women, it compares the earnings of men and women in the SAME job/position Men get paid more for the exact same jobs that women have. That is the pay gap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:59 PM
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No, I’ve just been taught throughout my life (by men) that men are only after one thing, and once they get it they’re gone. With that in mind, yes I do prefer men prove to me that sex isn’t their only goal. Don’t “woo” me, but prove to me you enjoy my presence, appearance, and personality outside of just wanting to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:52 PM
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I think you watch too much TV
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:23 PM
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I know, but I don’t want to build a foundation of intimacy being based on sexual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:38 AM
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What does that have to do with anything? That literally just supports my idea that dating = risk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:38 PM
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Why do you keep thinking I’m trying to describe every woman’s experience ever.. I am talking about MY reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:51 PM
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Well, considering most homicides against women are by the ex-spouse/partner, I am 100% going to be picky about who I’m going to date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:16 PM
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Good thing I was describing my own experience and not claiming it was all women’s experience! You think only a 90% chance of survival ISN’T something worth being concerned about..?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:13 PM
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Relationships and marriages do tend to benefit men more so that would make sense But it’s also not my job to provide companionship for people who aren’t even content enough with themselves to be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:31 PM
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I’m picky because I am independent enough where I am perfectly happy being single, and if I choose to find a partner I also want to ensure my happiness isn’t hindered in any way by a shit SO There is also the very real threat that a date may kill me so I’d rather not risk that if they are giving weird vibes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:07 PM
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You call women who have casual sex sluts and wonder why they won’t fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:32 PM
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I’ve noticed men tend to lose respect for you/don’t want a relationship with you if you sleep with them early on. Also, not having sex forces you to get to know each other and create physical & emotional intimacy outside of sexual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:18 PM
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They’re international students at my uni and their first language is French rather than English (they still speak both well) so maybe that may be the cause, plus difference in culture and they’re both genuinely just kinda shy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:02 PM
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You are the exact people I mean by you’re gonna make the comment so might as well fuck someone who isn’t ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:25 AM
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Yes I have some handsome & smart friends that struggle w women because they’re awkward and don’t really know how to talk to them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:46 PM
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I am not wasting my time on someone who is presenting red flags.. I’ve done that enough in my life already
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:26 PM
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if u need ppd to remind you to shower i think i have some bad news for you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:46 PM
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just don’t take anything this sub says as good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:34 PM
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I like to observe the incels in their natural habitat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:50 PM
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where did I say it was a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:07 AM
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i wish i could live my own lil bubble like you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:50 PM
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“Slutshaming does’t exist because women are having sex casual now.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:39 PM
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idk what society you’re living in but it def isn’t on this planet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:32 PM
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most of the men on this subreddit would like to disagree with you especially the ones that say women lose value after every sex partner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:30 PM
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I really wish I did but there seems to be a shortage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:06 PM
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Have you SEEN how women are treated in society? No, probably not, you frequent a subreddit that thinks men are more oppressed than women lmfao
/r/MensRights15/07/22 08:48 PM
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either way, she’s getting shamed for sex so you might as well be naively hopeful with your intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:47 PM
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because if you’re gonna be shamed for sex you might as well have high standards so it’s: “Well at least she fucked an attractive person with social status,” and not: “She fucked that ugly dude? She probably lets ANYTHING in that pussy damn.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:18 PM
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Because having options for sex is not the same as having options for sustainable healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:49 PM
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you didn’t say physical prowess, you said muscles and strength. so if you think nearly all women feel that way, you are contradicting your idea that people can be attracted to say, CHUBBY people like you just said you were
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:58 AM
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so you think ALL women are aroused by physical prowess?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:55 AM
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and you think ALL women are into super muscular men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:51 AM
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ah yes, i, man, know ALL women. women? wrong about their own feelings. i know all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:16 AM
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how are you guys so confidently wrong about telling people how you think women feel most women actually don’t find excessive muscle attractive either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:03 AM
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me when I have no understanding of the world outside of r/MensRights
/r/MensRights14/07/22 09:51 PM
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hmmmm i wonder what institutionalized gender roles got their foundation from
/r/MensRights14/07/22 09:51 PM
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the mental gymnastics you guys go through to pretend a patriarchal system doesn’t exist is actually insane
/r/MensRights14/07/22 09:21 PM
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Systemic oppression is caused by the group that created the system. Rich white men. That is why say, Black people face systemic oppression, but white people do not. The patriarchy is the system, which was created by men back in the day. While there is still less oppression faced by women, it still exists because of a society founded on patriarchal means. You can blame that for gender issues. Men face injustice by the system because of patriarchal values that are forced onto men and women.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 08:47 PM
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It’s not misandry that causes systemic oppression to either gender, it’s actually a result of the patriarchy that established roles for them. Systemic oppression can’t be caused by women if women never had the power to create the systems in the first place lol
/r/MensRights14/07/22 08:30 PM
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I didn’t say you all hate women, I’m saying the men that hate women hate them BECAUSE they are women.. women hate men because of how men treat women. Y’all here someone say men in an argument and assume we mean every man to touch the earth and then spiral from there.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 07:07 PM
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I said it’s a reaction to misogyny. Women hate men because of how they treat women, men hate women BECAUSE they are women. That is the cause of misandry. Don’t twist this into me being in support of it, I’m merely telling you how it came to be.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 06:54 PM
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Then what is your argument? That women have specific ideas of what they find attractive based on their own unique interests and sense of humour and that’s a BAD thing? Are you complaining that people with unique personalities have unique requirements to find other people attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:53 PM
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I’m not trying to change the argument, I am saying wanting someone with the same sense of humour as me is a valid enough point. Of course elaborating adds more to the list, but elaborating just to describe my sense of humour isn’t really relevant because humour is attuned to the SINGLE individual that finds some things funny and some things not. I also don’t have a strict “things you must find/not find funny list” because I’m not a robot and realize people can have similar senses of humour but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:39 PM
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I don’t want to be with someone who had to change their sense of humour just to make me interested, that isn’t sustainable. I literally just want someone with the same sense of humour as me. That is detailed enough to add to a list of standards. There is no cheat code for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:27 PM
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Have you ever heard of something called financial abuse? Believing women shouldn’t have their own income gives you power over them in a world where you need money to survive. The way men discredit home labour as barely work also builds the power dynamic of: “I make money and I provide for this home so you should listen to me.”
/r/MensRights14/07/22 06:20 PM
1

Considering every woman doesn’t have a cheat code and you are not going to be found funny/interesting to every woman if you do it a certain way, me wanting those things is not unreasonable. Men like you need to understand that wanting someone to be funny/interesting does not mean: do these things to become funny/interesting.. it means be yourself and if I find you possess those traits, I will find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:15 PM
1

There is no cheat code to women- I can meet someone and decide if they are nice or kind or funny, and the next woman may think he is none of those things. Hence MY standards. It is not hard to be kind, that is quantifiable and not vague. Interesting/funny to me is ambiguous, but also not a unreasonable standard to go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:39 PM
1

No.. my list consists of: Hygiene Kind Interesting/Funny Hard worker Good communicator Understands basic social issues (ex. inequality, sexism, racism, homophobia etc) Isn’t a bigot That’s about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:20 PM
-18

misandry is reactionary to misogyny, and men will never face oppression by misandry the way women faced(and continue face) oppression by misogyny but whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/MensRights14/07/22 04:56 PM
0

Feminists DON’T want any gender stereotypes to be followed. The women you are discussing who expect to do no relationship effort are not common. Most women now expect 50/50. Feminists expect 50/50. There is a reason why marriages benefit men more than women. Chivalry is rare, effort in relationships has dropped a lot for both genders.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 04:41 PM
0

No one expects men to pay for the first date, most women I know offer to split the bill and men INSIST on paying. Opening doors and offering to pay for dates is not equivalent to doing all the housework on top of having a full time job lol No one expects men to do all the effort in relationships, I would argue that kind of chivalry has been forgotten. Men don’t really open doors for women or treat them like queens, I’ve noticed they don’t really put in much effort at all. Most of the women I kno…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 04:19 PM
-3

If you talked to any woman in STEM/labour intensive fields.. I think they may disagree with you. The companies themselves may be making an effort, but misogyny + sexualization from co-workers is still the same lol (perhaps less than before but still prevalent) But if you think all is well in those fields for women because it’s hard to grasp that it isn’t.. idk what to tell you
/r/MensRights14/07/22 04:12 PM
2

You would be surprised the amount of men that don’t meet my small list of those exact requirements.. Hygiene, kindness, proper communication, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:58 PM
-15

The idea that women belong in the home, men should be the breadwinner, women do all the housework/childcare, etc. Traditional men want these things lmao If you don’t, you are not a traditional man (which is a good thing)
/r/MensRights14/07/22 03:57 PM
-27

Feminists do not want you to be a traditional man, that would come with traditional misogyny that no woman wants to deal with anymore
/r/MensRights14/07/22 03:39 PM
5

If he doesn’t make a move and I like him, I’ll probably make a move myself. Unless he is giving off body language/saying things that indicate he wouldn’t be interested in me, then I will just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:24 PM
5

I choose who I’m attracted to If you don’t meet my standards, then I don’t find you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:08 PM
1

They can, they’re actual very simple standards. Like most women. However, most men find it hard to meet my standards because they require effort past the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:26 PM
9

Women don’t want me because I’m ugly.. must be because they’re fat yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:21 AM
3

if you don’t meet my standards then I won’t be attracted to you lol doesn’t matter how hot you are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:19 AM
17

“Girls aren’t attracted to me so it’s their fault people treat them like objects”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:13 PM
2

No I really love when both partners put a lot of effort into planning something they think their SO would enjoy! Going back and forth when it comes to planning dates is more fun I think
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:11 PM
3

honestly you’ve convinced me i think ur right
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:33 AM
2

Buzzword bc u can’t justify ur own opinions
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:32 AM
2

So you can’t elaborate because you’re aware the argument is flawed?
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:31 AM
2

That was me asking you to elaborate bestie
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:30 AM
0

I’d really like to know your thought process behind that one
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:27 AM
-3

it’s weird that you think it’s not lmao
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:10 AM
-4

it’s definitely interesting that you think both genders don’t do this.. just women
/r/MensRights09/07/22 11:50 PM
1

nobody says this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:57 PM
2

I am fit and hang around fit friends and no one I know has ever experienced fit shaming.. you guys are chronically online
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:53 PM
1

I prefer getting to know people online first, then meeting them after I’ve concluded I’m attracted to them AND they won’t murder me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:58 PM
0

“I, a man, know exactly how ALL women think!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:31 PM
1

Ive met some really attractive men that I’ve friendzoned because I simply don’t think they would be romantically compatible based on personality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:59 PM
10

damn people who work hard to have a nice body show off their body? how dare they
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:52 PM
44

how could they give men they find attractive attention!?!? what about the men they don’t find attractive!! why don’t they give attention to us!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:52 PM
34

describing people as alpha male is the reason women don’t give you attention lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:51 PM
-12

we know we just don’t care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:29 AM
10

I prefer when the party is mostly women tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:04 PM
10

the fact that they are disagreeing with you here is just evidence that this sub is incel central women: women have feelings and emotions men: no they don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:08 PM
1

men are not hornier than women lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:23 PM
0

damn bc I do remember men putting “i will kidnap and rape you” on their profiles so we can check! how considerate of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:11 AM
0

women can now control if their dates are crazy people omg where did u find this info
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:02 AM
1

men be forgetting we have to make plans with our friends to ensure we don’t get murdered on first dates
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:08 PM
1

that must mean all right wing people support the insurrection right?
/r/MensRights01/07/22 01:57 PM
1

i literally said i don’t support it multiple times but ok i am explaining how that is so far from actual feminist views it MAKES them radicals lmfao
/r/MensRights01/07/22 02:31 AM
0

Missouri is trying to implement the law right now: https://www.politico.com/amp/news/2022/03/19/travel-abortion-law-missouri-00018539 Contraceptives aren’t 100% successful, you can use protection and still get pregnant. Pro-lifers have literally been saying rape is not a valid excuse for abortion, with many Christian families using “It’s God’s will” as a justification
/r/MensRights30/06/22 10:19 PM
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No, not feminists. Radical feminists. That is the point I’m trying to make. Feminists do not advocate for genocide, that is literally against everything we stand for. Moronic radicals do, and like any group of radicals, they don’t reflect the ideals of the group they claim to be in.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 10:17 PM
-1

That doesn’t make it any less radical lmao
/r/MensRights30/06/22 10:14 PM
-1

You got it wrong! It is VERY radical. It’s not a movement, nobody is mobilizing and committing genocide against men. It’s merely a slogan, not a call for action. (Keep in mind that doesn’t justify it and it doesn’t make it right, NOR DO I SUPPORT/DEFEND IT) However it IS a radical thing to say, and NOT a reflection of feminist thought. Thinking the radicals make up the whole group would be like saying: “All republicans must be in support of the insurrection/attempted coup on the Capitol!” “All m…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 10:11 PM
1

I think there is genuinely a lot of things the patriarchy causes that are extremely damaging to men, so the advocacy for improving men’s overall quality of life is necessary But some mfs aren’t even radical they’re straight up misogynistic and don’t understand what they’re arguing about But yeah I usually see crazy shit from men on here and just assume they’re radical and the idea that they are suffering is justified- but they’re attacking the wrong group of people to solve their problems Men wh…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 08:23 PM
1

LMFAO
/r/MensRights30/06/22 08:21 PM
1

call what radical men’s activism?
/r/MensRights30/06/22 08:17 PM
1

Hey, I’m not trying to justify it, the RADICAL points she made are pretty out there and definitely close to eugenics which are gross I’m just trying to point out she is radical and not a representation of feminist thought (i do like to argue lol)
/r/MensRights30/06/22 08:16 PM
1

As the dude said, it’s not a movement, it’s a slogan They are not mobilizing to kill all men Either way it’s still bad
/r/MensRights30/06/22 08:15 PM
1

Feminism doesn’t advocate for violence against men.. That would be radicals.. and like any radical group.. it doesn’t represent the thought of the majority I agree advocating for shelters for all abused people is a necessity.. something feminism advocates for What are you trying to prove? Feminism improves the wellbeing of men and women? I agree with that lol Radical feminism is: A RADICAL movement that real feminists do not stand for A cause for division between men and women because it makes m…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 08:13 PM
1

That’s not killing men now is it Regardless, I still don’t agree with and Im not advocating for it
/r/MensRights30/06/22 07:58 PM
1

When did I call it a joke? It’s a radical slogan. That I don’t support.. because it’s radical Genocide is a not something to joke about
/r/MensRights30/06/22 07:56 PM
2

Does this mean YOU’RE against sexual harassment law? By ignoring my second point are you agreeing that all radicals represent the group as a whole.. or are you starting to understand my point here?
/r/MensRights30/06/22 07:28 PM
1

Ah yes, because not being a huge fan of MacKinnon must mean I hate everything good that came out of her work. Interesting logic. If radicals represent the mindset of a group, all Republicans are in support of the Capitol coup attempt! All republicans endorse neo-nazi sentiments!! Every men’s rights activist hates women!
/r/MensRights30/06/22 07:05 PM
2

Imagine quoting what literally says RADICAL feminist authors and thinking its feminism Exactly my point, KAM isn’t feminist, it’s a radical slogan RAW was a slogan used as a reaction to KAM, you can find it anywhere on the internet I don’t really care for MacKinnon’s work, which has been critiqued many times by modern feminist authors Still, no one is defending KAM but if you think radicals represent a group.. you might as well say RAW is a real movement as well
/r/MensRights30/06/22 06:22 PM
1

You’re saying I’m defending KAM while I’m actively telling you I am not in favor of it.. it is a radical sentiment completely reactionary to the abuse women face from men It’s not right, but it’s not feminist either
/r/MensRights30/06/22 06:09 PM
1

Yeah, a lawyer hired to defend her client defended her client damn Rape All Women is a slogan created by misogynistic men who think they’re oppressed in society.. but you don’t see me calling it a “men’s activist movement” Femicide that originates on alt-right misogynistic platforms like this one DO create violence.. I’m sure you’ve heard of all the shootings, DV cases, and intimate partner homicide cases that support that.. right?
/r/MensRights30/06/22 06:09 PM
2

She didn’t advocate for genocide.. did you even read it. She is AGAINST violence of any kind.. how is that a threat of genocide? Reducing a population without violence = not killing people I didn’t say I agreed, nor did I say I support or defend KAM
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:57 PM
2

A diagnosed schizophrenic shoots someone and you’re saying because of that you’re personally in danger of the male population being erased..?
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:54 PM
2

Did you even read the article you just sent me.. here is the quote that directly follows that line: “Gearhart, a dedicated pacifist, recognized that this kind of change could not be achieved through mass violence.” Context of her statement: “Gearhart does not base this radical proposal on the idea that men are innately violent or oppressive, but rather on the "real danger is in the phenomenon of male-bonding, that commitment of groups of men to each other whether in an army, a gang, a service cl…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:51 PM
1

I’m not defending it.. I’m saying you are not in danger of anyone killing all men. KAM also isn’t a feminist movement.. nor do any actual feminists advocate to genuinely kill all men. You guys see something trending that women are doing and use feminism and women interchangeably like they mean the same thing lmfao
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:32 PM
1

do you believe they wanted to actually kill all men babe and i’m glad you think a radical slogan from tik tok represents feminism as a whole
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:16 PM
5

definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:50 PM
26

you literally unironically say gigachad you are in a self-induced chronic state of being triggered at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:43 PM
46

I get the sense that your closest contact to a human woman is staring at instagram models online
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:33 PM
2

no they are not also women ≠ feminist why do you guys use those terms interchangeably
/r/MensRights30/06/22 01:34 PM
16

In summary: “I don’t like what women are telling me when they disagree with me on this sub so I’m just gonna pretend they are outliers because I don’t want to listen to them. But also why can’t I find a date?? I clearly respect women so much??”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:23 PM
-2

You seem to be very uneducated in actual social issues and get all of your ideas from subs like this. Women are oppressed, men are not. An ounce of research into gender discrimination would have you realize the lack of evidence to back any of your claims. Women, like myself, prefer emotional men who are in tune with a healthy expression of their inner thoughts. I can tell you many women would agree with me. Men, however, tend to make fun of other men for expressing emotions and call them “gay” o…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 01:14 PM
-1

As someone who works in a law firm I would argue from experience.. men NOR women face many consequences for not paying child support lol
/r/MensRights30/06/22 01:00 PM
0

i wonder what the cause might’ve been then.. hmmm systemic sexism against women.. nahhhh
/r/MensRights30/06/22 12:59 PM
-10

Men who think the patriarchy doesn’t exist while complaining about the result of the patriarchy AND reinforcing it by generalizing all women to be expectant of male aid instead of the reality that women fear men more than they expect protection is funny. Literally use the internet and you will find feminist advocates for a plethora of male issues that stem from the patriarchy like: men can’t be emotional, suicide rates of men including trans and gay men, sexual assault against men, etc. Feminism…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 12:43 PM
-2

Men actually walk out of fatherhood all the time- and a lot of men don’t pay court ordered child support and face little to no consequences either Memes like “my dad went out to get the milk and never came back” may be an exaggeration but they come from a place of truth And actually… if you did your research you’d know some states ARE actually intending to prosecute women who choose to travel to another state to get an abortion. And if you think that allowing states to decide if women shouldn’t …
/r/MensRights30/06/22 12:12 PM
-13

women also face extreme genital mutilation in many countries around the world.. and they don’t have the right to make decisions for their own body in the “land of the free” the draft is created by men with the idea that men are superior than women.. a direct result of the patriarchy lol feminism actually fights against both of these issues- including both the ones you listed..
/r/MensRights30/06/22 12:06 PM
-1

me when i think the radicals of a movement are the movement itself and the leaders of the movement are tik tok and reddit figures
/r/MensRights30/06/22 12:01 PM
-21

i don’t know how you think this is genuinely a correct statement but it is very entertaining that you think so
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:25 AM
-6

yeah a movement for equality is def a hate movement
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:23 AM
1

have you not interacted with the people on this subreddit
/r/MensRights30/06/22 05:22 AM
1

every person who has taken a psychology class would like to disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:58 AM
10

Women actually initiate divorce more because they used to need a man to live but they don’t need that anymore.. Being extremely unhappy with your husband can be solved with divorce now instead of just suffering through it because you can’t even open a bank account without a man. Women without jobs where the men earn the money are unhappy because they take on ALL household and childcare labour.. and are financially controlled by their husband. In a situation like that where women feel unappreciat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:17 AM
2

Wanting men to pay for dates IS a result of the wage gap. Women get paid less, and pay more for cosmetics, so it makes sense for men to pay on the first date. To clarify, I don’t expect men to pay for any dates, I am merely providing another perspective for those of you who are angry towards the women who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:12 PM
1

You go into dates feeling entitled to sex, and women don’t like feeling like objects to acquire. Using “Chad” as a reference for who women want is definitely incel behaviour.. you hate women too much for them to want to spend any time with you.. much less be intimate Maybe work on your view towards women who are people, not sex objects, and they may want to be intimate with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:32 PM
1

yes everyone thinks that.. what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:25 PM
1

That still doesn’t change that you feel ENTITLED to sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:18 PM
1

Because the bottom line is most women DON’T feel entitled to a free meal. Not that they attempt and fail to pay.. the fact is most women don’t feel entitled to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:08 PM
1

Yes.. I am explaining that your view of these scenarios are very skewed. You told me how women feel in a scenario, and I corrected/provided a different perspective of that scenario. Men often don’t even let women pay, but that wasn’t relevant so I didn’t mention it lol you’re not making any points, you’re just citing your negative idea of how every woman thinks and acts in the dating world, when the reality is very different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:06 PM
1

I generally expect to split the bill, but if someone offers I’ll let them pay. Most women think this way, at least from the ones I talk to. If you listened to women’s perspective and not just your own, you would find many women experience ghosting from the average joe. Men and women both do this pretty frequently, I even see a lot of men treating women as disposable even when they aren’t all that themselves. Everyone does it, just because you personally experience it doesn’t mean men experience …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:32 PM
1

Yes financially stable women do expect to date financially stable men lmao.. and not many people are expecting men to pay for 100% of dates. I personally don’t. Both genders are notorious for leaving people on read and ghosting people.. such is life when you’re dating in the 21st century lol Why are you mad that people befriend you? Are you expecting them to see you romantically BEFORE they want to be your friend? That’s not really how people work outside of dating apps. Men also friendzone wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:39 PM
1

yes i did bring entitlement into this because the argument “if women get sex i should too” is you feeling entitled to SEX women feeling entitled to being treated well (as everyone should feel entitled to) is not feeling entitled to sex no one feels entitled to money, unless you are basing that off of the not so common idea that men are wallets.. women make money too now lmao if you are the “friend to confide in” and you’re mad that giving them the common decency of supporting them as a friend do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:05 PM
3

No I would probably just attempt to hold on to the purse but if the thief snatches it and runs, I would prefer my dude friend doesn’t leave me alone where I just got robbed. If anything I’d expect him to call the police if I haven’t already, but that’s about it. I would prefer he didn’t run off and leave me alone or accidentally put himself in the position to get jumped/attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:37 PM
1

nope not a single soul feels entitled to another person’s body unless they think like a rapist I would definitely like to say you are not a good person if you think you are entitled to sex, idc if you have a penis or a vagina men everywhere also think they are entitled to submissive women that are very attractive what is your point def change your mindset before you get put on a list for thinking women owe you their bodies because you merely exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:22 PM
1

no they don’t at least not the people that think rape is bad no one on this earth is entitled to sex i am genuinely concerned that you don’t see the problem with thinking you are owed sex simply for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:16 PM
0

feminism (equality) is not the problem lmfao
/r/MensRights27/06/22 04:12 PM
1

Fetuses are not people Women die when you ban abortions and you think IM uncaring? interesting I would argue thinking men and children having more bodily autonomy than women would make them systematically superior.. but what do I know banning abortion doesn’t stop abortion lmfao, it just kills the women AND the fetuses you think are fully functional human beings
/r/MensRights27/06/22 04:10 PM
2

you are actually not entitled to sex only rapists think they are entitled to sex.. so def an interesting take
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:04 PM
0

Banning abortions murders women.. so yes fascists do kill undesirables you’re right lol Everything is a bunch of cells, including the bugs you kill lmao.. fetuses still can’t process being aborted I also don’t really care how late women abort fetuses, since late term abortions are almost always medically necessary I don’t give a shit what other people do with their bodies, they should have the right to make decisions for themselves.. they don’t effect anybody but them Either way, you’re arguing …
/r/MensRights27/06/22 04:03 PM
3

“how much does one submissive female cost?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:20 PM
0

i used to be a bunch of cells that would not care if i was aborted because i did not have the capacity to even process that no one allows abortion up to birth/post-birth.. that is actual murder and a fear mongering tactic to try to misinform people into thinking abortion is killing fully developed children people use abortion as a means of not having a child they can’t care for.. or for life saving procedures no one uses abortion as their primary form of birth control and whoever is telling you …
/r/MensRights27/06/22 03:19 PM
1

literally it’s so strange how they’re turning women losing rights into a “woe is us” talking point for men.. while being completely disrespectful to the same women mourning such a loss
/r/MensRights27/06/22 02:42 PM
1

When you’re advocating against reproductive rights for parts you don’t even have.. no your opinion doesn’t really matter. However, women have lost the right to bodily autonomy, why does that not raise alarm bells? Because you don’t think women should have rights to their own body? Do you like having rights to your own body? Does this not make you fear what the government might take away next? Or are you not worried at all because you’re a man and you don’t want to address a human rights violatio…
/r/MensRights27/06/22 01:39 PM
-10

men don’t go to jail for not paying child support lmao what forcing payment ≠ forcing permanent damage and potential fatality weird that you think anyone losing the right to decide for their own body isn’t concerning.. but justify it how you will
/r/MensRights27/06/22 06:30 AM
-15

do you think women aren’t also paying for the children they conceived.. also, legally child support is the right of the child i’m not saying there aren’t flaws in the judicial system.. but that isn’t comparable to losing rights to your own body and if you think it is.. i don’t really know what to tell you
/r/MensRights27/06/22 06:11 AM
0

Well.. someone hasn’t done their research. Google is free, but if you knew that we wouldn’t be here.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:22 AM
-1

Considering people can have sex without intending to reproduce… I would say that is straight up not consenting to pregnancy Especially when contraceptives are never 100% effective.. and rape exists Why would you force someone to keep a baby that wouldn’t be loved.. when you can just go through a medical procedure to eliminate some cells and move on
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:20 AM
0

I mean.. anyone who knew a lick of reproductive health science would have an understanding of this.. but I guess the info is simply too hard grasp lmfao
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:17 AM
-3

You really took me saying something that damages bodies and potentially kills people (scientifically proven), and over exaggerated what I said because you don’t want to acknowledge how taxing pregnancy is. Interesting essay, however none of those things were good comparisons to something that is literally known for damaging and killing women. I would advise you do research on pregnancy and not rely on your personal experience of what it feels like to you (someone who can’t get pregnant.) Maybe e…
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:12 AM
-2

Pregnancy forever damages your body.. can also lead to death.. Men also don’t work hard for women’s reproductive health.. women don’t even get access to painkillers when receiving an IUD (extremely painful and invasive procedure), which is only ONE example of the medical system not caring so much about women FORCING women to go through irreversible damage and a LOT of pain is.. not right at the very least however much you’d like to downplay pregnancy because you’re a man who has done no research…
/r/MensRights27/06/22 04:59 AM
-3

are you realistically ever going to have to worry about a mandatory vasectomy? no? then maybe.. just maybe.. women are asking you to empathize with the fact that they ARE being forced into something damaging and life altering
/r/MensRights27/06/22 04:43 AM
-7

i would argue stripping rights from women wouldn’t be difficult to sympathize with but unfortunately comparisons like that need to be made for men to actually understand what women are facing right now
/r/MensRights27/06/22 04:07 AM
-2

men like to force women to have sex (in case you forgot rape exists) men are also doing a lot of influencing women to have sex (not that this is bad, it’s just that many people tend to have sex) also, sex isn’t just for reproductive purposes if men wanted to give women the right to choose in this current male-led society.. abortions would be allowed consenting to sex ≠ consenting to pregnancy
/r/MensRights27/06/22 04:04 AM
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women wanting human rights and bodily autonomy??? nah.. must be something against men bruh the people on this sub
/r/MensRights27/06/22 03:19 AM
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the idea is “if you can force a life altering damaging thing on me, why shouldn’t you face the same thing?” it’s a talking point to make you sympathize with women who now don’t have a say on what happens to their own body, not a genuine demand get it?
/r/MensRights27/06/22 03:18 AM
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no one is genuinely saying we need to force vasectomies it’s merely a talking point to say “hey, if you can force a life altering damaging thing on me, we should do the same to you!!” it’s so men can relate to not wanting people to force you to do things with your own body get it?
/r/MensRights27/06/22 03:15 AM
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men that think sex is something you do TO women and not WITH them is the reason posts like this exist women also enjoying the hit and leave vibe are very common they get play and you don’t, and now you’re upset and blaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:11 AM
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I never said false rape accusations aren’t bad. However, you can’t ask for reform to protect false accusations when we don’t even prosecute rape enough (for men or women) to begin with. That does nothing for people trying to find justice for the crime committed against them, it does provide new protection for potential rapists. Not to mention with how hard it is to even get rape evidence processed, who is going to speak out against rape when potential rapists have more protection than victims? Y…
/r/MensRights31/05/22 02:47 PM
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you’re doing a lot of ignoring the relevance of facts to pretend there isn’t an issue with prosecuting rape but it’s ok you probably think men are oppressed too
/r/MensRights31/05/22 02:38 PM
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My point is we DON’T punish men enough to begin with. If you can’t grasp that because you want to ignore facts, I don’t know what to tell you. If you think false rape accusations are more severe than other severe accusations, you just have a problem against women.. lol
/r/MensRights31/05/22 02:20 PM
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https://www.theatlantic.com/newsletters/archive/2019/07/nationwide-epidemic-of-untested-rape-kits-atlantic-daily/594046/ For the evidence in police custody that people are too lazy to actually test (which doesn’t let victims press charges if no crime appears to have been committed yet) Also, we have many things for false accusations. You just don’t like that we can’t punish women more than necessary. Defamation, purgery, and impeaching the accuser are all things done in court when false accusati…
/r/MensRights31/05/22 02:07 PM
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https://www.dallasnews.com/opinion/commentary/2019/09/15/why-are-we-so-bad-at-prosecuting-sexual-assault/?outputType=amp because you wanted to ignore the fact that the conviction rate you just found does not include: -the majority of rapes go unreported because women can’t rely on the justice system -less than 1% of rape leads to conviction -most robberies are actually reported -honourable mention: in the US right now there is a more severe punishment for having an abortion (exercising the abili…
/r/MensRights31/05/22 12:59 PM
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when did i say that
/r/MensRights31/05/22 01:23 AM
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ignores the rest of my arguments how about we actually start punishing rapists
/r/MensRights30/05/22 04:17 PM
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there is a conviction rate of 4.9% for rape and you think that isn’t a problem especially when 1 in 6 women are victims of rape you’re more likely to get raped than to be falsely accused, and there’s a solid chance your rapist will suffer zero consequences from the legal system :) you don’t care about rape, you care about discrediting women
/r/MensRights30/05/22 03:09 PM
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show me rapists that actually get punished first
/r/MensRights30/05/22 01:52 PM
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we already have laws for false accusations.. why should a false rape accusation have more of a punishment than any other false accusation like murder?
/r/MensRights30/05/22 04:26 AM
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it’s still way more likely that you’ll get raped by a man than get falsely accused but y’all really like harping about this issue
/r/MensRights30/05/22 04:25 AM
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it’s funny how men think we like getting harassed online
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:27 PM
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I think women like me would be pretty relieved you people aren’t in our DMs harassing us 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:25 PM
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