QuickJellyfish2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
624	Another Woman Dead.	MALE DEPRAVITY	QuickJellyfish2	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 02:31 PM
41	My Mother and Her Husband	RANT	QuickJellyfish2	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 01:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
67	Apple AirTag: a perfect tool for stalking Another case someone had managed to get it behind a woman’s licence plate on her car, it took hours and hours to find it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 02:47 PM
21	Steve from Sex and the City is what happens when you settle Gorgeous, educated, he cooks, kind. One of the best catches on SATC for sure!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 05:39 PM
48	Steve from Sex and the City is what happens when you settle The only thing you’ve skipped over is the fact she pursued him when he was happy with Debbie; I still can’t figure out why she bothered. She always seemed to want the men she considered beneath her (Skipper, Steve) back only when she saw them with other women that made her insecure. Like it was a weird power move to get one over on the ladies who had qualities she didn’t. Debbie was very femme gorgeous, and very bubbly; Miranda is beautiful too but not the same way, and she’s very not bubbly. Sk…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 04:49 PM
3	Man hides 14 y/o daughter from fiancé for the entire duration of the relationship. Either he was trying to have two separate families ,or he was trying to trap her into supporting the daughter. Something malicious is at play. I looked it up before I commented and didn’t see that; but it’s very possible it’s completely subjective to where we are in the world! I think annulments are also really at the discretion of a judge, outside of the legal reasons (bigamy, etc) and apparently incredibly hard to get	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/21 01:44 PM
8	Man hides 14 y/o daughter from fiancé for the entire duration of the relationship. Either he was trying to have two separate families ,or he was trying to trap her into supporting the daughter. Something malicious is at play. I hate to be that girl but I’m doing it anyway I don’t think this is grounds; things like already being married, discovering you were closely related, or a forced wedding, those can be annulled. Lying, even about something as big as this, isn’t grounds for a legal annulment	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/21 02:54 AM
69	You rarely hear of the overly cautious woman who was murdered by a scrote. Because some people truly believe that “Yes, all men” is dangerous, or maybe they don’t want to believe how vulnerable they really are. They don’t want to be challenged on their feelings of safety and security, out of naivety, (wilful) ignorance, denial, bling trust, etc. Unfortunately we realistically don’t have the option to be complacent. I’m sorry for your friend; it’s an awful way to realise the reality of being a woman; you’re never really safe.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 11:54 PM
87	Rory Gilmore is a pickme & a bad example to young girls (spoiler alert) I LOVE Gilmore girls and have no shame in shouting it! But Rory is incredibly annoying sometimes and really does have the worst taste in men. Emily was hardcore and I love her, and Lorelai worked damn hard to own her own business, raise her kid as well as she could, she went to evening classes to keep learning, etc; considering she had a mother who seemed very self assured and independent Rory definitely seemed to need a relationship. Atleast Lorelai was described being that way before the serie…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 12:59 AM
10	Cause of death: the audacity 😉 Share a story of a time a scrote either mansplained something you’re an expert in or made a hilarious statement like below. I’ll go first in comments! Not long after I got my first car I did an evening course at my local vocational college, the basic of car maintenance, or something like that. Explained how engines worked in depth, then how to replace a tyre, how to replace brake pads (but they said not to do this yourself), jump a car, common faults, fuses, even just replacing a wind shield wiper. I was the only woman on the course, and I’ve never actually had to use any of what I learnt, but it was about getting my confidence up that I atlea…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/21 11:34 PM
7	I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response. Fucking right?! Every guy I’ve dated is a “90s guy” and they’re mostly the WOOOORST. Atleast if the idiot was saying the 1950s I could sort of see why he’d be deluded; but 1990s guys are everywhere, and we experience their dumb assery in real time. We know they ain’t shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 10:09 PM
5	I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response. Justin Timberlake? 😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 10:07 PM
2	“My love language is PhYSiCal TouCh” I think love languages can be useful to understand, but only in good, respectful, equal relationships 😂 The relationship I’m in now is the first time we’ve discussed love languages and it hasn’t bitten me on the ass. Every man before this has had ‘physical touch’ right at the top and used it as a way to demand it so I show I love them. I’m not a very physical touch person, and am so happy my partner now isn’t either! We love each other, do things for each other all the time, gifts, help, words, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 11:24 AM
4	How to respond to Schrödinger’s Douchebag Intentional love island reference or no? 😂 https://i.imgur.com/bPogrP4.jpg	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/21 01:07 AM
0	This queen! 👏 I have done similar things with my husband before; not because he can’t, but because his mannerisms can come across a little cold when he doesn’t mean to be; he’s just not very expressive. So if there’s a miscommunication or an accident I’ll tend to take the lead because I’m bubbly-polite to a fault IRL and want wait staff specifically to know we’re not mad about anything! 😂 Edit; WHY do I get downvoted for this? Lighten up, jeez.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 12:57 AM
43	Stop normalizing pedophilic beauty standards They were reposting @ktrisher, who is on tiktok as @katie.reagan 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 09:33 PM
38	Posts about male/female privilege on popular sub. TW: horrifically misogynistic, racist and hateful. This really is their perspective; and it's frightening AF. Yeah that confused me. I’m English and boys in school (like 15) used to call the hole in the end of their penis a japs eye. Haven’t heard it in a LONG time, and didn’t even realise at the time how horrifically racist it is either. So he’s stupid and a racist, but those things do tend to be a 2for1 deal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 12:57 AM
24	Men project their "wall" onto women because the truth is... Penis size is referenced at 3:05, maybe even more, I didn’t want to rewatch it again so I only stayed till that line.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 07:03 PM
10	PSA: it's not just women's lifestyles that matter when trying to get pregnant Another reason to look after yourself, pick someone who knows the importance of diet, fitness, health as a partner, and to teach your kids those things too!! I didn’t really learn how to properly COOK till I was already an adult; my mom was a great cook, she did it all, but I never asked to learn and she never offered to teach. There’s the idea that the prevalence of things like autoimmune diseases and other spiking illnesses could be linked to epigenetic abnormalities being presented now due to…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 11:05 PM
17	PSA: it's not just women's lifestyles that matter when trying to get pregnant Tell you what’s interesting on this topic; epigenetics. The medical study about epigenetic tags that we all have, impacted by things like our health, fitness level, stress, smoking, etc. These epigenetic tags help your body to know how to express genes, and poor diet and smoking for example can give us bad epigenetic tags that can cause things like disease, cancers, etc. From my understanding it doesn’t do anything to change or alter your DNA, but your epigenetic tags can change how your DNA is …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 10:29 PM
35	Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny. So self important that they think their opinion even matters. They spend more mental energy scratching their ass than you spent ignoring their nonsense 😂 ITS NOT WORTH IT DUDES	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 07:56 PM
38	Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny. Fucking saaaame! Some things here I don’t 100% believe, sometimes something will ruffle my feathers abit, but this is the most supportive, female centric, realistic subreddit I know. I’m not going to argue here with anyone about it either, these are my friends, even if we’ve never even spoken, why would I need to make their day worse by disagreeing with them over stuff that’s my business anyway. Not much in life is a one size fits all; but being in a place where we can support everyone in their …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 07:54 PM
4	Which part don't they get? Just quickly, I had a look up on the numbers as the median salary is the better way of working out the more realistic average salary and that one is actually only £31k, so it’s even worse!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/21 10:00 PM
45	HVM are not offended by FDS My husband is the same. I call it my lady subreddit. I tell him about it quite a lot!! He also understand why we says all men, and why the not all men brigade are harmful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 07:11 PM
21	Another Woman Dead. We’re all scared of getting stabbed, but we have the bonus of being scared of getting rapped and stabbed! Double trouble! 😐	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 11:42 PM
29	Another Woman Dead. One of my social media friends shared a in-depth “not all sharks” post and I loved it. It’s such an easy analogy to make and really shows how stupid the not all men excuse it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 08:59 PM
36	Another Woman Dead. Not the person you’re asking but in the UK things like mace/pepper spray/etc are all illegal. The best we have is putting your keys between your fingers and punching someone like that. It’s annoying.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 08:54 PM
46	Another Woman Dead. Yup. And we don’t need to qualify or clarify when we say NOT ALL MEN to not offend them. Fuck em. If you’re offended then you should be.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 08:50 PM
19	Another Woman Dead. The fact that searches for international men’s day spike on international women’s day tells you everything you need to know.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 08:49 PM
23	Another Woman Dead. And we’ve said it a hundred times; Men know. They know what they’re doing, and they know it’s wrong. They just don’t care. That’s why we need the majority of men to be actively and loudly scornful of sexism (because they don’t give a shit unless it’s other men saying it) and even if we got most men to preach it, living kindly and respectfully, realistically it will still take generations to snuff out the toxicity. And let’s be honest, none of that is ever going to happen anyway.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 08:15 PM
11	Another Woman Dead. Run girl! I know someone who left the UK for NZ and she posts the most beautiful pictures of her morning view. I hate her. Just kidding. Not kidding	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 08:11 PM
14	Another Woman Dead. I think American and England share a lot of the same issues unfortunately. We’re AmericaLiteTM The one bonus is we don’t really have guns, but that’s why we have such a big knife crime issue - it’s the next best thing. And increasingly more criminals are getting guns in as well. It’s no wonder why younger generations are so disillusioned with the world right now. Holding out hope for better things to come.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 07:56 PM
33	Another Woman Dead. Girl, same. I’m scared even walking from my car to a Sainsbury’s in the dark when I’m alone. I’ve seen such an outcry on social media because I think we ALL feel this way too. Half of the country is scared to be outside! This is supposed to be a “first world country” and its 2021 and half the population is scared to go outside without a chaperone. It’s just really crystallised that fear.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 07:51 PM
31	Another Woman Dead. Lack of funding for the police is a big one, we have issues like America does with drug addiction which often comes with increasing crimes, and a growing issue with knife crime in inner cities and gang related stuff, mental health as a whole seems to be generally deteriorating, while support for mental health issues is low at best, non existent at worse. You need investment to try and curb a lot of social issues that then present themselves in crime, and that’s not really a thing that the countr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 07:47 PM
46	Another Woman Dead. Or when you don’t really want to and then they pout and get stroppy about it, and you decide it’s not worth the 12 hour sulk so you just do it anyway, even if you’d rather not. I’m in my 30s so I’ve had some experiences and I’d say 95% of the men I’ve been with have made their dissatisfaction with lack of sex known in a negative way. I’m having a medical issue lately stopping me from wanting/being able to have sex. I’ve never ever had my husband make me feel bad or pressure me at all for not wan…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 07:26 PM
19	Another Woman Dead. YUP!!! I mentioned that in another comment here because I know that police are fucked up, power abusive, violent people but in my hopefully little brain I still want to believe that they help people. And then I come crashing back down to Earth once more with another reminder that the people literally employed to help and protect the public are more likely to abuse them than a ‘normal’ person. Vile.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 07:14 PM
40	Another Woman Dead. Yup, because it doesn’t matter what we wear; if we’re a girl then we can be a target. I was discussing this with my husband earlier as we used to go out and play Pokémon go when that was still a thing, and sometimes I would have to ask him to put his phone away, or look up and be more aware because there would be someone sketchy looking/acting near us. He never really noticed, because he never had to. As a woman I’ve had to develop more situational awareness than him because I don’t get the luxu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 07:10 PM
23	Another Woman Dead. Like I know so many police officers are fucked up; aren’t there statistics that they’re more likely to be violent at home and things? I know this but it still makes me more angry that you’re literally supposed to actively keep people SAFE for god sake. And a woman was arrested also (no idea how they’re related, maybe wife or mother or something) and accused of ‘assisting an offender’ so has somehow chosen to help this murderer afterwards? Absolutely bizarre.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 07:04 PM
53	Another Woman Dead. I live in a beautiful forest. Gorgeous. But I could never go for a run or a walk in the woods without my husband. It’s just not safe! Let alone those woods have issues with people (read; men) stealing motorbikes or taking quad bikes in to the woods and driving them around illegally, sometimes then dumping them and setting them on fire. They’ve even driven at people and dogs when they’re out for nice forest walks. Now I don’t even go in to the woods with my husband because they’ve ruined that ent…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 06:59 PM
43	Another Woman Dead. I’ve been posting on my socials bitching about this and one of the little meme things basically said “if you object to us saying #notallmen then you need to be stopping sexism in your male friends and colleagues, educating your sons, and listening to and supporting women’s rights how they say they need you to” and I literally had a woman message me saying that women also need to be doing those things to educate men, and that we shouldn’t make this a male vs female issue. Like... what the fuck? W…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 06:52 PM
138	Another Woman Dead. It’s like yeah... I know not all men do shit like this, I’m married, I clearly get it. But it’s a far bigger percentage of men than anyone wants to admit to. And if you said to a man he could do anything to a woman without any consequences I think a helllllll of a lot of men would do some disgusting stuff. People are just being assholes with that NAM stuff every time someone criticises men generally. The men that always go NOT ALL MEN are part the damn problem, and the men I’ve known who have un…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 06:46 PM
196	Another Woman Dead. IM BACK AGAIN FOR MORE RANTING!!! There is a post about this in an English subreddit and I can see so many men “I fEeL uNsAfE ToO” and YES violence is up. There are yobs and dangerous people everywhere, especially late at night in the dark. What are they going to do to you, Nigel? Punch you? Steal your phone? Maybe give you a solid kicking? Take your money? They’re not going to fucking rape you, Steve.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 02:48 PM
34	If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't. Are they pretending Valentine’s sex is all for the lady? Anyone who cares about steak and blowjob day is definitely greedy in bed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 11:01 AM
27	Women exist only for male pleasure...🤢🤢 I LOVE thongs. Only knickers I wear!! I find any other style really uncomfortable. People get very passionate about their panties!! 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 12:06 AM
8	Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though... Doesn’t diminish it for me!! They’re fiction, it’s just fun 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 10:03 PM
30	Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though... Aka THE BEST SHOW EVER! Gilmore Girls, Gossip Girl, and Sex and The City are my trifecta of corny girl shows. I love em 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 03:55 PM
51	Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though... Revival Jess though 😍 Smart, seemingly successful, supportive of Rory but still pushing her forward. I know we don’t see much of him but he’s far superior to revival Logan.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 03:54 PM
3	What do you think about this? Exactly. This is sub about women, not men, despite talking about them it’s only in relation to how they treat women and how to react and deal with that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 09:40 PM
21	What do you think about this? I mean despite having dating in the title I do not believe this is a dating subreddit. I don’t date. I am engaged. This is a subreddit about women being strong for themselves and refusing to accept awful treatment from shit men, and shit women too - not just in sexual relationships but in friends, careers, politics. This isn’t a dating subreddit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 10:49 AM
51	I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression? One of my ex’s had a beard. Not long, just like normal facial hair. When we broke up we met up to do the exchanging of things; he had shaved it off. He looked awful without the beard! I told him so too, that he made it so much easier to not feel sad when he looked like that. Ahh I nearly forgot that memory. So funny! Ps, my ex looked a lot like top left with a smaller beard, you can never be sure 😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 07:13 PM
55	This man confirmed that if he hasn’t proposed WITHIN 3 years, he DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY YOU. Please leave the men who don’t do everything they can to be with you! No forever girlfriends here! My poor fiancé intended to propose at an event in the summer of 2020, but the event got postponed till December. Wasn’t the ‘dream’ proposal by that point because of the impact Rona had on the event (not explaining for privacy!) and the fact it was outside and cold/wet, but he didn’t want to wait any more time. Covid could be around for years, he didn’t want to wait any more time. I appreciate him. Wasn’t the ideal dream proposal but he’s my dream man!! 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 12:30 AM
82	Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat. I got engaged this year, and a staff member saw it happen at the place he did it, and she came and talked with us and took a picture for us! She asked how long we’d been together, around 2/3 years we said, she then told us she’d been with her partner for 14 years. No ring. Girl that sounds like a you problem not a me problem, I got mine 😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 10:57 PM
22	Just... NO 🤢🤮 My man doesn’t ask for it and I’ve never done it. I don’t like it. If i don’t offer to do something he knows it’s because I don’t want to, and he wouldn’t ever want me to do something sexually I don’t want to do.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 10:20 AM
13	The few times I heard about crazy ex bfs stories, the victims were brutally assaulted after they got stalked, their faces were burnt with acid or they were just murdered and their bodies left to rot in a ditch. But scrotes don't ever raise voices against such violence, they think she wanted it. Women also don’t publicly talk about their crazy ex’s in unsafe spaces because their crazy ex’s brutalised and tortured them, and yet somehow they will still be blamed by toxic men and pickme girls. So women learn to only discuss these old ‘crazy ex’s’ with safe people they can be vulnerable with, and we all know the amount of people we can do that with is very small. A crazy ex gf is seen as the woman’s failing, a crazy ex bf is somehow still seen as the woman’s failing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 10:37 PM
45	Happy Holidays! 😜 SM caused issues for me in the past - with my current partner the fact he never posted to FB and doesn’t even have IG or Twitter were a big plus for me. Especially as I barely post on SM myself - it’s toxic. I do still have an IG though - but now I follow food, small local businesses, and cats!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 10:34 PM
22	When my LVM ex was toxic to me but was charming to others. He made everyone believe I was a lying, manipulative bitch but guess what, the truth finally came out and he begged me to not "destroy his reputation"💁🏻‍♀️ I don’t think they missed your point they were just expanding on it; like in most all situations there’s a balance to be struck. You were saying you disliked it too far one way, the other person was saying it also sucks too far the other way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 06:25 PM
42	When your dress lasts longer than your marriage to a LVM. I personally believe she is not mentally well and that maybe her conservatorship is warranted, but also 100% believe her father has abused his position as conservator for his own benefit and not for the goodness of his child. If she’s not well enough to care for herself she’s not well enough to perform a fucking Vegas residency!! It’s sick. I hope she is happy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 12:22 PM
17	Life after finding FDS. (Art by @violetclair on Insta, makes FDS friendly art) Just started Tretinoin, recently turned 30, in the only TRULY healthy and balanced relationship I’ve ever had, and feeling like a powerful happy woman every single day 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/20 11:29 PM
6	Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing. My country doesn’t allow anyone else to come to hospital or doctors appointments with you. Even if you’re driven they have to wait in the car. We can hate the man for his failings but this is a pandemic, he may legitimately not be allowed in.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 08:41 PM
11	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020 There’s a show in the UK called ‘5 guys a week’ - 5 men move in with a woman at the same time for one week while she gets to know them with the intent to date/end up with one of them. I’ve watched a few episodes now and it is STAGGERINGLY awful. I think I have had a good man for so long that I’ve repressed how bad most men are, but this is just awful. When the WHOLE point is try and be on best behaviour they still are disgusting, unclean, rude, etc. Basically thoroughly recommend it if you love …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 10:23 PM
1	Ladies what's your beauty routine like? That’s just maintenance calories of a sedentary lifestyle - how I am on work days. Then Friday Saturday Sunday I walk/workout a ton more and eat a ton more too, but try to keep it all balanced so I don’t gain anything. :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 12:06 PM
9	Ladies what's your beauty routine like? I’m 5’5 and 125lbs and my maintenance calories are 1630. Not who you asked but damn close so I thought I’d chime in!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 10:00 PM
5	Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢 She’s gone back to his place first date??! Cringe	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 03:20 PM
14	Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢 I fucking love cleaning my house. I swear I’d be a cleaner/organiser if all jobs paid the same because I just enjoy making everything neat and tidy; it’s my hobby. Makes me so happy. But because I do most of the cleaning my partner takes up more of the other house chores - money, cooking, meal plans, chores I hate 😂 But we also never did this until we lived together, and we’d been together for 2 years. I can’t imagine cleaning for a man like a week in. Ick	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 03:13 PM
9	“aTlEaST hE iS nOt Out gAmBaling 🥴” My partner plays video games. While I’m in the bath in the evening, for like an hour, max. When our chores are all done, cooking and cleaning is finished, we’ve spent our evening together and we’re winding down in our own private ways. This is just so sad. He’s not gambling or cheating on you? He’s not actually even speaking with you though hun, let’s be honest here!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 10:18 PM
8	Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies. A “friend” of mine who was desperate to date did this when I had flu. It was creepy and weird for him to turn up on my door with stuff I didn’t ask for, didn’t want, and he was pushy about trying to see me to hand it over. I had FLU!!!! I hadn’t even brushed my teeth in days! It was fucking weird and intrusive and gross. Wasn’t surprised when he was massively called out years later for being a predator. Gross. Glad I cut him out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/20 11:57 AM
12	If you're not married, you are SINGLE. Point blank. You can be single and in a committed relationship when we’re talking in absolutes. Single doesn’t mean dating or dating around, it means not married, atleast in FDS sphere. It’s just not pretending you’re the same as married because you’re dating someone for years and years.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 02:25 PM
5	If you're not married, you are SINGLE. Point blank. Depends what you’re filling out. I’ve totally put single on forms before as there’s no relationship option and in the UK. I even told my boyfriend I’m committed but until we’re married my check box is single 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 02:23 PM
27	Men trying to get with you when they know you're in a relationship isn't flattery, it's an insult. This makes me so angry. One of the people I respect most in the whole world is my fella. If someone knows I’m taken and still hits on me I see it that they’re actively insulting him, and I don’t stand for that at all. It makes me so mad!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 02:17 PM
16	How to quickly get over your LVM ex: Create a collage of his repulsive behaviors & then view it every time you think of him! I thought it was just a receding hairline! 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 11:39 PM
46	From a thread where a man said that they need explicit instructions for them to do something for their SOs. Imagine being the wife of this man, how sad is this :( My boyfriend is amazing at random gifts. He has a little notepad on his phone and writes in anytime I mention something. Last one was a big pink (my favourite) weighted blanket as I had mentioned wanting to try one. Or he got me a little custom mini version of my cat, which I had seen online and loved - but they were a little costly - that was an amazing surprise!! We also sat down fairly early on in the relationship and quiz each other; what’s your shoe size, ring size, favourite treats, prefer…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 05:53 PM
6	🎵 Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money 🎶 It is, god knows what that person is talking about 😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 11:19 AM
31	Some Scrote set up an OnlyFans account for me using my email that I posted on a Tutoring Service flyer Hi hun, while what the asshole did is horrible it is NOT identity theft. Identity theft is when someone steals your identity in order to gain financial access - credit cards, loans, your private documents, etc. Fraud is also criminal deception for financial OR personal gain, again I am not sure this would be any personal gain and for sure no financial gain so it’s probably not either of these things this person has told you. You can pursue it potentially as harassment but it’s not illegal to set…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 10:49 PM
2	Healthy Venting VS “be my Mommy-Therapist 😭 🍼 “ I mean when I do vent it is often some of the UNhealthy stuff 😅 but I tell my partner I just need to vent and then will tell him how the world is against me and everyone sucks for 5 minutes, then I stop it and woman up 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 12:42 PM
3	I wonder how many pickmeishas say "tee hee hee I'd marry/screw you!" in response to this terrible opening question. I unmatched after this exchange. Just because we saw the game doesn’t mean we’re playing it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 01:13 PM
5	Thanks to FDS I can't watch romcoms without picking them apart I just think unfortunately that simple, good relationships aren’t a story. It would be a bit dull to see a romcom based on that to be honest - I can’t think of any film that doesn’t have conflict in it generally. Maybe in a secondary character or in a romance plot line that isn’t the centrally story but there’s no way a normal dating story is going to be made in to a movie.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 08:54 AM
9	Thanks to FDS I can't watch romcoms without picking them apart Yeah exactly. I think the person you’re responding to probably didn’t read it that way somehow but this is 100% a film about an emotionally immature guy who meets a girl and treats her like a 2D character in his life and tries to fit her in to the position of ‘perfect girl’ - he never sees her as a nuanced and 3D person outside of HIM. That’s the whole point of the film!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 08:49 AM
3	Is this about the presidential race or my dating prospects? 🤔 You can literally see it happening in this thread - dishearten your enemies supporters to try and make them seem even. “It’s two poisons” or “they’re both awful”!?! One of them is literally letting thousands of people die because of how they voted. This thread is vile to watch because you can see the manipulation happening.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 10:03 AM
14	Is this about the presidential race or my dating prospects? 🤔 Yeah two poisons when one will give you a belly ache and the other will kill you. Putting them on the same level is dangerous and a ridiculous statement.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 09:58 AM
2	This woman’s bf found out his ex was engaged. Immediately flys into a rage and wants to send a photo of her hand with a ring to the ex. When I was typing it I realised that if a man did something to me like a sexual assault, or violence, systemic abuses.... I could probably hold that anger forever, that’s so much more than just being a shitty man, that’s actual evil.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 08:34 AM
3	This woman’s bf found out his ex was engaged. Immediately flys into a rage and wants to send a photo of her hand with a ring to the ex. For sure, and that’s why I did add that little note in there because some guys do some really evil things and you can be angry and hold the hate for that indefinitely - I didn’t want people like you to think I was attacking you at all, and I’m sorry again if you felt that from me. Some wounds cut so deep that we can never forget and that’s not your shortcoming at all, it’s the asshole that did that to you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 08:32 AM
62	This woman’s bf found out his ex was engaged. Immediately flys into a rage and wants to send a photo of her hand with a ring to the ex. Any man who hates his ex girlfriend is a red flag to me. I don’t hate any of my exboyfriends because I literally do not care about them anymore. I don’t care if they owed me money, I don’t care if they were assholes, I don’t care because they’re not a factor in my life at all. Any person who hates their ex has some unresolved feelings there (excluding massive trauma from this, obviously), and I don’t want to deal with that in a new relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 03:56 PM
28	Male lurkers: cold approaching strange women is creepy and weird I had someone do it while I was at the gym and I stopped going for a little while because it made me uncomfortable that anyone would be watching me work out and looking at me sexually at all at the gym. Working out is all about ME, and it made me really insecure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 08:06 PM
24	Imagine being a completely average man and thinking a woman needs to “earn” you😒 I can cook better and healthier than these basic ass restaurants anyway. Why ply myself with sugar and salt and carbs and then “owe” someone else for it. No thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 10:33 PM
13	/r/PornFreeRelationships It’s not? The mods have locked it up we assume to protect it, perhaps an overreaction. The admins haven’t banned it - the mods just made it private.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 01:04 PM
72	/r/PornFreeRelationships They’ve gone private and kicked everyone - no one can get in right now. They might be doing a purge/update to try and avoid being unreasonably banned based on the new rules. All you can do I imagine is wait and see if they reopen	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 12:06 PM
3	LMAO COULD NEVERRRRR BE ME Probably the one closest to her on the left - his suit is a different colour to everyone else’s I think!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 11:30 AM
-4	Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliams That is true but that doesn’t mean every person claiming to be a victim IS a victim. This woman clearly needs help and god knows what she’s involved in that she keeps getting herself arrested for this - but we need to be smart and informed and be able to think critically about where we’re getting our information from. If they were covering this up they wouldn’t be investigating, and they wouldn’t be drawing more attention by charging HER over and over again. No valid news source has picked this …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/20 10:00 PM
2	Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliams There isn’t one - this girl has been claiming she’s a victim of this over and over again since 2017 and there’s never been any proof at all, infact she’s been charged over and over with making this crap up - and she KEEPS doing it. That’s why no decent paper is covering it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/20 08:13 PM
28	do you get turned off by guy's hygiene ? It’s super gross. It shows how you’ll live if you ever live with him too. You’ll have to do all the tidying, cleaning, and you’ll end up the naggy miserable mother to him. I wouldn’t accept a man who lived in a mess. And he either thinks his mess is normal or he knows it’s gross and doesn’t care that you see it; neither of those are positive. Also you met him years ago but have only just gone to his place??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 09:27 AM
10	ReLaTiOnShIp SuBs ArE bIaSeD aGaInSt MeN “Men want their partners, especially female partners, to start doing or liking certain things, eg ‘How can I get her to start going to the gym/losing weight? How can I get her to start playing video games with me even though she hates them? How can I get her to let me stick it in her butt on a regular basis?’ Women want their partners, especially male partners, to stop doing certain things, eg ‘How can I get him to stop threatening to murder me every time we argue? How can I get him to cut down …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 12:54 AM
18	What are some orange flags you’ve learned to watch out for? My ex many many years ago was like this. Couldn’t even name the prime minister, and we are both english!!!! Lived in his mums house, didn’t know how to cook much, boring, literal job was streaming, balding. So gross. Sometimes I think about what I put up with and just shudder. Most of my ex’s I still think of fondly but I feel queasy that I dated him. BYE LOSER!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 12:33 AM
106	Why You Need To Pay For Russian Women// the whiny men on the comments LoL, it's the time to stop fetishizing us eastern european women!! Fucking exactly. Men want the 1950s housewife who cooks and cleans and keeps the house right but the men used to go out and earn ALL the money to pay for her to do that. Now you have to cook, and clean, and keep the house and your pussy clean, work 40hrs a week, pay 50%, and not be too tired to say no. Time has value - the man was paid for his time working by his salary and the woman was paid for her time keeping the household going by her husband giving her money and supporting her wants and ne…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 12:26 AM
5	Two brothers see a woman paying for gas with pennies, and give her money from their pockets. They had no idea that her husband had just died and she was struggling. There’s so much bad stuff, especially lately, that I don’t think there’s much wrong with posting something like this unless the lady would have asked them not to. Yeah, people post it for a bit of an ego boost and a pat on the back but also they DESERVE it for doing that. Goodness is it’s own reward but we can incentivise a little bit. Plus it could inspire more acts of kindness too :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 04:15 PM
14	Carole Baskin Wins Control of Joe Exotic’s Former Zoo In Oklahoma A few days ago there was a person on Reddit who was commenting that drugging a man to rob him was literally AS BAD as raping someone anyway so she is a rapist - the mental gymnastics make me sick!!! So I went and played her music for a while to give her a little extra $$$ hahahaha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 09:49 AM
6	I’ll suck the life out of her & send her to the psych ward and then call her crazy One of my colleagues was engaged to a girl who was just nuts (sorry gurl) and he just wanted to rescue her ass I swear. She NEEDED him!! He could SAVE HER!!! Then she left him during a manic episode for another man. I took the opportunity to talk to him and pointed out that these women do not make good partners! She was sick, she needed medical help not a ring and someone enabling her behaviour because it stroked his ego.... The idiot then started dating a girl who had BPD because he seems to mi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 07:05 PM
7	Carole Baskin Wins Control of Joe Exotic’s Former Zoo In Oklahoma The current owner AND their animals need to vacate! I wonder what they’ll do with them!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 06:58 PM
75	Carole Baskin Wins Control of Joe Exotic’s Former Zoo In Oklahoma Every time Cardi B is mentioned on Reddit she is called a rapist for being a prostitute who’d solicit men, then when they agreed; drug them, not have sex, and rob them, but they LOVE Joe Exotic for animal abuse, woman hating, sexual abusing! 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 06:57 PM
9	This guy literally won't leave me alone, what should I do? Why not put it out there on Instagram or Facebook? One time make a post stating you’re being harassed by someone you met in the UK and would all your friends be aware on if someone asks them to reach out to you ok his behalf to please not enable his harassment. Don’t even name him, as to avoid any ‘drama’. Might by worth contacting the university when corona stuff lifts a bit if he’s still going too - it’s harassment and it’s a crime, and hopefully the university could talk to him and make him s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 11:55 PM
9	How to explain to women that their boyfriends having close female friends shouldn’t be blindly accepted? I have a male friend who recently ended an engagement and before we had a great friendship. Not particularly chatty but supportive still, and I met his girlfriend and she and I became great friends too, typically went on double dates, etc. Now he’s single he’s made a couple of sexual jokes to me (I made a comment that his neighbours cat likes him - he made a comment about pussy liking him), and he sent me a video of said cat which also happened to feature him shirtlessly sunbathing. I don’t even…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 11:38 PM
7	How do you go about dating as a child free woman? For me and my partner it just became a conversation about what he wanted vs what he grew up thinking he would want. Generally still we’re still raised to think we want to get married, get the kids, live the life on route A. I decided years and years ago that children weren’t for me, or atleast a very specific set of requirements would have to happen to have them, so I have had many years to accept that. Plus I’ve always taken the path less traveled so it was an easier choice. My partner never re…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 11:04 PM
1	Why do people judge based on just clothing Maybe I will start to! Thank you :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/20 03:30 PM
9	Why do people judge based on just clothing Every now and then when I’m out with friends I’ll comment on a female-strangers looks as they walk passed in the hopes they hear it. I’m English so randomly approaching someone might come off as weird but i hope they overhear me saying they have great hair/a great outfit or something 😂 Lifting up other women should be natural to us, we have enough out there in the WORLD telling us we’re not enough (skinny enough, young enough, pretty enough) so we have to make sure we’re lifting women’s esteem u…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 07:57 PM
6	Ladies who have anxiety - have you found love? How? It’s hard to say because you haven’t actually said what your bad thoughts and behaviours actually are. Personally for me I do have generalised anxiety so with my boyfriend I’ve just been super honest about boundaries, expectations, and my emotions! I will tell him I’m feeling very stressed out by X lately, so I need him to do Y, and he always listens. We’ve been together for 2 years now so I just say “I’m very stressed out by X” and he’ll just go “no problem, need me to do Y?” But really it depe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 10:44 PM
14	Another one from JB, if he treats her like this on camera I can only image what goes on behind closed doors. She looks hurt. I agree! I’m not a very physical person and thankfully my boyfriend is on the same level. I’ve been with men before who are just handsy all the damn time and I would have to ask them to please just not touch me for a little while - it was just too much. BUT when you look at this video with the other videos of them, and context about their relationship, and how nervous she appears around him it’s just sad - it doesn’t come off as two people healthily communicating their needs/boundaries, it’s him…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 10:31 PM
23	Well he’s not wrong about that I found FDS linked in another sub a few weeks ago and couldn’t understand at all why everyone was going “OMG THAT SUB IS SO AWFUL ITS DISGUSTING” I even sent it to my boyfriend without context asking him what he thought to try and understand what was ‘disgusting’ and he wasn’t offended at all. You’re only offended if women having standards and self esteem scares you. Be worthy and you’re not worried, easy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 11:25 AM