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And you sound like someone full of survivor bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:45 PM
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How fortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:19 PM
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Am I meant to feel insulted by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:26 PM
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My personhood and who I am should be enough. The fact that it is not is aberrant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:23 PM
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Yeah. Like people in loving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:48 AM
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It’s not about negotiation. Society has been quite clear that men are owed nothing for their work. My intelligence, my creativity, my labor is my own. You are not entitled to my contribution, and I will not give it if I am not afforded the most basic of human comforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:37 AM
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No, but the current expectation for men in western society is to work until you drop dead, with the only compensation you can expect is a wage that is paltry in comparison to the work you put in. Participation in society is a net negative for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:11 AM
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There is no such thing as a good job. All labor is toil and theft, because no man receives the full value of his work. I have no interest in working harder than necessary for my survival for a society that promises neither comfort nor companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:16 AM
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It actually seems to be the opposite. That women across the board would be happiest if all men stopped trying to have sex or romantic relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:07 PM
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Potentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:35 PM
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Nah. Those can’t fully articulate and perform the role of a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:32 PM
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You can program a robot you use for sex to perform the same kinds of domestic interactions one desires in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:30 PM
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I consider anything capable of articulating it’s own rights as having those rights. To act contrary would be potentially disastrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:27 PM
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You can’t actually feel your partner’s emotions. You can perceive them as having certain emotions for you, and that can influence your own. A machine that can replicate those movements and physical signs is the same except for your knowledge of their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:22 PM
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It fulfills a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:09 PM
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Women tell you all the time about things you should buy them shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:06 PM
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Yes. Immediate access to something indistinguishable from the real thing is preferable to sparse or nonexistent access to the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:59 PM
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Most men’s best chance for lifelong romantic companionship at this point lies in the production of robots that are indistinguishable from biological women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:54 PM
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Divorce rates in Asia are far lower than in the United States. Even in the US, 2/3rds of divorces are from second and third marriages. It’s more like 30 percent after 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:25 PM
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Generally yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:16 PM
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If women lose out to AI and sexbots it’s their fault tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:11 PM
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I actually think you would have a better argument that your wife should stay loyal to you because than you made a promise together than arguing some random woman has to stay loyal to you because you got her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:02 PM
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Those wars aren’t over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:51 PM
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Those kinds of arrangements can only be temporary. Friends move on and make families of their own. Parents die. Then you’re thirty five and live alone in a dead town working minimum wage to put food on the table and keep the lights on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:00 PM
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I just don’t see what we could be morphing into that’s better. What else would we build our life around? Work? I would rather die.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:38 PM
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Right, I understand the importance of those relationships. But those relationships can’t give you the sense of security and belonging that a long term romantic relationship can. They don’t share your space, and particularly for men they don’t see you vulnerable. It’s much more dangerous for men to be emotionally vulnerable than it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:55 PM
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I’m a guy, around 5’7”, in terms of height probably anywhere from 5’2” to I dunno… 5’5”? Being taller isn’t a turn off but being exactly the same height would probably just be awkward. No natural spooning position :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:11 PM
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My guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:58 PM
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Allow me to clarify that what I was trying to ascertain is whether the behavior or the attitude was the thing that is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:47 PM
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Because it’s their home
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:31 PM
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That was what my question was?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:23 PM
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I’m pretty sure the influx of attractive military veterans with lucrative rebuilding jobs are going to attract a few repats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:03 PM
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A man can have socially liberal views and still not want to engage in casual sex for other reasons. I don’t have to be gay to support LGBT+ rights, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:28 AM
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… yes. I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:14 AM
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Clarifying question- does that apply to behavior as well or just men who shit on women who engage in casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:03 AM
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I’m sorry that your dad forgetting to come home after getting cigarettes left you feeling like all you’re good for to men is being a prostitute. Please learn to love yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:18 AM
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Yup, refugees forced out of their country famously never want to return. Which is why Israel is a bastion of peace and inner stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:12 AM
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You literally don’t know anything about men, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:02 AM
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The men left alive in Ukraine are going to be outnumbered by returning single women within the next two years. War torn refugees usually don’t marry someone that quickly after fleeing their homes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:09 AM
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That sure is a bold empirical claim, do you have any evidence to back it up? There are men out there who control themselves and choose to only engage in sex with someone they love. Not actually that hard to find. If you’ve tried to make a 23 year old fuckboy into your long term partner, not only are you barking up the wrong tree you’re setting yourself up for misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:00 AM
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Or, perhaps, men desire the comfort and companionship of another human being who loves them. Because we’re human beings, not mindless orcs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:53 AM
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Women and men actually require the same amount of work to render themselves clean, which is the most attractive look imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:26 PM
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And women leave used tampons everywhere and don’t wash underneath their fingernails. Disgusting people have disgusting habits, it has nothing to do with gender
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:45 PM
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You’re literally just lying about men’s hygiene habits. Women are not more hygienic than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:22 PM
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It may not be the answer to the gender wars but MGTOW is essentially what most women want incels to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:30 AM
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Women also have flaws in their personality that they expect men to just overlook and love them for who they are anyway. It’s pretty reasonable that men have the same expectation of their partner they live with, actually. This idea I always see that most guys are basically unwashed orcs, that the bar is on the floor come across as disingenuous. You just say ugly clothes, what do you actually mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:49 AM
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While I agree with the sentiment that people should probably abstain from sex outside the context of a committed loving relationship, I wouldn’t put much stock in the idea that divorce rates inversely correlate to healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:28 AM
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That is not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:28 AM
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Right, I’m not suggesting a scarcity mentality, or that anyone adopt the framework that they don’t have options. Just that they focus on developing strong relationships rather than trying to have sex with as many people as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:49 PM
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Mmm, I get what you mean. It can sometimes be about aesthetic, but I’m sure you’re kind and endearing. Usually people can be friends with anyone so long as they’re kind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:09 PM
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Yeah. People can feel that someone is just a friend for a pretty long time. Then that person can do something that changes their view as a person that turns them into a potential romantic partner. Imagine, making friends with a plus size girl who loses fifty pounds and turns into your ideal thick ass girlfriend because the two of you went to the gym together and got really fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:10 PM
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You’re probably right, I wouldn’t be. That wouldn’t stop me from being friends with her if we met in circumstances where we were making friends. It may not matter if she some day loses that weight. I don’t know what boils have to do with anything, that’s usually a medical condition that can be fixed with a good doctor’s appointment. Same as how if you are a skinny fat dork with no fashion sense, acne, and greasy hair, all of those things can be fixed with some exercise and liberal application of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:03 PM
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Not always true. There are women out there that I wouldn’t consider attractive on first meeting them that I later come to be attracted to. I’m sure plenty of women could relate to you a time when they dated a guy they didn’t think was very attractive, who they then grew very attracted to over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:38 PM
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Yes. I disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:30 PM
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It’s a good thing sheer numbers aren’t everyone’s goal then. In terms of forming lasting relationships, you actually wanna keep your body count in the single digits. Regardless of your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:46 PM
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Yeah but that isn’t inevitable in all cases. This is Pascal’s Wager. It benefits you more to have a good personality than it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:11 PM
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Sure. It’s never because they made a girl laugh though. Or just made her happy with his presence. If your complaint is that there are many layers to the relationship onion, that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:54 PM
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And men with poor personalities get rejected all the time despite their average looks, which most men have by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:49 PM
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Brilliant rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:46 PM
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A good personality will never get you rejected. Looks might save you from a bad personality, but your partner will still appreciate that you have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:43 PM
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Why would married couples need the right to an abortion more than single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:41 PM
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Men prefer acts over direct gifts. Perhaps if you aren’t going out for dinner, cook him his favorite meal or something tasty, maybe spend some extra special time doing something he likes or participating in his hobbies. Allow him to feel that he is as important to the relationship as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:32 PM
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I dunno if not having female friends is a red flag. My mom thinks my dad having female friends is him cheating on her so shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:27 PM
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An incredibly common occurrence. We just had an entire week of women shaming men for having eyes and working out in the same place as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:03 PM
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Someone who is present and attentive during rest, meals, and leisure time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:21 AM
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I’m not even asking us to “brainwash” anyone, I’m asking us to treat this the same way treat any other social issue, treating it with thoughtfulness and empathy. Rather than just jumping to a thought terminating cliche of trying to force women into things they don’t want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:09 PM
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There are actually other solutions. We could change the way we think about intimacy and relationships, that things are the way they are now, not everything is permanent. I do think we should also prepare people for the eventuality that they most likely won’t have a partner while they’re young so they don’t become violent and hurt themselves or others. Not talking about mental health, but education. We literally teach children that family life is a goal, and we especially teach young men that bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:32 PM
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A man a woman actually wants to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:34 AM
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It is t a “minority” problem. It’s a sizable minority of men, by your estimate. 85 percent of men who reach the age of 35 are married. About 75 percent of men even reach it to that age. You’re asking a third of all men to accept that their lot in life is to work as a servant to the elites of their society before dying at the age of 28 in an industrial accident. And further, it will become women’s problem when you realize that by age 35, you start to outnumber men your age in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:17 AM
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Okay, sure. Then we need to stop pretending like having a family and experiencing love are universal and normal parts of life. Rather than pretending we live in a world we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:49 AM
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While I think it’s reasonable that, yes, it isn’t women’s responsibility to cater to men’s feelings of resentment, the end result is that men become demoralized. They grow to feel like they’re either a burden to other people or that they simply aren’t worth being around. Like, sure, it isn’t women’s job to care or relieve those negative feelings but they still exist. You’re probably right that it means the average age of marriage will rise, but there’s also the chance some men won’t make it to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:10 AM
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So then the decision is that we both have to live on our own? You understand why men would resent that even if they understand and respect her for making that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:46 AM
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When did I say that? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:41 AM
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Eh, maybe. You don’t have to have a baby to be in a long term relationship though. You could just choose to be together and wait until the time is right to have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:11 AM
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Without passing value judgements, I feel men tend to find contentment easier than women do, and have simpler goals, even if they may not be easier to achieve. Women seem to be more ambitious in the modern day. More women graduate from college and pursue more lucrative careers on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:50 AM
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I feel like a lot of the problems with modern dating come down breakdowns in communication and divergence of life goals between men and women, more than the oft talked about ideas on this sub, such as n-count, money, and age gaps, mostly because all things being equal people would still find suitable matches anyway with how many people there are in most people’s area. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:22 AM
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I think a lot of young men might need the advice to not people please in order to find a relationship. Not just because it’s unhealthy for them but because it’s a deeply unattractive character trait to eschew your own feelings and opinions to gain approval from others. Makes you seem a bit hand-wringing and pearl clutching. Doesn’t mean you have to treat all women like parasites. Just the ones you know to be not a healthy choice for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:16 AM
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Yeah I don’t share that view of women, I just also acknowledge that some women will act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:26 PM
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When I’m talking AF/BB I would say it’s a woman who marries solely for money, and has no personal interest in her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:19 PM
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Bro you engaged. Don’t step into thunderdome if you’re afraid of a little pushback. Who’s under whose skin now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:02 PM
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You love it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:53 PM
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Oh, definitely not. Definitely not a subby little brat who needs to be talked down to by their daddy who’s upset that their antics haven’t gotten the belt brought out yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:16 PM
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Did I say that? Or did I say I dislike you? Are your reading comprehension skills up to snuff? Be honest, are you like, getting off to an older man degrading you like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:08 PM
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It’s very easy to dislike someone without them hurting your feefees. Grown adults tend to dislike scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:04 PM
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Bro I’ve been trolling people on the internet since you were failing to learn how to count. Come back in a thousand years and maybe you’ll have a shot at getting under my skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:01 PM
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Goddamn does it feel good to have my preconceived notions about what kind of a person you are completely validated. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:57 AM
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Yes. I personally dislike you. I find you to be a petulant child and an obnoxious asshole. See how easy it is to actually be based, admit your feelings, and insult someone you don’t like without resorting to attacks against someone’s immutable characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:46 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:35 AM
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I pretty affirmatively don’t mean sex. I guess I’m more referring to the softer parts of a relationship. Taking interest in your partner as a person, their interests and hobbies, providing support and care. Those kinds of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:16 AM
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The name of the game is debates, dude. Don’t be surprised when someone asks you to back up your claims. As for bias, yeah. Our first interaction included you trying to body shame me about what my dick looks like. I don’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:06 AM
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I’m not mad bro. More to the point, I don’t just take peoples word for it that their perception of other people and their motivation is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:58 AM
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Appreciate the input. A lot of marketing goes into I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:55 AM
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Actual ones or just ones you made up in your head to provide a counter factual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:51 AM
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Why else would you be bringing it up? Sure as shit aren’t talking about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:39 AM
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Damn. Seems like something y’all should work on, especially if it makes you feel like all a relationship would be good for is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:32 AM
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Wow that sounds really sad and something someone with no self respect or dignity would agree to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:18 AM
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I’ve seen a few on this sub who have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:14 AM
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You really think there are that many men who will work hard for a good life to have that life ruined by some annoying woman who lives in his house, doesn’t hang out with him, and occasionally annoys him for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:12 AM
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Question for AF/BB women: why would a man actually go through the trouble of working for you? If you don’t bring emotional intimacy or interest in the man himself to the table, why on earth would he dedicate himself to meeting your standards and providing a standard of living for you when he gains nothing by having you live in his house?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:06 AM
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I don’t see why not. Women obfuscate their feelings for men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:37 AM
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Q4W: I see a lot of commentary on this sub about older men (25+) dating younger women/teenagers. What would you consider to be “too old” in a relationship for a woman over 25, if there is such a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:53 AM
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LaMDA is an AI that builds chat-bots for Google. A researcher posted an interview while not totally proving it sentient, definitely demonstrated the ability to pass the Turing test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:57 PM
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Have you perchance seen the interview with LaMDA from June this year?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:45 PM
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Reading The Conquest of Bread, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:28 PM
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You’re the one who brought up what our dicks look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:49 PM
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big shrug not that it’s any of your business but I’ve never received a negative review from the women who asked nicely to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:45 PM
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Sounds like these are decisions that should be made by the individual affected and their doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:44 PM
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So now we’re resorting to body shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:37 PM
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Okay then what’s the problem? It isn’t normalizing the practice on genital mutilation. Now, circumcision…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:30 PM
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No one is performing SRS on under 18s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:27 PM
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Done to adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:24 PM
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Different people have different sexual desires dependent on their libido and personal experience. Gender is irrelevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:11 PM
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Truth. Women create and maintain men’s emotional precarity in order to keep the men they have sex with at an emotional arm’s length.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:02 PM
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Easy access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:53 AM
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And? I am 30. It’s not relevant when you lost your virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:41 AM
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My original post was explaining how there are significant social repercussions to not conforming to women’s expectations around sex. I know you disagree with that assertion because you clearly benefit from the threat of those repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:29 AM
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Did you actually read the original post?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:16 AM
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You’re literally arguing that if men don’t conform to how women think they should relate to sex they shouldn’t be able to have adult relationships of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:03 AM
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Why do you think it’s okay to pressure men into having casual sex when they don’t want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:41 AM
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Womens’ expectation that men be sexually experienced by a certain age can only lead to two results for men who don’t meet that expectation: The man having sex with a woman he really isn’t interested in or with someone he likes before he’s ready to deepen the relationship out of fear of losing his chance. A string of female friendships that either go nowhere or turn toxic because the man is operating under high school rules, because that’s literally all he understands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:23 AM
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Incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:22 AM
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Men with partners live longer than those that don’t because those that don’t eventually put a bullet in their skull.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:29 AM
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She’s 31 and he’s 17. This isn’t a Romeo and Juliet case. She’s also his teacher.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 08:47 PM
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Why do you deserve a man who will put his body through meaningless physical stress in addition to the manual labor he already does to survive for your aesthetic amusement?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:09 PM
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It’s a social problem that we can all either contribute to solving by providing each other with grace, understanding and respect, or perpetuate by refusing to understand the other side, blaming each other for why we’re unfulfilled, and taking it out on strangers for no reason. Men need to be less toxic, women need to be more open to possibility, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:53 PM
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My thoughts are that a breakdown of communication and a deep rooted pattern of men thinking women are withholding something they have an emotional need for and women believing they need to date to find a future husband exclusively cause unneeded friction and lead to a large amount of people (though not close to a majority, maybe 10-15 percent of the general population) without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:38 PM
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I don’t understand why you led with the sex robot hyperbole analogy because that’s straight up MGTOW propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:42 AM
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Yes. Because most redpill guys are emotional infants who don’t understand how relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:33 AM
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Nobody is discounting the reality that in the past, the world was more dangerous for women. You can’t just superimpose that onto today’s world and come to the conclusion that because we removed the threat of violence that women don’t have the same desire for companionship and emotional connection that men do. That’s actively anti-social thinking. And fincel is short for financial incel, someone who thinks their socio-economic status keeps their dick dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:27 AM
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Are you of the opinion that marriages before the 1970s were all abusive? Those changes have come about as a result of women participating in capitalism, so yes, you are literally just making a fincel argument and shadow boxing with imaginary people who disagree with your analysis that independent women tend not to settle in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:15 AM
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“Men can’t get laid because capitalism” is definitely something normal, well adjusted and pussy-getting men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:08 AM
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Ah so you’re literally just an fincel, got it. That was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:03 AM
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Men are to blame for their own loneliness because they let feminism happen and didn’t destroy the first smartphones that came off the line like some kind of new age Luddites, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:56 AM
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Okay so what you’re advocating is that if a man doesn’t meet your personal standards or you personally don’t want to date them, they should rot without human interaction in some kind of hole. In which case if a woman doesn’t have high chubby cheeks and hates anime and video games she should be strapped to a dildohorse and fed through a tube 24/7, which makes about as much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:41 AM
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If you’re being serious that’s actually a horrible thing to believe but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:26 AM
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Generally women won’t date men they won’t have sex with. The second one comes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:37 AM
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That wasn’t my initial contention. My initial contention was that being a man doesn’t mean you’re going to gravitate towards those types of games and being a woman doesn’t repel you from them. You don’t have a magical gunslinging dick-dongle inside your brain because you’re a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:30 PM
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I gave you the response you deserved after going “Nuh uuuuh” after someone told you other people’s experiences are different than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:29 PM
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The source is I made it the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:26 PM
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I’m gonna firmly disagree with the idea that gender determines the kinds of games you enjoy. Your game tastes are going to be influenced by what you had access to as a kid, and what you enjoy and are good at. Plenty of guys steer clear of competitive shooters and MOBAs. Though I will cop to the idea that men probably like to have their skills challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:26 AM
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Absolutely with the disability payments. I do qualify for assistance but don’t take the money because I would be limited in the hours I can work, and how much I can save. I think we end up in a lot of trouble socially when our system makes people vulnerable or precarious because it leads to prioritizing pure survival over what will genuinely make us the most fulfilled people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:53 PM
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Agreed. We’d probably solve a lot of problems, not just in terms of romantic interpersonal relationships, but all personal relationships, if we focused on easing the burdens placed on solitary individuals. A childhood allowance, or some kind of revitalization of the Mothers with Dependent Children program (though personally I would suggest single parents with dependent children, but I digress) would be very effective in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:12 PM
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I would classify that kind of behavior as toxic socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:01 PM
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While there’s merit there, I don’t think it’s the case they get “less happy” any more than we all get “less happy” when more responsibility is placed on us. I can’t make prescriptive recommendations about all relationships but the best we can go for is trying to ensure those relationships happen because both parties want to spend their lives together as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:00 PM
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I can only assume that women, like men by the way, choose to be with people primarily whose company they enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:47 AM
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Then what was with your first post because that very much seems like what you were getting at but whatever I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:35 AM
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I suppose if you think the stress of a newborn baby and having your husband live longer are negative sells then it’s your right not to have a family. I guess I don’t understand why you would discourage others from trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:32 AM
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I can’t really argue against your anecdotal evidence other than to say most of the people in my family are or were happily married, with a few exceptions, and members of my friend groups have happy marriages and children. Perhaps find happier people to spend your time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:16 PM
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Mmhmm, but people love to dump out blackpills
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:09 AM
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Literally nobody believes it’s better to live a single life forever than be married to someone you love. Having a husband doesn’t prevent you from doing any of the things you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:28 AM
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Probably because those friends don’t have men approaching them just for sex, or not as many, and thus have less bullshit to weed through.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:15 AM
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