QuietWishing Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Where do you draw the line on favors for your ex-wife? If you are going to do the date nights, I’d suggest letting her know you’d like to be asked in advance. And she can drop them off fed perhaps? If you don’t ask, it’s harder to set a boundary later.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/23 02:25 PM
2	ex wife and social media I’d try to get an occasional photo of the kids yourself, or hand the phone to stranger when you are out somewhere so you can be in the pic. Then PRINT them and stick them around your house. Kids making “frames” of artwork that pictures can go on is especially great. Make your own special memories and photos that you can enjoy without using a device to see them.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/23 02:06 PM
1	Factors in school choice Dear x - if you could find a lovely safe home closer towards me and kids could get enrolled in great school between us, think of how much easier they would have it to be in activities and make friends. If they are with me certain days, I can get them to a friends house or school activity much easier if the commute is low. Same for you. We would just be in “opposite” sides of that common school area perhaps. Less stress for kids if they don’t have the burden of a long commute to one parent - they…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/23 01:03 PM
1	I'm trapped with a cheating spouse that has cancer. I'm losing my mind. Wow this sounds awful. Is it possible for you to hold off on divorce as she may be dying? Sletp in a different room, take kid on worthwhile outings and help with schoolwork/etc, and keep healthy food in home for everyone? Grey rock otherwise. Housekeeper from joint funds each week to keep things not icky and make some meals for the week. She can seek others to take care of her and there are ways to get to appointments without you. Your paycheck into solo account to avoid her draining it all some…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/23 09:18 PM
1	I'm losing it That really sucks. I hope you can spend some time with a friend. It is really hard to call someone to say you need to hang out when you feel this shitty, but it can help a lot.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/22 10:27 PM
2	Back in the saddle woes I’m guessing the med has big effect. If you go off SSRI please taper. Most have withdrawal syndromes except perhaps fluoxetine that has longer half-life.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/22 09:23 PM
1	stbx may have cancer.. If your company is not large enough to fall under COBRA laws, then wouldn’t she be eligible for marketplace plan at a low rate if she is of low income?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/22 03:10 AM
1	stbx may have cancer.. I thought a divorced spouse could get COBRA coverage at the time of divorce to continue their health insurance for a period of 36 months. She is not eligible for that?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/22 03:06 AM
7	My STBX has a restraining order against me and she decided she is now living at my apartment. Who is on the lease? If just you, can landlord change locks or give you permission to do so when she is out of the home?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/22 12:56 AM