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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | how can I reapproach a woman I approached beforeIt is not a specific person. Just in general it is a small neighborhood and it is likely that I run into the a woman I approached before. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 05:12 AM |
| 0 | Do girls always give you tell tale signs of when they want to kiss youNo! you have to initiate. | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 09:03 AM |
| 1 | When did yall start enjoying approach?From the beginning no matter how bad I was | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular seduction opinion: numbers game is so bad.Why not both? | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Are You Guys Even Enjoying Yourselves?Having a "mission" is what I find enjoyable. What sucks is awkwardly waiting around alone in a club not knowing what to do. So I say move quickly. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 12:28 AM |
| 2 | A couple of things I've learned while approachingYes younger girls are more friendly. They're not jaded yet. For transition say "ok well you seem cool ...." or " ok well I've gotta get going"... | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 02:37 AM |
| 2 | A new indirect daygame openerLet's make an analogy. When inviting a woman to her place I would say "Hey, wanna come over to my place and watch something". You would say no women see through scripts. Confidence is owning your intent without excuses. Just say "wanna come over to my place and have sex". You are definitely going to have less success by directly asking for sex. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 08:00 AM |
| -3 | A new indirect daygame openerNo. Please share. What's your success rate | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 04:42 AM |
| -7 | A new indirect daygame openerThis sloppy attitude is why you will never get past intermediate level | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | For daygame: canned compliment openers that don't sound cannedI see you say to approach women with a blank mind. But I don't see you address my concern about explaining why you are approaching that girl as opposed to someone else. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Daygame Guide - Bootstrapping Your Success In Daygame For A Minimum Viable Resultit is really not wise to tell the guy that his girlfriend is pretty. Don't approach her while she's walking alone at night. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Need help with where to start for weekdaysSadly I have not seen anywhere worth going on weekdays | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 02:38 AM |
| 1 | The best time to approach a woman is with her friendsIt can work sometimes. But oftentimes it will be like the wingman is left awkwardly hanging. Also I don't think carrying the convo is a problem for me. It seems some guys try approaching a friend group as if they are a traveling circus coming to entertain the group. It's amazing that some people can do that and the advantage is that you could win over the whole group. But I just directly point out the girl I'm interested in talking to and start introducing myself. Some friends don't like that. | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Overcome fear of rejectionGet some friends that encourage you to pickup girls | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 06:40 AM |
| 1 | opener for every situation to talk to women, spelled outthat's great. making observations like that is something i'm working on | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | opener for every situation to talk to women, spelled outThank you for reminding me. This is one of my favorites. It's tricky but I find people at cafes tend to be friendly. I just added this to my post: For reasons explained in the section below ("why there are subtle differences between these cases") this is a tough one. As long as you are sitting down you are stuck together, so you don't want to risk doing a direct opener. Either: you find something to comment on something like a laptop sticker or the food. or right as you're leaving you directly s… | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 10:21 PM |
| 1 | opener for every situation to talk to women, spelled outyou can't talk in a library. I would try typing text on your phone and showing it to her but it's a long shot | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 08:59 PM |
| 5 | opener for every situation to talk to women, spelled outthe opener is super important. Cold approach has advantages but the biggest drawbacks are that you could seem like a creep or seem desperate. and they don't know anything about you. It's hard to transition into introducing yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 08:46 PM |
| -1 | My opener for every situationI mean yeah it is a pitch. I don't think it makes sense to expect her to be interested enough to ask questions when she knows nothing about you. The cross walk is actually my favorite spot where I feel the most comfortable. You said "don’t open her at that moment. Because u will appear like people who asks for money or give flyers. Instead, let her pass, and then catch her up with fast pace". In my experience stopping her before she passes is way less creepy. Like you said I need a really good e… | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | When and how to be persistentyes. women are afraid of directly rejecting guys. So you shouldn't wait for her to directly reject you. You shouldn't do anything sexual until there is some interest from her. It seems you think being sexual creates interest but really being being sexual should come after the interest. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | starting school next week, give me ur best tips for meeting new peopleFor me it was roommates. partner from a class project. a camping club. Also you should do some political activism for gaza. Other common things: Your own dorm's social activities. This is probably the most common. They'll welcome everyone but I prefer to have a close knit exclusive friend group. If you don't like your own dorm culture, overhear a conversation at a different dorm lounge and comment on something relevant to you. Go to a party and say hi to an acquaintance. Don't expect to join the… | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Back to College: Grad student on campus. To cold approach or not to?i think that if you do any direct approach you could ruin your reputation. If you are standing in line at the dining hall or something you can just say "hey how's it going...are you in the grad school here?" Or "is the food worth the wait?" That works because you just happen to be in line with nothing better to do so it's no big deal. Same can work if you're both walking the same direction. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | When and how to be persistentdon't be persistent | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How many women do you approach at bars weekly?0 | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 09:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you decide whether to go direct or indirectindirect whenever possible. It's awkward and maybe scary for her to have to directly reject you. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How to stand out on a first dateI like this idea but always been unsure what that actually entails. I'll try looking deep in her eyes and talking about our childhoods | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.if you're trying to get married then you're going to share a bank account so of course it matters. Otherwise, status (job title, education) matters but not money. Just my opinion. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Are these good questions to create emotional connection on first dateThe thing about backfiring and making them feel attacked is a good point | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Are these good questions to create emotional connection on first dateFunny yes. Light no. I hate small talk. If you don't take yourself seriously these topics can end up being funny. Maybe they have a story about an awkward kiss. But ok there is such a thing as too heavy which is why i asked the question. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Are these good questions to create emotional connection on first dateOk this is a good point. The tricky part is getting them to share stories that evoke emotions. I guess I could start by sharing one myself but I myself am having trouble coming up with a story like that. I usually just tell funny stories or wild stories. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Are these good questions to create emotional connection on first dateyes. ideally best friend for life actually. Also, open to platonic friends if there's no romantic connection. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 04:20 AM |
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