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| 14 | How often are you experiencing some kind of flirtatious interaction? | Question For Men | Quincy_Fi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:41 AM |
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| 2 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.Different mating strategies. What makes sex valuable in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Why do women expect empathy and a good guy behavior from "undesirable" guys?Who even expects random acts of altruism from everyone? That rarely happens from random people unless the situation is so blatantly abhorrent that randoms feel inclined to behave ultruisric, like if mac Donalds were to poison someone, random people would come to the victim's aid. But that's completely gender independent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.Outside of standard preferences that relate to things like social economic status and length there also needs to be a bit of chemistry for something to work. People who are highly attractive in the raw sense can compensate for a lack of chemistry but do these relationships work out well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How often are you experiencing some kind of flirtatious interaction?Or maybe you mistake kindness for flirtation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 11:24 AM |
| 1 | How often are you experiencing some kind of flirtatious interaction?How would you describe yourself socially? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 08:23 PM |
| 4 | How often are you experiencing some kind of flirtatious interaction?Sweet people like you is one of the reasons why life and social interaction can be awesome. I sincerely hope you can beat this issue you have as it would make you available for a lucky girl. =] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How often are you experiencing some kind of flirtatious interaction?I had a friend who was totally oblivious to girls flirting with him so i think that explains it for you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men obsessed with societal norms?I dont think that many men base their career around what gets them external approval, but who knows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | How often are you experiencing some kind of flirtatious interaction?How would you describe yourself in a social situation? Are you assertive and or socially dominant, or more reactive and observant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 01:56 PM |
| 5 | How often are you experiencing some kind of flirtatious interaction?Okay Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many men obsessed with societal norms?Men are more high risk high reward seeking that's true. But it doesn't seem logical that them picking harder education lowers chances since education correlates with intelligence mostly and you have careers at any level of intelligence. Don't you need to have certain grades before you can even enter a university? But your high risk high reward strategy seems to align with psychology. My guess is that men also feel less anxious from study pressures at a young age. Plus their brain is longer in de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | The expectation for men to pursue, initiate, or "lead" is born out of misogynyI think this has more to do with the evolution of our species where the women are the selectors, so nature selects for assertive men since they have a higher chance of standing out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Most men aren’t privileged, they are just suffering differently and it’s not a competitionWell there's also stuff like unfair division of labor in the workplace among other things according to research. But yes some is directed at those at the very top which is silly because those aren't the average kind of person anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:54 AM |
| – | I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sexIs romantic interest that important for self-esteem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Women who cycle through "criminal losers" instead of dating a "good guy"So strange how my old friend group which was mostly male college students all have had girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Women who cycle through "criminal losers" instead of dating a "good guy"Jep pathology attracts pathology often. People pick what feels safe and familiar. If you are mentally unstable that is likely because of a shakie upbringing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Men who demand traditionalism and submissiveness from women without being competent himself will never deserve it and should not get it.Yeah this whole description with submissiveness/dominance in how people should act is cringe af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Men trying to make connections should stop caring about potentially offending women.Most successful interactions I've seen weren't cold approaches but just a normal social dynamic that evolved into a romantic or flirtatious dynamic. Well unless you're my brother, he gets approached often enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughIt was just a bit of trivia. Calm down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughYou can't be terminally online when you're also at college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Porn watching is more morally wrong in men than it is in womenYes and a significant portion of actors/actresses probably have some kind of past trauma going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughI think Jordan Peterson stated that most relationships are started during university | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:21 AM |
| 1 | The biggest problem in dating is not dating apps or generalizations, it’s that bad men get with good women and bad women get with good men.I think you're just more likely to hear or read about very bad experiences as opposed to the continuous good ones. Those stories also stick more. Friendlyness and loving behavior is the expectation so when something diverges into the opposite direction it gives the illusion of some underlying broken state of affairs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many men obsessed with societal norms?In what universe do you live. Yes there's probably something like a diversity quota or whatever for some businesses, but men are still highly competitive in that area. There are no obstructions, you're perceiving an enemy that's not there because on some levels in society these groups clash. What do you think the reason is for women graduating more than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many men obsessed with societal norms?But on the other hand it's more condoned for men to be divergent in other areas socially. They can be more vulgar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 11:01 AM |
| 0 | Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamicsYou honestly believe people work like that? Where they oppose something because it takes away power from their gender group? Thats conspiracy level bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men?Yes you should see my brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 10:43 AM |
| 6 | Men’s lives don’t suck because men repress their feelings or hide them, men’s lives suck because society doesn’t care about themWell it is the case that traits more associated with masculinity (assertiveness, dominance, disagreeableness) do predict more upward mobility in the workplace. As a group men possess these traits more often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 10:39 AM |
| -4 | Men’s lives don’t suck because men repress their feelings or hide them, men’s lives suck because society doesn’t care about themJep this is problematic. Remaining stoic comes at the cost of emotional repression, which causes stress, but showing vulnerability and coming off as weak also causes stress, if not more so. Though i think people in general aren't as harsh towards others as people are to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 10:37 AM |
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