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| 1 | Wife threatening court over support and marital assetsIt's all about game to you? Support for your kids obviously is not important to you. You will do anything to reduce mo ies towards thei upbringing | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Co parenting with someone who thrives on conflict is exhaustingRecord everything as it will be useful when you seek more custody in future | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/25 09:05 PM |
| 3 | She has to be trying to get me riled up, right?Record ALL interactions with your children, wife and SIL or her family and friends. You just need one instance of them lying and their evidence is thrown out, get charged with perjury and have custody in favour of you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/25 12:28 AM |
| 6 | My wife (24F) still loves for high school boyfriend. Need all the adviceShebhas effectively ended the marriage. There is no coming back from this. Grey Rock her and only communicate with her about your son. Separate your finances asap, see a lawyer to draft a separation agreement. Finally, have her move into another room with all her shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/25 05:36 AM |
| 2 | 3rd time coming over and taking assets…Get her charged with contempt if she has gone against a court order, change the locks, and have a very serious talk with your son. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/25 07:40 AM |
| 6 | Confusing as FEnjoy it while it lasts. She will withdraw these privileges as soon as she needs to punished you a bit more | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/25 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Need supportYou are making all the right decisions other than dropping that right of course. Just be prepared she is already seeing someone. You need to legal advise asap to protect you and your kids. Best of luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/25 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Wife asked for divorce but has done nothing to action itAs soon as you do that, she will file a restraining order citing domestic abuse. Try to have a conversation just asking what you did wrong. Ask leading questions if you ever abused her physically or verbally. Whether she felt unsafe with you. Mix in other questions about the marriage. If you are in a single consent state, record the conversation, if not, try to have it somewhere you can have a witness she doesn't know within hearing distance. Right now she has no motivation to do anything as she… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/25 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Women took all and ran. What should I do?You have a pre nup, get a lawyer, and get it enforced. Do not communicate with anyone who is not your supporter. Refer all questions to your lawyer and record all interactions. Warn them they are being recorded and send all threats to your lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 12:26 AM |
| 7 | Getting over the ex....Black her everywhere. Tell family and friends to not tell you about her activities. When you get the urge, count to 10, look in a mirror and say I am better than this and I don't need to know | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 12:00 AM |
| 18 | Ex wife kicked me off our shared bank account.Surely no one could be this naive | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 05:39 AM |
| 7 | Ex wife divorced me. I feel so lost with no purpose in life.You're 31 and about to enter the best years of your life. Your ex has done you a favour releasing you to live your best life without the anchor. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 11:03 PM |
| 24 | How many wives admitted they regret the divorce?Their regret is shown in their bitterness of you moving on and having a happier life without them | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/25 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Another cut to the old heartDocument her lack of parental input and go for full custody. Have her pay you CS. Then the proverbial will hit the roof | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/24 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Separated, need adviceThis immediately. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 10:11 PM |
| 4 | STBX lawyer asks me to pay half her appraisal on my homeOnly the start of the crazy demands any sane person would shake their head. Be prepared for more. Just have one word on standby, NO | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/24 09:36 PM |
| 6 | How soon is too soon to date?I agree with being careful until the divorce is settled. Is she dating anyone? Even so, be careful as they tend to have different rules for you compared to themselves. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/24 12:50 AM |
| 4 | Alcohol and shameWhy are you the one leaving. Whose name is on title or lease? If you are on there is would seek legal advice to change the locks and pack her shit up. Nice surprise when she gets back from Thailand | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/24 11:51 PM |
| 28 | Wife 45/F caught sexting then locked me up 45/M then had an affaire while kids were taken awayDid you not have a lawyer? Your wife voluntarily gave her phone to your child, which was in receipt of pornography. So your wife gave your undergaw child porn to view?Call CPS and report her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/24 07:16 AM |
| 1 | STBXW said I threatened to kill her.Not knowing the laws where you are i would still see if I can get her on the record admitting she fabricated the claim. In future record all interactions with her to protect yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Soon to be Ex is sp mean when SadWell done. She can bitch and complain all she wants after that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/24 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Soon to be Ex is sp mean when SadGotta do the mic drop and walk away. Don't give her an opportunity to respond. If she does keep walking and ignore her | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/24 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Soon to be Ex is sp mean when SadI would get a little hand sign made saying, "You wanted this." Every time she starts, just pull it out and show her without saying a ward. The walk away | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/24 02:35 AM |
| 3 | After schoolBased on your posting history I would have thought this is SOP for your ex. Expect more even if you do set firm boundaries | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 04:16 AM |
| 6 | She is refusing to get out of my Bedroom. What should I do?Pack up your mattress and move it to the spare room and lay it on top of the one there. Then welcome her to sleep int he main room | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 07:04 AM |
| 7 | STBX already seeing someoneSee.a all too convenient that she just met this guy. Why did you have to move back after just 4 months? Was it STBXW idea or demand? Did she know this guy before you left? I suspect it was going on for some time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/24 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Living in HellI would be wearing a body cam and record every interaction with her, the kids, and her family. They we will lie and will be believed unless you have 100 per cent irrefutable evidence | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/24 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Wife going off the deep endMake sure she knows it is to be sold. I would post a sign out front stating "Pending For Sale". | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/24 06:07 AM |
| 8 | Contempt hearing.Judge should refer the lawyer for disbarment for wasting the courts time and award costs against your wife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/24 07:37 AM |
| 11 | He’s at my goddamn house right nowText her you saw him sneak in, and you are on your way home. Make no threats, just that. Turn off your phone and go to sleep. That is enough to end their night of fun. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/24 06:50 PM |
| 3 | False allegationsI don't care what the local laws say about recording private conversations. I would get her on the record, admitting that the allegations were false, and she coached the kids to lie. Whilst it may not be admissible in court, the police may drop the charges. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/24 09:19 PM |
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