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| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personExplain please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 09:10 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personI told you. So why didn't you beleive me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 08:36 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personI'm not significantly overweight. But I've been told my face is a 3/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itBecause when men talk about "women" they usually mean only pretty ones. Why do men feel justified to be brutal to unattractive women? I'm curious. I can't get back on the hamster wheel as my heart is dead. It was self preservation. I'm unable to feel anything for anyone but him anyway even though it's been two years and he's married to her now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itWhat sort of women have these standards? Pretty young blondes who everyone wants to date? Yeah they're going to have high standards. Same as a rich man who can buy any car is likely to buy a Ferrari over a rusty old banger. If you are that rusty old banger then it's likely the rich guy (or hot blonde who can get anyone she wants) won't want you. Why should they? Someone likely will. Someone with less money/options such as a poor person (or romantically speaking an older or less attractive woman)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:37 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itAs an ugly girl I was bullied for my looks growing up by boys who would bark at me and spit on me. I have been constantly rejected by men, used for sex and kept in situationships. Or are you just assuming all women are attractive? And that I don't exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itThe equivalent of being used for sex by a man who doesn't care about you is being rinsed out of your money by a woman who doesn't care about you. It's about the same thing. Someone who doesn't care about you using you to get something they want. So to all men "jealous" that apparently all women can get sex on demand (they can't. There are men who turn down sex with women they aren't attracted to.) take heart as I have good news - you can simulate the experience by allowing yourself to be used fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itI.was led on for 8 years before being discarded for a 21 year old pretty blonde. I went celibate and stopped dating afterwards as the pain and trauma was too much. I'm not pretty so I might not count though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itThey already do. This is literally what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:14 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itYoung attractive women have free access to it. Older less attractive women don't. Even ugly dudes want pretty women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:14 PM |
| 0 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personThere's also knowing when to introduce it. If you're been on a few dates and are hitting it off and feeling the chemistry then flirting is natural. If it's some rando on Tinder who you've only been messaging for a short time sending you unsolicited sexts and dick pics then its creepy and inappropriate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 11:09 AM |
| 0 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personNo woman says men should never be nice, it’s other men saying that. You absolutely should not be super overtly sexual early on in conversation with women. That’s weird and off putting even if you’re super attractive This is truth ^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 11:06 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personThere's nothing wrong with sexual feelings. If a woman finds you attractive she will have them herself. But if you are just getting to know someone keep it to yourself. It's creepy and off putting when some man you've exchanged a handful of messages on a dating app with starts sending sexts and dick pics. Get to know her, start dating and the sexual thing will happen naturally if she's attracted to you. If she's not then move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 11:05 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personTo be honest men have more chance of being able to get an attractive high value women through working on themselves than women have the reverse. This is because women are much more forgiving of men's looks when looking for a husband. They want a healthy man with a job who offers love and financial security. Bonus points for being talented, intelligent, funny, successful or charismatic. These things can push a below average man up to the point where he can date models. Look at the below average m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 09:05 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personThe difference is that women can generally sit back and choose from a plethora of options, and somehow when out of dozens or hundreds of guys they pick the asshole, somehow it is always someone else's fault.< Do you genuinely believe all women have a "plethora" of options? That's absolutely BS!! A "plethora" of options applies only to the youngest hottest blondest most fuckable women. Below average women, older women. No. They might have at best one guy interested in using them for sex. And he's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 08:51 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personShe had a pathological jealousy of the boy's mother, her husband's ex, who seems from what I'd gathered to be a rather sad individual with mental health issues and a drink problem who he'd broken up with a few years prior to meeting my friend. Her husband had no choice but to offer support to his ex, sometimes financial and sometimes looking after their son when she wasn't coping. My friend would fly into jealous rages about this to the point where her husband had to change his ex's name to "Dav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personAs a below average woman I've asked men out and been rejected. The same men then went chasing after pretty blondes. So what do you suggest? Your "odds" are wrong. I've been rejected dumped and discarded multiple times usually in favour of younger prettier women. I'm not hideous. I'm below average. Are you saying I am not a woman or my experience isn't real. And not I'm not obese. I'm just a brunette with a not very pretty dace and too tall. And no these men weren't male models or "Chad". As usua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itOnly attractive women have free access to relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personMen choose with looks. Then complain when she turns out to be a bitch and rinses him out of all his money. Because they ignored God knows how many decent nice women who just didn't happen to be "hot" enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 04:17 PM |
| 3 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personI have (had - dont speak to her anymore.) a very attractive female friend who is an absolute bitch. Didn't stop 3 men, decent wealthy men, becoming infatuated enough to marry her and one is still trying to get her back despite the fact that she emotionally abused his 13 year old son. Men will date any trash as long as its fuckable. Their standards are in their dicks. Then they complain about being mistreated, rinsed out of their money etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Contrary to popular belief women have a rather similar taste in menWomen factor in other things, they may not think he's the hottest thing they've ever seen but will be attracted to his personality, charisma, talent, character, financial stability, success etc. That's why you get hot models married to ugly but successful dudes, but never the other way around. Men only really care if she's hot. Anything extra to that is secondary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Contrary to popular belief women have a rather similar taste in menSame for mens taste in women. Most want slim, pretty features etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personGypsy Rose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personJust like the men don't acknowledge that they chose the bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 06:08 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personBut men argue that they should be given chances as they are "nice guys" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 06:02 AM |
| 3 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personLol men throw "don't stick your dick in crazy" out of the window if she's attractive enough. They marry pretty bitchy women all the time. It's pointless for a woman to work on her character if she's not hot. Men don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:56 AM |
| 1 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personSame with women. I have (had as I dont speak to her anymore) a friend who was very attractive. She was also mean, jealous, bitchy, competitive, arrogant, vain... the list goes on. Men didn't care because shes hot. She'd been married three times because each marraige failed once he got over his infatuation with her looks and realised what a bitch she was. She very quickly found someone else each time. These were successful high value men. I'm ugly and permanently alone and she was always preachin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenWhy is it natural for men to want pretty/slim women? There's your answer. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Well they only fall in love if you're young blonde and hot then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/25 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Because the women you consider relationship material are probably top 10 or 20% with multiple other (better) real life options and don't need to use apps. I could say the same for the men. They are mostly dull, unattractive, socially awkward and are single for very good reasons (plus are obviously unable to meet anyone in real life.) Yet they overvalue themselves massively and consider it absolutely gracious of them to bestow their exalted attention on any woman, much less consider her for a ...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 01:04 PM |
| -1 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?I'm a woman and this happened to me. I was rejected and then he married a young pretty blonde. That made me feel worthless. However when I mentioned it to.male friends their reaction was jealousy of him and "wow she's gorgeous how on earth did he get her?" Completely ignoring my pain. Do you see a hypocrisy here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility?The main problem is that most of these men are focussing on the top 50% or so of women who everyone wants and are unable to get them as these women have options and they're not the most appealing one. They could get a girlfriend if they lowered their standards as women are always told to do but they won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I've deleted all the comments as my ex used to use reddit (not sure if he still does) and may recognise himself from the description. I don't need that humiliation. Really this girl isn't 'rare' at all. She's an egotistical spoilt selfish entitled little girl. Her value comes in her youth and looks. If she was exactly the same person but older or less attractive maybe even a brunette, had acne or a bit chubby for instance I'm pretty sure he wouldn't have wanted her. . And her value will decrease… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 06:11 AM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterPicture a world in which men are the ones who are incredibly picky, who reject anyone who doesn't meet their standard< They are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'So you've basically just confirmed that she's amazing and my case is hopeless. I still only love him anyway so any "next guy" isn't of interest. I will just accept my worthlessness. Its easier. I stay away from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Like I said he's good looking, has money (not a millionaire but certainly not poor, good job etc. She's pretty but she's not a supermodel. And according to a blog she made she was dumped by a college boyfriend) she's super religious and made a blog about wanting to get married and have babies when she was 20 lol. Men her age probably weren't up for that. Odds of me finding another guy are nonexistent. You've already said all men want young hot etc and I'm not. Are you saying some desperate man w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Thankyou for conforming it'd probably impossible for me to be truly loved by a man. I guessed as much. Anyway that's why I wont let them use for me for sex. I don't know how it happened. She's a very confident (bordering on arrogant) person but given her looks and talent etc it's natural I suppose. And he's quite insecure. She just offered him everything he ever dreamed of I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I don't know the full story. He knew her father through an activity he did - I think he met him around 2022, he occasionally hung out with him and some other men from the activity, and he then somehow met her mother and brother through the father. They asked him to help with a volunteer project a couple of times. I didn't know there was a daughter as well. I noticed he seemed to be spending a lot of time with these friends and then I found out about the daughter when he apparently qas asked to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenYeah he's a good man. It's the women's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenI agree most women don't care about a bugatti. They just want you to drive something reliable and safe and would prefer to know you had savings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenAlso its just common sense. Men want young fertile women because trying to have a baby with a perimenopausal woman can be difficult and risky. And women like financially stable men with established careers because trying to raise a family with a broke minimum wage worker who struggles to hold down a job and finds it hard to pay rent is difficult and risky. And yet men's requirement in the first instance is seen as reasonable whilst women's requirement in the second is seen as shallow, superficia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenI think this when I read that women only want the top 10% of men or men only.want pretty women 10 years younger than them. Plenty of men not in the top 10% are married. Plenty of men are married to women their own age or even older. Plenty of fat ugly people get married. If only rich handsome men and young pretty women got married then most people would be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenMost women like tall muscly men like most men like slender pretty women. However short fat dudes and fat ugly women still get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenI agree. The number of couples with a ten year age gap is actually fairly small. If the previous post was correct it would be the the norm for couples to be 10 years apart but it's not. I can only think of one couple I know who met when he was in his thirties and she was in her early 20s and he's an abusive asshole so maybe not a good example. She always looks miserable when I see them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Redpill tropes hold true when it comes to most basic girl/normie womenI agree with this. I also hate the way people try to shame women into giving "chances" to men shorter than them. I'm 5'8" and not attracted to shorter men sorry. I want taller but taller can be 5'10" Doesn't need to be 6'+ But I'm not into any of those fetishy situations with 5'5" guys drooling over "Amazon" women and I wont be guilted into entertaining that either. It's natural for women to want taller men just like its natural for men to want pretty young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Your advice is pointless as there is no other man to win over by sex. He's gone I did all this for seven years. I adored him. I never looked at another man (and still struggle as noone really compares to him for me). He was my safety. My hope. My home. It wasn't enough. He still refused to commit and discarded me for a younger prettier holy Catholic blonde virgin. I've spent two years with a horrible broken heart. And my attempts at dating have revolved around ploughing through endless profiles … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'And then we allow you to investigate to see if you like us enough to commit, then you decide "nah" and discard us and we are left with another notch on our "body count" being screamed at by other men we encounter that we are "ran through" and men only want virgins etc. No you can't have it both ways. I'd rather stay celibate the rest of my life than be used for sex by any man ever again. If a guy isn't committing to you, instead of withholding sex more, you should probably double down on improvi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I feel it would still be massively beneficial to yourself to try and make your life and yourself as happy and as comfortable for yourself as you can< Well yesn obviously. Although it's very difficult when you'll always be on your own and never have a husband to support love or take care of you basically because you were screwed over by your facial genetics. I'm loving intelligent working devoted and not fat. I don't smoke or do drugs. I'm educated and have a nice singing voice. I go to church an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I've never experienced any of the benefits and privileges of being a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I've edited my comment with my information. A male friend rated me as a 3/10, possibly push to a 5 with makeup. I asked him to be brutally honest. He rated the girl my ex left me for as a 7, possibly 8 with makeup. The conversations I had on the dating app were pointless and went nowhere and I aas quickly ghosted. To which I didn't care. I still miss him. Now you can stop claiming that "women" get 100s of options. Only attractive women do. Or do I not count as a "woman"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'There's far more than just looks that matters to men. Looks is often the first and possibly biggest hurdle, but looks only gets a woman to "I'd hit that" base, women need far more to get to wife material, as men honestly and explicitly say repeatedly< So here's the issue. I don't have the looks. The looks that get you to first hurdle. So no matter how many other "wife material" qualities I have nothing matters. Because I don't have the looks. Thankyou for saying "I deserve" to find love but with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Also as far as women not falling in love wirh talented intelligent men if they're not rich and how etc - absolutely BS. I have a friend who is madly I love eith her fiancee who is obese and losing his hair. She's a slim beautiful blonde with blue eyes. He's a lovely sweet funny guy and a very talented singer (classically trained tenor, they met through choir). She fell in love with his beautiful voice and his sweet lovely personality. He isn't particularly rich although gets a lot of gig work, l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Women get irritated at you and mock you or just ignore you when you complain about how hard dating it< Mostly they can't relate as they have the opposite problem (being harassed by men). And people in general aren't sympathetic to women who aren't pretty so their reactions are usually short and curt. Or they make stupid "I wish I was ugly I'd love to be ignored by men/ you're not missing anything haha" jokes. Or the kinder ones feel sorry for me and say "you're beautiful" (I'm not and this kind … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I never see anything else other than men co.plainjng about it usually when pretty blondes wont date them. I still see these men complaining that they "only get likes from ugly/old/fat" women. You keep saying how "80%" of men are treated this way (none of the men I know are and they are all average at least) lime that's bad because "well you're bottom 20% so it's fine to treat you this way but you should be outraged that 80% of men are treated this way". So why is it an outrage that 80% of men su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I know this as I am a woman who unfortunately isn't very pretty and my experience has been dire. There is no "interest". Men treat you with disgust. They use you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Attractive women have 100x more potential partners. Unattractive or below average women don't. Noone, not even ugly men, want to date below average or unattractive women. Some might settle for them but honestly the number of matches they get is not much different to a below average man. Believe me I know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'The thing you are either missing or ignoring, is that some women also want money, time, attention, a effort, and commitment from men they have absolutely no interest in being in a relationship with And some men want sex, attention and validation from women they have absolutely no interest in being in a relationship with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Checking for a sexual pulse and bailing if you don't find one is incredibly important if you're a man who is dating. If you don't do this, you will end up losing so much time on dead ends And same for women. We are mostly dating for committment so we risk wasting time with men who sort of like us a bit but not enough to commit whilst they keep waiting for someone younger, hotter etc who they will commit to. That's why we hold off on sex to see if he's serious or just trying to get laid whilst he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'who sort of like you a little bit but they're waiting to see if their #1 choice comes around while trying to keep you in orbit around them Men do this too. In fact I'd argue they do it more than women. And they don't even see it as wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I had a man do this to me. Then he met a younger hotter blonder woman and ghosted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:12 PM |
| – | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?"I'd llove if a girkfriend of mine( I am single) paid all dates for me." Lol I'm sure you would ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 05:48 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toWhat sort of attention? Being used for sex? That's not validating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than menThe 1-4 women wouldn't be picked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toComplimented in what way? Someone paying you a genuine and sincere compliment in a respectful manner? Or getting a "WYD?" Text on. Saturday night from some, drunk, horny bored bottom feeder who doesn't actually care about you, like yiu or respectful you but is just hoping you might be DTF as you're marginally more appealing than their right hand? That's not flattering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toIt doesn't make sense because men consider even shitty low level sexual attention from a bottom feeder as "good". Even though that turns most women's stomachs. Literally makes you feel nauseous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toNo it doesn't make you feel better. It makes you feel worse. Trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toMake up etc won't make a below average woman beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toThe average men really want the pretty blondes. Reddit is full of them complaining that blonde sorority girls won't date them. So yes they are settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toGet what from a male? That's pretty low bar right there. "Attention" from a drunk broke homeless 60 year old with no teeth isn't validating. And besides most women don't just want meaningless attention they want to be loved and cherished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toAttractive women get Chad's, average amd below average men (but usually only wants Chad's or average) Average and below women get whoever the attractive women don't want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"Interested" in what way. To use for sex? Pump and dump? Lonely all week and then a "WYD?" Text on Saturday night from a man who literally doesn't even like her or give two shits about her but is bored and horny so is hoping she's DTF? He will of course ghost/ignore her the next day. That adds nothing to a woman's life. She'd be better off focussing on female friendships, spiritual growth and enriching hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:27 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toMen always have trouble understanding that just because he's willing to settle for a plain brunette with a below average face doesn't mean that he prefers that. More importantly, she is still in the same dating pool as hot blonde women and the ugliest men all tend to be the biggest looks supremacists. Fixed it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:23 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toknow women sort of regard men as accessories or trophies now that they compare against the men their friends have. This is exacerbated by social media And men do exactly the same with their hot blonde wives! Noone gaslighting. You're just being very selective with what you highlight. Men are exactly the same in fact worse. It's far more common to see a beautiful woman with an average/ugly husband than the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 06:37 AM |
| 1 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveBecause men mostly focus on looks with women. They only really care if she's pretty or hot. If she's not they wouldn't care even if she was a millionaire. It's wrong for women to want to date financially stable men (important to avoid a miserable life) but OK for men to want to date hot 21 year old blonde virgins (which has nothing to do with the quality of the person and just about their lust and fantasy). Double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsMen are the same over hot women. They dont care how much a crazy bitch she is or how shitty a human being she is as long as she's hot enough to make them hard. I have a friend who's very attractive and she's a right nasty bitch but her husband puts up eith it because she's "gorgeous" and he "loves her hot body and sexy accent" etc. My ex is attractive and rich so women throw themselves at him and he can get away with it. It doesn't make it right. Heck women throw themselves at fucking Chris Watt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsMy ex is good looking and well off but he's a shitty human being who treats women badly. She's got herself a prize. He is able to do what he does due to his money and looks. No other reason. Oh and because the girl he left me for is a desperate idiot :) And show me where I said women treating men badly is "perfectly acceptable"?? It's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveThat's her personal choice. I'm not saying all women are like that. But women are within their rights to find out about a man's job income etc before wanting to date him. I had someone say to me."what if you fell in love with a poor man? You'd be poor but happy". Um it doesn't really work that way. Not looking for a millionaire but never dating poor again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveObviously and just as a man might judge pick snd choose between women based on things like youth and fertility, women might (and totally should) pick and choose between men based on financial stability. If you're terminally broke and so is he it's probably not going to end well (speak from experience). If someone is a broke student working their way towards their first career break sure. Not every woman wants a millionaire. But a job which pays enough to cover or GP 50/50 with bills and living e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsYou need to let her know from the start. And not sleep with her until you've mutually clarified what you're both looking for at this stage. It's not rocket science and it isn't hard or awkward to ascertain within a few messages what the other person wants and, if they say a relationship, decide if they meet your minimum standards for that or not ((looks-wise). You can decide that without meeting or with a short coffee date. If they don't tick your required "relationship boxes", you politely let … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 11:49 AM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toMost men who speak of women not meeting baseline levels of attractiveness mention faces. This is indeed true. I don't have a pretty face myself. It's not something I can control but its led to a lifetime of rejection amd heartbreak at rhe hands of men. You're deluded to think only shorter men suffer. And FWIW most women just want a man who is taller than them. For a 5'2" woman that could be 5'7:. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsThen don't meet. Make it clear in messaging so no time is wasted with dates and meeting. If someone laid out in the first few messages that they were looking for FWB most women would just immediately unmatched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsYou're not a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsA gentleman (which you're obviously not) wouldn't let it get that far with a woman who doesn't meet his standards for a relationship. What you're doing is shitty. And you take no accountability for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsRead what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 10:59 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toYou described the fact that women tend to be more attracted to men who are tall(er than them) a height "fetish". So I compared it to the fact that men tend to be more attracted to women who are young and conventionally pretty as a youth or prettiness "fetish" Because its absurd to describe womens attraction to tall(er than them) men as a "fetish" It's what many if not most women are attracted to. Same as most men are attracted to youth and prettiness. I have no idea what the rest of your post wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | *"Nice Guys"* don't actually exist?Even that doesn't guarantee a woman will be attracted to him however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | *"Nice Guys"* don't actually exist?It also doesn't help that people dispense advice like "women don't care about looks they just want a nice decent guy who treats her well etc". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 09:30 PM |
| 2 | *"Nice Guys"* don't actually exist?"That said, being kind and considerate or whatever “nice” means to you doesn’t mean someone is going to be sexually attracted to you or aroused by you" And this is what rejected "nice guys" need to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | *"Nice Guys"* don't actually exist?Men seem to wonder why they can't get the women they desire despite being "nice". As if "nice" isn't just a basic baseline requirement which everyone should be able to satisfy. Alright Steve, so you've got a job, you shower, you don't take drugs, you say please and thankyou and hold doors open and women are supposed to fall head over heels in love with you just because of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 09:25 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveSave up and pay for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 07:30 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveOK well it is what it is. It's like an older or ugly woman. Few options. Noone is entitled to a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsSo if they are looking for a relationship and you know they dont meet your standards but you take them on a date and have sex with them you're a scumbag and you are using them. A good man would pass even if it means going without sex if he knows he can't offer the woman what she wants. I'm sure you think you deserve a hottie but the way you treat women is shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsAnd are you clear that they don't meet your relationship standards and this is just sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsSo what should these hideous hags do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Women so Defensive When Men Complain About Dating AppsSo what should these "not attractive enough" women do? In your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toAttractive women have optionality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toNo I can guarantee that older and/or ugly womem also have zero optionality. Unless they want to get pumped and dumped by scumbags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toATTRACTIVE women are that privileges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toNear unlimited levels of optionally is only the case for ATTRACTIVE women. For unattractive women this does not exist. And yes they will become very limerent over any presentable looking man who is kind to them. I know I did. Why do men assume all women are equal in the eyes of men. They're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:54 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveThey have a disadvantage. Same as ugly women, older women, socially awkward women etc. They're not going to be first pick for many and there's a genuine reason - the misery of living in poverty. Same as an older woman won't be first pick for a man who wants to have children. Should she remain alone forever? Or maybe she needs to look for someone fot whom that isn't an issue? An older man whose already had his children for instance. Same for the poor man. Maybe he's best off with a woman who has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toCat wine TV and knitting sounds good to me. Certainly better than being pawed by some man I don't even fancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:29 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toHeight fetish? Like men with their youth fetish or prettiness fetish? Get on Grindr. Plenty of validation and being hit on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toAn attractive straight woman can. An average or below woman can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toThe problem is that when a woman chooses "no man" she gets accused of being too picky, having too high standards and not "opening herself" up to all.those "great guys" etc. My ex left me two years ago for a younger woman and is getting married this year. I haven't really got over it and I certainly haven't met anyone else I am remotely attracted to. I lobed him with my whole heart and soul and i hkmestly feel like that part of me has died. I'm doing alright by myself albeit sometimes a bit lonel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:24 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveBecause raising children with a broke man is hell. A man having a money is a like a young fertile woman. A man might love a woman to heaven and back but pick a younger more fertile one to build a family if he doesn't think she's good wife and mother material. Same for a woman. She might love a broke man but know they're not going to live a happy life with unpaid bills and money running out half way through the month. Beleive me, I've been there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:47 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveYes women can make money. But speaking as someone who was with a broke man whilst I didn't have a lot of money myself it was hellish. Money running out half way through the month. Stressing over bills never going anywhere nice. Fights about money. No thanks. It's not attraction but given the choice between a financially stable man and a broke man the financially stable one is a better choice for practical reasons. Love wears thin when you're battling poverty beleive me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:45 PM |
| 6 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveBeing with is different to marrying. Marrying a man without looks or money can be problematic long term. Love tends to get strained when bills are unpaid and stomachs are empty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 01:04 PM |
| 1 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveDefine "Good" man. I see that phrase thrown around so much and seems to mean just a bare minimum male gendered person with a job who showers and doesnt have a criminal record or a raging drug habit. So just the base level of human functionality If basic ass but ugly old and fat women were calling themselves "good" women men would be shrieking. You have to be all that AND hot attractive and exciting to register anything for a man. Men want beautiful women first snd foremost. Any goodness of chara… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 01:01 PM |
| 0 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveThat's what PassportBros are doing. Finding womem desperate enough to trade sex for food and a roof. Sad that they think the women love them though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:54 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveAs a woman who doesn't meet conventional physical attractiveness norms I can attest that I am mostly treated as worthless to men unless they need someone to use for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveTo some men it is. When they say I want my wife to be blah blah as she's the mother of my future children. That's not love it's a transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:51 PM |
| 2 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveIt doesn't make him "attractive" at all! (I'm a woman) It makes him more of a choice if you are looking for marriage and stability but that's not the same as being attracted to him. Women want stability like men want sex. Just as there are some women who you'd fuck but not love or commit to because youre not that attracted to there are men who are useful for money but not attractive physically or romantically. I can absolutely guarantee Melania doesn't find Donald attractive in a physical sense.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:49 PM |
| 3 | If we remove finances men have nothing to giveJust as men can: Use some women for sex Date other women who are more "exciting". And beleive me the former category of woman gets jusy as badly hurt as the men being used for money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:44 PM |
| 1 | "I'm overwhelmed by matches on dating apps" so stop swiping???This is not a problem "women" have. It's a problem young and/or above average attractive women have. Believe me the mid and ugly women dknt have this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 10:46 AM |
| 2 | "I'm overwhelmed by matches on dating apps" so stop swiping???The key is "attractive women". Average or below average women don't get this reaction. Many get very few matches and messages. And many of these men are shooting out of their league hence the attractive woman's disinterest. Whilst ignoring the average/below women who get few matches and messages and would be pleased to get a message from them and would respond. Then they come on here and whine "I can't help what I'm attracted to!" and bitch they can't get responses on dating apps. They are the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Women, by and large, are not "settling" with guys they aren't attracted toOver time it often unravels. If she's meh about him at first, imagine how it is 20 years later when he's lost his hair and got fat and they're dealing with everyday stressor of life. That is a recipe for a dead bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badJust the reasonably attractive women he notices. There are plenty of women not like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badAttractive/above average women are mini celebrities. Below average women are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 02:09 PM |
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