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| -1 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?>How exactly were women supposed to infiltrate politics if they couldn't even vote until 1920? And you are purposefully ignoring all the activism they conducted to get to that point.? They could have made their own coalition of women who according to you, all shared the common idea of being these poor oppressed damsels who hated being married to their husbands and were RAPED and BEATEN daily. In history, small groups of men less than 1% of the population can take over entire countries, but an en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?>Then any claims about dating up/down or sexual market value or any of the other assorted dating "economics" nonsense is irrelevant. Like I said. women still have a scale, its just an irrational scaled based on looks and status. Men have a different scale. This is obvious. >Great, so what is their value compared to someone who collects toys? To women, much more. Go on a date man and tell the girl youre a super duper nerd whos totally into collecting toys and watch her pussy dry up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 02:15 AM |
| -2 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?oh yeah every single instance of sex in the past was rape and the woman hated it and was holding back tears because it wasn't the guy she chose. You think women in the past had the same mental framework as you and they didnt. Sex wasn't viewed as something for pleasure and that you do with a really attractive person for even more pleasure, or with a big dick or a girl with a big ass for more pleasure. >freedom to decide her own future. yeah its so nice that women can choose to make 25k a year af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Well the thing is a girl who fucks on the first date isn't relationship material. The two girls I didn't fuck on the first date I dated for 6 months, Another 1.5 years. Youre asking for problems dating a girl who casually gives it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:55 AM |
| -2 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Women could have infiltrated politics or created a violent revolution but they didn't. They literally never did in history. This fantasy of every single poor little woman being so unhappy that she had to marry a man and not be a slut in her 20's is a complete misrepresentation of history. I'd say 95% of people had marriages that were just fine, and a stable marriage that is just fine is not stealing the women from finding their dream man, that they would have never found anyways. Do you think th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?My social skills are proficient enough that I have gotten laid on every single date I have been on. I have really good social awareness but knowing how I'm perceived and what hasn't worked in the past is what created this paradigm. It seems like there is some kind of invisible wall, and what I believe it is is looks. My social group is small. I suppose I could try really hard to stretch myself to develop a huge social group but that's simply not my interest. I really don't naturally tend towards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Women do not care about the objective value. As men, we know that other men who have motorcycles or whatever masculine display or status are no different than us, they are just a man who has a motorcycle. To women, a guy with a motorcycle or high status is a completely different, extremely sexually attractive creature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Mhm men’s social skills is the reason why women choose to have sex with highly physically attractive men or high status men instead of average men. Must be the case huh? I do agree that men should learn social skills and emotional intelligence and our society lacks proper socializing for men, but that is a small problem in the grand scheme of the problems with dating. Even if your average man was better socialized hypergamy would still be extremely steep. Women would adapt to this and pick even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:38 AM |
| -1 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Antidepressants didn’t exist in the 1800s and every woman was not depressed for all of history. This idea comes from the modern conception of finding your soulmate and ideal, perfect partner that really only appeals to women and they rarely achieve it anyways. And if that is true, why didn’t women just rise up and overthrow their patriarchs? Men being single means you have absolutely nobody and low access to sex. Women being single just means they have no obligation not to have sec with stranger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?not possible for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:01 AM |
| -5 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?>forcing women to marry men they aren’t interested in isn’t a solution which is what they did in the past Why? women weren't complaining about it until they made ammo in ww2. This freedom thing is obviously a bad idea. Its a nice and wholesome concept but we have to look at real world solutions. If that includes that some women have to marry a guy they don't like then so be it. The total happiness in this society is higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?alright man keep denying reality. You know who women pick. Im not arguing with your delusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:55 AM |
| -3 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?hmmm huge boobs huh? how much did you weigh? and dont lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?its that I'm 5'8 and women are all the same height as me now. I really mean it. Like you can't tell me that I'm doing something wrong when i go to nightclubs and bars and stuff and approach or try to dance with girls just like any other guy would and they brush me off. And then oh look wow that tall handsome guy is dancing with three women. I'm not going to deny reality and im not stupid. It is just the looks standard is way too high. But you think I need to join some club revolving around a hob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Yeah this sounds all good in theory but you can't just go and penetrate a friend group in college. they've all know each other for years and if you aren't top percent social skills its simply not going to work. You love the idea that its technically possible but how often are people born extremely extroverted and likeable? And do you really think you can completely permanently change yourself into a hyper social charismatic person from your genetic personality? It's simply not feasible for most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Men are supposed to outweigh women by like 60 lbs I guarantee his face was still decent and he wasnt a complete loser. Also why is it assumed that you are good looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?well that guys a r*trad. men and women use each other for sex. thats what hookup culture is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?I've never heard a man deny that women are used by men for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:53 PM |
| 0 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?>Do you think most average men have friends who are friends with women and have large amount of women as friends themselves? Or is it mostly men or maybe 1-3 friends ? Do you really think its possible that your average guy can penetrate into a group like this, while still remaining a sexual entity? whenever theres guys with mixed friend groups 80% of the time hes attractive and the other 20% of the time hes the childhood friends of those women or is actually just very effeminate, and none of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?definitely the latter. If you have so much power you can throw it around as risky and in as many ways as you want. If I was a HVM I'd lie and be narcissistic. Why would i care if i get exposed as a manipulator if I always have access to women? I wouldn't. You see the same thing with women now. They have a shit load of options so they become narcissistic and manipulative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?>Plenty of women have slept with a man or two they look back upon and cringe. Even me. women think 6/10 men or lower are "ugly". I guarantee this guy you regretted was decent looking and you aren't better than him in looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:44 PM |
| -5 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?Lol that is a very childish view of the world. I hope you aren't a grown man. This isn't la la land where youre going to find some girl that is head over heels for the guy who collects hot wheels over the guy with a motorcycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?>I don’t think so, average guys are still able to date. can I ask you do you think that there is a qualitative difference in the label "in a relationship" between couples? I could be in a relationship and i can get laid but being in a relationship where i have dignity and getting laid with women of my caliber is pretty difficult. >Average guys are able to date. They do so by employing their social skills and social circle. Do you think that men who can't get laid are all just social retards? Why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:40 PM |
| 5 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?when do men deny that chads use women for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?everything you said is right but youre stuck in this limbo of belief because you come on PPD and have people tell you lies and damage control all the time about gender dynamics. It is sorely awful for the average man and women don't even know their choices are making them miserable. Western culture is just awful and letting the dating market in an organized society run free creates this. Average men are just the beta monkeys who get literally 0 sex. In the past, 1 man reproduced for 17 women. Bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?lmao bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:03 PM |
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