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Move on.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:28 AM
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You are too scared to make it romantic.
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:55 PM
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You improve yourself for yourself until the point you are happy. It could be decades from now.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:17 AM
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At least not guys who ask this stuff on reddit.
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:57 AM
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Do nightgame if you are a beginner.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:07 AM
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Go out and meet more people.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:52 PM
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Approach everyone you find attractive.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:39 AM
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Taking a break will improve your game.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:33 AM
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Not easy at first but if you improve enough then fairly easy.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:33 AM
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Well this requires to dive deep into pros and cons. I can help you with the details tho.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:34 PM
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Having fun and enjoying the journey of learning is def crucial.
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:24 AM
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Remember that feeling and go for it 1000x more.
/r/seduction09/04/22 01:41 PM
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Thank you. Any mental blockages for you?
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:09 PM
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It seems like you lack lots of practical advice and just pure experience. PM me and I'll coach you for free.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:34 PM
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How exactly have your identity as a guy been lost?
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:33 PM
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Why do you your trust issues? Can you dive deep into the root reasons?
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:31 PM
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Why don't you believe anyone can be loyal to you? What makes you think that you need that perfect physique to be attractive? Why do you think that your ideal partner MUST be academically gifted as well?
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:30 PM
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What is holding you back from building that something interesting to offer?
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:28 PM
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PM'd you. I'll coach you for free. This requires much deeper dive than just chatting here.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:26 PM
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I'll pm you to help you with practicals. This is a case by case situation.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:23 PM
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Losing weight is ALL ABOUT diet. ''Been searching and searching for a hairstyle that works and clothes that actually suit me whilst looking good and j never come across either. '' Keep searching. Don¨'t give up. '' Don't even get me started on the social aspect, no matter how much I try I get zero improvement. Might just be destined to be single for life at this point!'' This is a field where I can give a lot of practical advice and tips. I'll coach you for free. Come on DM.
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:23 PM
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Exactly. Don't settle for less.
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:22 PM
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''It's not that I don't believe I deserve someone. I just don't think there is anyone out there that will see me beyond a friend for reasons that I am not certain of.'' Why are you clinging to this thought if you don't have any clear reasons for it? ''One of the reasons I am not confident stems from a past issue. I expressed vulnerability to someone who I was growing very close to. But in the end, she never expressed how uncomfortable it was making her. It wasn't until she felt like I overloaded…
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:03 PM
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Appreciate you sharing your story. Here is the exercise question: There's so many things you could be improving in this list. What is stopping you?
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:00 PM
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Why do you get emotionally invested in women so soon, even before finding out that they have a boyfriend? You should find that out in the first 10 min of convo. ''I work hard at presenting myself as attractive but I need that emotion to give me the courage to take things further.'' What emotion are you talking about?
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:58 PM
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Why do you think that being 5 foot 6 and have sort of thinning hair will result in girls outright rejecting you? Why do you think not having the most aesthetic face will not get you the girls you desire?
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:57 PM
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They are everywhere: hobbies, social events, clubs etc? What is stopping you from looking for them in these obvious places?
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:55 PM
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Yes, please feel free to PM me.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:54 PM
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''I, too, am a far bigger obstacle to my own goal. Although talented in a single public-facing way for which I often receive praise, I use that talent as a crutch, all the while realizing that this talent, once a source of comfort and assurance, is irrelevant to the physical masculinity, confidence, sexual forwardness, and social competence necessary to potentially succeed. If I did not lack these qualities, it follows that I would be succeeding. Yet so long as I have this "goal mindset" toward …
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:53 PM
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Why are you afraid to be rejected again? I mean isn't it realistic that not all 4 billion women will accept you sexually?
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:47 PM
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I'm going to PM you to move this conversation into a more personal and deep level.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:06 PM
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What makes you think you are different from everyone and fit nowhere? Why do you think self-made scars affects the things you deserve? Why do you think you have nothing to offer? How are you too far behind in life? How exactly are you the biggest piece of shit there is? Why do you feel like no one will accept you for who you are? Why does your baggage affect people from accepting you? Why do you feel awful when you let someone into your life?
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:04 PM
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Why exactly do you think that bad-looking hair is an attraction killer? ''Also, the last girl whom I saw as being perfect didn't like me back, and the only guy she liked before that is really handsome, and has really good looking hair, all while having a personality equally good as mine.'' Why do you think that if one girl is like this then the rest 4 billion are like this too? ''So, why will someone choose another person with average looks and good personality when they can choose an equally go…
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:01 PM
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Why do you feel like you are not a sexual guy? That you don't know how to escalate? How are you at a dead-end exactly? Why do you think you are struggling to flirt with them? Why do you think it is hard to be confident with women without success?
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:39 PM
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What makes you think that you need to be good looking guy in order to attract a girl? Same with money? Same with travel? Why is being an introvert stopping you from starting a conversation with a woman?
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:37 PM
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What makes you thing that bad looking hair will stop a perfect partner from loving you? What makes you think you are socially awkward? Maybe you are socially awkward only because you look for the awkwardness in you because it is familiar?
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:35 PM
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Why don't you focus on the proper ones then?
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:33 PM
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Why do you think you have not succeeded?
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:32 PM
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Exactly. And actually, the most beautiful thing of this self-compassion is that, once you reach a deep level of self-compassion, you will have a deep level of self-respect, which makes you very attractive because you are much less needy.
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:31 PM
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Why do you think that person wouldn't be able to love you?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:56 PM
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Why don't you just reject them and go after the proper people? I mean surely you don¨'t think that all 8 billion of us are awful, terrible people?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:53 PM
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So what makes you think that if one awful person cheated on you, everyone will cheat on you?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:52 PM
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YES and here I am trying to help them become aware of that DEEP illogical statement so that they can shed light on it, process it and let it go. My Godness.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:51 PM
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Did you read what I posted? A LOT of people have this very negative toxic pattern in their head saying they don't deserve anything good in life which leads to inaction and even if they took action, they transmit such negative energy as a defense mechanism that they fail, and then it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Please read properly.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:37 PM
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Why don't you appreciate the people you have? How exactly are you a failure of a masculine man? What is the one thing you want and cannot have? Why do you think you cannot have it?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:34 PM
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Yes, so why don't you invest in the people who understand where you are coming from?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:32 PM
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What makes you think that your ideal partner wouldn't be able to accept you for who you are?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:29 PM
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What makes you think that you will bother or make them uncomfortable if you approach them?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:28 PM
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Why is it better for someone like you not to get involved?
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:27 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story. I'm not sure if you answered it but why have you chosen not to pursue any sexual or romantic relationships with anyone?
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:53 PM
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Self-sabotage is what MOST people do in one form or another. You do it too. Here, you are sabotaging yourself by telling yourself that learning game is a must, in order to attract women. Why do you think so?
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:51 PM
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What you dont get is THAT'S EXACTLY what I am trying to do. Help people let go of their toxic ego. The ego that says: ''I dont deserve anything until I have 1000000000000000 dollars and look like a barbie''.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:50 PM
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Here is the exercise question for you: why do you think that you have to meet those criterias to deserve someone? Do you think all the ladies out there also meet those criterias? How many women really meet those criterias? So is it reasonable to be so unrealistic?
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:49 PM
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This is easy to fix. Much easier than the inner self-sabotage. Let me help you privately and give you bunch of practical steps.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:47 PM
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Here is the exercise question for you: why do you think you are too fucked up for anything but people's pity?
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:46 PM
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Thank you for sharing your background. Now here is the exercise question: why do you think dating and relationships are absolutely biased against autistic people?
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:45 PM
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Thank you for sharing this. Go a bit deeper. Why do you think you not having a close family will affect this? And why do you think you are not emotionally intelligent enough? Why are you too overprotective of yourself and why don't you allow yourself to be vulnerable? To do this properly, this requires deep honesty so bear with me. If answering these publicly feels too vulnerable for you, you can also pm me. But this is the process, I did this myself too and it completely freed me from so many n…
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:43 PM
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When I talk about deserve, I’m just talking about people self-sabotaging themselves and their confidence which leads to terrible self-esteem which leads to terrible energy which then transmits to the girls and this then turns into a self-fulfilling prophechy. A downward spiral.
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:57 AM
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Mate, how much more can you misunderstand me? Obviously game is a skillset but that is only 20-30% of the whole theme. The SELF-SABOTAGE is what causes most to fail. Fake it till you make it is terrible advice. If you dig down enough and let of toxic patterns, you don’t even need to fake it in the first place. Act real until you remember is much better mindset.
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:56 AM
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Yes, exactly!
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:42 AM
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You are completely misunderstanding me. I am not talking about any morals. I am talking about INNER GAME - the inner dialogue you have with yourself which AFFECTS your self-esteem, contidence, and charisma. And these are all huge stuff that affects your results.
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:10 AM
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Wrong. Obviously if your inner world is terrible and it is telling you that you don’t deserve success, then you will self-sabotage yourself.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:58 AM
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It’s a matter of terrible game and also your self talk to yourself. Pm me if you want me to help you on a deeper level. I’ll help you for free.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:50 AM
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That’s completely fine.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:40 AM
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Exactly. Learn to enjoy the little growth everyday.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:54 PM
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I didn’t. You just need to read my comment properly.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:10 PM
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You ignored my point here. What if you don’t enjoy cooking then what do you do? You still have to cook. Besides, someone who is addicted to junk food wont be able to find healthy food the tastiest possible, by definition. He would need to work on breaking off from his addiction first. Similarly a guy needs to become good with women first and learn the skills, in order to then be able to enjoy it becsuse it becomes effortless once mastered.
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:20 PM
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Be honest and move on to approach new girls.
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:09 PM
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That’s cuz you lack all the skills to get results.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:53 PM
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That’s like saying: eat healthy cuz it tastes good and you want to. No bro, junk food tastes much better. You eat healthy not because it tastes better, you eat it for the greater good. You go experience pain in the gym for the greater good.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:52 PM
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This. While you’re at it dont exercise to take care of your body. Keep eating junk and poison your body with alcohol. Will be very easy quite a boring life.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:50 PM
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That helps for sure. But cold approaching, passing shit tests, connecting emotionally, handling logistics, texting, going on dates, pulling & closing are all skillsets you can learn in order to become better with women aka get more consistent success. You can also say that learning social skills = learning to be better with women in itself.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:49 PM
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Open-ended questions & multi-thread. Also tease her and make it fun. Be illogical.
/r/seduction28/03/22 12:04 PM
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You’re probably projecting yourself onto me.
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:54 AM
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Yes it is but it is worth it. Obviously if you don’t want to work for it then its ultimately up to you. But I went through it and had the same thoughtd as you many times. Still pushed through.
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:20 AM
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Man, no. This is an excuse. You will miss a fundamental thing in life if you don’t get good with women. Intimacy and a relationship with a wonderful woman is one of the greatest joys in life.
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:09 AM
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Personally I have not made any good money yet. I’ve coached 10 guys for free and a few of them donated to me so I really dont know about the lucrativeness of it. All I know is that this has been a huge part of my life, perhaps the biggest. And because of it, it’s naturally my passion and I would love to make a career out of it, hence I’m testing the waters. Keep in mind that I’m not so much interested in the pickup itself (altho I do have a lot to offer in it) but rather the transformation you g…
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:38 AM
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Lots of practice and inner work. I can help you with this.
/r/seduction12/03/22 09:34 PM
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