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If he was blue pilled like I was, he most likely feels extreme frustration daily in the relationship not getting out when he puts in and basically being deprived in all areas. And women dont care because they think they're doing the guy a favor and that hes lucky to be with her. Why I resent 98% of woman, in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:18 PM
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Dude what.. you sound like a moron to be completely honest. Girls don’t want a dancing monkey doing backflips to entertain them. They should have to entertain you.
/r/seduction25/11/19 04:51 PM
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She doesn’t, but you do. And how you feel about yourself reflects onto others... get a life
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:26 PM
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1) You sound like a creep 2) This is TERRIBLE advice 3) What fucking girl wants to be with a guy so desperate to get a girl that he does 50 approaches a day and only focuses on picking up girls? Find a real purpose. Focus on yourself.
/r/seduction25/11/19 06:23 AM
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If you don’t think you’re funny why would they think you are? You don’t even want to be funny. You shouldn’t have to convince people to be with you. That implies you wouldn’t want to be with yourself. So just be yourself and be authentic.
/r/seduction25/11/19 06:22 AM
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Don’t call. Text.
/r/seduction25/11/19 06:21 AM
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This is way too much you’re overthinking it completely. Treat them like normal people and just go talk to them.
/r/seduction19/10/19 11:29 AM
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That is amazing
/r/seduction15/10/19 04:39 PM
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Does this apply if you text the girl trying to setup and she either doesn’t respond or has some excuses but doesn’t try to actively reschedule with a specific date?
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:33 AM
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Damn good advice I always get salty just cause I got a lot of respect for myself, that’s disrespect 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction14/10/19 03:16 AM
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Hey, at least you had a girl text you in the first place. I’m 19 and I’ve never had a girl tell me she ‘really likes me’ or even text me first expressing interest.
/r/seduction11/10/19 11:12 PM
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Agree
/r/seduction11/10/19 11:11 PM
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Your inner kid (DGAF, takes risks, lives on the edge) vs adult (risk oriented, minimize vulnerability, pussy etc.)
/r/seduction10/10/19 02:31 AM
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Not just about getting pulls my guy. At least for me. The psychological discoveries you make/ prove/ see first hand are also interesting as you test them.
/r/seduction10/10/19 01:32 AM
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Yeah with girls your words mean nothing, action means everything. Boot her out the second she stops you
/r/seduction10/10/19 01:29 AM
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How’d she shit test u
/r/seduction10/10/19 12:04 AM
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It’s like I get mad at the person if I begin to get intimate with them. Like I don’t want them to get to know me/ I put up big walls so people can’t get close to me.
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:51 PM
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I’m attracted to women and have had sex with them. It’s some psychological issue.
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:49 PM
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I don’t jerk off.
/r/seduction09/10/19 04:55 PM
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Also, don’t be afraid to be self aware. If both of you subconsciously know that it’s a bit weird for you both to be talking, don’t hide it, make it into a joke I.e. “I bet you’re totally weirded out by some Indian guy hitting on you” then crack some joke and make it into something to laugh about. The more you try and hide stuff that might cause awkwardness, the worse it is.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:45 PM
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Right. Not that there’s anything wrong w that obviously, but it’s a common trend I see on this sub. Regardless of ethnicity, when there’s a difference like that, I’ve found you need to come in a lot softer/ more subtly/ slowly. Again, just sounds like you came on too strong based on how awkward you thought it was. The trick about game is that at its best, it doesn’t sound, look or feel like game. I would used to neg girls all the time but the way I said it was very obvious, like “hey this is a n…
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:41 PM
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Sounds like you came off too strong. Also what ethnicity are you/ was she?
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:35 PM
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High value, gentleman.
/r/seduction02/10/19 08:24 PM
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Guys, this really is the key to it.
/r/seduction01/10/19 08:56 PM
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Dude it’s hard to blame him until he learns from himself. On paper, I’m a god with game. I know what’s right and what’s wrong, and why. But actually stopping myself from snap chatting some girl or coming off as needy is a different story - not easy
/r/seduction01/10/19 11:35 AM
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You are needy. Coming from a guy who knows what you’re feeling and has been through what you think you’re going though, you’re being extremely needy even in the way you just responded to me. Case and point: You feel like you won the lottery or something/ completely lucked out. Which means you’re putting this girl on a pedestal as you wouldn’t normally have thought you could attract a girl of that caliber, exposing the fact that you know you’re lower value than her. How long is that gonna take to…
/r/seduction01/10/19 05:08 AM
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I can tell right off the bat that you’re gonna fuck it up by saying you’re gonna “date this girl hard”. Don’t be needy bro
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:09 AM
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How you make her feel, regardless of looks, is how you keep her
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:03 PM
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This isn’t exactly true. You drown out others when you’re in your ‘power zone’ of speaking, meaning that you’re being authentic enough to where you can actually make connections with people (see: rsdtyler)
/r/seduction27/09/19 03:22 PM
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TLDR: Limit and value your non-sexual attention
/r/seduction25/09/19 09:14 PM
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But she was a tease. She was toying with him. I have too much respect for myself to stoop down to the level of entertaining her by buying into those bullshit games. I’m the prize, if you’re going to bullshit around then go away. Not to mention, in the past when I lacked self-confidence and (stupidly) assumes that I could be nice, and share my feelings with women, they play nothing but games and make you feel like shit. So not really into that anymore.
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:27 PM
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This is actually pretty interesting because it is true, but I feel like, at least personally, I detest female nature & ‘playing games’ too much to actually do this. Like what makes you think I need to be the one putting all the effort in to get your box? I guess my ego is too high for that, but I like it that way. Rather not get any at all.
/r/seduction24/09/19 05:40 PM
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Be authentic and confident. A girl needs to feel like she’s ‘winning’ by being with you, meaning that you really, genuinely need to not care/ be outcome dependent. It’s totally fine to show interest but the trick is also maintaining the frame wherein she knows you will move right on to the next girl if she isn’t interested. Good game is subtle.
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:51 PM
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I totally disagree. Limit your non-sexual attention (ie texting ‘ how was your day’) because then she uses YOU as just another guy she can get attention/validation from, without ever wanting to fuck. They may ‘like you’, but as a friend, not as someone they’d fuck. Sorry bro.
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:14 PM
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Validation and attention whores
/r/seduction20/09/19 04:18 PM
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Don’t hit her up again unless she does first. You asked for a definite date and reschedule and nothing was set in stone with her, so most likely not interested. If you refrain and leave it (don’t respond!) and she ends up hitting you back in a week or two, you have all the power.
/r/seduction20/09/19 06:10 AM
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They’re just normal people too
/r/seduction18/09/19 10:31 PM
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Tinder is stupid and mostly a waste of time. Stop being lazy and go meet girls irl
/r/seduction18/09/19 07:08 PM
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Yeah, so am I. The ‘ah-ha’ moment for me was realizing that they’re literally just normal people, and I’m already good at talking to people in general. Seduction and pickup inherently suggests that girls are ‘girls’ and you forget that talking to them without any expectations is what allowed genuine, authentic connections to form.
/r/seduction17/09/19 06:08 PM
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The more I read and learned about game, the more I realized that trying to ‘remember’ things was a terrible way to go at it. You need to feel more, think less.
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:18 AM
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It is a fucking vibe.
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:16 AM
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Well by ‘having convos’ I mean small talk/ not getting to the point. If you don’t already have a good connection with the girl then no, you don’t do that. With emojis, saying ‘lol’ lmao etc, I guess you could get away with it? But it becomes hard to maintain a masculine frame like that. The girls are the ones who should be using them
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:45 PM
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They aren’t. It’s more like a glare/ scorn and every time a girl looks at me like that it reminds me how I don’t have any girls that I talk to on the regular/ that even enjoy my company. I think I’m just off putting.
/r/seduction09/09/19 10:21 PM
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I just feel like every single girl I walk past on campus somehow knows that I feel like I’m worthless and not good enough. That I’m a fraud. Like I never ever get a smile or friendly look, and I’m actually pretty good looking and well kept. I guess the bigger issue is that I do feel like a fucking fraud. I’m high school I never talked to girls and they never liked me. So when I worked on myself (gym, reading books, practicing confidence and self love) I feel like an outcast and threatened by eve…
/r/seduction09/09/19 08:29 PM
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Dude no. Girls are supposed to double text a bunch and use emojis. They’re feminine. If you’re in your masculine frame you don’t do that.
/r/seduction06/09/19 02:35 PM
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Please don’t fuck this up. She’s already decided she will fuck you do all you can do is talk yourself out of it at this point. Stop double texting. Stop using emojis. Don’t ‘ask’ her what time, give her a time and say ‘see you then’. And then leave it. You don’t ask things like “what’s your drink of choice” over text, either. You get to know her in person. Texting is strictly for setting up in person meetings when you’re texting a girl. And don’t call.
/r/seduction05/09/19 08:31 PM
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This is such a great post bro, I feel EXACTLY the same way and I literally never thought I’d built up this kind of mental fortitude/ self love. You really need to internalize it and realize it’s a process. But the most important ‘game’ technique or anything else in life is literally loving yourself unconditionally, and thereby commanding respect for yourself. The rest follows
/r/seduction03/09/19 05:39 PM
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I guess just needed to vent
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:59 AM
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Being straightforward & real w girls works, lol. They sense the bs. Congrats on the sex bro
/r/seduction17/06/19 10:39 PM
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What’s the point of life if you don’t self indulge
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:11 AM
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Right off the bat you just seem to desperate and invested in the result. Don’t be result oriented. Focus on the process, know that rejection is good.
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:47 PM
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Good job for conquering your fears but you gotta stop with the stalkerish type convos, bro. Just be chill lmao
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:11 PM
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Get off reddit and start talking to girls. Sounds harsh, but it’s true. Start working out, dressing nice, and talking care of yourself. Then start talking to people wherever you are, making conversation until you’re good at it. And talk to people simply just to talk to them,, not because they’re girls or because you want to hit on them.
/r/seduction16/04/19 01:40 AM
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Good post lad
/r/seduction16/04/19 01:20 AM
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The fuck it zone is a great place to be in
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:54 AM
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The fact that you wrote an entire essay on a single broad makes me believe you’re overthinking it. Relax.
/r/seduction05/04/19 09:17 PM
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100? Dude how can you validated wasting so much time on approaching girls? Is it worth it? I’d rather be improving myself in some way.
/r/seduction05/04/19 09:08 PM
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You seemed very obviously desperate, nervous, kiddish, etc. to talk to her, and you were way more enthusiastic than she was. Don’t be desperate and don’t focus on results. Play it cool.
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:41 PM
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You have to be a special piece of shit to do something like that. Glad y’all agree
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:53 PM
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Lmaoo
/r/seduction09/03/19 05:39 PM
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I know exactly what you mean... honestly I can’t be fucked to waste my time w girls that come off as blatantly arrogant and spoiled though...
/r/seduction09/03/19 03:33 PM
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Dude you’re literally me. I need to try making these changes.
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:44 PM
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God damn you’re right
/r/seduction06/03/19 06:02 PM
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