Qwakeworld Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	What do you guys think of this? It's an email from my college. Why is "the goal" to end violence only against women and girls?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/11/22 07:39 PM
1	CMV: Most women also have a N count preference and threshold, it's just higher than the N count preference of men. Therefore it's hypocritical for women to shame men for having a preference as they also judge men's value over his sexual experiences. Would you care if some of that experience was with other men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 10:53 PM
-1	A high number of past sexual partners is unattractive to both men and women. Women are just more forgiving of it. Then you need to clarify you're talking about straight bodycount only. As it stands, women harshly judge men for engaging in the exact same behavior they engage in (i.e. sex with men).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 11:59 PM
1	A high number of past sexual partners is unattractive to both men and women. Women are just more forgiving of it. Women are just more forgiving of a high body count than men 100% incorrect. Per this survey: 63% of women, however, say they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 11:37 PM
0	CMV: the N count double standard is unfair, but so is being rejected for reasons beyond your control. The real reason is because men see a man’s touch as some inherently degrading thing and think of womens bodies as commodities that can be made “used up” or “dirty” by it It's not just men who see it this way. It's definitely not just men: Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men. No such differences were found for heterosexual and gay men’s ratin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 03:17 PM
16	CMV: the N count double standard is unfair, but so is being rejected for reasons beyond your control. how women are judged more when it comes to sleeping around and racking up a high N count This is often called unfair because it affects women more negatively when they are doing the same thing as men. Just the opposite. Women judge men very harshly for having slept with (too many) men. Per that survey, 63% of women won't date a man who has slept with another man even once. Men judge women for sleeping with (too many) men, but not that strictly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 01:51 PM
1	PPD has become the gender wars arena, especially when it comes to the sexual history of women. The reality if the 63%+ of women who won't date a bisexual man won't do so out of perao al insecurities not due to biphobia. Could it not just be preference, exactly like men who are turned off by women who have slept with too many men? What's really interesting to me is that just a few years ago you could fund a dozen studies on the topic with a quick Google search. Now I can't find one study with a quick search. Have they been removed or hidden? This is one, anyway: https://www.tandfonline.com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 07:39 PM
1	PPD has become the gender wars arena, especially when it comes to the sexual history of women. If it's misleading, it's only because it's never debated. Which is the point of the comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 07:28 PM
1	PPD has become the gender wars arena, especially when it comes to the sexual history of women. I think you misread my comment. Women seem to care more, not less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 07:02 PM
2	PPD has become the gender wars arena, especially when it comes to the sexual history of women. I don't recall ever seeing much controversy over this. 63% of women said they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with a man. Did you misread my comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 07:01 PM
8	PPD has become the gender wars arena, especially when it comes to the sexual history of women. That's the thing about polarizing topics, they engender a lot of debate. Nobody debates "do women care about how many guys a potential boyfriend has slept with?" because the answer is obvious (and not polarizing).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 05:29 PM
3	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? That's a dodge if I've ever seen one	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 10:48 AM
4	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? So Black men would lose these benefits if women held power instead, correct? Would they be worse off overall?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 02:00 AM
4	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? Does this benefit apply to Black men, or are we excluding them from this discussion	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 01:21 AM
3	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? Nope! Sure can't. You win!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 02:05 PM
2	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? You got me, there is no evidence that feminism is mainstream! Sorry for trying to trick you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 02:02 PM
4	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? What power do they actually have? Not sure how you haven't noticed, but feminism is mainstream now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 01:40 PM
1	Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”? If you want to compare apples to apples, 63% of women say they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 09:27 PM
5	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts It's definitely a double standard. It's NOT a double standard. Women think men who have slept with too many men are "gross", too. In fact, they generally have much lower tolerances for such behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 06:49 PM
5	Why do you think gay men and lesbians don't need to use red pill, fds and debate on subs like this? It's more than 50%. And still, taking away half of a man's dating pool is huge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 06:04 PM
13	Why do you think gay men and lesbians don't need to use red pill, fds and debate on subs like this? Bi men... have a slew of straight women to date in that case. Women don't date bi men as a rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 05:15 PM
-4	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD But my point is no one should be denigrated and seen as genuinely inferior based on genetic traits. That's exactly what not wanting to date someone is. If women are attracted to men in group A and not group B, that makes group B inferior. Full stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 08:30 PM
-1	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD but more would be willing to date short men because of less shame associated. I think you have it exactly backwards. There is "negative social stigma" around being short because women aren't attracted to short men. (Stigma is negative and social by definition, by the way)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 08:25 PM
4	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD There’s a reason those negative perceptions of short men exist and it’s because society has a negative perception of short men. You keep using the word "society" when you mean "women". Women don't want to date short men. Everything else stems from that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 08:21 PM
0	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD Probably no easier. Maybe even the same thing, actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 07:09 PM
1	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD Do what, exactly. You can't make people be attracted to something, as body positivity movements have demonstrated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 06:58 PM
6	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD But is it that much of a detriment IRL from 5’9 to 6 ft? Yeah	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 06:27 PM
22	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD No "Hang in there!" kitten?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 06:25 PM
1	Are a majority of women Bi? There's no middle for men because women overwhelming reject bi men. A bi man who can't get sex from women is just gay in practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 11:47 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread The goal is not to convince them. The goal is to convince others that they are wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 04:21 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread The fetus isn't separate. It's literally in a person's body. And where are its rights? Not in the constitution, certainly. A fetus has no rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 04:13 PM
5	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Perhaps because what you do to your body should be between you and your doctor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 04:09 PM
5	How much impact do cultural factors have on who we find sexually attractive? How do cultural influences change who we find attractive? Not exclusively, but yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 02:50 PM
8	How much impact do cultural factors have on who we find sexually attractive? How do cultural influences change who we find attractive? Music trends. Not kidding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 02:44 PM
3	Quicksand of Memory by Michael J Malone: A new book about violence, its causes, how to overcome it and misandrist blickers society has surunded it with No, because it wouldn't load in my browser	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/22 05:16 PM
5	Quicksand of Memory by Michael J Malone: A new book about violence, its causes, how to overcome it and misandrist blickers society has surunded it with This "news" site is pure cancer	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/22 04:10 PM
19	We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys Maybe the old ones are. Recent Disney movies are all-in on the Strong Woman trope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 03:43 PM
-19	normalising single men and encouraging men not to have children We need to normalise being single for a man and maybe using their weapons; make single men 'strong, independent men' who 'don't need no woman'. What does this even mean? Literally, what does "make single men strong, independent men" mean. How do you "make" them that?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/22 11:34 PM
2	Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinity yes, but 'being a man' doesn't have to be toxic. I think Maher's point is that yes, it does. At least a little.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 01:27 PM
3	When do you think something is, or isn't, a gender issue? Damsels in distress is the oldest trope in the book. It attracted eyeballs then, it attracts eyeballs now.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/03/22 02:45 PM
1	When do you think something is, or isn't, a gender issue? "Gendered issue" is a just euphemism for "women's issue".	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/03/22 02:42 PM
15	Are women just more queer than men? There is. Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men. No such differences were found for heterosexual and gay men’s ratings of female and male profiles, respectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 12:58 PM
3	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? What era do you think was the healthiest in terms of sexual interaction between men and women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 04:43 PM
0	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? Cool. As long as we're polite and don't say these things out loud, then problem solved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 04:19 PM
2	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? So do you think we could eliminate toxic masculinity by forcing women to change what they are attracted to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 04:17 PM
2	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? Possibly. By all means, please explain what you think I missed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 04:09 PM
1	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? As you said in your original post, it's only implied. Nobody goes around saying "you do not meet my standards" to people's faces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 04:03 PM
0	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? Good luck. You can't change what people are attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 03:47 PM
3	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? I mean, if you don't meet a standard, you are "less-than" by definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 03:46 PM
-2	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? So, standards are inherently "an issue"...?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 03:39 PM
1	Lesbians, how hard it is to date women? No: Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men. No such differences were found for heterosexual and gay men’s ratings of female and male profiles, respectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 02:34 PM
1	Lesbians, how hard it is to date women? You can also see that when men are asked if they'd date a bisexual (without any other qualifiers) the answer is often "no, I'd just have sex with her" and "only for threesomes". Do you have a source on this claim? Because it directly contradicts the study I posted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 12:34 PM
14	Lesbians, how hard it is to date women? Actually guys don't care. Women care a lot though. Study. Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men. No such differences were found for heterosexual and gay men’s ratings of female and male profiles, respectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 11:00 PM
0	Why do people use the term "deserve" within an entirely free social dynamic like dating? Men don't "deserve" (good), men are "entitled" (bad).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 03:10 PM
1	Women pretending to care about n-count is an angle. In your mind, is women policing men's sexuality better than women policing men's n-count? Assuming, for the sake of argument, that they even make a distinction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 01:51 PM
2	Women pretending to care about n-count is an angle. If only men matter to n count, then the likelihood for a woman to reject a man would increase as his amount of male partners increased, and not just between one and zero Says who? It can be a binary thing. People reject partners if they've ever done ___ all the time. Think major crimes, hard drugs, violence, whatever. I've never heard anyone say "5 murders at his age is too many. 4 I could live with." Also note nowhere did I say "only men matter to n count" or similar. I do think they matter a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 11:01 PM
3	Women pretending to care about n-count is an angle. Note that the actual number of how many men a man has sex with isn't being discussed. It is, the number is either 0 or more than 0. It's very strict. Or they care because of what it says about his sexuality. Do you have any evidence of this at all? I'm guessing it would have to be something showing women being fine with dating straight men who have had sex with other men. Absent that, we have to stick with 63% of women, however, say they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 10:20 PM
4	Women pretending to care about n-count is an angle. Why? This statement is very clear to me: 63% of women, however, say they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man Ergo, women care about a man's n-count. To an extreme degree, really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 09:25 PM
4	Women pretending to care about n-count is an angle. No, because per this survey: 63% of women, however, say they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man And differentiating between "bisexual man" and "man who has had sex with other men" is splitting hairs in any case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 09:03 PM
5	Women pretending to care about n-count is an angle. I don't think what you've written is accurate; this study contradicts it pretty emphatically. The takeaway (from the abstract): Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men. No such differences were found for heterosexual and gay men’s ratings of female and male profiles, respectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 08:38 PM
2	Women pretending to care about n-count is an angle. If any of those Ns are other men then they care a lot. As in, one is too many. If you look at n-count sidewise it actually is a lot simpler: people generally care about their partner's male n-count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 07:52 PM
6	Men, women and murder - effects on the SMP/RMP It's a story because female victimhood is always a story. Damsels in distress is the oldest trope in the book. We eat it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 03:16 PM
2	What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities? The closest I think we'll come to answering that question statistically is this: Around 2/3rds of straight women wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man. For a straight man, being perceived as gay by women is close to sexual death. Point being, you can you blame men if you want for avoiding "feminine stuff", but the reason isn't exclusively (or even principally) how other men react. How women react has a huge impact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 01:45 AM
1	What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities? I think most liberal women would appreciate it Intellectually, sure. Does it affect how sexually attracted they are to the guy, though. That's the important question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 01:07 AM
2	What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities? Because other men What do women think about men who do "feminine stuff"? Specifically, does it affect how they look at these men sexually?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 11:40 PM
32	It’s unsettling when women see men and men’s rights differently when they have a son. I mean, would it kill the mods to implement a "no generalizations in your title" rule? I'd wager the source of at least half of their problems on that sub are the "DAE MEN?" post titles.	/r/MensRights	13/06/21 07:30 PM
1	Why won’t you go gay for pay? My point is that women, especially, are the ones who enforce these standards on men. You said you use to do this yourself. Men don't want to be perceived as gay, because then women overwhelmingly would reject them romantically. The hard truth, frankly, is that blaming "society" is just a way of avoiding holding women accountable for their role in all of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 02:08 PM
3	Why won’t you go gay for pay? Even bi women can think this way? That... makes it worse. Maybe that 2/3 metric applies to all women, not just straight women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 01:49 PM
2	Why won’t you go gay for pay? The thing is, you would no longer be "straight", especially in the eyes of women (whom you want to date). You'll be labeled as gay and that's that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 08:36 PM
1	Why won’t you go gay for pay? Why would you think that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 08:31 PM
5	Why won’t you go gay for pay? 2/3rds of straight women will not date a man who has had sex with another man. These women believe in gender/sexual fluidity in the abstract, but not for the men they actually date. All the other issues aside, doing gay porn would be absolutely ruinous to a straight man's romantic life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 05:21 PM
1	Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxic I don't disagree with any of this. I'm more asking if there are benefits to any of these behaviors that go along with their downsides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/19 05:55 PM
2	Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxic So they're saying there are trade-offs to being a masculine man. As in, there are good things about it and bad things about it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/19 03:22 PM
0	Blind recruitment trial to boost gender equality making things worse, study reveals This is old	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/18 10:37 PM