R0ZPIERDALAT0R Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
439	I did it! I asked a random girl out in a bar with her friends present	Field Report	R0ZPIERDALAT0R	/r/seduction	07/06/22 11:39 PM

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1	How to transition into sex when in bed Just start with a kiss or just start in general. If she’s up for it, she’s up for it and you’ll know immediately	/r/seduction	08/09/24 06:27 PM
6	I approached my Gym crush and got rejected My advice is forget her and try elsewhere. I know she's your crush, but if she doesn't feel the same, then it just can't happen - unless she changes her mind and starts giving you signals. If you keep persisting when she already said "no" and she knows you know she got a boyfriend, you will only make her dislike you. Plus you probably don't want her leaving her boyfriend for you anyway. If she leaves him for someone she just met, then she will do that to you too. Though yeah, if she leaves him o…	/r/seduction	08/05/24 02:21 PM
6	I approached my Gym crush and got rejected To me it's very simple. You approach, make a conversation to see if anything's there, if she responds positively and you have a laugh together you ask her out. You can also just ask her out outright as well as you have nothing to lose really. If she says yes - great! If she says no - there's likely nothing you could have done any different anyway. Take it well, be chill, say "ah, no stress. Have a good day!" or sth like that and move on to the next one [though of course not immediately, lol]. Se…	/r/seduction	08/05/24 01:49 PM
1	How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates? UPDATE: She actually replied! She clearly only checks her messages no more often than 24 hours apart. We're going out tomorrow!	/r/seduction	22/10/22 04:28 PM
2	How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates? I’m at the point, where even oh so rare successes are rejections, haha The one girl that aggreed on going out, quite eagerly even, ghosted me straight after. Same goes for tinder matches - no response. So you can say 100% are rejections. But hey, gotta keep on trying I guess. At least my gym accepts me :-)	/r/seduction	20/10/22 10:22 PM
15	Does ignoring girls work? Fair enough. Thanks :-)	/r/seduction	19/10/22 06:25 PM
15	Does ignoring girls work? Got ya. She's coming over tomorrow. I guess I'll see how it goes and if she pulls the "Whatever, entertain me peasant" all of sudden, I'll tell her I don't want to see her again and that's that. Cheers man	/r/seduction	19/10/22 06:08 PM
58	Does ignoring girls work? Holy shit, man, you've literally cracked the code. I'm seeing a girl that does exactly that. Drives me nuts, I didn't know what her deal was - until now. What would you suggest? Leave her and on to the next one?	/r/seduction	19/10/22 05:59 PM
4	Did my first cold approach today and feeling like shit That's fair enough. What is a proper response to a girl behaving like that though? It may have not have been a right thing to say, but I don't blame the guy for being confused.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 06:49 AM
9	Did my first cold approach today and feeling like shit Mate, you have balls! It's hard enough to approach at all, and especially with her friends around! She reacted like that because she was super shy and probably wasn't interested. That's her problem, not yours. It's a bit disrespectful to hide behind people like that and not even say anything, but you shouldn't stress about it. Just hope the next girl you approach is a little bit more mature. If I may add one more thing - from what you said about the gym and the way the whole interaction impacted…	/r/seduction	17/09/22 06:44 AM
29	Day gaming at grocery store? That is brilliant	/r/seduction	28/06/22 08:32 AM
1	So I’m going to coffee with this really hot girl tomorrow afternoon Remember about the most important thing which is to have fun. Just go and enjoy yourself, don’t focus on trying to impress anyone.	/r/seduction	24/06/22 11:30 PM
4	It's offensive NOT to approach a girl I wouldn't like to be with a girl who dumped her boyfriend for me (unless I knew she was unhappy with him). I'd be too scared she would dump me for someone else too.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 08:06 AM
2	How To Be Polarizing (And Why This Attracts So Many Hotties) I'm shocked it has so little upvotes. A lot of insightful stuff there, thanks!	/r/seduction	21/06/22 05:10 AM
1	I have approach anxiety, I keep missing obviously interested girls because I’m too much of a wuss. I need some help Not saying that women approaching men are desperate, just that they may appear so in minds of women who choose not to approach. You wrote it's confusing why so many men think women can't approach them and I gave you my theory. Of course you shouldn't sit back - take action if you feel like it. I certainly wouldn't mind if a woman approached me.	/r/seduction	19/06/22 04:30 PM
0	I have approach anxiety, I keep missing obviously interested girls because I’m too much of a wuss. I need some help WHOA, your username gave me the spookers! : D I'm not saying women can't approach men, just that they choose not to do so. It's always been men that are the ones proposing and taking action, it's pretty much engraved in our culture. In the light of that, if the woman is the one hitting on men, it may make her be seen as desperate and unable to attract attention on her own which in result makes her appear undesirable. I'm definitely not saying that's the actual case, just that this may be a subco…	/r/seduction	19/06/22 04:11 PM
2	I have approach anxiety, I keep missing obviously interested girls because I’m too much of a wuss. I need some help nah mate, women don't approach. Maybe one in a hundred will, but it's very rare. Even if that would be the case, waiting to be approached is not a good strategy. Never worked in my 20s, I can tell you that much : D	/r/seduction	19/06/22 12:58 PM
4	ATX Field Report Good on you, man! I gotta say I'm a bit confused about B2 though. If she has a boyfriend and doesn't want to fuck it up, why would she still give you her number? If you know that she's got a boyfriend, why would you take that number? I'm not judging or anything, genuinely curious. It's just seems pointless to me. Also, can you speak a bit more about the "moves" you put on? What are they specifically? I'm quite new to the game and it's not as obvious to me.	/r/seduction	19/06/22 12:32 PM
4	How do you develop confidence? By asking women out. You’ll be more confident with every next try. Don’t do it for the number (although you might get one!), but just for practice. When your goal is to just verbally ask her out in the first place, you will always succeed. You’ll also be fine with rejection, which makes you appear more confidentas well. Frankly, every time I ask a someone out I feel like a boss right after, even if I’m getting rejected. And the women usually respect it too and are visibly happy :-) First time I …	/r/seduction	12/06/22 10:43 AM
6	Approaching girls in bars problems. The first one: I’d literally just come up, pardon for interrupting, introduce yourself to the girl that you fancy, say that you find her really cute and ask if she would line to have a drink with you and/or go out sometime. If she’s not interested for whatever reason, she’ll tell you and you move on. If she is, she’ll give you her number or have that drink with you one on one. Takes balls this one, but is also more powerful because of that. About the secondary one: sounds like problem with your …	/r/seduction	12/06/22 10:30 AM
2	The feeling of asking someone out, taking your shot and getting rejected, is a WAY better feeling than beating yourself up for not asking at all. Move on, plenty fish in this sea. Or ask her out regardless, pretending you don’t know she’s taken, just for practice and the adrenaline boost :-)	/r/seduction	12/06/22 10:21 AM
3	The feeling of asking someone out, taking your shot and getting rejected, is a WAY better feeling than beating yourself up for not asking at all. Yes sir!! I don’t even count on getting the number, I just do it for fun and adrenaline rush.	/r/seduction	12/06/22 10:17 AM
3	I did it! I asked a random girl out in a bar with her friends present what a great and informative reply, thank you!	/r/seduction	08/06/22 06:51 AM
11	I did it! I asked a random girl out in a bar with her friends present I appreciate your response, but I'm far from that stage, you know. Barely built up a courage to just talk to her in a first place. Also, I wouldn't want to be with a girl who dumps her boyfriend for me (unless she's unhappy with him), cause she would probably dump me for another guy as well. Wouldn't feel very safe.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 12:34 AM
1	So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary? No matter what you do for living, a visible gun is a turn-off in flirt-related situations	/r/seduction	07/06/22 11:47 PM
1	How to view women as people? I'd start with quitting watching porn.	/r/seduction	11/11/21 12:08 AM
1	Failed Mate, don't feel bad! As someone posted down already you shot your shot. That's all men can do and that's what they SHOULD do. In my eyes you've won that encounter. The only thing you've done wrong is giving her your number. You should have asked for hers instead. Women don't call men by principle, it's sort of their role to be "conquered", not to be the "conquerors". Since she said she's gonna call you I don't think the case is lost. What I'd do is I'd go back there and say something like: "Ok,…	/r/seduction	10/11/21 11:57 PM