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OYS 9 (previous user u/RockyGibbs) 35 LTR 5 yrs | Married 1 yr | No kids yet 5'9" | 185 lbs | 24% BF 1RMs (lbs): BP 230 | OHP 160 | SQ 275 | DL 315 ​ Long time no post. Been extremely busy. Need to start writing these again, as I've regressed and lost focus on a few things. ​ PURPOSE AND MISSION Purpose/Long-Term Goal: Obtain complete freedom so I can pivot my life into science and art, use the gifts God gave me to discover and create, and enhance the lives of myself, my family, and my community…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 07:46 PM
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​ Why would you still want to be with her as opposed to another woman? Everyone is replaceable (including me), but at her best she has enhanced my life and made me better. It hasn't felt like that as consistently for the last two years, but I actually wouldn't be as successful as I am today if she hadn't pushed and helped me. I know the goodness she is capable of when I am strong enough to bring it out of her. I could also make the argument that I wouldn't have made several improvements this yea…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 07:54 PM
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Honestly I’m not from your culture so I will have to take it as true, but are you happy with this? What is the strategy and goal here? I am not satisfied, but I honestly think she is immature and will learn that this isn't ok - particularly after I speak with her this trip. Getting married and moving out of her parents' house is a significant change for her. Saying that she is close to her family is an understatement. She has some serious attachment issues, but not all of it is bad. Her family i…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 07:42 PM
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I don't intend to drown, but I won't start lowering the lifeboat to abandon ship until I feel like there is no other option. I want to navigate through this storm with everything I have. I actually do have some contingencies planned just in case. I have full control of our finances and could remove her from literally everything in less than an hour if needed. If things don't go my way these next few weeks, I will reassess and go from there. Despite all of this, I am becoming the man I want to be…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 06:32 PM
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Why? and for how long? A couple of big fights. Mostly about money. Almost two months now. In our religion/her culture it is common for people to be away from their spouses for prolonged periods of time if they are visiting family or sick members of the community. She knows she also fucked up before she left and is taking advantage of this dynamic to avoid taking responsibility for how she has damaged our relationship (she never will - AWALT). I interpret this separation as a major and prolonged …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 02:40 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/bq3rez/handling\_a\_fearfulavoidant\_wife/ Amazing read. I found it about a month ago and it has helped a lot. There were several things in there that really are, for lack of a better word, "exceptions" to some of the general rules here. ​ Her hamster goes into overdrive, the stuff she’ll imagine is like something from a paranoid schizophrenic. If you STFU, she’ll take it to mean she’s right. If you A&A it, she’ll take it literally. You have to co…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 01:24 AM
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OYS 9 (previous user /u/RockyGibbs) 35 LTR 4.5 years | Married 10 months | No kids yet 5'9" | 180 lbs | 23% BF 1RMs (lbs): BP 227.5 | OHP 160 | SQ 275 | DL 305 ​ PURPOSE AND MISSION Purpose/Long-Term Goal: Obtain complete freedom so I can pivot my life into science and art, use the gifts God gave me to discover and create, and enhance the lives of myself, my family, and my community. Current Mission: Make More Money and Dominate Career ​ CAREER Working both jobs is manageable. I am going to push…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 09:21 PM
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Oneitis for work, you could call it. Well put. I have a single resume, but I have three cover letters for the three different related positions I apply to. You could do the same for resumes. Make sure you are applying to things that make you more money, even if you don't feel you are fully-qualified yet. If you have a good resume and interview well, a good employer will hire you and help you grow into the position. A lot of people don't advance in their career and miss out on a lot of opportunit…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/23 01:33 PM
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Correction: macros for individual meals
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/23 04:38 AM
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Haven't heard back regarding a new job opportunity I was scoping out. I thought I did really well on the application and pre-interviews and I know I'm a fit for the role (I also have history with the manager). I can feel a bit of ego showing in that I feel like I should have been called in again. It's not good and it makes me realize I need to work on some basic stuff regarding my career if I my ego can't handle a single rejection like this. This is a very good personal observation. I can actual…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/23 10:56 PM
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and then was told by a mod to buy some ice cream and listen to Mariah Carey on repeat with all the rest of the lonely ladies of the world.. LMFAO
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/23 06:13 PM
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OYS 8 (previous user /u/RockyGibbs) 35 LTR 4.5 years | Married 10 months | No kids yet 5'9" | 183 lbs | 24% BF 1RMs (lbs): BP 227.5 | OHP 157.5 | ATG SQ 265 | DL 305 ​ PURPOSE AND MISSION Purpose/Long-Term Goal: Obtain complete freedom so I can pivot my life into science and art, use the gifts God gave me to discover and create, and enhance the lives of myself, my family, and my community. Current Mission: Make More Money and Dominate Career ​ CAREER Started second job. Onboarding with first job…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/23 04:33 PM
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There was a woman there who I've known for a while who is divorced and we started flirting a bit. BUT I realized she is a hotter and more dangerous version of my STBX. Lots of control issues, many orbiter dudes, giant fragile ego, no self awareness. At one point I starting feeling the save-a-ho urge that was a big feature of my marriage. Letting this lie because there are so many downsides. Don't step on your own dick and talk yourself out of this. Look at what you wrote: you are automatically a…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/23 02:33 PM
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OYS 7 (previous user /u/RockyGibbs) 35 LTR 4.5 years | Married 10 months | No kids yet 5'9" | 182 lbs | 24% BF 1RMs (lbs): BP 227.5 | OHP 157.5 | ATG SQ 265 | DL 305 ​ PURPOSE AND MISSION Purpose/Long-Term Goal: Obtain complete freedom so I can pivot my life into science and art, use the gifts God gave me to discover and create, and enhance the lives of myself, my family, and my community. Current Mission: Make More Money and Dominate Career ​ ​ SIDEBAR Current: MAP, NMMNG Exercises Done: EoD, R…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/23 12:46 PM
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Time is wealth. The goal should be making the most money with the least personal time spent. I agree with the sentiment. I am very good and efficient at my work. The only reason I fell behind is because I have been lazy, which I am addressing. I honestly don't anticipate being in front of my computer for more than 30 hours a week, even with this second job. If I am, I can just quit after I have paid back my debt. Agreed on all other points. I can do better.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/23 08:51 PM
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Though I practice a religion, I am not a very superstitious person and believe evidence should almost always be a precursor to action in the real world. However, as I've gotten older I have learned to listen to my gut. When it is trying to tell you something, you really, REALLY need to listen to it. Your initial explanation for why it is trying to get your attention may not always be correct, but if your gut is acting up something is definitely going on or might be very soon. The easiest way to …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/23 08:43 PM
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I think there’s value in resetting and continue leading with regards to the vacation(s). But like you said, letting her figure out how she can get to go with an awesome man and have fun instead of what happened here. I agree. I prefer she go with me, but I need to lead her into doing so without letting her affect my plans or manipulating her via a covert contract. I will plan my vacation around what works best for me and not prioritize timing it around her other trip with her friends. I think do…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/23 04:21 PM
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A fear of mine resurfaced and I wanted to handle it better. My LTR has a close male friend and she went out to hang with him. My fear was of them having an intimate physical relationship. I don't think anything physical has ever happened, but I do feel like there's some emotional connection that they have. Red flag. She is clearly keeping her options open and can branch swing any time that you fuck up. Your lifts are good for your size, but if you don't have other important aspects of your shit …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/23 11:49 PM
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OYS 6 (previous user /u/RockyGibbs) 35 LTR 4.5 years | Married 9 months | No kids yet 5'9" | 182 lbs | 24% BF (lbs) BP 220 | OHP 155 | ATG SQ 265 | DL 295 PURPOSE AND MISSION Purpose/Long-Term Goal: Obtain complete freedom so I can pivot my life into science and art, use the gifts God gave me to discover and create, and enhance the lives of myself, my family, and my community. Current Mission: Make More Money and Dominate Career ​ READING Current: MAP, NMMNGx2 + Exercises Done: RQ, PRAX, TRM1-4,…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/23 06:52 PM
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