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1	If you agree that men are polygynous and instinctively desire multiple women, what does that mean for you, personally? It means you should deny your animal nature in order to maintain some sort of moral and ethical consistency. The same expectation is set to women in regards to hypergamy. Although that doesn't mean you shouldn't try to be better yourself. Surely, there are other reasons besides sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/21 11:28 PM
1	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. Haha that was a fun post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 02:31 PM
2	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. Valid	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 02:14 PM
2	Only the wealthy and affluent can actually afford to have children I know a couple where the mom is stay at hime and the dad does labor at a paint company. The mom takes care of there 4(?) kids. They might have more now. They have a rinky dink house and seem fine. The guy has two brothers with their own lives that visit the kids occasionally, probably help out and buy them a treat. Obviously, you'd want to be more well off but if that dude can do it I dont see why its a rich only deal. On the otherhand, I know dudes working for 15-20/hr at Banking and factory j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/21 10:51 PM
1	Questions for Purple Pill Men. a) non trumatic bullying b) nah c) currently? No it comes and goes and I've been dealing with it since I was 14 d) buds, bug extended family, church e) it'd solve a few f) no, my higher n-count buds have their fair share of issues g) yes, sisters can be very uncooperative at times. Women in general? I stick with the ones that aren't petty h) yes. Sisters, mother, cousins, a few women friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 08:23 AM
2	Why do people mess up a good thing? When they have a good woman or man? Why do people tend to ruin it? Ever play with blocks as a kid? You stack em up and make this awesome tower and when you're done, the most satisfying option is to crash the whole thing to the ground.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/21 07:47 AM
1	If you're unhappy with the status quo, how should things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them? So as to not offend anyone with my Christianity, I'll word it as: don't sex up someone unless you're sincerely willing to take responsibility for all the consequences that would have resulted without modern birth control, abortion, STD medication, child support, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 03:05 AM
1	If you're unhappy with the status quo, how should things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them? What is your body count tho? Like 97 million? I personally don't think asking is an issue. Its part of the whole transparency, honesty thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 02:59 AM
1	If you're unhappy with the status quo, how should things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them? I've been wiping wrong my whole life it seems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 02:56 AM
1	Would you trade places? Hell no. I dont want to deal with women issues. Besides, I like the natural musculature my body is inclined to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 02:48 AM
3	How do men want women to behave? Oof. Imagine not giving special treatment and deference to your lifelong partner but doing it for some casual relationship 10 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 01:14 AM
2	Would you rather share the man of your dreams, or have a lesser man all to yourself? Why'd you make option B so shit? Can't it just have been a normal dude?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/21 03:31 AM
0	Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners? Yea but I also wanna do something with the bread. Just getting bread is boring. If said wife wants to stay at home then all I ask is that she actually do something with it else she might as well work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 08:33 PM
4	Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you? Your situation is a little more extreme but yea. If I could channel all my sex drive and attraction into motivation, I'd do it. I'd very muuch like to be a hermit but I like women too much to not be social.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 08:13 PM
1	Womens new obsession with calling men pedophiles Both were 5'0 and wearing bulkier warm clothing. Her friend, especially, looks a lot like a young boy either her thin build and her short haircut.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 04:23 PM
1	Conservative men who want female submission but don't want to pay for it You made it more specific though. A woman who has worked hard who is more successful can be willing to submit. By say "career woman who has sacrificed a lot" you're creating an image of a specific type person with a specific temperament which, I agree wouldn't submit. My sister mkes more as a doctor but she's with a common army man. If the disparity is not massive and the man has some level of personal strength and status (cuz army is still repsected and he's a good dude as well so it compounds)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 04:13 PM
1	Despite the post-modern pro-feminist and pro-communist rhetoric, 'The Queen's Gambit' isn't bad. It's alright. At least she learns some responsibility by the end of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 12:44 AM
0	Conservative men who want female submission but don't want to pay for it You are thinking of traditional methods without none if the historical religious influence for people to be moral. If thats the case, then yea, tradcon men and women are at a loss. I would also say that a women who makes more and has a better job who does submit would likely be submitting genuinely as opposed to one whose best economical choice is submission. Submission isn't about the amount of power disparity they have but the relinquishing of it to the other party.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 11:54 PM
1	Are any of you guys religious? Has it influenced your view on relationships or gender I don't know if that part about the upset population is true for this sub. Most of the vocal red/black pill, MGTOW folk are non-religous. In any case they seem to bash tradcons a lot which monotheistic religious people tend more towards. As for the women, the vocal ones also came to be quite promiscuous which doesn't fly in most religions. I would call them bitter as well. Lastly, the rhetoric on this sub seems to have a fixation on sex out of marriage whether as leverage or as a goal (plates). …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 11:39 PM
1	Are any of you guys religious? Has it influenced your view on relationships or gender Christian. Yes it has influenced me a lot. My lack of happiness is more from my own ineptitude but I am content with having to work on that. In general though, I despise how the majority of men and women think about relationships but that's what it be so it doesn't bother me much. For the most part, I see people who are too selfish or too spineless. My take on gender roles is basically, you can have your freedom if expression BUT you have obligations you need to fulfill so do them. A healthy doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 11:30 PM
1	I’m a 19 year old female woman AMA Sweet	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 06:47 PM
1	Why is it that most positions of financial and political power are taken by men? Haha thanks for the laugh. As a side note, fathers are really underappreciated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 05:45 PM
1	Which country should I choose to import a mail order husband from? I'm just making a 2nd grade butt joke. Inspired by a post earlier about a butt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 05:40 PM
1	I get disappointed when people generalize a gender based off some toxic ex Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 05:32 PM
1	Womens new obsession with calling men pedophiles Wow thats hilarious. My ex and her friend are short and they were mistaken as children when they came to one of my events. It was very awkward when I introduced her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 05:29 PM
1	Your so triggered by FDS because it calls you out on your bs & manipulative behavior. I meant the "go back to grade school". I thought it was sarcasm to comment on people who are overly sensitive (on the internet) about grammar and spelling. Also the fact that he/she said "cumbrain". It sounds more funny than an insulting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 05:25 PM
1	Which country should I choose to import a mail order husband from? Djibouti	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 05:20 PM
2	Guess the N-count 😘 Ah don't be like that. I personally still find butt jokes funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 05:16 PM
1	A challenge is how God wanted it to be I don't know if all of that is biblically sound, dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 03:49 PM
2	This tradwife gets it. Why is it so hard for so many to understand that real happiness comes from motherhood and making a home? or that men lose their purpose when they don't find anybody to provide for? Are you serious with this or is it bait for people to berate tradcons?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 03:44 PM
2	Do you ACTUALLY want a woman to “settle” for you? No one wants to be settled for but RP theory states that men are often settled for by women. The idea is that women don't accept the reality of their situation which is that they're not that great and the really top tier folk are gonna get together. So instead of accepting herself and Joe Schmoe as being on the sams level, she berates him so she can keep the idea that she deserves better. That she is not a Plain Jane. So if we let things play out but add men "knowing their worth" then they kick …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 01:45 PM
2	The only way to ensure sexual compatibility is to have sex relatively early on. Nah but if two people wanna wait it out then they should likely willing to work out any kinks. Learning and adapting to said partner should get it a good level. If they cant work it out then lets hope that couple has moral integrity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:52 PM
1	I'm a 17 y/o girl, AMA Keep your alts if you know they're good. If you're bot sure I'd move it to bitcoin. Even if it doesn't grow as high as is projected, its gonna be a safe investment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:43 PM
1	What's your favorite wine? There's a great semi-sweet elderberry wine from a local winery. Its only like 10 bucks. Theres a sweet version as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:33 PM
2	Why are men here whining about CC riders and hyper-sexual women with high n counts? It's not like any of you want a church-going virgin. I do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:31 PM
2	Why are men here whining about CC riders and hyper-sexual women with high n counts? It's not like any of you want a church-going virgin. Because of the forgiveness thing? Sheesh. I guess we could go back to stoning adulterers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:30 PM
0	Why is it acceptable for men to age but if a woman does we’re considered unattractive? I mean. Technically its biological so its not weird at all. Plus I think it has to do with fertility. If a woman is 50 but looks 30 then the hind brain thinks she is still fertile. Something like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:25 PM
1	Are u guys idiots Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:17 PM
1	Why does everyone believe TRP is related to being an incel or someone who doesn’t fuck? Because no one bothers to study the other viewpoints. Tbf I haven't looked into feminism either. I'd really rather not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:14 PM
2	Why are most men so unattractive!? Yup. Incels are actually quite deserving of empathy but like with everything else media will radicalize and divide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:13 PM
1	How many of you would convert for a girl? I'm already a christiam but if we're talking islam or something nah. I did know a guy who converted to Islam for his girl. Went to a bbq and he wasn't grilling any pork. Turns out muslim bbqs are amazing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 12:06 PM
1	Confession. The idea of having sex with a virgin girl makes me physically uncomfortable Yea what this person said. Its really not a big deal if you suck at something you've never done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 11:57 AM
2	Am I a less worthy woman? I'm a Christian man and I feel guilty for not being a virgin so you situation with is understandable. I'd like to start by saying the rape was not your fault so don't let it burden you. People will say what they want but the truth is the truth. If you are a Christian then I would tell you to go read your Bible and pray. I don't know the verses well enough to point out any but the Gospels never fail. If you're not then I'll gell you that Jesus came to rid the world of sin and for you specifically…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 11:51 AM
1	What do you think about a woman with hairy legs? Physically its no problem. I live with my hairy legs and my hair pits so touching/seeing hair is no issue. It mayyers why they decided to not follow the norm. If its about feminidt empowerment then I will think they sre silly because its just hair. If its bcause they believe the practice is impractical and unhygenic then I will be rather pleased to meet them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 11:38 AM
1	What are your hobbies, or hobbies that you've gotten into during COVID? Darn, beat me to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 11:26 AM
1	The Cutest Incel Ever Poor dogs. Their owners chop off their balls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 11:22 AM
1	I’m a 19 year old female woman AMA Why are you doing this AMA? If you have an opinion you'd like to get out why don't you just say it? Its purge week after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 11:21 AM
10	Society be like With the current situation of moral relativity, no one's really gonna accept a man's own moral standard. The whole of PPD could be considered a discussion on relationship ethics. The old arguments have already been used to dissmiss any real moral backbone in favor of the feminist individualism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 10:58 AM
3	If you think women peak at 24 you're probably a pedophile Very informative. Detected no hints of defensiveness wrought from oneself matching the post description. Will remember this post next time I intend to call someone a pedophile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 10:48 AM
3	But at least you have a solid N Count though... Very well written. You know your redpill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 10:31 AM
1	CMV: Men On Here Believe In Chad So They Don't Have To Work If you work om your body so its at least in good shape you can still leverage what you have. Money and status should provide that opportunity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 10:25 AM
4	Your so triggered by FDS because it calls you out on your bs & manipulative behavior. I thought the initial comment was a joke but it sure didn't turn out that way. Fascinating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 10:16 AM
1	I Agree with Feminists. End Street Harassment!! THIS IS HOW: Steroids would also work for multiple reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 10:09 AM
2	Reminder that attractive people are smarter, more competent, and have far better personalities Damn. My head was smushed as an infant. Must be over for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 10:06 AM
1	How are there far more promiscuous women But far more virgins/sexless men than ever? Idk about that. At college campuses there's a huge disparity. I think the only virgin women I knew were the devout catholics and my sister. Or at least thats what I know based on what I've been told, have heard, and have seen. Theres even more disparity for the engineering population. I knew so many male nerds who got nothing. The female nerds usually had a lot of attention (from engineers cuz duh) and the regular engineering women mingled with engineering and non-engineering social circles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 09:54 AM
5	Why do we give kids and teachers so much time off? Dude, parent's are supposed to teach their kids. Do you really want kids to have so much time at school? Breaks should be used appropriately by parents to instruct their kids in some way (since most people don't farm anymore). As for university, technically students are supposed to be working or doing some form of apprenticeship during breaks. Winter break has less opportunities but a dilligent person can accomplish a lot during that time. Given how poor the education system is even at a Univers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/21 09:28 AM
1	what would you do with your life if you had been born a woman? This basically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/20 05:25 PM
1	CMV : Some ideas of modern day feminism are more damaging than anything else. What were they up to? Watched Enola Holmes when it came out and was shocked her mother's suffrage group had explosives planned. Totally thought she was gonna end up being a villain btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/20 04:06 PM
2	Honestly whats all the fuss about Body counts? Precisely. Unless those woman are just pump and dumps. You can be masculine without being particularly moral.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 07:39 PM
2	Honestly whats all the fuss about Body counts? The fantasy is that they can have that guy and so project the standards to Joe Schmoe	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 07:21 PM
3	Honestly whats all the fuss about Body counts? Then you might be tempted to try steak.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 07:19 PM
1	Honestly whats all the fuss about Body counts? While thats possible, it seems unlikely. Its like the idea of not marrying outside your religion (if you wanna keep it). It can work sure, but not often and not without its troubles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 07:18 PM
1	Honestly whats all the fuss about Body counts? Probably more guys are gonna have seconds at past 22. I know a lot of guys (me included) who are at 0-1.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 07:16 PM
3	In practice, is the red pill just the blue pill dressed in harsh/conservative language? Well put. Rollo's got the most developed presentation of redpill ideas imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 07:13 PM
1	Are you willing to happily sacrifice your career in order to support your more successful wife? No? I'd support as am able without habing to sacrifice the career. Maybe sacrifice sleep and time but tanking the career? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 06:28 PM
1	Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love? Indeed. Maybe we should do a poll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 04:44 PM
1	Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love? Who knows	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 04:28 PM
1	Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love? Romantic love is a type of exclusive commitment. Sex is not love BUT should sex ever be apart from love? My answer is no. Sex being special and exclusive gives the pair something to bond over which no one else shares. Its like in grade school when your best friend and you keep a secret. Not to mention the biological mechanism of seratonin release basically compelling attachment between a sexual couple. Almost like it was designed/evolved/whatever to keep people together. It's important that this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:46 AM
2	Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love? Romantic love is a type of exclusive commitment. Sex is not love BUT should sex ever be apart from love? My answer is no. Sex being special and exclusive gives the pair something to bond over which no one else shares. Its like in grade school when your best friend and you keep a secret. Not to mention the biological mechanism of seratonin release basically compelling attachment between a sexual couple. Almost like it was designed/evolved/whatever to keep people together. It's important that this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:46 AM
2	Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love? Romantic love is a type of exclusive commitment. Sex is not love BUT should sex ever be apart from love? My answer is no. Sex being special and exclusive gives the pair something to bond over which no one else shares. Its like in grade school when your best friend and you keep a secret. Not to mention the biological mechanism of seratonin release basically compelling attachment between a sexual couple. Almost like it was designed/evolved/whatever to keep people together. It's important that this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:45 AM
5	Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love? Romantic love is a type of exclusive commitment. Sex is not love BUT should sex ever be apart from love? My answer is no. Sex being special and exclusive gives the pair something to bond over which no one else shares. Its like in grade school when your best friend and you keep a secret. Not to mention the biological mechanism of seratonin release basically compelling attachment between a sexual couple. Almost like it was designed/evolved/whatever to keep people together. It's important that this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:45 AM
2	Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love? Thats a bad way if looking at it. If by low n you mean low experience (some low n have a lot of sex) thrn that's a better thing imo. They can learn with you and fine tune their skills for your particular tastes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:35 AM
1	Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love? Thats a bad way if looking at it. If by low n you mean low experience (some low n have a lot of sex) thrn that's a better thing imo. They can learn with you and fine tune their skills for your particular tastes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:34 AM
1	Does your Myers-Briggs score describe you and how you perceive dating? As for myself, I am an INTP. I didn't learn about this stuff until my break from dating but it certainly has explained my ineffectiveness 😄 as well as my one few successes. Here's one observation. Some guys chase the gal and they're good at it. Some guys chase the gal and it goes wrong until they stop. At that the point the gal does an about face and reciprocates. This is because some types are inherently more tuned to being wanter or the wanted. A simple example: alpha who sits back at takes th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:24 AM
2	Does your Myers-Briggs score describe you and how you perceive dating? Consider my comment on the main thread. I don't expect you to agree with it but it may be useful if you look into it. There is also a Facebook group with the name.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:08 AM
1	Does your Myers-Briggs score describe you and how you perceive dating? Check out the somewhat controversial CS Joseph and his take on typology. Not completely basless as he takes the ideas from a lot of prominent psycology folk but with a different spin. One important commentary is that the predominantly xxSJ culture has created the desireable male archetypes of bad boy/tough guy, handy man, artist, and brazillian/spanish/exotic lover. That would coincide with ESTP, ISTP, ISFP, and ESFP. The ESTJ male is also highly favored in society but has less romantic mystique…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 11:01 AM
2	CMV: TRP and FDS preselect for women and men who are fundamentally not healthy for a LTR It is relevant to TRP since it dismisses LTR on the basis that all women are bad from their preselection of bad women. Some TRP commentators have set LTR as am option albeit a losing one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 10:40 AM
1	Which aspect of your gender do you feel is most misunderstood/deserves more empathy from the opposite gender? What is the barrier to mutual understanding? That sometimes a man has to be a man and make his decision apart from the opinions of the women in his life. It's not because I'm inconsiderate or rude. Also, if I am being nice don't assume weakness. I am being considerate of you which you've previously been disgruntled that I wasn't doing when I was exercising autonomy. Basically, I will be amiable or assert as I see fit and it's not indicative of a lack of one or another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 09:38 AM
2	How true is the RedPill about female nature? The RedPill is an accurate depiction of the potential depravity and temptations present for women. Its like the desire to steal. There ought to be systems in place (like law for stealing) that make you question yourself and hopefully come to your senses. In the case of the west, these systems have been largely removed for female nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 09:30 AM
1	Are people this days less "datable"? Two fold. Standards have gone up and people have generally "degraded" due to various things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 09:22 AM
1	Are women who cold approach men low value? Nah. No correlation to value. Some women are more inclined to that and some men would be better off playing fisherman rather than hunter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 09:07 AM
1	Do you have friends from the opposite sex? What's the experience like? Friends are just friends. I don't expect anything else from them but if it hits off then I ain't got no problem with that either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 09:02 AM
3	What are the causes and consequences of the growing number of men who are not participating in society? Spot on. You win some and the world still shits on you. Opportunites are gone. To top it all off no one really wants or cares about you. Sounds like that Joker movie but I guess that would be an extreme case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 08:51 AM
1	Why is virginity shamed? Excellent answer. I'd add that its seems like in the past, you "become a man" so to speak and then get your woman and have sex. Thay would be back when the Beta side was actually highly valued. People started giving/getting sex really early subverting all the manhood stuff. It's associated with achieving the same manhood as derived from the past values but really its just exploiting the new circumstances for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/20 08:41 AM
1	Hey guys share your thoughts about this perspective - Do you consider sex as merely a form of action or is it more than that? Can it be equated to activities like Dancing or Singing? To me, sex is tied to matters of the heart. The heart which is explained songs and poetry. Sex exclusivity isn't really about the sex. Its about the exclusivity of the sex. The skill is secondary and honestly can probably be developed regardless of multiple sexual partners. My ex and I were virgins and we explored a lot of things on our own, making it good for both. People don't lose value per say but their sex sure loses value. Their commitment loses value. A person who sides with everyone (lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 11:02 PM
3	Q4ALL: PPD people who grew up in very conservative environments, do you feel it affected your relationship experiences or sexuality in any notable way? Sorry you had to go through that and thanks for sharing. I had a colleague who saw the same thing happening at her former church. It always shocks me that churches would let so many big things slide but condemn you for not dressing right. Seems like a resurgence of Pharisee-mentality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/20 06:57 PM
8	Q4ALL: PPD people who grew up in very conservative environments, do you feel it affected your relationship experiences or sexuality in any notable way? To be fair, in Proverbs 31 the woman is doing a lot of work in and for the community. Considering the jobs available for anyone at the time, she had a lot going for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/20 06:34 PM
1	Q4ALL: PPD people who grew up in very conservative environments, do you feel it affected your relationship experiences or sexuality in any notable way? Conservative christian upbringing. Sex and stuff was shamed but it wasn't constantly hung over like with the American evangelical groups. There was still a lot of talk though if someone did an "oopsie". We are asian so there's the asian shame all in your face too. The only change would be that my relationships weren't around sex. I'd like to say I held straight and that worked better for establishing frame but my only serious relationship was, for me, a moral trainwreck. I compromised on things …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/20 06:26 PM
1	Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid? To preface all problems are eliminated if the people are just. I get the feeling that your version of a patriarchy already comes with the implication that men would do the right thing. Male polygamy is destructive. In a patriarchy where polygamy is rampant there where will be those who are deprived, not necessarily because they are weak, but simply because some other men have that much more power than they. Aka a darwinian free for all. Eventually you'll reach critical mass where the disgruntled…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/20 12:34 PM
1	Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid? There are also aspects of male sexuality that must be kept in check. Patriarchies don't necessarily facilitate that. Rather patriarchies should only exist given that the men taking part are actually strong men who are also noble and just.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/20 11:16 AM
1	Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid? Men do though. Physically at least men are capavle and have done so. I'm no feminist though or anything. It seems apparent to me that both gender do this with their respective strengths. Men dominate with "hard" power so to speak and (as example) in an act of sexual violence it can be thougjt of that that the psyche is attacked through physical means (rape rids women of options at least in the moment). Women will do the same thing through "soft" power, mainly manipulation and social leverage (wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/20 11:12 AM
4	You don't have to meet the same standards that you set for potential partners Not all standards are equal and some aspects make up for others. I get what you mean though. Its good to call people out for not living better than they expect others to. E.g. I rejected a girl a few months back because, despite decent chemistry, she was much chunkier than I expected (partially due to good picture taking). I realized I should exercise and eat healthier if I was gonna reject someone over that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/20 10:50 PM
1	"I have a job, a house, and a fine group of friends and family. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand." Is this a rational thought? Irrational and wrong. You have to be your mental point of origin. Live and be as a man. That scenario you gave actually happens to a lot of people. They start losing themselves when in a relationship and become a mere shell. You have to be you apart from any others because a relationship is two people. Not a person + sex object.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 09:17 AM
11	Question for all: what is one thing you wish the opposite sex could understand? That the fix to gender issues isn't to say "oh you guys are bad so we're gonna be bad too". It's for both to be better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 09:01 AM