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R3ddit1sTh36ay/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:07 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/MensRights18/07/22 12:28 AM
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Lume deodorant... Hilarious commercials
/r/MensRights17/07/22 12:55 PM
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Don't change. You will attract the right kind of people and repel the wrong type, that's the way it should be. The people with the most "friends" have no actual personality and don't stand for anything.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 12:24 PM
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From a guys perspective, this is impossible to diagnose over the internet. You would have to know the cause of the problem to be able to convey it to us. It could be a ton of things from personality, behaviors, or even choices you have made. My advice is not to worry so much about the ones that bail, in fact the sooner they do so the better so you aren't wasting time with them. You will find someone, I promise.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/22 01:08 PM
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Reddit is a cesspool, it isn't representative of an actual majority opinion. Keep being you.
/r/MensRights16/05/22 07:00 AM
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We also shape each other. Men and women both respond to what the others generally like to increase their value with them. I don't really like body hair on women, that's not socially conditioned, it's personal preference. If there are more men in a society that really don't like it then chances are the women of the society will feel that pressure and adapt. A very good example of this is body weight, it's been changing a bit but overall men prefer skinner girls, will go for them over the larger o…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 10:02 PM
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As a male can confirm. Most of those things are actually negatives and not positives.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 04:24 PM
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Haha, I think most of them are married or in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/22 11:07 AM
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In regards to what? Every goal has a different approach, and comes with its own set of sacrifices.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 07:08 PM
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Male, can confirm this is the root. We aren't insecure about it, we just acknowledge it. Part of being a man is realizing you aren't going to get help or pity, you have to make your fortune. If you want certain results you have to change or do something to achieve them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 02:58 PM
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Well every man is different but it does seem true that men can separate feelings from sex easier. A man can be honestly in love and still be tempted to sleep around. I'm assuming but I believe that's because our hormones drive us more to sex than women. It's what causes simping, which is by far an embarrassing phenomenon. I can only assume it's the mirror of what causes the mothering behavior in women.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 11:06 AM
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Physical attraction and attraction to personality are very different things. And men invest emotionally too. I wouldn't worry about this as much as you are, just build a solid relationship, invest and it will more than likely pay dividends. We want to grow old with someone too, the hormones just knock it down the priority list a bit. If he's otherwise a good man, only you will know this, he won't want to hurt you in any way.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 11:05 PM
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As a male, it sounds like you are already doing it. The fact that you think about it and work on your behavior is all we can really ask for and is more than a lot of us get. Just keep up the effort and you will find your way.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 07:46 PM
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He's trying to protect his, she's trying to enlarge hers. Not the same.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 05:04 PM
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Not as skillful of a predator as she wants to be.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 02:13 PM
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He'd rather go without if he thinks you present a danger. Edit eek that post history, smart man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 01:58 PM
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This is the way. There really are some awesome women out there. Keep teaching.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 01:02 AM
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To you it's reasonable. Is it possible it might not be to men?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 04:32 PM
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Yeah, I get that we don't value partners unilaterally. My point that priorities are different, so I'm comparing highest priorities to the highest priorities. Men have to build their value and women have to protect theirs. I still think you are trying to see it from a woman's perspective and not the man's. I'm just trying to explain the consequences, if you think I'm wrong and willing to live with the consequences then that's that. Promise that if all else were equal she would get less marriage p…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 04:24 PM
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I certainly get your point. I still think you are misjudging how much it will matter to men with self-reapect. You are only in your prime for a short time, he might not leave but he will see plenty more women in their prime throughout his life. I wouldn't commit to a woman that didn't do everything she could to retain her value. Too much is expected of me to not have expectations. Looks are a depreciating asset, but a provider is meant to continue appreciating.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 04:03 PM
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Agreed relationships are full of compromises. However you are less likely to be willing to compromise on high priority things. A two point drop in looks is a huge deal for men. And looks also tell you about character, the things the op were describing are huge turn offs for most men. Even when I was more liberal I wouldn't date anyone with those characteristics, because values were very mismatched. I literally have those women in mind, and looking how their lives went, I wasn't wrong. Imagine a …
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 03:02 PM
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For sure you aren't wrong, but it could be an indicator of mismatched values. If his value is high enough then he has options as well. She doesn't need to take his advice, especially in personal choices, but it's better for the relationship if she values his opinions. And like it or not looks matter a lot more to men than a lot of other things.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 02:54 PM
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This woman gets it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 12:49 PM
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No, he's just trying to be supportive (what women say they want,) he's made it clear that it would decrease attraction. He's young and doesn't know how to communicate his feelings well enough and is afraid of the consequences of doing so. Taking a firm stance against it is likely to cause her to want to do it more.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 12:47 PM
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As a male I completely agree with this. Not enough of you ladies to go around. Don't forget that. However, I also wouldn't value the degree much and would hate the debt. I'd be way more interested in a sahm that wanted to homeschool.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 02:34 PM
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Only if forced to, and there's a limit if he has self respect.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/22 03:58 PM
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Both are true. We prefer hot loyal chicks but hot chicks are like hvm men, doesn't tend to bring the best out in character. So if he no longer feels he can find a really good looking chick with values he will adjust priorities for the values. That's only some men, some will still chase the hot ones and live with the consequences. If you gals don't want me here please let me know; I lurk usually because I got banned from the purple pilldebate and this sub is actually hopeful and not depressing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/22 03:53 PM
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Refreshingly honest and reflective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:24 PM
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Broken feminist ideology, she has to believe men and women are the same, you probably can't get around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:59 PM
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That isn't what was said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:55 PM
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Hey look, the sickness.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 07:28 PM
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Lot of truth to that. I'm happily going my own way but it's completely true that you are not missed and seldom respected for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:13 PM
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It's a statement of literally fact not an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:13 PM
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How was that not civil? I was saving them time and effort debating someone that doesn't do so in good faith. I literally went about around in circles with the person for over a day, how could I have said that more civilly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:11 PM
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Testosterone levels have dropped significantly even in younger men, you should get checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:29 PM
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Great explanation, I expect it will be ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:27 PM
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Clearly is, you not wanting it to be matters not 🤣 pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:29 AM
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I said divorce rape, you know what I'm talking about. Even as dumb as you are, I'm certain you know. Divorce Rape: Noun or verb used to describe a wife who uses the fact that divorce courts are sexist in favour of women, to personal advantage. For example by taking an unfair proportion of the husband's assets or denying him access to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:18 AM
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You can lie all you wish, but you know exactly what's being referred to by the dancing around it. Like I said who do you really think you are fooling? Its just a demonstration of you lack of good faith in the conversation and how much of a trash individual you really are. I literally couldn't imagine tactics more pathetic. But, I'm sure I just have to keep engaging and you'll demonstrate some 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:04 AM
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It's been defined and you've been discussing it, you understand exactly what's being talked about, so apparently it can be. Feminist do it all the time, favorite tactic. You can pretend otherwise but it just a reflection of your character, rather lack thereof, you certainly aren't fooling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:59 PM
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Doesn't make it not immoral and legality again moot. As far as recognized, you already have, been talking about it for over a day. The laws were crafted for women weren't equals and now they are, laws are outdated, women are allowed and capable of taking care of themselves these days. Doesn't stop them from exploiting the old laws, immoral and an abusive over another. Proof women don't want equality they love double standards if they favor them. That's why they are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:32 PM
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That just makes it funnier, someone so pathetic to troll for literally over a day now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:28 PM
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I specifically started divorce rape, that's more than just walking away, it's utilizing power and force against someone with little to no recourse. 🤣 You can try to move the bar, but I'll always notice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:27 PM
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Nope it isn't included in the terms no more than getting in a car with a man entitles him to anything beyond what you consent to after the fact. Legality is moot as you've already stated, and abuse power over someone that hasn't consented is immoral. I would have never thought someone could be this obtuse, it's amazing 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:23 PM
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You are literally proving me right about so many things, I have like three girls to show this to, you won me the debates 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:16 PM
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Nope, divorce rape isn't consented to at any point and is an abuse over power over another. Same same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:14 PM
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Nope, not consistent logic. Consenting to marriage doesn't mean you consent to what occurs when someone decides to end the marriage. No more than a girl consents to intercourse just because she consented to go over to someone's house. It goes beyond what was consented to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:00 PM
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The other examples that you don't agree with imply that you just don't have logical consistency, if they aren't moral then neither is that. If a woman consents to going to a man's house, does that imply consent to intercourse? You already said no. Ergo consenting to marriage also doesn't imply consent to being divorced raped. It goes beyond what was consented to. It doesn't matter that it's a possibility, it wasn't explicitly consented to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:36 PM
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I said in regards to your arguments, you argued divorce rape is acceptable because it's legal, that's impling it's moral, but as you stated legality isn't equivalent to moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:19 PM
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Lol no it doesn't in regards to your arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:00 PM
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Nope you already invalidated that, laws have nothing to do with morality. Meaning legality is moot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:58 PM
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No it isn't. Laws are, people's understanding of morality but not actual morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:57 PM
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Used the same examples, minus the slavery one, same implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:54 PM
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Gee, then how did you arrive at the term moral? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:52 PM
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I didn't use the word moral it was implied with the same examples that lead you to use the term moral. If you want to find them, search for the word obtuse and read the comments preceding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:49 PM
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According to the propaganda you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:47 PM
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Literally used the same examples, sure you can find it if you actually care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:46 PM
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According to the propaganda you prefer...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:59 PM
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Certainly did, you didn't understand it, or missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:58 PM
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The problem is by your definition everything is propaganda and if everything is propaganda it becomes just a term applied to things you dont agree with. Hence the original statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:47 PM
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No shit, welcome to the point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:45 PM
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So when the law was that it was legal to force you wife to have sex, it wasn't rape. And Slavery wasn't immoral when it was legal. It isn't rape if a woman consented to come over, because she knew rape was a possibility. ^ Your asinine logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:36 PM
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And do you recognize the propaganda your side uses?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:35 PM
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Point out where that was said, because I haven't said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:46 PM
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The person you are debating is obtuse, by intention or nature... Complete waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:56 PM
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Kind of person that thinks anything that contradicts their preconceived notions is.propoganda 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:49 PM
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Seek a tutor for reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:43 PM
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Wrong again. See you either don't have good reading comprehension or you.arent really trying to understand. Or trolling. We can continue when you either understand what I actually wrote or question it to clarify meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:17 PM
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Consent is location based - wrong, not the points I was making marriage is not consent based - again wrong not the point I was making
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:10 PM
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How about you try and explain my position as I presented it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:30 PM
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Because you don't apply the same logical standards to both men and women and aren't willing to listen just respond. you are a huge danger. There's nothing you could possibly offer to countermeasure that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:29 PM
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Then your logic isn't consistent. Perhaps read the conversation again and try to understand why that's true. If you are actually trying to understand you will ,if not then I will continue warning men against women such as yourself, to be avoided at all costs. Not quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:19 PM
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They consent to the marriage, not the divorce rape. If you consent to go over to a man's house, can he infer you consented to intercourse? Marriage does not imply you consent to the things that society has decided to allow in divorce. By your logic women used to consent to rape within marriage. It's beyond what they consented to. Still either dim or obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:40 PM
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So you agree if a woman put herself in a position to be raped it's her fault? She knew it was a possibility... You are either dim or being obtuse to make a point, if you don't explicitly consent then you are not consenting. There is no inherent consent to divorce if you consent to marriage. Legality means nothing, it changes with or without your consent. It.used to be legal to rape your wife, are you.sayimg that was just fine? Of course not. Dim or obtuse. Men must really not matter to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:01 AM
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Neither is the fact that rape is a possibility, but you still blame only the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:12 AM
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Conversation over, you don't have the capacity for it clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:52 AM
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Marriage is death do us part, divorce rape isn't implied in the consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:51 AM
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Consent, which the men aren't giving... Welcome to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:49 AM
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So if you know a guy wants to have sex with you and you put yourself in a position and get raped, well you knew beforehand right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:47 AM
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Marriage is a contract, we aren't agreeing to the fact that it's not adhered to anymore. We aren't consenting to you getting half of everything or taking the kids, or alimony etc etc, that's forced on us afterwards. We are consenting to living our lives together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:44 AM
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That's not consenting then, hello anyone home? Edit because I know that will go right over your head. If you consent to a kiss does that imply you consent to intercourse? So if a man consents to a marriage, death do us part, does that mean he automatically consents to a woman deciding sh wants a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:39 AM
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Who's consenting to getting screwed over? Death do us part remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:33 AM
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Not my point, just that if women want to treat all men as potential predators men should do the same with women, until they figure out how to prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:53 AM
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You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:38 AM
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Do you have the citation, because I recall it otherwise. Edit: found this on the wiki The linked article says 1/5 and for those that suspect as high as 1/3rd However, in studies that solely looked at couples who obtained paternity testing because paternity was being disputed, there are higher levels: an incidence of 17% to 33% (median of 26.9%). Most at risk were those born to younger parents, to unmarried couples and those of lower socio-economic status, or from certain cultural groups.[6] http…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:30 AM
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I forget the study but I believe it came to the conclusion 1/3rd of children don't belong to their father. Without the reference take that for what you will, just shocked me enough to remember it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:19 AM
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It means if you aren't in the 20% expect to be the money bags not the heart's desire. Women are weary of being raped, men be weary of having your time and resources raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:07 AM
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What do you think you are talking about when you talk about the mind? Wow. Conversation over, clearly a dead end. Even if you are speaking strictly biology, which you clearly were not, being so much like your father, you would be wrong. Men's brains are 10% larger on average.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:07 PM
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That's not nothing, but also not everything. Bell curves, the differences manifest in the extremes, there are definitely observable differences.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 12:02 PM
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Perhaps not by nature, but certainly by nurture. I was too generous with the perhaps, that's numbskull bs... Even trans people write and talk about the changes to their personalities and thinking.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 11:21 AM
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Open your eyes brother, quit looking at fellow knuckle draggers. Read some history books, it's been important for millinnia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:54 AM
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It has nothing to do with spinning plates lol. It's been a primary desire for millinnia, and again you still have missed the point 😂 each partner lowers women's value, highest value is virginal. No guy builds himself up for women that gave it away cheaply. Getting laid isnt work for women, saving it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:10 PM
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Do they? Only when they don't have options. Men that have options will enjoy a loose woman, but they won't invest in her long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:03 PM
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It's reality, where do you see guys with choices wifing up reformed hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:47 AM
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Quality over quantity, dudes with choices always prefer lower n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:46 AM
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Its not the only thing, it's just more important than women seem to understand. You judge our futures and we judge women's pasts. I'm sorry but your womb is primarily why we deal with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:58 AM
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Not accurate at all. Women are at their highest value as virgins, each partner lowers that value. Only men that will screw anything don't care, men not under control. Simps and players, the rest value it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:56 AM
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The highest value is virginal, every partner lowers that value. That's the way it is and it is fairly high priority to the type of men most women want. It's really not debatable, it's factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:37 PM
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I'm just informing you of the male mind, if you prefer the simps and men that don't care what they bed then so be it. It's always been important and likely always will be, but hey the state of male female relationship's are clearly at an all time high, right? It's one of the only things women really have to offer that men are interested in, it's devalued with each previous partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:22 PM
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It's not a positive indicator in any regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:19 PM
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No, it's a deal breaker for a lot of men, it's absolutely revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:13 PM
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Why are we fighting for women to be promiscuous? if you haven't noticed it's something that's revolting to men at a deep level, I'd say even biologically. At the heart is paternity issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:12 PM
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Because the more partners they've had the more likely the relationship won't last. There are huge costs to men when marriages fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:03 PM
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Because women don't have to work for sex, they work to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:10 PM
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Where does this idea come from? I literally can't sell pictures of my feet and make a living yet there are a noticeable amount of womenn that do. Even sexually undesirable women get pandered to just for being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:17 PM
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Im not really advocating for arranged marriages, as I don't have any experience with them personally. I do recall the numbers merited more consideration, especially compared with the dumpster fire we have going right now. How Love Emerges in Arranged Marriages: Two Cross-cultural Studies https://www.jstor.org/stable/23644606
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:18 PM
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Are you this things putting the 'self' before the marriage? Sounds like we are saying the same thing, just one insists that it have a positive connotation. That's literally the state we are in, "damn civilization, I won't compromise." You keep trying to weaken marriage and claim it's stronger for it. Imagine a society that expects you to actually hold to your vows...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:53 PM
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All of those things still exist in western marriages and nearly the same degrees, with the exception of perhaps financial independence. You literally reinforced my point, if you keep trying to put yourself before the relationship, the relationship suffers. You didn't even address the point of the possiblity that the actions precede the feelings. Infatuation always fades, but there is lasting love. If you can't even act like you care, there's a really high chance you never will. Shocking, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:07 PM
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See you are mistaking the feeling for the actions. If you do the actions the feelings usually follow. That's why arranged marriages actually work better, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:30 PM
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I think this urge is actually correlated with ambition and drive if I'm not mistaken; it may be that they are inextricably linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:30 PM
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Gauging your level of self awareness, it'll unfortunately make more sense to others reading
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:37 PM
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Yeah all that experience has clearly made you more attractive. Read what you wrote and the tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:32 PM
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I completely get this, are you perhaps younger or older? This is how most women were at one point and then they evolved... Not that I especially was attracted to these characteristics, but in comparison they are far more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:06 PM
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Haven't finished the race yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:54 PM
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I don't really see how you imagine it to be a large group but I can't really back up my claim otherwise. I think you maybe making the mistake that men and women are equal, essentially blank slates with different genitals, and can fill any role they choose just as well as any other. That's fundamentally mistaken and doesn't bare out in reality. We have different strengths and weaknesses and different priorities. Sure individuals break with the trend, and that's fine. If women become too unpalatab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:19 PM
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Exceptions still prove the rules. There are not an abundance of men who prefer to be lead and there are not an abundance of women who appreciate men they can lead about. Should we encourage all women to act like this? Probably not a great idea. It'll lead to mass malfunction between the genders, as the behaviors will only work for a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:17 PM
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But men don't like to follow, that's why I said it's the weak ones that will defer in order for sexual access. They only do that if they feel like they otherwise couldn't succeed. That's not an equal partner, especially to an assertive female. It's going against both genders widely displayed typical behaviors. Success would fall far outside of the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:44 PM
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No. Women date equals or betters. It drives them mad otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:02 PM
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I do indeed. Because we are examining specific qualities, when taken in complete context it's a priorities conflict. I would love a genius woman whom is gifted in every which way, so long as she's first a teammate, not qualerlsome, demonstrating, those qualities without disrespecting me and my value. I'm still going to be the driver, she needs to be ok being the navigator. I'm not joining a woman's program, that's not ever going to be attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:12 AM
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Because those are weak men, they either have no opinions or will sacrifice them for a chance at pussy. Women eventually tire of weak men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:10 AM
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No, they won't though. They aren't biologically attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:04 PM
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I'd say there's a similar amount of women who are leaders as men who are followers. Which is fine, but we still don't want to marry them. If they are happy being single leaders then that's cool. But this is very likely biological, we won't give in, unless it's literally our only option and then it's pump and dump. I won't even bother with that personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:38 PM
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I know, that kind of woman isn't going to be compatible with the majority of men. If that's what she wants then cool, but we need her to know that's the opposite of what most of us are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:18 PM
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But I'm not really interested in following either. We are competing for the same role.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:59 PM
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Yeah, because that's the alternative. Someone is always going to be the leader, and women don't like the men that follow. So the more you compete for the males preferred spot, the less likely I am to see you as a mate and more as competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:12 PM
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How do you feel about the men that do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:17 PM
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Not by a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:15 PM
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Because if she isn't willing to take a submissive role do you really think the man taking it is going to turn her on? She needs a man so strong that he battles her and wins and still cares. She's an opponent not a team mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:45 AM
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How would it make me feel better, no one wants their dating pool shrinking...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:43 AM
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That's totally cool, I may even like you as a person. In no way would date you though. The kind of guy you probably find attractive probably won't either. Just by the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:06 AM
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You may very well be right. However, You haven't reached your finish line, nor all your peers their's, don't tally the statistics prematurely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:26 PM
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It's not misogyny, I dislike any person behaving thusly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:17 PM
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It's hilarious how oblivious you are to how your behavior, in this regard speech, is precieved. You literally keep demonstrating the qualities I detailed. I wasn't being rude I was pointing out exactly how to you are behaving, persistently. No self reflection at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:06 PM
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Why would I need to tell myself anything? Two women otherwise equal one a stripper and one not I go with the one that isn't. It lowers their value by a significant amount, even if such a woman threw herself at me I wouldn't want to bang. I won't devalue myself. It's just the sexual manifestation of my values, which clearly are different from yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:03 PM
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Do I really need to go through your post in this topic and point all of this traits out with your sentences as evidence? If I do will you acknowledge it and take accountability? I acknowledge I made those statements and stand by them, I assert I can give evidence as to why I made the statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:23 PM
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If you actually acted traditionally and got treated that way then you are confirming my assertion. There are still shitty people out there, of both genders, but you maximized your chances of being treated the way you wanted to be treated by being what the other person wants. I'm talking about the modern woman, the woman that shirks all expectations of them but still clings to their expectations of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:22 PM
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Yes, the way you present yourself I wouldn't be excited to spend five minutes with you, why the hell would I buy you a dinner? JR. Karen in training, that's not a happy life prospect. At best, dudes that don't give a shit about you will hit it until they find someone worthwhile. To me that's not even worth it and it's a toxic behavior that I don't wish to indulge in, so I would just steer wayyyyy clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:05 PM
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The way you speak. Selfish, unaccountable and not cooperative. Not worth a dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:15 PM
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Nah, we ain't. Expecting men to fit the age old traditions while not moving traditionally yourself. That's why we shouldn't court you period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:44 PM
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Lol how foolish. That's the attitude of a guy that takes whatever he can get. I get it, she's still a dime for you because you priorities looks above everything else, not everyone does that. She's no.dime to me, can't be. That's not a chick you want any, even remote chance, of knocking up or catching something from...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:09 PM
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In this sense all women are prostitutes, just whether the price is negotiated or not and whether it's paid directly or indirectly. Some guys pay next to nothing and some guys have to give everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:10 PM
1

Not disagreeing, just pointing out the price men are willing to pay varies, some guys will literally do and put up with anything for it. Me, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:49 PM
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They aren't the only kind of women I'd want attention from period. It's a quality issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:20 PM
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Obviously not OP, but I'd assume that it's a realization of risk vs reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:17 PM
7

That was a really astute point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:15 PM
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You've identified only one way people ruin each other's lives... There are many more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 09:49 AM
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It is not. It is however easier for one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:04 PM
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Yes. Nailed it. One more to add, when we say men are the leaders it means 51% stake to 49%, it's not meant be the man getting something over the woman. It's so there isn't deadlock, it's so there is actual leadership. The woman isn't less important or there to take advantage of, it's a team. Usually this ends up being the best configuration, but it's always been negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:23 PM
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I mean I'm here and I lurk, but I always forget that there are others with eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 12:28 PM
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Dude you are my kind of people, my advice to you is this: As men we must stare in to the darkness in the world and at times venture into it. We don't t bring it back with us. When you can see the evil and not feel the evil, you are on the right path.
/r/MGTOW218/07/21 01:12 PM
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https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=80%25+of+studies+cant+be+replicated They even quote the lady at the very top so you don't have to leave google. Quality people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:50 PM
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This. This is the massive difference. Men actually have accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:38 AM
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It's goes far beyond just being vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:45 PM
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There's no female equivalent, you dismiss that far too easily. You are mother nature, rejection is death of your line. There's a reason only 40% (historical average) of males pass along their DNA compared to nearly all women doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:41 PM
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It’s just if someone around me is so interested that they’re going to be upset if nothing ever happens between us, then they need to be forward and shoot their shot or gtfo and leave me alone. Give me the choice at least. Fair, agreed. That is ultimately what has to occur. That being said, it takes a lot more sand when you actually care. Just keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:10 PM
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Thinking someone is good looking vs be interested in pursuing are two different things. Your acting as though every attraction is the same, he may have only been weakly attracted, ie just trying to get laid. We don't have the level of attraction you are thinking of for very many women. He may truly have been indifferent to your rejection. "I'll eat that cake, but I'm not going out of my way for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:32 PM
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*Was interested in you. As far as remaining friends that's totally your choice, if that's your perspective its probably best for everyone that you do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:07 PM
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Still made the assumption they cant get you off their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:38 PM
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Really, I wonder how you'd explain the quote you shared then : P Not upset at all, opinions of low value women are not something to get upset over. Regardless, having shown you are not worthy of my attention, I bid thee adiu.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:17 PM
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Nope, because there isn't truth in that and I'm not ashamed of logic. Your pussy isn't worth your personality. You just tried to shame me for using logic, how much more toxic can you get? You are revealed and hardly worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:11 PM
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Ah yes, I'm gay or impotent because I can reason. Overvalued your pussy, you all have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:47 PM
1

It's not a dumbass quote, it obviously struck home. Never said nor implied my dick gave me license to tell a woman how to behave, I detailed how I will react to a woman behaving that way. We don't have to take you as you are, we just don't . Be what you want though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:43 PM
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No shit, we don't want to date men. It's not even equal energy, its maximized, you think you have bigger dicks. You demand we know what you want and acknowledge it but dont even care what we actually want. But you are compromising... right. "Women want the power of men, privilege of women, and accountability of children"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:55 PM
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As a man, I'm more qualified to speak towards that than any women. Presentation and tone matter; She doesn't bring peace. And yes, yes it does. Given the choice most men would take variety over a single women. They settle for one for easier access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:05 PM
1

"As much as she is," that's the problem; we don't evaluate women like you evaluate men. Different priorities, different qualities. She thinks she rates high according to her perspective while turning most men off. Even the one thing she identified we value won't override that we don't really want to be around her with that kind of attitude. Only weak men willing to put up with it as a chance for sex, or men that don't know better yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:02 PM
1

Perhaps that's how you interpret it, works great as an independent individual, doesn't work well in a relationship which will require compromise. It's easy to confuse with arrogance and narcissism. Aside from female oriented goals she comes off more like a dude, which is completely unsexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:46 PM
1

Female perspective perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:36 PM
1

I read through her replies and answers, not worth messing with. Attitude, character...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:28 PM
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Well you got one positive, but I'm not sure that negates all the other red flags your throwing. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:08 AM
2

Then you need to stop it, the women dont listen to men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:52 PM
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"Women want the power of men, the privilege of women, and the accountability of children."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:51 PM
1

That you should be embarrassed for being wrong is male... Yeah ok worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:19 PM
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Ok winer, did that help?
/r/MensRights27/04/21 02:12 PM
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That's the problem, you should be embarrassed. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:16 AM
0

Your making the assumptions we want them, It's magnitudes easier to find someone that's decent enough to bang than it is to find one I actually want to spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:11 AM
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So...? We don't look for the same things, either be what we want or be ok with the attention you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:04 AM
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You don't think men get tired of all the hoops they have to jump through before sex? You don't think they'll use their own good looks against someone that isn't getting much attention because it's just easier? Good for a lay, not a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:51 AM
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They were easier to score with. It was just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:13 AM
1

Refraining from giving people the benefit of doubt; expecting the worst intentions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:28 PM
1

Yeah you treat society with bad faith, I'd rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:47 PM
1

"on her level".. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 02:21 PM
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Society is sick when you have to label a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:59 PM
2

This was all stuff I knew secondhand, really crazy to finally see some of the actual sources. I guess I never realized the UK was so pivotal in the feminist movement.
/r/MensRights14/01/21 02:26 PM
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Underrated comment. This is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 01:06 PM
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No, he paid someone that knew what they were doing to get his ass together. Proper self-care, grooming and dress goes a loooooooong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 01:03 PM
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Right? Why would you even need the post?
/r/MensRights13/01/21 12:53 PM
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Bitches be burying comments, shills be with us.
/r/MGTOW212/01/21 12:53 AM
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Why? I have no fear of getting it and it wont do anything for transmission.
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 06:33 PM
1

https://blog.mozilla.org/blog/2021/01/08/we-need-more-than-deplatforming/ This stung. Not sure, let me know if you find something decent.
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 06:27 PM
2

I dont really think so with her, I'm not imaging she's really on our side so much, but she's too intelligent not to see her own hypocrisy. This is her attempt at holding feminism to its rhetoric.
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 06:11 PM
1

Firefox, rather Mozilla, just jumped on the censor the internet bandwagon.
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 06:08 PM
0

https://googlethatforyou.com?q=birth%20rates%20worldwide
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 06:06 PM
3

Its not passivity, its tactics. You want the heroic last stand go for it, but some of us have to be here to make the strike when something vulnerable appears.
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 10:34 AM
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I would have thought that 10 years ago but little things grow in momentum, that's how those tactics became so prominent today.
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 10:32 AM
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This is why you cant just read the bi-line.
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 10:30 AM
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It isn't enjoyable. Just this exchange hasn't been fun and we haven't even begun debating anything of substance. If you want to link it all back here or whatever I understand that, and am willing. My only stipulation was a medium faster than reddit. If that doesn't interest you understandable, no harm no foul.
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 10:00 AM
2

Because the platform isn't well suited for long form discussion
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 01:20 AM
1

Oh that's not why, its clunky and takes too long. I prefer a more instant message format, if your interested thats all I ask, it can be public or private
/r/MGTOW209/01/21 11:04 PM
1

I am seriously interested, knowing a lefty that knows his shit would be useful.
/r/MGTOW209/01/21 10:49 PM
2

That would be awful on this platform, if you want to meet elsewhere I'd be more interested.
/r/MGTOW209/01/21 10:48 PM
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I know its not going to happen but I love having long conversations with leftists that think that, I've yet to actually speak to one that doesn't get clearly hypocritical.
/r/MGTOW209/01/21 10:38 PM
4

Well then to the left you are on the right...
/r/MGTOW209/01/21 10:34 PM
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