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Start one! My friend started a hiking group in his small town and that's where he met his wife. And Honestly it's even better if you get into fitness or self-improvement hobby that you can share in a group and that you can genuinely enjoy or find helpful for your own long-term health - finding a lover/partner there is only a secondary focus, just enjoy it regardless of the outcome with other people. I find that hinging too much on potential seduction success for the things that you do to enjoy a…
/r/seduction11/02/26 04:33 AM
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Ya know, if you think about it, what's better than re-framing rejections? I believe it's re-framing but also being able to frame situations well in general. I haven't approach women with the sole intention of getting in their pants, or even their contact info in many, many years. People give out their contact info freely and are more open to reconnecting with you when they feel a relaxed and genuine person that doesn't appear to have some ulterior motives, since they see someone that can express…
/r/seduction06/02/26 12:03 AM
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A friend lent me The Game when I was a freshman in college, and it was interesting enough to send me down a rabbit hole of a bunch of other books. But honestly, the more I read, I realized I wasn’t into most of the corny advices and more of the mind-game/mental-trick stuff - the kind you'd typically see from PUA gurus who sell courses, meetups, and run “field practice” at nightclubs. With that being said though, out of all my read, Models also became one of my top recommendations - a lot of the …
/r/seduction29/01/26 03:13 PM
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I let a friend borrow Models and he said it changed his life - he never gave me back the book lol. The Authentic Attraction Method is also very solid - plenty of practical advices although some might feel a bit dated. I'm of the camp that strongly believe in authenticity and honesty in attraction, and for cultivating confidence and healthy mindset, lifestyle, network, etc. - simple common-sense guidelines that can be applied to just about anyone, even women.
/r/seduction29/01/26 02:39 PM
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I think you're not completely wrong, but you should never really have an expectation from others that isn't clear is congruent with that expectation, even if you're just obfuscating that clarity by "giving yourself options" with however many women you're able to manage to keep on rotation. For people who are more content with themselves and don't need to keep multiple other people around, they might just see it as diverting too much time and energy that could otherwise be better use in improving…
/r/seduction27/01/26 06:31 PM
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Learning to be happy and content with your life and the good parts worth focusing and building upon, for yourself specifically. Generally detach your self-worth from other people and what they think of you (and also what you think of them in regards to you) - you are your primary judge of your character. Perhaps you can ask your close friends and family to chime in occasionally to offer constructive feedback if you think that'll be helpful for you to grow, but that's about it when it comes to ot…
/r/seduction27/01/26 05:56 PM
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There was a study done surveying a sizable population on their preferred body type, level of muscular structure, as well as body parts they find most appealing in various sizes and muscularity. If I remember it correctly, proportionality matters for most people - a leaner but balanced aesthetic is better than pretty much most configurations of super muscular. Women do like muscles but not too much, and not as highly valued if you can compensate with height for example. For body parts I specifica…
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:36 AM
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Horses for courses, dude. Your advice and viewpoint might fit well for you and people with similar attitudes and personality, but that doesn’t make it gospel - I did think you came off with authority on the subject based on your language, but lacked the nuances that I think would serve people better if they understand more the context you’re coming from. This could mean you’re either too narrow in your viewpoint or you don’t really care about it that much - probably could be due to your jadednes…
/r/seduction27/01/26 01:05 AM
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LOTR is considered an epic - like a long book, that's an epic. I said I think you're basically illiterate/stupid, if that's easier to understand.
/r/seduction26/01/26 02:27 PM
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Try out SE Asia, as clique as it is already. Or even Mexico or South/Latin America. If you're already financially well-off you might just find your favorite place to be, where you might even be able to buy a vacation home that you rent out and can come back to any time you like.
/r/seduction26/01/26 08:19 AM
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Don't tie in your self-worth with other people - you don't control who likes you and who doesn't. You can only control your own emotions and actions, and even then you shouldn't tie in that control to an outcome relating to pleasing or attracting other people, it should primarily be for your own self and your own well being in YOUR life and not anyone else's. Until you can live a happy life on your own and progressing to improve YOUR standards of living and self-appreciation and love for what yo…
/r/seduction26/01/26 08:14 AM
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It would actually surprise me if you sat down to read any epic in your life if you think that was tldr, haha
/r/seduction26/01/26 07:17 AM
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It’s funny that you don’t care to read the whole thing but proceeded to spend time writing to refute everyone else who doesn’t fully agree with your view. Dare I say you come off as a stereotypical narcissist “player”? This is a forum for sharing information. I wrote to another person in response to your original comment on the first part of my text, I only tagged you out of courtesy in case you have something to add or refute. The second part is for OP who was looking for advice. If you don’t l…
/r/seduction26/01/26 07:08 AM
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I agree with /u/Virtual_Ad_4817 last part, specifically the last half of the final sentence, but the rest I don't particularly fully agree with - at least OP was honest in that their take might just be pretty shallow and narrow just to get their points across. I've seen and observe all sorts of people at nightclubs and their interactions with others. Some works out better than others, but I've been surprised at results favoring people I wouldn't normally bet on from a more surface-level standpoi…
/r/seduction25/01/26 04:22 PM
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I mean that's why you have to read the situation. If you can tell there's already mutual attraction, then why not? Unless you have something else planned already and scheduling for another time to get together would be more ideal, or if you feel like you want to prepare a bit better for an actual date.
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:00 AM
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Perhaps going from an impromptu "hanging out shopping together" to "dinner and a movie" type of stuff and going back to your or her place after depends on how well everything flows. Basically turning it into a spontaneous date so to speak. I had something like this happen once but it's with someone I know from school but didn't realize we clicked until we ran into each other at the mall. We ended up going for lunch and went to the arcade and exchanged number, but didn't hook up until we arranged…
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:54 AM
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This was such a good book that I let my friend in college borrowed it to help him with getting dates for our big formal parties that happen every trimester. He got pretty successful, one of his dates is now his fiancee. Also, I never got the book back. I need to buy a couple more books to give out :P
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:16 PM
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Usually if a girl like you she will want to continue talking and hanging out with you, she may accept or even propose a date so that she can hang out with you and learn more about you. Now for most girls a date doesn’t mean anything more than that, perhaps it might means something more but that is if the guy is ticking off most or all the boxes on her list In that span of time, and that list might be different for every girl. However with enough experience you may have a better idea of what most…
/r/seduction14/06/20 04:24 PM
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Lmao that’s like saying that making out is the equivalent of having sex. No. It is not. The course of a relationship go through several phases, but some of the important ones are those in the beginning where you are initiating contact and getting to know whether or not the attraction and/or if compatibility exists. I mentioned and/or because men and women tend to have different ideas of attraction and compatibility. I’ve had plenty of dates that didn’t end up with a kiss, and some kisses that ne…
/r/seduction14/06/20 02:11 PM
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I’ve played video game with a lot of people who have some form of mental disability, including ADD, ADHD, Asperger, and varying level of Autism. And the majority of them I can communicate with just fine with the exception of a few who are either a little more impatient or talk over me. I believe communication and communication skills are learned over time, for everyone, not even just people with disabilities. Keys to good/great conversation. -You can understand each other -Topics of discussion a…
/r/seduction30/06/19 08:17 AM
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Break the stereotype and become exceptional is all I can say to anyone who look at media and cultural stereotype as a negative force to their game. There’re disabled people who can seduce better than most able bodied men. No excuses!
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:54 PM
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Thanks for giving credential to my response! See? There are girls like you out there; plenty in fact. high five
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:44 PM
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You don’t even need to game that hard even, just put yourself out there enough and you’ll be surprised at the opportunities. When I was in Europe I worked at a youth hostel for a couple months, and because I was a staff I get free ticket to go on the pub crawls that were happening every night. Naturally I took advantage of it because free drinks and sometimes free access to vip spots in some of the largest clubs in Spain. I was surprised that women would approach me pretty often, with some even …
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:37 PM
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I have a friend who is somewhere on the autistic spectrum, I guess you can say he's mildly autistic. He doesn't have a normal looking face either, but I wouldn't say he's ugly, just different. In college he was basically a virgin until his senior year when he was basically almost going to be done with school and he stopped giving a fuck. One thing I noticed was his interaction with girls changed. He normally can hold a conversation with girls but it was awkward and either weird the girl out and …
/r/seduction02/07/18 04:43 AM
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Think of it like focusing on the process of how to be more attractive, which you can see results of if you start out small and work your way up, rather than the outcome (of being attractive) like getting a number, getting a date, being flirted on, getting laid, etc. Because you don’t always get the “outcome” and if you are only focusing on that you will set yourself up for disappointments.
/r/seduction16/05/18 03:04 PM
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I was born and grew up in my home country until I was 8 or 9 when I moved to America. I find a vast amount of Caucasian girls attractive. It’s interesting because it seem like I’ve already formulated the idea that foreign women were exotic and attractive before I even hit puberty, and when I did oh boy it was an overwhelming experience being around so many attractive girls.
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:10 AM
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Were you born/grew up in your native country? I found that men in a lot of cultures find foreign women exotic and attractive, especially if they are of a different race/ethnicity, and when they move out of their country it’s like living in some mythical land where there are attractive women everywhere you go.
/r/seduction13/05/18 08:49 AM
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Yea, to me this sub often reeks of salty people who can't be happy for someone else doing well with their journey through the seduction game.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:56 AM
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Everyone is on a different level and understanding in a community like this, so I'd say a post like this could be useful for some people, otherwise it would be voted down. A post like this to me demonstrate two things, girls are not the end-all-be-all, even the most attractive looking ones, and that focusing on your life and what's important to you is key to building your foundation for seducing others. You might think it's superficial, and offer nothing to you because you are probably on some o…
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:51 AM
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Ah I gotcha. Based on OP's revelation about how unfazed he is, and that he doesn't quite understand why he isn't upset right now, I would wager that he's still pretty new in the whole seduction game, and that he could be flaunting his ego a bit. But pretty much every dude go through this imo, doesn't necessarily mean they deserve to be put down by other for it. Remember the first time you got a girl's number or sucessfully ask a girl to go out with you when you were young? For me with my first g…
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:38 AM
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I mean realistically, if you're someone who's trying to be more charming and be better with your seduction, what kind of validation can you gain online that would help you out in the real world if your post aren't true? That'd just be a big waste of time in my opinion, unless homehow having more reddit karma = better pick up skill "ayo girl I heard you reddit, guess how much karma I got racked up"
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:19 AM
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I think sharing your personal experience in this community that shows a testament to living life in abundance =/= seeking validation. You just sound negative and beta as fuck my guy, if you want to seduce women, why would you think in a way that elevate a girl who's no longer relevant in your life?
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:06 AM
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You are in a state of abudance my friend, even when you have no lineup currently, you have nothing to lose. When you have your life together, thats all that really matters.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:02 AM
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You kinda remind me of RSD Tyler almost exactly. My immediate thought haha. Btw OP, it's all in your head man. If you think you're a loser, then you will become that loser. The first step is to detach from your negativety and self-loath, and focus on self-improvement goals that make you happy. Only then can you really have a chance at seducing anyone else. If you think you're a hideous person with a terrible body that don't deserve anyone else's admire, then you're a lost cause. I mean you can b…
/r/seduction07/11/17 08:58 AM
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You have to be more invested in yourself, your time and energy is more valuable than anyone else's, because in the end that's what most important for you. The moment you invest too much into other people, you may feel an inequality when the other person does not reciprocate back. In order to avoid this inequality, you must always invest in yourself first and foremost, and when someone falls for you and invest time and effort into you, you can then choose to reciprocate if you also like that pers…
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:50 PM
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I've had problems with multiple professors before where they graded me poorly based on bias or differing in option on completely subjective topics. When I found out that was the case, I either took my problem to the dean or threatened to take it to the dean. Worked every single time. Most stuck-up professors don't want to deal with their superior, and in my case they either adjusted the grade or made me write a new copy for a reevaluation so they don't have to deal with an investigation from the…
/r/MensRights20/09/16 01:21 AM
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Some more advice/constructive criticism I want to give you. If you are going to approach a girl and you don't want to startle her or make her feel uncomfortable, don't approach her from the back or the side. If you can, make sure the majority of your approach is somewhere from the front, walking forward her, and you want to announce your presence from a good distance away if you think she haven't notice you yet. This will give her time to react accordingly, and allow her to interact with you mor…
/r/seduction04/09/16 12:29 PM
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"You are a free woman, an independent adult, you're welcome to go out on your own for your entertainment. Just don't do anything that you would regret later, have fun and stay safe!" I think that's a classier way of saying it.
/r/seduction27/08/16 11:22 AM
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Tell me more about how alpha you are ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:53 PM
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I pick, living my own life to it's fullest extent, and do what I can and be grateful that I'm an able-bodied human being. If I had the ugliest face in the world, so deformed, and so unattractive, I would live my life behind a mask until I've become successful enough to be able to afford plastic surgery for the face I've always wanted... or continue wearin my cool ass mask because of mystery and shit. See how cool of a person I just became right now? And if I worked out hard enough I would not on…
/r/seduction06/07/16 02:28 PM
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"does this shade of red makes me look like a bitch slut?" pretends to put on lipstick The perfect counter.
/r/seduction06/07/16 02:12 PM
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Show us your face then if that is your strongest argument AGAINST EVERY SINGLE ADVICE THAT HAS BEEN GIVEN TO YOU THUS FAR. What have you got to lose? If you're that ugly no amount of self-improvement can help you get laid then what have you got to lose by showing us what you look like? I had more respect for the guy in the other post showing us what he look like than you have, making every argument by boiling it down to your face, jeeze you're a sad case.
/r/seduction06/07/16 02:06 PM
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In extreme situations, your face is so ugly and deformed you can barely even function as a normal human being. How about stop being a drama queen and go grab life by the balls, or not, who am I really to dictate what you do with your own life? Do better with what you are able to make a positive change on (and stop making your face be the excuse for why you are not working on any of these things), your body, your hygiene, your hobbies, what you wear, and most importantly your personality and your…
/r/seduction06/07/16 01:52 PM
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This person think they will die a virgin because they are so ugly This is why I don't take people so seriously when they say something like that, because 90% of the time the person is average to decent looking but they just have shoddy image issue and it become their #1 reason why they aren't successful in life... I'll be completely honest with you, the majority of any sane women will not want anything to do with you if you complain and use your look as an excuse to all your problems in life, ev…
/r/seduction06/07/16 12:44 PM
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"I'm not your butler" "What am I, a coat rack?" "I'll drink your beer if you don't come back in X minutes" My ex-gf in HS did this to me constantly, I wish I had stood up to that demanding bitch. I told myself I would never let a girl have that much power over me again.
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:50 AM
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This is the best advice, be realistic and set realistic standards for yourself, as you're playing a game with set rules that are standardized by society. Yes, some people can break the rules and be successful in their game, but they are on a totally different level than the vast majority of players. You don't have to follow the rules in order to win the game, but your chances are much higher if you do abide by it, within reasons of course.
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:37 AM
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I usually explain this concept (roughly) to people in this way: "If you need to be alone or somewhere void of social-pressure in order to catch a breath, indulge in the quietness, and recharge your "social battery", you are most likely an introvert. However, if you are the type of person who prefer to be around other people in a social setting in order to "ramp up" and charge your social battery, then you are an extrovert. Extroverts think being alone or with few people boring, they must build t…
/r/seduction30/05/16 03:01 PM
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You're wrong
/r/seduction28/03/16 04:07 PM
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So basically, instead of asking, gently say what you and her will be doing. "Will you go out for coffee with me sometimes?" "Let go for coffee [(now), Thursday, Friday, Sat....]" "Can I have your number?" or "Can we add each other on Facebook?" "Lets stay in touch, put down your number/add me on Facebook"
/r/seduction26/06/15 08:00 PM
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Pretty sure they were just models pretending to be working with the camera. The production/edit is a bit sloppy too (at some point you can see someone's foot to the left of the set) but I think Richard wasn't trying to make anything too fancy.
/r/seduction29/12/14 05:58 AM
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Yea 911 is for emergency, and if you had to report the issue right away to the police because the suspect is running away or the evidence is actively being cleared away. What I would've done is call the police station. Tell them that you were trying to get your friend's bike back and noticed all of these other bikes in this woman's garage (who keeps 20 bikes?). Report the woman as a suspect for bike theft, give them her name, description, and where she live. The police will take care of the prob…
/r/seduction10/07/14 04:18 AM
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I wouldn't probably call 911 on her, but definitely would've at least give the police some lead on her information and where she lives.
/r/seduction10/07/14 03:27 AM
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Hot girls who are your friends have more lay potential than many people would think. You just gotta be really good friends with each other. When you're good friend with a girl it's so easy to get them to wing-woman you toward endless laid potential with all their attractive and single females fiends.
/r/seduction27/05/14 11:13 AM
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Having true abundance/confidence can't be faked, you do realize that right? Your mentality have to be congruent with your lifestyle, otherwise you'd only be fooling yourself and others and everything you've achieved will only be for the short-term. When you're building yourself up to be a higher value man, the confidence you've gained is not just a "side effect", it is THE EFFECT. The thing is though, that you have to truly believe that you're doing this primarily for yourself. This lifestyle th…
/r/seduction27/05/14 10:59 AM
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Well you'd have to be dominant in situations like this but you have to show some sympathy as well. Leading their friend off to talk with them is a dominant move, but you can't be aggressive or threatening. You want to let her friend/s know that you're not a threat to her and that you're genuinely interested in her and it would suck if they take her away from you. Let them know your intentions, let them know that you understand how they are feeling if their friend was being led off with a strange…
/r/seduction27/05/14 10:40 AM
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You have to get on their good side and try to be reasonable with them. Don't come off as being a douche or hostile against them. Usually I would try to pull the friend off to the side myself and tell them my feeling toward their friend and that I want to hang out with her more. Usually if you're nice they will either leave you two alone or even invite you along with the group!
/r/seduction27/05/14 07:52 AM
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I'm curious if you've read "Models" btw. I would suggest it to everyone in /r/seduction since it's such a fantastic read and there's an entire chapter on using your own vulnerability and openness to seduce women.
/r/seduction27/05/14 07:43 AM
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Gradually of course, you wouldn't want to open on that kind of topic but it's something you can talk about once you've got a conversation going. And if you're going to consider it "baggage" then it's obviously not going to work well with the girl; you'd have to share the experience as if it was something that you've experienced and that you want to let her know because you're open and comfortable around her. She will reciprocate this if she's enthralled by your vulnerability and openness.
/r/seduction27/05/14 07:41 AM
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Nice! And make sure you understand that you're doing it for yourself and not for anyone else. If people appreciate the work you've been putting in for your own benefit and wellbeing, then that's great, but don't expect positive response because of that change in lifestyle.
/r/seduction11/03/14 09:56 PM
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"Oh you lost your keys? You can come and sleep over with me at my apartment!"
/r/seduction30/12/13 04:36 PM
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So why not indicate the frame or context in your original post instead of sounding either stupid or sarcastic? It takes an extra sentence to type out, god damn
/r/MensRights14/12/13 06:08 AM
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I prefers the chokehold, even more dominance
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:23 AM
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For me being entitled doesn't have to extend to the point where you're basically a dickhole. I look at the principle that if you don't think you're a worthy person of something and that you don't deserve it, then not many other people will think otherwise. It's about "owning" yourself and believing in YOU and your actions.
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:06 AM
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While I agree somewhat to the first part, the last part is what bothered me. All the power amounts to nothing? And we all will just die at some point? Then why live? Why even bothered? We all strive to live our life and make it better because we want to have a better experience of life before we are no longer living. Doesn't anyone? The exciting thing about life is being able to fill it with interesting things and having a strong influence on your peers can definitely enhances your life experien…
/r/seduction08/10/13 07:51 AM
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An excerpt from The Manual "Women fall for 'bad boys' because they are only 'bad' in the eyes of our traditional socialization [ie. How we were raised and taught to behave], the same way men actually love 'naughty girls'" It's just basically breaking social norms and standing out from the crowd of "properly behaving" people. Girls like "bad boys" the same way us men like "bad girls", if that makes any sense to you guys.
/r/seduction07/10/13 05:02 PM
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