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DiscussionRAZBUNARE761/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:19 AM
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DiscussionRAZBUNARE761/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:53 PM
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I think they are also often delusional about being in a relationship while the guy is spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:14 AM
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You wont get your foot in the door though to show your fun personality if you get dismissed or considered invisible beforehand. Especially with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:06 AM
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Funny how a guy like that openly bragged about milking these foolish simps for money and noe they give him even more buying his course. Easy money demographic that nobody cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:59 PM
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Whole angry rant to basically just say fuck male mental health. Only females, kids and doggs get compassion in life and are loves unconditionally. Is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:19 PM
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Yeah I know, just think men's mental health shouldnt be a taboo. If everyone walks around fake repressing it like Andrew Tate to act like some über alpha male then it just keeps bottling up till it explodes. Its just unhealthy imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:37 PM
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And they wonder why male suicide is so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:08 AM
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It is very easy if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:04 AM
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A woman can get caught up in the moment. Especially with alcohol involved, cheat have regrets cause in her normal life she loves her man and kids. Thats why you dont put yourself in situations where mistakes happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:38 AM
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The setting matters. Friends at restaurant fine, nightclub not fine. But it doesnt matter. Insecurity, controlling and ad hominem tactivs id the usual move when nnot wanting to say that people just want no boundaries amd want their cake and eat it too. Thats what it all boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:39 PM
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Nobody is immune to it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:04 PM
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Thats fair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:02 PM
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Men cant hsve boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:46 PM
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Its the opposite. I have a lpt of experience with women cheating on their men abroad on these trips. Its extremely naive to think she wouldnt do that.... And of course, insecure, controlling is always the go to argument. My wife should be fine with me chilling with prostitutes otherwise she is controlling or insecure to hsve that as a boundary right? Or doesnt it apply suddenly then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:41 PM
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To me she should even want to go to these places or hang out with male friends. If she does then we dont match since she doesnt respect the relationship enough. If you want to be single, go be single then. Easy solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:37 PM
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So nothing makes you uncomfortable in a relationship? For me personally just oh I break up then isnt that easily cause of the kids. You dont want then to go trough divorce over a drunken mistake that could easily be avoided. Cant stay with her either if she cheats. So thats why I would care a lot to have her not at increased odds to do something dumb in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:30 PM
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I dont care about that. Based on your comment you value your own interest over relationships if they mean so little.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:24 PM
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Tom brady got cheat on, will smith. Dont be naive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:21 PM
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When I lived in a tourist city in Europe I always wondered who are all these american guys that let their wives come over without them and cheat? But now I get it. Its just the entitled mentality the women have that they are allowed to do what they want and the man cant have any boundaries. They are gaslight in accepting this and being weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:19 PM
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So if you have kids and a house together you just move not caring about consequences? Everything is allowed even if it increases the odds of you needing to leave and the kids suffering as a consequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:13 PM
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They dont always want to cheat but it happens. Get caught up in the moment. Sometimes its wanting to feel validated which escalates, or just tagging a long with a single friend. Why would you put yourself at increased odds of that happening? Its the alcohol/single setting thats the problem. You think any guy gives a fuck of she goes to relatives with her sisters? That she can cheat anywhere is true but its usually after long contact not just a one off at the grocery store in general. Hence why n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:05 PM
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Yeah you got tricked into thinking that you are strong and secure if you dont hsve boundaries in a relationship. Those are controlling, insecure after all. Same with girks night out, male friends etc. Then its coming home later, phone off or sleeping over. Why you mad? Are you not a strong secure individual with none of those insecure/contrilling boundaries? Slippery slope if you walk this world like Voltaire's Candide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:50 PM
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Which means you are an entitled princess unwhilling to make concessions to make the relationship work and just wants to have your cake and eat it too. Just stay single and buy a cat then if you cant respect boundaries or lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:45 PM
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There is no equivalent for the average man like a woman st the club. Thats why I said strippers who want to hsve sex to drive the point home. But as usual people cant look past the metaphor to understand it. Maybe like this then, if he was bisexual and was hanging out guy clubs. Would you be comfortable with that? And dontvsay I wont date a bisexual to distract from the point. Which stil stands after all of it makes the partner uncomfortable why is it in an unreasonable boundary to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:42 PM
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The point is you cant trust people not to be tempted with alcohol in a settle setting. As if her being at a restaurant puts her in the same position to make mistakes as drinking and dancing in a club. People here scting like its the exact same as long as you trust her... Or of it does happen then they clearly bad people. Like they cant be tempted and make mistakes. If you respect your relation you dont put yourself in positions where you could make mistakes. This applies to many things but espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:36 PM
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Yeah, nobody ever drinks more than they intended
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:04 PM
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Right its normal to let her go with divorced and single friends to a party vacation. Just dont be insecure bro, she could cheat anywhere. Go to those places as a single man amd see how that plays out in real life...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:01 PM
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No but yiu cant argue some exception as a rule as to why its a good idea. Sometimes its better to abstain from certain situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:21 PM
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I do but dont trust certain settings that increase the odds. Especially with alcohol involved. So this leads to certain boundaries imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:19 PM
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I dont forbid it. She shouldnt want to get dressed up with high heels with her single froends to just dance and listen to music. Im fine with most things but it depends a lot on with who, where and at what time of course. Id argue I trust her but not her in certain settings. Its naive if you are completely fine with everything or dont care about the outcome. But if you have kids you cant take those risks and just be I dump her if it happens! Since the kids would suffer. Just find a middle ground…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:07 PM
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So you have no boundaries? Everything is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:05 PM
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House with a pet goose:)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:03 PM
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Thats almost all women by the way except some hardcore religious types. This no true scotsman argument doesnt work if you seen it happen a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:01 PM
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Its a single setting where guys approach you constantly. So yes. Its easy to say im fine with the guy going to a club. Its not comparable to the temptations and attention women get hence the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:58 PM
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That doesnt justify it? So women are insecure and controlling if they dont want their guy to go to stripclubs? He could fuck hookers after all so whats the problem? Its like people cant accept or respect reasonable boundaries in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:55 PM
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Typical reddit stuff where everyone is suddenly a swinger when the argument suits them, sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:51 PM
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Its their responsibility if they put themselves in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:48 PM
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I actually met a lot of people that were not fine with it and didnt intend to. But they still did. You know how you get drunk and binge eat ruining your diet plans. Its like that. Sometimes you get caught up in the setting/night/vibe/feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:47 PM
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Yes, but it depends a lot with who and where. With divorced friends to ibiza is different from with mother and sisters visiting family abroad. But in general I think married people with children shouldnt be in single settings. So no to bars and clubs of course but going for diner and at friends. Of course you can cheat everywhere but it increases the odds and its disrespectfull to the partner. Same reason I shouldnt be on some cheating app just for validation or chilling at a stripclub and gasli…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:45 PM
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Relations change
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:37 PM
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He's completely correct unfortunately. But it depends a lot on with who and where to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:33 PM
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So you have no problem with your partner going to a stripclub where the girls approach menfor paid sex but he just likes the music/vibe there and wants to chill with his friends and shoot pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:33 PM
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Not always unfortunately. They get caught up in the setting/alcohol/vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:27 PM
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Exactly. Sometimes things dont go as you intend to. Especially in a single setting and with alcohol involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:27 PM
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Yes but you dont go with friends. Its normal to have this boundary in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:24 PM
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I lived in a tourist city. You know how many people we met that didnt intend to cheat at all but it wound up happening anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:30 PM
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Yeah? Thats easy to say if you are young and live together. What if you have kids and a gouse together? Say grown up responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:28 PM
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Women want to best possible man. Top men wont commit cause they dont have to. Social media and online dating gsve them scces to each other. Everything else ist just the effect of that cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:09 PM
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How is insta better than dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:29 PM
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Lizzard brain > disney You never hear them going back into those abusive/bad fwb/situationships of the sex wasnt good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:41 AM
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You are chilidish with these just because type answers. Explain why its incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:13 PM
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That has nothing to do with it. On the other hand being an attractive girl certainly opens many doors. I have known truly attractive incompetent women that got promoted an better jobs left and right. Everything they do gets put trough a positivity filter and people wanting to favour them. Tomorrow I need to train some hot girl that was supposed to be fired from another department but got promoted to ours cause the manager saw valuable skills! Dude couldnt admit it was the big ass and blonde hair…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:05 PM
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Yes but if the girl dont like your look you can easily be called an immature asjole rather than a funny charismatig guy. Definitly helps if she already atleast lijes you a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:46 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:19 PM
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Just the way it is for the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:42 PM
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Doesnt cause it to me or other men. Does to women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:40 PM
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Its like cancer. Of course you are more likely to catch it you smoke daily for years but its not guatenteed. Just increased odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:19 PM
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Nah, kindness = boring for women. If you call her a bitch and imply violence = danger = exciting /tingles. No matter how much they say they want a kind man every guy knows from experience its bullshit and being dangerous/dominating man with random acts of kindness gets better results. Men like kind women, women dont like kind men. Thats why you see them also acting masculine/combatative/argumentative. Since they like it in men they think men like it in women. No, not that picky. Just dont be fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:25 PM
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Cause it often happens with guys who have fuck else to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:23 PM
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Because of seeing the behaviour in women. The guys they cant let go are the guys they bragged about having big dicks or great sex. No matter how scummy the guy was (married, cheating on her, lowlife, abusive etc. ) they kept running back and were booty calls. You dont reduce it to that otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:45 PM
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So if it was first me, then women beating her while drunk, I would have been right to leave her there? We had an argument with a bouncer and she sided with him. This pissed me of due to her not being more loyal and supporting which led to the discussion. It wasnt that extreme till she was swinging at me and eventually left. Which proved my point in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:44 AM
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Yes but they wont, there will always be thirsty simps
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:18 AM
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I was mad she left me there considering I was very drunk, the guys were fighting with me and it was abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:42 AM
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Yeah me and my ex had a relationship ebding fight drunk on a night out. Everything that had been bottling up came out. I basically told her the truth and she reacted by swinging at me in public. The second punchbI stepped out of the way and she fell over. At least 5 white knights rushed to help her and got in my face. Which led to a huge fight while she got put in a cab and drove of. Nobody cared about her agression.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:19 AM
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For most men its difficult to walk from sex cause its not easy to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:13 AM
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Girls have a hard time walking away from good dick/sex. No matter how the guy acts. Thats how they end up in those fwb/situationships. Dickmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:04 AM
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Nobody cares about that. Its the delusion of thinking they can get that guy, are on that level and therefore have a whole laundry list of demands along with the masculine bitchy attitude and high n count that annoys and disgusts people. Apparently women dont get this either since the topic gets brought up so frequently and confused for being able to date who they want by (ironically) entitled men. Just because the guy has sex with you doesnt mean he wants a relationship. If you want commitment t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:28 AM
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Its a good thing if not for the delusion that they think they can get commitment from the guy that woukd fuck her and thats now her level. Basically if you let women pick they pick the same guys. Who dont commit cause there is no need to and then you end up in this situation. Where the majority of men and women that want relationships get frustrated. Women cause they get pumped and dumped but can get commitment. Men cause their looksmatch has an attitude and thinks they are better than them. Sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:13 AM
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Yeah for real, people cant tell. Especially with shoes on. Its an online dating thing where there is that cut of number. Over here in Europe there is way less stats obsession than in the us but even then 180cm is like the US 6ft.which is 183cm Shows how silly and made up it all is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:09 AM
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They cant even really tell. Im 5'10 and can easily convince people im somewhere from 5'9 till 6ft and they would believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:22 PM
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If you are single you need to treat home as just a place to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:47 PM
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But if you are older than 30/40 its difficult to find prople that dont already have children or have other issues. The big downside is that at the end of the day its not your kind. You can get attached to it but if the rekationship is over so is your bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:11 AM
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Usually that means they dont want a partner having variety. That leaves the following options - no relationship, just casual - cheat - one sides open arrangement Or something crazy like date a bisexual woman and have threesomes with women. But thats basically it. Women dont agree to one side open stuff or cheating so that leaves resorting to flirting/porn for the variety if you crave that but also want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:38 AM
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What kind of man shares his gf? Thats just a cuck then. Also take in mind she gets laid way way easier than the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:39 AM
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Why? Past doesnt matter according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:13 PM
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No way, your past says a lot about you. Which is important going forward. Women wouldnt let the past be the past if you were a gay for pay escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:41 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:36 PM
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What about some darter then? Luke littler or van gerwen are not going to be picked over some high value rich dude or model.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:09 PM
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You still cant shakr the thought it could be any other guy thst puts down the money. It diesnt mean anything. I really think men crave validation more than sex itself. Otherwise incels wouldnt struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:07 PM
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The guy from fresh fit basically says that you need to become high value to become a man to attract women but then still wants to cheat since he would be better then the woman since she settled up. So one way polygamy... I disagree completely with that and think he should just move to saudi. Tate's say you should be high value and have multiple families like franchises while still sleeping around. Also disagree completely with that. Only part that all have in common thats red pill is you need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:23 AM
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I never did it as a strategy to get laid though. Just honestly respected women a lot and since they said they valued personality and manners so much. But then you get friendzoned constantly and you see them with guys that are the complete opposite of what they say they want. Logical reasoning is, wait a minute. If you dont want what you say, and friendzone me while I am what you say you want, maybe what you say you want isnt what attracts you? This was years before red pill but it always bothere…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:12 AM
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I always felt you need to put a lot of effort in to socialize. I was once a foreign exchange student. Unfortunately I was the only one in that class. First month there were a lot of days with me realizing shit I havent spoken a word out loud for a few days. Or it would be a hello/tnx to a cassiere, asking where we had class lr answering a question. Im actually very social but its difficult to initiate conversations or ask people to do things cause it felt like bothering them and they already had…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:53 AM
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Yeah, could be. From experience this is the case with high career women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:32 AM
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They just like to be dominated
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:26 AM
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Individualised society lf you go to a traditional country and harras or bother one of their women. Men are quick to jump in to fuck you up for it. But the feminism, individualism and lack of religion makes it. Everyone for themselves. Easier to control populations but also less group think or care about someone other than yourself or direct family/friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:49 PM
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I think they would but the situation usuallly never occurs so we cant really know. Most people still have values. Girls get put in the kids/animals category in those rare type situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:43 PM
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It might, but if there is nobody there the average guy would step up. If you see a woman dragged into the bushes and there was nobody else around you would still do something. I think most people would feel forced to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:33 PM
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Depends on the bystander effect. If he is alone I think he will feel the need to step in. I once confronted a guy smacking his gf on the train. In response the gf told me to fuck off amd leave him alone. No more white knighting after that. But depending on the situation I would step in. Its more an act of human decency then it being a woman though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:26 PM
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Nobody cares, women pick "insert fat ugly artist/moviestar" over the millionaire nobody knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:02 PM
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Those pookies are more wanted by women than rich hvm's. Social proof > all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:41 AM
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Of course they are happier. They are infantilized by society and friends, have money, less sex drive, endless validation and ocassional hook ups/fwb with guys better than them in looks and status. So dating their looksmatch feels like a huge downgrade then. Better be happy single. The men on the other hand, have are seen as disposable by society, get mocked and shamed by men and women for their struggles and mental health issues, have higher sex drives, get no validation snd can barely get laid …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:10 AM
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To each his own
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:16 PM
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I believe if the woman is happy in her relationship sje isnt even connecting a guy like that and wouldnt give her number out of respect for the man, herself and the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:28 PM
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Its like hooligans and footbal fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:56 PM
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Yeah I dont trust people if they put themselves in certain situations. Its like drunk driving to me. You dont drink and get into a car. Even if you are some skilled driver and always stick to two beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:32 PM
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Yeah keep simping
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:50 AM
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I disagree, I have a lot of friends. Nobody ever asked who should I date or talk about what she was like in bed. Thats how women communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:59 AM
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Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:35 AM
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But thats people not wanting to be shamed. He doesnt value her either but getting laid overrules that. Its not like others approval will suddenly make him value her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:15 AM
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They dont? Not when it comes to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:14 AM
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I think its the other way around with depression/anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:12 AM
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Yeah, ideally there should be no men for her to connect with like this. Problem is coworkers, male "friends" and guys she knew as social media friends. Those guys are always lingering and lurking like depression. hoping to see a slip, when you are going to rough patch they start conversations when they see catch those signals its not going that great. There is also society and her friends telling any guy voicing his doubts about this is insecure and controlling rather than her crossing bounderie…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:08 AM
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You dont give your number to strangers if everything is fine. You dont put yoirself in positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:10 AM
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Sure, but he fills a need thats been created. Thats the tough part, people create these situation and are then bewildered when sociopaths and conartists jump. I blame feminists for tate. A little bit more nuance, empathy and accountability could hsve prevented a big push back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:42 PM
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The opposite has also been argued. Its the reason why rough sex is one of the most searched categories by women and a lot have rape fantasies. Or wanting a man to take what he wants... Of course this is some fantasy chad not a gobblin hiding in the bushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:43 PM
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Mutual attractiveness is always asumed when they say that shit. Also its a lot of disney communication in what they think they want vs what they biologically desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:38 PM
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There is. If you both agree to monogamy in a relationship then cheating is wrong. This doesnt happen out of the blue. Something lead to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:30 PM
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Yet they will argue this. Cause if its true then the logical soliuton is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:28 PM
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Didnt this happen way before that with pua/red pill/mgtow? I think Tate came as a response to the every day woke agenda thats being pushed. Everything masculine got hated on a lot in the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:25 PM
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Girls just want what other girls want. Preselection exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:13 PM
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If you put yourself in a position to be ... then people will do it to you. This applies to a lot of aspects in life. Be it abuse, be it an increased workload, be it scammed etc. Its victim blaming cause while you dont deserve bad things happening you still end up in a position where it happens. Thats why I dont feel sorry for some beta dude that gets divorce raped. Atleast when you put everything on yourself it means you are not a victim and you can learn from it and change things. If you are a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:05 PM
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I lived in a tourist city. Met plenty of women who didnt intend to cheat but ended up cheating. Sometimes you get caught up with all the fun and alcohol. Attraction is like a volume knob, it turns on. Its not like a man that would jnstantly drop his pants if prime megan fox asked for it. Allthough there are always exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:26 PM
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I heard the problem js they want the marriage and shared life together. But also fuck young guys. Same as straight men with women. So they just turn on the gay dating app every now and then when away for work or on a holiday and then reset. The big difference with the married men and escorts is atleast the gay guy gets validated by knowing he was wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:00 PM
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How much of these divorces happened with couples that got together at say 29+ compared to those that got together earlier? Then we could see if the post wall settling leads to divorce argument is correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:44 PM
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Hitting rock bottom in life made me not care anymore. What could anyone say or think about me that I didnt about myself at that point? It made me talk stressfree with girls and then I learned more about how attraction worked, passing shittests and to be funny and engaging in conversation while being non caring about the outcome. When you dont care anymore and are in social settings often you kind of learn hands on. A friend of mine was even worse. He used to stutter and could barely talk to girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:47 PM
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Cause of the dick thing along with being masculine often. Lets be real about if. If they all looked like east africans they wouldnt be doing well. Its they same reason why east and south asian men are often dismissed instantly. I would argue even fat black guys do better than white or any other fat guy. You have guys look like biggie smalls and still have girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:54 AM
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When I was young and single girls considered me hot. Thats what people often said at least, shooting looks every where I go, giving ioi's and even initiate talks. But being a shy introvert and not very social along with being a kind respectfull person I always still got stuck in the friendzone and they still depended on me a lot to be assertive and make moves. Ironically being older, less fit, looking like a regular guy but very social, outgoing, fun and assertive made me have way more succes. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:50 AM
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Yeah not without shame and forcing people I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:41 AM
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Basically you need chad of the market. Best way to do that is only give up the kitty when there us a ring on your finger. If enough women do that it solves the problem and the delusional standards drop and everything falls in line. Its funny how people think ancient cultures are stupic yet they figured this shit out years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:53 PM
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Fucked up way to die though. He's not going for the neck like a tiger. Omnivor is mauling you and eating you alive while ripping of the skin and limbs...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:45 PM
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Its part of the attraction for women. Looks, status, money. In his case "ambition" and future money will attract women outside of his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:50 PM
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Good solutions. Happy it worked out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:33 AM
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How did you get out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:27 AM
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Its really difficult to break that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:19 AM
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Nobody should but reality doesnt run on shoulds unfortunately. Maybe the pain doesnt go away completely but it can managable and you can still have a life. Your making up a lot of assumptions based on what I said to victimize yourself. You can believe me or not but I have a lot of issues. My wife struggles because I struggle. If you love someone, it affects you. It doesnt just affect the struggling person. Suicide doesnt cure your pain. It just passes it over to someone that cares about you. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:11 AM
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Yeah its cringe but its also true. We need to find pride and love in our selves somehow first. Other people not loving you back is a symptom, not a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:57 AM
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Yes, we need to have hope that damage can be healed and keep trying. I cant accept damaged beyond repair otherwise I might just as well off myself. Its difficult for others to live with someone with mental health issues. I dont blame them for not wanting to deal with it to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:52 AM
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Im like you as well so I get where you are coming from but people cant love you or believe in you if you cant love yourself or believe in yourself. All this is basically marketing and sales and you are the product as well. How can you convince others of its greatness if you think its worthless? You need to work on yourself and prioritise yourself. Go monk mode, list down your goals or figure then out. Work towards those day by day till you believe you have a great product. You get what you want …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:57 AM
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If the guy is high value enough they will crawl trough glass basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:33 AM
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In general women cant differentiate between assholes and confident guys. Its not just women actually. Me being naturally an introvert I have seen it also at school/work and other places that being extravert and loud gets you most attention and praise. Even if its fake. Sometimes I was considerate of peoples feelings and it backfired. When you display selfishness and act cocky people bend over backwards to please and think you are worthy of this since you are so confident. Lets just say you get w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:31 AM
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Plenty of room for improvement OP. Solution: communicate your frustration and needs durectly to your partner and work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:55 PM
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You shouldnt care about what people think. Just approach when you think a girl is cute. I wouldnt do it at work though since that can get messy. Best would be trough mutual connections. Work on yourself, keep improving for yourself, be social and do things with friends. Then you will get in situations where you will meet people. I would stay away from social media or just see it as bs way to caste a wide net for one night stands but you are not going to get a quality relationship from there as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:24 AM
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Didnt happen to me personally though. I thought it was backward, opposed the thought and wanted to marry who I love. Its the recent state of the dating world and seeing the impact on people and society that I came around thinking that this doesnt work for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:45 PM
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It depend how it happens for me. If both are aware its not safe sex it meant they take that risk then you risk getting her pregnant. You need to man up and take your responsibility then since you cant force her to abort. However if a guy gets babytricked then he should be cleared of the financial responsibility. Problem is you cant prove it. Also imagine if you live where abortion isnt allowed. And the guy lies about condoms and put holes innit to knock you up. Would you consider it fair if he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:08 PM
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Why is it just about sex for you? In many cultures the girl/boy want each other but need approvel of the family. If chad can get the green light by the parents he is good to marry mary. They will just look at his personality/family/money as well fir their daughter to be well off. Not everyone that marries is a boring dweed. But if the guy is a scumbag he wont get the green light to prevent the virgin from future misery cause she had love goggles on. If its a good guy chad from the right backgrou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:47 PM
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Here's some logic. From a biological point of view. Men dont like women that sleep around while women prefer experienced men over virgins in general. I dont even get why this question gets asked? Its like a guy complaining beung nice doesnt work. We all would be really? You still need to ask that at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:39 PM
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So basically let them do whatever they want? Fine but then vetting isnt needed and it leads to the current situation. I thought the topic was about vetting?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:34 PM
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Lock/key analogy, men and women are different, plenty of double standards that benefit women. You cant have your cake and eat it too. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:11 PM
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To not get into bad rekatioonships/used/abused. Same reaso ln why you dont get in a relationship with a psycho girl fir example even if she looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:07 PM
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In my culture the father/brothers vet the guy. They look at his personality, fnancial prospect, past, family etc. The woman usually has love goggles on and passes on red flags more because of this. The mothers vet the women by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:04 PM
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Yeah so that makes them unfit to vet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:52 PM
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Its not as if this situation is filles with happy women. Despite all the freedom, benefits and birth control they are still unhappy/frustrated and depressed unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:45 PM
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Cause if you let them pick they will choose the attractive drugdealer from a different background.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:49 PM
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The majority of men dont even dare to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:48 PM
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Thats why I included it in the post since its the usual woman go to argument to dismiss the logic. Its easier to meet those needs with a lower n count. Besides the fact that men just dont want to be in a relationship with a women that slept with many men, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:42 PM
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Not india type arranged but live together only married type traditional countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:37 PM
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You must live a very sheltered life then and a narrow scope to be unable to understand other views. Its what it is. As long as it makes you hapy then its great I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:36 PM
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And here comes a point where many people agree to disagree. When does a relationship work better? If the couple has some/more experience or not? I currently think the lower n count for women, the better. The more experience she has then its more guys you are competing with. Even if you think its controlling or insecure there is truth to it. There is always a funnier, stronger, smarter, bigger, richer, more social, more ambitious, better connected guy. And you as a man are competing against that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:33 PM
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Its not always arranged like people think in India or that your father sells you for a goat or something. Usually like this. Boy and girl like each other, girl is a virgin, he proposes, she agrees, families meet to see if they are culturally compattible and if they have a future together financially. Guy works full time, she works parttime, they marry, have kids and live together. It doesnt always work out but what system is 100%? Its still fair to all parties involved imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:16 PM
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I prefer choice but also a marriage type arrangement. I used to think marriage was bullshit but it removed people from the dating scene. Less single people, less divorce rape, less kids growing up with divorced parents, more strong households and families, more houses availables and overall I think less frustration and depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:11 PM
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I dont live in the US, western Europe. But its similair values here so its easy to compare. I myself am very western and married that way but my family and friends are not. I can see the values and flaws in both type of marriages to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:06 PM
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Its arranged but she still has to agree to it. Otherwise it wont happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:03 PM
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People are not open to this cause they look at it trough a western view. But if you think it trough rationally it works for a society. Which country is this by the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:53 PM
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Thats why you usually got parents/family to vet them. And they usually like each other as well if they want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:50 PM
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Thats the problem of marriage before moving in. You dont know if you are compatibable. But apparently it can grow. She wanted to marry the guy as well but it was just hard ro adapt to the life in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:30 AM
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Sounds selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:27 AM
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You have to interact for that. A stranger saying something to you on the street is the same regardless pf his social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:26 AM
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Are they unhappier though? Survey muslim women vs Americans for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:26 AM
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Kids didnt ask for it. If you as an adult decide to have them than their well being is more important than yours imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:25 AM
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Yeah it made them work on the issues they were havvling. Which is something you must do if younlove someone. You think its fair if you are struggling and the guy you loves bails on you instantly? They are happy nowadays. Its ups amd downs and you need to see the big picture rather than instantly leave when you hit a downward patch. She can leave by the way; its not like she would be killed or something crazy. Its just frowned upon so people try to works things out first rather than run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:24 AM
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You guys always assume if divorce is frowned upon and people stay in relationships that they must be unhappy all. The time. You cant be happy 24/7 a marriage is ups and downs and you worknonnit together. Not run rom man to man when something bad happensm thenbyou end up alone and miserable as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:20 AM
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Life isnt a disney movie. Wish it was but it isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:16 AM
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Yeah other cultures are scary. Pretend American women are the happiest in rhe world. Most are ran trough and miserable l. Maybe the way of thinking is wrong then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:14 AM
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Well, since you are not a mindreader nor have a glass boll you cant know that. Only way to know is if you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:43 AM
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It can get better. My friend is in an arranged marriage. First year the wife was crying and unhappy. Nowadays she is very happy. Knowing you cant leave (how f up that sounds) makes you work on the problem instead of running away. I dont know why we keep thinking we know better for the recent 50 years compared to thousands. Like they didnt figure shit out way back then trough human experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:18 AM
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Op nailed it. The kids well being/happiness>yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:10 AM
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Read?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:09 AM
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Neither do yours dissprove it? You cant deny there is less divorce in these communities. And before you say it, I dont see more happiness in the divorced ran trough single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:52 PM
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Thats your opinion. I worked in a nursing home and most of the old women were proud and full of praise of their deceased husbands. They figured this out way back. If you give women a shitload of options they end up miserable. Cant even pick a netflix movie... Need to keep them on a short lease and bar some exception (which you might bring up as an anecdote to dissprove it) they are happer than all the women that file for divorce or stay single nowadays. Back when women were women and men were no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:48 PM
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I dont know who these people are but weakness kills your relationship as a guy no matter how fucked up that is. True story, this girl I know works at a revalidation centre. This dude showed up. His wife got cancer a few years ago, he took of her, she recovered. Then he got in an accident and got paralized. She dumped him shortly after saying she wouldnt let it get in the way of her happiness.... I often recalled this story at parties when a similair subject came up and women more often than not …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:44 PM
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She didnt want to work. It wasnt normal. She fulfilled her role and focussed on other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:37 PM
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If its the only guy she ever been with, she isnt going to know. Like if you eat only apples your whole life that shit is delicious to you. Ignorance is bliss. Im from a culture where you need to marry to be in a relationship/live together and trust me that there are a bunch of good looking women with some ugly dudes in long marriages. They seem happy or regular as the next marriage but not generally worse off than western type relationships and less likely to end up in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:36 PM
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Complimenting someone is part of being a social human being though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:19 PM
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Yeah self esteem is a big one. Liw self esteem keeps you from moving from bad situations. Or even take a risk. You feel like you dont deserve/cant get better. I hate how toxic people mess with their partners self esteem like this to keep control over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:19 PM
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Yeah so? You said uncontional love for their children. Not children in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:13 PM
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They do, not all but the large majority do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:07 PM
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For kids of course. Its not worth it if you fight all the time but sonetimes its not like that. Just a rut. Work/home/hobby's/family stuff etc. Takes up a lot of time and the kids would suffer if you break up. Sometimes you cant afford to be single without selling the house, you need two incomes to get by in many countries, move schools, they suffer with step parents that enter their lives. Or atleast out them at an increaed risk. Nah, just ride it out till they are adults. Kids Happiness and we…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:07 PM
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You think men ever hear wow you are beautiful from someone other than their mother? Im sure they rarely if never get complimented. And the second one is such an obvious trying to weasel my way in type of compliment. Just say nice shirt!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:00 PM
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Depends on how you say it imo and if you know her imo. On the other hands girls complain about guys being mutes in public and gsving resirt to dating apps. Like, make up your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:57 PM
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You think its not a recurring theme for women on dating apps and situationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:02 PM
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I talked to a girl about it. She said yeah, 100 guys just wanting to have sex with me! Might as well be nothing if its not serious! But she still had fwb's/friends/plenty of guys talking with her. At the very least its getting validated way more than a man can dream of. Also with less urge than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:16 PM
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Some homeless guy in london actually tried to get me to transfer monrey to give him money that way by swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:40 PM
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I still argue its lack of validation. Even if guys like that has enough money for a prostitute every night, it wouldnt satisfy the need.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:28 PM
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If I had less sex drive but still had a model coming over for free that wanting to have sex while I focused on my work/hobbies/friends while society infantilized me and offered unlimited support then it would be easy to be single as well....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:21 PM
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No reason and accountability. You can bring back down all issues to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:03 AM
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Game got more difficult with social media and dating apps unfortunately. But also to those in relationships its not just smooth sailing from there on out. Its hard work and continious self actualisation to keep it all together and move forward. I think if I was young I would be frustrated as well. Besides working on yourself of a young guy wants to land a girl thats not ran trough with an attitude the best solutions seem to be religious girls or meeting in real life trough friends/social circles…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:33 AM
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It wont. Doesnt give validation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:07 AM
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I been distant before with women. Thry thought I was not interested and moved on. Its definitly not as black/white.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:43 AM
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Definitly not. You could argue for sex but thats just cause they more asssertive than the shy kind girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:41 AM
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With women you have to add certain shit when they say things. I love you! (Right now in this moment) I want a decent man! (But he has to look good/have status/be rich) Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:25 AM
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All of the equivalent of needing a university degree to work at mcdonalds is frustrating while girls get ceo jobs for showing up. But if you are strugglinng you can only do whats within your control and increase your odds. Everything else is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:21 AM
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Its not as upfront like that though. If a guy cane out saying you are just a fucktoy to me. A lot of women wouldnt prefer that. There is still a lot of confusion, frustration and hope while she is sleeping with that guy. Thinking its her level, are they or are they not? Will he finally commit fully? Sure you also got the happy single with a fwb that just gives her dick twice a week but they are still looking for dates with other men. If it was as resolved like that being fine they wouldnt compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:12 AM
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The solution is pretty essy. Dont put the cart before the horse. If you want a high value man to commit you need to be a high value women and hsve him commit (marry) before you have sex with him. The whole I will sleep with him and hopefully it leads to a relationship has the opposite effect. And you wont be considered high value enough to commit to. You also cant have your cake and eat it too. But I know a lot of 5-6/10 (looks) girls love to get pumped and dumped by 9/10 guy being delusional it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:23 AM
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No not that anyone would want to. People should be the best versions of themselves and be strong and fit but I just think it means less purely when it comes to pulling when you have status, looks or monney. Obviously it still best then to still look and behave like a man should.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:38 PM
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What about you can be a weak non threatning low t man as long as you have one of the 3? I would argue that dude still puls more than an average looking guy, with no money or status but a masculine frame and high t and a bit of muscle?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:30 PM
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So basically it doesnt matter as long as you have clout, money and looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:23 PM
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Death by snu snu!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:16 PM
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Apparently those feminine kpop guys are very popular nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:14 PM
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Let me tell you something. Short fat bald men, with no jobs, who live with their parents, dont approach strange women and are succesfull if the communicate well!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:02 PM
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That shit isnt even true. Also disrespectfull as fuck towards the godess thats catherina zeta jones. You could probably cure throatcancer that way!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:35 PM
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Depends on your looks/status/money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:22 PM
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Sex for gays is 0/10. My coworker was a regular dude. He had this gay dating app as to show us what that was like for gays and it exploded with men asking him to meet. Like 10-20 in a few hours nearby. That guy actually had a relationship but apparently open and both dated outside of that. You cant even compare that. It was like male thirst with female options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:41 PM
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O noticed this how they always rush to defend the woman in a story they know nothing about. This guy I know got cheated on by his wife who left him for a coworker. Every girl still blamed him, looking for reasons to not call her a cheating whore and why its justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:35 PM
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Cause its just drunk guys looking to smash. Its not reality to get in a relationship with these guys so why be an entitled bitch about it? Take in mind these girls were actually kind and modest outside of that setting, say in schools or in public during the day. Its like if you have a friend that plays in a band during the weekends but then acts like a cunt due to the attention given. It would piss people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:01 PM
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Not being happy but the entitlement and attitude is what rubs people the wrong way. Its the same feeling you got when you saw some 16 year old brat rage at their parents for getting the wrong colour lambo at sweet 16 back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:54 PM
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15-20 years ago you had these 3/10 overweight girls in the club getting attention from 100 guys due to it being 80% men and them being drunking wanting to get laid. The girl that normally would be happy a 6/10 guy was talking to her suddenly thought she was jlo and was a bitch towards most guys due to the unlimited attention. But outside of that they didnt have the inflated ego's jn real life. Tinder and social media made that a reality for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:47 PM
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In general unless the guy is gay he cant be friends. He can be but still wants to smash or weasel his way into a relationship. Just be upfront about it. If you doubt it you can see cause hot girls always have more male friends than uglier ones. I wouldnt trust a guy trying to hang out with my gf/wife either. And I dont care if it gets labled insecure or controlling or whatever tricks people use to guilt others into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:48 PM
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Cause women argue anecdotes/exceptions to dissprove the rule. Even know I should add "in general" so someone doesnt come arguing how they dont argue exception to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:42 PM
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Atleast then you could easily get a romantic relationship. Just be rich bro! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:39 PM
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Girls with autosm get plenty of matches from guys casting a wide net. As long as she looks decent enough nobody cares she has autism. The autistic guy is still (no pun intended) screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:37 PM
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Yeah sure, sone average dude probably got laid trough online dating once as well. Doesnt mean they get as many matches as some chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:35 PM
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You think its average men om the other side of these situationships or in soft harems?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:27 PM
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I hear more complaining about this than people being happy about it though. In general I dont believe they dont want a relationship with the guy they are sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:21 PM
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Insert anecdote of my neighbours cats former owners neice dating a balding janitor and being very happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:43 PM
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The same type of guy is a statistic outlier in the aspects they value, looks, status, money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:38 PM
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Well, all these situationships show they dont date their looksmatch but are getting smashed by guys with better looks and value but cant get him to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:37 PM
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Also looks. AJ is a fool but he is also 6'6 ripped chad besides the clout and money. Look at this clip of him meeting fans with Floyd Mayweather. Floyd is an ATG boxer with way more status and money than AJ but look at how people (especially women) treat him. He gets reduced to the 5'7 skinny guy he is by the casuals that dont know lr care about it when he is standing next to AJ. As a boxing fan who dislikes Floyd for what he has done to the sport it was hilarious but as a man even I felt bad fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:05 PM
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But they died due to those reasons not due to being undesirable bar exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:26 AM
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They would still be more picky even if everyone looked like 6ft models with abs. By that logic rape and slavery are natural as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:24 AM
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Besides the money or it being illegal in countries, it doesnt give men validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:22 AM
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Not to the dissapropriate rate we are heading towards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:46 AM
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It implies its natural for men and women to get together and have babies. But keep thinking a few guys gaving harem or spinning plates with delusional women is natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:28 AM
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50% of the population is male. Its definitly not naturalfor a big part of them to never have a relationship/marriage/children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:43 AM
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This mgtow type of thinking is fine but the problem is men still hsve a higher libido and crave sex/validation from women so we will not want them less than they want us or moge away from that completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:41 AM
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Right but then dont argue it as its a result of men not doing enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:08 PM
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I dont even care about this shit to be honest and dont go on trips to get laid haha. Msybe its not red pill I dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:09 PM
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Misandry running wild lately hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:38 PM
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Sure you are, probably have cat called chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:35 PM
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I think the pua thing did work. Atleast till online dating exploded guys could still use that to actually get numbers/dates get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:57 PM
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With hairloss those come with side effects. Look I agree whennyou argue this about being fat, not grooming or bad clothes kr something but it doesnt apply to balding like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:50 PM
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I think a lot of the mgtow posters went here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:45 PM
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Your post just came across as men failing to step up in those aspects. Like some bald ex wronged you and you are still mad, lol. Its funny how women always complain about slut or fat shaming but are cold and lack any empathy when it comes to their turn offs for men which often are completely out of their control. Like height, penis size or baldness. Then suddenly its preferences which are fair and it should be respected. But then of a guy says he doesnt want obese ran trough girls (which are con…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:42 PM
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So for you, accepting reality as it is equals hating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:31 PM
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Why do you put balding on the same category as being overweight. As if someone chooses to become bald trough laziness or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:10 PM
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Not hate women allthough there is initial frustration when you discover reality. For the rest its just see things how they are and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:08 PM
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Yeah that was my take on it as well. And thats what the self improvement thing should be as well imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:16 PM
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You have to want it while also be happy even if you dont get it. If im looking for a job but cant find any I can still be proud after improvements made that I got further in the selection process. If you obsess over the result you wont enjoy the proces. .when it comes to relationships it should just be to be the best version of yourself, give it an effort and not be to hung up about it of things dont work out like you expected. Ive had trips with friends where guys whole trip being a succes or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:44 AM
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Thats more likely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:31 AM
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Yes, men learn trough experience and we do what works as a solution. A lot of guys are raised with treat women with kindness and love etc. Only for them to get crushed and figure out the opposite of whats been told works way better and appeals to women more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:03 AM
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Cause it wouldnt validate men. Men want to be wanted hy women. A thing like that is basically hooker/blow up doll or porn. It gets the end result but doesnt give the validation men crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:20 AM
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Nah, just preselection. Same reason you hsve these guys who hang out in a bar invisible, then perform their scheduled guitar set and suddenly the whole bar is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:41 AM
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Cause they dont have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:42 AM
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I once went to a club on friday, zero attention. Went the next day with 3 female coworkers and had half the club trying to get my attention. Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:27 PM
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So nobody can be bothered by anything? Deprrssed people, lonely, singke moms etc. Since you can kill any argument bybsaying yiu aint entitled to it so it doesnt matter, so dint say anything about it... Easy to talk about from the position of privillage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:48 PM
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Exactly, people are still rightfully pissed about the situation though. That nobody cares is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:01 PM
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Same logic applies which women use when men complain they cant get a date/relationship: you are not entitled to anything. No man owes you a relationship so just deal with being pumped and dumped and the struggle of being a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:56 PM
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Just more empathy, treat other like you want to be treated and dont be shitty to people just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:55 PM
3

Whats wrong with feeling entitled to a relationship with a high value man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:45 AM
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I dont see a problem with approaching, especially after signs of interest byt if she says no then its no. Some guys keep pushing and misreading it as playing hard to get so they get annoying. But if you never approach you will stay alone since women certainly wont move.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:41 AM
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Lack of accountability. Women cant admit they crave excitement and like toxic people cause of their behaviour, looks, status, money cause it makes them look shallow. So the nice guy must be a flawed raging incel. Sometimes its true of course that some guy is a weasel looking to get laid like that but even kind normal men are rejected just as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:38 AM
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How is it wrong if they cant date their looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:57 AM
1

Its like Eddie Murphy's bit when he brings the wife home from africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:49 AM
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I think thats the problem for women. They thinknthe guy willing to sleep is also possible to commit. So they prefer to take that chance over settling. All their other needs are mrt trough family/friebds and having her own money. No need to settle for your looksmatch then. It doesnt lead to happiness thiugh since in general they would prefer to marry but she cant get the guy she wants and thinks can get. The funny thing is when you think this trough you figure out society already had the solution…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:46 AM
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they will try to make the family work and are not benefited by divorce. Its like this: they meet, like each other, guy proposes, family approves (important to filter out losers/ho's when they have love googles on) also no arranged marriage. If it also clicks sexually, living together it rarely ends in divorce. Compare it with some high body count girl, lets assume no single mother. Already a party lifestyle which they want to keep up with eventually ocasionally. The guy isnt special or first any…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:26 PM
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Benefits are that they can get laid in easy ways with better looking men anytime they want compared to their male looksmatch. If a man sleeps with a hooker everyday people look at him with disgust as well and rightfully so. Im sorry if it bothers you but men like pure women over ran trough like you guys prefer tall guys in general. So the broken lock master key analogy will always apply. Be glad you are born high value instead having to create it. Its a real privallige and its up to women if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:57 PM
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Anything thats easy isnt admirable. I include straight guys sleeping with prostitutes as well because of this. Men and women are different and double standards exist because of this. You just have to deal with it I guess. Same way men cant have sex as easy as women do for example, is what it is and they hsve to deal with that and many other double standards that benefit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:53 PM
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Never ate beacon and being circumstanced is cleaner anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:49 PM
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How do you see it realistically play out if you just say, do whatever you want and sleep around and focus on your career? Can you still get a meaningfull relationship with the guy you want or is the chance higher you would need to settle? Its like people want to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:47 PM
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Yes, so what? Its not admirable for gays or men sleeping with prostitutes either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:41 PM
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Its because you need value to get women. If a guy just pays and sleeps with 100 hookers nobody pats him on the back. Its disgusting. But to get 100 girls to sleep with you means you are valued more. Which as a man you need to built. In similair fashion there id nothing admirable about a girl sleeping around. Nothing easy is respected. If you get 100 marriage proposes (like in religious countries) then you are cobsidered a high value woman that people want to marry. Not that its ever gets to that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:30 PM
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I mean to argue autistic women dont prefer autistic men like short women dont prefer short guys on general. Its not a go to solution since the autistic women prefer other guys as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:20 PM
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Im actually considering raising my kids muslim partially because of this. Its my background in a western country but I dont practice it myself. But I think sons having the possibility to marry a virgin in her early 20's gives them a better shot at a succesfull marriage/family than getting in a relationship with ran trough girls that lost their ability to pair bond. Chance of divorce is way higher then. Same with girls, better to marry some high value guy when they are both early to mid 20's than…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:08 PM
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I mean thats what gives her a pass. Otherwise those flaws would be highlighted like an autistic man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:59 PM
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Perception is reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:52 PM
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Thats like saying why dont short girls date short guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:47 PM
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Depends on how she looks. With men it just depends on their willingness to have sex with them. If they look decent enough she could be drowning puppies and guys would still line up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:46 PM
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I think the idea that men are more eager for sex is accepted as fact. You know some idiot will come in and argue her libido was higher than her ex but that doesnt dissprove it in general. Same way men are less picky than women. Who wouldnt accept that as reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:32 AM
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I have not cried in 19 years. I think im unable to at this point. Definitly expressed sadness to her though, or problems. I will say I never got laid after it though. Shevwants to help sometimes but its also a turn off, no matter what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:25 PM
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But even the most kind girls just responded better to this type of behaviour than being kind. I experimented with this due to thinking it was just toxic girls. Unfortunately not the case. Even the kind modest ones confuse it for confidence, assertiveness and being a better pick as a partner. From a protect and provide biological perspective it makes sense as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:56 AM
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Yeah but even with girls I meet at clubs or was in a relationship with there was way less attraction towards me compated to being a more selfish asshole that didnt care. Even if they initially did get with me for how I looked I noticed my personality (being introvert/considerate/respectfull) turned them off from a romantic perspective. When I behaved the opposite there was more lust after being initially attracted. Which is fine but we dont tell kids that. Hey women dislike introverts and consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:53 AM
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Just touch grass bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:42 AM
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Im perfectly calm actually. It was very frustrating when I found out it didnt work and the opposite was correct. It alsmo made me bitter towards women when acting like an asshole did work. I could meet a girl in a club, she tells me she has a boyfriend or not be the type that does one night stands. I would respect that but then end up friendzoned. When I told her I didnt give a fuck about her bf she suddenly wanted me... I even pushed things by saying things like I just want you for tonight and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:41 AM
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I know this girl who became single after a long relationship and was dating guys. She had a whole list of rules of how a guy was supposed to be and behave but all that went out of the window for some other guy. He wasnt even that good looking but according to her had a big dick and fucked her really good. He was also dating a girl abroad which he was trying to get over. She would chase and do anything for this guy. He would treat her like trash, or say im in this place come here snd she would do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:17 AM
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You definitly need money/status as well. Or atleast not be some broke loner. When you are 25+ its more difficult to get girls of you are poor and alone. You better be some type of artist then or have ambitions to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:19 PM
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Money, looks, status. You just need to improve at all till you are better than 80% of the population. You cant change certain things but you can atleast get into shape, groom and dress better. Be social and work on your career. Allthough that should be mainly for yourself imo. You get what you want by becoming who you want after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:00 PM
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This is what happens when you cant live together without being married. Women tie down the highest potential guy they can get when they are still prime. Both are of the market, game is on for the rest, society flourishes more than it does now. Lots of muslim countries still do that. Lots of women risked being too picky and ending up alone or needing to settle for some loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:28 PM
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Depends on the guy/relationship. If he is higher value than her, can easily replace her, does he really love her, does he depend financially, do they have kids. All these things matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:23 PM
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More easy sex, have your cake and eat it too, otherwise she wont give it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:13 PM
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Would be a good social study. Ugly tall guy vs pretty short guy. Who gets more?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:05 PM
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But she was just immature back then, she has grown post wall into the person that wants a serious relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:02 PM
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Its the same in real life. Men and women respond different to attractive people. Halo effect is a true thing. You could tell the same joke and get a way different response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:01 PM
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I will say this. If we go strictly by nature, women want the best selection of men to breed with and produce off spring. Men want to breed and produce offsping with multiple women. Monagomy is a compromise which leads to these contradicting views aince it goes against nature. Same reason most women (if not all) will always (subconciously) look to upgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:45 PM
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Women just dont openly criticize their friends. Theu gossip behind their bsck but in their face they encourage them to cheat, date an 18 year old, have one night stand with a drug dealer, date a millionaire age 60 or whatever. More juicy gossip. Unless the guy is some total boring loser, then they will say it. He better atleast be a criminal, have a big dick or something exciting at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:35 PM
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Because they are usually not upfront about it. Everyone been on a date, think it went well only to be ghosted or put in the friendzone. When you want to know why you never get a clear answer. Or its some Seinfeld type little thing that made it into a turn off. Like you say a certain word too much, was wearing the wrong socks, was undecisive about what to order or wasnt funny, direct, leading, charming or the exact opposite or whatever. Unless so is absolutely loving your looks and or status you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:31 PM
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Right, only poor dumb men cheat. Like there are not a shit ton of guys that are well of that replace their wife with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:25 PM
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Cause nobody considers nen victimized. Its acceptable for people to attack those. Just look how fat men are threated compared to fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:45 AM
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Pure, like owning a brand new bar but better. Also the first man on the moon thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:18 PM
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I dont hate it. People should do what they want of course. I dont care about some gay dude sleeping around either or a man that visits prostitutes. Its just not admirable and most people consider it disgusting, is what it is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:46 PM
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Yes, plenty of double standards thst benefit women as well. Men and women are different after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:37 PM
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Kind timit girls as well. They confuse it for confidence and prefer a guy who takes/does what he wants. No matter what they say. Plenty of guys seen a huge difference in how women respond when they went from kind/nice/respectfull (not a doormat) to self absorbed asshole behaviour. In general they just crave that danger and drama imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:54 PM
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Men are disgusted by it cause of biological reasons. Thats the truth. There is nothing admirable about a girl sleeping around no matter how people justify it. Its similair to gay guys sleeping around. The reactions vary between ok so what? To yuck. Its similair to some dude bragging about he has the money to fuck a different prostitute each night. Suit yourself, nobody cares but dont expect praise for it or people to not look down on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:50 PM
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Men dont care about all that shit. The hot young 22 year old cassiere gets picked over the 32, looks fading well traveled, interesting hobbies having post wall woman. Most men have to create value while women are born with it and it fades over time. They dont think it fades though and are about fun fun fun! Till they hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:16 PM
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Love for me is when you care about someone else more than you care about yourself. Life experience led me tho these conclusions though: 1. The majority of people love themselves first and therefore put their own priorities first. 2. If you dont love each other in the same way yiu will get your heart broken. 3. I dont care about myself a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:15 PM
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Just for sex but a relationship? Of course not. If you have values and care about that in the person you are in a relationship with you cant have it be a girl with a high body count or one that has normalised sex with strangers in a weird way like a prostitute. Also the thought of so many guys having sex with her is disgusting for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:47 PM
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I been like OP, you know what this threating others how you like to be threated leads to? One'itisand then there us a big risk of getting your hearted broken. The reality on human/female nature is cold, not disney. Doesnt mean you cant still use red pill strategies to get and keep a partner and be what you qualify as a faithfull and morally good partner. But dont think it will automatically be the same in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:11 PM
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It works till they think you are the teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:03 PM
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Dude is smooth but in a creepy dennis reynolds/ted bundy kind of way...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:02 PM
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Op's like: "fuck this sub as as a staff, record label and as a motherfuckin' crew. And if you want to be down with the mods, then fuck you too!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:03 AM
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People lie cause they dont want to take accountability. Dont let them trick you into thinking its just to inexperience and growth in life. 30+ women get freaky when they cheat or after divorce when they are hot for a guy. That wouldnt make sense if it was just a phase they grow out of. They like that shit. Just not with boring guys they got in relationships with for other reasons. Trust me, dead bedrooms or blue moon vanila sex only kills your relationship. Figure out why its happening and fix i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:43 AM
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Lying to get your foot in the door isnt unfair. Nice guys finish last, remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:09 AM
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I dont buy the young and naive and growth story. Divorced girls get freaky post break up after having years of vanilla sex. Truth probably is cause its exciting and hot cause its new and when you are younger its more about physical atteaction therefore lust. But even even older women in new relationships are not vanilla in the beginning. I also think its cause they settled with some beta provider that doesnt give tingles in their hearts of heart despite the growing as a person. And you also have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:04 AM
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Yeah but you can still speak out against it as much as we (should) do after personal attacks in a debate. They atleast owe it to not argue in bad faith imo. Which often seems to be the case with anecdotal examples that act like forced nuance.That doesnt make the statement wrong in general after all. What struggles by the way? More like life isnt a romcom, people been lied to for years on these subjects. Its good to bring some reality to get rid of the continues struggles and confusion regarding …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:25 PM
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Its about improving the odds. And there definitly are ways to that in this specific example. That requires some harsh reality and self reflection if you were to improve. Imsgine this dude being a friend asking from this holding him back. Reality is the guy is playing on hard mode but you cant lie and fir example say nah man, women love short guys. You just need to be nice to them and believe in yourself! That doesnt help compared to realistic advice. Imagine of we did that with everything in lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:00 PM
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Human contact definitly, feedback sure, unclear on the validation. Except if thats the validation like a compliment for a cooked meal or something If you self validate you dont need external validation for gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:14 PM
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I agree with you that it depends on how its communicated and how its intended. " we all know women dislike short men, how do I get girls as a 5'6 man" doesnt need to be ridiculed or nuanced with anecdotal exceptions when its very clear what he means and wants. It doesnt need an in general disclaimer or carefull not to offend anyone type approach. Now we can work towards something in a logical way. which the ocussional post does fortunately. But so many posts then arguing exceptions and mocking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:10 PM
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Is it a healthy need to? Its difficult for me to grasp. I once though that if I didnt care about what people think about me in a negative way then why should I care about their praise? That should be reserved for the people you care about as feedback. It killed social media for me along with a few other reasons. I think if you need validation then to be validated externally you depend on others for your well being. Which would make it unhealthy. Healthy thing is self validation where you look to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:38 PM
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I think its the majority and you should count on it of you make a male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:23 PM
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Its not sticking to black/white arguments. Its where you start and work towards a solution. Sure its not guarenteed to lead to victory but if you were the put money on it it would be the best choice. If you have exception, e.g. short guy with a taller girl and are happy than good for you of course. But to dismiss that women prefer taller men due to some exception is arguing in bad faith and doesnt help anyone. Accepting that as reality and finding solutions for that is. Iits best to accept the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:21 PM
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Is it a surprise?reddit leans thatvway very much. Thats why every male sub gets banned discussing this shit while misandrist subs ger to continue. Its not tiwards a victimized group. Thats why neutral subs eventually lean that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:45 PM
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Thats why guys need to be upfront with it instead of trying to weasel their way into it. Its disrespectfull and misleading. In general men cant be friends with women though. Since in most situations they are always willing/wanting to have sex with the girl. Thats why good looking girls have tons of male "friends" (orbiters) compared to say fat ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:42 PM
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I hate how everything always had to be nuanced to death though. People act like there is zero truth to a generalisation and it always has to be pointed. Whats the point of these arguments? Men fuck anything that moves... Not all men! Women dont date broke fat guys... not all women! Dogs have 4 legs, actually my cousins dog has 3 so youre entire argument is flawed! Its so extremely stupid, like you should you know its in general yet cant help but point out an exception to dissprove the entire sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:34 PM
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I do think most attention seekers are insecure deep down. But the opposite also happens. People with low self esteem that avoid attention and are not jeleous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:16 PM
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Its maybe easier to get laid with a wild one. Make no mistake, men actually prefer peace and quiet and a low body girl next door in the same way you guys like confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:08 PM
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I dont even think they want nice and sweet to them. They want excitement and danger. And its not just damaged or just young women either. And no, not all women to get that argument out of the way. But its definitly prefered over kindness which is considered boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:47 PM
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Yeah but you just get attacked for it while the majority thinks "not me"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:43 PM
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Women lack empathy for male problems. That should be clear by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:53 PM
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Im about 5'10 and never got rejected on height except once by a taller girl. I do think if I was 6'1 or taller and looked the same things would have been way easier. And if you are below 5'8 it gets more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:12 PM
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But plenty of girls are 160cm or shorter. It should be no problem setting them up with 170cm guys. Except most want 180cm guys despite being able to wear heals with the 170cm guy. Its like a fat guy wanting a skinny girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:09 PM
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Thought you meant unappealing guys. You mean women? Im sorry, im missing your point I guess in response to my reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:06 PM
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What did I say that opposes that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:28 AM
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Hence why the guys who they fuck dont get into relationships with them since they hsve plenty of options. I dont even know why we are discussing this. Its as obvious as can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:27 AM
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Its logical. Guys will have sex with almost anyone, women dont. If you can get sex with almost anyone it means many women desire you. Why would you get in a relationship with her then? Its the same thing as me telling some fat broke guy he got as much of a chance landing a model as the rich fit guy. It doesnt make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:01 AM
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If he dkesnt have sex with his wife and only watches porn then yeah. If they only hsve sex once every week then I dint blame the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:43 AM
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They wont get in relationships with them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:40 AM
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So some guy in his mothers basement can get dates as easily as a famous artist? That difference is the difference in smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:39 AM
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But the basic girl still gets validated by having hundreds of matches onnline wiling to smash that it gives her an entitled attitude amd inflated ego. Back in the day an ugly girl could go to a club and it was 80% guys willing to hit on her. Suddenly this girl is rejecting betrer looking guys life and right. Guys she would be happy to meet outside of that setting. Online dating turned that into a constant situation for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:29 AM
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Ah oki, everyone is lonely since its so easy to date people and make friends. Its not like people been complaining about a lack of social gatherings or how hard is to get dates. Go outside is as much of a dumb advice as telling a depressed person to just be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:03 PM
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But thats another problem. These places have been deckining in recent years. Most people outside are onntheir way and go to school/work/home or have an appointment. Social gatherings in general have declined. Its expensive and people prefer to chill at home. Best are hobbies and sport but metoo movement and everyone being a victim made that sexual harrasment if you talk to someone, so everyone just shuts up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:41 AM
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You go out on the street and socialise how? Everyone is on their phone, plugs in and scream sexual assault if you say hello. You can be lonely in a crowd. If you got nobody to connect and level with. Somehow this always gets brushed of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:16 AM
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Invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:27 PM
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I think the men who threat women badly are the ones with options since they can get away with bad behaviour since women are lining up anyway. The frustrated "nice guy" going on incel tants is just mad cause his looksmatch and worse overlook him for the guy they go after. Women need to take sone accountability on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:27 AM
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Why does it have to be a doormat or a nagging constantly arguing in a loud way about everything type of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:18 AM
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Define do well?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:16 AM
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Sounds like you prefer women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:04 AM
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But they make plenty of money in their own. They dont need a man to provide for them so why seek a guy that makes more or is ambitious to make more if you are not some traditional woman that depends on a guy? Why isnt his personality and morals not a way bigger factor than money?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:49 AM
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Its also discouraged in a lot of western countries. Forcing boys to be femenine and girls to be masculine. I saw a documentary on it about some school in I think it was norway or sweden where the boys dressed up as girls if they liked and girls as boys where the main message was its fine to be whoever you want to be and the standard idealistic quotes you often hear. All I thought was you are not preparing them for real life, they will be hurt so bad when older... The road to hell is paved with g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:45 AM
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Ah so it got as much media attention as it does now? Graph showing the word racism/racist in the biggest papers in the US. Take in mind occupy ended sept 2012. But keep believing identity politics wasnt forced more. https://tablet-mag-images.b-cdn.net/production/9c9c2bbd09e025a564eea667f44f991f9bb5a83f-2054x1174.png?w=1200&q=70&auto=format&dpr=1
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:47 PM
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Not in the way it does now. Attention skyrocketed post occupy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:22 PM
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Occupy movement shook wallstreet. After that all the divide and conquer shit started. Lgbtq, blm, gender wars. All distractions, you can even look it up how it was suddenly mentioned way more in the media than bedore. All distractions to keep them at each others throats and from focussing on the real issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:41 AM
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That you glorify them. You make them out to be a lot more than they actually are. You have unrealistic expectations and standards for them. You think they are perfect, have a great life, never fail, and can do no wrong. You worship the very ground they walk on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:02 PM
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Thats 25.5 bmi, thats not 20 lbs overweight. But keep acting like you dont understand the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:14 PM
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I dont think 68kg at 163 is 20 lbs overweight or fat. More like 10lbs. About 73 kg is 20 lbs overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:56 PM
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Tnx! Thats more like she passes out drunk in the bedroom rather than pull some woman of her bike. It implies that you and her already are on the point to hook up but she is unable to give consent. Atleast thats how I interpret the question. Still no of course and 1/3 is bad. Maybe its meant differently and if there is anarchy there would be a lot sexual assaults and its basically society and laws keeping men in check. Once had this debate where another guy was playing devils advocate and saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:01 PM
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Fat gays with hairy necks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:50 PM
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Whats the other wording?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:00 PM
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Bunch of neckbears are rubbing their hands as we speak!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:59 AM
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Are biologically unable to lower their unrealistic standards then? And yes not seeing your looksmatch as 20 lbs overweight woman with little money as not an option cause some hotter dude will smash but not commit is having unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:56 AM
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There is a loneliness epedemic with men. But what can women do about it if we are being honest? Cause of their hypergamy they cant go against ot anymore than men can stop being attracted to hot 18-25 year olds. So they wont date down in a system thats set up for them to maximize hypergamy. They also communicate different and are more victims to their feelings. Best solution is raise traditional kids and and dont partake in hookup culture. But for now atleast show genuine synpathy and take it ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:14 AM
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No just misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:16 AM
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The guy is shitty cause he got his neck broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:48 AM
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You have to vet better to decrease the chance of it happening and use common sense. In general if your feeling something is wrong, then it is. And be unforgiven. If it happens once it happens again. Dont fall for the lies and tears either. If they cheat, unless alcohol is involved its almost never instantly. But prolonged contact with a guy trough sm/work/hobby etc. Thats why you need to vet better, dont date high body count, masculine, argumentative party girls with slut friends/gay friends or …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:14 AM
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Doesnt have to be physical to be considered toxic femeninity or misandry imo. Even among women, telling another woman she isnt a real woman if she doesnt breastfeed her kids or gave birth naturally is toxic femeninity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:58 AM
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Its common to point it out when people act like they are perfect little angels who xant do no harm. If a man is piece of shit that gets drunk, beats his wife to the point that he kills her, you wont have a group of men defending it like women (and simps) do when the woman is in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:47 AM
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Yes, they are perfect angels and its always a mans fault. Here is an example I know of since this sub hates generalizing so much. Married couple, friends of ours, wife gets cancer, man takes care of her (lik he should). After she is recovered the guy gets in a car accident and is paralized from the neck down. Wife leaves him after a month for another guy cause she cant deal with this. I call her an ungratefull backstabbing whore when this came up at the next birthday party with all of their frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:35 AM
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The biggest difference is toxic femeninity is tolerated because its not against a considered victim group. The exact same sub for men would be branded misogynist instantly and banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:20 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:03 PM
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He changed his name cause they commentators refused to acknowledge him as marvelous while they did with fast tracked others. US senate had to threaten bob arum with legal action to get a man a title shot when he was like 50 fights in. In which they did rob him again.... The guy was very bitter and it did help as fuel to stay dedicated when he became champ. But to me he is the ultimate guy to look up to when it comes to discipline, keep grinding towards a goal no matter the circumstances and adve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:22 PM
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Marvelous Marvin Hagler, succeededat boxing against all odds and the wishes of the boxing establishment by hard work and dedication. His training was legendary and inspired by Marciano as well. Goggins curently has a lot of positive stuff that really men need. As far as movies goes, its vito corleone in godfather 2. The pear scene after losing his job is the most romantic scene ever as a guy imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:59 PM
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I think there is more of a biological/evolution reason for this. In general they prefer the most desired male since biologically its the biggest chance for quality offspring and to protect and provide. They are natural followers because of this and why there are groupies for ugly famous dudes. Hell, everyone knows they get more attention once in a relationship. Two other quick examples. I once went to a club with 3 female coworkers and them dancing with me made half the club interested all of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:49 PM
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Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:18 AM
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Easy to say. Plenty of guys get gaslight into this "im not insecure so I let her!" Type thinking where his boundaries are made to be unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:48 PM
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But they dont intend to cheat. They just want to go out with their gf's, have fun and get validated by attention. If you ever lived in a tourist city or where there is an active nightlife, Mostly they get caught up in the moment and end up cheating when there was no initial intention when she put on heels that evening. To me its making yourself available to be approached in a hook up setting. Especially with alcohol involved and where they can easily get away with it. Guys shouldnt be ok with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:18 AM
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People have a tendency to make that your fault though when caught. My ex hid this dude from me. Put a girls name in the phone and deleted chats. I put it together quit quickly when the girls name started popping up. There were never chats when she was with me. But once we were out, I said my phone died, let me check what time the last train home is going? Then I saw a wall of text being way too comfortable and flirty with each other. And when I confronted her with it she got mad at me saying she…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:04 AM
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And then their friends become single and push them to go just for drinks. Are you going to let her or set a boundary and be a controlling insecure asshole according to everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:53 AM
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Ont point 2: its like comparing starving with no hope compared to a trust fund kid on a fast though. I dont give a fuck about some celeb being unable to buy a fifth private jet either if I cant oay my bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:38 PM
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What qualities? The local drugdealer gers laid more than your high confidence, high income IT guy. Friend of mine got laid way more pretending he was just released from prison (they all believed it cause he was black) than being his college graduate self that had a 9-5 like the rest of us. They considered that boring and called him a geek.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:34 PM
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Maybe its the wall compared to their younger versions? Ask anyone that was hot, gained a lot of weight and then lost it. They definitly experienced what the wall felt like for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:30 PM
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Only for their kids imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:26 PM
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Its off putting if its hookers. If you have 100+ bodycount as a guy but its 95 hookers, isnt nobody finding that attractive or praiseworthy. They also dont care about low body count the way we do. Even of its out of pure reasons they still look at you as a guy nobody wants or lacks experience they prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:25 PM
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I dont think its just money though. From a mans perspective its Mostly about not wanting other men involved with your kids and not having constant acces to your own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:44 PM
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Will that relationship hold if there was no physical attraction? Its a beta choice marriage that seems doomed to fail imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:42 PM
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Plenty of people stay in relationships for the kids as well. I think if you ask most men they intend to stay monogamous when they intend on hwving kids with someone. Splitting up isnt a prefered outcome even if it does happen often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:41 PM
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Thats all fine if you want to naturally spin playes like the red pill says. But what about kids then? If you have then you either stay in a monogamous relationship or split up and let other men ibe involved in the life of your offspring. Unless your sone extremely high status rich man, no women is going to put up with a partially monogamous relation either where you get to have sex with other women. So if monogamy isnt natural then whats the solution when kids come into the picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:28 PM
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Its tiring for everyone involved. The kids take up all your energy at home, then you still have chores, family and of course work and the commute taking up most of the time. You barely fet away from it. Its easier of they both work less, combine chores and family time with the kids while also having quality time together and alone time. But it rarely work out like that compared to being together without kids. Especially when they are young. Suddenly a trip to the grocery store becomes a little e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:23 PM
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With who do they cheat with then? Those guys have to be working the same endless shifts right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:18 PM
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I think even most people in long term relationships. If you could erase their memory they wouldnt find the current version of their partner attractive. Either let thenselves go or it grew into a relationship but wasnt based on lust from the start for the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:15 PM
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I know its hard to get but most men dont like masculine women cause its unattractive. Its not jelousy or being intimidated or things like that. Doesnt mean he wants a doormat either. You wouldnt be jeleous of your feminine boyfriend was bragging about having prettier nails polished than you either. Its a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:49 AM
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Lots of difference between countries though. Uk, malta, criatia and turkey are all pretty fat nowadays. Its also gerting worse, we are going towards where the US was 20 years ago. They just seem ahead of the curve. Biggest difference is the morbidly obese people that need scooters to get around and two plane seats. But obesity been on the rise for a while in Europe. I was once obese, looked it up and it was 10% of the population. 12 years later and its 16% I think its being more sedentary, aging…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:04 PM
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Lots of (kind of) autistic people are really smart wonderfull people. Especially if you get to know them. Not these rainman or sheldon types but very logical. Its kind of sad they are automatically dismissed for having less social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:34 AM
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Its being told even if its not being said. Just see how people threat you in general when you are fit compared to fat. Especially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:25 AM
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Cultures are different and play a big role but accountability needs to be encouraged. Its easy to complain about the state of dating but atleast work on whats within your control. Being fat and lacking money/social skills. Well atleast work on that and increase your odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:20 AM
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75% obese as in post 30 bmi obese? That cant be real. I had friends study abroad in the US and came back 20 lbs heavier. They said besides the college alcohol lifestyle, you dont move much and the portions are a lot bigger. But I read the biggest difference is the corn syrup you guys have in your food. Why not ban that shit and go back to the pre 80 way of producing food. Stimulate healthy behaviour and educate about proper nutrition? You cant have 75% obese. Understand obesity is a problem in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:16 AM
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Not a shock, reddit is filled with unicorns. My fault though to not put the obligatory "in general" line before. In general men and women dont prefer fat partners. Its whst it is. Same with poverty and short height for men compared tp rich and taller.... in general :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:34 PM
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Every woman that wanted a tall guy was a midget by the same logic. Preferences...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:29 PM
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What do you consider true femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:31 PM
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Its just unattractive. Women dont like feminine men either. They can say they do but those guys are not getting laid. Im just saying what the average male's preferance is. Sorry that it bothers you and seems to make you angry but it is what it is. Same with females prefering tall confident men with resources. Just preferences everyone shoukd respect, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:47 AM
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Yes, back in the days the passport bro's were the guys that couldnt get anyone and needed to go abroad. Current passport bro's are the same just way better options compated to back then. Girls were picky but not to picky since you would be aged out and the better male options would pick from the new crop. Families were more involved as well compared to current day individualism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:06 AM
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I feel girls are better at maintaining friendships than guys. With guys you can easily not speak for a lonng time and nonody initiates it. They also talk less about things that bother them since feelings=shame so it just fades away more quickly with less explenation than with girls. I dont trust people who have mostly friends of the opposite sex. With guys 9/10 its some weasel that pretends to be friends to get laid and with girls its usually some masculine high bodycount girl with mental proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:59 AM
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It is true, basically due to birth control, feminism and less religion. women have way more options than their grandmothers. What do men want? A nice looking modest girl that isnt fat with a near zero bodycount that gives you peace of mind when you get home that doesnt nag you and is feminine. Its not a whole laundry list of demands and in a situation where you need to marry if you knock her up or want to live together you get married young (late teens/early 20's). But those women are very rare …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:49 AM
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Also difficult to jus walk up to a person. Everyone has earpods on and is on their phone. In most situations you would be bothering them or it be inappropriate like at the gym or even stupid like at work. Add in less people going to clubs where you also are competing with a lot of guys. Add in metoo movement where saying hi might result in you being put on blast on the internet for sexual herrasment. And online dating whoch have you competing with a shitload of guys that pump up her ego. 10 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:37 AM
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You still have better succes threating a girl like you dont care about her than in totally interested unfortunately. In general (before we get another exception) threating her like shit gives a lot of emotions, normal is boring, they crave drama, romcoms lied to us...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:19 PM
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A beta bux childs story in real life! Are they still happily together?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:15 PM
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Approaching got way more difficult for guys with social media, online dating and metoo hype. I understand why guys nowadays skip it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:08 PM
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Then nobody can respond to any question regarding a widely known problem? If I ask the same about women earning less then the response of someone describing her experience with that problem isnt woe is me either. Its just a logical response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:01 PM
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I got banned a while back for woe is me stuff while discribing reality from a males perspective. Thought it was kind of a harsh reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:46 PM
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A lot of subs got banned so this one gets viewed as way out there. Especially as there are a lot of leftist people here. Seriously though. I sometimes wonder if the voting system and moderation creates the leftist bias or they are just more prone to be active on these type of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:44 PM
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You think a muscular manly 5'7 guy pulls more girls than a 6'3 sknniy decent looking guy? Would be a good social experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:03 PM
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I think that guy is a fool and was wrong but he had sone good points debating those tate wannabees. Atleast to have it not be an echo chamber it was good to have him on. No man in his right mind wants to be a cuck though. His wife also seemed like a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:01 PM
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Its in your control though right? If you are early 30's for example and looking for a partner its up to you to chose to be with a former slut or say someone who been in two relationships. There should not be fear but I think people get frustrated from the lack of prospects. The older you get the more bagage everyone has. The older the girl you date, in general the higher the bodycount, kids involved etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:11 PM
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Does it work if the man is submissive and his wife walks all over him and is in charge of everything? In general it seems to lead to resentment from both, losing attraction, dead bedrooms and divorce. At least more than the opposite. Allthough nobody should be a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:07 PM
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I had this girl tell me straight up. I think you are good looking but are too friendly. I want a guy who is a fuckboy but picks me... Blew my mind at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:42 PM
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I think its a symptom of the current situation and just the reason why guys are frustrated. I dont see a solution for it but agree that it cant be forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:14 PM
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As a regular guy, margo robbie isnt my looksmatch haha. Nobody thinks that. You would be delusional to think that. Overweight people dating other overweight people is fine. .i honestly dont think its tge regular guys with the high demands. They have nothing to base that on. The regular women atleast get plenty validation and sex from guys above them and consider them their lookmatch imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:10 PM
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The hottest ones get taken out of equation first. People end up with their looksmatch. Everyone is happy. It worked troughout history up untill the last 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:06 PM
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Big difference between them though. A lot of regular girls complain about this while regular guys complain about a lack of validation and attention from the regular girls. Its not just a bunch of neckbeards demanding insta models. Another bog difference is women get plenty of calidation so they are comfortable being single compared to the regular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:22 PM
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Its bad for society and children. It feels like we are doing a full run as society to come to the same conclusions they figured out way in the past. That the only way to control this is trough staying virgins till weddings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:16 PM
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I dont think men have these high standards. A normal woman will do but. I think thry get mad of bring deprived validation by their looksmatch and even girls who are for example severely overweight think they are wat above them to even give them any attention. Like being college educated but you can never get a job and even mcdonalds requires an ivy league education. Thata how it feels I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:10 PM
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You can ask advice and share with your spouse? In a healthy relationship its notmal rather than everyone talking about every detail of their sex life when they get together. Not everything between a couple needs to be shared with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:00 PM
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I think it is wrong though and even disrespectfull to the spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:45 PM
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Why is it incorrect if there is an exception to the rule? Cats have 4 legs. My neighbours cat has 3 so its completely incorrect! How does that make sense? Do we really have to put "in general" or "most people" at every sentence just so stupid people dont argue an exception to disprove it completely?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:11 PM
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Isnt it common to view things from a general point of view initially when trying to understand behavior? Everything being nuanced to death kills any debate instantly. Yes some millionaire wants to marry a fat single mom, some women do prefer short stocky bald men with no jobs who live with their parents. But I wouldnt put my money on those odds or argue against the general viewpoint because of an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:57 PM
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I dont believe its just tricking and manipulating the poor women. Many people noticed of you are friendly and respectfull they wont sleep with you. If you are a cocky selfish asshole you get seen as this confident guy who takes what he wants when he wants and she os attracted to that way more than the respectfull friendly guy. Its not just some simp pretending to be nice to get laid but genuine kindness being dismissed. Us men are at it like picking a lock, we try what works till we succeed then…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:45 PM
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In my experience what they want differs a lot from what they say and from their emotions at the time when they said it. Thats why you got the stereotypical guy taking what she says rationally and then being confused when she gets pissed about him being like that another time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:36 PM
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The most sought after person, most well known/connected. Influencers, athletes, musicians. Famous people. In a amaller scale its the dj at a club, ceo at the office, guy with most status in the hood, most liked guy in school etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:36 PM
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Yeah, me too. You see people for what you want them to be rather than what they are actually are. Basically setting yourself up for heartbreak. Same with dating a guy that abused or cheated on others. Setting yourself up for a similair faith when you didnt want to accept what you saw unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:12 AM
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Yeah, or where the girl didnt live up but just been in steady relationships for years since high school. But thats not the majority. I know this 32 year old woman, really hot. Had two serious relationships but then went wild when single from 23-30. Had a 25 bodycount, fwb on rotation to not stack up the number and being content with being single while also constantly dating at the end to find a serious relationship. She finally settled for this regular guy who makes more money than het cause he …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:05 AM
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Yeah, before the red pill they only discovered this shit by experiencing it. Most still do. Even if other guys warn you they will say "she is different!" Female nature is still a mystery to most men raised on romcoms, sitcomsand and bad advice like just be yourself, threat her like a princess and just be nice! You got people putting women on a pedestal because of it. Especially when they are deprived of female attention and validation for so long. Its like throwing a cracker to a guy starving. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:53 AM
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Thats basically the whole problem right? Women's hypergamy and quest for as much fun as possible in their 20's while confusing men being willing to sleep with them for being able to get a relationship with said guy. This leads to the post wall late 20's early 30's women who now settle for Billy beta bucks who never got any and worked on his career this whole time. This was always a thing since birth control came to be, religion being less important and you no longer needed to be married. But soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:35 AM
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You watched too much porn. Womens getting horny works like a volume knob turning up. Not a flick like men who get hard when she bends over the counter. But you are correct its about time and place. Think about who they cheat with. Its the guy who she spend a lot of time with, connecting. At work, neighbour or old classmate up in her dm's. Its not a guy she met in a store, new coworker on the first day or guy in the subway who talked her up. Only way if its instant like that is with alcohol on gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:13 AM
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Women would cause huge fights with their bf/husband if he talked personal shit about them like they do with their friends. Imagine it, a guy complsining about his wife no longer being tight after a few kids or the way she likes to have sex or give head. To me these are between two people in a relationship and its weird and disrespectfull to even talk about with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:04 AM
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Just be attractive, thats the difference between creepy or romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:23 AM
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Would if he had social skills and flaunts his money with a nive cars/social media and on social media. If he is a geek who only plays games outside of work they wont care. They need to see the status money gives in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:36 PM
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My friend had this happen and his wife turned into an entitled princes who spends his money like crazy. He thought she would be modest cause of her humble beginnings and respect his hustle but its not turning out this way for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:33 PM
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I get this from a biological point of view and its reality but it always felt sad in a way she cant just be attracted based on his looks and personality matching hers. Uou struggle together and build a life together, trough bad and good times. But that was always a romantic naive thought. It does make men bitter in a way when you realise when you were broke, nobody cared if you died or wouldnt even look at you. But now the same guy, popular or rich a year latervis suddenly very attractive and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:31 PM
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All those things only matter if you get your foot in the door with looks, status and or money. If you dont have it its a lot more difficult to get to show you have all those qualities. If you hsve them of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:16 PM
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Basically just be popular and have clout. As in introvert who doesnt want to be the centre of attention I see it all the time. Its not a confidence issue either. Just being popular and preferably loud is seen as most attractive. After that its money/possesions and then its looks. If you are ugly, out of shape or even a regular dude you inrease female attention greatly by having money (and flaunting it) and/or being popular. Just rap, kick a ball well enough or have enough followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:13 PM
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I think men lack validation more than they lack sex. Robots wont fix that any more than porn or blow up dolls did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:03 PM
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Yeah, but do you mean you disagree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:01 PM
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To be in a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:38 PM
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That women are never alone like men are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:37 PM
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In my opinion it depends a lot on the people and their careers and if there are kids involved. With kids I would say the mothers works 2/3 dYs a week, man works 4-5 days depending on where you live and how the money is. That way you will have the mother raising the kids and time for household chores whiles also having a life/own money without it. The man provides but atill has enough time for his family. To me thats the best scenario since if they both work kids get dumped and raised by daycare …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:34 PM
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I think its due to women denying it. You get the "not all women" arguments and anecdotes to disprove common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:06 PM
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Its easier of you just accept their biology. They are hardwired in certain ways like we are as men. Therefore there is no unconditional love but just opportunistically. It not love like we want and they chase value. A few decades isnt changing that. Its sad, frustrating and can make you angry but its what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:34 AM
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You cant stop it though, simps stay simping. Only way out is to adapt, overcome and level up. Since we are not going to change biology. Atleast untill sex robots appear, then its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:07 AM
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I know a few women who are single by choice afteer long relationships. They prefer to spend their time on travel, doing fun stuff with friends, career and just living life. They also all have atleast one or more guys on speed dial to give them the d a few times a week when they get cravings and still go on ocasional dates every now and then where guys get put in the smash/possible relationship or dismiss category. Thats why its easy for them to stay single, not prioritise relationships, get thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:16 PM
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Its still validation and acknowledgement. Men dont get that. I tried to explain the degree of loneliness once that you get excited by a friendly cashier. But outside of a whatever look and shoulder shrug there isnt much empathy for it. But uts very easy to understand why its easier for women (doesnt mean its fun though) to be single. They get their needs met way more easily than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:08 PM
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What are you going to do though? We as men must accept that outside your parents or siblings (if you are lucky) nobody really gives a fuck about your problems. No matter how much they tell men to open up. What can we do but accept it and just carry on? Its not fair but fair hasnt got anything to do with it. We can all agree its a painfull lonely feeling and it definitly sucks but I think the only way to cope is just think nobody cares, work harder. Its not going to magically change and if you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:03 PM
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The argument you would get is that you making generalisations and therefore its wrong. Its just hypocrites lacking empathy. Just act on what you see rather than what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:23 PM
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I dont care to be honest, im just explsinig what they mean by it rather than a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:49 PM
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Subservient doesnt mean doormat slave though. More like captain and first mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:27 PM
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That partially explains the homeless situation I guess. Was is always so expensive or have prices skyrocketed in recent years?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:14 PM
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Damn thats expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:13 PM
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Maybe a bit off topic but im curious about this. Is 50k (after tax?) not enough to provide for a household (say wife, two kids) in the US? From the outside it looks like a decent ammount of money (4k a month) so that must mean housing and costs are extremely high compared to other parts of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:50 AM
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Still, the husband/man has been the subject of mockery and portrayed as this weak fool for decades now. In commercials, movies, series. The men are always disrespected while the women are always strong and bossy. How is it not on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:29 PM
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Why not? Worked for a lot of marriages back in the day and plenty of countries still do it. I think it worked better than we are willing to acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:32 PM
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Its not as easy to do so for most men though. You easily get dismissed or labled a creep and more often than not get friendzoned regardless. Most expats for example struggle with this and are lonely. Past a certain age its very difficult to make new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:28 PM
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Thats why virgin till marriage worked. Chad had first picks but after that he was out of the game. Women are not going to change though and unless you are religious the previous doesnt happen anymore either in the west. They will keep having acces to top tier guys willing to get laid. Only option for most men is to level up as much as possible to get an average girl I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:24 PM
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Back in the day I had this classmate who was fat and didnt look that good but was very kind. She struggled to get a boyfriend. Then im on holiday at this party city where thime crowd is 85% horny men. This girl is also there and is now threated like Shakira. Suddenly she has an attitude and looks down on guys that she would be happy to date in our city during regular life. To me thats what happened with social media and online dating. inflated ego's due to the unlimited attention from guys simpi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:59 PM
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If men dont initiate interaction they will remain invisible since women certainly wont make a move. At best they put themselves in a position near you to be approached and make eye contact. But thats very rare for the majority of men. If you dont approach you need to rely on online dating which is a cesspool and most men get barely any attention there. So what is left if you want to meet a woman? There is no problem with approaching prople but you need to read the situation correctly and dont ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:53 AM
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I dont think they care either. They virtue signal like they do but they dont care in their heart. Its a human thing as well. Let someone else do it, not going to be me, I do what I want. Also a lot of exceptions as an argument to disprove a general statement. " some dogs have 3 legs, therefore your wrong for sating dogs have four legs!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:51 PM
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Back in tge day it was a common way to get numbers from people you thiught were attractive. If someone says no then its no of course but its not like some catcalling construction worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:29 PM
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I took my gf on a suprise valentines day trip to Paris, 5 star hotel next to the eifel tower with a balcony with the view next to it and over paris. Paid for the whole trip cause I loved her. She cried tears of happiness and said it was the most romantic thing someone ever did for her. Too bad she cheated 4 months later but that was the most romantic thing ive done. Never going to do a thing like that ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:26 PM
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I think its an American thing though when it comes to cucks. You have swingers everywhere and women like to be dominated everywhere but this idea of a guy f'ing your wife while you sit in the corner crying or jerking of is an American thing. Therefore its always a black dude and white guy being a cuck since people are so weird and hung up about race over there. Its never people of the same race, other races like (asian and latin), reversed or a woman doing it to another woman either. I wonder if…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:22 AM
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Which is still stupid since they already have their own money and career but are unable to date guys that make less or just date them for who they are. I think when you are young you still can get dates for your looks and who you are but after 23/25 the finances become a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:14 AM
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I hsd this happen. Online they match u and talk flirty, willing to date you and in real life they become more mute or even engage but then drop the "see you more as a friend" bomb on you by text while you sit there wondering what went wrong during the date. It can be a lack of physical attraction in real life but in my case I noticed I was being too friendly and basically nice with them. Since thats what I would want in a partner and is common decency along with being respectfull towards them. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:10 AM
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I always find it difficult to detach stoicism from being indifferent. Like how can you be ambitious and stoic at the same time. Like you persue sonething buy shouldnt be caring about the outcome. Otherwise youre not being stoic about it? And if you have setbacks you are supposed to be stoic and therefore not care cause of you care and are upset about it your not being stoic.... To me stoic seems like this guy marching on trough everything and nlt willing to fight for anything cause then he lacks…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:51 AM
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Yet a lot of women act masculine and think guys are intimidated by it when its in fact the same reaction for them when a guys acts feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:33 AM
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He ways to go out to get to know you though. It takes balls to approach like that in public. Dont be so hard just cause the guy isnt attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:45 PM
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Ruins the ability to pair bond. Plus guys dont want to comit to ran trough women. The loaf of bread touched by anyone is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:23 AM
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Men who open up know how people react, despite what they say beforehand. Nobody cares abiut your struggle, even if they say they do and they dont have to care either. If you doubt it, see what happens if you open up about your problems. You will get rejected, friend zoned, ignored, shunned, mocked and looked upon as unattractive and weak. Telling men to open up on your mental health is like telling a kid to touch the stove.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:14 PM
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Its basically a guy that did a dirty bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:55 PM
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Yeah we seen those bachelorette party stripper vids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:53 PM
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In a way I think its actually true. They are led by their emotions in the moment and lack reason and logic. Similair way a child or someone having psychosis is difficult to hold sccountable. I think it applies to a lot of women. They are easily manpilated and fooled. Mostly by their ever changing emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:52 PM
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All those passport bro's should take notice of that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:39 PM
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I thought it was normal. That its true love when you love someone more than you love yourself. But I realised it diesnt excist. I also dont love myself a lot so its easier to do then I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:14 PM
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Yeah, I have children. I dont care if they hate me. I will always love them. As long as I can do everything I need to do in their best interest its fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:12 PM
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See, to me the definition of love was like that. Like at that level of a parent. Grew out of that naivity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:31 PM
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Its enough to noy be considered tall by most and not a dealbreaker for most. Of course there are always exceptions like a really tall girl or a girl that wants basketball players. But in general it shouldnt be a legit excuse to hold you back though. I live in Europe, they arent as stat obsessed as the US though . Most girls just want a guy thats taller than them. Like they can wear heels taller. Im 5'10 and outside of taller girls never been rejected cause of my height. When you wear shoes they …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:24 AM
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Or women not letting them see their children out of spite while badmouthing the father " that left them".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:16 AM
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That was the biggest one for me. Men love unconditionally therefore I thought women did love like that as well. If you have this I would die for her, never betray her, just want to see her happy mindset and think she is the same only to come to the conclusion that they in general love more opportunistically and love themselves more than they love someone else its a painfull heartbreaking truth. I have argued this in real life as well and women argue its not true and that they love unconditional …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:14 AM
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Their looks faded into the relationship or they gained weight. Those people often been in one a lonng time. Not going to see fat bald men, with no jobs, who lives with their parents approach and date beautifull women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:55 AM
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There are plenty of those succesfull and happy marriages though. But lets be real they all come with problems and headaches and require a lot of work. Its more up and downs and not always happy. Still better to be married early than being ran trough single mom I guess. Not in your example of course but in general. Logical thing would them not having pick their own partner since they too often make a dumb decision when young. But family can be selfish and force a dumb decision as well. I lived in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:53 AM
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I think so. You see ugly ecto guys who are 6'4 with above average girls every now and then. His chances are way better than that same guy being 5'5. Would be interesting to see a study where girls need to pick between that guy or a guy who is like them or slightly taller like 5'6-5'8 but good looking and fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:43 AM
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