RAlchem Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Being Weird Joke around, but qualify and build comfort. If you don't slack up and be real and serious about some deeper human qualities, then you're fitting into the dancing monkey role. When things aren't funny, don't force "fun" onto people. Sometimes less "PUA" stuff is more -- when the situation isnt appropriate, you gotta be real with people about mundane things. You should have a "normal" enough life to talk about a wide range of feelings; not just a "one trick pony" of making everything funny or play…	/r/seduction	30/11/12 08:52 AM
5	[FR] Help me see where I fucked up Looks like she went out to see you, and while you may have "been sober", that's not really an excuse to not loosen up and be comfortable. When you went around the bar, and didnt chat with her -- that social akwardness to her was you rejecting her. For the worst of reasons, find a way to pretend to be comfortable and talk about attractive people things. If you're not comfortable, she wont be comfortable. And that is where she thinks you reject her. Don't take it personally. Loosen up without the …	/r/seduction	30/11/12 08:33 AM