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Value is contextual. A bottle of water in a desert is worth far more than a bottle of water in a lake. You are worth far more in a hunter-gatherer tribe than in a modern western nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:59 AM
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It's simple evolutionary psychology. Money is important to women because in our ancestral history, the purpose of men is to be the provider in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:14 AM
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"I've never tried to change a friend's mind about anything." This statement is about as plausible as: "I've never gotten angry at my friends my entire life"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:54 AM
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Kindness is primarily defined by moral goodness: empathy, caring about others, loving your neighbor as yourself, etc. When done right, a person's kindness is orthogonal to his masculine strength (as in the two traits are completely independent of each other). Just because you care about someone, doesn't mean you let them get away with sins without rebuke. If someone punches you in the face, punish them by punching them back. Enabling someone's mistakes is not an act of kindness. Women want a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:19 AM
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So you've never tried to persuade a friend on any issue at all? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:49 AM
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All nice people are kind, but not all kind people are nice. To use a celebrity example: Gordon Ramsay is kind, but he's not nice. To conflate means to confuse two concepts into one. Did you mean the opposite of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:33 PM
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They are similar concepts, but they do not carry the same connotations. The words whimsical and capricious are also similar, yet they are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:15 PM
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What makes you think paperwork makes someone more committed? It doesn't. Humans are social creatures, we derive great meaning from culturally-established rituals. If paperwork isn't a sign of commitment, why do legions of men and women treasure it? Why was there a huge fight over gay marriage if marriage doesn't matter? l don't care what society thinks. And there's the psychological issue I was talking about. All humans care about what society thinks, it's in our nature. If you don't believe me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:05 PM
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Omg, she's in an interracial relationship. Omg, they were teen parents. Omg, she was a stripper. That all happened to you? That would certainly explain your odd attitude towards relationships. It sounds like some unmentioned psychological issue is souring your feelings toward marriage. Normally women would gladly take the additional commitment that their man freely offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:08 PM
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> People's sense of self, self expression, identity and interests should be respected both in a society and in a relationship This statement falls into the category of not even wrong, it is vague to the point of meaninglessness. "respect" can mean anything. People try to change each other's values all the time. It's called the open marketplace of ideas. The idea that a person's values is off-limits is absurd. ​ Who are you to decide what values people should have and to try and coerce them to su…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:51 PM
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Well that's certainly something. What do you mean by "legal ownership of a partner"? If you love your partner till death do you part, wouldn't you want to be legally bound to him and have your relationship officially sanctioned by society? Write a prenup if you're concerned about any particular legal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:38 PM
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Boyfriend? Not husband? If you've been together for ten years without it going anywhere, that may be a sign that your attitude towards relationships is not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:26 PM
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Would you ever ask a man to change any aspect of himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:02 PM
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Yea, it is. You chose them based on who they are. You then try to change who they are based on your own whim. That's shitty. You're going to need more than a baseless assertion to convince a philosophy undergrad. I'll ask you again: Why is it inherently wrong to change people? What moral principle are you basing this on? Why you dating a girl who you know likes to party then trying to force them to change, instead of dating someone who doesn't like to party? Because there are more diamonds in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:58 PM
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You don't have to be in a relationship with someone who goes on nights out if you don't want to, that's fine. Just date someone who doesn't go on nights out from the outset, don't date someone who does and then try to change them. Why? Is there some moral injunction against changing people? There's nothing immoral about trying to change someone. If they don't like it, the terms are clear: they're free to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:40 PM
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Niceness is not necessarily a positive character trait. In the face of injustice, exploitation, or evil, niceness is a vice. Kindness, fairness, and honor are the superior alternatives to niceness. You can be kind without giving in to an exploitative partner. You can be honorable while laying out your boundaries and demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:37 AM
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Nice and kind are synonymous, but they are not the same thing. Whimsical and Capricious are synonyms as well yet they carry vastly different connotations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:30 AM
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Which god is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:16 AM
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The substance of your post is entirely correct, but I do have a semantic disagreement. Generally speaking the term "nice guy" includes "not having a spine" as part of the definition. Being unafraid of offending others by asserting yourself and establishing boundaries is not very "nice". I believe the word that accurately describes "niceness with a spine" is kindness. Kindness doesn't carry the connotation of weakness that niceness does. Women are most attracted to bad boys with a heart of gold. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:05 AM
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Women are attracted to maturity and experience, not age per se. Age is merely a proxy for deeper factors; by itself it can be a detriment if the gap is too large.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:48 AM
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