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| 137 | What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers? | Discussion | RIPBernieSanders1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 118 | Why do so many men lust after the "goth" aesthetic/lifestyle? | Discussion | RIPBernieSanders1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 01:48 PM |
| 80 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview? | CMV | RIPBernieSanders1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:44 PM |
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| 1 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingI was more making a statement about romantic love itself. I don't think it exists. What we think of as romantic love is just a fantasy extrapolated from sexual attraction. We act like love is some kind of mystical force, but it's literally just liking someone and wanting to fuck them. Over time that evolves into strong "like". In the way that anger becomes fury, "like" becomes "love". And funny how people falling out of love always seems to coincide with them not wanting to have sex with them an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingI guess I'll take your word for it. Being a straight man I've never looked at straight men on dating apps. About being sexual right away, that could just be guys being scummy, but if you mention you're in an open relationship they're probably going to assume you're on there to fuck. That goes triple if you're clearly a tourist visiting a foreign country. You're there for some strange dick. I mean, that is why you were swiping in a foreign country, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingNo, I just think it's funny how our culture (via movies and books and such) sells this idea like "it's what's inside that counts" when it's all just based on sexual attraction. People say they love each other, then they eventually get tired of fucking one another and suddenly "oh, we fell out of love". Like it just happened mysteriously somehow. No, you just got tired of fucking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingI was hoping for a substantial argument, but I just got misandry instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingGirls might be willing to date an average guy if not for online dating. You have to appreciate the colossal imbalance. Women are flooded by options in online dating. This is why they're so picky. And here's the thing I think you won't hear from a lot of people on this topic: I don't blame them. You have to put yourself in the shoes of a women of average fitness level and attractiveness. They are absolutely inundated with matches. There are not enough hours in the day to give all the matches you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingAs a user below says, men 65 and up weren't dating in our current climate. Modernity has ravaged many things, but particularly the relationship between the sexes has been impacted quite severely. Technology, porn, video games, consumer culture, social media, etc. Call me a boomer but all of these things have vastly changed the cultural and societal landscape and changed men (and women) in drastic ways. I'm 38 and I'm a product of this cultural landscape to the point where my mental health is a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingmost men on PPD think men by default are good partners and all they have to do is be upright and breathing. This is bullshit and you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingI met my current bf on Tinder and he’s hot asf, but I love him for him, not just his appearance. But you wouldn't love him if he wasn't hot. re: your last paragraph. I've said for years, jesus christ if I could take a pill and be gay I would snatch that pill from you so fast it would make your head spin. Modern women are insufferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as flirting?There's a look in their eyes. Prolonged eye contact is like, a maybe sign. Once she starts hitting me playfully or any kind of touching, I know she's flirting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?This is also true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 06:17 AM |
| 4 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?The industrialized Islamic world is undergoing the same fertility crisis and every other developed nation. Do they have patriarchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 05:25 PM |
| -4 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?It's not raping women. Women generally enjoy being mothers and raising families. Western cultures try to teach them that they should do other things, but is that really the best thing for them? How is the mental health of women (and men, for that matter) in the west, when they aren't having kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Migrants will help the problem, but it's really worth trying to suss out why all these first world nations can't get their fertility rates above replacement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Patriarchy is the only thing that works. That's the truth. Look at the Amish, Islam, and Orthodox Jews. Their fertility rates are sky-high, and patriarchy is the only thing they have in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?The unfortunate truth is that the only way to raise birth rates is to enforce a patriarchal system. Look at three communities: The Amish, Islam, and the Orthodox Jews. Their fertility rates are sky-high. What do they have in common? Patriarchy. You need social norms which strongly encourage women to stay home and raise children, otherwise they will not do it enough to keep fertility rates healthy. Once society encourages women to have careers, women focus on careers instead of raising kids. I me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Is confidence really tied to dick size?If only. I have a big dick, but I'm ugly and awkward so it doesn't even matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever caught yourself or a female friend doing something that seems to confirm RP beliefs?"You can do better" = time to monkey branch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Have you ever caught yourself or a female friend doing something that seems to confirm RP beliefs?"Being human" in the context of sex, dating and relationships, means being a slave to evolutionary biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Did “common interests/hobbies” ever work for you?Absolutely. In fact, it's the only thing that has ever worked. It works very well for friends, why would it be any different for romantic partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 02:54 PM |
| 9 | How would you react if your partner wanted to try non-monogamy?Even if they haven't, bringing this up means they want to fuck someone else. Asking for non-monogamy is them basically giving you the option before they go and cheat on you. Either way, it's over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 06:54 PM |
| 5 | How would you react if your partner wanted to try non-monogamy?End the relationship. Odds are, I've already been cheated on. If I haven't, she wants to, and she likely will soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 06:53 PM |
| 5 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?Body fat percentage and level of neoteny on facial features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that work-husbands/ work wives exist? How would you feel if you found out that your S/O had one?LOL if anything white people are overly deferential to minorities and walk on eggshells because they want to appear as tolerant and sensitive as possible (and don't want to get fired). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Has PPD made anyone realize how bad dating could actually be?I mean that's all literally empirically true stuff though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?Except for the millions of people who watched him, I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?I think it's because he made a huge splash for a few weeks until that splash was noticed by the powers that be, who swiftly unpersoned him from all social media platforms. So if you missed that initial huge splash, you haven't heard of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | What factors determine a woman's attractiveness?Symmetrical/neotonous features, wide hips, buxom. Nice silky hair. Smooth skin. Every man knows instinctively what makes a woman attractive. Sorry to say but it's typically just physical attributes if you're talking about sexual attractiveness. If you're talking about attractive features for a mate, it's femininity, friendliness, and a cooperative spirit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | your thoughts on the mgtow movement?MGTOW are the most women-obsessed people I've ever encountered. And they're apparently "going their own way" away from women. And yet they seem more obsessed about it than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?You know, I hear stories like this and sorry to say, I just don't believe you. I dated a girl who loved video games for 4 years and we played multiplayer games together all the time. I don't think I ever heard anyone talk to her or say things like that. I'd be very curious to see recordings of your gaming sessions and see if it's really happening that other players just hear your female voice and become sadistic rapists, because that has never been my experience in my 38 years alive as a gamer. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?You stopped playing games you enjoy because you couldn't figure out how to use the block button? I'm not sure you enjoyed it that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:16 PM |
| -2 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?"Pretty much all of them"? Can you give me like, top 5 or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?Not necessarily. There are video games that can be enjoyed by both men & women, such as simulation games (The Sims, Animal Crossing, etc) and MMOs (WoW, FFXIV, etc) and are very lucrative. However games that are about aggressive competition are overwhelmingly enjoyed by men for reasons related to evolutionary biology. People try to make excuses, like it's "harassment" or whatever that keeps women out of these spaces, but that's bullshit. Women just don't enjoy aggressive competition like men do.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?It's almost like men enjoy aggressive competition in video games for a particular reason, and women don't - also for a particular reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?What kind of games do you enjoy the most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:55 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?I would be very interested to see data about how many hours these women are playing, and exactly what games they're playing. And how they're playing them too, if possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?Is about the games being marketed to men, or is it about the particular kind of game and how it appeals to the different psychology of men and women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?What video games do you enjoy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?Competition is a male trait. Or at the very least, competition for women is much different. Men love particularly competitive video games because it scratches that competitive itch which is a deep seated part of our evolutionary biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenA lot of women don't need to use dating apps to have romantic interactions. When a man goes to a club, he's on the hunt. He's competing against other men for the attention of the women there. A woman gets to pick and choose. These apps are simply a reflection of how it is in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”?Would it matter to you whether it was restraint or inability to have sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 06:18 PM |
| 7 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.Well, you said "I don't like muscles, I wouldn't date a gym rat". All that's really saying is "I'm part of a very small minority". Like, okay? You're an outlier. Congratulations. And then y ou said "Men know what women want" as if it's some kind of mystery what the vast majority of women want. It's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 05:52 PM |
| 11 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.Advertisers and marketers know what women want. And men want. It isn't exactly rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.Two words for you: Christian Grey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:21 PM |
| 6 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenOther studies have similarly shown that women prefer men who are sensitive, confident and easy-going, and that very few (if any) women want to date a man who is aggressive or demanding. The picture that emerges is clear: when women rate hypothetical partners, they clearly prefer “nice” men. Women never express what they're actually attracted to. If they did, they would sound like terrible people. They know this. There's actually a term in Psychology for this: Social desirability bias. Even if wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Why do single moms raise your hackles? Do you think single dads should be relationship pariahs too?Why should they be relationship pariahs? What's the stumbling block here? Don't you know? It's difficult for single moms because guys don't want to raise another man's children. Children are extremely difficult and time-consuming to raise. Men don't want to do that if there's any chance at all of them raising their own children, and even if they accept that they will never have their own children, it's often too much of an ask to raise another man's children. They would rather be in a childless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:45 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: Do you actually worry about violence on the first few dates (with men)?In any public place, a woman has nothing to fear from a man. Nothing. At the first hint of any danger, every person nearby will leap to the aid of the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:26 AM |
| 0 | Are there really that many men interested in silly nerdy girls?porn is pushing the "teen" look. Lol what? Porn sites don't "push" anything in particular. When someone goes to a porn site, they just type in what they want to look at. Often times if something is popular that's just because it's "organically" popular. I would argue there are few if any instances where this is more true than porn. The vast majority of men are into teenage women. I would even go so far as to say the vast majority of men are ephebophiles. And there's a natural evolutionary basis … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Are there really that many men interested in silly nerdy girls?I mean, this is the same concept as a "gamer girl". Guys like women who are into the same things they are. Just like women, men want it all. They want a girl who is fit, friendly, submissive, and feminine, but also cool, fun, "one of the guys", and into nerdy male-dominated hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extentIs it not true that the USA has the most immigrants by far? Last I checked this was the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.No, top 20% you need to have a handsome face/bone structure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 12:09 PM |
| 3 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.Don't ask fish how to catch a fish. Ask a fisherman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 12:07 PM |
| 0 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!The weird thing is, there's a point where being very poor is the cheapest way to raise kids. I mean this must be the case, right? Otherwise families beneath the poverty line wouldn't be able to care for their kids. Their kids would die of starvation, etc. So beneath a certain income level, there must be welfare programs that cover the costs of raising children. This is the case, right? This is one issue where I'm not relying on empirical evidence, just making a logical assessment. I mean if very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 10:32 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?It's evolutionary. I suspect you already know this. Women want to be protected, even if they don't know it. That's why they have attraction to strong, tall men. This can also be evidenced by pop songs that are all about how a man makes a woman "feel safe". This is very common, but for some reason I don't think everyone connects this to evolutionary biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Anyone who's familiar with simp culture. Simps exist and they seem like a lot of the male population thanks to exposure magnification, but in truth it's not very many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Jesus dude, no chill. But you're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?I appreciate that you're an emotional person, but we need a lot more information to determine why this happened to you. I can see that you're at least a 6 in terms of physical attractiveness, which means the vast majority of men won't reject you unless they have a good reason. It could be that you come off as unstable or "not worth it" to many men. No offense but just by the virtue of having colored hair you're going to frighten off a lot of guys if you make it clear you want something "serious"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 12:36 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Yeah, this reminds me of my friend who's dating a female dentist. She's not that bad, but a little dumpy and weird face. She seems to have a lot of trouble finding dates. My friend is with her but they both seem to accept that it's a bit of a farce. I'm really shocked she can't get a date aside from him and she's a fucking dentist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps became a place for people that don’t know any betterAre you a writer? If not, you should consider trying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | What is your ideal ONS?ONS are a paradox IMO. If you have a bad ONS, it was a mistake and you wouldn't have wanted it to happen. If you had a good ONS, you should want to do it again. At least a few times. So frankly I don't really understand. I think it's more of a psychological reason that people do them, like it boost their self-esteem or something like that, the quality of the sex doesn't even matter to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 07:46 AM |
| 34 | Neither gender really wants sex. What they really want is desire from the opposite sex.The physical sensations of sex, for both genders, really isn't much different to masturbation With due respect, I don't know that anyone can actually believe this unless they're a virgin or have only had terrible sex. I hope you're not in either of those categories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 03:12 PM |
| 4 | ~90% of school teachers are women. How do you feel about this with regards to the healthy development of masculine/feminine identity and social dynamics in both boys AND girls?Hard disagree on your first point, teachers are practically worshiped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Study claims dark triad men have lower standards for womenlink to test? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 12:15 AM |
| 6 | Study claims dark triad men have lower standards for womenI'd be happy to read about that if you have a source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Study claims dark triad men have lower standards for women>very few people actively seek bad men Explain the fatherlessness rate in the black community? A lot of gang members, drug dealers, etc. Part of why the fatherlessness rate is so high is because so many of the dads are in prison or end up going to prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating?He didn't appear as typical loud alpha male. He's 100% Sigma male - very intelligent, a bit weird, but very organised and planned. He cares about me. So he doesn't act like a "player"...he just told you that he's had sex with a lot of women? Ok. That's fairly typical, but okay... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 4 | What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating?I guess what I'm trying to get at is, why didn't your religious upbringing innoculate you against the appeal of a "player"? As a virginal good girl yourself, isn't this what you desired in a mate? If not, why not? And if you didn't hang out with religious people, who did you hang out with? And were your parents/religious community okay with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 5 | What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating?This is interesting to me. Why were you a virgin? Religious community? Did you hang out with mostly other religious people? How did you come to meet this player? Why date him? Would you say your reasons fall in line with red pill ideology? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 02:50 PM |
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