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DiscussionRIPGeorgeHarrison/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:55 PM
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Man I missed this daily chat. Why are they so dead compared to a year and a half ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:36 AM
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I don’t think you are arguing with someone of sound mind sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:29 PM
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I think thats a totally reasonable outlook on things to have. That being said, these posts don't seem to be saying this sentiment at all. All of these posts just come down to people saying "because I get periods and pregnant, you need to have x, y, z qualities" and somehow its usually never being a helpful, courteous person. Some of these posts are even more like "I get periods and get pregnant, therefore it's impossible for men to ever do enough for me". I just struggle to believe this is how n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:37 AM
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I’m convinced these posts about how women need to use the fact that they get pregnant and have periods as leverage to justify men needing to do a bunch of other unrelated shit are made by women that are either asexual or haven’t realized they aren’t heterosexual yet at all. I don’t think normal women that actually like men think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:46 PM
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“No one’s ever gotten to like someone after knowing them”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:21 AM
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The whole thing was obviously a way for people that hate men to virtue signal about how much they hate men. It wasnt any deeper or more interesting than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:57 AM
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A lot of them and redpillers in general don’t believe women have actually strong beliefs and will bend over for anyone who turns them on. They like the idea of swaying some turbo liberal chick away from her steadfast beliefs with their dick basically, or maybe not change her belief but will bed him anyways because she can’t resist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:20 PM
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Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:33 AM
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Yeah, what people don't get about wine is that most people with a lot of practice can at least learn what the different ones taste like by heart and why, even if to people that dont' drink it often it all tastes the same. Some people will never get the hang of it, but on the other extreme some people really are able to taste which country and climate and vineyard they came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:03 AM
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Unless u know u fucked up, the person who is pissed should sleep on the couch if they really don't feel like sleeping next to their partner. The idea of forcing someone to sleep somewhere else because I am mad is just absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:59 AM
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No argument there, considering a lot of red pillers just use it as a guide to manipulate women/make them more pliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:26 AM
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This is some deep Pentecostal shit. edit: I didn't even read the part where you mentioned Pentecostal churches before commenting LMAOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:54 AM
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I forgot to mention but I tried measuring myself using the stretch method to see if it was any different than measuring a full erection and it was at most 1/4 of an inch less, but probably more like 1/8 of an inch less (I can’t remember the exact erect length, lol). So I guess you can bin that part of the theory
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:13 PM
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Middle income people are more thoughtful about having kids, and will worry about their financial situation in regards to it, while poor people are generally stupid and put no thought into major life changing decisions at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:28 AM
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How are you supposed to know if it’s one sided until you confess? Or maybe the other person will see them in a bee light if the know how they feel? Sorry but a lot of women are really shit at giving signals sometimes especially to close friends because they are also worried about changing the dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:22 AM
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You are right, it’s not cool to assume the worst in men who confess feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:03 AM
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To be clear, it doesn’t have to be this man, I just needed a visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:47 AM
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<image> Q4W: would you date a man with long hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:45 AM
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I meant that it’s common even though it’s not a majority. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:06 PM
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Idk I think you are using some really contrived logic to defend this idea that an average bear is actually less dangerous than a random male human. Especially since this whole question is about what is safer to run into in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:27 AM
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I’ve encountered hundreds if not thousands of people hiking in the woods, and have never felt threatened by any of them. I don’t really care what the average person is capable of because my experience tells me it’s almost certainly never going to be bad, and even if the bear most likely isn’t going to attack me, I think my luck would run out if I ran into bears as often as I did people hiking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:40 PM
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Was this post about married couples where one partner is a SAHM (something that is actually pretty common if not a majority of households) or average married couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:34 PM
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I need to point out, the trope of a wife that doesn’t let his husband have any fun has existed for decades at this point. Otherwise though I do agree when men get married, in the aggregate will see their social life shrink much more than women will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:59 PM
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The people this advice is targeted to are so outside of the norm the advice is useless, and like the equivalent of telling a broke guy who wants to be a millionaire that they should step outside their houses. Obviously they will have to leave their house if they want gainful employment but everyone knows that has to happen lol. It would just be advice given to make the giver feel superior
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:32 AM
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This is completely untrue. How come there are so many deadbeats out there have kids/baby mamas? Not saying this is an aspirational lifestyle at all, but clearly most broke people can date and and have a family if they manage their expectations for who they attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:35 AM
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Why do so many people on reddit say sharing hobbies isn’t that important? Do Reddit couples just never do anything together? It feels like a conspiracy on behalf of Redditors to convince normal people to date redditors whose only hobby is reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:01 AM
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Assault and battery of women actually is common unfortunately and it almost always happens at the hands of an intimate partner or family member, not a stranger who was told no. Which is what 95% of the posts on the sub are about because the actual thing the sub was created for happens so rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:10 AM
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I love that there is a whole sub for something evidently so common they only get one actual post about said things happening every two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:43 AM
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I think it’s far far more common that dead bedrooms arise from one person losing attraction to their partner or never really having it to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:32 PM
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Gloomette is a qt3.14 this is slanderous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:11 AM
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Self reflect on your comment formatting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:31 AM
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I would like to ask what do you make of women that say their partners use them as a therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:30 AM
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Iv’e never heard a reasonable explanation for how men talking about their problems to their girlfriend is using them as a therapist, but why women on average doing the same but way worse, is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:47 PM
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I can agree with that second point, especially since a lot of dicksize paranoia is just mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:03 AM
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How can redditors not get that it can hit a guy hard in his masculinity to hear that his dick is too small to satisfy his girlfriend? Even if he is great at eating her out! It's like they are completely disconnected from normal human emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:39 AM
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Maybe not exactly the same, but same lyrics at least
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:32 AM
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If the Beatles were a band today releasing the same music they did 60 years ago, inceltears would think they were a problematic incel band.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:22 AM
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If she lives at home too: "well one of us needs to live away from home, how can we ever get some privacy?" If she has her own place and you don't: "why should I date someone that live at home? I'm just going date men on my level". I can't complain too much about it. Had I chose to try and make it in a place of my own, I wouldn't be able to afford a lot of great experiences, I would be driving a shitbox way more likely to break down, and I wouldn't be save up nearly as much money as I have, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:55 AM
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God bless the FOIA, except when it’s someone requesting MY information 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:06 PM
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Everything there is written top down too, trying to justify the asshole title they come up with (or vice versa)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:35 PM
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I was thinking this was gonna be some super arrogant profile demanding insane things, but he just seems like a nice enough person who was dealt a terrible hand. I don’t like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:46 AM
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Stop looking at men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:02 AM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:01 AM
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I actually kinda like planning out vacations in advance and building excitement for it over the next few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:02 AM
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My blues eyes make me squint on cloudy days sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:47 AM
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Not going well with your gf is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:45 AM
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This is a top 10 soyjak
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:40 PM
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Lots of women slut shame other women, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:38 PM
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Isn’t there a window in a woman’s cycle where it’s completely impossible to get pregnant? Not actually sure how that method works
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:57 PM
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Most guys here are not dumb enough to say literally everyone will do. And there are a lot of women who aren’t as obese as that woman is or single moms (totally tangential I know but many of them have even higher standards because low standards (or at least prioritizing the wrong things) got them into their mess and now they need to consider their kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:56 AM
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Don’t listen to everyone OP. I think this trend is sick and perverse as well. In fact I want you to tell me where these women are so I can go up to them and give them a piece of my mind in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:18 PM
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She would like me fine because I wasn’t vulnerable Around her or only in ways that appeased her sensibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:35 AM
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Ask the huge number of men that have had this experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:34 AM
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I hate the idea of involving other people in my relationships and being intimate with others in a relationship. It’s got no appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:47 PM
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The thought of indulging a hypothetical partner in this fetish makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:39 PM
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I would like them, they're the one that wouldn't truly like me (but at least they would like me for matching the dumb caricature they have what a man ought to be).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:24 AM
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The mental calculation men are making is that maintains the facade forever is better than waiting it out for a unicorn and going through a series of failed relationships until they find someone possibly well later than they would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:18 PM
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Reading people discussing sugaring makes me retch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:14 PM
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Why not ecology? There are absolutely jobs you can get in the environmental/ecology complex, especially if you are willing to grind doing field work for a few seasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:27 PM
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I didn’t expect anything to fall into my lap. I expected it to not be impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:53 AM
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It’s not nearly as noticeable in my opinion as you would think, but you can also run them off with a towel or knife
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:02 AM
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I honestly can’t be bothered and just eat them with the skins on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:58 AM
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Oh no not ban evasion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:20 PM
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They should unban her immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:17 PM
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I mean most of the women I end up liking are not absurdly beautiful, (at least I don’t think they are to the average person, they were beautiful to me). But if someone’s overweight I’m just saying that attraction isn’t going to develop, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:06 PM
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Relatable except I still have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:29 PM
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Maybe having a comfortable life is a better way to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:17 AM
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It’s really obvious that they want women to be attracted to more people. I think it’s just willful misunderstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:47 AM
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Growing up during the internet never stopped my bullies 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:45 AM
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The people lonely today would go outside and make friends instead. And nerdy people still ended up making friends and marrying anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:26 AM
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This is just a rationalization women have for an already existing preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:49 PM
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Her asking to be reimbursed is what's petty, the guys response is hilarious and throws the absurdity of her request back in her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:33 AM
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I'll care about her getting reimbursed as soon as I get reimbursed for all my first dates I paid for that went nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:28 AM
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It might be helpful for some people that really need to watch their fat intake, and want an even denser source of protein than milk already is I guess. Other than that, it's more useful as an ingredient in other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:03 PM
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I don't even really agree with the premise, but responses like this are so meaningless. The question is "is it immature" and I think people can broadly agree many behaviors and thoughts are immature. The question isn't if someone has a right to those thoughts, and never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:45 PM
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Were they super dark? They might be Sudanese
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:34 PM
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Most people immigrating don’t make that much and will never make that much, let alone the millions that can’t escape their country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:05 AM
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I am never posting identifying information on reddit again, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:18 PM
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Bout to take a part time job at McDonald’s so I can go ring shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:30 PM
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The Walmart thing is only ever said on the internet by random people that don’t know who they are talking to looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:00 PM
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Do women truly love the idea of changing diapers, cleaning up messes, and putting up with tantrums over the same stupid ass shit every day either?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:06 PM
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You know when I'm happy and satisfied with my life, the one thing I always do is constantly tell people who didn't ask ( primarily on obscure internet forums), how happy and satisfied I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:38 AM
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I really like this and there is definitely an equivalent for men here. People say men that struggle with dating should always just try dating in their league, but if a guys problem is being awkward and weird, it doesn't matter how low he tries to go. Like, its easy to see how obese people end up dating other obese people because that is their league, but there is no way this will ever translate into an obese woman dating an average or even about average guys that are autistic and off putting bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:35 AM
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Path of least resistance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:11 AM
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Incoherent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:30 PM
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Interesting how basically everyone that says pills are dumb are just a variant of blue pill. I mean I get why, but that’s not fooling anyone here like it might elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:20 PM
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My honest reaction to all women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:17 PM
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Ive thought this before when things fell out with other people, but I think I mean it when I say I’m going full MGTOW for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:39 PM
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I’ve had two hike first dates, one of which was proposed by the woman. I don’t think it’s that thoughtless to suggest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:46 PM
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What you described is again being concerned with what is sloppy seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:54 AM
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Being overly concerned about being sloppy seconds instead of seeing where life takes you seems pretty contrary to being a "chill, content, and positive person" you think we should strive to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:53 AM
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A bigger guy is probably going to hit harder if he snaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:35 PM
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It's nigh time women also start dating really short men to minimize their chance of being seriously abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:12 AM
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You're original comment is not wrong, but this fact is really the sound of the door slamming shut in a lot of people's faces, so it's hard to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:55 AM
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If a woman needs to be babied like that to feel soft and feminine I don’t give a shit how she feels. She should learn how to feel soft and feminine without being a total freeloader. do I feel emasculated when going 50/50 No my masculinity is not that fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:59 PM
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Most sex workers end up hating men because of all the gross pieces of shit they deal with. I don’t feel like trying to work and change their mind about my gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:10 AM
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Sure, as long as it’s up to you to choose the criteria I’m sure it sounds like a good idea to punish people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:37 PM
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Seriously, if Switzerland is anything like every other continental European country I've been too the women must be beautiful. I've never been anywhere else where even the young women working at like an airport bakery or checking your train ticket were consistently beautiful, but it seemed like a recurring thing in Europe (not including the UK and Ireland, lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:21 PM
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the more women that get screwed over the harder it’s going to be for men moving forward. I give this as much a chance of happening as I do men collectively not falling for catfishing anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:45 AM
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No, all these people named after english nouns or adjectives that are have never been used as names until the last 25 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:23 PM
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I swipe left on people that have stupid names on dating apps all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:22 PM
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I don’t get it, I’m like a magnet to these women on apps. Not trying to put them down, but it feels strange when the only thing remotely alty about me is I have long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:29 PM
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I’m almost certain that if you have kids while unmarried and the woman leaves, it will be harder for the guy to get some form of custody or visitation than if he was married
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:05 AM
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I'm gonna take what I said a step further and say that most young people probably don't even regularly go to nightclubs every weekend, so obviously it's not the main way to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:40 AM
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Yeah your right, you should just do stuff you don’t enjoy for the joy of chaining yourself to a partner who has completely different interests than you and wants a totally different lifestyle. Is this really what they should do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:01 AM
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There’s got to be a better way for introverts to meet other people than just doing something they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:30 AM
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To be clear… did you start holding the knife right after the first mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:59 PM
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It’s not just romcoms, a lot older dudes say they had to ask their wife to be many times to get a yes. Not saying it’s a valid strategy today, but it clearly worked in the past for some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:49 PM
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I’m beginning to think there might actually be a conspiracy amongst these all these pink pill type gurus to try and keep young women single. All their advise just comes down to be as uninvolved as possible and reject people constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:42 AM
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You either want to forcefem your man or have him dominate you. No I’m betweens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:11 AM
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Seeing the kind of guys shitting on therapy and what their lives looks like has me more convinced it’s a good idea for a lot of men .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:10 AM
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I've learned you should never fight curly hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:51 AM
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I think there is a lot of truth that most people either mimic it, OR try to do the opposite. I've never heard that everyone just mimics what their parents do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:45 AM
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Because those will make their life worse? I already laid out why I think all those actions are bad. Maybe not being ugly. But surely you can see his dating some crazy is a terrible choice. They shouldn’t even be in the game. You guys really think some people just shouldn’t have basic standards at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:07 AM
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Well maybe I meant empathy then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:51 AM
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I don't want to go "well akhtually" here, but there is a lot of variation in islamic law. Afghanistan is a good example of a country that relies only on Shariah law to inform itself, and we can see how well thats going, but it's basically the only one that uses solely islamic law, and most countries used a mixed system. since you bring up Syria, they have secular courts to carry out criminal law, while private law is done by various religious courts. Christians don't have to use islamic courts t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:50 AM
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Thats kind of cold. I have sympathy for people who can't find someone who meets some basic standards, to the point where dating their options would make their life worse, including all the one's you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:35 AM
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I mean it feels bad knowing some dude who is good probably is going to die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:25 AM
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I actually kind of relate to not being attracted to many people and think that’s probably a big part of why I’m single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:04 AM
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Because no one cares if either group talks about it like a societal issue because it doesn’t mean anything that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:46 AM
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And how many women complain about there some how being literally no good guys to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:43 AM
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I’m going to add also, just because a guy vents, or complains, or even lashes out verbally once in a blue moon, does not make him not a good guy. There is a saying “trying the patience of a saint” and this is exactly that. This sub isn’t so guilty of it, but a lot of the dating subs are, and they blame men who are always posting there at a low point, and judge them based on that and relate their lack of success to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:25 AM
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Responding to someone’s old comment here: I think to a lot of women, it’s really uncomfortable to see that a guy that you are t into is good, and then realize the sane reason you arent into him is why no one else is. No matter how unappealing he is, it feels wrong if he is a good person, and no matter how good a person it is, you aren’t being attracted to him. So when a guy like this inevitably complains about his lot, it’s easy to point and say “this is why you are single, work on it”. It break…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:21 AM
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I think I know who you are talking about and this user does not consider herself normal, in her defense/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:46 AM
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Also autistic men could mean the world to someone by doing good for the community/society in general. There is no need to limit yourself to only doing good and having meaning in a relationship. Why not just do good for your community by proving good quality work in an in-demand job/trade and by donating your time to charity? This is unintentionally the most brutal thing I've ever read on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:08 PM
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I know if you are a federal employee it is law that you get 12 weeks of paid parental leave but of course most people don’t work for the feds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:51 AM
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I think it’s well known around here that Paul Dolan (who is responsible for much of this narrative) and his research can be tossed, but for any one that missed it, read here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:31 PM
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They are being a lot more selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:17 AM
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That’s basically the same thing as this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:16 AM
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I’ve been reading some threads from women contemplating being single mothers by choice and almost all the discussion centers around how hard it will be for them rather than what the experience for the child will be. It’s just assumed ahead of time that will not be a problem. Really convincing me more these are too self centered to be good parents in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:05 AM
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I don’t expect anything, but I would take being treated from a utilitarian perspective. It would make me feel like a king and I get food from it. I would then try to come up with something other way to treat this prospective partner for next time, if everything is still going good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:29 AM
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You are taking this a little too seriously. Who doesn’t want to be treated occasionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:53 PM
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What would your ideal man look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:19 AM
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Is this what you want your man to look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:33 AM
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R you the same person who talked about how their mom said don’t come home until you have a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:34 AM
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I’m going to clarify my comment a little bit. When I said the way someone women here talk about Kate bloomer men was harsh, I don’t have a problem with women here saying they don’t want them. I dislike all the rationalizations some of you here (not all. Most of you don’t do this in fact) come up with for why they will never get what they want in dating. It doesn’t feel any different than incels saying single, 30+ women will end up miserable spinsters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:59 AM
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If your a late bloomer (like me) me then I’m sorry but it’s just not going to be easy. The truth is, you are going to have to work hard to get anything, especially what you want. And no matter how much you try, people along the way (at least here) are going to say you just aren’t doing enough and clearly arent trying as hard as they did, when they aren’t even playing the same game. The process of making mistakes and learning through dating, they had the benefit of doing with other people who wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:31 PM
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The way some women here talk about late bloomer men here is deranged. They want there to be nothing left for them, or for at best their only options to be morbidly obese or single moms.l that have closed up shop. Maybe it’s just a revenge fantasy thing, but what’s the point of that fantasy at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:26 PM
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I don’t think it’s really a nitpick if her experience of about one years didn’t make her suicidal almost two decades later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:41 PM
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It's probably not nearly as common as random women seeing that and assuming the dad is molesting his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:13 AM
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The women on this sub who have never been in a relationship and are convinced about how terrible dating will turn out for them is slowly starting to balance out the incels here. I'm not calling anyone out in particular, but I see all of you 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:08 AM
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Do you actually subscribe to a reality where most women are in a relationship with men they find unattractive and have sex with unwillingly, or is this a hypothetical scenario to respond to what men here say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:38 AM
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“If you don’t like whatever blue pill slop gets posted here, then you suck”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:48 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:27 PM
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I want injectadrenochrome/jaded interaction back
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:37 PM
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I just don’t think there are that many scenarios where the husband wants it more but the wife files the paperwork. Maybe in most of those cases of the women filing it is a mutual thing, but it’s just an unfounded assumption that men are too lazy to file
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:34 PM
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Idk man. I was trying to book some flights and was a bit shocked at the costs and read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:54 PM
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Flights are expensive in general right now for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:15 PM
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I’m simply dying to find someone not interested in traveling at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:02 PM
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Congrats man. That’s literally never happened to me on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:49 PM
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This guy sounds like a dick and I’m sorry she had a bad 8 months. On the other hand, saying it was bad because he has Asperger’s (which she admits is just her suspicion) and because of that she will never date someone with Asperger’s is really missing the forest for the trees . The obvious conclusion should be to not give a total ass that many chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:06 PM
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What exactly to you is sad about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:45 AM
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You should prove your claim is correct tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:42 AM
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I had to do yard work all morning!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:07 PM
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How will “a girlfriend won’t fix you” cels respond to this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:21 PM
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Pretend you love it so much that it can’t not be sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:59 PM
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Sure, I can agree with all that, but literally not one though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:42 AM
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Yeah people really underestimate how polarized society is if they don't get around enough. It's a whole different universe in some parts of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:26 AM
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I am shocked to see that not one dude said they felt very confident in their body. Kind of sad tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:04 AM
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Being a gay cuckold sounds so funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:29 AM
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Women really be like “Did I just write the song of the summer?” and it’s just a song about wanting the most generic rich gigachad imaginable 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:21 PM
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I get complimented in real life way too often to get as few likes as I do on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:10 PM
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What happened to your gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:55 PM
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I’m monstrously socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:46 PM
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I see what you are saying. That just makes me wonder though, would someone in the fields you listed who had a hard scrabble past to get where they are be more compatible in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:22 PM
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I'm going to be honest, I seriously doubt the majority of attacks from strangers anywhere in the world result in a homicide. Where did you read this, for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:43 AM
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I partly agree, but I think it has a lot more to do with men thinking it smart to go right to the source and ask women what they want so they can then give what they were told to women they are interested. There are a few reasons it doesn’t work out, but that’s my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:51 AM
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Yeah, and there are other pretty straight forward things you can control that will make it an even lower chance (like I know if I never cheat, that lowers the chance of divorce. I can’t help what my partner does but I know if I avoid that, it lowers my chance of being divorced)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:07 PM
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There is literally no difference in what is more horrific to me based on the intentions of the two, and at least the human isn’t going to be eating me while I’m alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:34 AM
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Men are only more “dangerous” than bears on paper because their are vastly vastly more interactions between two people than between bears and people every day. Don’t be ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:25 AM
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I actually liked this feature of the app as a guy and bumble is by far my best app. I think it's because women messaging first is sort of a second round of filtering out people that aren't that interested in me. I'm also not sure who everyone here is swiping on, because for me it's about a 50% chance if I get "hey" or something unique more unique (at least asking about my day). Another thing I've noticed is I'm not alone in it being my best app, but a lot of other people say it's their worst by …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:13 PM
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Because you get a chance to actually talk to them before and leave an impression that way rather than leave it entirely to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:02 PM
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You’re really telling on yourself with this comment. Frankly this burn down the house attitude is almost identical to what incels are except it’s getting mad over actual criminal behavior of some women being pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:30 AM
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It’s worrying how many people think yelling and screaming are always a part of relationships and that’s just how it is. Both the people that scream and the ones that put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:48 AM
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All humans have inherent worth, and I agree it’s rude and mean to say these people are worthless. But when it comes to dating, it’s entirely up to men she meets if it’s a problem. If it’s not great, if it is, I don’t think it’s unfair if guys don’t like her past. It’s not anymore unfair then women taking issue with a jabs lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:34 PM
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I get that sometimes, but the tone really is what sets it bad. Recounting my own experience the nicest way someone put it was “anyone that makes you feel like shit is dead ass regarded”. I actually liked that because at the time someone I really liked had just ghosted me. I dislike the most when some people think I’m literally joking. Appreciate the kind words too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:41 AM
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I genuinely find all this really repellent. Im pretty inexperienced but even me choking a woman seems like it would be a complete turnoff (I could probably handle spanking and hair pulling).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:30 AM
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Hey I’m thankful for the one advantage I do have, but I would need to be a lot more attractive to ride on it alone. And ride I do have isn’t much help frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:18 AM
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What percent of women age 18-30 you all reckon actually like being choked, spanked, getting their hair pulled etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:08 AM
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I swear there is a narrative being pushed that porn is making men act aggressive or even violent at sex, when women like that way more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:53 AM
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Not privilege, but there are two things that come to kind, as an above average guy. Firstly, People think I’m fucking with them if I bring up that I struggle to date. Secondly, I’m starting to presume also that people assume I have something seriously wrong with for my lack of experience. Which tbf probably is true, but I get the feeling its assumed to be something sinister about me, rather than just that I’m awkward, anxious, and kind of autistic which should be on display already. I think that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:49 PM
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My dad giving me specific situational advice in socialization actually helped me quite a lot when I was in middle school in making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:14 PM
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Someone here a few weeks ago was trying to tell me that no one even says friendship is a substitute for romantic love, even though I see it constantly as in this post. I hate to use the term gaslighting but it really feels like that happens a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:17 PM
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The venn diagram of people who genuinely should not date because of their mental/personality issues, and the people people who actually are refraining from dating because of above issues, is 2 circles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:03 PM
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If they did then maybe they would have actually chosen the man, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:14 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:09 PM
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Saving all this man or bear dialogue for the next time women in this sub claim they actually like men and don’t hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:32 PM
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People enjoy things the most when their skill level matches the difficulty of the task, especially they are doing a highly difficult task they are skilled at. For the guys here that are struggling to date, they are doing something that is way harder than what their skill set is, so of course they would be happier if it was easier, especially since a lot of them are a lost cause when it come to gaining any real skill at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:41 AM
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I'd rather they procreate than the people you represent in court do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:25 AM
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It’s an observed paradox in criminology that people more paranoid of crime like the elderly, and women etc., are less likely to actually be a target of most crimes (though women are more likely to be violently raped, it’s just almost certainly not going to happen while walking late at night)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:27 AM
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They've gotten annoyed with it so I've stopped. I was being excessive to be fair, but I've always gotten the impression that people would rather hear about any other problem you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:08 PM
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I honestly just can’t read these stories without chalking it up to the halo effect. Maybe I’m just being a prick, but I’ve seen too many stories about how every traditionally undesirable guy sucks because of his personality, while every jock and frat bro is secretly an angel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:28 PM
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It’s an opinion I’ve heard expressed a lot (if people didn’t genuinely believe it, they wouldn’t say get male friends as a solution to romantic loneliness), and she has a lot of other dumb hallmark opinions these other people have. I don’t need to read into it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:28 AM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:48 AM
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This is fake. Source: they claim to know many successful poly couples
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:17 PM
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The person you posted thinks that. It’s actually a pretty common sentiment repeated here or elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:15 PM
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Anyone who thinks male friends are a substitute for romantic success is kidding themselves. Both are important but only delusional people think the former will alleviate the later
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:29 PM
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Friend zone is a specific situation in which love is unrequited
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:59 PM
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If you both live with parents: “I can’t date someone living with their parents. Where can we go to get some privacy?” If only you live with your parents: “ why should I date someone living with their parents. It’s childish and totally beneath me. They should just date other on their level and date other women living with their parents”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:34 AM
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And it was almost certainly also true that you were likely to live into your 60’s if you made it past infancy during that time period as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:01 AM
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I have some major doubts that was true during the industrial era which is really the least believable part of OPs claim. It bears repeating that the low lifespans of the past in large part were due to very high infant mortality and a man by age 15 was likely to live to 50-60 throughout most of history
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:00 AM
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Status and money can obviously help, but even without it he would still clean up. For him it’s just the difference green dating hotties no one has heard of and dating Michael Jackson’s daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:43 AM
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You are literally completely incoherent, maybe don't use reddit when you've been drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:42 AM
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This woman is just obnoxious and this only got published because (and sadly a lot of people really don’t seem to realize this), ragebait gets engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:32 AM
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We all might understand now if you actually speak coherently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:26 AM
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Creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:35 AM
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Quite incredibly how all this equity over equality is just stuff that benefits women and downplays men’s issues. And it’s pretty distasteful to hand wave away mens much higher suicide rate by claiming a lot of it is from auto erotic asphyxiation or attempting to avoid criminal punishment or make people feel bad as revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:02 AM
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I just don’t believe there are more than minor differences in rights and opportunities between men and women in the western world. No doubt there are serious issues in other parts if the world and that it’s a real fight for the rights of women in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:01 AM
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Why would you not want them to go to public schools?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:48 PM
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Nobody needs to go to a private highschool. This is absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:37 AM
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I knew I would regret not using Tik Tok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:45 PM
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Why do guys need to do physical work to be treated like men? say this as someone who’s almost entire working experience has been physically demanding jobs, I don’t get why someone as long as they are bringing in cash should be treated differently if they are in an office or construction site. Unless I am missing something here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:46 PM
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Death Valley.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:16 PM
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Switch to wine so you and others can pretend your habit is healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:56 PM
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This got me googling and I found this. But chronic heavy drinking can prime certain metabolic processes and, in effect, train the body to waste the seven calories a gram that alcohol ordinarily provides. For example, weight gain was negligible in alcoholics who were given 2,000 calories of alcohol daily on top of the 2,500 calories from foods they consumed to maintain their weight. But when the same number of additional calories were fed as chocolate, a steady weight gain resulted. LMFAO, fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:48 PM
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Iv’e never felt much sympathy for these gay and lesbian people that marry the opposite sex and later come out (barring people in countries where there is a serious risk to their lives if they don’t conform). I mean it must suck feeling like you need to lie, but it just seems so callous to try and drag someone else into your lie like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:30 PM
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How did you come up with the first number?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:58 AM
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People will say this same thing on a one off post made in various dating advise subreddits though. I think it’s clear this gets overplayed a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:27 PM
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This is a reasonable take, and I agree the work doesn’t stop. I certainly think all parents should take part in child rearing. The one thing I want to counter this with is that work from home would not be such a big perk if it wasn’t preferable to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:28 AM
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No I’m not, and I’be seen what it’s like to be a stay at home parent with my own eyes. 40 hours of looking after an infant isn’t as time consuming or tough as 40 hours of working a normal job. Not saying a working parent shouldn’t help out the stay at home one, but it’s just not the same and you have a lot more freedom and the comfort of your own home at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:17 AM
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Being the stay at home parent comes with breaks in between responsibilities. It’s not exactly continuously working
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:36 AM
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Looks like this will go unanswered, but it's probably obvious to anyone with eyes, that the point of playing hard to get is that they think it's fun to make men have to try harder, and maybe they even hope it will set the tone of the relationship. Not actually about increasing the chances of dating some guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:11 AM
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Is the point just to make them try harder because it's fun, or to increase the chances of dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:05 AM
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At what point do you consider it ghosting instead of, "they just stopped responding"? I think you have to at least have a date scheduled and before it happens they stop responding so it's effectively cancelled. Otherwise if you haven't had a date, you can't really call it ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:58 AM
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Wood chippers are so fun to use
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:13 AM
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I forget how valuable someone who is a good listener is because it’s so rare to find someone who is. I’m mostly interested stupid bullshit no one cares about, so finding someone willing to listen and who isn’t clearly blowing me off when they respond really feels nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:24 AM
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This account is just bait
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:15 AM
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Replace the flinching with loud shrieking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:33 AM
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Fuck me, it’s been 10 years already?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:28 AM
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I also have ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:44 AM
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I’ve been banned from aside from the usual suspects been here will get you banned from, I’ve been r/enoughsandersspam for trolling them (I deserved it, but then again so did they), and Justiceserved for commenting in a no no sub (I was arguing with them!)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:38 AM
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Love the low key implication there ban comes with that you shouldn’t be allowed to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:36 AM
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“Basic social skills aren’t enough” “Ummm, so you just think they don’t matter at all?” They always need to make a comical straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:34 AM
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Also that advice is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:16 PM
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I was perfectly clear, so maybe just reread it until you get it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:02 PM
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If sex is the hold up, it’s better just to lie until it’s not a lie anymore. Much harder to fix is having no dating or relationship experience. The effects of that is going to permeate how you behave and your general comfortability through the whole process of dating and it usually shows. And it turns out buying intimacy is way more expensive than buying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:56 PM
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Because women will almost always (somewhat rightfully) see it as a red flag and an increasingly bigger one as you get older. It’s not impossible to overcome, but you will have to be some amount more exceptional (likely in the social skills department) than a normal person everything else being equal to burry that flag. When in reality you will likely be more socially awkward than average for the same reason you are a late bloomer. And as you get older increasingly less people want to be someone’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:38 PM
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They are way less common, and a lot would not want to be some guy’s first either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:22 PM
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With enough TRT and tren, that’s all you will want. Maybe he is competing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:05 PM
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🤨 If you choose to pretend every happy marriage is actually just tolerable at best, and that every bad marriage is in fact bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:49 AM
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Thats one of my more favorite red pill delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:25 AM
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Maybe being no gf isn't so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:23 AM
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I think thats a red herring in that guys that have a lot of followers on instagram tend to have a vibrant social life with a lot of things going on, and otherwise seem like fun people to be around to most people. But I also know a few guys that seldom post on instagram, and some that don't even have any social media at all with no issues dating (whether or not you count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:03 PM
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I'm so truecel if the opportunity ever finally presented itself, I would die of a heart attack from excitement on the spot. It's literally impossible for me to ascend. It never began.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:09 AM
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My last good match told me how a lot of guys were just trying to hook up, even though she was looking for a relationship. And a lot of people were bad conversationalists especially ones interested in similar things as her. So I guess thats the catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:16 AM
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I found my second profile in two days basically asking guys to apply to be her date. The first one was someone linking a google survey to fill out, and the one today was one linking their "dating email" (wtf is that even? Lmfao). I hope this didn't just suddenly become a phenomenon in the two weeks I was abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:44 AM
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Actual, pretty good and fair. Flattering even
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:15 AM
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Why would you be friends with someone that is weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:50 PM
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So by your parameters it would have to be someone telling a specific user to shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:41 AM
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Its a generic piece of advice they hand because they assume its a common problem for anyone struggling with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:43 PM
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I was just in Australia and all the heights on bumble were in feet in inches interestingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:13 PM
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If you want to see what happens when you remove female willingness from the equation, look at the gay hook up scene and how high their body counts get. It sounds obvious, but really think how easy sex would be if every guy on earth was interested in other men and you just had to find another guy attracted to you. Average guy swipes right on half of profiles so you do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:23 AM
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it's not an "accusation" he had a fair trial and was found guilty and convicted It was an accusation until he had a trial which is what presumption of innocence is about. then bring up an example of a woman saying she doesn't wanna date men bc of a man who was exonerated Why do you think I was talking about men getting dates? People lose their jobs, friends, and family over this. so do you not know he was convicted or what are you talking about? men today are defending danny, after his convictio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:20 PM
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This is a strange comment. I don't think that many men lost dates for defending him (or rather his right to a trial). Most reasonable people also, can see how destructive criminal accusations can be to the lives of the accused regardless of innocence, and that even being totally cleared of charges will never totally fix this devastation. Was anyone actually saying that his right to the presumption of innocence meant his victim should not have pressed charges?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:51 PM
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5'7 is about as far from the mean as a male 6'0 (in America) so that is where I draw the line at tall for women. Thats my logical answer at least, personally it doesn't feel like a woman is that tall until about 5'9.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:52 PM
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A lot of flirting is just playfully teasing about the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:47 PM
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File this under you know its flirting when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:36 PM
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I can't describe the rage I feel looking looking for environmental science related jobs and seeing these bullshit "environmental technician" jobs that have nothing to do with my degree pollute my search results.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:46 PM
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Thats the thing, for an average height, average frame guy to be above 200 pounds and shredded is almost impossible without PEDs . If you are a 250 pound guy, and start working out, you're maximum at that weight will still look a bit flabby, but thats still way better than if you hadn't worked out at all. I only bring this up because some people even caution against working out to be more attractive, and I think that is insane when its the one thing most guys can change a lot without surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:33 PM
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I hear a lot of people discuss what the ideal body male body type for attracting women is, and a lot of people (including women) give wildly different answers, so can we all just agree that as long as you aren't doing steroids it is practically impossible to make yourself less attractive to women by working out too much? Especially if you baseline is being sedentary?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:41 PM
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It should be noted that most nations with high fertility rates are desperate to get them lower and historically many have even acted extremely coercively or forcibly in achieving their goals. There are exceptions to this such as Romania's dictatorship under Nicolae Ceaușescu where abortion was banned and contraception heavily restricted. Most countries trying to increase their rate, are fall into the low fertility democratic category and necessarily rely on incentives to do this. Interestingly I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:02 AM
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Knowledge of family planning and access to resources for it, plus women becoming more educated correlates much more strongly with low birth rates than general feminist attitudes (see Iran for an extreme example). There probably is a correlation between how feminist a society is and how better it is about the above I listed. Edit: If anyone thinks I was saying family planning is a bad thing, I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:42 AM
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There is a lot disagreeable with this post but firstly, financially it makes sense for everyone to try and climb economically as much as possible, man or woman. In practice women do it way more though which is why this is brought up, and I would hope most people are dating for reasons other than finances. Anyways logical as it is, and men should absolutely be wary of this and to what extent their partners loyalty is affected by financial matters. If you want I be proudly hypergamous go ahead, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:01 AM
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That’s a good question since it’s not the main complaint of guys with dating with dating issues that are wondering wtf happened with being nice going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:01 PM
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What went wrong in the conclusion, taking the advice at face value? Listening to it at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:53 AM
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In the context of the comment you responded to mentioning men being non-committal, it relates extremely well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:02 PM
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Maybe they should try therapy and showering if every guy they like is non-committal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:39 AM
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No it didn’t actually, what in this article indicates that more research was done? People sharing their stories on social media isn’t research. And that article from the Guardian for evidence cites another from the Guardian that cites the exact same article that was retracted! If you want to see what the republished one said here it is. It concludes that only in cases of heart condition is there a gender disparity. And this can be a good example of p hacking too since if you break your study sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:16 PM
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Well, you might be interested to know that the study showing men are more likely to leave their sick partners was retracted after a fatal error in study design was corrected and their was no statistical difference found. Or do you you think appealing to common knowledge is the best way to arrive at the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:41 PM
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You are being disingenuous when you share all these stats, but then dismiss the ones that show men are not more likely to leave women in the case of their partners and instead cite support groups for in this case that happens (something likely that has to do with women more likely forming support groups in general). As for married women not living as long as single women that is incorrect. The data shows that married women live no longer or shorter than single women, and that generally married w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:15 PM
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I’m finally getting invited to parties and other events to hang out and almost all the women are in relationships. I don’t know how the math works because way more guys I meet through this aren’t dating anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:30 PM
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That’s your right to think that way but the saying “A society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they shall never sit” really resonates with me. Certainly this doesn’t matter that much but I can’t be further away from that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:27 AM
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🤨You don’t think it’s worth caring about the future at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:43 PM
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Your math is terrible and ignores how abuse works. Most child abuse happens within the family so you can mostly disregard people doing childcare work. And it’s a major stretch to make that men would be abusing more children if they were staying home, since abuse is a crime that the same individuals are doing for a period of time itself. It’s not a crime of opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:52 AM
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It was wrong of me to say I hate poor minorities. I meant I hate Poor Minorities! Poor Minorities is a category I made up that includes only poor minorities who complain about poverty or racism. No, wait! I can be even more charitable! A poor minority is only a Poor Minority if their compaints about poverty and racism come from a sense of entitlement. Which I get to decide after listening to them for two seconds. And If they don’t realize that they’re doing something wrong, then they’re automati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:08 PM
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What if your type is bogan?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:36 AM
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What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:09 AM
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I'm saying there are other factors that show women behind this that would refute the idea that women are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:19 AM
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Surveys show more men want to remarry after divorce than women which I think explains that trend. This is in addition to the fact that about 70% of divorces are initiated by the woman. . I’m not sure how these stats would fit into your narrative but I’m interested to hear what you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:28 PM
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It’s definitely not a death sentence and I would encourage autistic men and women who want to be social to not give up. But it really is tough when you learn social skills a lot slower than other people and so much of socialization is built on things you learned earlier in life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:10 PM
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A lot of people here say the most absurd things about what autism is like and how it works. I think these people don’t like that it’s a good excuse and not a personal failure to have no dating success, so they desperately try to come up with rationalizations for why it is in fact a personal failure..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:56 PM
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Are you personally autistic by chance? Because I’m telling you this ostracizing begins extremely early and doesn’t get better for a lot of reasons. And never suffering consequences for autistic behavior, isn’t one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:53 PM
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Yeah and it’s sound advice to calm down if you are upset. That mean it’s not rude and dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:49 PM
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What does the gender of an autistic person have to do with getting your feelings hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:47 PM
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How is it excused if they get socially ostracized for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:43 PM
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I think there is probably a lot more people lying about being happy in their relationship than the existence of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:35 AM
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I think what’s a lot more common rich old men going for 18 year olds is men in their mid 30’s to early 40’s who were busy building their career dating women between 24 and 29 so they can have kids and a few year honeymoon period before jumping into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:39 PM
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It's a reflection of behavior I guess. And what do you think the solution to that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:33 AM
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If I could completely unfuck my past, I would. But there is no amount of therapy or anything else that will give me a time machine to do that. And the end result is no experience, and because of that I'm going to be seen a certain way by most people no matter what until that is fixed. I see what you are getting at, you want to make me see it's not actually the lack of experience but something else related, but really at the end of the day it is the lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:25 AM
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The root problem is being inexperienced. I'm trying to work on it, but it's like squeezing blood from a rock and I'm not getting any younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:07 AM
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Yeah… and it really hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:02 AM
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Not him, but it's the expectation of having some experience that increases exponentially with age thats really a killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:39 AM
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Nothing we do will ever be enough for people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:37 AM
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You know I’ve never considered it a chore at all to be a supportive person to friends and family who were down. Even if it was a bit of a long rough steak. It certainly doesn’t feel close to anything I would consider labor at all. I really can’t get into the empathize with these people going on about how much “emotional labor” they do for their partner because he is sad sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:06 PM
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A story in 2 parts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:09 PM
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No that’s women that love making their partner feel insecure when they make more than them, because they feel they are doing his job when that happens. Not saying there aren't men that do this too, but its' probably more common in relationships when women make more than when men make more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:44 PM
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If she wants children still. It's not exactly a representative sample, but the single moms I see on dating apps are 50/50 on whether they want more kids or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:32 AM
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Most people want to have their own children, and most people don’t plan on dealing with a child in the relationship right out of the gate. It’s really that simple. I have to disagree that single moms are less picky as a rule as well. It might be true for some but many are even more picky because it was a lack of caution that led to them having that child in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:16 AM
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I never consider this before but now that I think about it, it explains just how many weird names I see on dating apps but never in real life. Not sure what you consider significant but it’s really confused me some days. I’ve definitely seen people spoofing their location before. The most annoying thing about that is that it’s always an only fans promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:26 PM
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I’ve been guilty before for sure. In my defense, a lot of you could be getting your points across with a lot less text.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:44 PM
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What’s with the obsession of the 19-21 bmi range? I thought healthy was 18.5-24.5
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:52 AM
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This really depends. I think almost every guy has some range they are comfortable with. Most have a limit of not taller than them (though this has almost no effect on their options since even more women have the inverse standard). Beyond that though I don’t think most guys have a problem dating women up to a foot shorter than them. A lot have preferences for talker or shorter but that can be highly negotiable for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:09 PM
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Based. I Love tall women, and I’m only a little above average
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:05 PM
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Well, even without the /s, in any other crowd it would be easy to tell, but there are actually people here that think it’s better when men cheat, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:31 AM
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It’s really hard to tell on this sub sometimes so forgive me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:17 AM
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The ability to marry people outside of your financial bracket is almost always a one way street in favor of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:15 AM
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Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:08 AM
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I guess I know why 17 year olds aren’t allowed to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:07 AM
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Well I regret apologizing to you, you clearly didn’t deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:27 PM
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Maybe you should have a better attitude towards my question dined clearly a lot of people can’t understand what the fuck you are actually talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:19 PM
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I see now your more trying to discuss this so I apologize for my snark, but can you not see how ridiculous an idea it is that just because are stronger, that there are a lot of reasons they can’t fight back? This is exactly like questioning why a woman didn’t even try to fight when she was raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:56 PM
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Yeah men should just beat the shit out of a woman assaulting or coercing him. This couldn’t possibly have unintended consequences. So many brilliant and novel ideas we get on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:29 PM
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Can’t wait till his account gets suspended (again). Don’t even care if that’s a joke, for other reasons too this person is a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:29 AM
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Be as successful as you can, and don’t give them the time of day when they come crawling back. Or make them beg if you feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:00 AM
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What do they think fossils actually are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:58 PM
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When I use the apps, as a guy I get asked a lot what my snap is. It’s just how some people message eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:12 AM
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I heard some Mediterranean countries it’s more common, but i can’t confirm that, and really your mileage will vary a lot depending on what kind of person you are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:10 AM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:59 PM
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Hpv isn’t herpes and there is no herpes vaccine yet. I haven’t heard of any studies showing HPV vaccine has protective benefits against the herpes simplex virus but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:46 PM
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This idea really misses the mark and applies modern standards of thought to the Middle Ages. People joined the clergy for all kinds for reasons, most way more common than just being an incel. Among them were a want to serve god and guarantee a spot in heaven, to gain influence, and to do something that was seen by everyone as extremely honorable. Keep in mind also that a lot of clergy married throughout the Middle Ages, against the wishes of the Catholic Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:57 PM
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At least for height it’s just because with short women being chosen, women end up being carriers for our genetic refuse (at least what they would consider to be genetic garbage)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:50 PM
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Have you seen the people women choose to reproduce with? If you are going to argue some people men shouldn’t reproduce to advance the species, surely you have to acknowledge with all the women picking dead beats, drug dealers, violent people, stock swindlers etc, that they aren’t great at driving our evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:48 PM
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I think the real question is if you should try to shoot above your leaguer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:49 AM
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Look, if people have to experience one or the other long enough they will forget how bad the other option is. I don’t think it’s much more complicated than that. I also have to object to point. If someone can’t leave a relationship because they are terrified, how can you possibly know they prefer it to be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:49 AM
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I mean I do t think I could cut my patents off forever, but that is pretty good of yours. I would definitely make them wait to meet her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:05 AM
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If real, take this as an invitation to be really petty with them in the future when you do get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:43 PM
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This is broadly true about most groups. The elderly are more paranoid about crime even though they are less likely to be victimized than other age groups. I think a lot of it comes down to real differences as well as perceived differences in helplessness if you were to be victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:30 PM
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Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:25 PM
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I would have hoped one of the things apps would be good is for connecting people with similar odd interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:05 PM
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If her only options are short and not a loser, or attractive people that will mistreat her, she might at least learn to be happy single if she goes to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:14 AM
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She should go to therapy to figure out why she thinks like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:10 AM
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Men being settled far far more common than getting a relationship by cajoling a woman into dating someone they aren't attracted to. Edit: I don't think you are being bad faith, but you seem to really misunderstand what exactly men here are worried about and the nuance that goes into this particular fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:58 AM
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What is that "activity" exactly? Trying to date at all when you are undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:54 AM
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Yeah the deadbeats some women keep dating could be a lot worse. They could be someone capable of holding down a job and not making her cry once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:53 AM
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No one has ever struggled to date before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:51 AM
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I don't think this makes her the only honest person in this thread, but we know damn well everyone else who has done this before is sitting this thread out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:38 AM
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They aren't asking women to date people they aren't attracted to, they are wondering why tf their standards never include them, especially when those same standards evidently do include lots of people that are way worse than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:33 AM
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Way I see it, calling autistic people lazy for not socializing enough is like chiding a 70 year old for not being in good shape. Sure he could workout enough to be in good shape, enough to look fairly good even. But the effort is way more than for a 20 year old, it hurts way more to do it, and even if he does it religiously he will never be as fit as a 20 year old who puts in less effort. And can you really blame the 70 year old for not wanting to try? Even though he laments the feebleness of hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:20 AM
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That happens for every big meme tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:03 AM
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I’ll be a little fair and point out most Redditors post a couple times a week or month at most. That wouldn’t be bad. An obsessive Redditor though… 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:03 AM
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“It’s okay if you struggle with dating now, if you just be the sweet dependable guy you will eventually find someone for you :)”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:23 AM
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Firstly talk about an edge case. Secondly, If you are that exceptional in Samoa why you have a problem dating other people that exceptional in Samoa? Do you think k the fit women there are going to be into the average heavy weights on the islands? A lot of Samoan men who are overweight have that power lifter build going on so they might get more mileage then most people with their weight, but still like normally attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:38 PM
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I think a non overweight partner for someone who is also not overweight and is active is pretty darn reasonable to ask for. As for what is average the obesity rate for people m, in addition to your age bracket you need to also consider where you live. My state is one of the least obese in the nation, and what is see is an even lower rare since I live in a city, in an more affluent part of town. So my actual peers probably aren’t overweight on average
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:31 PM
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I run into a lot more single women on dating apps than in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:28 AM
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Women liking rough sex more than men would be the more accurate generalization anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:12 AM
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True, but so was the original article.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:01 PM
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All I’m saying is some of these women that say they change all the diapers must think their baby poops only twice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:03 AM
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The way you phrase it basically confirms you and women that think like you mentally filter out and minimize all the stuff their husbands do around the house so that they can feel like they are doing more stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:49 PM
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Lots of make household labor is even more unnoticed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:17 PM
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I don’t think female emancipation is the biggest factor in fertility decline. Iran is far from an emancipated place for women and it’s fertility rate is lower than America’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:48 PM
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Sounds exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:32 AM
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Don't even date at that point honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:15 AM
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If the risk is smaller it is in fact not just as real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:46 AM
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I thought I did previously, but it looks like I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:10 PM
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Act really passive aggressive about the income difference, use it as leverage against me in arguments, decision making etc, and act with a general lack of respect towards me. Again I think it would be great to date someone making more money, but you have to filter out people that would act like this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:00 PM
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Oh please, this person is telling us to our face what kind of person she is and you’re trying to come up with excuses for why it’s actually the match makers fault. If anything she has an imperative to make the match maker sound like an asshole and she couldn’t even manage that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:10 AM
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Why would she quit her job?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:05 AM
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I’m not intimidated by her income, I’m scared shitless of how she (in particular how she) would treat me for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:03 AM
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He wasn’t just engaging in bigamy, he was banging married mens wives. It’s even been alleged that he would send men in his congregation on proselytizing missions and seduce their wives in their absence. Dude was a scoundrel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:57 AM
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Thats a much bigger risk for gay men and lesbian women dating bisexuals than for straight people dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:05 AM
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I have to say, men getting dumped by their middle age wife for her best friend because they made the mistake of not being as homophobic as women are, is an even more ridiculous revenge fantasy than what some men here say the wall is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:53 AM
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Yeah because it’s a good point, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:56 AM
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It might have gone differently if he said the ex was very racist, but the way everyone else is sharing their story of dating people they knew were abusers of psychopaths in defense of her tells me it would be the same regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:31 PM
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Certainly, but part of the issue is these guys sometimes were putting what should have been a bad foot forward, but it wasn’t seen as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:23 AM
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I really take for granted how nice it is that I'm not a jealous and envious person, at least in love. That sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:18 AM
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How tf do men just not need make up like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:59 AM
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The first part happened, but the statement about when it became controversial is untrue, and I say this as someone that is pretty pro-choice. Abortion historically in America a was legal until the “quickening” when the babies movements could be felt since it was believed the fetus was not yet alive or had a soul. However starting in the early 1800’s more states started to outlaw abortion, as it was realized by physicians and scientists that the quickening didn’t have any bearing on the fetus act…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:49 PM
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I mean that relationship was not going to last the moment she got pregnant, unless she miscarried or the baby needed to be aborted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:40 PM
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Q4All. It especially women: Are there foreign languages that a guy knowing would make him less desireable or interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:12 PM
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At this point the bigger gaslight isn’t even the original lie, but the denial that nobody says literally all you need is a kind personality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:11 AM
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On a slightly different note, women telling men here that they have deeper and more meaningful friendships that men do is a laughable crock of shit. Not saying women can’t be great friends and men can’t be terrible ones, but they can’t be serious when they say it. IN almost any context outside of these internet fights, you find women saying they wish their friendships were more drama free like men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:52 AM
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I agree with that too about the power thing, and I think couples should try to match each others energy, but my experience really confirms this thing about doing too much. Growing up my mom had really tough standards of cleanliness growing up. My house was cleaner than anyone else I knew, and while I appreciate that, my moms expectations and her reaction when they were not met caused everyone a lot of unnecessary stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:23 PM
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Okay I see you are starting from the perspective that because women give birth, 50/50 is never fair. I can kind of see what you mean but, pregnancy can easily be factored into going 50/50z. I think it’s perfectly fair for a man to offer a lot of support and do more than his share of chores while a woman is pregnant and while she is recovering, and if possible to take 3 months of leave or whatever he is entitled to from his work or government, to make it easier on the wife (let this go through th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:12 PM
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Why should a man pay most of the bills if you are both working?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:04 PM
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Its really strange how reddit and redditors are very reserved about giving sympathy to guys sharing their dating struggles, especially since its something that is so universally felt by men at least at some point in their lives. reddit can give a lot of unquestioning sympathy to pretty much everything else, but personal posts from men about dating problems are often going to get picked apart and psychoanalyzed by weirdos trying to find out why it's all your fault and you deserve it. I think this…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:12 PM
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They should try fixing a put together but low confidence guy instead for a change. It might work a lot better even though it doesn’t fit a romantic ideal they have about taming someone rough around the edges
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:43 PM
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Young men thinking on their own by listening to YouTubers for their opinions. This is what thinking on your own is these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:57 PM
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Strange, I thought you told men didn’t actually like tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:15 AM
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It’s happened here before, believe it’s or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:50 AM
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I would rather just trust my vaccination than ever use something so corny looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:48 AM
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Serious advice for guys that want to intervene in a domestic right in front of them. There is a very high chance it will turn into a two-one fight with you against the abuser and his partner. And when I say very high chance, I don’t even mean something like 10% or 20% where it probably won’t happen but still might so it’s risky. I mean it’s like a coin flip whether this happens or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:35 PM
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It’s not super hard to work seasonally at Costco, but being kept on afterwards is more challenging
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:00 AM
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They only constantly try to remind us that the patriarchy actually hurts everyone and is responsible for a lot of men’s issues too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:04 AM
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You could spend literally every waking hour flirting and socializing until your lower jaw fell off and if after that you didn’t have success, people here would ask why you haven’t learned sign language yet. I think your problem is probably fixable, but people here really don’t understand what it’s like to struggle socially, or they will pretend their extremely normal process of learning how to socialize (one that everyone goes through growing up) that involves some awkwardness makes them an expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:02 AM
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Yeah. The other side of this idea that men are jealous or insecure of their partners success, is that women often resent that their partners are not fulfilling their role m when they earn less than them, and that women often see making lots of money as a means to an end to find someone who makes even more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:43 PM
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At least for some guys that’s putting the cart before the horse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:35 PM
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I hear the term a lot, used more in lower class setting but certainly not exclusively. Baby daddy too for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:29 PM
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Sounds like OP just doesn’t care much about love. Projection is common on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:00 AM
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That’s you in this chat tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:57 AM
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I’m not eleven sure what not looking means since most women wait to be asked out anyways? I don’t think most women who would say they “aren’t looking” are refusing all dates and hookups because they love being single but just going with the flows. But what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:06 AM
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I know that’s what you think the problem is, and that men only care about sex, you’ve said as much elsewhere. But if you out aside your thoughts on it already, it’s not hard to see it there are way more problems with being a late late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:53 AM
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Way easier said than done, and that goes for women too in the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:08 AM
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Seeing a prostitute to fix being a virgin is possibly some of the worst dating advise I can imagine. It solves almost none of the actual problems with being a mid twenties virgin while creating even more you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:53 PM
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Not wrong, but people advise it as solution to people to feel less heartache over no gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:29 PM
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Loneliness from not having friends vs not a partner feel very different. How is the advice to just get friends supposed to fix the latter? Do women really perceive them as completely the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:18 PM
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Americans just like free shit. We are actually addicted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:43 AM
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Qveen shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:38 AM
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On your end, it might not be the same, but the difference in the headspace of someone posting about how miserable they are, and someone posting about how they are going to do an hero... might be almost the same if not identical sometimes. It might behoove some people to try to be a little more mindful of the people you are laughing at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:30 PM
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Getting a little tired of people saying a man wrote all these negative stories. It confirms everything people say about the sub that 2x gobbles up these stories all the time and says exactly what you would expect them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:20 PM
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Sure. Sounds almost of sweet actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:25 AM
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Two really imprint questions. First, can we do the deed (possibly not a deal breaker)? and for the really important one... Can we be together after I die?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:11 AM
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It helps me kill the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:09 AM
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If one persons needs don’t change but the other changes to not want to fulfill them at all, it’s perfectly reasonable to split up if nothing else works, kids or no kids. This is ignoring that I don’t think it’s actually that common for them to charge for literally no reason at all other than growing older. But even if it was, I won’t blame anyone for wanting to get out if their partner is no longer get attracted to them. A lot of these relationships will have other serious problems along the way…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:21 AM
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It’s pretty normal for women to vent for their partners and not want help, even if it’s about the saner high over and over a lysine. Is that not emotional immaturity? I think this is a large part about what is confusing guys, that many women do this but hate even a fraction of it in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:01 PM
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That’s not one’s actual voice though and it’s likea lot of strain to maintain it low. Not really like singing I don’t think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:33 PM
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Is this lipstick alley? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:15 PM
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Major doubt on that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:31 PM
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They got their own problems to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:59 PM
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There are a few especially if you include the discord
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:57 PM
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Can they really be considered to be bringing more to the table then? To men that think that way at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:57 PM
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If there is one thing happy people tend to do all the time, it's remind everyone else around them about how happy they are, often unsolicited.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:10 PM
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In that case, this must be the juicero of dating apps. It can’t work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:22 AM
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it’s going to give women more control over their dating prospects Bruh, how much more control can women have over their prospects on dating apps. I mean I guess this is one way, but seriously? 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:19 AM
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Those are the jobs I primarily work, and I’ve not seen it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:16 AM
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Eww, people are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:49 PM
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I’ve never seen anyone get fired for getting pregnant ever. Though I mostly worked at large companies (not necessarily good one through) where everything is above board. Have you actually spent much time in the work force yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:00 AM
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I’m sorry but you have been banned from dating. You will now be an inkwell for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:58 AM
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Don’t most schools have resource officers for this kind of nonsense (among other things)?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:56 AM
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I’m kind of shocked at how many people need alcohol to act fun and uninhibited. I used to think I was really uninhibited until I realized this about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:03 PM
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While my abstaining certainly ain’t helping my chances, a lot of incels are pretty hardcore alcoholics. It isn’t as simple as just drink, but in a social setting, and a lot of people are successful without using that venue to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:00 PM
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A large number of men and women are variously damaged in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:57 PM
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Adultery should not just be legal it should be mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:04 PM
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I think mirrors are more accurate because they better imitate our binocular vision while cameras do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:50 AM
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Yes about them being women, though a fair number of app users are married men (and women). They just need the occasional flirt to feel good, or they might just be on the fence about cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:08 AM
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Iv’e personally gotten dates on the apps, but there are people I have matched with who I feel likely haven’t met anyone on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:06 AM
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There are studies that show a significant percent of people on dating apps aren’t even really that interested in dating, or have no intention to date at all. There are a few reasons this could be, but I think two of the biggest are people just sort of like the attention. I think also some of the women on the apps for years have a lot of hang up around commitment or entering relationships in general
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:32 PM
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It’s a classic ppd female strategy to make sex as a whole sound like some disgusting, uncivilized act that in one comment, then pretend they actually like sex in another depending on what argument they are trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:36 AM
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If they need everything to be paid to give you their time, I don’t think they were very interested to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:05 PM
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You know what, I think I actually have heard this a few times, at least that personality is more important and could make up for bad looks. I feel like I’ve heard that expressed a lot actually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:44 AM
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lol, I actually get Vyvanse legally every month but I need that shit. Regularly skipping it just so I can give it away is definitely not worth it all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:37 PM
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Not so much the misogyny, but the conclusion that girls don't want short guys... comes from the experience of short guys trying to date, especially since many of them are going into dating with less confidence from the previous 15, 16 years of being treated differently for being short. Obviously not every short guy will struggle, but at the end of the day, people aren't born with low confidence, or with misogynisitc ideas. It's developed early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:49 AM
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The whole "women hate me cause I'm short" or "women are all stuck up and liars" is why exactly why you aren't succeeding with women. You got the order of events backwards on how this happens dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:50 AM
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I see people that heavy who have to be close to that age every day at my job. Really, you don’t think there are any people at 300 lb age 69 and over? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:45 AM
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Definitely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:34 AM
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I’ve said several times before on their sub, that woman love the idea of men that are projects, but only if that means trying to domesticate a “bad boy” (can refer to someone who is just a player to full on criminals as long as they didn’t rape or murder someone), not make good guy more confident. And at that, the fantasy is that he chooses to change because this he loves his woman so much, he literally can’t help but be better under her influence, so it’s not even really a real project.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:53 PM
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Coconut rhinoceros beetle larvae, very nutritious 😋😋😋
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:28 PM
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Certainly an overreaction to block someone for just being wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:20 PM
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Maybe like 1/10 of the men I see out in public dress like you describe and half of them are doing it for work or church
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:57 AM
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It’s reasonable to gain some weight when you get pregnant, but some people I know after getting pregnant and having their first kid were like 100 lbs heavier and didn’t loose any weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:27 PM
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My grandmother was 80 and 5 years younger than my grandfather when she went to sleep and had a massive stroke she never woke up from. “Always” is way too strong of a statement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:02 PM
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Men can only approach women that look old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:10 PM
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I think people in college are going to be pretty understanding of someone being totally inexperienced at that point. After you graduate though you are really running behind, an d more people will see it as a red flag. Exceptions apply of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:25 PM
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Yeah I’m living that right now and it sucks. This isn’t even just the juice not being worth the squeeze, it’s like trying to squeeze blood from a stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:22 PM
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Missing out on college dating and teen/high school dating is many times worse than just missing out on teen dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:11 PM
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In any other context aside from the one where you people try to win arguments here, trying to be friends with women with the intention of dating them would be considered slimy, nice guy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:25 AM
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People re going to deny this, but there were always a huge number of posts on the sub that were basically guides on how to emotionally abuse your girlfriend to make her more pliable. I don’t think this is the only thing you can take away from the sub, but clearly a lot of people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:01 AM
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Straight from the twox horses mouth. What I like about this one is that she is so close to realizing these women are outliers and for whatever reason, they are just unlucky. But instead she decides men today must be even worse than the ones who grew up 60 years ago and were more sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:22 PM
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I read this sub/Reddit often and I almost cry when young women report this. I'm just into my 60s and most guys from my generation were not like this. (Not saying they didn't have their own issues! But it was more the generation we lived in.) I am quite surprised women haven't just started communes. 5-8 women renting out a big house, living their lives, raising their kids WITHOUT men (except for sperm donation) entirely. It would be SO nice! Amy could watch Beth's kids while she works, Camille ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:10 PM
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It’s the backlash to the dawning realization that we don’t actually need them. It’s making their insecurities worse, and men with low emotional IQs and little ability to self-examine react by trying to assert more control. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:24 PM
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I mean the ego of women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:31 AM
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How tall are of I may ask? I’ve heard of you are tall it gets complimented a lot, but I’m 5’11 and have not experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:33 PM
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Nice long hair really is a multiplier for men. I know a lot of women won’t date for my hair (and they aren’t women I would be interested in either normally), but at the same time it is by far most complimented feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:43 PM
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If good looking men struggle, they probably have something wrong with them or the way they go about it. Could be terrible shyness or social anxiety, being in the wrong crowd, having a bad reputation, etc. but it’s not because of ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:40 PM
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I would think AI girlfriends would reduce supply of men for actual women, and though it’s mostly people they wouldn’t want to begin with I could see it having an effect if it was widespread. Huge if though, I don’t think they will be very popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:21 PM
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If some woman really thought she was doing me a favor by responding to my messages (because she had so many others she could be entertaining), the rest can have her honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:19 PM
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“Wow, did you really just use a choice of words I personally find gross and offensive online? No wonder you struggle with women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:17 PM
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Therapy works for women because they are an emotional mess. Have you talked to any of the people here before? You guys aren't the picture of emotional stability regardless of whether or not all your problems are internal or external. Therapy works excellently for them because their problems are simply emotional imbalances. They already have a great life; they just need someone to reassure them of it. I don't think you really understand what therapy is like then. it's fine if you don't want to go…
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 03:59 AM
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Your probably only one of like 3 women who comment there, if some of the other people here were active over there they would have an aneurysm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:40 AM
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This probably won’t sound like a compliment, but you arent even bad, by relative or absolute measures. There are a lot of women (and men) that are worse here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:43 AM
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here you go. Maybe you wouldn’t consider this to be rape if it happened to a man… but I would hope you would apply that same standard if it happened to a woman then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:12 PM
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I wonder if these people realize someone can meet all these "standards" (really all but the last thing are more of wishlist items) and still be a terrible fit for them. I think people like this have an idea of how their love should unfold in their head and have turned that into a standard themselves. They might think they can't be happy with someone who doesn't meet all or even only just a few of them, or that it would be better to be single than not date someone who doesn't meet them all, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:24 AM
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It’s in the title
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:53 AM
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Note to myself, if I ever make a post again here, read it up and down multiple times to make sure I’m being as inoffensive as possible, because if I’m not I will never get my question actually answered, not in good faith at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:54 AM
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I just dont think the presumes you raised is why domestic violence normally happens. The possessiveness is often an unfounded anxiety and isn’t very rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:00 PM
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They like it way more than men do. I think most men would rather not even bother with the dichotomy of sub vs dom, rough vs passionate etc. and would rather just fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:39 AM
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In general, pointed questions that might make people look shallow are giving to have a election bias with who answers. Furthermore complicated by the fact they may be leaving out information. Which is why, to give and example, everytime you see a thread asking i of woman are okay dating shorter men, suddenly every lady answering has a 4’6 husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:26 AM
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Sounds more like a difference between how men and women feel if anything, but I doubt that is the full explanation. Otherwise I don't think happy women would be dating much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:21 PM
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I have never ever felt like my friend circle even came close to scratching the same itch as that lack of romantic companionship bothers me with. Is this normal, or are those “needs” if you will totally interchangeable to most people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:29 AM
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I can only hear someone tell me about how their marriage is definitely happy and better than anything I will get in my life before I wonder if they doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:53 AM
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Many of these guys being chosen don’t know anything about either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:40 PM
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Why are you intentionally being so obtuse? Is this just a defense mechanism you have to avoid admitting your absurd, pessimistic and even hateful world view isn't based on reality? Maybe tinder just attracts a lot of people that really want to try and cheat. Maybe a lot of those people are in varying levels of open relationship and there is no foul there. Maybe some of them forgot to delete the app. Maybe a lot of women are also on the apps with the intention to cheat. A lot of these points coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:08 AM
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Just be yourself not yourself bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:09 AM
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One theory I have, that I’m not sure if anyone else brought up: I think the internet has become a substitute for proper socialization. It’s really easy to mask how awkward you are in real life online so it’s easier to fit in. Before the internet people would have to sink or swim, and most of the people who struggle today would eventually swim. For the sinkers the internet is I think has been a fantastic for people to fulfill some social needs, maybe even helping them to fit in IRL better, but fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:50 PM
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How do you tell a guy who’s got a fetish from someone who just likes tall women? I feel there is a pretty blurry line here separating the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:43 PM
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6’0 is 8 inches over the mean height for women in America. Going under for ken would be 5’1. While I get most men would not prefer a 6’0 women, which do you really think will be overall more desirable to the opposite gender, a 5’1 man, or a 6’0 woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:25 PM
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It’s like that post about why wouldn’t women date misogynistic jocks of the less attractive nerds feel the same way. How would these women even know what those nerds are like if they aren’t even giving them the time of day? And I thought it was better to be alone than date a misogynistic douche at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:09 PM
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Having been around a lot of autistic people and falling into that camp myself, I’m convinced asexuality is a lot more common amongst autistic people than the general populace. What I wonder though is if a lot of people on the spectrum ended up there because they never got to explore their sexualities, and basically feel this way about sex because they don’t know what they are missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:06 PM
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The way I see it, overweight women and single moms aren't even in a league because we aren't playing the same game, in the same way that a woman with no job and hundreds of thousands in debt wouldn't be in he same league. Dating these people would be worse than being single. I'm just not ready to be a parent yet and don't have the responsibility for that, and an overweight person in addition to not being attractive to me at all, is someone I wouldn't be able to share a lot of my favorite activit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:44 AM
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i see a lot of these things and all it ever seems to come down is "it's the patriarchy's fault that men are suffering", or "it's the patriarchy's fault that women can't stand unmasucline behavior from their partners". Which is almost just circular logic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:23 AM
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"Everyone dies alone" is a dumb and facile thing to say, and only even true if you look choose to interpret things in a completely literal way. My one grandma died from an accident in her condo and no one knew until a day or two later, after having almost no visitors for a year (this was for a lot of reasons, and wasn't really anyone's fault), and being unmarried for over 30 years. My other grandma had a massive stroke in the middle of the night and though she wasn't aware, she was taken off lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:11 PM
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Do you want a gold medal or something? I’m sure your non existent wife is really ecstatic over you wanting her to go to a woman’s only gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:12 AM
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The average height of men in America at 19 years of age is 5 foot 9.4 inches. If they included old people it would be even lower. It seems bizarre to exclude immigrants at that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:02 AM
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The women they think they deserve ignore them, not the women on their level. The market determines your value, if you can't find someone you want who wants you, you're trying to date out of your league. You can see ugly/short/broke dudes with girlfriends all the time going to common places like Walmart, their girls are just equally undesirable. I'm pretty sure you aren't saying this but I need to be sure... Do you think this is only from people who are unattractive not trying to date their equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:17 AM
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I think if someone is in good health and has taken care of themselves, or doesn’t have any kids, it is completely reasonable to want to date someone else that has no respect for their own body, or who is a single parent. If someone was complaining that only people they could get dates with were people over $50,000 in debt when they were financially responsibly, I wouldn’t be chiding them for complaining about their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:03 AM
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Is that because they are a virgin, or is it because of their inability to attract women by normal means?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:08 AM
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Then why did you say women don’t prefer taller men (which they usually do) as if they are a monolith? If you are going to treat them as a monolith at least do it accurately
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:03 AM
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Low quality bait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:09 AM
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This is one of the only redpill things I deeply believe, that the women that keep making all these rules about when to approach are just making them for the people they actually like to break. Disregard it all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:02 AM
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I think this is honestly just rationalizing not wanting to be the one to take that initiative. The theory I heard is that the women initiating will cause the man to feel a certain negative way and he will undermine it, but I just think that’s painting with a huge brush something that depends both on the man and who the women initiating us, and the circumstances around it. Some men are just more casual about that stuff and truly don’t care. Others don’t like taking the initiative much at all and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:04 AM
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Another annoying behavior on this sub is users pretending like things that are extremely obvious to anyone with eyes don’t actually happen, this comment being a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:19 PM
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I agree with this too because blocking on Reddit is terrible and makes it impossible for the blocked to participate in a lot of the ads
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:16 PM
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Television is obviously not going to provide a natural sample here. Telling guys all they need to do to get not just a girlfriend, but a beautiful one is to smell good and dress smart is so patronizing and obviously not true. Especially to a lot of people that know they don’t smell bad. Or can read 2x and relationship advise and see countless examples of people dating total losers who do stink. Not saying that it’s impossible for an unattractive person to date or even date a beautiful person, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:56 PM
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Still aren't saving the earth or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:45 AM
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It's of course complicated, and I've seen some strange things happen. But I just think it's obnoxious to act like they are doing the earth a solemn duty by sleeping with chad. its so obviously a post hoc justification that they don't believe in, and that that no one even demanded in the first place. And on top of it all, it's just really really gross sounding, to hear them talk about other people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:25 AM
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The incel forums are full of posters who are short who had tall dads but short moms. They just become recessive carriers for our species genetic garbage in this situation. The whole thing is gross to me, but thats where the logic train leads to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:47 AM
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Fuck yes, if there is anything this country needs more of it's children raised in single parent households. At least adopt if you are going to do this so an already existing kid can grow up in a more loving situation instead of creating new life just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:45 AM
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I really hate women on some of these threads get into on this weird darwinistic shit, and act like they are doing the world a favor by only reproducing with chad. And it always seems lost on them that if 80% of men are trash and should't reproudce, then most women including them are no better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:44 AM
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I'm gonna go ahead and say I know more about approaching men than you do, and they absolutely feel emasculated by it unless they're already quite feminine or desperate. Other women have agreed to this experience as well. Y'all think you want that green grass until you get it. You're just approaching douchebags. i don't know what else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:34 AM
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I think you are just drawing arbitrary lines then for the convenience of your point. If your kid struggles at specific things then it’s probably a good idea to help them out. Attracting a partner is pretty major too, it’s not like it’s some obscure problem to have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:42 PM
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Repeating this sarcastic response across the thread doesn't make it not true that these women filled their children heads with stupid delusions. It just happens sometimes. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:50 AM
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Can I also ask why you don't think it's their job at all? You don't really say why in your post, just repeat that it's not their job to do this. You do say it's their job to teach them good relationship habits though, which to me just makes it more odd that it's not their job to do this. there doesn't seem to be a good reason at all for this to be another one of the many things parents ought to do for their kids, so why is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:38 AM
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This is really odd to me, because don’t know a guy that didn’t ask their parents for dating help in their teens, nor anyone who wasn’t obliged. It’s extending normal for parents can help and give advise, sometimes pretty in depth too. And yes that includes attracting them/not putting them off. Any parent that wouldn’t help their teen if they asked would be doing bad by their kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:17 PM
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This person is an FDS user, it's not surprising they have an extremely lopsided view of the roles men and women should have in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:50 AM
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Firstly I wouldn’t even really classify it as an argument, it’s more of an observation. But regardless, the non soyjak answer is that one discussing that you dislike women has almost nothing to do with living life apart from women. Secondly, the retort is of course they are going to discuss women. They have had a terrible time with them, and have been hurt really badly by them, intentionally or unintentionally. A whole life is a long time, and a lot of the people there probably just started down…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:19 AM
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If I’m being real here, it’s not that the soyjak nullifies it, it’s that the argument is because the argument is so easily nullified soyjaks naturally go together with the arguement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:00 AM
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Obviously it does,
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:56 AM
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Incorrect, it does nullify it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:54 AM
1

What happened to Hazymemory?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:38 AM
1

Scientific equipment is a racket. In economic terms, there is not a lot of competition in that market especially the more specialized the equipment you are looking for is, and most of the their customers are organizations that needs the equipment to do their work, so they will pay what they need for it, and pass it on to their customers. Amateurs who just like that kind of stuff like me (not sure if you fall in that camp) are stuck in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:05 AM
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Are most vegetarians vegetarian because they had negative experiences with meat?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:49 AM
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(insert favorite smug soyjak) "Why does a movement of men who want to live life without dating women because of bad experiences with them, keep talking about these bad experiences? Do they really want to go their own way?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:53 AM
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If we are going to pretend everyone on here is exactly the way they are in real life, can I assume that being a smug douche has helped you with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:27 AM
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Just Build your own community with high levels of engagement without getting banned by Reddit bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:34 AM
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Honestly I was referring to BVE, mostly. Not to be gossipy but you add much more to the server than she does honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:29 AM
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Then it just seems like the choice is who you have good times with, so its a wash in the end. Maybe the heartbreak is worse, but letting the possibility of that kind of heartbreak guide your actions seems like a pretty limiting way to live your life, and would rule out pretty much all relationships that might last a really long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:47 PM
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If you accept that premise that men will do this as true, how will getting married at 30 instead stop this from happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:00 PM
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Honestly it’s really tough to answer. Looking back I think I’ve always preferred women taller than average but in the last few years I’ve actually thought about dating women that are even taller than just above average and realized that I would like that. But still o don’t really know why. I guess I find a lot of tall women have a certain elegance about them that I like, and I think a woman around my height would be convenient (and I don’t mean sexually, lol), but beyond that o really don’t know…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:13 AM
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I’m 5’11. And again it’s just an ideal and I’ve been really into average height women as well, but I really like tall women. I’ve matched often enough with women my height, 3 of which led to dates and it didn’t make me uncomfortable like I was worried might happen, to think that is in the realm of possibility, but I’ve only had one match that was actually taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:45 AM
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She pretends to not know what someone is talking about when discussing things constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:42 AM
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She’s been temp banned before, but honestly she’s such an icon here she might deserve immunity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:40 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:34 AM
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Male. I think I can guess, but what parts made you think I was female?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:27 AM
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Doesn’t matter much Doesn’t matter much 5’9”- 6’3” though realistically not too likely Honestly too complicated to get into and sort of varies by height More than because why would I not want more money in my household? Don’t really care Minimum 1, max 20 I guess. See 7 Agnostic or nominally Christian/religious Straight? 20-28 (I’m 25) Liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:40 PM
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Why did you have your settings to include younger men of this was such a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:53 AM
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All the options for men being able to fulfill their sexual desires are way worse than have a partner. It’s not even close, most men are not going to find paying for escorts even a fraction as satisfying as having someone actually desire them. With that point put to rest, the people complaining don’t even have the others apply because they dan barely get casual sex if at all. They can’t get kinky sex for that matter if that is their thing above. And same thing for the paying, in fact the only way…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:49 PM
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I think there is, but you may not find them. Too little time and some people really need to sift through a lot to find the right person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:29 PM
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On the point about hurting feelings, I think it would be better if women not into me just said I wasn’t their type, rather than act like I was a great guy while simultaneously saying saying they weren’t into me. It’s led personally to a lot of confusion and unpleasant self reflection that can’t actually lead anywhere because I didn’t know what went wrong. I don’t know why this has to involve hurting someone’s feelings though. I don’t think a blow by blow of all my problems would have been necess…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:15 PM
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Easy solution, just don't date bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:10 PM
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Lol, guys that pulp and dump don’t care about this and will happily pay for dates if it gets them what they want. If you think this is preventing that somehow it most certainly is something else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:54 AM
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What does send people bring loners and misanthropes have to do with OP’s point? And what makes them non contributors exactly? You can’t say we all deserve social support support and then exclude the people that actually need it. That totally takes the air out of your initial statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:24 AM
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I don’t blame women for not seeing how good of a deal they get out of the current dynamic. But the some of you that realize this really seem to take a certain glee in knowing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:42 AM
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Actually they must have changed it recently because it does now, though it’s still voluntary
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:20 PM
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It doesn’t, but plenty of people put it in anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:16 PM
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Did the tinder swindler actually say how tall he was on the app?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:43 PM
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If all men decided to start demanding more it would do us a lot of good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:04 PM
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I think it’s really simplistic to refer to it as just getting muscles and making money. The sub has a whole lot of stuff about how to act too so as to attract women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:32 PM
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This is often true and a lot of women who are talk report this. But at the same time a lot of this has to do with how they perceive themselves in relationship to their partner, and I don’t see how it’s different than a lot of women saying they don’t feel cute and feminine around partners only a little taller than them that they have had.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:02 PM
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Peronsally, I do believe your experience. I've heard it happen before, usually with women who are 5'10 and up. I also agree that there are a lot of men who's thing is shorter women, and that in general most men would not want to date a woman taller than them, and would prefer someone a few inches shorter. However, all the evidence really points to height being a bigger deal for women. And to answer your experience with mine, I personally do prefer taller women, including women that are taller th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:46 PM
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I don't think you understand the term at all. When I hear pick-me these days I immediately think of Justpearlythings who doesn't seem to be very feminine or gentle at all honestly (though she probably is family oriented). You can see a clear pattern of behavior with how she talks about other women that is pretty cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:41 AM
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I hear they might be using something called amino acids to grow this food. What the hell even is this shit they are trying to feed us?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:19 AM
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Excitement and anxiety, physiologically speaking are almost identical. Both are deeply linked to states of emotional arousal, and the only real difference is how interpret them. I think this is extremely important for a lot of people to realize. Yes people are excited when they are meeting someone new but also pretty nervous too. And feeling butterflies around someone even a long time after you meet them might mean you are never really at ease around this person. A lot of the more sinister red p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:13 AM
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I think tingles is more a bad basis on the long run because it’s basically just the feeling of anxiety , and I would rather start feeling at ease around my partner eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:40 PM
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Some of the good women that like these guys like them as a project, but realistically they just want them to magically see the error of their ways and domesticate themselves out their dangerous and self destructive behavior while keeping their confident swagger and other traits that’s tent inherently bad. And importantly he does it because she is that wonderful that her presence makes him domesticate himself. Needless to say it’s a ridiculous fantasy and it basically never ends well, and honestl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:31 AM
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I get scared if my headphones get caught on a door handle and yanked out of my ears,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:44 PM
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In regards to “nagging”. If someone is constantly being told what they are doing is wrong, that is inevitably going to be internalized and resentment against the person nagging will build. This should be obvious but what I think people miss is they try to justify their criticisms on objective grounds, but you can’t choose how someone else feels about the way you treatment. So if your husband is incompetent and does housework improperly, it doesn’t mean they can’t feel a certain way about constan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:30 PM
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At the end of the day people are allowed their reasons for rejecting anyone. BUT you are right, that women are often painted as insecure for not wanting to date a tall woman if it makes him feel awkward, yet women will say they want to feel small and feminine in comparison to the man they are dating, or they want to feel protected and this isn’t seen as an insecurity in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:10 PM
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You don’t have to do that either you just walk up to someone and talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:50 PM
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You find the ones that are open to chat by chatting with them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:19 PM
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As a guy I tolerate that I'm always going to be paying for first dates, I would absolutely not pay for every date from then on out. Do you not have a job or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:51 PM
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To see what they look like is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:09 AM
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Well what can I say, I guess you were right. Those people explaining some rules didn’t actually help me like I thought. It was just my imagination that I was better able to hold a conversation afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:11 AM
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You don’t get it. Autistic social struggles aren’t even comparable to normal people, they aren’t able to pick up the rules nearly as quickly as others are. Imagine some 80 year old guy trying to weightlifting and criticizing him for being lazy for having slow progress when his body produces a fraction of the test as a younger person does. That’s what trying to pick up social slills as an autistic person is like. I think a lot of people here really just don’t like how good of a counter autism is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:10 PM
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Well if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:27 PM
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I honestly just don't buy that he is as autistic as a lot of the people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:32 AM
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It’s absolutely acceptable. People can talk to whoever they wanting public. I know people who have met their wives from cold approaches in places you would least expect it. If your in public people can try and talk to you for whatever purpose they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:27 PM
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If you believe in evo psych, this what’s important to know. Height has always been a big indicator for being a protector/providor not so much because its a sign of a guy that can stomp everyone else, but because in the past access to adequate nutrition on a consistent basis in childhood was a much more important in determining height than it is today when no one is really starving. A guy that could secure adequate food and nutrition (consistently mind you) was critical back then for children and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:34 PM
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I genuinely did not know I was good looking until I posted my face in various discord servers online. Not posting my face here to prove it to people that doubt my experience, but I think this is becoming common with a lot of people that don’t socialize for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:53 AM
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This sub is full of people that likes to make others feel bad about themselves for having the wrong opinion. Not a surprise this happens so often
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:51 AM
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Feels like trying a little too hard to justify your point. I don’t think it’s all a matter of confidence being what affects your league for a lot of reasons. Mostly because people seriously overstate how much it can boost you up a league, it’s more just a bare minimum to have an active dating life at all. It’s not just the fear to peruse, it’s the fear to leave what you do have. Not to mention trying to make the time spent with someone a total loss by breaking up. If someone’s partner changes fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:22 AM
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Fear they can’t, lack of confidence, realizing they did lose someone who was better and thinking they will never find them again, or maybe even just a general satisfaction with what they do have. I think there are a lot of reasons this does happen, but I don’t see how you could believe people never settle for less than their potential ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:43 AM
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Women where heels to events. They want guys to be taller on occasions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:38 PM
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People absolutely settle for less than they are able to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:34 PM
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Saying someone is relationship material is backhanded because of what’s unspoken. Women say this because they think it’s unjust that a good person is struggling and they can see traits they want in a relationship with them, but it should be someone else burden to try and find you attractive or interesting enough marry, because they sure as hell can’t do that. The later is insulting because it’s almost saying you should just be a cuck and forget about reproducing. Context can change the implicati…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:58 PM
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No because kids who grow up their whole lives in state custody have even worse outcomes, and a single parent adopting a kid will improve their outcome. In fact I think if single women want kids so badly they should adopt instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:49 AM
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It implies that you might lie by omission about some stuff that you think your partner might consider a red flag? So to clarify, I do try not to reveal that I have no experience to women yes. But I'm not yet at the point where I'm resolved to lie about it if the topic is broached. Part of it is that I can't come up with a convincing story, but also I would rather not build a relationship on lies. "not preferable", would you rather hide it and be in a relationship (e.g. you partner wants to date …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:56 AM
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I think a lot of people here can agree with both of these things, just that the red flags women look for have no correlation or often even a negative correlation with being an abuser/other type of piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:40 AM
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I try to be honest most of the time, but if those two options were laid out in front of me now, I would choose lying a bit, just so I could know what I’m missing. Different story if I’m just continuing down my path without a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:37 AM
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Another way to look at this though is that 18% of women are taller than 18% of men. That’s a lot more possibility for these kind of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:33 AM
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Hey guys and gals…. When you talk about what the average person is like, remember the obesity rate is a considerably less for people in their s0’s compared to those in their 30’s and 40’s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:04 AM
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Just because one person can overcome that kind of adversity without help doesn’t mean everyone can do the same with no help. This is extremely reductive thinking, especially since proper socialization when young is extremely important I believe to being successful at a lot of things when grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:28 PM
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Eurasiantiger pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:56 AM
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I don’t think women think that directly but it definitely upsets some women to see guys they turned down move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:21 AM
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That’s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:24 AM
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Sumo wrestlers are some of the strongest people most athletic people on earth, but they have shorter life spans not about 20 years than the average Japanese person. Can you venture a guess as to why? When the goal is being the strongest you have to put on unhealthy amounts of weight if you want to be at the top. Now these people are healthier than someone who is sedentary at their same BMI, but someone casually active at a normal weight is just going to be healthier m. This also doesn’t make the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:43 PM
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This is showing a lack of understanding of Jason’s work culture. For one it’s almost ITBS white color thing which is a sector that has grown dramatically at the expense of the blue collar. And service never pays very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:59 AM
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There is a trope some like to repeat that women are always less variable than men but I don’t believe this is true. Though some of the most mean spirited people I have met have been women, so have all the kindest and most caring people. So I appreciate you all for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:32 AM
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90% of whether or not it is safe to be outside at night is a function of where you live or plan to walk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:10 AM
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This was already the case 20 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:12 PM
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Reasonable people agree that masculinity is important, but there is going to be a lot disagreement over how much and what markets of masculinity is necessary to be successful. Take physical strength for instance. Women are going to say they would rather have a strong partner then a weak or average partner, but a lot of young women fawn over e-boys that don’t look outwardly very strong. Do they have some other markers of masculinity? Might these women run away from them in the real world? Idk but…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:29 PM
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Im pretty neurotic, but still to me oral with someone you met that night, giving or receiving, seems like a good way to get herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:43 PM
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Well I disagree too just because you point out not a lot of time is spent on it, doesn’t mean it’s a big deal. Why does dead bedrooms cause couples so much despair?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:01 AM
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I never got why men would ask this, as a guy myself. Can you not just see for yourself if they look too heavy for not? Why focus on the number
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:55 AM
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Never said it wasn’t, while you said sex and relationships are a small part which is obviously downplaying it massively.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:43 AM
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It’s a very big part
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:25 AM
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the default assumption is that out looks standard aren’t already brief or diverse They literally aren’t though 😂. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:35 AM
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I still don’t get how it’s a whoosh moment since plenty of women do date people that suck because they don’t want to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:22 PM
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Your not wrong, I'm pretty lost as to what your point was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:07 AM
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Also if your options are two assholes, maybe instead of going for the hot asshole, take your own advice for guys that complain about needing to settle and just be single. Unless maybe women actually like that kind of poor treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:00 AM
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ITT Women who wouldn't give nerds the time of day in the first place acting like definitely know that they have a terrible personality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:58 AM
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Maybe brazen was the better word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:54 PM
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Women larping on PPD be like “I’m happily married..”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:19 AM
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that’s already the case for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:17 AM
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Oh stop the crap, everyone knows what those 5% of men have in common and it’s not their killer personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:07 AM
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Study participants examined photos of people’s various facial expressions and focused on what they thought a person may be thinking or feeling by looking at the area around their eyes. Participants were then given a limited list of words to describe what they saw. Sounds like a study on perceiving how someone is feeling based on how they look. without them saying anything. Not one that really has anything to do with truly understanding someone else’s pain
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:57 AM
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Some people die surrounded by loved ones. How is that alone? This is an astonishingly unprofound statement
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:46 AM
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Lmao, lots of red pillers hate women. Stop kidding yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:21 AM
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Can you imagine for a second, if you haven’t experienced this , what it would be like to feel your partner was cheating? After taking a minute to ponder what the emotional pain and anxiety that would come with this would be like, think for a second about why you would want to make someone you love feel that way. And how would he feel if he found out you weren’t actually cheating but trying to hurt him? Can you see now how this is emotional abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:11 AM
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Sex at dawn is rubbish
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:48 PM
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There is no consensus on whether or not early man was mostly monogamous or kept harems or something else all together
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:41 PM
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Maybe not what OP is looking for, but someone on cracked.com ages ago made a hot female profile but pretended to be a piece of shit, act like she would ruin their lives, and then just plain retarded and guys still bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:34 AM
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It's a mistake to assume the ratio of convictions to proven false cases is the same in cases that don't go to trial. I could think of several reasons the ratio would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:22 AM
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Dude this is deranged. Go outside once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:24 AM
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There are a lot of legitimate reasons for a woman to need to divorce at which point they will get the kids most likely, for unforeseen reasons. No one has to date them, but your brain is poisoned so you think it’s a personal responsibility issue
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:42 PM
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That’s a really stupid thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:25 AM
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It's really funny how redditors trip over themselves to distance themselves from anything they might even remotely incelish in their view. Too many people on this site want to pat themselves on the back for being good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:45 AM
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What percent of women in Norway today never have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:09 PM
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Weak bait, get good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:44 AM
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That’s just sexism talking. There is no way more bodies would not be beneficial to Ukraine. Has any army in history actually been hindered by using women to bolster its numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:11 AM
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It’s definitely more than just some. And it always seemed a weird excuse that the harsh language is it’s just to “snap men out of it.” It always just made me more defensive years ago when I first encountered it. Really it’s probably well over half of red pillers that just think male brain is inherently better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:37 AM
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I get this is kind of missing the point, but it just seems a little crazy that unmarried women weren’t drafted since the survival of the country is at stake and they need every body available. Letting them flee is more a show of how women are valued rather than men are undervalued.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:26 AM
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Okay, first women don't like dick pics because of differences in sexuality between men and women, and women aren't turned on by dicks the same way men are by breast. Thats not even something men receive regularly. Across art history, in every culture, women are depicted for beauty far more often than men. Because men are the one's making art most of the time throughout history. Another point, I strongly contest how many women are actually that put together. And a huge part of attracrtiveness is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:31 PM
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There is just as many female 9’s as there are male 9’s. It doesn’t make sense that there would be a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:45 AM
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The discussion around the kinds of personalities those nerds have is just women trying to justify dating douchebags. By claiming they somehow know the personality of the nerds they would never even give the time of day, and also making excuses for their own mistreatment, since they already admitted they the jock is an asshole. Not that all women are like this, but it’s clearly ruffling some feathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:41 AM
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Most incels just bother people online. You could turn off your computer and their impact on your actual life would be non existent. They are already extremely placated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:25 AM
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You are far more likely to be killed in a lovers spat than by an incel mass murderer. I think it's about time we deal with all the murders people having love lives is causing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:15 AM
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This is the first time I’ve actually heard a woman agree with this sentiment a lot of guys on here have, that men not opting out could be disastrous, which is interesting. At the end of the day though there is no real solution. Women can’t be forced to date people and taking away VR from incels that actually like that would be comically cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:30 AM
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People are allowed to talk to others in public love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:10 PM
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That’s a choice they are making. It’s for them to decide if that is something they are okay with not random people on the internet. I’m just saying what these guys are thinking in their 40’s, especially if they missed out on a lot of dating when they are younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:09 PM
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I don’t think some 40 year olds date 20 year olds is because they think no 40 year old is hot enough for them, it’s about what they will look like 10-20 years later
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:01 PM
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Fauxmoi is deranged. It’s basically if TwoX and FDS made a subreddit for celebrity gossip
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:58 PM
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yet they go for the extra skinny girls with eating disorders or the gym obsessed girls who compete and cut down to unhealthy fat percentage levels and the girls with 10 different plastic surgeries I'm going to have to disagree with you here about how healthy these people are. Natural competitive athletes are at low body fat levels are extremely healthy people. The limit at which low body fat really becomes unhealthy is 5% for men and 15% for women, which I think is a level most men don't find at…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:52 PM
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I get more physically attracted to women the more I know them and vibe with them. Do woman never experience this ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:18 PM
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Someone explained it like this to me. Imagine if everyone around you was a gay Brock Lesnar. Always bigger and stronger than you. Any one almost certainly isn’t going to rape you because he doesn’t want to, if he wanted to he easily could and you would he unable to fight back. And not wanting to and the consequences of doing it are all that is stopping them. It changed how I think about it as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:33 PM
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It’s always about physical things when asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:43 AM
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I'm so glad someone put it into words why this question always bothered me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:40 PM
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Ultimately I posted pictures of my face online in some discord servers, full of people I knew would be pretty brutal. And they were tbf, but their jabs were about how could someone that good looking be such an idiot to fail at dating. To give some background, in Highschool I was pretty thin, so I wasn't good looking in regards to physique, and being that thin can have knockdown effects on your face (speaking of which I also had acne that thankfully didn't leave any scars). But also, I was a real…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:31 PM
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No you won’t even notice most of the time because men are good at hiding it, and know their woman won’t accept them using her as an emotional toilet like she does to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:13 AM
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I have to disagree, I did not know I was good looking until a lot later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:19 AM
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Ever notice how the discussion around emotional labor pretty much never brings up the possible emotional labor men might be dealing with on the daily? The term is a manipulative way of trying to gain an upper hand in relationships with regards to the effort being put in by both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:59 AM
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Nope, that's not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:57 AM
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That’s a really terrible way to go about things if you are actually concerned with egalitarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:33 AM
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Are women even interested in dating at all these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:49 AM
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This is such a weak fucking point, I don’t know why you constantly bring it up when autism is brought up. You are basically saying “you should be grateful you get to be treated as more than an animal now, and if it were up to me that would never have changed”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:33 AM
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You don’t actually know what anyone looks like here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:03 AM
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There is data showing men do more hours of combined work and housework hours as well, but it was met with immediate skepticism when it was posted here last I saw, funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:09 AM
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Thanks for enlightening me today on how men bad and women good. Always appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:52 PM
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The men opening up topic is really good because there is basically no arguing against it. Women love using their boyfriends as their emotional toilet and somehow this acceptable but it's not acceptable, to a lot of the same people, that their man show any level of vulrnerability. Blaming them on how they do it really falls flat as an reason for why women suddenly get distant, even though some men definitely do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:28 AM
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Weak Kafka trap, try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:03 AM
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Where do you live that you are surrounded by mostly thin women? Outside of the south and midwest. This sub is also mostly made up of younger people and the obesity rate is much more concentrated amongst older individuals. So yes I’m confident most of the women around me are not obese
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:49 PM
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The reason women want to date men who are already high status/have good careers (be there at the finish line) rather than date guys with potential is so obviously not because women are worried about being traded in later. The truth (that they don’t want to be hitched to a deadbeat) is perfectly reasonable anyways, I don’t get the need make up this other reason. Especially since high status men constantly dump their wives even if they met them when they were already high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:55 AM
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It’s not manipulation to change your behavior to hook up with women. That doesn’t make any sense unless you view hookups as some sort of thing women never want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:36 PM
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Why do women think it is laborious to listen to their partners problems? Especially since they seem to not consider it emotional labor when they go on and on about their minor issues all day? It has never been tiresome to listen to other peoples problems in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:48 AM
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Gotta love how that sub is dedicated to something so common, it only gets an original post like once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:09 AM
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This has been asked a million times by now, but mostly because it’s a reasonable point that no one can really argue against. A certain group of women really should stop getting angry at it and shaming people who have this preference. It wasn’t like they were going date these people otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:01 AM
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I hear them say the worst stuff they say is just shitposting to trigger the scrotes, but I don’t fully buy that. No one would believe it if the people on TheRedPill tried walking back their most extreme comments
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:07 AM
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The topic is FDS women. What I listed are all things FDS women keep saying over and over again, and they keep getting cheered on by other members for saying. To be fair, the sub rules don’t allow others to call each other out ever, but that’s also a reflection of how the community thinks. And either way, the principles of FDS and what people take away from it don’t exist apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:01 PM
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I’m not talking shit, these are things you can find them saying countless times in the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:51 PM
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depending on your age, thats a preference (not even a preference really a baseline) that like 95+% women have. and thats ignoring every other preference both partners are going to have. So it's really fucking tough to make up that experience if you are behind. Honestly, I hate to say this, but I think the best route for a lot of guys at that point is to just lie about that aspect of their past until they get a chance to have sex, where it will then be obvious, but at least they will have some ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:14 AM
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I seem to have brought them out with this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:58 AM
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The same way women feel manipulated by guys that ghost them after one night stands I guess. I'm presuming if a guy is high value he probably realizes FDS is a bad deal, so the point is to not let on what they are actually going to expect from him in a relationship for as long as possible. I mean logically a Redpiller could do the same thing by hiding the kind of person they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:50 AM
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So basically, manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:45 AM
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Standards like expecting oral sex but refusing to give it in return? Standards like expecting someone to pay for everything for them, and never giving a cent back? Or are you referring to the standards of only dating guys in good shaped while fervently defending their right to not do the same? They are very openly non reciprocal in their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:30 PM
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There is supposed to be a pay off for being generous with courting. With FDS, you are just going to be on the hook for paying for her shit indefinitely. Someone who offers to pay but will bounce if you take them up on the offer is still a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:32 PM
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I do not believe the level to which they want to be “provided” for is at all reasonable, especially when they refuse to contribute back, even though they also pride themselves on having their own jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:28 PM
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I disagree, partly because this is a cultural thing and in other countries splitting the bill is the norm. But for me knowing the guy paying is the norm, I’ve always considered a woman willing to split a good sign (in b4 she only does that because she isn’t interested, this does not track in my experience). And I still doesn’t think this addresses that they are looking for someone who is going to pay for everything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:14 PM
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The point seems to be finding a guy that will pay for dates in the hope he will always pay for dates. My money is my money, his money is also my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:04 PM
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Can you elaborate on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:25 PM
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I wanted to add this in the post but I figured it was too loaded, I suspect High Value to a lot of them includes being whipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:15 PM
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Sorry sweaty, but I have noticed an extremist with the same complaint with you said something truly reprehensible. This is why not one takes you seriously. You should do better next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:53 PM
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You mentioned "personal hygiene" in your post. Am I not supposed to bring it up and only focus on the grooming part of that point? Which by the way, is another good point to be fair, in that people should try and look their best. My point though, is that asking people if they are showering and brushing their teeth, are an empathetic person, if they hate women, etc. is not just patronizing, but (aside from the first) clearly asking the wrong question considering how many people are not held back …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:59 AM
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Your premise is good, but your examples are terrible, almost to the point where this could be bait. The amount of people who can't get dates because they aren't showering is really low. And frankly, in a world so lacking in empathy and compassion, it's really clear that that points 2 and 3 are not what is holding back a lot of people. The one good point you bring up (aside from trauma maybe) is social cues. I can tell you, having fucked social skills in regards to flirting is going to kill your …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:46 AM
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Im not going to change how I type just because your telling me to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:09 AM
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uhhhh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:47 AM
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It's irrelevant what they would say. Normal people would also not want to be tracked by the FBI.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:20 PM
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Your moving the goalposts because you realize you can’t defend the nothing to hide argument. And regardless, People are allowed to have opinions even if they aren’t trying to change the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:54 PM
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This is a stupid statement and completely antithetical to the rights everyone of us should be able to enjoy. Do you think people want privacy just because they are all trying to be criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:53 PM
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I think this is really the crux of the issue, that to a lot of women the more they make, the higher the expectations of any prospective partner of theirs will be, and even if someone is really great and capable in other ways, he will just be seen as a dependent because of his lower income
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:52 PM
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Yes they file the paperwork because they are the ones that want out. Your remark about what it's like being in a relationship with a male basically says it all, and anyone who marries you hopefully knows it is not going to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:28 AM
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People are going to respond to this by saying men should want to grind so they can afford a roof over their head and food, but what kind of life is one where you work only so you don't die (and so you can keep on working for longer)? Its an understandably depressing prospect to many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:49 AM
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First, you need to proof read your submissions. Second, zyzz is not too jacked for most women. I mean he is for some women, but that would he like saying a 6’5 guy is too tall because some women wouldn’t go for someone that tall. Markus Ruhl I will give you that, but no man would disagree that his physique is too far for most women Third you don’t seem to know what mass means. I see this constantly on this sub where people assume being low body fat is the same thing as having a lot of mass. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:32 PM
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Women on here like to convince men that unattractive women are actually hot I’m convinced. I don’t know if it’s willful gaslighting or something else at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:25 AM
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It is true. O
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:09 AM
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Women definitely overplay how much they do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:09 AM
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Yes it is, because their arguments would crumble if they did this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:09 AM
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This wasn’t on Reddit, it was on several discord servers, some of which I’ve seen be really brutal before. As it is the biggest thing I could improve is my physique and I’m working really hard on that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:46 AM
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I think look maxxing is a good solution for a lot of people, but my looks are actually good. I didn’t even realize I am apparently quite good looking until I posted some pictures online, but knowing that has not helped me much. Like I said my problems are social and mental, and I don’t think there really is a way to fix them enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:18 PM
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It’s depressing to me, because I’m never going to be able to work out my social issues holding me back. I’m not mad at women about it, I’m honestly pretty blue pill and figure just being normal is all it really takes, but that’s not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:14 PM
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The CIA literally forced Ukrainian protestors at gun point to coup their government. It’s insane how far they will go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:16 AM
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The first way of phrasing it makes it sound like I’m dating the girl while it happens, while the second doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:41 AM
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I’m trying hard to think well of everyone around me including on this sub, but then I will see someone say something crazy like women need to be hit, or the that men committing suicide isn’t an issue and I really wonder if some of you are all okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:08 AM
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Yeah because you think it's okay that men kill themselves at a higher rate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:25 AM
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You basically did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:23 AM
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Someone told me to checkout the sub for when women get murdered or hurt for rejecting someone, so I did, and it literally only has like 1 post a week linking to a news article where this happens, and at least half of the stories are in developing countries. Even once is obviously too many times, but I was kind of expecting more for something it was insisted to me is happening constantly in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:00 AM
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Because a man said something mean in ppd, you think men killing themselves is okay? FDS women are genuinely terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:16 AM
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You have no moral superiority over these men at all. You hate them because the nastiness in them is the spitting image of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:11 AM
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Do you not use soap after you poop?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:58 PM
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Seriously, how can people even think looks don’t matter if looks is a thing in the first place. What do they even think looks mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:34 AM
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I do not think this is true, even if he stereotypical chad does have one. You can always meet people anywhere else that isn’t instagram or online
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:29 AM
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In the 50’s courtship definitely existed. Do you think these women were just saying yes to the first person to ask or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:09 AM
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Anyone who says that it’s unethical to visit can stick it up their ass. Signed, someone who used to live there and has family born there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:06 AM
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I have never believed that priests sodomizing children is a result of them not handling celibacy well. Those priests were always pedos and either thought joining the clergy would suppress their urges but ultimately they cracked anyways, or they saw it as an opportunity to get away with it. The vast majority of celibate men don’t rape either because they know it’s wrong and think it’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:07 PM
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How does anyone think conservatives are way hotter than liberals. Have you guys never been to rural America before?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:09 PM
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Child support is the payment that a noncustodial parent has to pay to the custodial parent for bringing up the child. According to the Census Bureau's last available statistics, the average child support payment is $5,150/year or $430/month dur hur, doesn't reflect reality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:51 AM
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yes, how dare a man be obligated to send a few hundred bucks to children he helped create. ridiculous argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:42 AM
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Are you talking about nipples poking through or actual fat/hormal man boobs some people get?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:04 PM
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If you are more on the cold side of approaching and asking people out (which includes online dating), it kind of does feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:02 PM
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Women disguise it as being nervous about approaching but that’s not why they don’t do it. I'm not sure there is a significant difference between being nervous and giving the other party the power, because putting yourself in that vulnerable position is what gives people anxiety in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:00 PM
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Why does everyone think I’m talking about myself in some way? I’m definitely Costco level at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:03 PM
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My point is, being the average Walmart customer is nothing to aspire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:39 AM
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Stop implying I don’t get out. You aren’t smart for implying it. Just because I see different things then you? You are honestly just saying it because don’t like that I’m disagreeing with you. It hardly matters the percent of people have never had a relationship without knowing how long they lasted and what happened after. There is nothing to extrapolate , I meant people btw. It
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:24 AM
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Firstly I actually am a guy lol. Second, The implication that you want a partner without those traits would indicate you want someone who is not confident, passive, and is dependent, which are traits that negatively effect them, even if it theoretically benefits you. Being confident and assertive aren’t inherently masculine. you can argue, insult , make assumptions, Lol, so now we are at the part where you try to cover yourself here. I don’t mean to insult so if I do I apologize, but wanting a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:17 AM
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I used to think this was a good retort but I don’t anymore. Adding ugly people dating other ugly people doesn’t inspire a lot of confidence. And you have no idea what else that ugly guy had that helped him out, things that aren’t easily replicated. And it betrays the absurd effort some of these guys had to put in. And frankly, I don’t see that many super short guys partnered up.p
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:10 AM
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someone who is slightly less than perfect isn't shit, which was the entire original point. and I'm not changing the subject, Im trying to make a point to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:41 AM
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If people are so happy by themselves why are they even dating at all? Learning to be happy alone for the purpose of not dating anyone who isn't 7'0, 7 figures is mornic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:38 AM
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They were clearly related. So why is it bad for a woman to be confident, assertive and independent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:37 AM
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If you don't want to be single, then letting great be the enemy of perfect is in fact going to make you miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:30 AM
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i don't think women that are "confidenct, assertive and independent" are necessarily self centered, entitled, and attention seeking at all. That doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:28 AM
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Why the hell would any woman want to have sex with men when you're all so misogynistic, judgemental, have unrealistic physical standards, watch porn 24/7, can't fuck worth shit, etc Thats a really good question, why do women keep having sex with these people? can someone please explain it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:37 AM
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People like you are just straight up make up things about what it was like in the past at this point for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:16 AM
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Being picky does not at all mean you are more likely to find someone perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:04 PM
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Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:50 PM
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I’m not even an MRA, it’s just a statistical fact that more men are murdered than women in America. And it’s pretty obvious what gender is still most peoples priority here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:31 PM
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That people either think women get murdered more often than men (which isn’t close to true) or think it’s a bigger problem that like 20-30% of murder victims are women for what ever reason (it’s men doing the killing/they were in the wrong crowd so they deserve it), is actually a great example of how women are treated and seen better by society in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:57 PM
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overweight due to lifting like 2-5% gen pop are cuz most men spin their wheels in the gym you only think 2-5% of men are truly overweight because the rest are all buff gym rats. thats an insane overexageration
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:23 PM
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thats a really weird thing to say, but OPs question was weird too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:34 AM
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Sort this sub by controversial and all time or last m year for good laughs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:42 AM
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Incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:19 AM
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Because men already pull their weight in those areas lol. Women have their egalitarianism their no matter how many studies that rely on self reporting they say they are doing all the house work to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:13 AM
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I know more than you. Probably on every topic but especially in regards to biology
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:06 AM
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I’m sorry but someone on ppd posted a self reported study showing women do way more work than men, so I’m going to have to say your story is fake news.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:01 AM
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It’s pretty common, and also once again completely irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:09 PM
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The wage gap that objectively exists because women choose different careers and life paths than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:53 AM
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Okay so it was just the credit card companies doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:12 AM
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The thing about bank accounts and credit cards applied to married women. Single women had nothing stopping them from doing either of those things, or getting a job, or owning a house for well over a century by now Edit: I may have been wrong about the credit card part, but I stand by everything else .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:07 AM
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The people who say “buT everYONe DIeS alone” are so stupid they would have been locked in an asylum if this were a century ago. In addition to completely missing the point, It doesn’t even make sense. Obviously you can die not alone. Do people that die surrounded by loved ones and their children die alone? Genuinely, its one of the stupidest things I read on this subreddit regularity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:28 PM
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You can’t be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:07 PM
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I’ve wondered this a lot on Reddit. Someone will share a story that starts with “I got a friend..” and then they proceed to describe the worst person ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:25 AM
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Link it please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:03 AM
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Let’s be real, it women actually are avoiding dating because of manosphere content (I don’t believe this is true), in practice what will happen is average people will have to jump through even more hoops, and chad will won’t even notice a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:19 AM
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Honestly hilarious that the entire basis of his research was that he thought people that were separated already and mostly going to divorce, were people asking the question a second time without the spouse in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:02 PM
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Studying movements is now indoctrination according to conservatards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:04 PM
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If someone keeps choosing people that leave you unhappy, you need to realize that you are the commonality in all these events. Seriously, think HARD about all the traits these guys have that attract you to them, what is it about them that you respond to. Then consider if these traits are at all related to the way they treat you. Then hopefully you can avoid these people. If that suddenly makes it so there is no one attractive to you left to date, then take a tip from the female advice book and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:15 AM
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No, I’m saying it’s never one persons fault (outside of rape) if someone gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:14 PM
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Why did women have sex with a man who didn’t wear a condom if she wasn’t on birth control? Her body her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:49 AM
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I’m serious. Everyone it has been kids interfering with their life style. Pain factor is always secondary to this and certainly lot being scared of dying. Put it another way, how many people do you think regret having kids because child birth was painful?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:42 AM
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I've never heard of anyone choosing not to have children because they were worried about how painful or dangerous child birth would be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:03 AM
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I bet some women might do that to women who are less confident than they are attractive. Typical women being the biggest enemy of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:46 AM
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I bet some women might do that to women who are less confident than they are attractive. Typical women being the biggest enemy of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:45 AM
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It’s you thinking a women who you want to take out should pay for the pleasure of your company. Women only say yes to people they are interested in. If someone really feels the need to be paid to make the time worth it, are they really someone you would want to see in the future at all? If my company is that bad then they can fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:11 PM
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It's ignorant to say it's universal too, I was only pointing out lots of countries have an expectation that people pay their own share on dates. In quite few cultures fighting over who pays is customary. Taking turns over paying for everyone is quite different than the person who invites is the one who always pays Honestly, I'm so convinced this is something people thoughtless repeat for yourself, I don't even think you can even come up with any actual reasons why it is polite to pay for someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:37 AM
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Thanks for the answer, I didn't really see a lot of people get into the why of this, even though it was by far the most common answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:18 AM
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At this point, having never had a gf, it's dawning on me that I have no idea how great it even is since I've never been there. So i'm getting a bit dull to the idea of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:39 AM
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This attitude doesn't actually make any sense and isn't the norm in a lot of places outside of America. the idea that the invitee doesn't pay is mostly a roundabout way for women to not look like parasites and still never pay for the first few dates. I know some men say it, but it doesn't make any sense still, lol. If I invite friend out they would never suggest I pay for the meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:09 AM
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Yes guys if you want a chance he ready to squander all your money on people that resent you. His money, our money. My money is mine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:12 AM
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I’m gonna take some inspiration from my username and say if she isn’t using a lamp to try and beat the home intruder who is trying to kill me, then I picked wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:15 AM
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If They didn’t care they would have folded by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:44 AM
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Children having grown up with with the later parents is a bigger predictor of divorce than just divorced parents. So the former
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:23 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:36 AM
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looks like a pretty lighthearted meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:56 PM
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I can agree with this, but at the same time, If a woman intentionally goes off birth control to trap someone, my sympathy for them if they end up as a single mom is very low (though I feel terrible for the child). It’s a two way street and I can’t take anyone seriously who only ever blames one party for single parenthood or pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:42 PM
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It’s easy to be unkind to a faceless person, but also 99.9% of incels are so impotent and lazy so they are a bigger threat to themselves than anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:28 PM
0

Spark is overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:53 PM
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And a child either exists or it doesn’t No, hard disagree. Firstly it's possible to value two or more different outcomes at once, and factor in moral concerns at the same time. This seems to be hard to grasp, so i will give an extreme example. Climate change is an important issue to solve. At the same time, preserving the existence of Humanity is also important. So killing everyone to solve climate change is a non starter. In this case, falling birthrates and foreseen negative consequences of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:09 PM
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The survey I've seen on it shows more men are open to it than women, it was like 25% of men were open to dating a taller woman, while 4% of women are. Granted no doubt, the 4% of women are way way skewed to the tall end of the spectrum, and I suspect a lot of the guys would become uncomfortable if faced with the reality of this relationship. But a lot more seem to be open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:30 PM
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It’s irrelevant to whom. To me, creating new lives outside of a two person household is irresponsible and trying to have it all. If these people want kids, they should find someone first. I’m much more favorable to single people adopting since the child is already born. Actually the half loaf analogy works way better there. State custody for a child’s entire life is no loaf, one parent household is a half loaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:01 PM
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A lot of times half loaf is worse than none at all. And this would be a good example,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:41 PM
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“The government isn’t your parent” is completely asinine a thing to say when we already live in a welfare state. Whether you don’t like it is another story, but you can’t change it either and this is within the normal reach of what a government with safety nets would try to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:39 PM
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The idea the the BLS is engaged in a serious conspiracy to make women look like breadwinners more than they are is patently retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:05 PM
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Husband material is what women say when they want you to find someone because objectively they see you as a good person, but they don't want it to be them because they think you are unattractive. .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:35 AM
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So basically men shouldn’t date high earning women unless they are willing to do all the household chores, on top of their 40 hours of work they already do. Am I reading that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:01 AM
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They have a low opinion of their partner do to his income, so they subconsciously think they are doing everything around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:59 AM
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so about 30% of men are players? yeah sounds even less likely than what OP is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:56 AM
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The article straight up says that this is the first year there have been more NEET men than woman, while the topics here have been discussed for longer than that 😴😴😴
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:01 AM
2

The benefit if you are unsure is a potential relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:08 AM
2

I seriously do not think makeup outside of extremely rare cases actually makes people that much better looking. It just masks skin flaws 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:12 AM
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Tbf, the 4% of women is probably way concentrated amongst women that are significantly taller than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:53 PM
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why wouldn’t you want to a date a compassionate understanding woman instead? Because the experiences of a lot of men makes them think women like this are really rare, and if the option is non compassionate women or being alone forever, a lot of guts are gonna choose the former if the woman can satisfy everything else. Doesn’t mean it’s not bullshit they have to put on a dog and pony show of never being vulnerable or insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:20 AM
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To the first point most studies in fact do show women are more likely to commit domestic violence, the implication men do it more according to studies is wrong. As you said there is a difference in severity of course, but if you are abusing someone you can cause serious injury to anyone if you are not just using your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:16 PM
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crickets in this thread from the “women only react negatively to men opening up because they trauma dump on first date” crowd 🧐🧐🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:55 PM
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Why would they be radiating with anger if he was actually getting what he wanted out of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:36 PM
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The average intelligence quotient (IQ) of children with DS is around 50, ranging between 30 and 70. Yeah, that's pretty severely retarded, and far lower than the average person with Autism. I'd also reply to your comment that people with Downs dont want to date, but I think you should do a google search to learn more about the topic. I'm reading a lot about how they are a lot less likely to date and a lot more likely than average to live at home and be dependent on their parents for most of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:24 AM
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What point exactly is all this supposed to address it appears to be about the differences between the two, but I never said they were mutually exclusive so I don't know what I'm wrong about... at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:14 AM
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Reading all your comments, you must have a really low opinion of your child if this is how you speak about autism. And I feel bad for them that you were their parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:48 AM
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I really have trouble believing more than a small amount of this can be chalked up to being foiled by "cheeky banter."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:47 AM
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You don't see most down syndrome people dating at all, and most of them are severely mentally retarded, so if they were dating, they probably can't even consider how this works. men with downs syndrome can't even have children so thats a moot point. More importanlty if the world was more accepting of autism in general then it wouldn't matter so much that your kid would have this handicap. Your comment is plainly ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:40 AM
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he sounds retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:25 AM
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Yeah and then they will leave if anything bad happens
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:48 AM
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Irrelevant honestly. The point is there are downsides to this thing too. You should try and find someone you want to go through life with that you think will stick by you through the thick and thin
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:51 AM
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Why stick around to slave away helping the guy while he’s a “nobody”, just to risk being tossed away when he becomes successful for someone younger Why should men slave for a decade just to risk attracting a woman that will leave him and take the kids and house if he falls from his position somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:08 PM
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Sure, just start working 80 hours a week to be good enough for women these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:03 PM
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A while ago in a post about how taller girl shorter guy relationships should be normalized, the top response was that it couldn’t ever be normal because 4% of guys were shorter than the average woman, and 1-2% of woman were taller than the average guy. However, you a better way to look at it would be as 18% of guys being shorter 18% of girls (the inflection point 5 foot 6.3 inches) or 32% of women are taller than 5 foot 5, and therefore taller than the bottom 9% of men. And the top 5% of women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:53 PM
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You don’t have a point to begin with. Your point is that FWb is bad because women get nothing out of it, even though tons of women have this set up themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:51 PM
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The red pill might be taken more seriously if they weren’t giving new, really stupid names to well known existing occurrences like this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:55 PM
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Do you want me to list every relationship obligation that FWb don’t have to do? Because that’s what the list is. Figure it out yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:21 AM
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This destabilization is all on Russia. but my bad sorry, clearly you are enlightened and know that it is in Ukraine's interest for them to get ran the fuck over by a country that has hated them for the past 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:48 AM
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For "national interests" I mean borders control, jobs and social peace and order, not nuking the shit out of other countries. Were not even close to nuclear war, stop being hysterical. And if you cared about drone strikes that much you would know that they went up under Trump and went down under biden, but you don't because you don't care about the truth. Tell me liberals are not some real retarded fucks. Your from south america, I don't give a fuck about your opinion on anything. I hope whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:41 AM
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I’ve not noticed this before
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:06 AM
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You can get cellulite if you are thin too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:40 AM
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It obviously matters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:35 AM
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Biden is way better than trump lmao. And he has been far far better at standing up for America’s national interests than trump has
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:33 AM
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The question is if it is “always wrong”. I could think of a few cases where it might not be that immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:47 AM
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This thread is really strange
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:46 AM
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This is amusing to hear because every time I insist that IRL I can tell if someone is wearing makeup (certainly if they are like 3 feet from me like it's a date, lol), and that It doesn't really affect people's beauty, everyone comes out of the woodworks to tell me I'm wrong. It seems they have all came out under this comment too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:04 AM
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Why does there need to be 5 things out of it at all? You seem to have remembered that women actually like sex, so excluding that one seems really suspect. Isnt that sexual pleasure in fact, the whole point of FWB? That two people get to have sex with each other without the commitment of a relationship and duties to the other person it entails? Those duties of which are clearly a pretty big deal to some people. Maybe you just personally have a problem with the setup and that’s okay, you don’t hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:26 AM
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Okay so straight to prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:12 AM
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She’s waiting to for the guys that are hot have a really good personality she doesn’t have to be on guard around
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:08 AM
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You hear about men of value dating career women way more often than you hear about them dating McDonald’s employees, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:04 AM
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10 is in the range I don’t care, so I’m choosing the later mostly because her previously banging someone I know could theoretically complicate things. I don’t care if everyone thinks she is a virgin or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:58 PM
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since everything manmade is natural because we are natural and we came up with it, maybe to get rid of all the short genes we should collectively decide to stop reproducing with women under 5'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:30 AM
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Nothing more hyperbolic that saying it's all height and ugliness that causes male loneliness. Why do you think these ugly short genes exist in the gene pool anyways if they weren't being selected against for thousands of years?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:28 AM
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you really should take my advice and stop being crass. It doesn't matter if you are making a claim that is a "fact" if you can't back it up you should admit that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:17 AM
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I'm guessing you don't have any either? Your gonna have a much harder time showing that mental illness is increasing rather than reproductive failure being a matter of being ugly most of the time when most people end up having kids anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:15 AM
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don't be crass. 90% of people that are lonely are because of mental issues that are caused by them not fitting into modern society and thats not genetic. Treating female selection as just our species trying to select for the tallest and sexiest people when short women have no problem reproducing doesn't make any sense. Or else we would all be 7'0 by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:11 AM
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It's not even worth arguing with people trying to argue it's genetic selection because it's a position that is completely and entirely idiotic. Their argument for one completely rests upon some idea of women either not having bad genes ever, or them not counting because women are different and people with reproduce with them regardless. Which basically just makes women recessive carriers of all our species genetic rubbish if we go down this route.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:08 AM
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If you die of viral infection in childhood nature is also deeming you unfit for reproduction i guess. We should stop treating children with rotavirus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:54 AM
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I it’s hard to say, they both aren’t appealing but not out of the question for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:21 AM
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Is the single mom looking to have more children?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:49 PM
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Are you capable of phrasing your point in a way other than asking a vague question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:06 AM
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Yes, why would it close opportunities for women to have more money? Guess they should all be unemployed and in debt to maximize dating outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:39 AM
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Most of those studies I’ve seen showing women do more work show them doing like an hour more of housework a week or something, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:04 AM
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I’m my experience not easy, though I wasn’t even trying in college so it didn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:00 AM
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You see people who are undoubtedly assholes in relationships all the time so this is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:50 PM
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Yes the idea that women didn’t work until 1970 is basically historical fiction. in particular single women were always expected to work and marriage was partly seen as away out of them for that (in addition to fulfilling one’s earthly duty to have children as a woman etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:16 PM
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they don't live longer unmarried
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:59 PM
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There was nothing whatsoever to indicate that that car was going to ram them when they entered the intersection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:28 PM
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I don't know dude. Seems like you are comparing specific examples of liberal and conservative women. The archetype for what liberal "art hoes" like for instance, certainly doesn't fit the classic chad stereotype. And in the other direction, I guarantee a lot of conservative woman if they think of their ideal partner, they see a tall handsome guy in a suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:25 PM
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I thought liberal feminists were maybe annoying at times, but holy a few users on this sub have made me realized how much worse conservative feminists (as much of an oxymoron as that sounds to some, they are real) are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:35 PM
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I don’t like calling it a fallacy to be honest. Because really it’s something that is done very deliberately which is what makes it so hard to argue with. People doing this usually should just be ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:56 AM
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The dynamics they want and present as normal are insanely distorted in their favor
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:51 PM
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They take it to an idiotic extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:46 AM
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why would I read a book that is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:33 AM
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She has a really pretty face. The height is a point in her favor to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:45 AM
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This is just a personal theory of mine, make if it what you will. But taylor swift isn’t married because she hasn’t met me yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:33 AM
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It’s about having someone on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:23 AM
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Because it’s considered sad if you need it to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:18 AM
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Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:17 AM
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Red meat is an easy way to get way more calories than you need, and if you aren’t exercising it will do fuck all for your physique. All that matters is you get enough amino acids you will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:55 PM
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When I restarted on hinge without waiting it got me much better profiles so it just have reset my elo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:44 PM
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A lot of guys say women always have it easier, but really, somewhere between the 90th and 99th percentile of their respective gender, it flips and men at that highest level have it easier than women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:34 PM
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The actual problem they probably face is not a lot of men want to date someone taller than them , and half of tall guys are going to go for shorter girls anyways. I would bet the number of people that want to have sex with a tall woman, even amongst “fetishists” is a lot more than the people willing to date a woman taller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:13 AM
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I don’t think Redditors autistically commenting “death by snu snu” on every pic of a tall woman is indicative of tall women being fetishized. Not that they aren’t ever fetishized, but I would not take the Morons on this site that seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:35 AM
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It’s isolation work. Lateral raises especially are good for middle delts, which won’t be hit as directly by OHP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:31 AM
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I don’t think Redditors autistically commenting “death by snu snu” on every pic of a tall woman is indicative of tall women being fetishized. Not that it doesn’t happen, but I would not take the Morons on this site that seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:27 AM
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That’s what happens after you have kids. If you want to be a dedicated dad and husband and work full time, you might not have much time left to lift, but some manage it still no doubt. If you don’t want kids you will have as much time before to workout as when you were just dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:14 AM
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I wish god gave me different lemons than having a thing for women taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:54 PM
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Just smash your face against a pole until you look like handsome squidward bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:52 PM
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The one right next to her on her right assaulted her newborn when it wouldn’t stop crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:46 AM
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And that’s why she reacted calmly and certainly didn’t lose her shit when it didn’t work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:40 AM
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Let me try and defend women a little bit here. Thats still 3/4ths of men gone right there. Also the number of women willing to date someone shorter than them, is way skewed to the tall side. So I wouldn't be surprised if it was like less 1% of women below average were willing to date a man shorter than them, but for women on the taller side it will be significantly higher, especially as you go up. this is my observation at least
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:24 AM
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To be fair, they do have lots of posts taking about how shorter men they’ve dated have been very uncomfortable with their height. I don’t think most men would certainly prefer dating someone taller than them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:09 AM
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Not to throw another random anecdote at you, but hearing Bill burr talk about therapy and his problems before really I think shows how much it can do for men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:10 AM
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Lol, I've been on dates with 5'11 girls and I didn't mind (though it does make me stand up a little more straight 😆). None of them were wearing heels, but I can't imagine it would make me insecure. Not that my experience is even remotely how most guys would feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:28 PM
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Ngl as a 5’11 guy, I kinda need a 6’2 gf no cap
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:31 PM
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Look at the obesity rate for age brackets in America. I can only ever find state by state data, but it follows a general trend of it jumping dramatically in the 30’s and 40’s brackets In Wisconsin, 22% of 18-24 are obese but 35% of 25-34 are and 44% of 35-44 are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:11 AM
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You know, if every guy I bumped into said it didn't matter only for me to find out half of them were dating someone with blue hair, I just might not believe the next guy who said it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:34 AM
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anti-marriage people be like: I'm not against marriage because I'm against long term commitment, I just don't want things to be complicated at all if i do want to break up with this person a few decades from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:31 AM
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most young people are already thin to begin with, its mainly the middle aged people who are raising pushing the obesity rate up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:26 AM
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Women are describing what they want out of a relationship i think when they talk about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:51 AM
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you don't know this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:46 AM
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Well tbf, those tall guys are going to have a harder time filling out their frame, and will never look exactly proportional to a shorter guy. it's the one advantage shorter guys do have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:45 AM
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What is happening is a major redpill principle playing out in action, namely 20/80 (10/90, 5/95, whatever it actually is in reality). While a bit provocative, it plays out in a way thats actually pretty boring. Online dating is really inherently shallow, because a profile tells basically nothing about what a person is like. So since women are going to filter out 95% of people no matter what, they are going to do it mostly by looks on dating apps. If you actually meet women in bars or cold approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:29 PM
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Down’s syndrome is only one of a few issues that increase with likelihood as the mother ages
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:33 PM
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Do you believe it's basically the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:49 AM
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What it actually does is to get the young man to kill hope and innocence within him. By doing so, he ends up in a very dark place filled with rage and nowhere to turn, but to go deeper. In essence, the red pill is a cult. I think they start liking the redpill because a lot of their hope and innocence has already been killed off by their life experiences. this is not something happy and satisfied people will start believing for no reason. Honestly I think you are being a bit preachy here and igno…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:36 AM
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You genuinely think an average 50's relationship is the same thing as someone women in afghanistan being forced to marry as young as 10. and you probably why people think modern feminism is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:02 AM
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You know I was being a bit nice with my comment. I think it's actually disgusting that you are even comparing a normal 50's relationship to actual sex slavery. you are making light of something unbelievably horrific that is still happening to millions of people around the world to score points on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:54 AM
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You people seriously think men just got to pick out wives as if it were that easy. As if 90% of men and women weren’t working class schmucks struggling to get by anyways and had any real choice in who they married. You sure seem to like describing this terrible “sexual slavery” kind of like these incels like talking about chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:43 AM
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Just because you don’t know what romance is at all doesn’t mean other guys don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:29 AM
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Your almost at the same conclusion many red pillers come to, that men who are actively misogynistic do way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:25 AM
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You people have such a warped idea of what relations in the 50’s were like it’s laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:21 AM
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i knew that, i didnt care
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:01 PM
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you are correct, thanks for agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:20 AM
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Vore is way less extreme than cutting, lmfao If I had to rank them, pedophilia and necrophilia and possibly bestiality are the only ones more extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:18 AM
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Cutting is not tame. I would argue it’s on the same tier as necrophilia and and beastiality. Vore and sounding are super mild compared to that Rape play may not be uncommon but it’s depraved still
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:45 AM
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The talk about women who play hard to get doing this because they don’t actually wanting these guys would be a lot more believable if these women didn’t immediately start throwing themselves at these same guys when they move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:21 AM
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https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/625891490589048843/1032025840566939763/unknown.png
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:19 AM
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Subreddit drama is where all the nerds who weren’t cool enough for arrrr drama stayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:08 AM
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Honestly surprised it took this long for trump NFTs to become real
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:42 AM
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She’s Albanian.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:40 AM
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Because, it can easily be used to emotionally manipulate people in a relationship. That’s not healthy for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:21 AM
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30 % of married women were working in the 50’s, even back then it wasn’t uncommon for married women to work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:03 AM
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they don't like anything that takes their power to reject men away from them. They wouldn't date these guys that care anyways, but when these women get preemptively removed as an option, it upsets them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:24 AM
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2,000 is a great sample size for a survey
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:56 AM
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Right so you can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:21 AM
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Correct, you are being lazy af when you do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:12 PM
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You would be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:45 AM
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Hey guys, just because someone makes a lot of money doesn’t mean they have their shit together or are good with finances. There are a ton of Americans that as soon as they get a raise but a jet ski or an 80,000 dollar truck on a 10 year loan at 20% APR, or whatever other crap they want, then complain that they are living paycheck to paycheck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:19 AM
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Not really. A lot of the times, guys who are earning will just try to date the hottest person they can. Everyone that does that is one less for average looking, high income women to date Also I really strongly disagree with the idea that having your shit together is the same thing as making a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:28 AM
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What do you think about guys that don’t want their partners to have male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:26 AM
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Exactly. I’m thinking something of similar with female height too, but I believe most tall women have an understand that being 5’11 won’t make it easier to date someone who is like 6’5 even if they would want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:47 PM
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No, because it’s not my job nor anyone else’s to try and chase down random and articles and studies to defend other peoples arguments. If you are going to make a claim, you should be bringing up sources yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:42 PM
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While I strongly disagree that a woman’s career is irrelevant to her dating potential, I think a high paying career can’t be used as a way to date even higher earning men. If you are making over 6 figures (adjusted for cost of living of course) already, most guys making more probably don’t need to worry about how much their partner makes. That being said, having a high paying career puts you in proximity of other high paying people, but it doesn’t guarantee anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:32 PM
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There are people who as I’ve gotten to know, have become physically attractive to me. Surprisingly so and to the point I genuinely feel that “desire” people talk about. If that means I’ve had convinced myself, then whatever, I disagree. I don’t think I’m a demisexual l, but that initial attraction isn’t everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:17 PM
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it varies by app, but tinder is close to 3:1 in america, while bumble is 2:1 in america. Hinge is more like 3:2 in the woman's favor. the 9:1 stat wa for tinder in some european country IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:07 AM
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I hear people constantly say here a woman knows in 10 seconds if they will want to have sex with someone, and I always thought that was insane. i guess I got my answer there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:39 AM
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Most matches I get never go more than a few messages. I read a comment from a guy saying that while matches feel like a huge step, they really aren't and are probably the smallest step in getting a relationship/hook up from online dating and to view them as such. Can't say I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:38 AM
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Right, and to do this you need to discuss what is to get done. It’s sounds like you just want the man to be seeing and doing everything in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:17 AM
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I don’t think self reported studies where they ask people how much they work are going to be reliable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:20 PM
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Maybe this makes me different, but I think i'm unsympathetic to this and don't relate to the mental load comic at all, because I can always think of a few things that need to be done if anything does. Telling someone to do any of those things isn't remotely challenging. Ultimately if there is something to get done in a household there has to be some communication about who does what.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:45 AM
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Some of those are really cute and I have an appreciation for the effort, but it does seem to be trying really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:21 AM
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The male equivalent to this is being the sole earner and married to a terrible homemaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:17 AM
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I honestly think a lot of the women complaining they have to work while still do most of the house work are just over exaggerating, don’t realize how much their husband is actually doing around the house, or count telling him to do stuff occasionally as a terrible mental load that clearly makes his contribution not count at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:11 AM
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How can you say people shouldn’t ever lower their standards as if they are some completely sacred thing, and chastise men who have standards that you don’t like? What’s the point at all of attacking people for their standards? Secondly though, I don’t think “standards” to begin with are something that should never change. One can be excluding many highly eligible people with them and there is no guarantee someone will come along eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:57 AM
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Toomany
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:57 PM
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Yeah fuck those people.they are being hypocritical But a lot of the time I hear other people trying to shame guys with this preference as being inexperienced, and that’s uncool. There is nothing wrong with a low m count guy not wanting to date a high n count woman who he probably doesn’t even have much in common with in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:27 AM
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Someone on Reddit not picking up context clues that would normally exist in IRL conversations but just arent visible in text? Impossible!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:25 AM
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A strawman... on MY PPD?!? say it aint so!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:04 AM
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If women can reject men for giving them the ick, I think it's fair that should be allowed to reject women for giving them the ick when they have a high n count without much criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:46 AM
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At the end of the day, it gives some men the ick, and if it does, why is it a problem? Women defend rejecting people for completely arbitrary things to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:41 AM
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I personally don't like the look, but I can see why some would.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:30 AM
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Do you think the people dating drug dealers to use that example are just doing it because they couldn't date a CEO?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:25 AM
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completely missing the point. Quite a few people prefer the criminal degenerates, and there is no reasonable operative for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:15 AM
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There are so many ways to take risks to go far that do not involve breaking the law. I think I can confidently say there is something wrong with someone if they are attracted to criminality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:10 AM
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The distribution of human height has “fat tails” so calculating percentiles with the standard deviation will be off at the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:56 AM
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Also, Plenty of women engage in sex tourism too it turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:14 AM
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I’ve heard someone from a different South American county complain about all the Venezuelans coming to their city
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:59 PM
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High risk high reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:46 PM
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Do you it’s possible for a relationship to ever be happy if the women is out earning the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:37 PM
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So many people here make really good points but shoot themselves in the foot by phrasing it in the most misogynistic or misandrist way so it just goes in one ear and out the other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:23 PM
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all but one of the dates i have gotten with online dating so far have been through bumble, so I would say it's working great (relative to other apps)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:46 PM
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IMO this is 90% of the reason many gay people have such high n counts is because they don't have to deal with female willingness (or rather lack of) at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:18 AM
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For me the really quirk girls and certain alt girls seem to have the most consistent interest in me. A lot of outdoorsy types too can be a safe bet, but thats not consistent enough to bet on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:02 AM
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Do you guys ever see a profile on bumble or tinder and you can tell that you are their type and that there is a 90% chance of matching with them if you swipe right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:04 PM
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At some point you just have to assume they are being obtuse on purpose because it better suites their arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:59 PM
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I mean he could have just brought up the entire harlequin romance genre. Unless i am misunderstanding what those books are like, i think his point till stands even if he chose a bad selection of books
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:29 PM
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I can handle the cold that well (better even) but tbh, most people just react with concern or awe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:56 PM
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Going “50/50” on a date is just paying your own share not literally each person paying half of what ordered in total
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:55 AM
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So back to bill splitting. I’m glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:54 PM
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The fact that only one study out of 3 found any significant results should indicate it’s probably not actually true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:14 AM
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this was the 2016 study attempting to replicate the 2009 one. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2015/07/21/researchers-retract-study-claiming-marriages-fail-more-often-when-wife-falls-ill/ the 2016 one you linked seems to not really have a very different conclusion in terms of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:54 AM
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who knew women would be so sad that to learn that men aren't as terrible as they thought
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:51 AM
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A lot of women here really hate when you king out that the 2015 study showing men are more likely to leave their partners in times of illness had to be retracted due to a methodological error that once corrected showed no significant results
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:06 AM
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Who pays at that point though! Is it just going to be one person or do you take turns?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:59 AM
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I’m explaining why your fear of getting hit by an incel driving a van is irrational. It’s something so unlikely to happen that it shouldn’t even factor into your decision making at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:10 PM
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Which should you be more afraid of happening, the situation I posted (something thats actually pretty common) or a gender based attack from an incel, something that is by all means pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:59 PM
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You are being hysterical. At a store near where I live a woman was accidentally hit by a driver, got her legs pinned against a car and needed them amputated the damage was so bad. If I were to talk about how this means its super dangerous to walk in a parking lot like you are talking about getting hit by a van, people would rightfully think I was being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:53 PM
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That study was retracted because it was badly flawed. People need to stop talking bout it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:40 PM
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That's completely opposite of what I would think. If someone doesn't want to split money, I would assume they are not a team player and don't want to contribute anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:36 PM
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That doesn’t change what I said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:12 PM
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I’ve had people here go silent or react angrily when I point out the study showing men are more likely to leave women when they fall ill was retracted it due to a major methodological error, that once fixed showed no difference between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:01 PM
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The people who are obsessed with money are the ones insisting the other has to pay for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:58 PM
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Yes, asking your partner to do chores you already asked them to do 20 times in accusatory tone is definitely what you described. Literally no difference at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:27 AM
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Pretty big difference between nagging and being asked to look at a car, lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:00 PM
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At least the good old socialists wouldn’t have allowed the degeneracy of today
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:58 PM
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It’s got more FDS cunts so I agree on that count
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:53 PM
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I can guarantee if I ever told my mom to see a therapist, or really any other of the women in my life to do that in the middle of them complaining/confiding to me, i would never forget the shit storm that would befall me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:43 PM
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Women talk about their problems to their partners way way more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:58 PM
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It's not that "go to therapy" is bad advice, but it's a terrible thing to say to someone who is confiding in you. You are basically telling that person that you don't really care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:11 PM
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You know, when someone keeps insisting they are happy all the time, I'm going to stop believing them eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:57 PM
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Hajajahshs, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:37 AM
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The problem with asking cheaters why (anywhere on Reddit), is that most have people who cheat do so for really bad reasons, and have enough sense to realize they are going to get roasted fir it if they say why. So you just end up with a lot of people sharing their edge case where it probably was okay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:41 AM
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If it weren’t for someone saying that insecurity has a genetic basis, this would be the dumbest thing I have read this month
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:38 AM
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same tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:36 PM
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a genetic basis for being insecure? enlighten me on what genes are responsible for insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:21 PM
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I agree to an extent. As they say "it takes a village." That being said I want to address some things you bring up. So why would it be good for women to get attached to a man who is about to dip? This is a very real reproductive strategy both in nature and amongst people. But it ignores that one of the best ways a male/father can ensure success in spreading his genes is by being present for their children. Monogamy/pairbonding simplifies this a lot. Most women rely on other women to help raise t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:21 PM
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Apparently not being insecure is one of OP's criteria, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:13 PM
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What natural order? There is no law that says a mammal species can't pair bond/breed monogamously, even if most of them don't, and for some it's the norm or only way they do it. And it doesn't mean that people humans when they pair bond are fighting a natural order. "Natural order" is itself a human concept and doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:10 PM
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It was extremely funny watching people on inceltears when that was a thing rationalize how they weren’t actually incels despite themselves being unable to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:14 PM
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To the surprise of no one, criminals and harassers is what the average PPD women assume is social awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:10 PM
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I would be shocked if one of the children had a child first, so I'm guessing it was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:07 PM
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It's a logical fallacy to assume that because humans are mammals, they must reproduce like most of them do. Gibbons tend to mate for life, are they also violating their mammal nature by doing so? Consider the differences between humans and other mammals. Human infants for are extraordinarily needy and dependent on their parents compared to most other mammals. Newborn Giraffes can run keep up with their herd just hours after giving birth. Humans can't even walk until a year after birth. This is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:00 PM
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Your theory implies there is a genetic basis for being overweight and even insecure, which is probably one of the dumbest things I have read on this subreddit. . I believe it’s something like only 1 out of 3 men in history ever had children. There are a lot of studies giving wildly different numbers on what percent of men actually reproduced. The fact is though, back in those times you were lucky if you even made it to adulthood, and didn't die in from warfare, injury, or illness in adulthood. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:50 PM
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There are at least 4 points there that on there own would be dealbreakers, let alone in combination, Going to the gym is a positive point, and a few others are neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:25 PM
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Monogamy isn’t the same thing as mating for life. Even in the cultures where people don’t traditionally pair bond for life, they almost always have some form of marriage where it’s just recognized it won’t last forever. And clearly humans do have the capacity to form pair bonds that will last for the rest of one’s life, even if other relationships came first. Most people seem to desire this at some point in their life. Non monogamy would he sexually (and in humans romantically) engaging with mul…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:19 PM
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A lot of women here insist they are happy single and don’t need a man a little too much for me to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:51 PM
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Bruh, tall women including taller than me are my thing I think. I’m 5’11z. Life is so cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:48 PM
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As an ex Mormon, that story seems really sus. Unless this is a weird offshoot cult, never heard of anyone being forced to marry someone like that and it certainly wouldn’t be to someone who was 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:58 AM
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If employers were more willing to let employees (mothers and fathers alike) cut back hours to spend more time with their children, there would be a lot less marital resentment and more stable families. Too bad they don’t really care about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:14 PM
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Regarding the thread about dumb women doing better than smart women: Are there really that few men that don’t want to start a family a career woman, Or at least not with a stay at home mom? A spouse that doesn’t work sounds or is not that smart sounds terrible to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:32 PM
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Would that affect who you date long term or marry though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:28 PM
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I think I would like dating a women taller than me, but I’m probably in the minority,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:23 AM
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This isn’t exactly the same as the scenario you proposed. But On that show “what would you do?” They had a scenario where a teacher/tutor was flirting with an underaged student (they did this a few times) and women bystanders were always way more angry than male bystanders were. Some even admitted they wished could have been in that scenario as a kid! Again, not the same thing exactly, but a lot of men think the same way, and care about these power dynamics because at the end of the day because …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:38 PM
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10/10 for personality and sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:31 PM
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There aren’t withdrawls from ADHD medication because it doesn’t reach a saturation in your body like anti depressants do. Unless you count experiencing more ADHD symptoms again as a form of withdrawal. If you want to learn how to deal with ADHD without medication that is great, but meds really aren’t that bad,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:19 AM
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its terrible advice because ADHD medication and antidepressants work. No downsides at all to continuing to take ADHD medication. People are such fucking retards when it comes to ADHD medication, and Andrew Tate is no exception. Stop taking advice from someone with CTE.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:14 AM
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People like completing shutting off their brain when it comes to ADHD medication and anti depressants and pretend they don't work. it astounds me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:11 AM
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Cut out all drug use (including his medication for ADHD and his anti-depressants). Great advice, the medication is a placebo anyways, it doesn't actually work. Terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:09 AM
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Reeeeeeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:40 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_know_it_when_I_see_it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:03 PM
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Redding that post you linked, I am once again astonished at how people on the dating themed subreddits are able to parse apart a man’s vent post (it’s usually a man’s, though sometimes a post made by a woman get this treatment) and identify 20 different reasons why OP’s dating struggles are definitely OP’s fault, and tell him to “do better sweaty” or even insult him in the process. Fascinating that these people are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:00 PM
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Then why are these women going out with people they aren’t interested in to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:01 PM
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This is something I’ve said a few times though more to the aspect of of you wanted to be social you had to meet people IRL and couldn’t use the internet as a surrogate for this kind of connection. In fact the way society was meant you had to be somewhat socially inclined to survive. If you were lacking social skills you learned them through trial and error whether you wanted to give up or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:01 PM
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Old
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:42 PM
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And also, where is the precedent that every man should find a woman? Where is the evidence anywhere in all of the biological world that every man SHOULD mate or reproduce? Why are some women here so insistent on saying that humans are basically the same as every other animal/ mammal in the world, and that we should be following some natural order they made up in their head just to win an argument . Our closest relatives are primates, and yes they usually don’t pair bond it or mate for life, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:26 PM
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They tend to be players themselves and kind of good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:58 PM
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Some guys actually kinda like playing these games
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:44 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s scary at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:16 AM
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This is pretty much the only major exception. people who live in high crime areas are statistically correct when they perceive themselves as being at higher risk for crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:58 PM
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In response to the guy talking about women vs men being afraid to walk alone at night, I just want to say that almost everything people subconsciously accept as truth about the likelihood of crime is backwards. Be it when it happens, who is the perpetrator and who is the victim is etc, people are just constantly wrong in their assumptions about these aspects of crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:36 PM
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Meanwhile, none of these things are relevant in a woman's attractiveness. So what would be some examples of things that affect a woman's attractiveness that isn't just her appearance? Points 2 and 3 you listed for men, could make or break whether or not I want to date a woman, I got to say. Assets too sort of, but thats an extension of income/carrer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:31 PM
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people entering relations as the winter comes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:49 AM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:26 PM
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If men suddenly stopped pursing, or only did it as often as women, a lot of women would be devastated and they would not know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:25 PM
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They don't see that it's the tail wagging the dog here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:48 PM
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I guy I know slays, but is unable to get a relationship and he hates it because really what he wants the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:13 PM
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I’ve wondered if pederasts could be attracted to women who have a more child like appearance before, or if being over 18 was a non starter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:11 PM
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I get the sarcasm, but people constantly try to pose this as some sort of absurd binary where there are only virgins and promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:16 PM
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Hottake: While virtually everyone can agree on some people being more hot than others allowing for an objective scale, this ends at 9 and a 10 has to be subjective rating of who is most hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:14 PM
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Here is a thought: Not all low n count women are literally virgins waiting for marriage. In fact, most of them just only have sex within relationships. The later is what men who don't like high n count women prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:08 PM
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They also give your account a big boost, almost equivalent to the one you get when you first sign up after you stop paying for premium. tinder is so much more blatant ab out it than the other apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:23 PM
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pizzashillsmom Nice to see a fellow dramatard in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:10 AM
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Agree with the first part, disagree with the later. I want to have some things in common with my partner and if we don't want to do anything together, I won't be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:15 AM
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If you can't get laid as a gay guy, that is the truest form of incelpdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:43 AM
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To add to this, this really is probably the thing that needs repeating the most on this sub. Pretty much all women are going to want respectful guys who also excite them, but a lot of women given the choice between the two will go with the exciting guy who is an asshole. It bears repeating constantly though for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:42 AM
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If I chose the first option I would instantly die, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:53 PM
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What would you want me, as guy who doesn’t hurt other people, to combat violence against women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:39 PM
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He took the bogpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:20 AM
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Men are more likely to ignore common sense when they feel their masculinity is on the line
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:59 AM
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I want a woman that won’t make me regret being interested in them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:54 AM
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