RIPoldAccount Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	For those of you (like myself) who don't get body language, this is a big help There is sooooooo much information on social interactions	/r/seduction	20/12/12 03:57 PM
1	[xMODx] Community Poll: What should our BestOf2012 contest be? Maybe best video guide or (if possible) written guide to learning how to dance in a club and various other music genres. OR - I like this idea more I don't know exactly how one could go about proving this. However... What about the person who can get the most crash and burns before <date>? If it is somehow measureable we can place people into several different brackets. Advance, Intermediate, and Novice PUA. There can also be specialty brackets, like successes or crashes based location whether t…	/r/seduction	19/12/12 09:41 PM
1	is it always better to keep a girl talking about herself on a date? PUA - Pick Up Artist See the side panel for glossary terms. I feel like I should note that you don't need to make everything a statement about her. You're not judging her, but mix it up. Question here, statement here, see where conversation can go from there	/r/seduction	19/12/12 03:55 AM
2	First Date Ever Advice? Well everyone is telling you to not take this too seriously right? Well what can I say that will let you be able to do that. If you're on /r/seduction you are well aware that women like a man who is confident. That means if you take her too seriously you aren't confident. If you're nervous around women, you still have tomorrow to hit the mall and kill that anxiety by getting shot down a bunch of times. Actually - this isn't a half bad idea! Go to the mall, find women you're attracted to, approac…	/r/seduction	19/12/12 03:51 AM
1	is it always better to keep a girl talking about herself on a date? I feel like the best thing I read / watched from here is to not make it an interview. Using PUA techniques in addition to making it more of like how a couple would talk to each other - i.e. not interviewing them with questions. So if you must ask questions, do a question followed by a statement combo. So instead of saying: Where are you from originally? Say something like: You remind me of a jersey girl, don't tell me you're from there!? Could be coupled with some neg or funny anecdote, but this…	/r/seduction	19/12/12 03:31 AM
2	[FR] How to pick up waitstaff As someone who has most of their success meeting women in a restaurant this wasn't that helpful. 1, 2, and 3 are pretty obvious though I would probably tone it down a bit. For the restaurant pickup I find it works with a significantly higher success rate if you follow below. The best thing you can do get restaurant servers interested in you is go there with a pal and generally have a great time with your friend, tease her a bit, be confident, genuine, memorable, and tip well. Don't laugh like a …	/r/seduction	19/12/12 03:24 AM
1	I don't know how to continue to get better. There are two versions of me. The group I am currently running with only goes for special occasions. With my new attitude, going out is ridiculously fun. I meet a ton of people and talk and dance and its awesome. So I want to do that all the time now. Just want some peeps with the same enthusiasm. I know this situation extremely well! I think the only cure is to learn how to entertain yourself and or have more hobbies you can fall back on. Pick up some hobbies, you meet tons of people who want t…	/r/seduction	17/12/12 04:46 AM
1	[FR] F-close, but either I misread signals or it really is "it's not you it's me" Well depending on how much you want to commit, the probably better question than "do you want to stop?" would be "Is everything okay?" and it may just be a simple fix. The comments up to the sex part were more likely a guard to protect herself in case something did go down she didn't wan to be embarrassed. I am going out on a limb and presuming she was in fact dtf up until you were in her. So if she was, then it could have just made her think of her ex and then made her uncomfortable in which ca…	/r/seduction	17/12/12 04:05 AM
0	I don't know how to continue to get better. Number 1 sounds like oneitis, only cure for oneitis I know of is to be with other women that really over shadow the girl you originally liked. You always want what you can't have which sounds like your number 4. You want a friends with benefit situation, you didn't mention if you ever close, kind of hard to rent a book if you never go to a library. Number 2 sounds like you aren't quite sure why you are working on your game which makes me believe you're probably not closing (holding out for the f…	/r/seduction	17/12/12 12:26 AM
3	A new sort of rejection Take the 10 day positivity challenge. I can honestly say it is one of the best things I have ever done with my life that cost absolutely nothing. I didn't look at the rules of the site I linked because i heard of it through RSD nation i think... But the gist goes like this: You must re-frame all negative thoughts into a positive thought for 10 days straight. You must do it for all negative thoughts regardless of size (Stuck in traffic? No problem, I know for sure I won't get a speeding ticket. S…	/r/seduction	16/12/12 10:13 PM
1	Need some advice on how I (23M) should proceed with a shy (20F) at work. I am a closet introvert as well so I definitely relate. However over the years of "pretending" to be extrovert I just eventually became it. I still have somewhat of an introverted side but ask anyone I know and they will say I am very confident and know exactly what is going on and what I want - secret is I really don't know what I want. Anyway, good luck!	/r/seduction	16/12/12 09:53 PM
1	Need some advice on how I (23M) should proceed with a shy (20F) at work. I would like to bring up an important fact that you may not be aware of. I've dated several shy women so I'm speaking from personal experience only. If you are an outgoing and extroverted person they can sometimes be a hassle after dating for a while because they want to do the opposite of you. I'm not saying that it cant change but just be aware you will have to be the person to constantly take charge, it gets very tiring. Also if she is shy, she probably hasn't been with a lot of men and will …	/r/seduction	16/12/12 07:11 PM
5	Date idea People have mentioned shopping, you could shop for each other and you have to wear it or hold it for the rest of the date, item has to be under $10 - if you bring up this game make sure it sounds like it wasn't pre-planned (i.e. as you're looking at something kind of weird have an epiphany and mention what you would like to do. I don't know what your money situation is like so there are other alternatives. Get boba/pearl tea and play cards / old board games they have there while chatting Go pain…	/r/seduction	16/12/12 06:49 PM
4	[FR] F-close, but either I misread signals or it really is "it's not you it's me" Well.... what exactly was the reason why you asked her to stop? Like, the thought you had that made you think said "I should prob ask her if she wants to stop". Was it an expression she was making on her face, she didn't seem into it, you couldn't get hard?? Just something isn't right. I would assume if everything was hot you would be the last person to ask this question as well as she would have wanted to continue. You could have made her really self conscious because mid sex she was no longer …	/r/seduction	16/12/12 06:35 PM
8	[FR] F-close, but either I misread signals or it really is "it's not you it's me" How does one just "stop" having sex and go to bed? Kind of seems like there is some missing story in there...	/r/seduction	16/12/12 07:08 AM
1	What's the difference between a courtesy smile and a romantic interest smile? If they are bold they will look at you intensely for more than a couple seconds. Easy IOI. They may even give you a complete up and down look. If they are shy they will meet eye contact, look away, wait 2 seconds and look back at you. If you catch them doing this they, find you at least somewhat attractive. They may also look at you, smile, and look away followed by fidgeting with their outfit or hair - It is very had to not want to fidget when you see someone you're attracted to unexpectedly. I…	/r/seduction	16/12/12 01:28 AM
7	When I remind a girl about our date tomorrow, she said "oh yeah I forgot about that" but it's still on. Was this a "shit test"? This is a possibility. Still has possibility to be a shit test. I think the take away here is learn how to confirm without sounding beta AND build attraction before # close. When you message her the first time be sure to be funny, personalized and evoke an emotion. However, /r/seduction is a strong believe of asking for meet date by phone rather than text, so some of the attraction can be built during the call.	/r/seduction	14/12/12 09:14 PM
26	When I remind a girl about our date tomorrow, she said "oh yeah I forgot about that" but it's still on. Was this a "shit test"? I saw this in another post - if you're going to remind her about a meet because you are unsure if she remembers or seems flaky. You: "Don't wear high heels. See you <date/time>", "Be sure to bring a jacket", and etc I think acceptable things to say would be some of these: I'm crazy busy and my time is valuable, you are not a flake right? This will make her qualify herself. Show that you are busy/important. And generally isn't something a normal guy would say to a woman I don't know if this is go…	/r/seduction	14/12/12 07:34 PM
1	20 year old virgin (male); when I'm eventually about to have sex should I mention that I've never done it before or just keep quiet? I kept quiet - it was pretty bad the first time. Pretty sure she knew afterwards. I cringe thinking about it. I would go with what others have said. Does this seem like the woman that might like to a V card or is she seem like she would reject you. Hard call. You could try getting a bj first to ease you concerns (you may want to fap a couple times that day if you are going for a bj because they feel pretty good to say the least.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 03:35 PM
3	[FR] Something a lover taught me years ago, do most people know this? The leg trick... I have heard of this technique before. There is also another one that can be used when sitting is not readily available. I'm sure some of you have guess it - "the hand test". Explained: I have used this personally with my sisters friend at an amusement park. This was when I first started getting into the self-transformation and didn't have self confidence - I look back at this often and think to myself what an idiot! Anyway - Simply wait for them to place their hand on the railing or some object…	/r/seduction	12/03/12 03:11 PM
11	My friends keep trying to hook up with the chick i bring to parties would not hang out with them.	/r/seduction	08/03/12 04:34 PM
5	My friends keep trying to hook up with the chick i bring to parties Honestly. No friend on mine would pull that shit. You have your woman game in check. Now check your bros.	/r/seduction	08/03/12 03:53 PM